WEBVTT 00:00:05.130 --> 00:00:08.050 Welcome back to Keeping It Real On Purpose. I'm 00:00:08.050 --> 00:00:11.009 your host, Edna White. Have you ever felt like 00:00:11.009 --> 00:00:13.869 you're hitting a hidden ceiling in your business? 00:00:14.929 --> 00:00:17.550 Like you're doing all the right things, but the 00:00:17.550 --> 00:00:21.089 biggest breakthrough just won't come or just 00:00:21.089 --> 00:00:24.170 won't land down there where you are? That ceiling 00:00:24.170 --> 00:00:28.309 is an external. It's programmed deep within your 00:00:28.309 --> 00:00:31.690 subconscious mind. Today, we are joined by the 00:00:31.690 --> 00:00:35.280 expert who helps us shatter those ceilings. Marlee 00:00:35.280 --> 00:00:38.979 Rose Harris, founder of the Higher Self app and 00:00:38.979 --> 00:00:42.799 the creator of the powerful clear, the powerful 00:00:42.799 --> 00:00:46.780 clear, the fear method. That's a tongue twister 00:00:46.780 --> 00:00:51.500 right there. Marlee is a neuroscience, science, 00:00:52.159 --> 00:00:55.899 universal laws and energetics to help entrepreneurs 00:00:55.899 --> 00:01:01.780 reprogram the minds and manifest massive success 00:01:01.780 --> 00:01:07.719 with ease. Marlee, welcome to the show. Thank 00:01:07.719 --> 00:01:10.079 you so much for having me. It feels like such 00:01:10.079 --> 00:01:13.980 a luxury and blessing to be here. Thanks so much. 00:01:14.120 --> 00:01:17.900 I am so glad you're here. You are my first person 00:01:17.900 --> 00:01:21.859 to have created an app besides me. So that's 00:01:21.859 --> 00:01:24.260 really great. I'm so excited to interview you 00:01:24.260 --> 00:01:27.500 today. So Marlee, before we dive into the hard 00:01:27.500 --> 00:01:31.319 questions, give us what the real purpose is behind 00:01:31.319 --> 00:01:36.480 your work. How do you show up in the world? My 00:01:36.480 --> 00:01:43.540 real purpose behind my work is to inspire beautiful 00:01:43.540 --> 00:01:48.739 souls and beautiful individuals that they truly 00:01:48.739 --> 00:01:55.560 can have anything that they desire. That little 00:01:55.560 --> 00:01:58.280 inkling that we almost shove so far down it's 00:01:58.280 --> 00:02:01.950 like in our toes of that feeling. and that desire 00:02:01.950 --> 00:02:05.010 that feels too big or too impossible and too 00:02:05.010 --> 00:02:09.030 scary to even admit that we want it. My purpose 00:02:09.030 --> 00:02:13.669 is to inspire you to pick up that dream, put 00:02:13.669 --> 00:02:18.250 it in front of you and to commit to it and to 00:02:18.250 --> 00:02:22.930 know that you are capable of attracting and becoming 00:02:22.930 --> 00:02:26.889 and achieving anything that you set your mind 00:02:26.889 --> 00:02:30.969 to. I like to share that I like to make the impossible 00:02:30.969 --> 00:02:35.289 possible. And the tool in which that I help my 00:02:35.289 --> 00:02:38.449 clients do that is through subconscious reprogramming. 00:02:39.599 --> 00:02:42.300 what I see in my work is that when you change 00:02:42.300 --> 00:02:45.759 your beliefs, it is the exact tool to create 00:02:45.759 --> 00:02:50.379 the reality that you so deeply desire. And I'm 00:02:50.379 --> 00:02:54.180 really here to inspire those to have, do and 00:02:54.180 --> 00:02:57.460 be whatever they desire and to never settle in 00:02:57.460 --> 00:03:01.259 any area of life. Okay, all right. So what does 00:03:01.259 --> 00:03:03.800 it mean to help entrepreneurs break free from 00:03:03.800 --> 00:03:07.699 limiting beliefs? So we're a race in a society 00:03:07.699 --> 00:03:12.360 of fear. From the minute that we're born, going 00:03:12.360 --> 00:03:15.680 through school, we're taught to not be enough. 00:03:15.900 --> 00:03:18.740 We're taught to believe in lack. We are taught 00:03:18.740 --> 00:03:22.159 to believe in scarcity. It gets passed down generationally 00:03:22.159 --> 00:03:25.060 and it gets passed down and taught through schooling, 00:03:25.620 --> 00:03:28.180 through society, through the news, through media. 00:03:28.699 --> 00:03:30.860 Everywhere you look, it's fear and scarcity. 00:03:31.159 --> 00:03:34.960 So we tend to absorb that. It's natural. the 00:03:34.960 --> 00:03:38.240 natural human behavior to absorb your environment. 00:03:38.979 --> 00:03:41.360 Think about it, we learn English from our parents. 00:03:41.419 --> 00:03:45.340 So we start speaking in the same tone and the 00:03:45.340 --> 00:03:51.780 same as our parents, we take their accent, right? 00:03:52.120 --> 00:03:54.379 We take everything else. We take their money 00:03:54.379 --> 00:03:57.139 beliefs, we learn how to deal with money, how 00:03:57.139 --> 00:04:02.680 to manage money. So I grew up in a family household 00:04:02.680 --> 00:04:06.030 that Believed in scarcity and that was the rule 00:04:06.030 --> 00:04:09.150 that was just the world that I grew up in but 00:04:09.150 --> 00:04:14.050 as a very small child I saw that and I saw that 00:04:14.050 --> 00:04:16.149 you know There was so much chaos and there was 00:04:16.149 --> 00:04:19.089 so much neglect and lack of love and from a really 00:04:19.089 --> 00:04:22.490 young age I just decided okay. It's because we 00:04:22.490 --> 00:04:26.009 don't have money why we don't have love and I 00:04:26.009 --> 00:04:29.079 want love so So I decided from a very young age 00:04:29.079 --> 00:04:31.939 that if I just have money that I will have love 00:04:31.939 --> 00:04:33.959 and I will have everything that I could ever 00:04:33.959 --> 00:04:38.860 want From a very young age I was like I just 00:04:38.860 --> 00:04:44.339 need to figure out how to be rich I promise you 00:04:44.339 --> 00:04:47.100 even up to this day like even up to this day, 00:04:47.199 --> 00:04:48.839 right? You kind of checking yourself all the 00:04:48.839 --> 00:04:54.839 time about that. Yeah, and So, you know I started 00:04:54.839 --> 00:04:57.620 on this journey, you know it Personal development 00:04:57.620 --> 00:05:01.439 was very new to me. I I just found it, you know 00:05:01.439 --> 00:05:04.699 actually through podcasts and I felt like I never 00:05:04.699 --> 00:05:07.480 really was good at anything. I felt like you 00:05:07.480 --> 00:05:10.459 know soccer I sucked at singing I'm horrible 00:05:10.459 --> 00:05:13.040 everything that my parents are like or like not 00:05:13.040 --> 00:05:15.339 even parents but like my school would provide 00:05:15.339 --> 00:05:18.319 for me I just sucked right and I was like, wow, 00:05:18.439 --> 00:05:21.629 I have no skills. I have no abilities But what 00:05:21.629 --> 00:05:23.529 I was doing is I wasn't playing to my natural 00:05:23.529 --> 00:05:25.990 gifts. I was playing to my weaknesses instead 00:05:25.990 --> 00:05:28.829 of playing for my strengths. And I created this 00:05:28.829 --> 00:05:30.730 limiting belief that I'm not good at anything 00:05:30.730 --> 00:05:32.949 that I do because I felt like I failed at everything. 00:05:34.680 --> 00:05:36.839 how I graduated from university that I started 00:05:36.839 --> 00:05:38.740 finding podcasts and I started getting into this 00:05:38.740 --> 00:05:40.779 world of personal development. And for the very 00:05:40.779 --> 00:05:44.319 first time, I was like, wow, I get this. Like 00:05:44.319 --> 00:05:46.379 it was, it was just like this immediate remembering 00:05:46.379 --> 00:05:50.500 and knowing and just like comfort zone. Like 00:05:50.500 --> 00:05:54.480 I felt like it just, I was just felt like I was 00:05:54.480 --> 00:05:57.459 coming home to something and I started dabbling 00:05:57.459 --> 00:05:59.819 in meditation. I started dabbling in journaling 00:05:59.819 --> 00:06:02.040 and I feel like like this is the best thing I've 00:06:02.040 --> 00:06:04.699 ever done like I feel good at this and I and 00:06:04.699 --> 00:06:08.860 I loved it and and you know I when I graduated 00:06:08.860 --> 00:06:11.740 from university it was either like get this corporate 00:06:11.740 --> 00:06:13.740 job that I thought that I always wanted because 00:06:13.740 --> 00:06:15.939 I grew up with no consistency with money there 00:06:15.939 --> 00:06:19.500 was no benefits no paycheck it was like free 00:06:19.500 --> 00:06:22.420 willy and so I was like I want a corporate job 00:06:22.420 --> 00:06:23.920 because then I'm gonna get a consistent paycheck 00:06:23.920 --> 00:06:25.519 every month that was like my biggest dream was 00:06:25.519 --> 00:06:27.879 just to have a consistent paycheck And then I 00:06:27.879 --> 00:06:29.839 finally got the corporate job offer and I was 00:06:29.839 --> 00:06:32.879 like, no, I cannot work for anyone else. I don't 00:06:32.879 --> 00:06:36.399 want to work for anyone else. And I want to work 00:06:36.399 --> 00:06:38.319 for my laptop and travel the world. That was 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:39.980 like my biggest dream. I'm like, if I could do 00:06:39.980 --> 00:06:43.100 that, I'd be a millionaire. And I read the four 00:06:43.100 --> 00:06:45.420 hour work week by Tim Ferriss and I just use 00:06:45.420 --> 00:06:51.060 that as like my rival. my bible i am going to 00:06:51.060 --> 00:06:53.699 become this and this is at 2021 so like no one 00:06:53.699 --> 00:06:55.540 really knew about digital no no no sorry this 00:06:55.540 --> 00:06:59.300 was 2018 so no one knew about digital nomad like 00:06:59.300 --> 00:07:00.800 they're like digital nomad what do you mean and 00:07:00.800 --> 00:07:03.139 i'm like we're gonna work with deloitte i'm like 00:07:03.139 --> 00:07:05.600 i'm going to australia like i'm like i can't 00:07:05.600 --> 00:07:08.839 and this is me too i said the same exact thing 00:07:08.839 --> 00:07:13.750 same exact thing yeah So also I just hated winter. 00:07:14.029 --> 00:07:16.529 I'm from Canada. So I grew up, it was like negative 00:07:16.529 --> 00:07:19.930 30. I was like, I can't live like this. So I 00:07:19.930 --> 00:07:23.850 started my business and the first year in business 00:07:23.850 --> 00:07:27.589 was also the year that I lost my father. He committed 00:07:27.589 --> 00:07:31.560 suicide. And so I was at this very... Interesting 00:07:31.560 --> 00:07:33.720 point of my life. We're like for the first time 00:07:33.720 --> 00:07:35.959 in my life I felt like I was actually feeling 00:07:35.959 --> 00:07:38.139 these feelings of fulfillment and joy because 00:07:38.139 --> 00:07:40.860 I spent so much of my life struggling with mental 00:07:40.860 --> 00:07:43.339 health anxiety depression just a lot of unresolved 00:07:43.339 --> 00:07:45.199 trauma, I didn't even know what was going on 00:07:45.199 --> 00:07:49.540 though and First time I had this like purpose 00:07:49.540 --> 00:07:52.160 and I felt like I was I don't know I just felt 00:07:52.160 --> 00:07:54.699 so good in alignment. I think I felt alignment 00:07:54.699 --> 00:07:58.079 for the