What if the same analytic mind that can engineer
a solution for a massive oil pipeline could be
used to precisely engineer your own piece? For
15 years, my guest was in the high stakes, high
pressure world of petroleum engineering. Her
job was about structure, energy, and finding
leaks in complex systems. But she realized the
biggest system needing a fix was her own internal
one. Today, she's award -winning holistic therapist,
a success habit coach, and an author who promises
to guide you from misery to peace in 30 days
by blending ancient healing wisdom with cutting
edge neuroscience. Now, this isn't a story about
a career change, it's about a blueprint. For
anyone who feels stuck and is ready to stop surviving
and start purposely designing a life, of a profound
calm. Get ready to dismantle your old program.
Welcome to the show, Eat It, Be Kissed. Thank
you so much for having me. Hello, everybody.
So we want to welcome you to Keeping It Real
on Purpose. I'm your host, Edna White. And we
want to get right into it. And I'm going to ask
you the question, how do you show up in the world?
I always like to be the bigger person, if you
know what I mean about that. You know, people
get triggered very often by outside situations
and sometimes even by their own mindset or by
their own thoughts. And when I encounter situations
with people, I always like to, you know, choose
being kind instead of right and being called
the bigger person. seeing things from a bigger
perspective, basically, from a spiritual perspective,
from a divine perspective, and then not getting
caught up on little things or little situations.
And that's why I keep myself also calm, because
I trust the process, I trust the divine as well,
and that's my way. Yes, absolutely. I love it.
Love it, love it, love it. I want to get right
into the heart of your work. You guide people
from misery to peace in 30 days. That's a bold
promise. And it speaks to a fundamental hunger
that people have for rapid, real change. Let's
dig into the habits and the mindsets that hold
people hostage to misery and the engineering
you apply to set them free. Tell us one of the
things that you do. with your clients that set
them free. Yes, so Samadhi meditation is one
of the techniques I use. It's a Adiyogi Shiva
technique, and it's a very powerful meditation.
There are thousands of meditations out there
that people practice nowadays, but this meditation
is actually helping you to transcend into the
unconscious mind, and then by that you get access
to your multi -dimensional existence, and you
can heal all traumas, heal all traumatic experiences,
even post -traumas. So this is a very powerful
tool. actually to start the healing. And this
is one of the main thing, a daily habit, what
I ask from my clients to pick up, actually. OK.
And is that something that you created or is
it something that you have that you give them?
Yes. So basically, I learned this from my karma
guru from Kashmir. It's an Adiyogi Shiva technique
from 60 ,000 years old. And I was really... how
can I say blessed with this situation back in
2018 when I learned this technique and that was
actually called me to become a holistic therapist
instead of being an engineer. What's the name
again? It's an Adiyogi Shiva technique and it's
called also Karma Yoga Healing, one of the Karma
Yoga Healing techniques and the meditation called
Samadhi Meditation. All right, I like that. You
had to walk away from a highly lucrative stable
career. What was the most painful yet necessary
truth you had to accept about your former life
and the one that finally forced you to choose
peace over prestige? I choose to leave because
I felt that I need more time with my children.
I felt that guilt, you know, that mother guilt
that I leave in the morning, I came back in the
evening, I literally has no time for them and
then I just don't know them anymore. Like I really
felt frustrated about that. I want to know them
more. I want to spend more time with them. So
that was one of the things. And then other thing
was that I also felt unhealthy. I also felt like
very powerless, drained, you know, and not just
all the time. Also physically, I couldn't take
care of myself properly because again, I was
like, I'm not going to spend an hour in the gym
when I want to be with my kids. You know, it
was like a game and then it was really bad. And
eventually I said, I just can't do this anymore.
So I quit the job, the nine to five. And then
later I became a contractor, but that was much
easier because then I choose the time when I
work. Yeah, absolutely. And I did that for another
year or two. Yeah. And I think women do that
a lot. And I know when I was observing my life,
especially around my kids, they say nine to five,
but it becomes, you know, longer than, you know,
it's not eight hours, it's really 15. You know,
the travel, you know, and then the constant,
you know, you thinking about it, it really expands
in hours. I gave up my job because I looked around
and my son was 13. At one time, the next time
I looked up, he was 16. And I was like, what
happened? He's like, I was lost. So I said, OK,
I have to cut my losses with this job because
I was staying there all the time. And they were
always calling me in for something. And I was
like, yeah. This is not for me. And I didn't
want to miss that. When I looked up and I saw
him like three years older, I was like, oh, no,
I can't miss anything else. And so I wanted to
be home. And I think it's a hard decision for
us, but it's a good decision because they grow
up so fast. Yeah, I also love spending time with
them and being with them because it's really
precious. Yeah. And they need us. They need us.
