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Usually when we talk about a historical legacy,

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there's this expectation of precision, like engineering.

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Right, like it's a math problem. Exactly. You

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break your arm, the x -ray shows that jagged

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white line, and the doctor just points and says,

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there it is. Hero or villain, it's clean, it's

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binary, and honestly, it's comforting. We like

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things to be visible and easily categorized.

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We really do. But then you step into the world

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of Simone de Beauvoir and suddenly that x -ray

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machine is just totally broken. We're looking

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at a biographical landscape that is frustratingly

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murky. Yeah, murky is putting it mildly. I mean,

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imagine writing a book that fundamentally changes

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how the world views gender, yet living a personal

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life so controversial it involved, well, everything

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from a two -year lease on a relationship to having

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your teaching license revoked to legally adopting

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your adult lover. That's a lot to unpack. It

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is. So today we are taking a deep dive into the

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life, the philosophy, and the intense controversies

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of Simone de Beauvoir. Using excerpts from her

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extensive Wikipedia biography, our mission is

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to help you, the listener, look past the idealized

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simplified image of a feminist icon. because

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the reality is so much more complicated. Exactly.

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We want to understand the profoundly complex,

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brilliant, and deeply flawed human being whose

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ideas revolutionized modern gender theory. And

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we want to see how her radical philosophies on

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freedom were mirrored and sometimes horrifically

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compromised by her real world choices. To understand

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how Beauvoir developed theories that completely

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blew up societal norms, I mean, we really have

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to start by looking at the incredibly rigid box

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she was born into. early 1900s Paris box. Right.

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The year is 1908 in the 6th arrondissement of

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Paris. She is born into a bourgeois family and

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her childhood home was essentially a philosophical

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battleground. She experienced a massive intellectual

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clash right at the dinner table. Yeah. The sources

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talk about her parents being total opposites.

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Completely. On one side you have her mother,

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Francoise. She was a wealthy banker's daughter

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and a very devout, rigid Catholic. And then on

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the other side is her father, Georges, a lawyer

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who championed individualism and what Beauvoir

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called pagan ethical standards. Talk about cognitive

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dissonance for a kid. I mean her father used

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to boast to people and the sources quote him

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directly on this. He'd say, Simone has a man's

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brain. She thinks like a man. She is a man. Which

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is just, wow. Right, it's like being handed the

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blueprint to a fortress by the very architect

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you're planning to overthrow. It's this insult

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wrapped in a compliment that accidentally gave

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her the intellectual armor to, you know, eventually

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tear down the exact same patriarchy her father

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represented. And Beauvoir herself recognized

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that friction. In her book, Memoirs of a Dutiful

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Daughter, she actually called this clash between

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her mother's rigid morals and her father's pagan

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standards a disequilibrium. Desequilibrium, I

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like that. Yeah, it made her early life a kind

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of endless disputation. But this very instability

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laid the foundation for her entire existentialist

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worldview. Because she learned early on that

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absolute authority was basically an illusion.

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And she didn't just question authority, she entirely

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upended her own worldview. I mean, she originally

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intended to be a nun. She was very devout as

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a child. Deeply, profoundly religious. But by

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age 14, she begins questioning her faith and

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just abandons it completely, becoming a lifelong

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atheist. And she didn't just quietly step away

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from religion either. She actively critiqued

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the mechanism of faith itself. She argued that

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faith allows believers to evade the difficult,

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inherently ambiguous realities of life. She called

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it a cowardice, right? Yes, a cowardice that

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gives believers a false sense of superiority

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over atheists who, in her view, actually face

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those difficulties honestly. She was transitioning

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from seeking absolute truth in God to seeking

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it in human intellect and freedom. And her intellect

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was terrifyingly impressive. At 17, she passes

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her baccalaureate exams in math and philosophy.

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She studies mathematics, literature. She writes

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a master's equivalent thesis on liveness. She

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was brilliant. But where she really makes history

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is the aggregation in philosophy. For those who

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don't know, this is a grueling, highly competitive

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post -graduate exam in France that serves as

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a national ranking. And in 1929, at just 21 years

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old, she passes it. She is the youngest person

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ever to do so and only the eighth woman in history.

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Which is incredible. And she's second. The only

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person who beat her, and apparently the jury

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was very narrowly split on this, was Jean -Paul

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Sartre. She is literally surrounded by the greatest

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minds of the century and completely holding her

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own. Which brings us to the actual so what of

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this exam for her life. Because she secured a

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civil servant's salary as a teacher, she achieved

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the one thing most women of her era just couldn't

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afford. Financial leverage. Exactly. The leverage

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to actually live out her radical philosophies

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without ending up destitute. She didn't have

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to rely on a husband to survive. And having that

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financial independence meant she could apply

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her rejection of tradition directly to her personal

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life. She viewed marriage as a profoundly dangerous

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institution. She really hated the idea of marriage.