first time in my life at the same on 00:07:58.079 --> 00:08:00.959 the same duality of that is is also the when 00:08:00.959 --> 00:08:04.300 I lost my father so In that moment, I was like, 00:08:04.339 --> 00:08:07.259 okay I've I know I'm from a town with literally 00:08:07.259 --> 00:08:10.079 300 people like I didn't know that this happened 00:08:10.079 --> 00:08:12.720 You know, I was best and still am like best friends 00:08:12.720 --> 00:08:16.220 with my dad He was my number one supporter and 00:08:16.220 --> 00:08:18.660 so for him to do this it was like the impossible 00:08:18.660 --> 00:08:21.259 had occurred like there's just no reality if 00:08:21.259 --> 00:08:22.800 you told me that that was gonna happen that that 00:08:22.800 --> 00:08:26.980 was gonna happen and In hindsight and learning 00:08:26.980 --> 00:08:30.180 what I know now, it's like my dad just didn't 00:08:30.180 --> 00:08:33.440 have the self love. And so when something happened 00:08:33.440 --> 00:08:35.720 on the external, like separating from my mom, 00:08:35.779 --> 00:08:37.500 he just couldn't handle that. He didn't have 00:08:37.500 --> 00:08:42.379 the self love to sustain his own journey. And 00:08:42.379 --> 00:08:46.059 so when I spoke at a celebration of life, I said, 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:50.000 from this moment moving forward, I am going to 00:08:50.000 --> 00:08:53.200 find a way. That no one that I know will ever 00:08:53.200 --> 00:08:55.240 do that again and think that's the only option 00:08:55.240 --> 00:08:58.759 And I want to help the world know that you don't 00:08:58.759 --> 00:09:00.279 have to struggle. You don't have to settle you 00:09:00.279 --> 00:09:02.799 don't have to suffer like There has to be another 00:09:02.799 --> 00:09:05.559 way because my dad did try going to therapy that 00:09:05.559 --> 00:09:08.549 didn't it didn't work Um, he he tried all of 00:09:08.549 --> 00:09:10.289 it didn't work. So I was like there has to be 00:09:10.289 --> 00:09:11.950 another way this I don't believe that this is 00:09:11.950 --> 00:09:15.330 the only option this can't be And so that brought 00:09:15.330 --> 00:09:17.509 me on this journey to where I am today Which 00:09:17.509 --> 00:09:20.029 is I just started reading all the podcasts or 00:09:20.029 --> 00:09:22.309 reading all the books because I want to heal 00:09:22.309 --> 00:09:24.850 I I had never been to therapy myself. We couldn't 00:09:24.850 --> 00:09:27.389 afford it But because of that incident we got 00:09:27.389 --> 00:09:29.330 subsidized therapy so I went to therapy for the 00:09:29.330 --> 00:09:31.870 first time and I just like threw myself into 00:09:31.870 --> 00:09:35.799 this world of healing and growing and what I 00:09:35.799 --> 00:09:38.639 was doing to myself to heal from the grief, I 00:09:38.639 --> 00:09:40.700 started to applying to money and I started applying 00:09:40.700 --> 00:09:42.080 to my business. And everyone's like, Marley, 00:09:42.139 --> 00:09:45.000 like, what are you doing? You've lost 30 pounds. 00:09:45.240 --> 00:09:47.240 You're making more a month than that corporate 00:09:47.240 --> 00:09:49.639 job offered me for the year. You, you seem like 00:09:49.639 --> 00:09:52.519 you're doing like not even fine, but like good. 00:09:52.539 --> 00:09:54.559 Like what's going on? I'm like, I'm just like 00:09:54.559 --> 00:09:56.379 reprogramming my subconscious mind. Like, what 00:09:56.379 --> 00:09:58.200 are you guys doing? Like reprogramming what? 00:09:58.240 --> 00:09:59.720 Like they didn't even know what I was talking 00:09:59.720 --> 00:10:03.240 about. And I was like, Oh my gosh, because I 00:10:03.240 --> 00:10:05.320 was designing websites and logos and I had built 00:10:05.320 --> 00:10:07.600 this like massive business at like 25. I was 00:10:07.600 --> 00:10:09.580 making like $70 ,000 a month. It was insane. 00:10:10.759 --> 00:10:13.740 But and it was a result of me truly changing 00:10:13.740 --> 00:10:17.039 my beliefs because I just learned like Tony Robbins 00:10:17.039 --> 00:10:19.860 would say, you know Bruce Lipton Joe Dispenza 00:10:19.860 --> 00:10:21.240 They're like if you just change your beliefs 00:10:21.240 --> 00:10:22.639 and you change your thoughts you change your 00:10:22.639 --> 00:10:24.200 reality I was like, well, that seems really easy 00:10:24.200 --> 00:10:27.179 like I can I can do that But then no one was 00:10:27.179 --> 00:10:28.879 teaching me how to change my limiting beliefs 00:10:28.879 --> 00:10:30.519 I was like you have to change your limit, but 00:10:30.519 --> 00:10:32.460 no one was teaching me how and I was like I'm 00:10:32.460 --> 00:10:35.679 just so frustrated. I'm like, give me the result. 00:10:35.820 --> 00:10:37.799 Give me the solution. I need the formula and 00:10:37.799 --> 00:10:39.720 I will do it. But no one was teaching me how. 00:10:39.759 --> 00:10:41.600 So I was like, OK, I'm going to figure this out 00:10:41.600 --> 00:10:45.179 for the world because we need this. And so that's 00:10:45.179 --> 00:10:48.259 where the clear the fear method came from, which 00:10:48.259 --> 00:10:50.240 was basically a result of like, I want to clear 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:52.419 my own limiting beliefs and I want to break. 