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Welcome to the Deep Dive. Today we're stepping

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away from, uh... maybe the usual laughs you associate

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with stand -up comedy. We're looking at a really

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devastating story. Yeah, it's pretty heavy stuff.

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It weaves together comedy, that kind of rock

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and roll intensity, shocking tragedy, and this

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secret betrayal that lasted for decades. We're

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talking about Sam Kinison, you know, the screaming

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comic who just burned so bright and so fast.

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And his best friend, Carl Above. Exactly. His

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opening act, fiercely loyal friend, but as we'll

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see, maybe Kinison's... greatest victim in a

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way it's a complex relationship to say the least

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so our sources they really lay out kinnison's

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like meteoric rise you know how he went from

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this small town preacher's kid to this this confrontational

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high voltage comedy force right we have the biography

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the career milestones all of that but the real

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mission here for this deep dive is digging into

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the human cost yeah that's the core of it we've

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got the details on his explosive career sure

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the fatal car crash that killed him but then

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there's the staggering story Almost unbelievable,

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really. The paternity scandal. Yeah, that came

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out years later and just consumed Carl LeBov's

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life. Exactly. Yeah. And that's the challenge,

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isn't it? Connecting those dots. You've got their

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shared rise in comedy. Then the shared trauma

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of the crash, which LeBov physically survived,

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he was in the car. Right there. Witnessed it

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all. And then almost two decades later, this

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devastating personal fallout hits LeBov. Financially,

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emotionally, just... Ruinous. It's easy to just

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remember the stage persona with someone like

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Kinison, you know? The scream. Totally. That's

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the icon. But this forces you to look past that

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to the real wreckage left behind. Wreckage that

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LaBeouf had to carry for so long. Yeah, for Dexter.

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And that persona. Wow, it was powerful. Kinison,

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the EX RV, he even had it on his license plate,

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right? On that Corvette. Yeah, the 86 Corvette.

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It was a statement. A total lightning rod. His

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comedy was just... raw uncomfortable and always

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punctuated by that scream it felt like pure confrontation

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it really did and labov was right there through

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it all born in fort worth he wasn't just some

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hanger on either no definitely not he was successful

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in his own right one of the original outlaws

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of comedy yep credits on seinfeld rosanne leno

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he had a real career but yeah in people's minds

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he's forever linked to sam The constant presence,

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just offstage. The loyal friend. Okay, so to

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really get Kinison's whole explosive thing, you

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kind of have to look at where he came from. Absolutely,

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that's key. Samuel Burrell Kinison, born 53 in

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Yakima, Washington, but he grew up mostly in

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East Peoria, Illinois. And the defining thing

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there was the church, right? Pentecostal background.

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Deeply. His father was a preacher, and Sam himself,

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he preached too, from age 17 to 24, something

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like that. Wow, and that's not just... Like a

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fun fact, it seems like it's the blueprint for

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his whole comedy style. It really is. People

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found recordings of his old sermons later, and

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the resemblance is, well, it's kind of eerie.

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The whole fire and brimstone delivery, the shouting.

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Exactly. That style meant to, you know, stir

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up the congregation. He basically just swapped

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the pulpit for a microphone and aimed that same

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energy at, well, everything else. Marriage, religion,

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daily life. He learned how to command a room,

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maybe even terrify it a bit. In church first.

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Pretty much. Though his brother Bill apparently

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said that early on in the ministry, Sam actually

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lacked stage presence, focused only on the words.

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Oh, interesting. So the performance aspect developed.

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Seems like it. But the source of that famous

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rage that might go back even further, there was

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physical trauma. Yeah, I read about that. He

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was hit by a truck when he was really young,

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like three years old. Yeah. And it wasn't minor.

