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Welcome in, whether you are prepping for a demanding

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week ahead. Or maybe you're just trying to gain

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a deeper understanding of the cultural landscape.

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Yeah, exactly. Or, you know, if you are simply

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intensely curious about the minds shaping modern

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literature and art, you're definitely in the

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right place. Absolutely. Because we have a custom

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-tailored deep dive ready for you today. We're

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exploring the Wikipedia page of Rachel Eliza

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Griffiths. Born on December 6, 1978. Right. And

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the mission for this dive, it goes well beyond

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simply reading a biography. Oh, far beyond it.

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We are looking at the life and really the profound

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body of work of an American polymath. I mean,

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she's a poet, a novelist. A photographer and

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a visual artist. Yeah. And through her journey,

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we are going to explore how working across completely

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different mediums allows a person to better process

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grief, love, and, well, just the complexities

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of human identity. You know, for anyone listening

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who has ever felt pressure to pick a single lane.

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Right, like a rigid career path. Exactly, or

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a specific academic discipline, or even just

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one single way of expressing themselves. Griffith's

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trajectory is a compelling counter argument to

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all of that. It really is. Her life demonstrates

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the artistic and the psychological power of refusing

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to be confined. It shows us that human experience

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is inherently multidimensional. And sometimes

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a single form of expression simply isn't a large

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enough container for what we're going through.

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So let's start at the roots to understand how

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that expansive mindset. Okay. Griffiths was born

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in Washington, D .C., and she's the eldest of

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four children. Right. And the dynamic between

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her parents offers a deeply fascinating cross

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-section of influences. It's quite the mix. Yeah.

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So her mother worked as a community organizer

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and was also a former police officer. Wow. And

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her father was an environmental lawyer. So you

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have this immediate daily intersection of grassroots

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community action, strict law enforcement, and

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the broader systemic frameworks of environmental

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protection. Exactly. If we connect this to the

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bigger picture, growing up in a household navigating

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that specific triad, the law, the physical environment,

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and community justice, it creates a very particular

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kind of intellectual foundation who so well when

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your primary caregivers are dedicating their

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lives to shaping protecting and regulating society

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from both the ground up and the top down you're

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inevitably exposed to the complexities of how

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systems and individuals interact that makes a

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lot of sense it demands a rigorous analytical

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way of viewing the world but also a deeply empathetic

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one right that environment is exceptionally fertile

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soil for a future artist because it teaches you

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early on to look at an issue from multiple, sometimes

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conflicting vantage points. And she certainly

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took that analytical foundation and applied it

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to a highly rigorous academic journey. She definitely

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did. She graduated from St. Mark's High School

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and then moved on to the University of Delaware.

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Right. For her undergrad. Yeah. But she didn't

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just complete her undergraduate studies there.

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She stayed to earn her first master's degree.

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And following that, she headed to Sarah Lawrence

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College. Which is huge. Yeah. For those familiar

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with the literary world, Sarah Lawrence carries

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immense prestige for the arts. She earned her

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MFA in creative writing there. That is a notoriously

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intensive environment that demands a student

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strip down their creative habits and rebuild

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them with extreme discipline. Yeah. An MFA program

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of that caliber forces a writer to confront the

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actual mechanics of their art. Right. It's not

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just inspiration. Exactly. It is not just about

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having a talent for words. It's about sustaining

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a critical dialogue with your own work over years.

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Yeah. You are surrounded by peers and mentors

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picking apart every single line break, every

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metaphor, every narrative choice. It has to be

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exhausting. Oh, absolutely. Surviving and thriving

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in that environment means developing a thick

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skin and a highly refined set of tools. It bridges

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the gap between raw creative instinct and deliberate,

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masterful execution. And that mastery and discipline

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really set the stage for a defining characteristic

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of her entire career, which is genre fluidity.

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She firmly rejects the idea of just being one

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type of artist. In 2015, she articulated this

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philosophy in a way that provides a perfect lens

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for her work. She said, I like the fluidity each

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genre offers me spatially, emotionally and creatively.

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I can take an idea. word fragment or image and

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open it up across forms. The phrasing there open

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it up across forms is crucial. Yeah. She isn't

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talking about merely translating a piece of art

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like you know turning a book into a movie. Right.

