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Hello everyone and welcome to this episode, the

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LND Books One, part two of the Women Talking

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About Learning podcast. I'm Andrew Jacobs. This

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is the second part of this podcast. If you haven't

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listened to part one, please do go back and listen

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to the previous episode. In this part, our guests

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Hannah, Pam, Beth and Emily discuss the difficulties

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and doubts they encountered when writing and

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also share their book recommendations for us

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to read. So settle back, grab a drink and enjoy.

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I know Hannah's talked a lot about her book writing

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process, especially the second one, I think,

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right, Hannah on LinkedIn? Yeah, very similar

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to you, Emily. I decided I was in a program and

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a mentor said that you should spend as much time

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promoting your book as writing your book. And

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I thought, oh, OK, so you should. Post on LinkedIn

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every week. So so I did that starting with my

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first book now I wasn't as brave as you and I

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didn't do videos but but every Friday and I'm

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still doing it so it's been a couple years now

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my first book and my second book and anyways

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yeah posted every Friday some kind of update

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about my book so here's three covers which do

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you like best or I'm struggling you said earlier

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that you struggled with the title so here's you

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know four title options what combinations are

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best and or even just kind of content or IP that

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I was thinking through and that kind of thing

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so yeah I think I agree, Emily, with everything

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you said, that the accountability, that writing

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in public gives you the opportunity to get feedback

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on what you're doing. And it means that, yeah,

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when it's out in the world, it's not in a vacuum,

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and people know about it, and there's some excitement

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there, which feels good, because I think, you

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know, as women in this virtual space here, it's

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like having a baby, right? Like you work so hard

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on writing this, and then when it finally comes

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out, you're like, I don't know what it's actually

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going to look like. But then you want to be excited.

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about it and so I think having that accountability

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and that regular cadence, Emily, I agree, is

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really helpful for that. I'm using the same process

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now and trying to post on LinkedIn every week

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or every two weeks because I thought the same

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thing that it would keep me accountable and actually

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get to the finish line even though I could do

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it because I did it before and this is book number

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two but in some ways I think I'm doing it also

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to help other people and maybe other women particularly

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out there know that it's not all easy to write

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a book. There's times where I'm doubting myself

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and questioning whether I know anything. And

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I do know, and I have a lot of ego actually healthy

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about doing this work and I've got a company

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and all the things, right? But I think maybe

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just the older I get, the more I realize I don't

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know as well, that whole thing. And so I just

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want to show. both sides of, yeah, I'm really

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proud of what I'm doing and as I'm doing it,

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but also that it's hard and we can do hard things

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and we can get over that and we can tell the

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real story of what it means to write behind the

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scenes. It's hard work. I don't know. Pam, have

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you thought that about just showing kind of all

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the things about the writing process? Yeah, it

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is. It is hard work. And I agree with you completely.

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But we also know, don't we, that most books,

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most business books are written by men. And there

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are very few business books written by women.

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And so I completely agree that I that it's important

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for us to show the journey and show that it's

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possible and show that we that we can make stuff

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up to, you know, it doesn't, I think similar

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to you, Beth, in the beginning of my writing

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journey, I felt like I had to find science for

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everything, because it wasn't enough that I'd

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experienced it. And now, you know, I'm just more

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like, well, I know this works. And Emily, you

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mentioned at the beginning of the conversation

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about the different platforms, you know, we can

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listen to books now we can have short form things.

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Has anyone started experimenting on TikTok at

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all? Because I'm only very early into my book

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talk TikTok journey. And I have to say I'm loving

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it okay I'm not very good at producing the video

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so I have a social media producer who is amazing

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her name is Holly and she's excellent but what

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what it's helped me to do is just access that

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short form learning. Cause what's driving me

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is not book sales. Uh, you know, it's not, not

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necessarily being, uh, you know, a famous author.

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Absolutely. But what's driving me is I really

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believe in this stuff and I know I can help other

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people to do their jobs better. I know I can.

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And so it's been really interesting putting those

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into one minute or two minute long videos, because

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there's so many snippets, which are a little

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story or a little piece of advice or when something

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went wrong. And I'm just loving it. It's given

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me such energy. So I'm trying to do not so much

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LinkedIn posts, but I'm What I do then post them

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on LinkedIn in a separate space, but I'm trying

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to do at least one or two TikToks a week is my

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thing, and I'm enjoying it. Pam, you are a brave

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soul. I do short videos on LinkedIn and I have

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for a while, but I have not ventured into TikTok.