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It apparently left him with documented brain

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damage and epilepsy. Okay, see, that changes

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things. That suggests the volatility maybe wasn't

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entirely a choice or an act. It could have been

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neurologically rooted. Could be. And then add

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the emotional stuff. His parents divorced when

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he was 11. According to his brother, Sam took

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that really hard. Huge protests, feelings of

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betrayal. That childhood anger apparently festered

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and grew into the adult rage we saw on stage.

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So the stage anger was maybe just unprocessed

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childhood trauma exploding outwards. It's a compelling

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theory. So he leaves the ministry. When does

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he actually make the jump to comedy? Looks like

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around 1980, it was after his first marriage

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to Patricia Adkins fell apart. And he lands in

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Houston, Texas, which was a hotbed for a certain

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kind of comedy back then. Right, the Texas Outlaw

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Comics. That scene. Yeah, let's talk about that

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for a second, because it wasn't just a random

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group. They had a philosophy almost. Definitely.

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It was a rejection of this sort of clean, jokey,

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set -up punchline stuff that was dominant. More

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confrontational. More real. Even if it was ugly.

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Bill Hicks came out of that. Ron Schock. Riley

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Barber. Steve Epstein. Yeah. A really influential

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group focused on just hitting the audience with

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reality. And Kinison was like their point man.

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You could say that. Bill Hicks, who became this

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huge icon himself, said Kinison deeply influenced

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him. What did he say specifically? Hicks said

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Sam was the first comic he ever saw who did not.

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in any way asked the audience to like him. That's

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huge for the early 80s. Most comics needed that

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approval. Right. They were looking for validation.

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Kedison was basically demanding you deal with

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his reality, like it or not. Aggressively unfiltered.

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So he takes this new style, this energy, to L

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.A. in 1980. Yep. Ends up working as a doorman

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at the comedy store. Which sounds kind of cliche,

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but... It was a notoriously wild time for him

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personally. Extremely wild. Deep into drugs,

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alcohol, the sources mentioned cocaine, freebasing.

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It was bad. Personal chaos mirroring the stage

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chaos. Pretty much. And apparently took his brother,

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Bill, stepping in again. To manage him. Yeah,

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kind of impose some structure, get him focused.

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And that intervention seems to have paved the

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way for his big break. Which came in 85. Right.

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HBO. Rodney Dangerfield's ninth annual Young

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Comedian special. Dangerfield knew talent, especially

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volatile talent. That must have put him on the

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map instantly. Oh, absolutely. Catapulted him.

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The critics noticed immediately. The New York

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Times' Stephen Holden called him savagely funny.

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And he nailed the core theme, didn't he? Calling

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it the primal scream of the married man. Perfect

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description. Relationships were his bread and

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butter or maybe his raw meat. And that leads

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straight to network TV. Letterman, 85. Yeah,

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and that famous warning from Dave. Brace yourselves.

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I'm not kidding. Just telling you up front, this

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isn't going to be comfortable. Exactly. It cemented

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that dangerous edge. Yeah. And he leaned into

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the whole EXRV thing, using his past to take

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shots at religion, the Bible. It was the ultimate

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rebellion against his upbringing, played out

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on national TV. With that license plate reinforcing

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it every day. Yep. And right there, riding shotgun

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through all this, figuratively and sometimes

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literally, was Carl Above. The stable force,

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five years younger, had his own career going,

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but mostly known as Sam's opener, his guy. The

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anchor, maybe? Mm -hmm. Tied to this hurricane

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of a personality. Yeah, that's a good way to

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put it. And, you know, the more famous Kinnison

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got, the wilder his personal life seemed to become.

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Or maybe it just became more public. Right, and

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it all fed back into the act. His divorces from

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Patricia Adkins and then Terry Marzi, that was

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prime material. Dark, but prime. Absolutely.

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But then things got genuinely tragic offstage.

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In May 88, his youngest brother, Kevin, died

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by suicide. He was only 28. Oh, man. That had

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to have just shattered him. Reports say it devastated

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him. And think about that context. You've got

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the childhood physical trauma, the epilepsy,

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the addiction issues, the pressure of fame. And

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then your younger brother takes his own life.

