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Okay, I want you to close your eyes for a second.

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We're going on a little trip. Imagine you just

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walked into a room in the Dutch Republic, maybe

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around 1668. And the first thing that hits you

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is the noise. It is just deafeningly loud. There's

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a bagpipe screeching. People are shouting over

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the music. A dog is probably barking somewhere.

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It sounds like a party you walked into by mistake.

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Or maybe one you've been looking for all night.

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Then the smell hits you. Pipe smoke. Heavy and

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sweet, mixed with spilled wine and roasted meat.

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You're really painting a picture. And visually,

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it's just chaos. But it's this warm, inviting

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chaos. You see a family, three generations of

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them, all crammed around a table. The colors

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are incredibly rich. Deep violets, warm oranges,

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shimmering pinks. It feels cozy. It feels like

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a celebration. Right. But here's the thing. While

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it looks like a scene of, you know, domestic

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bliss, we are actually looking at a crime scene.

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A moral crime scene anyway. Exactly. Today we

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are unpacking one of the absolute heavyweights

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of the Dutch Golden Age. We're looking at John

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Steen's masterpiece, As the Old Sing, So Pipe

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the Young. Which is hanging in the Mauritius

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in the Hague right now. And I think it's terrifying

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parents just as effectively today as it did 350

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years ago. Terrifying is the right word, isn't

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it? Despite how cheerful it all looks. It's a

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trap. Sting draws you in with these warm colors

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and the laughing faces. And then once you're

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comfortable, he hits you with the lecture. It's

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a masterclass in satire. So the mission for this

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deep dive is to figure out how Steen pulls off

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this magic trick. We're going to sort of read

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this painting like a book. Yeah, decode it. Decode

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the symbols, the history, and this very specific

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anxiety that was plaguing Dutch society in the

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17th century. Because this isn't just a picture

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of a messy party. It's a manifesto on nature

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versus nurture. That's the core of it, really.

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And to understand that, we have to start with

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that incredible title, As the Old Sing, So Pipe

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the Young. In Dutch, that's, what was it? Suvorgzongen

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Suenagapiepen. Exactly. It sounds distinctly

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like a proverb. I know the Dutch in the 1600s

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loved their proverbs almost as much as they loved

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their tulips. They absolutely did. And this one

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comes from a man named Jacob Katz, who was basically

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the Dr. Phil or the moral grandfather of the

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Netherlands at the time. His poetry books were

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in almost every household. Right next to the

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Bible. Wow. And the proverb is pretty literal

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on the surface. Just as the old birds sing, the

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young birds pipe or chirp the same tune. So monkey

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see, monkey do. Essentially. Yeah. But we have

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to place this in the context of the Dutch Golden

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Age. This was a society that had suddenly become

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incredibly wealthy. You had merchants and brewers

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making fortunes that their parents could only

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dream of. And with that new money came a massive

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societal anxiety. Yes. Are we ruining our children?

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A tale as old as time, right? The fear that the

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next generation will be soft or spoiled because

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they didn't have to struggle. Exactly. And the

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Dutch had a very specific pseudoscientific view

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on this. They saw inheritance as a two -sided

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coin. On one side, you had blood, nature. You

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inherit your father's nose, your mother's eyes.

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But the other side was behavior or nurture. They

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believed a child's character was like soft wax.

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Oh, I see where this is going. If a parent acted

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like a fool, they were literally stamping foolishness

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into the soul of their child. That puts an immense

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amount of pressure on parents. It's not just

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don't do bad things. It's if you do bad things,

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you are biologically programming your child to

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be a disaster. Precisely. And Janstein was obsessed

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with this idea. He painted this specific theme,

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the bad family, something like... 13 times. Yeah.

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But this version we're looking at is the definitive

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one. It's the sharpest, most complex take. Okay,

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so let's get into the visual evidence. We're

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looking at a large canvas. It's pretty commanding,

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and it's dominated by these three generations.

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Let's start with the old who are doing the singing,

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the grandmother. Right, in the foreground. She's

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sitting there looking a bit flushed, and she's

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holding a sheet of music wide open. Art historians

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are pretty sure this is modeled after Steen's

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own mother. Oh, really? Yeah. And she isn't just

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reading the music. She is belting it out. She

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represents the decree, you know, the example

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being set. And then next to her, we have the

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parents. And this is where it gets really interesting.

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The father, the guy on the right in the black

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hat who looks like he's having the time of his

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life. That's John Steen. That's him. A self -portrait.