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She's talking about expansion. giving a concept

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the necessary room to breathe. Yes. If a specific

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emotion feels claustrophobic within the strict

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meter of a poem, she allows it to spill over

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into a visual space where it can stretch out.

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Okay, let's unpack this because the practical

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application of this mindset is vital for you

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as a listener. Yeah, it really is. We so often

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try to force complex human experiences into whatever

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single restrictive box we happen to be most comfortable

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with. We all do it. Right. We might tell ourselves

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we are strictly logical, so we try to spread

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spreadsheet our way out of an emotional crisis.

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Or we say we are purely visual, so we ignore

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the analytical details. Right. Griffiths challenges

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that default setting. She proposes that if an

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experience is too large, too overwhelming for

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the tools you normally use, you shouldn't shrink

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the experience to fit the tool. You should find

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a new tool. Exactly. If an idea requires space,

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it might need the stark reality of a photograph.

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If it requires emotional rhythm, it might require

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a poem. And her early career serves as a masterclass

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in proving that that approach works. Definitely.

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She didn't quietly test the waters. She arrived

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with significant momentum. Yeah, by 2011. Right.

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By 2011, her work was featured in the inaugural

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poetry issue of Oprah's O Magazine. Which is

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massive. Securing space in a publication with

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that kind of cultural footprint. instantly amplifies

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a poet's voice to a national audience, an audience

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that might not regularly frequent independent

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literary journals. Yeah, and she also leveraged

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her growing platform to lift up the medium itself.

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She created POP, which stands for Poets on Poetry.

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This was a video interview series designed to

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connect contemporary poetry directly to everyday

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human experience. She was physically demonstrating

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that poetry isn't a dusty academic relic confined

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to university life. Exactly. It's a living, breathing

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tool for processing daily life. Yeah. And she

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was doing this while publishing a relentless

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string of her own collections. We're talking

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about Miracle Arrhythmia in 2010. Followed closely

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by The Requited Distance in 2011. Right. Then

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came Mule and Pear, which made a significant

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mark by winning the 2012 Poetry Award from the

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Black Caucus of the American Library Association.

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Huge honor. And she followed that up with Lighting

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the Shadow in 2015. Looking closely at that early

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bibliography, you see an artist actively mapping

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out themes of memory, bodily autonomy, and the

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intersections of identity. Yeah. Lighting the

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Shadow, for instance, was a finalist for both

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the Balcone's Poetry Prize and the Phyllis Wheatley

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Book Award. So she was recognized heavily. Right

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out of the gate. Highly recognized for her ability

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to weave personal history with broader cultural

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narratives. She had firmly established a celebrated

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voice in the literary world. But them? In 2014,

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life delivered a profound shock to that established

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foundation. Yeah. Her mother passed away. Such

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a massive loss. Anyone who has navigated that

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specific type of catastrophic loss understands

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that it fundamentally fractures your reality.

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It really does. The coping mechanisms and the

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language you previously relied on suddenly feel

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entirely inadequate to describe the void that

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is left behind. Yeah. Words just fail. Griffiths

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spent the next several years in the quiet. agonizing

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work of processing this grief. And that prolonged

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period of creation culminated in the 2020 release

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of Seeing the Body. This collection marks a massive

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structural evolution in her work. It really does.

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She didn't rely solely on the written word to

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document this period. She physically paired her

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poetry with her own original photography. She

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utilized both mediums simultaneously to explore

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not just the raw nerve of grief, but also the

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nuances of memory, Black womanhood, the physical

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American landscape, and the eventual painful

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process of rebirth. So what drove that specific

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structural choice? Like why introduce photography?

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at that specific moment in her life. What's fascinating

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here is the psychological necessity of the mixed

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media approach when dealing with trauma. Yeah.

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Words have limits. When faced with the sheer

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crushing weight of profound loss, language can

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sometimes feel too abstract or paradoxically

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too precise to capture the messy reality of the

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feeling. Yeah, makes total sense. Images can

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step in to carry the load. A stark black and

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white photograph of an empty room or a self -portrait

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capturing a fleeting expression of exhaustion.

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that can anchor the abstract pain into something

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tangible. And the critical response to this pairing

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highlighted exactly that dynamic. Yes. Guernica

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Magazine reviewed the book and specifically called

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the multimedia pairing visually and emotionally

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arresting. The Los Angeles Review of Books described

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it as a radiant and soulful collection. The accolades

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for Seeing the Body really underscore how deeply

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this vulnerability resonated with the public.

