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Welcome back to the Deep Dive. Today we are opening

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up a file that is, frankly, massive. It's a story

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that sits right at the intersection of pop culture,

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business history, the sexual revolution, and,

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well, some truly dark, complicated controversy.

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It really does. We are talking about the man

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in the silk pajamas, the pipe -smoking philosopher

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of the centerfold, Hugh Hefner. It is a massive

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file indeed. And I think for most people, the

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image of Hefner is so cemented. You know, the

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mansion, the bunnies, the captain's hat. Totally.

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The whole persona. Exactly. And it's easy to

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miss just how profoundly he influenced and really

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reflected the 20th century. Right. We're not

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just looking at a magazine publisher here. We're

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looking at a figure who, I mean, he just encapsulates

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the complexities and the contradictions of American

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culture from the 1950s all the way to the 2010s.

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Exactly. And our mission today is to move past

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that caricature. We want to unpack the source

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material. And we have a lot of it. We've got

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biographical records, corporate histories, and

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then the very recent, very critical documentaries

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and memoirs. We want to understand how this guy

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actually happened. How did a conservative boy

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from the Midwest build an empire that sparked

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a revelation? And then leave behind a legacy

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that is, to put it mildly, deeply polarized.

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That is the key tension we need to explore. I

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mean, you're right. We have sources ranging from

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the official historical record of his civil rights

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advocacy. Which is significant. Very significant.

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And then on the other end of the spectrum, you

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have the allegations that surfaced in the Secrets

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of Playboy docuseries after his death. Right.

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So we're covering the rise, the philosophy, and

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the disturbing criticism. That's a whole package.

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And to get us hooked. I found one detail in the

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research that just, it just blew my mind. The

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entire Playboy empire, the mansion, the brand.

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The cultural shift. Yeah. It might never have

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happened if a young copywriter in Chicago had

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just been given a $5 raise. It's the butterfly

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effect in action, isn't it? That $5. It really

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represents one of the most significant pivot

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points in media history. It really is. But before

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we get to that $5, let's go back even further

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because the expert context here is surprising.

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Oh, yeah. You'd think the man, synonymous with

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sexual liberation, came from some wild bohemian

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background. But the sources say it was the...

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exact opposite quite the opposite i mean if you

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look at his origins hugh marston hefner was born

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in chicago april 9 1926 his parents glenn and

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grace were from nebraska okay and hefner himself

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described the family atmosphere in just three

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words conservative midwestern methodist conservative

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midwestern methodist that is a far cry from the

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grotto at the playboy mansion a very far cry

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It sounds like a house where fun went to die.

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It was incredibly strict. And it goes deeper

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than just being strict. Get this. He was actually

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a direct descendant of William Bradford. The

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Plymouth governor. The Plymouth governor. We

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are talking about literal Puritan lineage here.

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We aren't just using Puritan as an adjective.

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It's in the bloodline. And his mother, Grace,

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she actually wanted him to be a missionary? A

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missionary? Well, I guess in a weird way he became

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one. You could say that. Just for a very different

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religion. He was proselytizing a lifestyle, for

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sure. But despite the religious pressure, there

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was clearly an intellectual engine running there

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from the start. We see in the records that he

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had a very high IQ. Yeah, I saw that. It's often

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cited around a 1 in 52. But even if we stick

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just to the academic record, he was incredibly

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efficient. He graduated from the University of

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Illinois at Urbana -Champaign in just two and

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a half years. Two and a half years. That's fast.

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He must have just been powering through those

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credits. He was. He graduated in 1949. And look

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at his degree. A Bachelor of Arts in Psychology

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with a double minor in Creative Writing and Art.

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Okay, if you were trying to build a CEO for a

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lifestyle magazine in a lab. Those are the three

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ingredients. Those are the three ingredients

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you would pick. Totally. Psychology to understand

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what men want, creative writing to give it a

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voice, and art to make it look good. Exactly.

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And we shouldn't forget his time in the service.

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He was in the Army during World War II from 1944

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to 1946. But he wasn't, you know, on the front

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lines holding a rifle. Right. The records say

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he was a writer. She served as a writer for a

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military newspaper. And this is crucial because

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it shows that his inclination toward publishing

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and shaping a narrative was there early on. He

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was observing, writing and editing long before

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he had a business plan. He was learning how to

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communicate with men in uniform, which, you know,

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became a huge part of his early demographic.

