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Hello and welcome back to the Deep Dive. Today

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we are actually putting aside the history books

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and the scientific journals to focus on something

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that I think a lot of us hold near and dear to

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our hearts. We're looking at a very specific

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slice of pop culture history. Yeah, we are. We're

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talking about arguably the absolute peak of 90s

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sitcom television. We are talking about Frasier.

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But, you know, not just the show in general.

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We're zooming in with a microscope on season

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five. Which is such a fascinating choice. You

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know, usually when people talk about Frasier,

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they talk about the pilot or they talk about

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the finale. Or maybe they just quote lines about

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sherry and tossed salads. Right. Exactly. But

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focusing on season five specifically, that is

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where the gold is buried. Literally and figuratively.

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Literally gold. And before we get into the why

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of it all, let's just set the stage for you listening

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at home. We are transporting ourselves back to

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late 1997. The season premiered on September

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23rd, 1997 on NBC. Which was a massive time for

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NBC. Huge. Seinfeld is winding down its final

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season. Friends is absolutely huge. And here

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is this show about a snooty Seattle psychiatrist

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that is just completely dominating the landscape.

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It wasn't just dominating. It was evolving. If

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you were watching NBC in September of 97 and

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you tuned in for the premiere, you might have

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noticed something different right away. The title

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card. Exactly. The title card. For four years,

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the word Frazier came up on the screen in different

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colors. It was blue, red. Purple. Yeah. But in

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season five, it was gold. Just solid gold. That

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feels like a massive flex. Oh, it was absolutely

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flex. It was a victory lap before the race even

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started. Because at this point, the show had

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won the Emmy for Outstanding Comedy Series four

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years in a row. That's practically unheard of.

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It really is. And spoiler alert, they would go

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on to win it for this season, too, making it

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five. They were completely untouchable. Yeah.

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But the mission of our deep dive today isn't

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just to list their awards. No, we want to figure

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out how a show that could have easily just coasted

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on its massive success decided instead to just,

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well, blow everything up. Blow everything up

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is the perfect way to phrase it. It sounds a

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little dramatic for a show that's mostly known

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for, you know, opera jokes and wine tasting.

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It is dramatic. But just look at the arc of this

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season. We are exploring how they balanced high

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farce. Like the classic door slamming comedy

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they were famous for with massive irreversible

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life changes. This is the season where they really

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took the safety nets away. So we're essentially

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talking about the death of the status quo. That's

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exactly what it is. We have Roz Doyle's life

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turning completely upside down. We have the total

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painful deconstruction of Niles' marriage. We

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have Martin facing his own mortality. And then

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a season finale that literally destroys the character's

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workplace. Yeah, if you think Frasier is just

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comfy, safe television, season five really challenges

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that notion. So I want to start with one of the

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biggest shocks to the system, the evolution of

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Roz Doyle. Let's call this the pregnancy arc.

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This was a massive shift for the show. Up until

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this point, Roz is the quintessential single

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girl in the city. She's the gritty counterpoint

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to Frasier's stuffiness. Right. She's dating.

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She's having fun. She's a bit cynical. Yeah.

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And so giving her a baby, that fundamentally

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changes the DNA of the entire show. And it all

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kicks off in the episode titled Halloween. Now,

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I rewatched this recently, and it is just chaotic.

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Halloween is an absolute masterclass in sitcom

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structure. It aired October 28th, 97, and the

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setting is crucial here. Niles is throwing a

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literary -themed Halloween party. Of course he

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is, because a regular Halloween party would be

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too pedestrian for Niles Crane. Exactly. So everyone

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is dressed as characters from literature. Niles

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is Cyrano de Bergerac. Frazier is Jeffrey Chaucer.

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It's pretentious, it's highbrow, and it is the

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absolute perfect backdrop for a very gritty,

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real -world problem. Which is that Roz fears

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she might be pregnant. Right. And Frazier, being

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Frazier, decides to drag her to this party to

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distract her. Which seems like a terrible idea

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from the start. It's a horrible idea. But just

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watch how the writers use the party mechanics.

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Frazier gets drunk, which is pretty rare for

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him, and he accidentally leaks the information

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that... Roz might be pregnant. But he doesn't

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just get up on a table and I don't sit. No, it

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slips out in conversation. And because everyone

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is in costume and everyone is drinking, it turns

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into this incredible game of telephone. Oh, right.