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And I guess the thought that's bubbling to the

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surface for me listening to you is that if we...

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broaden our definition of book and if we recognize

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we're all authors, we can be authors in different

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formats. So we can author newsletters, we can

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author books, we can author podcasts, we can

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author TikTok videos. It's all about sharing

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our thoughts and ideas with the world and how

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we envision that supporting kind of learning

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and women. So kudos to you, Pam. I haven't taken

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that leap myself. I think you'd find it easy

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though, Hannah, because you've got so many stories.

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And that's what I rely on. And I don't always

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know. Like sometimes, some weeks, I just think,

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I've no idea. And then I think, I'm not going

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to post anything. There's no point in forcing

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it. But then sometimes I think, oh, I must tell

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that story. And so, and I feel like that's the

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person, and I've had to become much more authentic,

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not worry about making a mistake. You know, there's

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lots of learning that I've had to do about it,

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but. I mean, apart from the fact that I'm not

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actually editing my own TikToks, the actual process

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of it has been really, and I'm sure you'd be

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all would be brilliant at it if you're not doing

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it already. I like this point about being authentic,

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Pam, because I think when I was doing the video,

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I'm also not doing the book talk. I mean, very,

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very impressive. But this point about authenticity

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is something that can be a real challenge, but

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it's also a space where we should be ambassadors

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because when especially when I first started

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doing it, you know, I would try and take the

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video loads and loads of times thinking I don't

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look good. People are going to look at me and

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they're going to think I wouldn't buy a book

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from her. I wouldn't learn something or thinking

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I didn't do exactly perfect or I stumbled or

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any of these kinds of things and then at one

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point I thought enough you know part of doing

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this is showing that it's okay to create content

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and just put it out there because if you're not

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doing it other people are and I think it's it's

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really hard for women in particular not to self

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censor and self edit and think that things need

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to be perfect and therefore not put it out there

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where what we need is more content from women

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showing it's okay to be authentic and do your

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first take and send it out there because you

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have something to share with people. So yeah,

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I think it's massively, massively important.

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100%. I have a question, Emily, based on what

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you said there. So if you have to, Beth, you're

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already writing your next book. So maybe, I don't

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know if you would answer this differently or...

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cite the book that you've already started. But

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for each of us, if we think about, if we wrote

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another book, what's the next book in us? And

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what's the book that's a little bit scary to

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write? Like if we're going to be authentic and

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true to who we are, what's the book that we could

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write that would maybe push us a little bit into

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a space that feels a bit unfamiliar? Do you have

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another book in you, each of you? Pam, you're

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nodding your head. What's yours? I'm laughing

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because my... Every time I write the books, I

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say, I'm not going to do that again. Cause it's

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so hard, right? Anyway, I do have a, I'll, I'll,

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I'll relax and then I'll, I have another book

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in me, which is probably how to run a female

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centric business or from a female perspective.

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I need a better name than that because like you.

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Beth, like, I think probably like all of us,

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we have our own businesses. And yes, so I feel

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like I've got some things to say about that,

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but actually laughing because I'm, I, as a result

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of all of this writing journey, and I wasn't

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always a writer, Emily, like you, I did a part

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-time creative writing degree and a master's

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degree. And I'm now writing a corporate murder

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mystery. um which is also well basically all

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of the trauma in a in a fictional form nice and

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so that's my that's you know that's also my next

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book How about you guys? I have another book

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idea. I was going to write it second and I started

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and did a solo writing retreat on it and then

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I decided it was going to be a little bit too

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much work and I'm going to do this one first

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and then return to the other idea. But the other

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idea is to go and interview people that work

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in other fields where they also create an experience

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for usually a group. you know musicians or auctioneers

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or clowns or you know creative folk like that

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and then just say how do you create that experience

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and what do you do in your field to do that and

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then what can we take from that to apply back

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to the world of facilitation. So that's my next

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idea and I've got a whole Scrivener file set

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up to you know got all sorts of stuff in there

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and it just kind of parked and waiting and who

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knows when I'll return but gotta finish this

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one first. That sounds amazing. I love that book,

