"Used Clothes" and Old Gifts Brought by NRI Relatives This discussion uses a blend of satire and reality to explore: The "Why": Why do those coming from abroad distribute second-hand store finds or free hotel toiletries as gifts? The Expectation Gap: How vast is the divide between the aspirations of modern Punjab and the outdated mindset of some NRIs? The Impact on Relationships: How do used or "passed-down" gifts lead to a decline in mutual respect within relationships?