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I remember this. People start whispering and

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the rumor just morphs completely out of control.

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Precisely. The rumor shifts from Roz is pregnant

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to Frazier got Roz pregnant to Daphne is pregnant.

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It's a complete farce engine. The gossip moves

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so much faster than the truth. And it's hilarious.

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But then we get to the key moment. Amidst all

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this silliness, all these layered literary puns,

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Roz steps in. She literally cuts the tension.

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She stops the music. She interrupts Frasier,

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who is desperately trying to do damage control

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at this point, and she just says it. She's heard

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from her doctor. She is pregnant. It's a total

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record scratch moment. It is. The laughter completely

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dies in the room. The farce evaporates. It's

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the writers directly telling the audience, okay,

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the jokes are over. This is real now. It's such

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a brilliant tonal shift. Oh, and I wanted to

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bring up a fun little trivia nugget here from

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the sources. The character Eve at the party,

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that's Camille Donatacci. She had actually married

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Kelsey Grammer just two months before this episode

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aired. Talk about keeping it in the family. Right.

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And wasn't there a famous guest caller in this

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one, too? There was. Cindy Crawford calls into

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the radio show as Dorothy. It just goes to show

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you the sheer cultural cachet the show had at

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that time. Supermodels were literally lining

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up to be hung up on by Frasier Crane. Amazing.

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So the bomb is dropped. Roz is pregnant. But

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the very next episode, which is called The Kid,

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is where the reality of the situation really

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sets in. Because now she has to deal with the

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father. And this is where we see that classic

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class conflict that Frasier loves to play with.

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Because Roz is a professional. She's a radio

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producer. She's in her 30s. And the father. Rick,

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the waiter. Right, Rick, a 20 -year -old waiter

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at Cafe Nervosa. Fraser just happens to spot

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him by chance. And the casting here is so brilliant

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because Rick isn't a bad guy. No, he's not a

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villain at all. He's just young. He's this cheerful,

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golden retriever of human being. Which honestly

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makes the situation so much more uncomfortable

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than if he were a jerk. Because if he were a

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jerk, you could just write him off and say good

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riddance. Exactly. You could dismiss him. But

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when Roz tells him the news, Rick tries to do

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the noble thing. He offers to drop out of college.

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He offers to marry her. He really tries to step

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up. And this is the pivot moment, right? This

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is where Roz becomes a completely different character

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in the eyes of the audience. It really is. I

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mean, a lesser show would have dragged this conflict

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out for half a season or had them awkwardly try

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to date. But Roz looks at this kid. and he really

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is a kid and she realizes that letting him ruin

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his future to support her would be a massive

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mistake for both of them so she tells him to

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stay in school she effectively sends him away

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she chooses to be a single mother and you have

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to remember in 1997 on network television that

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was a very strong choice It wasn't quite Murphy

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Brown levels of controversy, but it was still

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highly significant. Yeah, she displays a maturity

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that we really hadn't seen from her before. She

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stops being just the wisecracking sidekick and

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starts becoming a matriarch. And we see that

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fully pay off at the end of the season in the

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episode The Life of the Party. Right, which takes

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us to May of 98. The baby arrives. But look at

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the context of the episode. Roz is at a singles

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party that Niles and Frasier are throwing. Yes,

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she's heavily pregnant. She's feeling huge. She

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feels completely invisible to men. It's actually

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a very vulnerable and honest look at late stage

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pregnancy. And then, of course, her water breaks

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at the party. It's a standard sitcom trope, for

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sure. But the payoff isn't the birth itself.

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It's the scene afterward at the hospital. If

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you look at who is looking through the nursery

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window at baby Alice Mae Doyle. It's the gang.

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It's Frazier, Niles, Martin and Daphne. The work

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family. It completely solidifies that these people

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are her village now. Rick isn't there. Her parents

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aren't there. The Cranes are there. It entirely

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redefines the ensemble dynamic for the rest of

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the series. It's incredibly sweet. OK, so Roz

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is building a brand new life. But on the flip

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side of that coin, we have Niles Crane, who is

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essentially watching his life burn to the ground.

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Let's dig into the deconstruction of Niles Crane.