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She described it as alienating, stating that

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it solders one person to another. He said it

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obliges people to sleep together who no longer

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want to. She saw it as a trap for men who are

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saddled with supporting a family and dangerous

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for women who end up financially dependent. So

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enter Jean -Paul Sartre. They met while studying

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at the Ecole Normale, and in October 1929, they

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began a relationship that would last for 51 years.

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But because of her views on marriage, Sartre

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proposed something entirely different. Right,

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the famous bench conversation. Yeah, they were

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sitting on a bench outside the Louvre, and he

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said, let's sign a two -year lease. A lease!

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Wait, a lease? Like you'd rent a Parisian apartment?

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That sounds incredibly transactional and almost

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like... clinical for a romance. It was a deliberate

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subversion of romance. That lease was essentially

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the framework for a lifelong soul partnership.

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It was sexual but not exclusive and they never

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even lived together. Wow. She chose never to

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marry and never had children. This gave her the

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time to advance her education, engage in political

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causes, write, teach, and, you know, take other

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lovers. And here is where the historical record

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from her biographies details a deeply, deeply

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controversial chapter. Because this radical freedom

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they practiced, this rejection of all traditional

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boundaries, It came with severe, often damaging

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consequences for others. It really did. We have

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to talk about the abuse allegations. Looking

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strictly at the historical documentation provided

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in our sources, a very grim picture emerges.

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Beauvoir, who was bisexual, used her position

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as a teacher to groom teenage female students,

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drawing them into exploitative sexual triangles

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with herself and Sartre. Yeah, there's the case

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of Bianca Lamlin, originally Bianca Bienenfeld.

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She was a student of Beauvoir's at the Lice Moli.

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Beauvoir was in her 30s at the time. Bianca was

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16. Just a high school student. Right. And the

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sources state that Beauvoir groomed the teenager,

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then introduced her to Sartre, who was 33. The

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three had a sexually exploitative relationship

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over the course of three years. Later in life,

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Bianca actually wrote a book called A Disgraceful

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Affair. She wrote that after Sartre's letters

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were published posthumously. Right. Yes, she

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discovered she had been mocked in their correspondence

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under the pseudonym Louise Vidrine. Bianca stated

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she felt nauseated and disgusted when she realized

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the true personality of the woman she had loved

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all her life. And it wasn't just her. In 1939,

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Beauvoir was also accused of seducing a 17 -year

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-old pupil named Natalie Sorokin. And Natalie's

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parents actually got the law involved. They did.

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They laid formal charges against Beauvoir for

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debauching a minor. Contextually, the age of

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consent in France at that time was 13, but the

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parents still pressed charges. And as a result,

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Beauvoir's license to teach in France was temporarily

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revoked in 1943. It's a heavy legacy. It is.

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And both Sorokin and Lamblin, along with another

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woman named Olga Kosakovich, stated later in

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life that their relationships with Beauvoir had

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damaged them psychologically. And I just, I have

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to interject and push back on the philosophy

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here. I am struggling to reconcile this behavior.

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with her own writing. I mean Beauvoir wrote a

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philosophical essay in 1947 called the Ethics

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of Ambiguity. She literally argued, and this

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is a quote, to act alone or without concern for

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others is not to be free. That is what she wrote,

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yes. She explains that no project can be defined

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except by its interference with other projects.

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So how on earth does a philosopher who explicitly

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argues that the freedom of the self requires

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the freedom of others justify the psychological

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damage and exploitation of a 16 -year -old student?

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It is a glaring contradiction, and it's one that

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requires us to look at how they apply their philosophy

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and practice. Beauvoir and Sartre's pursuit of

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absolute personal freedom created massive ethical

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blind spots for them. Blind spots is a polite

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way to put it. Well, they essentially treated

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their own lives as an ongoing avant -garde philosophical

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experiment. They wanted to tear down every bourgeois

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rule. But in doing so, they abstracted human

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lives into philosophical concepts. Ah, so they

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stopped seeing them as real people. Exactly.

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This abstraction allowed them to ignore the very

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real, very damaging power dynamics between a

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teacher in her 30s and her teenage students.

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The philosophies sounded egalitarian on paper,

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but in practice, they reduced vulnerable young

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women to mere collateral damage in their quest

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for intellectual rebellion. It's a stark reminder

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that brilliant minds are not immune to profound

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moral failings. of this messy, fiercely independent

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and highly scrutinized life came her defining

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intellectual achievement. Yes, the big one. In

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1949, she publishes The Second Sex. This work

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synthesizes her lived experience and her existential

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philosophy in a way that literally changes history.

