Intro, United Kingdom
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this is award-winning presenter author
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and model Holly Willoughby and this is
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her attempted kidnapper and murderer Big
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Bear thankfully some incredible
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detective work stopped his plans and
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their tracks but had he been given the
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opportunity to conduct his master plan
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Holly would have been at the mercy of a
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truly sick and disturbing individual and
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so today we are diving into the world of
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Big Bear also known as Gavin Plum we
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will look into his twisted and violent
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history and how it would all will
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end welcome or welcome back to Coffee
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House crime folks my name is Adrien and
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today we're looking at one of the most
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horrifying plans to abduct a celebrity
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now this man truly is revolting so one
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word of warning you aren't going to like
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please grab yourself a coffee and let's
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caffeinate while we investigate this is
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the disturbing case of Gavin plum
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in today's video we'll be keeping to the
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country that I currently call home of
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course that being the historic country
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of England now I'm sure this country
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needs no introduction after all it's one
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of the most powerful and influential
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places in the world with the likes of
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the United States Germany China and
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Russia right beside it to the average
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person England is most known for its
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affinity for tea beige food and and
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football and although I'll be leaving
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here soon I still refuse to call it
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soccer sorry to those across the pond
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England has long been known for its Rich
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history influence on pop culture
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technological development and of course
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the monarchy the British royal family
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are like celebrities here with their
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faces plastered across magazines
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tabloids and billboards which as you'll
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soon come to find out is actually rather
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applicable to this case here when
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someone exposes themselves to the public
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media they are often the sub object of
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attention both welcome or not from high
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A-list music artists to pesky online
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content creators like myself write the
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way through to actors and actresses
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everyone is in the public eye for anyone
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to make opinions about as you can
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probably guess I do see the full range
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right here on my channel in fact maybe I
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should show off some of the best and
3:51
worst comments from time to time anyway
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sometimes these relationships between a
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figure and an audience member can shift
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into what is known as a parasocial
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relationship this is where a fan has
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strong feelings and thoughts toward a
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public figure that are in fact not
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actually reciprocated and most times
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this public figure does not even know
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that the person exists more often than
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not the person receiving such attention
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is blissfully unaware of the
4:19
relationship that this consumer has
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curated for themselves now of course
4:24
this can be seen and is usually seen as
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friendly company but in some cases it
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can also develop into extraordinarily
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unhealthy territory with this type of
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concerning Behavior often clearly
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visible online for the whole world to
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see and spectate our dark story today
Big Bear & Holly Willoughby
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begins on kick messenger which as most
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of you likely already know is a
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chatboard app where you can message
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friends privately or talk in large
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public forums and although some of these
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groups are merely harmless fan clubs
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others can be a little more on the
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creepy side with the rise of the
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internet and social media cyber
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surveillance has become a growing asset
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to Aid law enforcement and crime
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prevention with investigators surveying
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questionable areas of the internet all
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around the clock anyway it just so
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happened that a police officer from the
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aona Police Department located in
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Minnesota USA was scouring an online
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kick Forum which was concerningly named
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abduct lovers as you can possibly guess
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from the name it's a forum where people
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can discuss their fantasies of abducting
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individuals for their own
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self-gratification which as you can
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imagine is more often than not very
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sexually charged now the officer
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scouring this forum had seen his own
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fair share of degenerate discussions and
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behavior throughout his years however
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this one particular user stood out to
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him that being a man with the name Big
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Bear 341 987 Big Bear as we will call
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him was openly discussing the kidnap and
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assault of various women most notably
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several female celebrities within his
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posts he he admitted that if his
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so-called plans and fantasies were put
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into action he would most likely end up
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on death row naturally this peak the
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officer's interest and so he decided to
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try and contact Big Bear under a fake
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name David Nelson and from here on out
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our officer in this story will be called
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David now thankfully Big Bear would
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actually take David's bait going on to
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discuss how he had the addresses of many
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women that he wanted to Target and then
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violate not only that but he even