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That makes so much sense. OK, so let's fast forward

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to the moment that changed everything. The catalyst.

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Yeah. It's 1952. He's back in Chicago. He's working

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as a copywriter for Esquire magazine. The big

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one. Which was the big men's magazine. of the

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time. Esquire was the titan. It was sophisticated,

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literary, the absolute ceiling for men's journalism.

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Hefner was just a cog in the machine. Very small

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cog. A very small cog. But the magazine was moving

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its offices to New York and Hefner was willing

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to go, but he did the math on the cost of living

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difference between Chicago and New York. He was

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practical. Very. So he went to his bosses and

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he asked for a raise to cover that difference.

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A $5 raise. Five dollars. Just five dollars.

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And they denied it. Can you imagine being the

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guy who said no to that? Sorry, Hugh. Five bucks

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is too rich for our blood. And because of that,

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he quits. He quits. And this is a classic entrepreneurial

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pivot fueled by rejection. He decides if he can't

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work for the best men's magazine, he'll create

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his own. Right. But he was broke. He didn't have

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a fortune. The financing of Playboy is a story

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of just scrapping together pennies. I love this

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part of the research. It wasn't some venture

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capital firm writing a massive check. He took

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out a $600 mortgage on his furniture. A risky

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move. If it failed, he loses his couch. Extremely.

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And then he went around raising money from anyone

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he could find. He got $8 ,000 total from 45 different

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investors. That is a lot of door knocking, a

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lot of pitches. It is. But there's one investor

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that stands out. His mom. Grace Hefner, the woman

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who wanted him to be a missionary. She gave him

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$1 ,000. That was a huge chunk in the seed money.

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A massive chunk. And there's a quote from Hefner

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later in life, I think he told E! back in 2006,

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where he said, not because she believed in the

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venture, but because she believed in her son.

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That is such a powerful distinction. She likely

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disapproved of the content. I mean, you have

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to remember, this is the Puritan Methodist mother

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who probably viewed this as sinful. Absolutely.

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But the bond with her son overrode the moral

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objection. That $1 ,000 was the difference maker.

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So he has the money. He has the idea. Originally,

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he was going to call it stag party. Which implies

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a very different tone, doesn't it? Stag party

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sounds underground, maybe a bit seedier, like

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something you hide in the garage. Yeah, a bit

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more like a backroom thing. Exactly. Playboy

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suggests something more sophisticated, more about

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a lifestyle. It suggests you are out in the open,

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enjoying the finer things. It's aspirational.

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Very. So, December 1953, issue number one hits

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the stands. We have to talk about the cover.

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You can't tell the story of Playboy without talking

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about Marilyn Monroe. But the context here is

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often misunderstood. Right. Hefner didn't commission

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a shoot with Marilyn for the first issue. Right.

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They never even met. Correct. They never met.

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Hefner found a nude calendar shoot she had done

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back in 1949 when she was struggling and working

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under a pseudonym. So this was old material.

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Very old material. He bought the rights to those

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photos from the calendar company. So Marilyn

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Monroe was the face that launched the empire,

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but she wasn't paid a dime by Playboy or Hefner

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for that specific usage in the magazine. That

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feels like a foreshadowing of the criticisms

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we'll get to later profiting off women without

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them necessarily having control or fair compensation

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in the moment. It certainly establishes a dynamic.

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It was arbitrage, you know, buying a distressed

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asset, which were the old photos, and repackaging

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them as a premium product. But from a business

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perspective, it was lightning in a bottle. There

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is a fascinating detail about that first issue.

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It didn't have a date on the cover. Because he

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didn't think there'd be a second one. Precisely.

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He was confident enough to launch, but realistic

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enough to think this might be a one and done

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failure. He produced it on his kitchen table.

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On his kitchen table. Yes. And instead, it sold

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more than 50 ,000 copies. Wow. The empire was

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born essentially overnight. So Playboy arrives.

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And suddenly, Hugh Hefner isn't just a copywriter

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anymore. He's a publisher. But he didn't just

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want to sell nudity. I think that's a misconception

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people have if they only know the brand from

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the stickers on cars. That's a huge misconception.