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He didn't paint himself as like the wise man

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in the corner shaking his head. He painted himself

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as the ringleader of the circus. And look what

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he's doing. He's laughing maniacally and he's

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holding a pipe out to his son. He is literally

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teaching his young child to smoke tobacco. It's

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such a shocking image even today. You see a toddler

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basically reaching for a pipe and his father

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isn't stopping him. He's encouraging him. And

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this is where the visual pun comes in. The proverb

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says, as the old sing. So piped the young. In

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Dutch, piping can mean singing like a bird. But

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it also means smoking a pipe. Exactly. So Steen

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is being very clever. The father smokes a pipe

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so the son learns to smoke a pipe. The metaphor

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becomes completely literal. And the mother isn't

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exactly helping. She's the woman in the lavender

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skirt and that green coat, which, by the way,

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is beautifully painted. Oh, he was a master of

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texture. And that's his wife, Marguerite van

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Goyen. Notice her posture. She's relaxed, leaning

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back. Her glass is empty. But she has it outstretched

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and a servant is pouring her a refill. Yes. So

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grandma's loud, dad is getting the kid hooked

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on nicotine, and mom is getting drunk. It's a

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trifecta of vice. And because they're doing it,

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the children are following suit. You see the

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younger son with the pipe, but the older son,

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the boy on the bench, he's playing the bagpipes.

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Which, to a 17th century viewer, was a huge red

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flag. Right. Let's pause on the bagpipes because

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today I see bagpipes and I think, oh, some folk

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music, maybe a Scottish parade or something.

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Not in the Dutch Republic. This is a crucial

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cultural code. In the 1600s, sophisticated people

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played the lute or the harpsichord, instruments

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that required study, precision. They represented

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harmony. And the bagpipe. The bagpipe was a peasant

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instrument. It was loud. It was droning. And

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it was associated with. Body village festivals,

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drinking, debauchery. And wasn't there a physical

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connotation to the shape of it? Oh, absolutely.

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It was undeniably phallic. In Dutch slang and

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folklore, the bagpipe was often a euphemism for,

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well, for male genitalia or sexual appetite.

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So having the son play it isn't just about him

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being loud. No. Steen is signaling that the boy

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is becoming low. He's adopting the morals of

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a drunk peasant. He's heading down a path of

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lust and, you know. Lack of control. That's devastating.

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The parents clearly have money. You can tell

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by the clothes, the silver platter, the expensive

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carpet on the table. But their son is behaving

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like a peasant because of their example. Exactly.

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Money can't buy class, and it certainly doesn't

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buy good parenting. That's the warning. This

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whole idea of mimicry seems to be everywhere

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in the painting. I'm looking at the top left

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corner, and there's a parrot. Yes, the parrot.

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Now, usually in Dutch art, a parrot means exotic

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trade, wealth. It's a status symbol. Look at

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us. We can afford a bird from the tropics. Right.

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But here, Steen is using the parrot for its biological

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trait. What does a parrot do? It repeats whatever

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it hears without understanding it. It's a mindless

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mimic. Yeah. The parrot is the mascot of this

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family. It doesn't have a moral compass. It just

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reflects the noise around it, just like the children.

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Wow. That is such a sharp detail. And right near

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the parrot, there's another birdcage, a smaller

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one. Yes, with two birds inside. This is a classic

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Dutch visual rhyme. Two birds in a small cage

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was often a metaphor for two parents in a small

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abode or the domestic partnership. It emphasizes

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that the rot starts at the head in the marriage

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itself. And speaking of the marriage, there's

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a detail I noticed that connects Steen and his

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wife, the figures in the painting. They're both

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wearing pink ribbons. She has one in her hair.

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He has one on his hat. Good eye. That's more

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than fashion. It's a visual link. It implies

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they are cut from the same spool. It unifies

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them in their guilt. You can't just blame. The

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father or just the mother, they are tied together

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in this conspiracy of bad parenting. I love how

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these paintings are like onions. You peel back

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party, you get bad parenting, you peel that back,

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and you get sexual vice. Because there's food

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on the table, too. Specifically, oysters. Ah,

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the oyster. The most charged food in art history.

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It's never just a snack, is it? Never. In the

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17th century, the oyster was the ultimate symbol

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of aphrodite love, sexual availability, fertility.

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Yeah. It was considered an aphrodisiac. But didn't

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you say that symbol was a bit... Retro by the

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1660s? I did. You have a sharp memory. It had

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faded a bit, yes. Steen bringing it back here

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is significant. He's reviving this old symbol

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of gluttony and lust to show that the parents'

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appetites aren't just for wine and tobacco. They're

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consumed by their own desires. And when you're

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focused on your own pleasure, the pipe, the cup,

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the oyster, you aren't looking at your kids.