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admitted that he had recently attempted
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to carry out these fantasies in real
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life itself seeing him as a particularly
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dangerous individual David decided to
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persevere in this chat with Big Bear he
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played into to his disturbing nature
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empathized with his lack of satisfaction
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and even supported him in his ongoing
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delusions and after conversing with him
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for only a few days it became apparent
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that Big Bear's plans were going much
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much further than mere fantasy and
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through all of this degenerate garbage
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it was noted that he had one favorite
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Target that being the British celebrity
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Holly
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wabby now over here in the UK Holly is a
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well-known public personality most
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notably as one of two presenters on the
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this morning show she has also appeared
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on other presenting prime time TV
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programs most recently including dancing
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on ice Holly's work spands over two
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entire decades and she is undoubtedly
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considered to be a household name here
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in the United Kingdom so it is rather
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understandable how she would become the
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subject of many parasocial relationships
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however what David was hearing spanned
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far further than the usual it was
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revealed that this man had been
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obsessing over Holly for over a decade
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and was now expressing that mere fantasy
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was not going to cut it any longer and
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so with this information at hand David
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decided to play the long game with Big
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Bear and after engaging with him for
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several months he would eventually earn
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his trust and that is when Big Bear
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eventually revealed his plan to
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physically kidnap Holly at her very own
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home not only that but her family too
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the terrifying thing is that Big Bear
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had been stalking and collecting
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information on her for over an entire
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decade and now he was gearing up to
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reenact his fantasies in real life for
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the whole world to witness and with
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Holly now in danger David knew that
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something had to be done he eventually
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learned that this man behind Big Bear
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341 1987 went by the name of Gavin and
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that Gavin was 37 years old and Gavin
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told him all about his plot apparently
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his accomplice had recently chickened
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out and so he was more than eager to not
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only share his passion but find somebody
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else to help him in the process in fact
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he became so comfortable with David that
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he even shared a video of his kidnap kit
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consisting of cheap bondage gear that
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you would likely order from websites
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such as wish or teu and this is where we
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will get our first glimpse into Gavin's
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life as he surveys his kit and describes
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what he has acquired saying that the
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only genuinely threatening thing about
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his collection so far is probably the
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substantial amount of metal cable ties
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that he had garnered but anyway I
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suppose I'll just have to let the man
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himself show you hands and Ankle
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shackles ring and ball gag fre lot of
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rope metal cable ties two sets of
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handcuffs one set of ankle third to the
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10th 2023 holy after seeing this video
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Officer Nelson began to take Gavin's
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fantasies a little more seriously and so
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in order to gain his trust he offered to
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help him kidnap Holly further
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solidifying his trust David sent him a
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fake screenshot of a planned flight from
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the US to the UK to help with this
Gavin Plumb's arrest
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information that is when Gavin revealed
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that his full name was Gavin Plum and
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that furthermore he lived in Essex
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country located slightly Northeast of
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London this was enough information to
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pass on to the local police in the UK
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who would then conduct an investigation
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into Gavin's online Behavior themselves
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and eventually with all of the
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information provided to them from the
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United States Essex police had enough
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evidence to pay our online Casanova a
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little home Vis all of which was
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captured on body cam for the whole world
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and you to see what's going
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on what the hell is going on listen to
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what colle got to say right you're under
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AR on suspicion of conspiracy you do not
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have
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to what are you
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talking you're talking
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about very for the to allow for
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investigation by and to
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PR to who can you please explain to me
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what the hell is going on so at the
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moment you're under arrest The
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Conspiracy to who Holly Willoughby I
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don't think those ones are that's the
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allegation oh okay where's that come
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from it like I said it'll be explained
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to you in custody and you'll be
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interviewed about it um I'm not going to
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tell you any further than that at this
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current time okay okay then that is the
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allegation I'm not going to lie she's a
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fantasy fantasy lot
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sheere florid destroyed M if if you open
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V to you as you said the reason just
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about to go to V re going that is
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because because of the offense that
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you've been arrested for we need to make
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sure that we can gather as much evidence
