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I want you to picture probably the most famous

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email in the history of the internet. You know

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the one? Oh, absolutely. The subject line is

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always in all caps, right? Right. It's like a

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urgent business proposal. Right. Or maybe it

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starts with Dear Beloved or Respected Sir. And

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it is almost always from a prince. Or a barrister.

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Or the weeping widow of some deposed general.

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Yeah, and they always have the exact same problem.

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They are sitting on this massive fortune, millions

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of dollars, gold bullion, maybe blood diamonds,

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but it is locked in a vault somewhere. Exactly.

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And they need you, just some total stranger on

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the internet, to help them get it out. Right,

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which is just, on its face, ridiculous. It is

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the oldest punchline on the web. I mean, we screenshot

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these things, we turn them into memes, we forward

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them to our friends just to have a laugh at the

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terrible grammar. We do. But that's the thing.

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But here's the cold reality check that we are

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going to unpack today in this deep dive. While

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we are all laughing at these emails, people are

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losing everything. And I don't just mean their

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life savings. I mean their actual lives. It is

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a massive global industry. And honestly, just

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calling it the Nigerian Prince scam, it kind

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of minimizes it. It makes it sound like a cartoon

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villain. It really does. So what is the actual

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term for it? The formal term in the fraud world

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is an advance fee scam or advance fee fraud.

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And when you really look under the hood of how

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this works, it is a terrifyingly sophisticated

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psychological machine. So that is our mission

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for this deep dive. We are going to stop treating

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this topic like a joke. We have pulled together

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research, case studies, and historical records,

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and we are going to look at the history, which

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goes back way further than the internet, by the

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way. Way further. We're going to look at the

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psychology of why we actually fall for it and

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the genuinely dark reality of what happens when

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the victim's money finally runs out. And I think

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we should start by just breaking down that core

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mechanism because it is deceptively simple. The

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name advance fee describes it perfectly. Right.

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So how does the hook actually work? Well, the

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victim has promised this massive reward. It could

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be an inheritance, lottery winnings, a lucrative

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government contract. But to get it, they just

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have to pay a small fee up front. The classic

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send me five thousand dollars for legal fees

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and I will release the five million to your bank

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account. Exactly. But the catch is once you pay

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that first five thousand. The finish line suddenly

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moves. There's always a new problem. Always.

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Now there is a surprise tax or now there is a

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bribe you have to pay to a stubborn bank manager.

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Now there's a foreign transfer fee. It becomes

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this infinite loop of payments that really only

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ends when the victim is either totally bankrupt

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or they finally snap out of it and realize it's

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a lie. Now I have always heard this specific

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type of fraud referred to as a 419 scam. Is that

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just like Law enforcement slang? It's actually

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a specific legal citation. Section 419 of the

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Nigerian Criminal Code is the part that deals

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with fraud. So in the cybersecurity industry,

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these operators are often just called 419ers.

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Oh, OK. But if you go to Lagos, the local slang

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on the street is completely different. They call

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it Yahoo, Yahoo. Yahoo, Yahoo. Wait, like the

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search engine? The very same. It is literally

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a fossil from the early days of the web. It's

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wild. Yeah, back in the late 90s and early 2000s,

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Yahoo Mail was the free platform of choice. So

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the guys sitting in the cyber cafes sending out

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these massive email blasts just became known

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as Yahoo Boys. It's fascinating that there's

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a whole subculture built around this, because

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I remember reading in our sources that back in

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the 80s, Nigeria had this perfect storm economically.

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That did it. There was an oil crash, the economy

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just completely tanked. And suddenly you had

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this entire generation of university graduates

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with absolutely zero job prospects. That is the

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crucial context here. You had a highly educated,

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very motivated, but desperately unemployed young

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men. And then the internet arrived. So it became

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a survival strategy. Exactly. It was a way to

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make a living. And it even seeped into the pop

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culture and the music over there. There is a

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famous hip hop track by an artist named Nickom

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Owo called I Go Chop Your Dollar. I Will Eat

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Your Dollars. Yeah. That is not very subtle.

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Not at all. The lyrics literally say, 419 is

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just a game. I am the winner. You are the loser.