00:10:53.290 --> 00:10:56.529 this poverty patterning I want to I want to show 00:10:56.529 --> 00:10:58.769 I want to do it to show other people look what 00:10:58.769 --> 00:11:01.350 is possible like I don't come from money I come 00:11:01.350 --> 00:11:03.450 from the smallest town like literally on earth 00:11:03.450 --> 00:11:07.070 I grew up thinking that I was bad at everything 00:11:07.070 --> 00:11:10.909 and if I can do this like so can you and and 00:11:10.909 --> 00:11:13.490 you don't need these you don't need years of 00:11:13.490 --> 00:11:15.629 therapy you don't it's like literally once you 00:11:15.629 --> 00:11:17.629 understand what your limiting belief is and you 00:11:17.629 --> 00:11:22.159 clear it My clients have like instantaneous manifestations. 00:11:22.580 --> 00:11:26.840 I like it's so magical and It's not even magical. 00:11:26.840 --> 00:11:32.440 It's just just it's just evident and so obvious 00:11:32.440 --> 00:11:34.620 and so truth that when you change your beliefs 00:11:34.620 --> 00:11:36.240 you change your reality and now we have a tool 00:11:36.240 --> 00:11:41.360 to do so and Be able to help others like not 00:11:41.360 --> 00:11:43.950 only like feel good again and like develop self 00:11:43.950 --> 00:11:46.870 -love, but then also, you know, meeting the love 00:11:46.870 --> 00:11:49.710 of life, meeting their soulmates, you know, making 00:11:49.710 --> 00:11:51.750 so much money that they get to retire their parents 00:11:51.750 --> 00:11:53.909 or go to these trips around the world that they've 00:11:53.909 --> 00:11:57.710 always wanted to go to or afford to fly first 00:11:57.710 --> 00:11:59.250 class that they've always wanted to do, buy their 00:11:59.250 --> 00:12:02.789 first house, afford IV therapy so they can have 00:12:02.789 --> 00:12:06.590 their first child. Like, I am so passionate about 00:12:06.590 --> 00:12:11.289 giving entrepreneurs the tools and honestly, 00:12:11.580 --> 00:12:15.360 to be honest, this tool works for everyone. I 00:12:15.360 --> 00:12:17.279 just have like a special niche for entrepreneurs 00:12:17.279 --> 00:12:20.360 because I am myself, but I help anyone who wants 00:12:20.360 --> 00:12:22.580 to change their life and change their living 00:12:22.580 --> 00:12:25.259 beliefs to break through these lies that you've 00:12:25.259 --> 00:12:29.039 been taught so that you can have be truly whatever 00:12:29.039 --> 00:12:33.740 you desire. Right. Okay. So that's how they find 00:12:33.740 --> 00:12:36.919 their limit, their full potential, unlock their 00:12:36.919 --> 00:12:39.919 full potential because you did it. Awesome. Okay. 00:12:40.299 --> 00:12:43.279 So I know that you said that, you know, you said 00:12:43.279 --> 00:12:48.139 a lot in that one piece. Breaking free, give 00:12:48.139 --> 00:12:51.440 us one step of breaking them, helping you, helping 00:12:51.440 --> 00:12:58.700 them break free. I believe the first step to 00:12:58.700 --> 00:13:01.200 breaking free is not the answer that everyone's 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:02.580 going to want to hear, but I'm going to tell 00:13:02.580 --> 00:13:05.940 you anyways. The first step to breaking free 00:13:05.940 --> 00:13:08.919 is understanding that you are the cause of your 00:13:08.919 --> 00:13:13.820 reality. It's understanding that no one's coming 00:13:13.820 --> 00:13:17.039 to save you. No one is doing this to you, not 00:13:17.039 --> 00:13:19.759 the government, not society, not your parents. 00:13:19.860 --> 00:13:22.820 It's like, and really taking a hundred percent 00:13:22.820 --> 00:13:27.539 ownership of this is my life and I'm in charge 00:13:27.539 --> 00:13:31.500 and I am in control of changing it. And, and, 00:13:31.500 --> 00:13:35.759 and, and bringing and attracting into my life 00:13:35.759 --> 00:13:39.440 what I desire because I am the cause of my effect. 00:13:39.559 --> 00:13:43.500 And I really want you to take 100 % and only 00:13:43.500 --> 00:13:48.259 when you take 100 % ownership of your life do 00:13:48.259 --> 00:13:51.980 you break free. Or else you're controlled by 00:13:51.980 --> 00:13:54.019 everything and everyone else around you thinking 00:13:54.019 --> 00:13:56.320 it's everyone else's fault and it just keeps 00:13:56.320 --> 00:13:58.399 you in this stuck matter that keeps you stuck. 00:13:58.700 --> 00:14:00.620 But if you really want to break free, you have 00:14:00.620 --> 00:14:03.779 to take 100 % ownership that you are in charge 00:14:03.779 --> 00:14:08.200 of changing your life. That's great. That I agree 00:14:08.200 --> 00:14:11.679 with totally at 100%. Now are people normally 00:14:11.679 --> 00:14:16.340 showing up as successful person they want to 00:14:16.340 --> 00:14:20.019 be or are they the striving person they're trying 00:14:20.019 --> 00:14:27.240 to leave behind when they come to you? With my 00:14:27.240 --> 00:14:32.080 work, I'm not here to convince people of why 00:14:32.080 --> 00:14:35.149 this works or I'm not here to convince people 00:14:35.149 --> 00:14:39.009 that it works right the people that come to me 00:14:39.009 --> 00:14:44.649 are ready from a place of like i've done the 00:14:44.649 --> 00:14:47.990 foundational work and now i'm ready to go like 00:14:47.990 --> 00:14:52.789 good to incredible so i would say like i i speak 00:14:52.789 --> 00:14:56.009 to everyone and i and i do want to my my i don't 00:14:56.009 --> 00:14:58.190 want to leave anyone out i want to help everyone 00:14:59.440 --> 00:15:02.879 Work is most potent when you have that already 00:15:02.879 --> 00:15:04.960 have that self -awareness. You're like, okay, 00:15:05.059 --> 00:15:08.259 I figured it out. I am in charge of creating 00:15:08.259 --> 00:15:12.039 and changing my own life. I get it. And I've 00:15:12.039 --> 00:15:14.620 done some of the work, but now I'm not seeing 00:15:14.620 --> 00:15:17.980 the changes that I want to see. And the reason 00:15:17.980 --> 00:15:21.000 why is because we all have hidden advantages 00:15:21.000 --> 00:15:24.909 to why we are where we are. but those hidden 00:15:24.909 --> 00:15:27.450 advantages actually live within our subconscious. 