Absolutely. Especially when we're learning what
you learned along the way, learning how to be
peaceful. You know, I think the children here
now even need that more so, you know what I mean?
Yes, because they pick up on their environment,
how you behave. You are a leader for them. You
are the example for them. So they're going to
become how you are. So when a parent is trying
to say that, oh, my child is doing this and doing
that, first they should look into themselves,
like how you show up to your children, right?
Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. You blend ancient healing
with neuroscience. What is the single biggest
lie we tell ourselves today about stress or anxiety?
That is just It's just the one thing but actually
is is is in our whole system like stress or where
why we have anxiety is is not just like because
we didn't exercise or because we don't eat house
or because we have a trauma but it's all together
like we need to look things like body, mind and
spirit at the same time. So you are stressed
and anxious because probably you also lacking
some vitamins and you lacking some minerals and
that's why it's amplified your anxiety. But you
are also because you don't sleep enough, you
don't exercise and then you are also because
you have traumatic experiences you haven't healed.
So these things all needs to be taken care of
together to actually find the peace and harmony.
That's great. What's an ancient, often overlooked
technique, and I think I know what you're going
to say, that instantly begins to rewire you when
you're overwhelmed? Yeah, it's the source memory
healing. So the source memory healing is another
Yogi Shiva technique, another Karma Yoga healing
technique, the source memory healing, which really
helps to heal from the root, which really helps
to release the traumatic experiences from the
unconscious mind and eventually stop the triggers
and really bring back the liberation and the
peace. Yeah, that's cool. How do you truly show
up? Like when there is anxiety, say you're having
a bad day, how do you start to ground yourself
from that? It's understanding your own body and
your limitations and your own system is really
important. Knowing like why you have that anxiety
or why you feel a certain way, understanding
like what's going on in your body. And then just
knowing that this is a sign you need to take
care of and then yes you can take care of it
through drinking some nice hot tea for example
or taking some vitamins or just doing some exercise
or just go to sleep you know so one one of these
yes absolutely sometimes the best thing you can
do is just to sleep through bed hours, you know,
because maybe that's where your solution comes
in. Maybe you download some ideas while you are
resting. So rest is a really great thing and
is so undervalued. Right. That's great. That's
really good. You focus on success habits. And
I know that you are a habit coach, which you're
the first I ever met. So thank you for being
here. If a person's life is only the sum of everything,
the habits, what's the least, I guess I wanna
say sexy, almost overrated success habit that
people have? Is what we eat, that's what we become.
So basically, we really need to take care of
our diet. People say like, what is diet? When
you say the word diet, they already think about
like, oh, I need to count calories. But diet
is actually... what you consume, like what kind
of food you eat. So it doesn't need to be like
small amount, you can eat the whole big of plate,
you know, it's just what's on that plate. So
I actually follow a very strict diet. I don't
eat gluten. I don't eat dairy products. I don't
consume caffeine, alcohol, and processed sugar.
And I came to that situation actually in a very
strange way. Because back in 2016, when I became
a Reiki master, I started to heal myself with
the Reiki master signs and very powerful energies.
And this raised my vibration so high that I had
to stop eating certain food. I couldn't eat them
anymore. felt like a switch was turning my mind
or something. And suddenly I couldn't eat, for
example, the daily products anymore. And then
the processed sugar and the alcohol. And then
that time it was the white floor. So they were
kind of switched off from my system. And it helped
me so much because immediately I started to lose
weight. I was overweight back then. And then
I started to lose weight. And then I lost like
20 kilos, 40 pounds in 10 months. So I was so
happy. I was so happy about myself. And then
it was a lot less because this energy switch
happened in my body. So everything is connected.
And then, yeah, one of these hobbies, what we
eat is really important in many ways. I'm going
to tell you, you're right up my alley. I think
I had a weird experience with gluten as well.
I moved to China for a bit and I didn't eat the
same things I eat here in America. And then when
I came home, I started eating all of that and
I had a seizure. So that stopped right away.
It was like, okay, no more of that. It took me
a while to get control of it, because I didn't
know that everything had gluten in it. Everything
had wheat in it. They fill everything. So it
took me a long time, and now I'm much better
at it. So I don't eat gluten. I don't have sugar.
I don't drink milk. Like you, I'm losing weight.
Even now, vibrating differently, I don't drink
wine anymore, because I was a wine person. I
don't drink wine anymore. It's so weird. I'm
vibrating different, and it's like, OK, don't
need that. And it just goes away. When you start
to vibrate different, like you said, when your
vibrations are up, you don't need those things.
And those things kind of like They get away from
you. They go away. The need is not even there.
