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You know that specific feeling when you're watching

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a movie and your brain is essentially split in

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two? One half is screaming, call the police,

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this is a felony, and the other half is like

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humming along to the music thinking, oh, look

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at them fall in love. Yeah. It's that cognitive

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dissonance where you just... You aren't sure

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if you're supposed to be terrified or charmed.

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It's a very specific type of cinematic gaslighting,

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isn't it? Exactly. And today we are diving into

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the absolute masterclass of that manipulation.

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This is a big one. We are looking at Pedro Almodovar's

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1989 explosion of color and controversy, Tie

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Me Up, Tie Me Down, or Atame in the original

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Spanish. This is a film that, I mean, it just...

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It defies categorization. It is vibrant. It is

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hilarious. It is deeply disturbing. And it is

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arguably the reason the American film rating

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system looks the way it does today. That is the

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part that really hooked me when I was prepping

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for this. We're going to talk about the plot,

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obviously, because it is wild. It's beyond wild.

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But the backstory here is just as dramatic. I

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mean, we are talking about a movie that broke

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the MPAA. It forced the industry to invent the

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NC -17 rating. It did. It really did. It sits

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right at the intersection of high art, romantic

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comedy, horror, and a massive legal battle over

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censorship. So here is our mission for this deep

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dive. We have the production history. We have

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the legal arguments from the lawsuit against

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the Motion Picture Association of America. And

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we have the critical analysis from both sides

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of the Atlantic. We are going to figure out how

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a story about a violent abduction became a fairy

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tale. And we're going to ask the hard question.

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Is this movie a romance or is it just Stockholm

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Syndrome with better lighting? That is the fundamental

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question. It really is. And to answer it, you

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have to start with the sheer audacity of the

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premise. I mean, Almodovar isn't hiding the ball

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here. He tells you exactly what this is from

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the opening frames. Right. Let's set the stage.

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We have our protagonist, Ricky. And honestly,

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protagonist feels like a generous word given

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what he does. But that is how the film frames

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him. It is. Ricky is played by Antonio Banderas,

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who was just, what, 23 years old at the time?

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So young. And the context of his character is

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absolutely crucial to understanding. why the

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movie doesn't just feel like a slasher film.

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Ricky is an orphan. He has spent his entire life

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in institutions. We meet him on the day he's

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being released from a psychiatric hospital. And

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the doctors explicitly tell him he is cured.

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But this is where I get stuck. What does cured

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even mean to a guy who has literally never lived

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in the real world? Well, that's the key insight

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into his psychology, isn't it? Ricky's logic

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isn't emotional. It is. It's binary. It is institutional.

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In a hospital or an orphanage, you follow rules

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A, B, and C, and you get reward D. He believes

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society works the same way. He wants to be a

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normal person. And to him, normal has a very

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specific, very rigid definition. A job, a wife,

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and children. Exactly. A job, a wife, and children.

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He treats it like a grocery list. Okay, I have

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the pants. Now I need the wife. Exactly. It's

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structural. He needs to acquire these things

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to validate his existence as a person in the

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outside world. But he doesn't just want a wife.

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He isn't, you know, looking for a blind date.

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He is fixated on one person, Marina Osorio. Right.

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Marina, played by the amazing Victoria Abrel.

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She is an actress, a former porn star, and she's

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currently filming a horror movie. And this is

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a major plot point later. She is also a recovering

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heroin addict. And their history is, let's call

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it asymmetrical. That is a very polite way to

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put it. Yes. Ricky escaped the asylum once before,

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just briefly. They had a one -night stand. Right.

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To Marina, it was likely a blur. I mean, she

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was deep in her addiction at the time, probably

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high. She doesn't even remember his name. Of

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course not. But to Ricky, that night was the

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imprint. That was destiny. That was everything.

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So he gets out of the asylum. He has 50 ,000

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pesetas in his pocket, which, we should clarify

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for you, is not a lot of money. It's pocket change.