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It openly glamorized the lifestyle, the fast

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cars, the luxury living. It was framed almost

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as a way to get back at the wealthy Western countries.

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But we do need to be really careful with the

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geography here, right? Because we keep saying

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Nigeria, since that is the famous origin point

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and the stereotype. But our sources are very

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clear that this is not contained by Nigerian

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borders anymore. Oh, not at all. It is a completely

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transnational enterprise now. We see massive

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volumes of advanced fee fraud. originating from

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the Ivory Coast, Togo, South Africa, the Netherlands,

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Spain. It's everywhere. Yeah. And Jamaica is

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a huge hotbed for lottery -specific scams right

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now. So it's essentially a global franchise model

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at this point. But here is the thing that has

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always totally baffled me about this. And I think

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this is where most people listening probably

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get tripped up too. What's that? The quality

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of the emails themselves. They are just terrible.

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You mean visually? Visually, structurally, grammatically,

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logically. I mean, if I were a criminal mastermind

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trying to steal millions of dollars, I would

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at least run my pitch through a spell checker.

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I would hire a copywriter. Right. It feels like

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the overwhelming badness of the email would just

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scare everyone away. Right. Why haven't they

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improved the script over the last 20 years? This

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is actually one of my absolute favorite pieces

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of research we looked at. There is a researcher

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named Cormac Hurley from Microsoft Research who

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did a deep dive into exactly this question. And

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his conclusion is brilliant. What did he find?

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He found that the typos are not a bug. They are

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a feature. A feature? How on earth is looking

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completely incompetent a feature for a con artist?

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You have to think about it from the stammer's

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perspective. Sending out 10 million emails is

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cheap. It's virtually free. But actually talking

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to a victim... That takes a lot of time. It takes

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effort to groom someone, to exchange dozens of

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emails, to build trust, to walk them through

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a bank transfer. A scammer absolutely cannot

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afford to waste three weeks talking to a skeptic

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who is eventually going to spot a red flag and

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back out. Oh. Oh, I see where you're going with

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this. Yeah. It is a filter. It is a brilliant,

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roofless filter. By making the initial email

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completely ridiculous, full of bizarre spelling

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errors and totally implausible claims about locked

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vaults, they ensure that anyone with a critical

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eye deletes it immediately. It naturally repels

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the smart people. Exactly. It repels the skeptics.

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So if you read that email and you still hit reply,

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you have effectively self -selected as a viable

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target. Precisely. You have signaled to the scammer

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that you are either dusted enough, maybe elderly

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and confused. or just gullible enough to fall

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for the rest of the con. It saves the scammer

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huge amounts of time by weeding out the false

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positives. People like you or me who might reply

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just to mess with them, but who will never actually

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pay. That is just diabolically efficient. It's

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like an algorithm for finding vulnerability.

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They don't want the smartest victims. They want

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the most compliant ones. Correct. And they actually

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test that compliance again almost immediately

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after you reply. Very often, the first thing

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they ask for in the second or third email is

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your bank account information. See, I always

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assumed that was the ultimate end game. They

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get the routing number, they drain the checking

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account, and it's game over. Surprisingly, that

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is rarely the actual goal. Bank transfers are

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incredibly risky for scammers. They leave a solid

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paper trail. They can be reversed by the bank.

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And if a scammer tries to pull a large sum of

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money out of a random account, modern bank fraud

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detection usually catches it and freezes everything.

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So why do they ask for it so early on? It is

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just another psychological test. If you are willing

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to hand over sensitive financial info to a stranger,

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you are officially hooked. Once you provide it,

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the scammer usually pivots right away. What do

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they say? They'll say something like, oh, actually,

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my friend, we cannot use the direct bank transfer

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for the initial legal fee because of strict government

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regulations. You need to use Western Union or

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MoneyGram instead. Ah, right. The irreversible

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payment methods. Exactly. Cash on the wire. Because

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once you send money via Western Union to a fake

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ID in Lagos or Johannesburg, it is gone. It is

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quite literally like throwing a suitcase of cash

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out of a moving helicopter. You are never getting

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it back. So the typos filter the audience, the

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bank request tests their blind obedience, and

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then the wire transfer takes the actual cash.