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as we can as quickly as we can you had
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to put the door in to secure the
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evidence you've got no
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reason so yeah that clueless act Gavin
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really isn't looking to fool anyone here
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it wasn't until after his arrest and the
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subsequent foric investigation of his
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home personal computers laptops and
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online presence that the sheer gravity
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of this depraved man's Obsession would
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finally come to life
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and also the realization that this
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unhealthy obsession with women was not a
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recent fixation of Gavins as you can see
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his home was a complete rack
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Collectibles were strewn across the
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place a foul smell hung in the air and
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food containers and beer cans littered
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the various cluttered surfaces now
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amongst all of this clutter the police
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of course retrieved various devices and
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hard drives of all people they know that
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a computer is the best place to start
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and what they found was deeply
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concerning not hundreds but thousands of
Aftermath
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images of Holly were discovered some of
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which were deep fake images created by
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Ai and as you can imagine most of those
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images were sexual in nature in recent
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years the controversial subject of what
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is now dubbed deep fake pornography has
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become a serious problem right across
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the board within seconds you can upload
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images of anyone into various AI
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programs in order to produce whatever
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desired outcome so let's say you upload
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someone's face and ask these programs to
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create pornographic imagery of them well
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it's in the realm of capability which is
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an extraordinarily disturbing problem to
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say the least honestly folks if you
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thought that the internet was full of
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fake images videos and news before AI
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came around well good luck to us in the
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future anyway the absolutely
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mindboggling thing here is that officers
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would find over 10,000 images and videos
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across his devices all of which were
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alongside a handwritten list of over 130
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women that that Gavin had fantasized
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about and yeah as you can imagine right
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at the top of all of this was his
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Leading Lady Holly Willoughby to add to
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this it was also noted that Gavin had
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taken many photos from his home window
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in harow Essex where he would photograph
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female strangers who passed by and the
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neighboring women around him according
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to his neighbors he had always been
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quite a peculiar individual I mean all
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of them knew that he'd sat at his window
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and surveyed everyone though he never
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seemed to make any effort to interact
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with those around him however his
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strange Behavior can be partially
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explained by his childhood experiences
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so let's dive into
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that scaling back several decades Gavin
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was born in February 1987 and was one of
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four sons growing up with his mother and
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stepfather it is said that Gavin rarely
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ever left his hometown harow which is
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known to be a commuter town to London a
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neighbor describes the family as
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positively normal and all four boys
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often played outside the house after
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school and on weekends however Gavin
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seemed to be heavily bullied due to his
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ongoing weight issues while growing up
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pushing him more and more into his shell
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and tapping away at his already fragile
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confidence it is also said that Gavin
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was an unremarkable teenager finishing
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secondary school with below average
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grades and his early adulthood seemed to
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be filled with odd jobs in Hospitality
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at the time of his obsession he was
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employed as a security guard at the
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Pinnacles Shopping Center in harow which
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ironically is actually a place I've been
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to a couple times but strangely enough
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it wasn't actually his arrest that first
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got his face on television in fact in
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the year 2018 he appeared on a BBC
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documentary about his own weight loss as
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due to a sedentary and unhealthy
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lifestyle Gavin had grown to become a
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whopping 35 Stone
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490 or 220 kg sadly he lived his entire
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life inside of his flat saded his
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computer and obsessed over the many
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women that he quite frankly could never
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be with now I know what some of you may
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be thinking and there have been
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speculations that maybe he was actually
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part of the incel movement however he
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never seems to refer to himself as one
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so that's kind of open after his arrest
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it was discovered that this was not
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actually Gavin's first tussle with the
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lore either nor was it the first time
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that others observed his extremely
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worrying Behavior towards women in fact
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as early as the year 2006 he had been
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reported for harassing a woman who we
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will only refer to as Maria for
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privacy's sake after Gavin's deadly plot
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was publicized Maria decided to step
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forward to share her own experience with
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him you see Maria worked as an airline
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stewardess at the time it was one
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evening while on a train back from the
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airport that Gavin sat opposite to her