00:15:28.090 --> 00:15:32.769 And so we can't see them. And just like a hairdresser 00:15:32.769 --> 00:15:35.190 needs someone else to cut their own hair, and 00:15:35.190 --> 00:15:37.409 just like a masseuse can't give themselves a 00:15:37.409 --> 00:15:40.590 massage, they're called blind spots because they're 00:15:40.590 --> 00:15:43.629 blind, right? It's like the area in the car that 00:15:43.629 --> 00:15:45.889 looks to your left, you can't see, it's a blind 00:15:45.889 --> 00:15:49.639 spot. And that's when... My clients are like, 00:15:49.799 --> 00:15:52.320 I've done the work, but I can't figure out why 00:15:52.320 --> 00:15:54.519 is it not changing. And I get to be like, okay, 00:15:54.740 --> 00:15:57.519 here's your blind spot. And then it's like, they're 00:15:57.519 --> 00:15:59.399 like, oh my gosh, I never would have seen that 00:15:59.399 --> 00:16:01.340 on my own. And like, oh my gosh, like this is 00:16:01.340 --> 00:16:03.500 the living belief that's causing all this chaos 00:16:03.500 --> 00:16:05.240 and ruckus in my life. And then I get to be like, 00:16:05.299 --> 00:16:08.679 yep, it's that one thing within 20 minutes. And 00:16:08.679 --> 00:16:10.940 then it's like, has the most dramatic, amazing 00:16:10.940 --> 00:16:15.750 impact on their life. So you're actually the 00:16:15.750 --> 00:16:18.230 one that's kind of looking in and kind of, okay, 00:16:18.289 --> 00:16:23.830 this is a limiting rule if you have, right? I'm 00:16:23.830 --> 00:16:28.649 like, yeah, it's my favorite thing to do. Okay. 00:16:32.350 --> 00:16:35.690 What is the most financially successful person 00:16:35.690 --> 00:16:41.120 that they secretly resent? Is this something 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:42.919 that they secretly use them that you've kind 00:16:42.919 --> 00:16:45.259 of dealt with? You know, if you worked with somebody, 00:16:46.259 --> 00:16:48.399 an entrepreneur, right? Let me just say it like 00:16:48.399 --> 00:16:51.299 this. If you worked with an entrepreneur, Vince 00:16:51.299 --> 00:16:55.779 is a successful person. What is one of the things 00:16:55.779 --> 00:16:58.940 that they resent and why do they believe that 00:16:58.940 --> 00:17:05.380 they don't deserve that success? Oh, that's a 00:17:05.380 --> 00:17:11.900 very good question. So. Could I answer the question 00:17:11.900 --> 00:17:15.140 of like what is the number one block that successful 00:17:15.140 --> 00:17:20.160 entrepreneurs have? This is so interesting and 00:17:20.160 --> 00:17:22.980 I love answering this question because I think 00:17:22.980 --> 00:17:26.599 a lot of people think you know, it's this very 00:17:26.599 --> 00:17:30.339 intricate hard to find Confusing little like 00:17:30.339 --> 00:17:32.019 you know in the haystack of like why they're 00:17:32.019 --> 00:17:35.119 not where they want to be. I Would say number 00:17:35.119 --> 00:17:39.119 one block is that they firstly not where they 00:17:39.119 --> 00:17:43.559 want to be. So that mantra of I'm not where I 00:17:43.559 --> 00:17:46.140 want to be is keeping them not where they want 00:17:46.140 --> 00:17:50.839 to be. And what gets them to the success is acknowledging 00:17:50.839 --> 00:17:53.920 the luxuries and blessings that they already 00:17:53.920 --> 00:17:57.480 have to attract the next level. So it's like 00:17:57.480 --> 00:18:00.079 acknowledging and creating what you currently 00:18:00.079 --> 00:18:03.930 have. And then from a Desire and from a place 00:18:03.930 --> 00:18:06.809 of this is so amazing and then wouldn't this 00:18:06.809 --> 00:18:11.450 be so incredible? because otherwise you're you're 00:18:11.450 --> 00:18:15.390 attracting from lack and trying to And you cannot 00:18:15.390 --> 00:18:18.930 attract abundance from lack. So you need more 00:18:18.930 --> 00:18:21.950 abundance from a place of abundance That's number 00:18:21.950 --> 00:18:25.609 one and then number two is is I would say the 00:18:25.609 --> 00:18:28.529 biggest limiting belief that I clear in my practice 00:18:28.529 --> 00:18:31.119 and I see all across the board, that's like the 00:18:31.119 --> 00:18:33.579 biggest block amongst all entrepreneurs, no matter 00:18:33.579 --> 00:18:37.019 if they have $100 million a year or like $5 ,000 00:18:37.019 --> 00:18:41.460 a year, is they believe that they're not enough. 