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It's a funnel. A highly optimized sales funnel,

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yes. Now, you mentioned earlier that this whole

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mechanic predates the Internet. I know confidence

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tricks are old, obviously. But are we talking

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about the exact same script? The wealthy person

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trapped with a fortune. Almost word for word,

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the same script. If you go back to the late 18th

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century, there was a wildly popular con called

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the Spanish prisoner. Wait, the 1700s? Yes, the

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1700s. Con artists would write physical letters

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to wealthy merchants in England or France. And

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the story in the letter was always. I am a wealthy

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aristocrat, and I have been wrongly imprisoned

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in a castle in Spain. Let me guess. They had

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a hidden fortune. Exactly. I have a fortune hidden

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away, but I need a small amount of money right

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now to bribe the prison guards to let me escape.

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If you send the bribe money, I will share the

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fortune with you. And let me take another guess.

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I bet they also had a beautiful daughter. They

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almost always had a beautiful daughter. The letter

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would say, my lovely daughter is here with me

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in hiding. And as a bonus, I will give you her

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hand in marriage. So even the romance scam angle

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is centuries old. It is ancient. There is another

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famous version from the 1800s called The Letter

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from Jerusalem. We found that one detailed in

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the memoirs of Eugene Francois Vidocq, who was

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this famous French. criminal turned police detective.

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Wow. And then a strikingly similar variant swept

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through Germany in 1922. The medium constantly

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changes. It goes from handwritten letters to

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faxes, to emails, to social media DMs, but the

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basic software running in the human brain. That

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hasn't changed a bit. We are still driven by

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greed and by the deep desire to be the hero of

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someone else's story. That is the real hook,

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isn't it? It is not just about getting rich quick.

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It is about feeling like you are the one special

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person chosen by fate to help this desperate

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prince. Precisely. It flatters the ego. But as

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we've moved into the modern era, people generally

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have gotten wise to the prince narrative. So

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the stammers have had to diversify their portfolios.

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The prince is now the recruiter. Ah, the employment

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scams. These ones honestly make me the angriest

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because they specifically target people who are

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already struggling to find work. It is incredibly

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predatory. You post your resume on a legitimate

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job board and you get an out of the blue offer.

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It's a great salary, full benefits, work from

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home. But before you can officially start, HR

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tells you that you need to pay upfront for a

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background check or a specialized training software

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or a work permit. And then there's that really

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specific twist on this, the mystery shopper variant.

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This one is so clever because the scammers actually

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send you money first. Yes. This one relies on

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a very specific quirk in the banking system.

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The victim is hired to be a mystery shopper,

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and they receive a real -looking cashier's check

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in the mail for, let's say, $2 ,000. OK. Their

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first assignment is to deposit the check, keep

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$200 as their salary, and then wire the remaining

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$1 ,800 to a specific service to test the speed

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and customer service of the local Western Union.

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And so the victim goes to their bank, deposits

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the check, sees the funds appear in their available

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balance the next day, and thinks, wow, this is

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totally legitimate, I have the money. Right,

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because federal law requires banks to make deposited

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funds available to customers quickly, usually

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within a day or two. But the physical check itself

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is a forgery, and it hasn't actually cleared

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the issuing bank yet. Oh no. So two weeks later,

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the forged check bounces. The bank realizes it's

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fake and clause that $2 ,000 right back out of

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the victim's account. But the victim has already

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voluntarily wired $1 ,800 of their own real money

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to the scammers. That money is just gone. Gone.

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And now the victim often owes their bank money,

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on top of losing their own savings. It effectively

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turns the victim into the bag holder for a fake

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check. That is brutal. And then you have the

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scams that target our hearts instead of our wallets

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directly, the pet scams. Yes. You see ads online

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for high -value puppies. French bulldogs, Yorkies.

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The seller always has a heartbreaking story.

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I am a missionary moving to a country that doesn't

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allow dogs. I just want a good home for him.

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You just need to pay for the shipping. Then the

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dog doesn't even exist. Doesn't exist. Not even

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a real picture. You pay the shipping fee and

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then a fake airline emails you. They say the

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crate is too small. Send $500 for a climate -controlled

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crate. Then the dog needs surprise travel insurance.

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Then emergency veterinary shots at a layover.

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The fees never end. But the absolute darkest

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evolution of this has to be the romance scam.