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that book idea, because everything we do is creating

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immersive experiences. Yeah. So get all of that

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inspiration. What a wonderful idea, Beth. Well,

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I mean, in a micro scale, I started to interview

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people and I interviewed a humanitarian clown

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and I put it up on my podcast. So it's there

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if anyone wants to listen to it. just to listen

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to this man and how he's in Quebec, in Canada,

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and he goes into long -term care facilities and

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as a humanitarian, or as a therapeutic clown

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in that context, he's also a humanitarian clown,

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and to listen to the skills that he has been

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taught and brings, you know, in the clowning

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experience, which is not about laughter, ha ha,

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right? It's more about connecting with people.

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Fascinating, fascinating to just hear it and

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think, well, what can we learn from that about

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connecting even without words or listening to

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the person or using body language or it's just

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like right you can tell i'm all excited you know

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because it's just fascinating to to learn from

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other fields and maybe Emily i'll turn it back

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to you because you said you were coming from

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the world of innovation and that's that's where

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it all comes from right we could be more innovative

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when we look at other fields and bring it back

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to what we know in ours right definitely call

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me there Yeah, definitely. I mean, it sounds

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like an amazing book. One thing that I love to

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do outside of work is amateur musical theatre.

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So I've done many, many shows. And yeah, I see

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it as being also an act of facilitation. This

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is one of the things that I talk about in the

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book that I think something that drew me to facilitation

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in the first place was that similar feeling of

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creating an environment where people are happy

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and they feel drawn into something that really

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speaks to them, you know. But on the book question,

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so two more thoughts. I mean, according to Hannah's

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categorisation of what's the one you're thinking

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about and what would be the scary option, I have

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something that's come to mind for both. So on

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the first one, the what comes next, I have a

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phrase that I've been turning over in my mind

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for ages of workshopify your expertise. In my

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business, I do quite a lot of one -to -one work.

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Coming from a place where I was doing mostly

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corporate training, it's been a real joy to work

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with people one -on -one. And a lot of the people

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I work with are people who are coming from a

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field of expertise. Let's say it's organizational

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culture or it might be branding, for example,

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and they haven't done it before, but now as self

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-employed people, they want to start running

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workshops and trainings for the first times for

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their clients and they want to understand how

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to workshopify their expertise and I'm helping

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take them through that process so that's kind

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of generating its own thing that I want to write

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about. The scary option would be something I

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see coming up time and time again talking to

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other self -employed facilitators which is people

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always say, I hate sales and I can't do sales.

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And I really believe that sales is an act of

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facilitation. What puts me off from writing that

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book is, although I've done plenty of sales in

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my time, I just don't feel like I'm the expert

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enough to write the book. That's me just being

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open and vulnerable about how that topic feels

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to me, which is why it would be the scary choice.

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But I think it's something that is... needed

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and necessary within the community that we all

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exist in. I honestly do. And Emily, when, not

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if, when you write that book, what a beautiful

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story that could come out about your own fear

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about, I'm not an expert, I can't write about

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this, but... but yes, I can and look at the confidence

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and what I can share with you. So you could take

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your own lived experience as a way of telling

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that story and sharing with others who maybe

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are feeling a little bit like, ooh, I can't do

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this. So it'd be a nice path forward, I think.

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It'd be beautiful. I agree. I think from a...

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From a metacognitive perspective, like when we

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teach, we have to tell our students or our learners

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what was difficult for us when we were learning

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the thing or doing the thing. And just, I think

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that's the reason why you have to write that

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book, Emily, and tell the full story about, you

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know, like the doubt, right? I've talked a lot

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about doubt and just making mistakes and all

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that kind of stuff. Every time I do a solo episode

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of my podcast, I'm trying to mine my experience

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and tell the hard things, right? I'm not on TikTok,

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but that's what I use the podcast for in some

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respects, right? And just we have to tell each

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other the full story and we have to write those

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books. So if people are out there listening thinking

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they can't do this, like get that out of your

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head right now, you know, because you can, we

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all can. But Hannah, you didn't answer your own

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question, I don't think. What's your next book?

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You're right, you're right. Matthew caught me.

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So I think, I feel like... AI is all around us

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and it's so disruptive, depending on your perspective,

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it's so disruptive where there's so much opportunity.