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He was selling a philosophy. This is where we

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need to widen the lens. If you look at the source

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material, specifically the Playboy philosophy,

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which was a sprawling series of editorials he

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wrote, Hefner saw himself as a crusader for individual

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rights. A crusader. Yes. He wasn't just a pornographer

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in his own mind. He was a libertarian activist.

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He wrote thousands upon thousands of words arguing

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against censorship and for personal freedom.

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And he used the magazine to push that. He expanded

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into multimedia really quickly, too. Almost immediately.

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With Playboy's Penthouse in the late 50s and

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Playboy After Dark in the late 60s, these were

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TV shows where he'd host parties, and the vibe

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was very bon vivant. Paul Vivant is the perfect

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term. He was curating a lifestyle of jazz, conversation,

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and sophistication. It was aspirational. He was

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telling men, this is what your life could be.

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You can be this cool. You can be this cool. But

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what's fascinating, and what really gets lost

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in the shuffle, is how he used that platform

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for civil rights. This is a part of the legacy

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that often surprises people. Yeah, let's talk

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about Dick Gregory. Dick Gregory, the legendary

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comedian and activist. In 1961, the entertainment

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world was still largely segregated. Very segregated.

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Hefner saw Gregory performing at a bar, the Herman

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Roberts Show Bar in Chicago. He was blown away

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by the set. He hired Gregory to work at the Chicago

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Playboy Club. And that was a big deal. It was

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a huge deal. Gregory himself attributed the launch

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of his massive career to that night. Hefner put

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him in front of a predominantly white audience,

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which was a significant, somewhat radical move

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in 1961. And it wasn't just comedians. The Playboy

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interview became a serious... journalistic institution.

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A very serious one. And there is one interview

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that stands out as maybe the most audacious thing

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a magazine editor could do in the 1960s. The

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interview with George Lincoln Rockwell. This

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is a critical moment in media history. I mean,

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you have to remember who this guy was. George

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Lincoln Rockwell was the founder of the American

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Nazi Party. A hateful, dangerous figure. Absolutely.

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And Hefner wanted to interview him to expose

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his ideas. But he didn't send a white reporter.

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He sent Alex Haley. The author of Roots. Before

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Roots was published, yes. A black man sent to

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interview the head of the Nazi party. Just imagine

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that room. The tension in that room must have

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been suffocating. The sources say Rockwell was

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shocked when Haley showed up. He only agreed

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to the meeting after ensuring Haley wasn't Jewish.

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Wow. But get this. Rockwell kept a handgun on

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the table throughout the entire interview. A

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gun on the table. And Haley just sat there and

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did the job. He did. And Hefner published it.

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It demonstrates Hefner's absolute commitment

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to a very specific interpretation of the First

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Amendment. Right. He believed that bad ideas

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should be dragged into the light and debated,

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not hidden. He felt that if you let a hateful

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man speak long enough, he would reveal his own

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ignorance. He applied that to LGBTQ rights, too,

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way before it was mainstream. There's the story

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of the crooked man. Yes. A science fiction story

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by Charles Beaumont. It was 1955. And you have.

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to put yourself in the context of 1955 America,

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the story depicted a world where homosexuality

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was the norm and straight men were the ones being

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persecuted. A total flip of the script. A total

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flip designed to show the cruelty of prejudice

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and Esquire rejected it. Esquire said no again.

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They really missed out on a lot of cultural milestones.

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They did. Hefner said yes. He published it in

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Playboy and naturally the angry letters poured

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in. Oh, I'm sure. Subscribers were furious. But

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Hefner's response to those letters is, classic

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Playboy philosophy. He wrote, and this is a direct

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quote, if it was wrong to persecute heterosexuals

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in a homosexual society, then the reverse was

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wrong, too. That is surprisingly progressive

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for 1955. It is. It shows that he was willing

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to alienate his own customer base to make a point

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about individual liberty. He wasn't just following

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the market. He was trying to lead it. But of

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course, his version of liberty also got him into

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legal trouble. He was arrested in 1963, right?

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He was. The charge was promoting obscene literature.