00:18:42.420 --> 00:18:46.480 And they have to, yeah. it's this deep wounding 00:18:46.480 --> 00:18:49.799 of I'm not enough and then it gets projected 00:18:49.799 --> 00:18:52.220 into their money that no matter how much they 00:18:52.220 --> 00:18:55.039 make is never enough and they're trying to attract 00:18:55.039 --> 00:18:56.859 more and more and more thinking that that's going 00:18:56.859 --> 00:18:59.740 to fulfill the need of or the wounding of not 00:18:59.740 --> 00:19:03.660 feeling enough but that's not how you heal of 00:19:03.660 --> 00:19:06.160 wound on the inside we live in an inside out 00:19:06.160 --> 00:19:09.109 world so you have to heal the want to be reflected 00:19:09.109 --> 00:19:11.490 on the external so people that's why people have 00:19:11.490 --> 00:19:13.190 millions a hundred million dollars and they're 00:19:13.190 --> 00:19:15.549 still unsatisfied and depressed is because money 00:19:15.549 --> 00:19:18.690 doesn't solve the deep inner child wounding of 00:19:18.690 --> 00:19:22.240 not feeling enough. The number one thing that 00:19:22.240 --> 00:19:24.579 I help my clients with is actually creating the 00:19:24.579 --> 00:19:26.640 belief that they are enough just as they are. 00:19:26.960 --> 00:19:29.220 They don't need the Ferrari. They don't need 00:19:29.220 --> 00:19:30.779 the da -da -da -da -da -da -da, whatever they're 00:19:30.779 --> 00:19:33.420 desiring to feel enough. And then when they start 00:19:33.420 --> 00:19:35.380 to feel enough, guess what happens? All that 00:19:35.380 --> 00:19:38.220 comes in because we get this universal lesson 00:19:38.220 --> 00:19:39.960 of like, I'm not going to give you this until 00:19:39.960 --> 00:19:43.180 you know that you are capable and you are enough. 00:19:43.500 --> 00:19:45.740 And then when you know it, then you receive it. 00:19:45.960 --> 00:19:48.220 And then the flip people try to attract these 00:19:48.220 --> 00:19:50.200 things out of not feeling enough, not feeling 00:19:50.200 --> 00:19:54.279 deserving, not feeling like like in needing that 00:19:54.279 --> 00:19:56.160 thing to make them feel a certain way. But that's 00:19:56.160 --> 00:19:57.779 not how you manage. That's not how you attract 00:19:57.779 --> 00:20:00.039 like attract like. So if you want to attract 00:20:00.039 --> 00:20:02.220 abundance, you need to feel abundant. If you 00:20:02.220 --> 00:20:04.299 want to attract enough, you need to be enough. 00:20:04.740 --> 00:20:07.619 And that I would the biggest unlock for most 00:20:07.619 --> 00:20:12.799 entrepreneurs. OK, if someone hit their exact 00:20:12.799 --> 00:20:18.559 massive financial goal, What's the first thing 00:20:18.559 --> 00:20:22.940 that they're truly afraid they would lose? And 00:20:22.940 --> 00:20:26.640 how can we use neuroscience to dismantle that 00:20:26.640 --> 00:20:32.000 fear or loss? Their number one fear is that they're 00:20:32.000 --> 00:20:36.539 going to lose it. That's the most interesting 00:20:36.539 --> 00:20:39.700 thing. They are so people. all over the world 00:20:39.700 --> 00:20:42.339 push away they sell sabotage attracting money 00:20:42.339 --> 00:20:44.819 because they're actually so afraid we'll lose 00:20:44.819 --> 00:20:49.019 it and with that once they get the often does 00:20:49.019 --> 00:20:52.079 honestly leave because they've manifested that 00:20:52.079 --> 00:20:53.839 their belief system is that it's going to go 00:20:53.839 --> 00:20:56.660 away so it does and that you see that all the 00:20:56.660 --> 00:20:58.960 time with lottery winners right they like win 00:20:58.960 --> 00:21:01.400 all this money and if you google it the percentages 00:21:01.400 --> 00:21:04.180 are that they all spend it within a year because 00:21:04.180 --> 00:21:07.250 they were not And if we don't want to talk to 00:21:07.250 --> 00:21:11.089 neuroscience, that reality feels unsafe to them 00:21:11.089 --> 00:21:14.230 because that's not your comfort zone. Their comfort 00:21:14.230 --> 00:21:16.650 zone, what their brain believes to be safe is 00:21:16.650 --> 00:21:19.950 poverty, scarcity, lack, fear, right? Then they 00:21:19.950 --> 00:21:22.509 get all this mud and it's like turning a thermostat 00:21:22.509 --> 00:21:25.849 from like 20 degrees, like to 500 degrees. It's 00:21:25.849 --> 00:21:28.259 so uncomfortable. And so the... They're like, 00:21:28.259 --> 00:21:30.039 this is so uncomfortable. I need to cool this 00:21:30.039 --> 00:21:32.420 back down to where I'm comfortable at 20 degrees. 00:21:32.539 --> 00:21:34.579 So they get rid of all the money and they're 00:21:34.579 --> 00:21:36.640 like, oh, OK, I'm finally safe. Now I have nothing 00:21:36.640 --> 00:21:39.619 again, even though consciously they want all 00:21:39.619 --> 00:21:42.240 that. That's their biggest dream. But on a subconscious 00:21:42.240 --> 00:21:45.339 level in their brain, that is a threat. That 00:21:45.339 --> 00:21:48.180 is a perceived threat. And so they push it all 00:21:48.180 --> 00:21:52.130 the way to go back to their comfort zone. What 00:21:52.130 --> 00:21:55.390 I so what I do in those moments is we need to 00:21:55.390 --> 00:21:59.210 make your nervous system feel safe in the expansion 00:21:59.210 --> 00:22:04.329 so often time and Firstly knowing that that is 00:22:04.329 --> 00:22:06.569 like we make it no big deal So whenever I have 00:22:06.569 --> 00:22:08.369 like a massive thing in business, I'll just be 00:22:08.369 --> 00:22:10.410 like this is no big deal like of course This 00:22:10.410 --> 00:22:12.990 is happening. Of course. This is if because if 00:22:12.990 --> 00:22:14.690 I go oh my this is the most insane thing ever 00:22:14.690 --> 00:22:17.029 My nervous system is gonna go. This is a threat. 