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It takes the existentialist mantra that existence

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precedes essence and applies it directly to the

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concept of womanhood. We should probably unpack

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what existence precedes essence actually means

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for the listeners because it's the engine driving

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her entire theory. Oh, definitely. Break it down.

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Think of a manufactured object like a pair of

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scissors. Its essence, its design, its purpose

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to cut paper existed in someone's mind before

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it was physically created. The essence comes

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first. Makes sense. But for humans, existentialists

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argue the exact opposite. We exist first. We

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are born into the world as blank slates without

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a predetermined purpose or nature. And we have

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to define our own essence through our choices

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and actions. Which gives us what might be the

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most famous feminist sentence ever written. One

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is not born but becomes a woman. She is taking

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that scissors analogy and saying society treats

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women like they have a predetermined essence

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that they are naturally submissive or maternal

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or overly emotional. But Beauvoir says no, you

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merely exist first. Everything else, all those

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feminine traits are thrust upon you by society.

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She first articulated what we now call the sex

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-gender distinction. She separated biological

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sex from the social and historical construction

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of gender. Decades before that became mainstream.

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Right. She argued that the fundamental source

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of women's oppression is that society historically

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constructs femininity specifically to make women

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the quintessential other. And she traces this

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all the way back to the ancients. She points

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out that Aristotle argued women are female by

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virtue of a certain lack of quality. Lack of

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qualities. Well, and Thomas Aquinas referred

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to women as imperfect men and incidental beings.

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It's like... It's like how we treat the default

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settings on a smartphone. Men established themselves

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as the factory default, the standard human. And

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women were categorized as the custom complicated

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software deviation that requires a whole different

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user manual. That's a great way to put it. By

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labeling women as mysterious or other, the default

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group doesn't have to put in the work to understand

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them as equals. Like, oh, women are just so mysterious

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who can understand their problems. It's a convenient

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smoke screen to maintain a patriarchy. And Beauvoir

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identified that exact mechanism. She recognized

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that this stereotyping is always done by the

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group higher in the hierarchy to the group lower

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down. And she used two crucial philosophical

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terms to explain how this affects women. Imminence

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and transcendence. Let's break those down for

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the listener because they are heavy concepts.

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Imminence is a state of stagnation. It's an inward

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-focused existence where you are acted upon by

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the world, constrained by your circumstances,

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and denied the ability to creatively shape your

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own destiny. So being stuck. Exactly. Historically,

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society forced women into imminence, confining

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them to the domestic sphere, focusing solely

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on their biology and reproductive capabilities.

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Transcendence, on the other hand, is the active

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outward reach of human consciousness. Going beyond

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yourself. Right. It's taking agency, imposing

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your will on the world, creating and taking responsibility

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for your own freedom. Beauvoir argued that men

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laid claim to transcendence while systematically

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forcing women into imminence. The profound so

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what for you, the listener, is this. Every time

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you hear a modern debate about gender roles,

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about a gender performativity or systemic inequality,

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you are hearing the direct echoes of the second

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sex. By shifting the burden of inequality from

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biology to society, she showed that if gender

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is constructed, it can be dismantled. But, you

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know, this groundbreaking book almost didn't

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reach the English -speaking world intact. Oh,

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the translation disaster. Yes. There is a deeply

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frustrating translation tragedy attached to the

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second sex. The first American translation was

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prompted by Blanche Knopf, the wife of publisher

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Alfred A. Knopf, and they gave the job to a man

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named Howard Parshley. Let me just emphasize

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this for a second. Howard Parsley was a zoology

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professor at Smith College. He had only a basic

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familiarity with the French language and a minimal

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understanding of philosophy. Zoologists. Translating

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complex existential phenomenology. Yeah, the

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results were disastrous. Parsley just didn't

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understand the philosophical framework, so he

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translated existential terms into biological

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or medical ones. He completely missed the nuances

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of Hegelian and Sartrean concepts. He turned

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a philosophy text into a biology textbook. He

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turned a text about the social construction of

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gender into a book that sounded like a biological

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treatise, which is the exact opposite of her

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point. Furthermore, he actually removed a third

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of the original work. A third. He cut out the

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names of 78 women in history, seemingly because

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he found the historical accounts of women's lives

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boring or irrelevant. He fundamentally distorted

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the mechanism of her argument. And for years,

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the publisher prevented a more accurate retranslation,

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declining all proposals. It wasn't until 2009,

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60 years after the original publication, that

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a second translation was finally commissioned.

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And Constance Bord and Sheila Milovny Chevalier

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produced the first interal translation in 2010.

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So having written the definitive text on how

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society artificially constructs a woman's place,

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Beauvoir was now under immense pressure to prove

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that a woman could live entirely outside those

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constructs. Practice what you preach. Exactly.

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And she did that by deeply engaging with the

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world. She travels, she has international romances,

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and she takes deeply polarizing political stances.