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And I think there's something there. So it's

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both a possible next book and something I'm afraid

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to write. Maybe Emily from the same perspective

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that I don't feel like I'm an AI expert. I'm

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dipping my toe into it and I'm partnering with

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a colleague who is. So looking at What's learning

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and development, or even HR, if you want to think

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more broadly, what's their role in supporting

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organizations when they're implementing or using

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AI so that it can be done successfully? So in

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a learning context, how do you get your employees

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ready? for this so that they're going to be able

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to embrace it and see the innovation in it and

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not the fear in it maybe. And so it's just a

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really small kernel. But like you, Pam, every

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time I read it, I'm like, I'm not writing another

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book. But it sits there at the back of your head

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churning, right? So yeah, I think there's something

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there that I'm curious about anyways that I want

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to scratch the surface a little bit on. So yeah.

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But back to the topic, what you're doing there

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as the author is facilitating it, aren't you?

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or Emily, you'd be facilitating that topic by

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bringing it out by not feeling like you have

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to be the one who's got all the answers. Yeah,

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for sure. And seeing it again as that act of

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refining your own process, I suppose, because

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going back to the way that I wrote the first

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book, I know that writing that book about sales

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as an act of facilitation would make me a far

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better salesperson, you know, it would force

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me to codify, to formalize, to learn from others,

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to research. And I'm sure I would come out far

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stronger from the process. So I think I'm going

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to do it. I feel inspired. And I'd love to read

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your book, Hannah, and yours, Beth. They sound

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amazing. I think too, and sorry, Emily and Pam,

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I can't remember which one of you said this,

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but was talking about, you know, most business

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books are written by men. And so I think if if

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I think of women and us as a group of women saying,

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what's the book that we're maybe a little bit

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afraid to write? If people are listening and

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wondering, I'm a woman, maybe I can or can't

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write a book. And to maybe tip them over the

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edge a little bit. I think there's, you know,

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I know in my book writing journey, more my second

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than my first, but I had many moments of I'm

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just, I have nothing new to say. This has all

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been written before. Why is what I'm saying anything

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special? And, you know, who's going to want to

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read? There's, there's gobs of leadership books

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on the shelves. And so, so I think the message

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is, is when you write a book, yeah, sure, it's

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on leadership or, you know, facilitating workshops

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or, or whatever innovation or, or, you know,

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teams. What we're each bringing to it is our

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perspective. And so because so many books are

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written by men, I think that we need to have

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more women's perspectives on all of these topics.

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So I guess I, yeah, I just, I think that in that

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journey there's going to be a lot of self -doubt

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and then just turn off the social media and go

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for a walk and kind of reground yourself and

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yeah, what I have to say is important and there

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aren't a lot of other women maybe saying this

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and I want to make sure my message is shared.

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Yeah, I think that's really important and I'm

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noticing, I don't know if it's because I'm five

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years older and... you know perimenopause and

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all that but um I'm more I'm less confident now

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I think writing this second book that I am the

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first I don't know Pam you you seem to have figured

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it out the other way around right but I'm I'm

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questioning myself more thinking well what am

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I talking about do I know what the hell I'm talking

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about is any doesn't everyone already know this

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and then I keep having to say No, they don't

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already know this because I work with clients

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all the time who don't know. Right. And we know

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are we're we're doing something. We're putting

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something out in the world that people don't

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know and they don't have. So we need to do it.

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But I'm really I wouldn't say I'm struggling,

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but I'm noticing it a lot more that little imposter

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syndrome on my shoulder trying to knock me off.

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Right. Pam, you're right in there. Oh, my goodness.

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I'm so glad you said that. No, I'm so glad you

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said that. Yes, I'm more. confident, maybe with

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what I know, but my confidence as a person is

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worse and worse and worse every year. And this

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is, you know, having done it for a long time.

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So you'd think it would be in the other direction.

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So yeah, I, I completely agree with you. And

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so it's something about our awareness becomes

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so much bigger and you realize how much you don't

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know. But to your point, Beth, I, there are some

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re it's kind of why I'm doing the TikToks. There's

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some really simple fun fundamental. And I don't

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mean simple as in stupid, like there are some

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really simple, fundamental, important essences

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that actually people don't know and they haven't

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been empowered with. So I'm with you on both

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counts. How about you, Hannah? Yeah, like you,

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Beth, my second book I found much more challenging

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to write, which is, and you said that in your

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first book you interviewed a whole bunch of people

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to kind of validate. That was the other reason

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behind me interviewing leaders was to validate.