00:22:17.069 --> 00:22:20.000 I have to push away and we have to pay off around 00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:22.680 this because this is unsafe whereas if it's like 00:22:22.680 --> 00:22:24.380 of course I just made five hundred thousand dollars 00:22:24.380 --> 00:22:27.279 yesterday why not like of course I did then it 00:22:27.279 --> 00:22:30.039 calms it and it becomes normal and you have to 00:22:30.039 --> 00:22:34.259 just make it so normal and so neutral and it 00:22:34.259 --> 00:22:38.079 and it and you don't allow that thing to change 00:22:38.079 --> 00:22:41.400 or adjust your energy because if you do your 00:22:41.400 --> 00:22:43.339 brain goes red alert red alert this is a threat 00:22:43.339 --> 00:22:46.220 and we need to push it away make it normal life 00:22:46.220 --> 00:22:48.500 appears Life continues normally, like this is 00:22:48.500 --> 00:22:51.279 just a normal thing and that's how you hold space 00:22:51.279 --> 00:22:54.460 for it. And then you have to reset your financial 00:22:54.460 --> 00:22:57.339 thermostat so that that is normal, right? So 00:22:57.339 --> 00:23:01.079 it's like, it would be like us, you know, usually 00:23:01.079 --> 00:23:02.980 the temperature is sent to 30 degrees and then 00:23:02.980 --> 00:23:05.859 boom, now it's 500 degrees. We now need to take 00:23:05.859 --> 00:23:07.900 some clothes off. Okay, 500 is ridiculous because 00:23:07.900 --> 00:23:10.480 you'd actually die. But like, but like, how do 00:23:10.480 --> 00:23:13.000 you make that normal? Okay, you put yourself 00:23:13.000 --> 00:23:15.470 in a fridge and then you're fine. Right. It's 00:23:15.470 --> 00:23:18.289 about about regulating yourself to that being 00:23:18.289 --> 00:23:22.289 now normal. Okay. Your new normal. Okay. Right. 00:23:22.410 --> 00:23:25.349 Your new normal. Okay. Is there any time that 00:23:25.349 --> 00:23:29.690 a limiting belief actually a persistent limiting 00:23:29.690 --> 00:23:35.390 belief is actually serving someone? That's such 00:23:35.390 --> 00:23:37.509 a good question. It's always serving someone. 00:23:38.910 --> 00:23:43.509 So that but that's It's an oxymoron. It's not 00:23:43.509 --> 00:23:45.930 actually serving them because they're living 00:23:45.930 --> 00:23:47.670 lack, they're living in doubt, they're living 00:23:47.670 --> 00:23:51.109 in scarcity. But the only reason why you have 00:23:51.109 --> 00:23:53.829 that lemming belief is because your brain believes 00:23:53.829 --> 00:23:56.130 it's serving a purpose. It believes it's protecting 00:23:56.130 --> 00:23:58.809 you. So there's something called an hidden advantage, 00:23:59.309 --> 00:24:03.589 okay? So the only reason why we hold on to lemming 00:24:03.589 --> 00:24:06.990 beliefs is that there's some sort of hidden advantage 00:24:06.990 --> 00:24:10.940 to holding on to that belief. So often times 00:24:10.940 --> 00:24:13.940 if we're talking about money if you are stuck 00:24:13.940 --> 00:24:17.279 in debt Let's say what I see in my practice is 00:24:17.279 --> 00:24:20.420 the reason why the hidden advantage to why people 00:24:20.420 --> 00:24:23.700 stay in debt is Because for most people they 00:24:23.700 --> 00:24:26.779 get bailed out by their parents or they have 00:24:26.779 --> 00:24:30.079 some sort of connection financially to their 00:24:30.079 --> 00:24:33.359 parents so if they were actually living in abundance 00:24:33.359 --> 00:24:35.920 or actually were just Independent and didn't 00:24:35.920 --> 00:24:39.420 and we're then they would lose the connection 00:24:39.420 --> 00:24:41.980 with their parents, which doesn't make any logical 00:24:41.980 --> 00:24:44.779 sense, but to your subconscious, who's basically 00:24:44.779 --> 00:24:47.140 all it's here to do is keep you alive and then 00:24:47.140 --> 00:24:51.599 survive, not thriving. And that survival mechanism 00:24:51.599 --> 00:24:54.140 is like an animalistic brain and it will never 00:24:54.140 --> 00:24:58.119 do anything to potentially get ostracized or 00:24:58.119 --> 00:25:00.920 cut out from the tribe. And so it's this part 00:25:00.920 --> 00:25:03.579 of our brain that's like super tribal that is 00:25:03.579 --> 00:25:06.940 totally outdated for 2025, but it's still here. 00:25:07.099 --> 00:25:09.579 still operating and people don't realize and 00:25:09.579 --> 00:25:12.240 they're like consistently experiencing this debt 00:25:12.240 --> 00:25:14.839 and then they're wondering what's going on or 00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:17.160 they're or they're constantly hitting this certain 00:25:17.160 --> 00:25:19.000 amount of money in business and they can't figure 00:25:19.000 --> 00:25:21.279 out why can't I break through this there's some 00:25:21.279 --> 00:25:23.440 sort of hidden advantage that your brain isn't 00:25:23.440 --> 00:25:25.700 bringing you to the next level because it's something 00:25:25.700 --> 00:25:28.019 about that is scary you're gonna lose someone 00:25:28.019 --> 00:25:30.460 you think subconsciously you're gonna lose someone 00:25:30.460 --> 00:25:34.299 you fear you have this underlying fear And it's 00:25:34.299 --> 00:25:36.059 actually, there's a hidden advantage that's protecting 00:25:36.059 --> 00:25:38.700 you from not going there because they think that 00:25:38.700 --> 00:25:40.920 that part, like subconsciously, that's super 00:25:40.920 --> 00:25:43.160 scary, but it's actually logically obviously 00:25:43.160 --> 00:25:49.740 not. But your brain doesn't know that. OK. OK, 00:25:49.819 --> 00:25:54.339 I got it. Yeah. I think that we do similar work. 00:25:54.819 --> 00:25:58.220 Mine's more around trauma and that kind of thing. 