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It was an issue featuring Jane Mansfield. And

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the photos, they showed her in bed with a man

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present, which was apparently the line crosser

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for the authorities at the time. That was the

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problem. Not the nudity itself. It was the contest,

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the implication of sexual activity. The case

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went to trial and it resulted in a hung jury,

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but it solidified his image as a martyr for the

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First Amendment. He spun the arrest into gold.

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Absolutely. He became the face of the fight against

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censorship. And he put his money where his mouth

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was. He started the Hugh M. Hefner Foundation

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in 1964. Right. And here's a fact I bet most

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listeners have no idea about. We talk about the

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sexual revolution. But Hefner's foundation actually

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funded the prototype for the rape kit. It's a

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detail that often gets lost. It's so contradictory

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to the later image. But yes, a woman named Margie

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Goddard developed the prototype to help gather

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evidence for sexual assault cases, and the Hefner

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Foundation provided the funding to make that

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happen. So strange. It's a very complicated piece

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of the puzzle, considering the accusations we'll

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discuss later, but it is a matter of record that

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the foundation supported that development when

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others wouldn't. And on a lighter note, he also

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saved the Hollywood sign. Twice, actually. In

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the late 70s, the sign was crumbling. He organized

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a gala at the mansion. He auctioned off the letters.

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He bought the letter Y himself for $27 ,000.

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The Y in Hollywood is his. It is. He really saw

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himself as the guardian of Hollywood dreams.

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He loved the mythology of Los Angeles almost

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as much as he loved his own mythology. So we

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have the public figure, the crusader, the publisher,

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the guy buying the Y on the Hollywood sign. But

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we have to talk about the man himself, the guy

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in the mansion. Yeah. Because the Hef persona.

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the pipe, the silk pajamas, that was a carefully

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constructed image. It was a uniform. Just like

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a general wears a uniform, Hefner wore the pajamas.

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It signaled that he was always at leisure, yet

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always in control. It blurred the lines between

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work and play. And then in 1975, he moved his

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operations from Chicago to Los Angeles permanently,

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establishing Playboy Mansion West. And the relationships.

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Wow. The source material here is like a soap

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opera. It starts with Mildred Williams, his first

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wife. And this relationship really explains the

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psychology of the bachelor era. Mildred and Hugh

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were college sweethearts. They were the typical

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1940s couple. The ideal. The ideal. But before

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the wedding, Mildred confessed something that

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broke him. She had an affair while he was away

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in the army. He called it the most devastating

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moment of my life. Right. And out of guilt, Mildred,

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who we should remember was also trying to navigate

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a very conservative marriage, she allowed him

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to sleep with other women. She allowed it. She

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allowed it. She thought it would balance the

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scales and save the marriage. That sounds like

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a recipe for disaster. It was. They divorced

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in 1959. And experts and biographers suggest

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this betrayal launched Hefner into his bachelor

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era. It was almost a reaction to the failure

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of the traditional romantic ideal. He swung the

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pendulum. He swung the pendulum to the absolute

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other extreme. If the good girl could hurt him,

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he would surround himself with bad girls and

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control the environment completely. And he admitted

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to being involved with 11 out of 12 months worth

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of planates in some years. It was a production

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line in a way. He even experimented with bisexuality,

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which he acknowledged in 1971. He was trying

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everything. He was consuming life and people.

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He was running at 100 miles per hour, fueled

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by Pepsi and other things. But the party hit

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a wall in 1985. He had a stroke at age 58. The

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stroke seems like a major turning point. A huge

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one. He tones it down. He hands over the business

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operations to his daughter, Christy, and then

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he does something unexpected. He gets married

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again. To Kimberly Conrad. And there is a 36

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-year age gap there. But for a while, the Playboy

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Mansion turned into a family home. Really? Yes.

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The tennis courts were used for tennis, not parties.

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There were toys on the lawn. He tried to play

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the role of the traditional father, but they

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separated in 1998. And that ushered in the era

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that a lot of our younger listeners might recognize.

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The Girls Next Door era. The reality show. Holly

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Madison, Bridget Marquardt, Kendra Wilkinson.