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Barely anything. And he goes straight to the

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film studio where she is working. And this leads

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to the meet cute, if you can even call it that.

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It's very strange. He tried to get her attention.

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And how does he do it? He has a handstand. A

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literal handstand. A literal handstand right

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there on the set. See, that is such a weird detail.

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Why include that? What is that supposed to tell

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us? I think it signals to the audience that this

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guy isn't a hardened criminal or a sexual predator

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in the traditional sense. He's an arrested adolescent.

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He is showing off like a little boy on a playground.

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It's pathetic. It's childish. And it kind of

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disarms you as a viewer. But Marina understandably

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just ignores him. She dismisses him as a fan

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or a stalker. Which, to be fair, he is. He is.

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And this is where the switch flips. Because in

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a normal rom -com, this is the part where the

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guy sends flowers or maybe stands outside with

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a boombox. Ricky decides to break into her apartment.

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And this is why the film is so polarizing. The

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break -in is not played for laughs. It is violent.

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She forces his way in. She screams. And to silence

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her, he headbutts her. That headbutt is so visceral.

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I remember watching it and thinking, okay, we

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are in a thriller now. This is a villain. It

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creates an immediate shock. He knocks the wind

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out of her and out of the audience. He tapes

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her mouth. He ties her to the bed with ropes.

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And then, and this is the part that is so uniquely

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Almodovar. He sits down and explains his plan

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calmly. As if it's the most normal thing in the

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world. He says, I captured you so you can get

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to know me, fall in love, and marry me. It's

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terrifying because he is so sincere. He isn't

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doing this to hurt her. In his mind, he is providing

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a service. Right. He says, I will be a good husband.

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I will protect you. He views the kidnapping as

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a necessary logistical step. How so? She can't

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love him if she doesn't know him, and she won't

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get to know him if she runs away. Therefore,

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ropes. It's just simple logic to him. It's a

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complete distortion of courtship. He's essentially

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saying, you just need to sit still long enough

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to realize I'm great. But here is where the movie

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really challenges me. If this were an American

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thriller, the next 90 minutes would be her trying

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to, you know, stab him with a glass shard and

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escape. But that's not what happens. No, not

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at all. Almodovar throws in a complication that

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shifts the power dynamic entirely. Marina has

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a toothache. A toothache? That seems so... trivial

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for a hostage situation it sounds trivial but

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it's a stroke of genius it's a massive agonizing

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toothache and remember she is a recovering addict

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on methadone so over -the -counter stuff doesn't

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work for her she is in physical hell so suddenly

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her kidnapper is the only person who can help

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her precisely ricky has to pivot from being the

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captor to being the caregiver right he has to

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go out into the world which he doesn't understand

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to get her pain medication And this leads to

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a fascinating sequence. He goes to a pharmacy.

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They deny him because he has no prescription.

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So he has to go to the black market. And this

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is where we see his moral code is just totally

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rewired. He finds a dealer, played by the iconic

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Rossi De Palma, but he refuses to pay the street

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price. Because he's on a budget. He's trying

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to be a responsible head of household with his

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50 ,000 pesetas. He actually lectures the drug

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dealer on fairness. He's haggling. He's haggling.

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He's outraged that she's price gouging him. And

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then attacks her. And then he attacks her to

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get the pills. Again, for him, violence is just

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a tool. It's utilitarian. But this has consequences.

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Later, the dealer spots him in the street and

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gets her revenge. Ricky gets jumped. He is beaten,

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robbed, and left unconscious. So he stumbles

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back to Marina's apartment. He is bloody. He

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is broken. He looks like a wreck. And this is

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the pivot point of the entire film, right? It

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is. This is the moment Marina sees him. And up

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until this moment, he's been the monster. But

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now, he's the wounded child. Well, that's a good

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way to put it. He went out to get her medicine,

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and he got destroyed for it. And instead of using

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this moment to grab the keys and run while he's

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passed out, she starts cleaning his wounds. She

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sterilizes his cuts with alcohol. It's an act

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of intimacy. Alma Dover is showing us the transition

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from fear to empathy. But is that realistic?