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Yeah, it was named an MPR Best Book of 2020.

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Wow. It received a nomination for the 2021 NAACP

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Image Award for Outstanding Literary Work in

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Poetry. Amazing. Furthermore, it won the Hurston

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Wright Legacy Award for Poetry and the Patterson

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Poetry Prize. both in 2021. You know, the success

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of this collection really makes you wonder about

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the tools we all default to when we hit a wall

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in our own lives. Absolutely. Think about your

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own methods of processing difficult times, you

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know. Griffith's pivot suggests that when we

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feel stuck in our grief or our challenges, the

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problem might not be the wall itself, but the

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fact that we are only using a hammer to try and

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break through it. That's a great way to put it.

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It shifts the perspective entirely on navigating

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difficult seasons. Yeah. Grief is frequently

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framed as a tunnel you just have to blindly endure

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until you come out the other side. But Griffiths

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treated it as a complex landscape that required

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active documentation. By utilizing multiple lenses,

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the verbal and the visual, she captured the totality

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of the experience rather than just a single dimension

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of it. So having mastered that hybrid of poetry

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and photography, the question becomes, where

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does an artist go creatively after burying their

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soul so visually? Yeah. The answer for Griffiths

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was another massive creative leap. In July 2023,

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she pivoted entirely into prose, publishing her

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debut novel, Promise. Transitioning from poetry

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to a full length work of fiction requires a completely

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different mechanical skill set. I can't even

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imagine. Poetry thrives on distillation. It's

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about compressing emotion and imagery into the

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tightest possible space. Right. A novel requires

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expansive, sustained architecture. You are tasked

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with world building, pacing a narrative arc over

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hundreds of pages and developing characters that

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must evolve over time. It's a marathon compared

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to a sprint. Exactly. And the reviews indicate

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she managed that transition flawlessly. Oh, she

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nailed it. Kirkus Reviews called Promise a stunning

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and evocative portrait of love, pride, and survival.

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High praise. Yeah, and the Times offered a particularly

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striking assessment. The reviewer described the

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novel as enchanting and enraging and noted that

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the book left them feeling emotionally shattered.

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Wow. You rarely see that level of visceral physical

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reaction from a seasoned literary critic unless

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the emotional truth underpinning the prose is

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absolutely piercing. Yeah. And that emotional

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truth doesn't exist in a vacuum, right? No, not

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at all. It is deeply informed by the artist's

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own lived experience. Griffiths identifies as

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a queer black woman. The intersection of her

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personal identity, her history, and her highly

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private life. forms the bedrock of the art she

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shares with the public. As she steps further

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into the literary spotlight with a successful

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novel, the boundary between the private self

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and the public figure naturally begins to thin.

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Well, in an artist's personal identity and deeply

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private life inevitably intersect with their

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very public art. Right. And that set the stage

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for the most intense chapter of her life. Yeah,

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that intersection of the deeply personal and

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the highly public became exceptionally prominent

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around this time. In 2021, she married the celebrated

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Indian -born British -American novelist Salman

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Rushdie. Right. Because he holds a knighthood.

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This officially makes her Rachel Eliza Griffith's

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Lady Rushdie. And they built their life together

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in New York City. Yeah. And navigating your own

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path as a widely celebrated, award -winning artist

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is demanding enough. Doing so alongside... A

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literary giant of global magnitude places you

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squarely under an intense public microscope.

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It establishes a reality where her private domestic

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life and the global public narrative are inherently

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linked. Exactly. And it sets the stage for a

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period where those two spheres collide in an

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unimaginably violent and intense way. Here's

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where it gets really interesting. And I use that

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phrase with profound empathy because the timeline

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brings us to a deeply heavy chapter. Yes. We

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move to January 2026. and the publication of

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her memoir, The Flyer Bearers. This book offers

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a painful real -time insight into the horrific

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stabbing of her husband, Salman Rushdie. Consider

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the trajectory of her bibliography up to this

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point. She's utilized the distilled emotion of

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poetry, the stark reality of photography, and

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the expansive world -building of fiction. Right.

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Now she is utilizing the deeply vulnerable chronological

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format of a memoir to process a traumatic global...