And you start to lose weight. You start to feel
better. I know that milk created mucus in me.
And when I started noticing it, I was like, I
think I shouldn't be drinking this. But again,
it takes a lot of effort because you have to
read everything. You have to read everything.
And I would go into the grocery store with my
glasses on. before they had gluten products,
you know, gluten -free products, right? And I
would read everything. And then I was, the other
thing was MSG, no clue. You know, I was highly
allergic to it, no clue. But I think all of this
is happening. Like you said, all of it's connected.
When you start to vibrate at a higher frequency,
those things that you used to do, you can't do
anymore. Yeah. Your body rejects it. Yeah. That's
the word, rejects it. And I used to say, my body
is just doing what it wants to do. Every year,
there's something new that I'm not eating. Every
year, every year, something new, gone. It's out
of there. So it's exciting to hear you say what
you just said. And the audience knows that I'm
on this journey of vibrating to my highest. self,
and I'm loving the whole journey of it. I'm glad
that you're here to kind of bring those things
together. So a lot of people feel like their
true self is trapped by their history. Could
be their food, as we were talking about. If you
give your clients a single powerful tool to delete
the emotional attachments to their worst regret,
what would it be? If it's working on some past
traumatic experience or something what happened
in the past and they are aware of that, I would
use the source memory healing basically to go
into those memories and release them. If it's
about feeling stuck and they don't have the clarity
where to move forward, then already the Samadhi
meditation would help them to see some more visions
for themselves or to receive some ideas. Right.
Okay. So let's bring neuroscience into this.
What I just asked you, how would you help them
in the neuroscience part of it? So basically
the Adiyogi Shiva techniques, the meditation
and the source memory healing, they are part
of the science of consciousness because now,
I mean, they existed, you know, the sciences
exist all the time and they were existed for
60 ,000 years, it's just there are certain things
which is now explained more scientifically. For
example, the brain waves, like when you meditate
and then you actually activate the pineal gland
and then you go into lower brain waves, you transcend,
then you go into delta brain waves and theta
brain waves. Now they can actually measure it,
you know, and they measure it now and they say,
yes, when you are in theta or delta brain waves,
that you visualize, you can manifest it better,
or if you do your subconscious reprogramming
in theta brainwaves, it's actually giving you
a better result. So that's what actually is scientifically
proven with neuroscience right now. Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah, I know that to be true. Yeah, that's right.
It's bringing it all back together. Such great
remembrance for us, right? Remembering who we
really are, right? Yes, absolutely. Yeah, it's
great. So if there was anybody out there that
was just really trying to deal with trying to
find their peace, can you give them just some
words of wisdom around what you do and how to
help get out of that or get some more peace?
Yeah. So there is there is only three things
what you can control, and that's your own thoughts,
your own emotions, and your own actions. If you
are mindful, if you actually become mindful,
then you actually focus on these three things
to control these three things, and then you can
find more peace, and then you realize that, yeah,
what you cannot control, you need to let it go
basically, otherwise it's gonna disturb you,
right? You need to control your thoughts because
you need to have positive thinking. to have positive
emotions. If you always assume bad things, if
you're always worried, if you're always in fear,
then you're creating negative emotions. You are
always sad or angry or disappointed. And because
you have negative emotions, you basically make
yourself sick, you know, through that negative
emotion, because you're blocking your energy
centers, you're blocking the energy from your
gland systems, your organs. So basically you're
making yourself physically sick being in those
negative emotions. And this also encouraging
you to do negative things, like bad decisions
if you are in a bad mood. I always say to my
clients that don't make decisions when you are
in a bad mood. Always get to neutral or good
level before you make big decisions, because
otherwise you can screw up relationships or work
or whatever it is. So it's calm till 10 or sleep
on it. Especially now with Mercury Retrograde
we're having in the shadow period we are right
now. Yes, absolutely. My friend just told me
about that, especially now. Don't make any decisions.
Yeah, and also focusing on your communication.
everybody is going to be pissed off about whatever
you say. It doesn't matter what you're going
to say, they're going to feel offended because
it's not the time of the year, you know? So it's
just being very diplomatic, being very kind to
each other is really important. That's awesome.
Awesome. Well, Edith, this has been an incredible,
insightful conversation about the true engineering
of inner peace. Thank you for sharing your journey
from the oil rigs to helping people find radical
change in just 30 days. I appreciate you and
I know the audience appreciates you. So, to our
listeners, if you felt a deep resonance with
Edit's message, if you're ready to stop performing
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I correct? Yeah, there is email, there are WhatsApp,
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P. Kiss, we're gonna say goodbye for now. Thank
you, goodbye.