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what I thought maybe I should be saying. And

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yeah, I had to write it. It was harder to write,

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so I had to write it. literally with a pencil

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and paper. I ended up last summer going to a

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bunch of cottages in Northern Ontario, which

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was lovely. And I'd sit at, we call them Muskoka

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chairs, and in the States I think they call them

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Adirondack chairs, but you lean back and they

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have these big armrests. So I would have my notebook

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and pencil on one armrest and my eraser on the

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other armrest. And I had to do that. Yeah, it

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was a much more difficult book to write. I think

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it's because I was pushing myself. And I think,

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Beth, maybe like you said, yours is more of a

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memoir. And so that's more reflective and more

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personal, which is maybe pushing yourself. And

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so, Pam, you say you have more experience, but

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each year you maybe feel a little bit less confident.

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I'm assuming that around this table, we all see

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ourselves as lifelong learners. And so when you...

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wear that lens or have that hat, you're always

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pushing yourself and pushing yourself then means

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there's discomfort with it. So, Emily, I don't

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know. I mean, you worked in the innovation space

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and that's a lot of pushing yourself to think

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differently and do stuff differently. So I don't

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know. I don't know if you have a perspective

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on that. Yeah, I feel like when you come from

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that background, you feel pressure all the time

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to throw yourself in the deep end and also to

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practice what you preach. I taught people innovation

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skills for years. So if I don't start with the

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problem and the customer perspective and go through

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all of that kind of process, I know I'm doing

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it wrong and I call myself up on it. But I was

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reflecting on what you all were saying about

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having less confidence the second time around

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and thinking about what that might mean for me

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hypothetically if I do come back and write something

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else, because obviously I've only written the

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one thing, right? I guess what my anxiety would

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be is that the first book journey started so

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organically that I didn't have to worry about

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self -censorship because I was just writing for

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myself. I wasn't writing thinking, oh is this

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good enough for someone else to read it? You

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know, that came later and part of me wonders

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coming back to it and trying to write something

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again if I would be able to be as uninhibited

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as I felt the first time it might be harder for

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me to get over that first hurdle because I may

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start writing and thinking that's not good enough

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whereas last time I didn't have that at all you

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know because it started from that place of oh

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well this is just this is just notes for me anyway

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so it'll be interesting to see if that if that

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sort of plays out but I'm aware we've talked

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a lot about our own books one question I wanted

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to ask you all is what book you would recommend,

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I suppose, in the L &D space that everybody reads,

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taking aside what we've written, obviously. Well,

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I interviewed someone on my podcast, Dr. Suzanne

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Wertheim, and she's in the States, and she wrote

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a book called The Inclusive Language Field Guide.

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I hope that's the right title because I'm going

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from memory, but it was a great book. We're all

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having to think about language. We're all having

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to think about language all the time now and

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inclusion of course, right? DEIA and she just

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it's a really accessible book for all of us to

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read and just she was fabulous to talk to just

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really knows her stuff and Yeah, great read inclusive

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language people guide. What about others? I'm

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going to recommend a book that I just found so

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brilliant, which is, and it's not necessarily

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in the L &D space, but it absolutely is in the

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space of our work and our lives. And it's Oliver

00:24:01.029 --> 00:24:05.210
Berkman, Meditations for Mortals. So he's a journalist

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who has made, he's done a lot of research around

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efficiency and time management, but what that's

00:24:11.670 --> 00:24:14.799
turned into is a real reflection on how we use

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our time and our lives and how we value each

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other's connection. And it's just groundbreaking

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from it was groundbreaking for me to read because

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it was all about how to prioritize what's right

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and what's good. And one of the key messages

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is there's never enough time. So think carefully

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about how you spend your time. It's a wonderful

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book. Emily, I have to The first one actually

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isn't out quite yet. It's a colleague of mine

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and he's a man, so I feel like I need to have

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a second book by a woman to compliment that.