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This is truly the heavy emotional lifting of

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season five, because for four years. Maris was

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just a joke. She was this unseen, cartoonish

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villain. Yeah, she was just a collection of bizarre

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eccentricities. She can't produce saliva. She

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fits through the bars of a wrought iron gate.

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We just laughed at her. But this season, the

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laughter abruptly stops. It turns into genuine

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trauma. It starts with the episode The Zoo Story.

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Niles is in couples counseling with Maris. And

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we finally get a real glimpse of just how manipulative

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she is as a person. Right. She wants Niles to

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fire their therapist. Yes. And Niles thinks the

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therapist is actually helping them, so he refuses.

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Which is good for Niles for standing his ground.

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It is good for Niles. It's a real spine -stiffening

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moment for a character who is usually so submissive.

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But Maris brutally punishes him for it. She cuts

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off all conjugal visits. She literally uses intimacy

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as a weapon to control him. Which is just dark.

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It's really dark for a sitcom. It's abusive.

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Let's just call it what it is. And Niles is really

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struggling with it. But the real circuit breaker

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comes later in the episode, the Maris counselor.

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Oh, this episode. My heart breaks for Niles in

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this one. He tries so hard. He plans this whole

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romantic surprise for her. He does. He goes to

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their house to surprise her in the bedroom. And

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he discovers that Maris is having an affair.

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But the twist, the absolute knife in the back,

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is who she is having the affair with. Dr. Schenkman,

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the therapist, the exact guy that Niles fought

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so hard to keep. The very man Niles refused to

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fire because of his own professional ethics.

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It is a devastating double betrayal. And when

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he's confronted, Shankman says something that

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makes you realize just how deeply delusional

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he is. Right. He calls Maris a selfless soul.

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A selfless soul. I mean, Maris, selfless, it's

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absurd. It highlights that Shankman is completely

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under her spell. He's been manipulated just like

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Niles was. But we really have to talk about David

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Hyde Pierce's acting in this specific episode.

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Because there is a scene where Niles fully breaks

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down. Right. He's in a group therapy session

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that Frasier is leading. Yes. Broasts in. And

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if you just watch his face, it's incredible.

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He starts by trying to intellectualize the whole

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thing. He's a psychiatrist, right? So he uses

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all these clinical words like transference and

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displacement. He's manic. Totally manic. He's

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desperately trying to diagnose his own heartbreak

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so he doesn't actually have to feel it. But it

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doesn't work. The clinical detachment fails him.

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No, the facade completely cracks. He physically

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collapses. And the show is brave enough to just

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let it happen. There is a solid chunk of time

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in that scene where there is absolutely no laugh

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track. It's just a man. realizing his marriage

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is a total sham. It's a sheer masterclass in

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tragic comedy. So he leaves her. He finally finds

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the strength to leave her. He signs the papers.

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He walks away from the generational wealth, the

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mansion, the urinal cakes with the family crest

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on them. He becomes a man living in this jagged,

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weird little apartment. He is entirely deconstructed.

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But you know what they say. When one door closes,

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another one opens. Or at least it cracks open

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a little bit. We have to talk about Daphne. Because

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season five is absolutely huge for the whole

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will -they -weren't -they dynamic. It's completely

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pivotal. With Maris officially out of the picture.

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the main external obstacle is gone. Technically,

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Niles is free, but the internal obstacle, which

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is Niles' sheer terror of rejection, is very

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much still there. Well, we mentioned Halloween

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earlier. He actually proposed to her in that

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episode. Drunk. He was very drunk. And he was

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under the bizarre impression that she was the

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one pregnant with Frasier's baby. And she needed

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saving. Right. It was this weird white knight

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complex gone terribly wrong. Exactly. But from

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a storytelling perspective, it put the visual

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image of Niles proposing to Daphne right into

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the audience's head. It primed the pump. But

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the real forward movement happens in the episode

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First Date. This is such a fascinating psychological

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study of Niles. He decides he's finally going

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to ask her out. He pumps himself up. He talks

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it through with Frasier. He is ready to do it.

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And then chokes, completely freezes up. He freezes.

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Daphne mentions that she likes some guy or says

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something totally innocuous, and Niles just panics.

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To protect his fragile ego, he invents a massive

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lie on the spot. He says he's actually in love

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with a neighbor named Phyllis. Which is wild.