00:25:58.299 --> 00:26:01.319 And we talk about the unconscious anchor, right? 00:26:01.710 --> 00:26:06.549 What is the lowest vibration or vibrational thing 00:26:06.549 --> 00:26:10.029 that an entrepreneur repeatedly does that gives 00:26:10.029 --> 00:26:16.569 them an unconscious anchor? I mean, I think that 00:26:16.569 --> 00:26:22.059 they are stuck in fear. OK, OK. fear of not being 00:26:22.059 --> 00:26:23.920 good enough, fear of they're not being enough, 00:26:24.019 --> 00:26:28.940 fear of being seen, fear of receiving, fear of 00:26:28.940 --> 00:26:31.420 judgment, fear of humiliation, fear of being 00:26:31.420 --> 00:26:34.460 abandoned, fear of being betrayed, all these 00:26:34.460 --> 00:26:37.480 fears, keeping them completely stuck. And again, 00:26:37.619 --> 00:26:39.799 they don't know, like they don't know. And that's 00:26:39.799 --> 00:26:41.759 why so many guys come to me, like I've tried 00:26:41.759 --> 00:26:44.960 every Instagram, you know, course, I've tried 00:26:44.960 --> 00:26:47.099 all these things, I can't show up online. I'm 00:26:47.099 --> 00:26:48.920 like, yeah, it's because you have this deep... 00:26:48.569 --> 00:26:51.210 deep underlying fear of being seen. So you can 00:26:51.210 --> 00:26:53.589 take all the interim courses you want, but you 00:26:53.589 --> 00:26:55.690 will always go back to your comfort zone, which 00:26:55.690 --> 00:26:57.890 is you have this deep fear of being seen, but 00:26:57.890 --> 00:26:59.490 they can't see it because it's in the subconscious 00:26:59.490 --> 00:27:04.089 mind. And they know it's kind of directly, they 00:27:04.089 --> 00:27:06.490 don't know it's kind of directly to their past, 00:27:06.589 --> 00:27:10.289 like maybe they were abandoned, you know, and 00:27:10.289 --> 00:27:13.289 that's, of course, that's fear, but that abandonment 00:27:13.289 --> 00:27:15.849 is that connection, that feeling of abandonment 00:27:15.849 --> 00:27:18.720 is that connection to that. that past issue. 00:27:19.299 --> 00:27:23.539 So yeah, so they're stuck moving around. That's 00:27:23.539 --> 00:27:26.640 really good. Is there something that one last 00:27:26.640 --> 00:27:29.140 thing that you can say to an entrepreneur that's 00:27:29.140 --> 00:27:31.680 out there that's really struggling? Is there 00:27:31.680 --> 00:27:34.019 one thing that you can say to them that encouraged 00:27:34.019 --> 00:27:37.799 them to go in a direction that they need to? 00:27:38.380 --> 00:27:43.059 Yes. I can guarantee whoever's listening to this, 00:27:43.400 --> 00:27:46.569 you will be successful. I can promise you and 00:27:46.569 --> 00:27:48.970 guarantee that you will be successful if you 00:27:48.970 --> 00:27:51.269 do just two things, just two things. You don't 00:27:51.269 --> 00:27:54.029 have to be smarter than anyone else. You don't 00:27:54.029 --> 00:27:55.849 have to be more qualified than anyone else. You 00:27:55.849 --> 00:27:58.109 don't have to come from money. You don't have 00:27:58.109 --> 00:28:00.450 nothing. I just need you to have these two things. 00:28:00.750 --> 00:28:04.150 Number one is that you never give up. No matter 00:28:04.150 --> 00:28:06.829 what happens, no matter what anyone says, no 00:28:06.829 --> 00:28:11.269 matter what's going on in reality, you just never 00:28:11.269 --> 00:28:14.980 give up. And number two, you have to believe 00:28:14.980 --> 00:28:18.960 it's possible if you have those two things I 00:28:18.960 --> 00:28:22.180 can promise you and I can guarantee you that 00:28:22.180 --> 00:28:24.339 you will be successful if you just never give 00:28:24.339 --> 00:28:27.180 up and that you you believe it's possible because 00:28:27.180 --> 00:28:30.279 I would say all the reason why all businesses 00:28:30.279 --> 00:28:32.000 most businesses fails because people just give 00:28:32.000 --> 00:28:34.220 up they're like wait I've been doing this for 00:28:34.220 --> 00:28:35.740 five minutes it's not working so I'm just gonna 00:28:35.740 --> 00:28:40.819 give up And this expectation that's gonna happen, 00:28:41.079 --> 00:28:43.059 because we see on Instagram, oh my gosh, so -and 00:28:43.059 --> 00:28:45.420 -so got, you know, you don't see all this stuff 00:28:45.420 --> 00:28:47.099 and everything that happened before that moment. 00:28:48.980 --> 00:28:53.140 So if you just never give up and you believe 00:28:53.140 --> 00:28:55.680 that it's possible, I promise you that you'll 00:28:55.680 --> 00:28:59.240 be successful. That's awesome. Well, you heard 00:28:59.240 --> 00:29:02.160 an audience never give up and believe that it 00:29:02.160 --> 00:29:05.700 can be done. Those questions are pure fuel, but 00:29:05.700 --> 00:29:09.119 the answers are purely transformational. Thank 00:29:09.119 --> 00:29:12.400 you for the incredible insight, Marlee. For our 00:29:12.400 --> 00:29:14.960 listeners who are ready to take those answers 00:29:14.960 --> 00:29:19.880 and finally reprogram your consciousness with 00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:24.950 ease, where can we find your app? So my app is 00:29:24.950 --> 00:29:27.390 called The Higher Self App. You can find it on 00:29:27.390 --> 00:29:29.589 the App Store, Google Play Store, and you can 00:29:29.589 --> 00:29:33.690 find me anywhere at Marley Rose Harris. 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