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Or is that just movie magic? I mean, it feels

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like a very quick turn. Well, clinically, it's

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the definition of Stockholm syndrome, isn't it?

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The psychological phenomenon where hostages develop

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an emotional bond with their captors as a survival

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strategy. Right. But Amadova frames it differently.

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He doesn't treat it as a pathology. He treats

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it as an epiphany. She sees his devotion. She

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realizes that no one else in her life, not the

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director she sleeps with, not her sister, would

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take a beating just to get her painkillers. And

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from there... The slide into romance is fast.

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They have sex. They plan to run away together

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to his hometown. But there is one scene that

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I think we need to analyze deeply because it's

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literally the title of the movie. Yes. He has

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to leave again. to steal a car for their getaway.

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She is untied. She is free. She could walk out

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the door and she says to him, tie me up. Tie

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me up so I won't escape. That is such a heavy

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line. She is acknowledging that she wants to

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stay, but she doesn't trust her own instincts

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to run. She is consenting to the bondage. She

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is outsourcing her willpower to the ropes. It's

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her way of committing to the relationship. She

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is saying, I want to be bound to you, even if

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it defies all logic. And then we get the quote

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unquote happy ending. Her sister Lola shows up,

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rescues her, but Marina confesses, I love him.

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They drive off to find Ricky at the ruins of

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his family home. The sister, who should be calling

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the police, accepts him. She basically adopts

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him into the family. Offers him a job. And they

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drive away singing Resistire. I will prevail.

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It's an anthem. So looking at this plot, it's

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insane. It's a felony wrapped in a hug. But you

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mentioned in the pre -show notes that... Al Madovar

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considers this a version of Beauty and the Beast.

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He does. And if you strip away the modern setting,

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the vibrant colors, the structure is identical.

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How so? You have the Beast, Ricky. He's wild.

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He is violent. He is isolated from society. And

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you have the Beauty Marina. The core myth of

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Beauty and the Beast is that the savagery of

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the male is tamed by the civilizing influence

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of the female. Right, like King Kong. Or Tarzan.

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Or even Frankenstein. Wait, Frankenstein? I don't

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remember the monster getting the girl. No, but

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think about the monster in Mary Shelley's Frankenstein.

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He isn't evil initially. He's unformed. He lashes

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out because he doesn't understand the world,

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and everyone rejects him. Ricky is a direct descendant

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of that archetype. Okay, I can see that. And

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in Spanish literature specifically, there is

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a famous play called Life is a Dream by Calderón

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de la Barca. I'm not familiar with that one.

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It's a 17th century classic, basically the Spanish

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Hamlet. The protagonist, Segas Mundo, has been

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imprisoned in a tower his whole life by his father.

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He is described as a beast man. Wow. When he

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is finally released, he is violent and impulsive

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because he has no social conditioning. He has

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to learn to be human. Almodovar is absolutely

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tapping into that cultural vein. Ricky is the

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modern Segismundo. He has the vitality of an

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animal, as Almodovar puts it, but he needs love

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to become a citizen. So Almodovar is saying...

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Don't look at this as a crime report. Look at

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this as a fable. Exactly. He calls it a romantic

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fairy tale. And he's also playing with the tropes

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of American romantic comedies from the 50s. You

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mean like Doris Day and Rock Hudson? Yes. Think

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about Pillow Talk or That Touch of Mink. What

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is the plot of those movies? A man pursues a

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woman relentlessly. Right. She says no. He ignores

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her no. He tricks her. He wears her down. And

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eventually she marries him. And we call that

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romance. We do. We call it persistence. Almodovar

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is taking that exact dynamic and stripping away

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the polite veneer. He is saying, you like it

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when the guy won't take no for an answer. Okay,

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here's what that actually looks like. It looks

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like a kidnapping. That is a very cynical take.

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So he's parodying the genre by taking it literally.