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Why does he do this? It seems so incredibly counterproductive

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to his actual goal. It's a pure defense mechanism.

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If he asks Daphne out and she says no, it destroys

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him completely. If he pretends to like this fake

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woman Phyllis, he's emotionally safe. But the

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lie immediately spirals out of control. Because

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Daphne, being the sweet, supportive friend she

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is, offers to help him cook a romantic dinner

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for Phyllis. So now he's cooking a complex seduction

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dinner for a woman who does not exist alongside

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the woman he is actually desperately in love

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with. It's torture. It's hilarious, delicious

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torture, and he actually has to recruit a real

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neighbor to play Phyllis because the lie gets

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so far out of hand. Yes, but Frasier, and this

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is exactly why we love Frasier as the character

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intervenes, he sees what's happening, and he

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chases the real neighbor away by casually telling

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her that Niles killed his first wife. He says

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something like, he has a temper. It's brilliant,

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and the result of that sabotage, the neighbor

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flees in terror. Niles and Daphne are left completely

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alone with this beautiful romantic dinner, and

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they sit down and eat it together. So it actually

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becomes a date? It's a proxy date. It allows

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them to safely enact the ritual of dating without

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any of the actual risk. It's a baby step, sure,

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but it's the very first time they're really sitting

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down as equals, sharing a romantic meal. It subtly

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but permanently changes the energy between them.

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Speaking of chaotic energy, we have to pivot

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and talk about the ski lodge. Ah. The masterpiece

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of the season. You called this the prime example

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of the show's structural brilliance in the notes.

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Now, for listeners who might just remember it

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as the episode with the gay ski instructor, why

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is this specific half hour so revered by television

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writers? Because it is a pure, unadulterated

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French farce. Specifically, it follows the intricate

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style of the playwright George's Fado. Fado.

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Okay, break that down for us. What does that

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actually mean in practice? So in your typical

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90s sitcom, the comedy is almost entirely in

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the dialogue. It's bing, bang, boom, punchline,

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set -up joke, set -up joke. In a Fadozo farce,

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the comedy comes from the physical architecture

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and the sheer mechanics of misunderstanding.

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It's all about who is in what room, which door

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is opening at what exact second, and who just

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narrowly missed seeing whom. It is highly mathematical

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comedy. So set the scene for us in this episode.

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The setup is deliberately contrived, as all classic

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farces have to be. Roz wins a weekend trip to

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a ski lodge, but she can't go, so she trades

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to Frazier. For a new television. Naturally.

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So the whole gang heads up to this cabin. Frasier,

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Niles, Daphne, and Martin. Plus their two guests,

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Annie, who is a beautiful swimsuit model and

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a friend of Daphne's, and Guy, the very handsome,

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very French ski instructor. And this is where

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the famous round robin of attraction begins.

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It's a daisy chain of desire. And let's actually

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track it because if you miss even one link in

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this chain, the whole engine falls apart. Okay,

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so Frasier desperately wants Annie. He is pursuing

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her very aggressively. Got it. Frasier likes

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Annie. But Annie is completely not interested

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in Frasier. She is utterly obsessed with Niles.

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She thinks Niles is this tortured, poetic, romantic

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soul. Which, to be fair, he is. Just not for

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her. Right. Niles is entirely blind to Annie

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because he only wants Daphne. Daphne, meanwhile,

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decides she wants a fun little holiday fling.

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So she is actively pursuing Guy, the ski instructor.

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And Guy. Who does Guy want? Guy thinks Niles

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is pursuing him. It's so funny. Why does he think

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that? It's all because of Martin. Martin's ears

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are clogged from the high altitude of the mountains.

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He literally can't hear a single thing anyone

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is saying. So when Guy says things to Martin

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like, your son is very handsome, Martin just

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smiles, nods, and gives him a big thumbs up.

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Oh my gosh. So Guy thinks he has the father's

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explicit blessing to date his son Niles. And

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doesn't Guy also think that Daphne and Annie

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are a couple? Yes. Because he catches them in

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a bedroom together in a totally innocent but

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compromising looking situation. Yeah. So you

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have this perfect unbroken circle of misunderstanding.

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Fraser wants Annie. Annie wants Niles. Niles

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wants Daphne. Daphne wants Guy. Guy wants Niles.