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It's the definition of negligence. They're present

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physically, but absent morally. And I guess the

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pipe wordplay comes back again. You've got the

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smoking pipe, the bagpipe. In an old Dutch, a

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specific type of tall wine glass or vessel was

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also sometimes called a peep. So you have this

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triple pun running through the whole image. Smoking,

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music, drinking, all covered by the title. That

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is just incredibly dense storytelling. It's like

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a meme, basically. A very high -effort, oil -painted

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meme. It is. And that brings us to the man himself,

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Jan Steen. We need to talk about why he painted

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himself as the villain. I mean, that's a bold

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move. It feels risky, especially since Steen

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had a bit of a reputation in real life, didn't

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he? He did. He came from a Catholic family in

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Leiden. His father was a brewer, which explains

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the comfort with alcohol, but the business struggled.

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Steen himself was constantly in financial trouble.

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He ran a tavern for a while, moved cities to

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dodge creditors. He lived a chaotic life. Isn't

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there a Dutch saying about that? Yes, to this

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day. A John Steen household. No way. People still

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say that. They do. If you walk into a house that's

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messy, loud, and disorganized, you say, it's

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a John Steen household in here. Yeah. He became

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the icon of domestic chaos. So by painting himself

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as the laughing, irresponsible father, he's leaning

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into the brand. He's winking at the audience.

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He knows you know who he is. But there's a deeper

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layer to that laughing face. In 17th century

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philosophy, the wise man was serious, stoic,

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laughter. Laughter was the mark of the fool.

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The drunkard. So it's self -deprecation. He's

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casting himself as the fool. He is. But this

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raises a fascinating question about his patrons.

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Who is buying this painting? We know his work

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was collected by respectable people. Doctors,

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lawyers, pharmacists. That seems counterintuitive.

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Why would a respectable doctor want a painting

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of a drunk smoking family hanging in his hallway?

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Two reasons. First, the technique. He was an

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incredible painter. The way he captures light,

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the sheen of the silk, the smoke hanging in the

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air. It's beautiful to look at. It's visually

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pleasing, even if the subject is ugly. Right.

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But secondly, and more importantly, it served

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a didactic purpose. It was a conversation piece.

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The doctor could invite his friends over, point

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to the painting, and say, look at this disaster.

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This is what happens if you lose control. Thank

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goodness we aren't like that. Ah, so it's schadenfreude.

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It's a way to signal your own virtue by contrasting

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it with the vice on the wall. I keep this to

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remind myself what not to be. Exactly. It allowed

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them to enjoy the transgressive thrill of the

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party. Because, let's be honest, the party looks

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fun while maintaining their moral superiority.

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It's the same reason we watch reality TV shows

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about hoarding. We get to gawk at the mess and

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feel better about our own laundry pile. That

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is the perfect modern parallel. We haven't changed

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much in 350 years. But I keep coming back to

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Steen's face in the painting. He looks so happy.

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Knowing about his life, though, the debts, the

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struggles. Is there a tragedy hidden in there?

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That's the interpretation that has gained traction

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in recent years. You can view this as a funny

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satire to sell to rich people. But you can also

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view it as a confession. Steen had children.

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He knew he wasn't the perfect provider. He knew

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the brewery was failing. When he paints himself

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teaching his son to smoke, is he laughing because

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it's a joke? Or is he laughing because it's the

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truth? That adds such a heavy, melancholic undertone

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to the whole thing. It stops being just a cartoon

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and becomes a very personal admission of guilt.

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It does. And I think that's why Steen is a master.

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If this were just a finger -wagging sermon, we

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would have forgotten it. But because he puts

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himself in the center of it, because he makes

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the vice look so warm and human, it sticks with

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you. It really does. It makes you look at your

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own habits. We worry about screen time today,

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parents on their phones while the kids watch,

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but Steen was worrying about pipe time. The technology

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changes, but the dynamic is identical. The mirror

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is still reflective. The painting asks the viewer,

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what are you modeling? What song are you singing?

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Because whatever it is, your children are going

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to pipe it right back at you. That is a sobering

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thought to end on. We started with a party. And

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we ended with an existential crisis about parenting.

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That is the Jan Steen experience. I want to leave

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you with one final thought to mull over. We've

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talked about the noise, the smoke, the warning.

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But look at the painting one last time in your

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mind. The door is open. The light is flooding

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in. The viewer is standing right at the threshold.

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Steen isn't just showing us a family. He's inviting

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us in. He's offering us a chair. And the question

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isn't just, are they bad parents? The question

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is... Are you going to sit down and join them?

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Because the party looks pretty good and the moral

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high ground is lonely. A dangerous invitation.

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Indeed. Thanks for taking this deep dive with

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us. Until next time.