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He is exposing the aggression inherent in the

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idea of winning a woman. Ricky is approaching

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love the way one studies for a degree. He believes

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love is constructed through effort and willpower.

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He forces it into existence. There is also a

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layer of horror here that we can't ignore. Marina

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isn't just an actress. She is filming a horror

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movie inside the movie. The Midnight Phantom.

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It's a Euro horror film about a masked, mutilated

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man who is in love with her character. Which

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is a direct mirror of her reality. I mean, it's

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not subtle. It's a perfect parallel. In the fake

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movie, she fights the monster and wins. In her

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real life, she tames the monster. There's a great

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line from the director character in the film,

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Maximo. He says, sometimes love stories and horror

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stories are indistinguishable. That feels like

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the thesis statement of the entire film. It absolutely

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is. Almodovar wants us to feel that confusion.

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You see posters for Invasion of the Body Snatchers

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in the background. He is constantly reminding

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us of monsters while we are watching a love scene.

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Let's talk about the ropes again, because the

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movie is called Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down. You'd

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assume this is a film about BDSM. And Almodovar

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is very, very insistent that it is not. How can

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it not be? She is literally tied to a bed. He

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argues that there is no erotic charge to the

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ropes themselves in the context of the film.

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They aren't getting sexual pleasure from the

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bondage. For Almodovar, the ropes are a metaphor

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for the knots of a relationship. So sweeter human

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bondage, that kind of thing. Right. When you

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marry someone. You are tied down. You are bound

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to them. Ricky just makes the metaphor literal.

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He ties her down physically because he wants

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to be tied to her emotionally. I want to pivot

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to the production because the chemistry between

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Banderas and Abril is just electric. It's undeniable.

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But Victoria Abril wasn't supposed to be in this

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movie, was she? No. And this is a bit of tragic

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history for all Madovar fans. For the entire

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1980s, his muse was Carmen Mora. She was the

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star of women on the verge of a nervous breakdown,

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law of desire, what have I done to deserve this?

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They were the dynamic duo of Spanish cinema.

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So why wasn't she Marina? What happened? Almodovar

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felt she was too old. Maura was 44 at the time.

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The role of Marina required a certain starlit

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energy, someone who could plausibly be the object

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of a 23 -year -old's naive obsession. Wow. Almodovar

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cast Victoria Abrel instead. And it caused a

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massive rift. Mara and Amadova didn't speak for

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years after this. It was a huge falling out.

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That is just the brutal reality of the industry.

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But looking at the film, Victoria Abrel brings

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a toughness that I think is essential. She doesn't

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play it like a victim. She plays it like a survivor.

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She does. She brings a gritty realism that contrasts

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perfectly with Banderas' dreamy idealism. And

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she had to replace a legend, which is a high

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-pressure gig. Yeah, for sure. And speaking of

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legends, we have to talk about the music. Who

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scores this quirky, colorful Spanish comedy?

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And no Morricone. The good, the bad, and the

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ugly. Ennio Morricone. Are you serious? The very

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same. The mission. Cinema Paradiso. The maestro

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himself. That seems like overkill for a comedy.

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Why him? It was a huge get. It showed Almodovar's

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status was rising. But here's the kicker. Almodovar.

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He didn't like the score. He hired the greatest

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living composer and said, meh. Essentially. Almodovar

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thought the music sounded too conventional. What

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does that even mean? He thought it sounded like

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Morricone's score for the Harrison Ford movie

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Frantic, which had come out recently. He wanted

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something more uniquely Spanish or more bizarre,

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so he actually only used about half the music

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Morricone wrote for the film. That takes some

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serious ego. Or I guess artistic confidence.

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It's an auteur knowing exactly what he wants.

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But what remains in the film works beautifully

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because it is a thriller score. Right. It sounds

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like Bernard Herrmann's Psycho. It keeps the

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tension high. Even when they're having a tender

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moment, the music is telling you danger, danger.

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It reinforces that idea that love and horror

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are neighbors. And then you contrast that with

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the pop music, the song Resistire. By Duo Dynamico.