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and in her own words this is the
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experience she had with him he passed me
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a note I thought it was just some piece
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of paper I didn't even look at what he
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was doing I ignored it he then pushed it
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forward for me to read and when I read
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it it was something along the lines of
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get off the train with me be quiet don't
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do anything get off the train with me
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and nothing will happen to anybody he
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had a rope and a replica gun on him and
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as I read the note it was only then that
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I looked at him my first impression was
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that he was huge and I had no chance
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there was this moment when I was frozen
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and scared but I was also disbelief I
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thought maybe he was joking it was
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absurd but then he started approaching
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me with his hands he held his hand on my
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knee and indicated we are going to go
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realizing that the next station was a
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small secluded Village Maria knew that
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she couldn't get off the train with this
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man and so looking around rather
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panicked she made eye contact with
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another woman who sought help from
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another man on the train and no surprise
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as the pair approached Gavin he fled
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instead records show that he tried again
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only a few few days later thankfully
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only to fail a second time but
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unfortunately no legal action was taken
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against him and he was free to continue
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to dwell on his dangerous fantasies
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rather unsurprisingly and as we go up
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the ladder of escalation only 2 years
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later he was caught attempting another
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kidnap this time it was against a pair
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of 16-year-old girls who were both
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younger and more vulnerable than his
17:54
previous targets he even managed to bind
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up their wrists and attempt attempt to
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force them into a storage room within a
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department store but thankfully he was
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then discovered and his plan failed now
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it is quite clear that his failure
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evidently ruminated within him and that
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is when he sought online Solace and
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began to obsess over women that he could
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never have and share these fantasies
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with like-minded individuals all of this
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online activity came to further light
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the more that his devices were scoured
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in fact they would even find that his
18:26
former accomplice was an Irish man man
18:29
named Mark and that the two were very
18:31
serious with their fantasies detectives
Plan and further evidence
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discovered that Gavin and Mark were
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planning a home invasion at holl's
18:37
address which they managed to discover
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in December of 2021 and although she did
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live there safely with her husband and
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three children the perverted man's dark
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plan would tragically involve the entire
18:49
family the plan was that in the dead of
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night the pair would break into the
18:54
property and then use chloroform on the
18:56
entire family knocking all of them on un
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conscious evidence shows that this was a
19:01
serious consideration as bottles of
19:04
chloroform were recovered from Gavin's
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apartment following his arrest
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furthermore this plan was reinforced
19:10
through his very own voice note which we
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have right here all right uh plan of
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action I'll give you a brief rundown
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basically we're going to hit hit it at
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night uh less traffic on the road Etc um
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chloroform both of them
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that way then they can both be easily
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restrained and this wouldn't be the only
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creepy voice note that he would send
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about his future plans for Holly and her
19:38
family because further messaging Mark he
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would go on to say this we're then going
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to force her to make a video just saying
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that she come with us under her own free
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will um that she's with us under her own
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free will now she's and she's fully
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consenting into everything we do to her
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so that covers us outside of these voice
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notes Gavin expressed exactly what he
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was going to do with Holly after he had
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caught her all of which was no surprise
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extremely sexually motivated and fell
20:13
well into the Realms of depravity his
20:16
plans involved tying her up and sexually
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assaulting her in front of her entire
20:20
family to see before taking her away for
20:23
further torture on the topic of
20:25
information Gavin had tracked down all
20:28
of a family members details including
20:30
where they lived and secrets about their
20:32
personal lives he further mapped out
20:35
where the home surveillance cameras were
20:36
located the layout of the property and
20:39
also identified an abandoned slaughter
20:41
house where they could take Holly after
20:43
the kidnapping it would be here that
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they would continue to assault her
20:46
before ultimately taking her life and
20:49
disposing of her body using the leftover
20:51
Machinery within the building and only
20:54
then would Gavin be fully satisfied that
20:57
Holly was now forever his and his alone
21:01
now we already know that Gavin's plan
21:02
was extremely unrealistic and
21:04
far-fetched and it does seem that Mark
21:06
had come to this conclusion too before
21:09
he decided to cut ties with his online
21:11
comrade before it was too late
21:13
connecting the dots this led Gavin to
21:15
search for a new accomplice which led
21:17
him to speak to the undercover officer
21:19
David which eventually resulted in his
21:21
very own arrest it is worth noting here
21:23
that Holly Willoughby is a highly
21:25
protected individual in public and at
21:27
home and it's extraordinarily unlikely
21:30
that Gavin would have even got close to
21:32
being able to touch her but the
21:35
motivation and plan were still
21:38
there not only that but Gavin's physical
21:41
condition was far from optimal to say
21:44
the least and many commented on how he
21:46
would simply have been unable to carry
21:48
out his plans effectively thankfully all
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of this would end with his arrest on
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October the 4th 2023 after an extensive
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online investigation and upon the
21:57
revelation of A's kidnap plot it spread
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through the media like well Wildfire to
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say the least in fact it spread almost
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as fast as it met his own victim's ears
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no surprise Holly willerby was
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traumatized scared and distraught to
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hear the news and so were her family and
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friends not wanting to fuel the fire on
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this case as obviously it gained massive
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public attention after the media reveal