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This was a pop culture resurgence. In the 2000s,

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Hefner became this sort of lovable, eccentric

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grandpa figure on the E! Network. But looking

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back, the dynamic was so strange. Incredibly

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strange. He was living with up to seven women

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at once, but the show focused on the main trio.

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It was branded as fun and campy, but the power

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dynamic was incredibly skewed. And finally, the

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last marriage to Crystal Harris. The runaway

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bride incident. Oh, the timing was excruciating

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for them. Crystal broke off the engagement five

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days before the wedding in 2011. The problem

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was the July issue of Playboy had already been

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printed and shipped. And the cover said, Mrs.

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Crystal Hefner. Introducing America's princess,

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Mrs. Crystal Hefner. You couldn't write a more

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awkward script. They did eventually reconcile

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and married on New Year's Eve 2012, staying together

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until his death. Okay, so we've seen the rise,

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the philosophy, the personal relationship. But

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now, now we have to turn the page to the section

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of the file that is much harder to read. Because

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while Hefner views himself as a liberator, there

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are plenty of people who viewed him as an exploiter.

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And this is where the conversation shifts from

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legacy to liability. The criticism isn't just

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a footnote. It is central to understanding the

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whole picture. Let's start with the feminist

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critique. This goes way back. Way back. In 1970,

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Hefner wrote an internal memo attacking militant

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feminists. He saw them as enemies of his romantic

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boy -girl society. He felt they were trying to

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ruin the party. He truly believed that Playboy

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adored women. But the feminists argued the party

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was rigged. Rigged for whom? Rigged for him.

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Suzanne Moore, writing for The Guardian, was

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incredibly blunt. She reported that Hefner threatened

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to sue her because she called him a pimp. A pimp?

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That is a heavy label. A very heavy label. But

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her argument was that he was a man who bought

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and sold women to other men. She wrote, part

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of Hefner's business acumen was to make the selling

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of female flesh respectable and hip. Putting

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a tuxedo on it doesn't change what the transaction

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is. That was her point. Exactly. And Robin of

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Tarion from the L .A. Times made a similar argument.

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She said he convinced women that taking their

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clothes off was empowering. But really, it just

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mainstreamed the idea that women exist to please

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men. The commodification argument. It is. Did

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he liberate women or did he just package them

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more expensively? Did he give them a platform

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or just a pedestal to be looked at? Right. But

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after he died, the criticism went from theoretical

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to criminal. We have to talk about the Secrets

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of Playboy docuseries that came out in 2022.

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This was a bombshell. This wasn't just he was

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a chauvinist. These were allegations from former

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employees and partners about serious abuse. The

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scope was alarming. We heard claims of systematic

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sexual misconduct, manipulation, and the rampant

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use of qualiludes. The leg spreader drugs. As

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they were allegedly called inside the mansion,

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there were accusations of sextortion, blackmail,

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and even rape. And the response from the company,

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which wasn't run by the family anymore, was telling.

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Yes. The PLBY group, which is now publicly owned,

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completely distanced themselves. They released

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a statement saying, quote, Today's Playboy is

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not Hugh Hefner's Playboy. Wow. They validated

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the women's stories. That is a corporate entity

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essentially disavowing its own founder. They

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looked at the file and decided they couldn't

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defend it. And the women who live there, the

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ones we saw on the reality show, they started

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talking too. Holly Madison wrote a memoir. Holly

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described a culture of intense competition and

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body image issues. She called it exploitation

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for professional gain. It wasn't the happy sorority

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house we saw on TV. Not at all. She described

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being pitted against other women for Hefner's

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affection and resources. And Crystal Hefner,

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his widow, released a memoir just recently, in

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2024. She called the mansion a hostile environment

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and said she felt imprisoned. The word imprisoned

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is striking. It contrasts so sharply with the

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concept of liberty Hefner preached. He sold freedom

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to the men reading the magazine, but the women

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living in the center of the empire felt trapped.

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And it wasn't just the women inside who criticized

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him. We also have the religious critique, which

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circles back to his origins. Ed Stetzer wrote

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in Christianity Today about the immeasurable

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damage Hefner did to the value of women and marriage.

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There's a detail from Stetzer's piece that really

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stuck with me. He mentioned that when Hefner's

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daughter Christy, who ran the company, would

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visit the mansion. Yes. Hefner would have the

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place cleaned up. To hide the reality. Exactly.