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It's an upbeat, defiant 80s pop anthem. I will

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resist. I will prevail. It grounds the movie

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in the Movida Modulenia. We should define that

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term for the listeners. Movida Modulenia. Right.

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It was the countercultural movement in Madrid

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that just exploded after the death of the dictator

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Francisco Franco in 1975. After decades of fascism

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and repression, suddenly Spain exploded with

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punk rock, drugs, sexual freedom, art. It was

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a cultural revolution, and Amadovar was the prince

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of that movement. This film captures that spirit,

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the idea that we have survived the darkness of

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the past, and now we are going to live no matter

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how messy it gets. Okay, we need to get into

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the big fight, the battle of the ratings. Because

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while Spain loved this movie, it had over a million

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viewers there, the United States had a complete

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meltdown. A total absolute meltdown. You have

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to remember the context of 1990 in America. The

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reading system was G, PG, PG -13, R, and X. And

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X didn't mean cool indie film. X meant porn.

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Exactly. X was synonymous with dethrone or peep

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shows in Times Square. If your movie was rated

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X, newspapers wouldn't run your ads. TV stations

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wouldn't air your trailers. Blockbuster wouldn't

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stock your tape. It was commercial. And the MPAA,

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the Motion Picture Association of America, watched

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Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down. And slapped it with an

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X rating. They did. And Miramax, the distributor

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led by Harvey Weinstein at the time, was furious.

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They looked at the film and said, this isn't

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porn. This is art. Yes, it has sex, but it's

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a narrative film by a world -renowned director.

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What specifically triggered the X? Was it the

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violence? The headbutt? No. And that's the incredible

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irony. The violence, the headbutt, the bleeding,

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the drugs. That was fine. Of course. The MPAA

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had no problem with that. It was the sex. Specifically,

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a lengthy love scene and one very, very infamous

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scene involving a bathtub. The scuba diver. The

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scuba diver. Explain this for those who haven't

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seen it because it sounds like a hallucination.

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Okay, so Marina is relaxing in a bathtub. She

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has a small wind -up toy, a little scuba diver

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that kicks its legs. And she allows the toy to

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swim, let's say, into a very private area. It's

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a scene of female masturbation using a wind -up

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toy. Correct. It is quirky, it is funny, it is

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completely character -driven, and it is explicit.

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And the MPAA just lost their minds. They said,

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that is X -rated content, period. So Miramex

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sued them. They took them to the Supreme Court

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of New York. This wasn't just a business negotiation.

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They turned it into a First Amendment issue.

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They hired the famed civil rights lawyer, William

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Kunstler. That is a power move. What was their

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legal argument? that the scuba diver was protected

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artistic expression. Their argument was about

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hypocrisy and discrimination. They argued that

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the rating system was discriminatory against

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female pleasure and sex in general while being

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incredibly permissive of violence. Ah, I see.

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They pointed out that you could show a woman

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being murdered, raped, or mutilated in an R -rated

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movie no problem. But if you showed a woman giving

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herself pleasure, it was immediately X -rated.

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They argued the MPAA was prioritizing violence

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over sexuality. That is a very strong argument.

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Did they win? Legally, no. The judge ruled that

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the MPAA is a private organization and has the

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right to express its opinion on films. Miramax

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lost the case. So the movie stayed X. No, Miramax

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released it unrated, which is a risky move, but

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better than X. But here is the real victory.

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The public outcry was so loud and the argument

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Miramax made was so damaging to the MPAA's reputation

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that the MPAA completely capitulated. They changed

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the system. Within months. In September 1990,

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they introduced a brand new rating. NC -17, no

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children under 17 admitted. So the distinction

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was finally made. This is for adults, but it

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isn't pornography. Exactly. Tie me up. Tie Me

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Down is the reason we have the NC -17 rating

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today. It was the battering ram that broke down

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the door. Along with a film called Henry in June,

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it forced the industry to distinguish between

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art films with adult content and hardcore pornography.