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We touched on it with the Spanish prisoner's

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daughter. But with modern social media, this

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has turned into industrial warfare on human loneliness.

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It really is. This is the long con. Scammers

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will spend months, sometimes over a year, just

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building an emotional relationship. They text

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you good morning every single day. They Skype

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you. And they use stolen video loops of attractive

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people or voice changing software to pull it

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off. They make the victim feel completely seen

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and loved. And then the inevitable crisis hits.

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Right. I am finally coming to visit you, but

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I am stuck at customs and need visa money. Or

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my child was in a terrible car accident and I

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need hospital fees. And because the victim is

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genuinely in love, they pay. There is a deeply

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heartbreaking case we looked at regarding a woman

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named Jet Jacobs. Yes, the Australian woman.

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She was 67 years old, living in Australia. She

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met a man online who called himself Jesse Oroo.

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And she really thought he was the one. She did.

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Over the course of three years, she sent him

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over $90 ,000. But the tragedy is that it didn't

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stop at just financial ruin. In 2013, she actually

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flew to Johannesburg, South Africa to finally

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meet him in person. Two days after she arrived,

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she was found dead in her rented villa. Omoko

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had immediately fled the country back to Nigeria.

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He was eventually tracked down and arrested,

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but due to a severe lack of forensic evidence

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regarding the actual cause of death, he was only

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charged with fraud. That is just horrifying.

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It really shifts the perspective away from this

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being a silly email in your spam folder to recognizing

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these people as predatory monsters. It absolutely

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does. and it forces us to ask a really difficult

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question. Why do people stay in these scams even

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when the red flags start waving right in their

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face? Obviously, a huge part of it is the sunk

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cost fallacy. Right. The idea that I've already

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paid $5 ,000. I have to pay this next $1 ,000

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fee or I lose everything I've invested. Exactly.

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But there is a very specific legal trap here

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too, right? Something called the unclean hands

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doctrine. This seems to be the psychological

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glue that keeps victims silent. Yeah, let's talk

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about that because it is essentially pure black.

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and it is baked right into the scammers initial

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narrative. Think about the pitch they use. I

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need you to help me smuggle stolen gold out of

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the country or help me hide this embezzled government

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money from auditors. So if you agree to help

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them, you are explicitly agreeing to commit a

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major crime. Exactly. The victim genuinely believes

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they are acting as a co -conspirator in international

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money laundering or bribery. So when the scammer

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finally steals their money, who are they going

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to call? You can't call the police. You can't

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just say, hello, officer. I was actively trying

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to launder millions for a corrupt warlord, and

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he ripped me off. They are completely trapped

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by their own guilt. There was a really prominent

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case involving a businessman from San Diego named

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James Adler. He lost over $5 million to a scheme

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exactly like this. And he actually tried to fight

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back. He tried to sue the Nigerian government

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officials and the central bank in a U .S. federal

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court. That sounds incredibly bold. How did that

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actually play out? It failed completely. The

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court applied that unclean hands doctrine. The

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judge essentially ruled. You willingly entered

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into a contract to perform an illegal act, specifically

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bribery and money laundering. You cannot use

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the United States court system to recover losses

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from an illegal contract. Wow. So the legal system

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essentially protects the scammer because the

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victim's hands were dirty too. And that profound

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shame, that terror of admitting complicity in

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a felony, is exactly what allows these syndicates

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to operate with near total impunity. But sometimes,

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as we saw with court Jet Jacobs, the silence

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isn't just about shame or legal fears. It is

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about immediate physical safety. I want to talk

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about the invitation to visit phase because this

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seems to be the endgame for the really high -rolling

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victims. This is undoubtedly the most dangerous

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phase of the con. If a victim has really deep

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pockets but starts getting skeptical and refuses

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to send more wires, the scammer changes tactics.

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They say, fine, don't believe me, keep your money.

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But if you want the fortune, you have to fly

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to Nigeria or South Africa or Togo. Come meet

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the bank manager in person. Sign the release

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papers yourself. And the victim thinks, well,

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OK, that proves them must be real. A scammer

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wouldn't invite me to a physical bank. Exactly.

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But they aren't walking into a bank. They're

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walking straight into a coordinated kidnapping.