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And Guy thinks Daphne and Annie are together.

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It creates a perpetual motion machine of slamming

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doors and near misses. And the dialogue during

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all this? The dialogue is almost secondary to

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the geometry of the scene. The absolute funniest

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moments are just... Silent reaction shots. Like

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Niles' face. Yes. Niles realizing that Guy is

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hitting on him. Or Frasier realizing at the very

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climax of the chaos that he is the only single

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person in the entire lodge who is not being lusted

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after by anyone. It's an intricate ballet. You

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could legitimately watch the episode with the

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sound totally turned off and still completely

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understand the story. Yeah. That is incredibly

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hard to write. It really is. It feels exactly

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like a stage play translated to television. OK,

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so let's pivot from the physical chaos of the

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ski lodge to the mental chaos happening inside

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Frasier Crane's head, because season five really

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puts his massive ego under the microscope. It

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really does. You know, on paper, Frasier is an

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incredibly successful man. He's rich. He's famous

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in the city. He's highly educated. But underneath

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all of that, he has this gaping, unfillable hole

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of insecurity. And season five just constantly

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pokes at it. Let's look at the episode The Thousandth

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Show. This is. Obviously a huge milestone for

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his radio career. It is. 1 ,000 broadcasts. And

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Frazier plays his classic humble servant routine.

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Oh, I don't want to fuss. It's just my job. Please

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don't make a big deal out of it. But secretly,

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he wants a parade. He absolutely wants the confetti

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and the marching bands. He craves the external

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validation. And the city actually gives it to

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him. The mayor officially declares it Frazier

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Crane Day in Seattle. There's a massive rally

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set up at the base of the Space Needle. By all

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accounts, this should be the greatest day of

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his entire life. But of course it goes terribly

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wrong. Horribly, hilariously wrong. He and Niles

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decide to walk to the rally to enjoy the adulation

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of the city, but they get lost. Frasier gets

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stunned by a bee. A blind man ends up stealing

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his shoes. It's an odyssey of disaster. He completely

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misses his own rally. He misses his big moment

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of glory. But there's a moment at the very end

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of the episode that I think really saves it from

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just being... 30 minutes of Fraser needlessly

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suffering. You're talking about the limo scene.

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Yeah. He ends up sharing a ride. I think it's

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a limo with a fan. It's a listener. The chauffeur

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of the limo. A guy named John. So Fraser is sitting

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in the back, completely miserable. He's ranting

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about how his day is ruined and nobody cares

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about him. And then he stops and asks John, do

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you actually listen to my show? And John says

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yes. And John starts telling him a story about

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how Fraser's advice helped him deal with a really

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tough problem he was having with his brother.

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And Frazier just completely shuts up. He stops

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performing and he actually listens. And you can

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visibly see the massive ego deflate and the actual

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doctor appear. He realizes in that quiet moment

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that the giant rally doesn't matter. The 999

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people cheering at the Space Needle don't matter.

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Helping this one specific guy in the front seat

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matters. It completely grounds him. It's a beautiful

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moment, but, you know, that ego is very resilient

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and it comes bouncing right back, especially

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in his dating life. Which brings us to a section

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we're calling relationship failures. It is a

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brutally funny year for Frazier's heart. He dates

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these incredible, formidable women, but either

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he ruins it or the universe ruins it for him.

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Let's take Frazier's imaginary friend as an example.

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He dates Selah Ward. He dates Kelly Easterbrook.

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A literal supermodel who also happens to be a

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zoologist. She is objectively the perfect woman.

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But nobody in his family belies him. Because

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she's going through a messy breakup. And she

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insists on keeping their relationship a total

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secret. It's a brilliant reversal of the classic

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George class trope or the fake girlfriend in

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Canada excuse. Frazier is actually telling the

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truth. But because of the circumstances, he sounds

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completely insane to everyone around him. Right.

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His family starts pitying him. They honestly

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think he's having a psychotic break, much like

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Niles did. It's a direct attack on his credibility,

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which he values so highly. And then there's the

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episode My Fair Frazier. Now, this one attacks

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his masculinity or at least his very traditional.