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That is a massive, massive legacy for a strange

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little romantic comedy about a kidnapper. It

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changed the distribution landscape for foreign

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films and independent cinema in America forever.

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So stripping away the legal battle, how was the

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movie actually received? You mentioned Spain

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loved it. What about the rest of the world? It

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was a complete Rorschach test. In Germany, it

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was a disaster. At the Berlin Film Festival,

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the projector broke during the screening, which

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is a bad omen. Never a good sign. And then the

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German press just attacked Almodovar. They grilled

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him about his sexuality, about drug use, about

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being Spanish. They didn't see the humor. They

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just saw the perversion. They viewed it through

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a very literal, very serious lens. And the UK.

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British critics were mostly dismissive. One famously

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called it banal and humorless. They just couldn't

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get past the premise. They saw it as a cheap

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thriller trying to be artsy. Which brings us

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to the feminist critique. Because we can't do

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a deep dive on this movie without addressing

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the obvious elephant in the room. This is a movie

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where a woman learns to love her abuser. And

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that critique is entirely valid and very powerful.

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Feminist groups and women's advocacy groups were...

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understandably outraged. They argued that the

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film creates a dangerous fantasy. Which is what?

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Exactly. That if a man is just violent enough

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and persistent enough, the woman will eventually

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come around. It validates the stalker. It says,

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don't take no for an answer. Just tie her up

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and wait. It does. It suggests that no just means

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tie me up until I say yes. Modern audiences,

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you know, definitely struggle with the ick factor.

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It's hard to root for Ricky when you look at

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his actions on paper. Does Elmer Dover defend

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this? Or does he just say, it's a movie, get

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over it? He leans on the fable defense we talked

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about earlier, that Ricky is an animal, not a

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man. But he also offers a more cynical and perhaps

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more interesting defense. He argues that the

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film is a parody of marriage itself. Unpack that

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for me. Meaning that traditional marriage is

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a form of Stockholm Syndrome. You take two people,

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you tie them together, legally, socially, and

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financially, and you say, you can't leave. And

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because you can't leave, you learn to love each

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other to survive the confinement. Wow. So Ricky

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is just speeding up the process. Exactly. Alma

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Dover is suggesting that all long -term relationships

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require a bit of this forced adaptation. We all,

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in a way, fall in love with our captors eventually,

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whether the ropes are made of hemp or a 30 -year

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mortgage. That is incredibly bleak. It is bleak.

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But it's also wrapped in bright colors and pop

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music and humor. And that's the paradox. The

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movie ends with them singing and driving into

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the sunset. It feels joyful. That is the magic

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of Alma Dover. He takes trashy pulp elements,

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kidnapping, addiction, B -movies, and weaves

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them into something incredibly complex and somehow

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beautiful. They are happy in their dysfunction.

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So what is the final takeaway here? If we are

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trying to distill this for the listener, what

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should they leave this deep dive with? I think

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the takeaway is about the blurred lines. The

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film forces us to look at where we draw the line

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between passion and possession, between romance

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and horror, and between art and pornography.

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It doesn't give us clear answers, but it forces

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us to have the debate. And the context matters

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so much. The fact that this movie had to fight

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for its right to exist in U .S. theaters is part

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of the text now. You can't separate the art from

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the fight. Absolutely. You can't watch it without

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thinking about the censorship battle and what

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that says about American culture versus Spanish

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culture at that specific moment in time. I want

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to leave the listener with a final provocative

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thought. We mentioned the happy ending. They

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are driving away singing, I will prevail, but

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prevail against what? the world or each other

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or maybe just maybe we love the beauty and the

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beast story not because it's romantic but because

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it's a survival guide we want to believe that

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if we just love the monster enough if we're just

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patient enough he will stop being a monster which

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is the most dangerous fantasy of all exactly

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on that cheerful note don't kidnap people and

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don't sue the mpaa unless you have a really really

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good lawyer thanks for joining us on the deep

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dive