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But a friend and colleague of mine, Matt Cross,

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wrote the Subtle Shifts. and it's coming out

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I think later this year. So it's leadership and

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it's about, instead of grandiose gestures, what

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are the small things that leaders can do to shift

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their own behavior and their team's behavior

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and things like that. And I've read snippets

00:25:04.960 --> 00:25:07.559
of it as Matt was writing it, so I'm pretty excited

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to read it when it comes out. The other one,

00:25:10.819 --> 00:25:13.960
and we were talking about when we tell stories

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and how it surfaces emotions and energizes people.

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So then from a learning perspective, perspective,

00:25:20.190 --> 00:25:23.049
they retain it. So the other book is The Power

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of Story by a friend and colleague, Lisa Gerber.

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And so again, it's not in the learning and development

00:25:28.589 --> 00:25:30.589
space, but I think there's a lot of opportunity

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to take her messages and bring them into learning

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and development and recognizing, yeah, the power

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of story in terms of motivating people or helping

00:25:40.029 --> 00:25:43.809
people learn or remember. And yeah, lots of different

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applications, I suppose. How about you, Emily?

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Yeah, you're going to answer your own question?

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Yeah, you introduce these topics and then you

00:25:52.049 --> 00:25:53.950
hear it go round and you think, oh no, someone's

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going to ask me to answer that as well. And I

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think what comes to mind for me is The Culture

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Map by Erin Myers. I don't know if any of you

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have read that, but I have done a lot of work

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with global organizations where you're facilitating

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experiences for people coming from all sorts

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of different places. And reading that book for

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me was a real sort of kick yourself moment like

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oh man I wish I'd read this long before because

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when it comes to working across different cultures

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that's massive for creating inclusive engaging

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experiences for everyone you know and I feel

00:26:32.930 --> 00:26:36.809
like the book does that in a really good way

00:26:36.809 --> 00:26:40.349
thinking about these Each chapter is focused

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on a different element. So perception of time,

00:26:43.609 --> 00:26:45.990
for example, is one of them. Hierarchy is another

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one of them. And all of those come into creating

00:26:49.289 --> 00:26:53.089
good experiences. And so I always recommend that

00:26:53.089 --> 00:26:57.450
book. I love it. I think it's a really timely

00:26:57.450 --> 00:26:59.950
and necessary read for so many people when we

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do work in these organizations that are so decentralized

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and where We're in the fortunate position now

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that we get to work with people from all across

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the world. It's amazing. But we also need to

00:27:12.589 --> 00:27:15.509
think very actively about how to do that effectively.

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And I think that book's a great starting point

00:27:17.549 --> 00:27:21.069
for that sort of thing. This has been a lovely

00:27:21.069 --> 00:27:25.490
conversation. And I'm just wondering if anybody

00:27:25.490 --> 00:27:29.210
has any kind of... Last comments or last thoughts

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any thread that was or a seed that was planted

00:27:32.109 --> 00:27:34.309
earlier that you want to come back to to kind

00:27:34.309 --> 00:27:39.769
of as we wrap up maybe I'm quite struck by The

00:27:39.769 --> 00:27:42.450
points that were made in the later part of the

00:27:42.450 --> 00:27:44.930
conversation about the confidence to have an

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opinion the confidence to learn while writing

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or maybe write while learning And just crystallizing

00:27:52.210 --> 00:27:54.730
some of those thoughts that you all said about

00:27:55.569 --> 00:27:58.509
perhaps going on a journey to write a book, not

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because you're an expert, but to become an expert.

00:28:00.650 --> 00:28:03.250
I think that's really a fantastic thought. Thank

00:28:03.250 --> 00:28:05.589
you for that. It's really given me a little bit

00:28:05.589 --> 00:28:07.930
of a mindset shift. There's been so many good

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points. I think maybe it was you, Hannah, that

00:28:11.150 --> 00:28:14.470
said we could consider ourselves authors if we're

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authoring all sorts of different types of materials,

00:28:16.829 --> 00:28:18.569
right? It doesn't have to be just, you know,

00:28:18.910 --> 00:28:21.670
a book of 300 pages or whatever it is. It can

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be TikToks. It could be podcasts. It can be...

00:28:24.809 --> 00:28:28.970
anything that is accessible to people and whatever

00:28:28.970 --> 00:28:32.769
works for them. It can be, you know, well, visual.