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In 1999, a Norwegian millionaire named Kajet

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Helmo was lured to South Africa under this exact

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pretense. He was murdered. In 2004, a Greek man

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named George McEnally was lured to South Africa

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and killed. In 2008, a Javanese businessman.

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Osamah Hitomi was kidnapped the moment he landed

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in Johannesburg and held for a five million dollar

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ransom. It's just terrifying. You get on a commercial

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flight thinking you're about to close the business

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deal of a lifetime and you are met at the arrivals

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gate by an armed organized crime syndicate. And

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the psychological toll of all this manipulation,

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it literally breaks people's minds. Sometimes

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that violence actually goes the other direction.

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In 2003, there was a terrible tragedy in Prague.

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A 72 -year -old Czech man named Zsuzsi Pasovsky

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had lost his entire life savings, about $600

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,000, to a Nigerian advance fee scam. And he

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just finally snapped. He was completely desperate.

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He went to the Nigerian embassy in Prague to

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demand help recovering his money. The embassy

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officials, of course, couldn't do anything. It's

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not like the embassy operates the scam or has

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the money. Pasofsky pulled out a handgun right

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there and shot the Nigerian consul dead. That

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is just tragedy stacked on top of tragedy. It

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really shows the massive blast radius of these

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crimes. It is not just numbers vanishing from

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a bank ledger. It is entire families destroyed,

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lives ended, and normal people pushed to the

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absolute brink of sanity. It is deeply sobering.

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And just to put a scale on this, the FBI reported

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that in a recent single year, Americans lost

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billions of dollars to these types of confidence

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frauds. And remember, because of the shame and

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the unclean hands trap, that number is only what

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was actually reported. The real number is likely

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double or triple that. Oh, and before we wrap,

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we should mention that mobile tower variant we

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saw in the research, just to show how localized

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this can get. Oh, right. The one in India and

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Pakistan. Yeah. Instead of Prince, scammers target

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rural landowners. They promise them huge rental

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payouts if they let a telecom company install

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a mobile cell tower on their farm. But first,

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the farmer has to pay for government clearance

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charges and fake land survey fees. It's the exact

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same advance fee software, just a different skin

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to match the local economy. Exactly. So we have

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gone from the funny Prince meme all the way to

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kidnapping, murder, and billions in global losses.

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It really feels like we need to fundamentally

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change how we interact with our spam folders.

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We really do. I think the major takeaway from

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all these sources is that advanced fee fraud

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is a historic, centuries -old confidence trick

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that has just perfectly adapted to the digital

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age. It weaponizes our own baseline psychology

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against us, our greed, our hope, our desperate

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need for connection, and our fear of missing

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out. And it uses that genius filter of bad grammar

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to make sure it only finds the people who are

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the most vulnerable to that manipulation. Right.

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It finds them, it isolates them, and then it

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uses shame and legal fear to keep them completely

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quiet. So I want to leave everyone listening

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with a final thought today. The next time you

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open your email and you see that ridiculous subject

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line, Dearest one, I have a proposition and you

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see all the crazy typos and you start to chuckle.

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Stop. Please don't laugh at it. Because that

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email is not a joke. It is a finely tuned, highly

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efficient weapon. And the fact that we laugh

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at it. That is exactly what the syndicates are

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counting on. Our laughter makes us dismiss it

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as harmless. It lets us ignore the scale of the

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industry. And while we are laughing, that weapon

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is sliding right past us, searching the internet

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for the one person who doesn't get the joke.

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And it is going to take absolutely everything

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they have. That is the grim reality. But I'll

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add one more thing for you to chew on, something

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we didn't cover in the sources, but that is coming

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fast. Think about artificial intelligence. Generative

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AI can write perfect, highly persuasive, grammatically

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flawless emails. It can clone voices perfectly.

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When the scammers no longer need the bad grammar

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to filter out the skeptics, when they can generate

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bespoke, highly personalized traps for smart

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people at scale, how are any of us going to spot

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the hook before it's too late? That is a terrifying

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thought to end on. Stay skeptical out there,

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friends. And remember, if it sounds too good

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to be true, it definitely is. Thanks for diving

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deep with us. We will see you on the next one.