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Yeah. In 1947, she took a four -month exploration

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trip of the United States. traveling by car,

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train, and Greyhound bus, which resulted in her

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book, America Day by Day. And it was in Chicago

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that she met the American author, Nelson Algren.

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Which became a massive romance. Huge. She wrote

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him letters across the Atlantic, calling him

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her beloved husband. She then wrote a novel called

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The Mandarin's, which won France's highest literary

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prize, the Prix Goncourt, in 1954. The book featured

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a character named Louis Brogan, who was very...

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clearly based on Algren. And Algren was outraged

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by that. He vehemently objected to their intimacy

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becoming public and the frank way she described

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their sexual experiences in her writing. He felt

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exposed. He felt betrayed by how she transformed

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their private life into public intellectual property.

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Yet, despite their eventual bitter separation,

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when Beauvoir died decades later, she was buried

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wearing a silver ring that he had given her.

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It just highlights how she constantly defied

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expectations. And that defiance continued right

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to the end of her life. In 1980, when she was

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72 years old, Beauvoir legally adopted her adult

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lover, Sylvie Le Bon, who was in her late 30s

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at the time. Which is pretty wild. Right, they'd

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already been in an intimate relationship for

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decades. But this was a fascinating subversion

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of the legal system. Since Beauvoir rejected

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the institution of marriage her entire life,

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this adoption functioned essentially as a marriage

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for her. It secured her literary estate, right,

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making Sylvie her heir. Exactly. It was a legal

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loophole used to validate a relationship that

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society had no conventional framework for. Her

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late in life actions also included intense political

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activism. She was weaponizing her platform in

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ways that showcase both the triumph and the absolute

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peril of her philosophy. On one hand, she was

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a crucial signatory of the 1971 manifesto of

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the 343. That was a huge moment in France. It

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was a manifesto signed by famous women declaring

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they had had an abortion, which was illegal in

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France. at the time. This act of public defiance

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directly paved the way for the legalization of

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abortion in France in 1974. It was a monumental

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moment for the women's liberation movement. But

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her activism also took turns that are frankly

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difficult to comprehend today. Yeah the sources

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get pretty dark here again. In 1977 she signed

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a petition along with other French intellectuals

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supporting the freeing of three arrested men

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in what was known as the Affair de Versailles.

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Just impartially reporting what the sources say

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here, these were adult men aged 45, 43, and 39

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who had sexual relations with minors aged 12

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and 13. And she signed a petition supporting

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them. And her views on motherhood were equally

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rigid in her later years. In a 1975 interview

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with Betty Frieden, when asked if she supported

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a minimum wage for women doing housework, Beauvoir

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said no. Wait, she didn't support paying women

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for housework. No, she said no woman should be

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authorized to stay at home and raise her children.

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She argued that women should not have that choice,

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precisely because if there is such a choice,

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too many women will make that one. It's an incredibly

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authoritarian stance from someone whose entire

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philosophy is based on personal freedom. It reveals

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the core logic of her later years. She believed

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intellectuals must take sides. In the very first

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issue of their journal, Les Temps Modernes, Sartre

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wrote that their intention was to influence society

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and that the journal would take sides. And she

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really lived by that. Completely. She believed

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her philosophy had to be enacted in the real

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world to have meaning. Whether fighting for women's

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liberation or taking indefensible stances on

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age of consent laws, she never shied away from

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public scrutiny. For Beauvoir, to be passive

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was to fail existentially. Which brings us full

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circle to where we started. Simone de Beauvoir

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teaches us that being well -informed means holding

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multiple conflicting truths at once. She is the

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architect of modern feminism. She is a brilliant

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philosopher who gave us the vocabulary to understand

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gender as a social construct and who fought fiercely

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for women to achieve transcendence. And she is

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a deeply flawed individual who caused real harm

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to vulnerable people in her personal life and

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held political stances that shock the conscience.

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The historical sources demand that we look at

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the whole picture. The emancipatory power of

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the second sex is an undeniable historical fact,

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but the human cost of her pursuit of absolute

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freedom in her private life is equally documented.

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We cannot untangle the brilliance of her theory

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from the messy reality of her practice. So we

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want to leave you with a final thought to mull

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over, one that shifts how we view this kind of

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legacy today. Consider the modern era with our

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current landscape of cancel culture and strict

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institutional ethics. If Simone de Beauvoir were

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a young philosopher writing and living today,

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would her defining philosophical works ever even

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get published? It's a great question. Or would

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the intense scrutiny of her personal life, her

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exploitative relationships, and her controversial

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petitions see her entirely erased from the intellectual

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record before she ever had the chance to change

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the world? When the history is this messy, how

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much intellectual progress are we willing to

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risk losing in the pursuit of moral purity?