00:28:33.069 --> 00:28:35.410
Emily, you talked about visuals. So, you know,

00:28:35.529 --> 00:28:38.349
it's accessible to be an author in our field

00:28:38.349 --> 00:28:42.250
in whatever way works for us. So I appreciated

00:28:42.250 --> 00:28:46.730
that. Thank you. Yeah, I can add something that

00:28:46.730 --> 00:28:48.789
I hope we're all feeling, which is a call to

00:28:48.789 --> 00:28:52.660
action. encouraging others if you are listening

00:28:52.660 --> 00:28:54.539
to this because you've thought, well, I'm in

00:28:54.539 --> 00:28:57.799
L &D and maybe I've got a book in me. Just go

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ahead and start it. Take those first steps. Confidence

00:29:03.960 --> 00:29:07.519
is a doing thing. It's not something that we

00:29:07.519 --> 00:29:10.000
can pick up one day off the shelf and say, yes,

00:29:10.000 --> 00:29:12.259
I have confidence to do this. We build it by

00:29:12.259 --> 00:29:16.019
repeated action. So it's taking those first steps.

00:29:16.909 --> 00:29:19.029
And hopefully I speak to everyone when I say

00:29:19.029 --> 00:29:21.690
if you are writing something and you want someone

00:29:21.690 --> 00:29:24.170
to talk to who's been through it, reach out.

00:29:24.910 --> 00:29:27.309
Everyone's nodding. I'm so glad. Imagine if you

00:29:27.309 --> 00:29:28.930
will start shaking your heads at this point.

00:29:29.829 --> 00:29:32.549
But yeah, absolutely. Go about it and remember

00:29:32.549 --> 00:29:35.990
that there's a community here to support you.

00:29:37.230 --> 00:29:38.730
How about you, Hannah? Oh, I knew you were going

00:29:38.730 --> 00:29:40.650
to come back to me and I was thinking that maybe

00:29:40.650 --> 00:29:42.829
me asking the question was going to be sufficient.

00:29:46.000 --> 00:29:48.799
Look at how we're all facilitators on this call,

00:29:49.099 --> 00:29:53.220
authors and facilitators. If I had an overall

00:29:53.220 --> 00:29:55.740
comment, I think I would just go back, Pam, to

00:29:55.740 --> 00:29:57.599
what you said at the beginning. You said, you

00:29:57.599 --> 00:29:59.220
know, I bought all your books and you were going

00:29:59.220 --> 00:30:02.589
through it and so just the... The overlap and

00:30:02.589 --> 00:30:04.849
the synergy and the connection of this conversation

00:30:04.849 --> 00:30:07.269
I think has been beautiful. And I knew Beth at

00:30:07.269 --> 00:30:09.210
the beginning, but now I feel like I know Emily,

00:30:09.289 --> 00:30:14.109
you and Pam as well. And so grateful to have

00:30:14.109 --> 00:30:18.250
you in my network as well. And yeah, Emily, if

00:30:18.250 --> 00:30:20.690
there are listeners who want to reach out to

00:30:20.690 --> 00:30:24.130
consider us or me in your network of somebody

00:30:24.130 --> 00:30:26.509
who you can talk to. So yeah, lovely spending

00:30:26.509 --> 00:30:28.589
this time with you. It has been lovely. Thank

00:30:28.589 --> 00:30:32.170
you. Thank you. I agree. Thanks so much. This

00:30:32.170 --> 00:30:34.210
was such a fantastic recording to be involved

00:30:34.210 --> 00:30:36.490
in and we hope these episodes will have a long

00:30:36.490 --> 00:30:39.349
tale as people come back to them. We're incredibly

00:30:39.349 --> 00:30:41.690
lucky to have Hannah, Pam, Beth and Emily sharing

00:30:41.690 --> 00:30:43.930
their knowledge in writing books within learning

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and development. Please do let us know what stood

00:30:46.769 --> 00:30:50.410
out to you. A massive thank you to them for their

00:30:50.410 --> 00:30:52.750
time and you'll find all their details along

00:30:52.750 --> 00:30:54.569
with links to the subjects they spoke about in

00:30:54.569 --> 00:30:58.210
the show notes. We're back in a couple of weeks

00:30:58.210 --> 00:31:02.539
and next time it's The Data One. As always, thanks

00:31:02.539 --> 00:31:04.480
for listening and we'll see you again soon.