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rigid view of his own masculinity. He starts

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dating Samantha Pierce, who is a high -powered,

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high -profile defense attorney. And in this dynamic,

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she's the busy one. She's the one constantly

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canceling dates because of work. She's the undeniable

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alpha in the relationship. And Frazier essentially

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becomes the wife. In the classic 1950s sitcom

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sense of the word, yes. He becomes the homemaker.

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He's the one waiting by the phone. He's the one

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pouting when she's late. He's picking out gifts

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for her colleagues. And he absolutely hates it.

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He can't handle it. He cannot handle not being

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the dominant driving force in the relationship.

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It totally exposes his deep need for control.

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But the absolute ultimate blow to his ego out

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of the whole season has to be the episode The

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Perfect Guy. Oh, Dr. Clint Webber. Played so

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brilliantly by Billy Campbell. This character

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is as if he was designed in a secret laboratory

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just to systematically destroy Frasier Crane's

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self -esteem. He's incredibly handsome. He's

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a brilliant doctor. He went to Oxford. He plays

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squash better than Frazier. He speaks much better

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French than Frazier. And the worst part for Frazier

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is that he's nice. He's incredibly nice. He's

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genuinely humble and kind. And Frazier cannot

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stand it for a second. He spends the entire duration

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of the episode desperately, obsessively trying

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to find just one single flaw, just one tiny thing

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that Clint is bad at. But why? I mean, why can't

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he just be happy to have found a peer? Because

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Frazier's entire identity is built on the foundation

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of being the best. He has to be the smartest

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guy in the room. He has to be the most cultured.

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If Clint Webber exists and is better at all those

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things, then Frasier feels entirely redundant.

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It's deep existential dread disguised as petty,

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childish jealousy. And when he finally, finally

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finds the flaw. And Lent is tone deaf. He confidently

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sings a song and he's absolutely awful at it.

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He can't carry a tune in a bucket. And the look

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of pure, unadulterated, malicious joy on Frasier's

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face when he hears it is just priceless. It's

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so petty, but it's also deeply, deeply human.

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We've all been there. All right, let's move from

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the sons to the patriarch, Martin Crane. We spend

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so much time talking with the boys and their

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neuroses, but Martin actually had a very quiet,

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very beautiful, emotional arc throughout season

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five. Martin is the anchor of the show, and the

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episode The Gift Horse is really the essential

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Martin episode of the season, if not the whole

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series. centers around his 65th birthday. This

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is the episode where they try to outgift each

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other, right? Frasier buys him the giant TV.

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Right. Frasier buys him this massive, absurdly

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large, wall -sized television. Because Frasier

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often equates money with love. He drops a fortune

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on this thing, and he smugly thinks he's easily

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won the birthday. But Niles goes in a completely

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different, much more thoughtful direction. Niles

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buys a Gides. Ogides is an old police horse that

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Martin used to ride when he was on mounted patrol

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back in his glory days. Niles tracked this specific

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horse down and paid for its full retirement in

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a really nice stable. And the scene where they

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actually go to visit the horse, it's very different

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tonally. It's not playing for laughs. No, it's

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profoundly melancholy. Martin walks into the

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stable and sees this old, tired horse. And he

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essentially sees himself. He delivers this incredible,

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quiet monologue to the horse about how the two

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of them used to be so strong. They used to own

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the city streets. People respected them. They

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were in the thick of the action. And now they're

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just old. Yeah. They have stiff knees. They can't

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do the job anymore. They've essentially been

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put out to pasture by society. It's a really

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stark meditation on aging. It is. And it hits

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both of the brothers incredibly hard. Because

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initially, Fraser's just jealous that Niles obviously

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got the better, more meaningful gift. He's pouting

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about it. But in a moment of genuine emotional

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growth, when they both see Martin crying over

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the horse, Niles does something unexpected. He

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tells Martin that the gift is actually from both

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of them. He voluntarily shares the credit. He

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totally sacrifices his own victory in this sibling

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rivalry just to preserve Frazier's dignity and

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to maximize Martin's happiness. It's an incredibly

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selfless, mature moment for Niles. It's beautiful.

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And we also see Martin's heartbreak later in

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the season, his ongoing relationship with Sherry.

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Sherry Dempsey. The absolute bane of the crane

00:25:12.539 --> 00:25:15.480
boy's existence. She is loud, she's brash, she

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wears strong perfume, she plays the banjo in

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the apartment. But Martin genuinely loves her.