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Holly refused to comment on the
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situation and instead decided to devote
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herself to her family and those she
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cared about and to No Surprise only 6
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days after Gavin Plum's arrest Holly
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stepped down from her most well-known
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appearance as one of the presenters on
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this morning to keep her personal
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matters private with the sheer amount of
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evidence recovered from Gavin's flat it
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took the authorities many months to
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build their case against this extremely
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delusional man but in the end Gavin Plum
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would go on trial in early July 2024 for
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his crimes against Holly he was
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officially chared charged with one count
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of soliciting murder one count of
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encouraging or assisting the offense of
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kidnapping and one count of encouraging
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or assisting the offense of sexual
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assault Holly Willoughby was not present
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at all Court proceedings however she
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waved her right to anonymity to advance
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the case and have G been tried for all
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three of his offenses to add to this she
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would also submit a victim impact
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statement to the court and
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unsurprisingly this is kept private and
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not released publicly with the judge
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being satisfied that Gavin's impact
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statement on her was negatively
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life-changing and so with the extensive
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amount of evidence in his own personal
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collections surrounding this celebrity
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alongside the thousands of messages he
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had sent to Mark the undercover police
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officer and dozens of other individuals
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online it was clear that Gavin had
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genuine intent on committing his crimes
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and causing harm to Holly Willoughby as
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a result the jury's decision on his
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guilt was unanimous and Gavin Plum was
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found guilty on all three count accounts
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against his victim following the jury's
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conclusion the judge would go on to make
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this statement over a number of years
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you pursued an unhealthy sexual
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obsession with Holly Willoughby that led
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you ultimately to plan over that period
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to kidnap to rape and to murder her you
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intended to harm her husband and her
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children as part of your plan you had
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previously been convicted of terrifying
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offenses involving the threat of sexual
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violence against four different young
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women for that I found you to be
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dangerous the jury saw through the
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various lies that you told at the trial
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and convicted you of these offenses now
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impressively Gavin was ultimately given
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a life sentence for his crimes with a
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minimum of 16 years to be spent Behind
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Bars before he is eligible for parole
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this is quite the enormous sentence when
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you really think about it but his
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history of sexual violence alongside his
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recent actions makes his punishment
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completely justifiable in the aftermath
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of this case and due to its prolific
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public presence misogyny and violence
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against women were brought to the
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Forefront of discussion here Gavin's
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first victim who of course is nicknamed
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as Maria put her own opinion in an
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interview stating potentially every man
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can be a perpetrator and I understand
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that so many women think along the same
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lines a large man sitting right next to
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a girl well that is potential danger it
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is really sad but that is one of those
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takeaways from this unfortunate story
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for me when I look at men I very often
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do that quick quick judgment what level
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of danger are they as a man it hurts me
25:32
to hear statements like this but it is
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entirely justifiable for women to
25:37
protect themselves in this way it's a
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terrible thing to realize that many men
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can simply walk around outside at nights
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without any fear while women are
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understandably too scared to do the
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same you know it is actually quite
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insane how far gav is willing to go in
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order to achieve his depraved and
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disgusted fantasy as many of you know I
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cover many criminal here in coffee house
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crime that is basically all I do here
26:04
now thankfully Gavin was more and the
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less capable of all of them otherwise
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this story would have ended very
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differently the scary thing here is that
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you never quite know what people might
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be thinking or planning in their minds
26:17
all behind the unidirectional window of
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the human eye I think I'll end this
26:20
video by saying that if you do fantasize
26:22
about going on a coffee date with Nero
26:24
or even myself that is totally cool just
26:27
please skip out the murder part I don't
26:30
like that anyway I'm going to end this
26:31
video here today folks I know it's
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slightly different to the usual with no
26:35
actual murder taking place so what do
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you think about that did you mind the
26:39
change in scenery speaking of scenery
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again apologies for not being in the
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coffee house today I hope you didn't
26:44
mind on that note do you mind these more
26:46
casual types of videos and also what do
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you think about Gavin here do you think
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he got the sentence he deserved or
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should he been given more time or even
26:55
less I really do hope that Holly is
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doing okay throughout all of this
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because I can imagine that after going
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through this sort of thing you really do
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question your own existence and reality
27:05
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you again very very soon for another one
27:24
however until that moment arrives though
27:26
remember to look after yourself look
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after after each other and of course
27:30
stay safe thank you and goodbye