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He'd hide the parties to keep the reality from

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his own daughter. That implies he knew on some

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level that what was happening wasn't something

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his daughter should see. It suggests a compartmentalization.

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He built a world that he claimed was a utopia,

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but he had to sanitize it for the people he respected

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in a professional or familial capacity. It implies

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a consciousness of guilt, or at least a recognition

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that his philosophy had limits when it came to

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his own family. So we have this massive life

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full of noise and controversy, but eventually

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the party has to end. September 27, 2017. Hugh

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Hefner dies at the mansion. He was 91. He died

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of cardiac arrest and respiratory failure, complicated

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by sepsis from an E. coli infection. It was the

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end of an era. But even his exit was orchestrated.

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The sale of the mansion is wild. He sold it a

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year before he died, right? In 2016, he sold

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it for $100 million to Darren Metropoulos, who

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lived next door. But the condition of the sale

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was unique. Hefner got to live there until he

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took his last breath. So he sold the property,

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but not the lifestyle. He sold the cage, but

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he kept the key until the end. He ensured his

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environment wouldn't change until he was gone.

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And then the final symbolic gesture, his burial.

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Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery. It's

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a small, celebrity -filled cemetery in L .A.

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But Hefner isn't just anywhere. He is in the

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crypt right next to Marilyn Monroe. The woman

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on the first cover. The woman he never met. He

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bought that crypt in 1992 for $75 ,000. He told

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the Los Angeles Times, spending eternity next

00:23:07.160 --> 00:23:09.579
to Marilyn is an opportunity too sweet to pass

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up. It feels possessive. It is the ultimate claim

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of ownership. In life, he used her image to build

00:23:15.900 --> 00:23:18.740
his empire. In death, he physically positioned

00:23:18.740 --> 00:23:21.700
himself beside her forever. Wow. It ties the

00:23:21.700 --> 00:23:24.000
whole story together, the admiration, the exploitation,

00:23:24.279 --> 00:23:26.519
the branding. He wanted to be written into her

00:23:26.519 --> 00:23:28.700
story permanently. So what does this all mean?

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We've looked at the $5 raise, the civil rights

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battles, the silk pajamas, the dark allocations.

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The company Playboy has moved on. His son Cooper

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was involved for a while, but now the brand is

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trying to be something else entirely. Synthesizing

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all of this is difficult because Hefner was a

00:23:43.559 --> 00:23:46.339
man of distinct compartments. He was a man who

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fought for First Amendment rights and desegregation,

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and he genuinely used his platform for good in

00:23:50.799 --> 00:23:53.420
those areas. You can't deny that. You can't.

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Yet he is simultaneously accused of misogyny,

00:23:56.740 --> 00:23:59.380
abuse. and mainstreaming the commodification

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of women. It's a dichotomy. You can't really

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erase the civil rights advocacy, but you also

00:24:04.430 --> 00:24:06.710
can't ignore the secrets of Playboy allegations.

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Precisely. The question isn't, was he good or

00:24:10.089 --> 00:24:13.890
bad? It's, how do we hold both truths? He helped

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break down the puritanical walls of the 1950s,

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but the house he built to replace them had its

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own locked doors and dark corners. That brings

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us to the big question for you, the listener.

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Can you separate the sexual revolution from the

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man who profited from it? Did we need a Hugh

00:24:28.890 --> 00:24:31.289
Hefner to get where we are today? Or was he just

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a guy who found a way to monetize our curiosity?

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It forces us to ask what liberation really looks

00:24:37.009 --> 00:24:39.910
like. Hefner claimed religion was a myth. He

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rejected the Methodist god of his mother. Vehemently.

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Yet look at his life. He dedicated every waking

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moment to creating his own mythology. He built

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his own heaven on earth, the mansion. Exactly.

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It was a heaven with strict rules, its own deities,

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the playmates, and a patriarch who refused to

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leave the party until the very end. And maybe

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that's the final provocative thought. Was the

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Playboy philosophy actually a liberation movement?

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Or was it just a very elaborate high -gloss cage?

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That is for the listener to decide. Thanks for

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diving deep with us. We'll see you on the next

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one.