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She makes him laugh when he's usually so grumpy.

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She definitely brings a lot of life and noise

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into that quiet apartment. But in the episode

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Ain't Nobody's Business, if I do, the relationship

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finally ends. And I love exactly how the writers

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handled this breakup. Right, because the boys

00:25:34.259 --> 00:25:36.349
try to sabotage it, don't they? Oh, they do.

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They hire a private investigator to dig into

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her past, and they find out she's been married

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six times before. Which is an awful invasion

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of privacy. It's terrible behavior. But that

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is actually not why the couple breaks up. Martin

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proposes to Sherry. He wants the commitment of

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marriage. Sherry loves him deeply, but she values

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her personal freedom. She's been married six

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times. She doesn't want to be tied down again.

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So it's a completely mature... adult breakup.

00:26:03.829 --> 00:26:06.490
Exactly. It's not a sitcom misunderstanding that

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could be solved in five minutes. It's two people

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who just fundamentally want different things

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out of the rest of their lives. Martin realizes

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that at his age, 65, he wants permanence. He

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wants a wife. Sherry just wants a boyfriend to

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have fun with. It's heartbreaking specifically

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because nobody is the bad guy in the situation.

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It's just life. Okay, so we have covered the

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unexpected pregnancy, the bitter divorce, the

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bruised ego, the heartbreaking breakup. Now we

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finally arrive at the season finale, Sweet Dreams.

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This is the episode where the writers just decided

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to burn the entire house down to the ground.

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And it starts over something so incredibly small.

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It starts with tea. Right. Frazier is asked to

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read a live commercial on his show for Happy

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Dreams Tea, but he tries it and he thinks it's

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complete snake oil. It doesn't work. It tastes

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awful. So he stands on his principles and outright

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refuses to read the ad copy. Which, as an audience,

00:27:00.559 --> 00:27:02.859
we generally respect. We like that he has integrity.

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We do. But the real -world consequences are catastrophic.

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The station management fires him for insubordination.

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And then it just snowballs from there? The new

00:27:12.480 --> 00:27:15.519
station manager, Kenny... tries to defend Frazier

00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:18.259
to the higher -ups, so Kenny gets fired. Seeing

00:27:18.259 --> 00:27:20.700
this, Frazier decides to lead a full -blown workers'

00:27:20.859 --> 00:27:23.700
revolt. He gathers all the on -air talent, Bulldog,

00:27:23.859 --> 00:27:26.779
Yul Chesterton, Roz. They march down to the mysterious

00:27:26.779 --> 00:27:29.059
station owner's office to demand their jobs back

00:27:29.059 --> 00:27:31.500
and stand up for creative integrity. It's like

00:27:31.500 --> 00:27:33.579
Les Miserables taking place in a Seattle radio

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station. It really is. Until they actually meet

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the owner. They think his name is Joe Martin,

00:27:38.099 --> 00:27:40.509
this corporate suit. It turns out... It's Jose

00:27:40.509 --> 00:27:42.589
Martinez. And he isn't firing them because of

00:27:42.589 --> 00:27:44.869
the tea boycott at all. Why is he firing them?

00:27:45.049 --> 00:27:47.390
He's fundamentally changing the station's format.

00:27:47.829 --> 00:27:51.690
He's flipping KACL from talk radio to Latino

00:27:51.690 --> 00:27:54.789
Amigo, an all Latino music station. So it's not

00:27:54.789 --> 00:27:57.369
a personal vendetta against Frazier's principles.

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It's just cold, hard business. Which actually

00:28:00.190 --> 00:28:03.160
makes it so much worse for Frazier's ego. You

00:28:03.160 --> 00:28:05.579
can argue with a person about ethics, but you

00:28:05.579 --> 00:28:07.920
cannot argue with a demographic shift in market

00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:10.900
research. Martinez just fires everyone on the

00:28:10.900 --> 00:28:15.200
spot. Frazier, Ross, Bulldog, Gill. In one fell

00:28:15.200 --> 00:28:17.859
swoop, the entire core cast is unemployed. And

00:28:17.859 --> 00:28:20.240
the episode ends on such an odd, jarring note.