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news event that occurred directly to her own

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family what makes this memoir so powerful is

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the duality of its focus it's not just a recounting

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of the event no it's not simply a clinical recounting

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of a tragedy the guardian reviewed the flower

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bearers and captured this complexity perfectly

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what did they say they described the book as

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simultaneously a love story a portrait of sisterhood

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and a visceral depiction of violence, loss and

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emotional devastation. Wow. She weaves the sheer

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terror of the attack with the profound depths

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of the love and community support that immediately

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followed it. Yeah. But most importantly, she

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actively refuses to allow the trauma to be the

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sole defining characteristic of the narrative.

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That's key. In a January 2026 interview with

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NPR discussing the memoir, Griffiths delivered

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a statement regarding her approach to the trauma.

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This raises an important question regarding how

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we conceptualize trauma and recovery. How can

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an individual... You know, acknowledge a profound

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life altering violation without allowing that

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event to become their singular defining trait.

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Right. Without it taking over completely. Exactly.

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Her memoir does not look away from the visceral,

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agonizing reality of the violence. It doesn't

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engage in toxic positivity or pretend the devastation

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didn't occur. No. Instead, she is making a conscious,

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deliberate choice regarding agency. She acknowledges

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that pain is absolutely a passenger on the ship

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now and it demands space. But it does not get

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to sit in the captain's chair. It does not get

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to decide the destination. Reaching that level

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of self -awareness while still in the aftermath

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of the event requires an almost superhuman level

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of resilience. It's the ultimate assertion of

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narrative control. She is taking an event that

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stripped away her family's safety and stating,

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I will document the reality of this terror. I

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will honor the reality of this pain, but I will

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not allow it to be the only thing I am. Right.

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Which brings us full circle to her core philosophy

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of opening an idea up across forms. The medium

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of the memoir was the precise tool required for

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this specific task. Yeah. Poetry might have effectively

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captured the raw bleeding edge of the terror.

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Photography might have documented this dark physical

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aftermath. Exactly. But a memoir allowed her

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to control the pacing of the story. Right. It

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provided the necessary architecture to place

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the act of violence within the much larger encompassing

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context of a love story and a profound testament

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to sisterhood. It gave her the space she needed.

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It allowed her to build a container large enough

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to hold the horror and the healing simultaneously.

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So what does this all mean? When we step back

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and look at the trajectory of Rachel Eliza Griffiths,

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starting from the analytical, justice -oriented

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roots of her childhood in Washington, D .C. Moving

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through the genre -bending poetry of her early

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career. Leaning into the visual processing of

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grief in Seeing the Body. Constructing the fictional

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world of Promise. And ultimately claiming narrative

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agency in The Flower Bearers. Yeah. The overarching

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takeaway is the absolute necessity of evolution.

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Absolutely. As our lives change, as the challenges

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we face become vastly more complex or devastating

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or demanding, the internal tools we use to navigate

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them must evolve alongside us. Right. You cannot

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expect to use the exact same emotional or creative

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tool for every single season of your life. And

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the beauty of analyzing her life's work is realizing

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that this concept scales to anyone listening.

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You don't have to be a multi -award winning artist

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to apply this. No, you don't need an MFA or a

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publishing contract. Yeah. Or if writing feels

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empty. Perhaps the necessary tool is physical

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movement or building something with your hands

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or painting. Exactly. The medium itself is simply

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the vehicle. The objective is to continually

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search for the vehicle that is actually capable

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of carrying the specific weight of whatever you

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are navigating in that exact moment. It requires

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giving yourself the grace to abandon a tool when

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it no longer serves the current reality. Well

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said. As we wrap up this deep dive into the extraordinary

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life of Rachel Eliza Griffiths. We want to leave

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you with a final, provocative thought to mull

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over as you go about the rest of your day. Yeah,

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think about this. It's a thought experiment that

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builds directly on the philosophy we've just

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explored. Imagine this scenario. If you were

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forced to capture the single most defining, life

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-altering moment of your life right now, but

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you were completely banned from using your primary

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professional skill, and you were banned from

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using the words you normally use to describe

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yourself, what alternative medium would you choose

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to tell your story? It forces a complete reassessment

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of how you view your own history when you strip

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away the default settings. It really does. Thank

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you for spending your time with us on this deep

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dive. We hope it offered you a new perspective

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on the tools you use to navigate your own world.

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Take care, stay curious, and we will catch you

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on the next one.