00:28:20.539 --> 00:28:22.960
The credits roll and usually for five years we

00:28:22.960 --> 00:28:25.200
hear Frasier singing tossed salads and scrambled

00:28:25.200 --> 00:28:27.880
eggs. But this time it's an upbeat salsa version

00:28:27.880 --> 00:28:29.779
of the theme song. It's a total shock to the

00:28:29.779 --> 00:28:32.279
system. It creates this massive unsettling void.

00:28:32.660 --> 00:28:36.079
The audience in May of 1998 was left thinking,

00:28:36.259 --> 00:28:38.119
wait, is there even going to be a radio show

00:28:38.119 --> 00:28:40.160
next year? What exactly is this show if they

00:28:40.160 --> 00:28:42.140
aren't working at the station? It was a massive

00:28:42.140 --> 00:28:45.319
structural cliffhanger. So let's try to synthesize

00:28:45.319 --> 00:28:47.359
all of this. We started the hour by saying season

00:28:47.359 --> 00:28:50.730
five is the death of the status quo. Just think

00:28:50.730 --> 00:28:53.789
about exactly where we end up. Roz is a single

00:28:53.789 --> 00:28:56.650
mother with a newborn. Niles is divorced and

00:28:56.650 --> 00:28:59.730
living alone in a depressing bachelor pad. Martin

00:28:59.730 --> 00:29:02.849
is single again and feeling his age. And everyone,

00:29:03.009 --> 00:29:06.210
the entire ensemble, is unemployed. The chessboard

00:29:06.210 --> 00:29:08.170
hasn't just been moved, it's been completely

00:29:08.170 --> 00:29:10.529
flipped over. And yet, despite all that heavy

00:29:10.529 --> 00:29:13.289
drama, it's also arguably the funniest season

00:29:13.289 --> 00:29:15.690
of the show's entire run. That is the specific

00:29:15.690 --> 00:29:18.579
magic of season five. They managed to seamlessly

00:29:18.579 --> 00:29:21.839
blend the absolute darkest, most vulnerable moments

00:29:21.839 --> 00:29:24.339
of these characters' lives with the highest,

00:29:24.519 --> 00:29:27.680
most chaotic peaks of physical farce. They genuinely

00:29:27.680 --> 00:29:29.779
trusted their audience to handle the tonal whiff

00:29:29.779 --> 00:29:31.799
lash. I want to leave you, the listeners, with

00:29:31.799 --> 00:29:34.000
the final thought to chew on. We talked a lot

00:29:34.000 --> 00:29:36.180
today about Niles. He goes through absolute hell

00:29:36.180 --> 00:29:38.640
this season. He loses his wife. He loses his

00:29:38.640 --> 00:29:41.220
family money. He loses his social standing, his

00:29:41.220 --> 00:29:43.539
home. He is completely stripped bare of everything

00:29:43.539 --> 00:29:46.519
that defined him. But because of that, he also

00:29:46.519 --> 00:29:49.140
finally gains the courage to eat that dinner

00:29:49.140 --> 00:29:51.579
with Daphne. He gains the courage to finally

00:29:51.579 --> 00:29:54.819
stand up to Maris' abuse. So here's the question

00:29:54.819 --> 00:29:58.319
for you. Was the total destruction of Niles'

00:29:58.460 --> 00:30:02.000
safe, wealthy, insulated life the necessary trauma

00:30:02.000 --> 00:30:04.839
required to make him a man worthy of Daphne Moon?

00:30:05.079 --> 00:30:07.900
Oh, wow. Did he have to lose the fantasy life

00:30:07.900 --> 00:30:10.380
to actually get the reality he wanted? Exactly.

00:30:11.019 --> 00:30:12.700
Did the universe essentially have to break him

00:30:12.700 --> 00:30:15.019
down to nothing just to build him back up into

00:30:15.019 --> 00:30:17.059
someone who could actually be a strong, equal

00:30:17.059 --> 00:30:19.900
partner to her? That is a profoundly interesting

00:30:19.900 --> 00:30:22.220
question. And looking at the evidence of the

00:30:22.220 --> 00:30:24.319
season, I think the answer is yes. It's definitely

00:30:24.319 --> 00:30:26.440
something to mull over. Thank you so much for

00:30:26.440 --> 00:30:28.440
joining us on this deep dive into Frasier season

00:30:28.440 --> 00:30:30.220
five. We will catch you on the next one.