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The amount of personal darkness Kennison was

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wading through. It's hard to fathom. No wonder

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the comedy was so dark. It wasn't just an act.

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It was coming from a place of, like, genuine

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deep -seated misery. It seems that way. And that

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misery, or maybe chaos, just continued right

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up until the end. He married Malika Swery just

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six days before he died. April 4th, 1992, Las

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Vegas. Right after his second divorce was finalized.

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Yeah. But even that relationship wasn't simple.

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It had its own major public scandal just before

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the wedding. Okay, yeah, we should touch on that.

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The 1990 incident, Swery accused a bodyguard

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Kinison hired. She alleged rape, said it happened

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while Kinison was asleep in the house. The bodyguard

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claimed it was consensual. And the legal outcome

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was murky, right? Jury deadlocked. Yeah, charges

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were eventually dropped. But people in Kinison's

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circle pointed to that whole ordeal as a real

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wake -up call for him. A moment of crisis. Did

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it lead to any changes? Apparently it did. It

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reportedly pushed him to try and get clean. He

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joined AA. started telling audiences around March

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1990 that he'd quit getting high. So a genuine

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attempt to clean up his act, to escape the wreckage.

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It seemed like it. Yeah. But the underlying volatility,

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it was maybe too deep. Because then you have

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incidents like the one with Guns N' Roses. Oh,

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yeah. May 1991. Slash Duff McKagan. What happened

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there? He got physical. Apparently, Kinison was

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furious because Slash missed showing up for something

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at one of his gigs, found him at a hotel, and

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allegedly attacked him. The quote is, he nearly

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choked Slash to death. Wow. Just wow. A comedian

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almost killing a rock star over a missed appearance.

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It's nuts. But it really highlights that tension,

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right? The attempt at sobriety versus this just...

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Uncontrollable rage simmering underneath. Yeah.

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And that brings us to the whole controversy around

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his material itself, the legacy. It's thorny

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for sure. Looking back, people definitely point

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to misogyny, homophobia in his routines. And

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it wasn't just later reflection. There was backlash

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at the time. For sure. Like that queer nation

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protest in Nebraska, February 91. Right. In Lincoln.

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They were protesting his show, chanting anti

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-woman, anti -gay, Sam Kinison, go away. This

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was organized opposition. Not just bad reviews,

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but people actively protesting his message. And

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even his own record label seemed uncomfortable.

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Warner Bros. Records. What did they do? On his

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88 album, Have You Seen Me Lately, they put this

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really unusual disclaimer sticker on it. Apparently,

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employees requested it. A disclaimer. Saying

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what? It said, Whoa. That's basically the label

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saying, we'll sell this, but we don't stand by

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it. Unheard of, almost. Tells you how divisive

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he was, even internally. Which sparks that debate,

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you know? Was he genuinely hateful? Or was it

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all an act, an intentionally shocking character,

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like that New York Magazine article suggested

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in 2016? Pushing boundaries, playing a role.

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It's a possible interpretation. It is. But hear

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the tragic irony. Despite those claims of getting

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sober around 1990, the toxicology report after

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his death found tranquilizers and cocaine in

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his system. Oh. So the sobriety didn't last.

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Or wasn't complete. Seems not. The character

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and the chaos, they were just too intertwined.

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The attempt at reform might have been real for

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a bit, but the underlying reality, the fury,

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the substances, the confrontation that was him.

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And through all of this, LaBeouf is there, witnessing

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it day in, day out, getting him on stage, off

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stage, dealing with the fallout. Yeah, absorbing

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all that collateral damage. So inevitably, all

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that chaos, it just, it culminates in tragedy.

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April 10th, 1992. Yeah. He and Malika Sawiri,

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they had just gotten back from Hawaii. Yeah.

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A short honeymoon. And they were driving. Just

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a routine work trip, right? To Laughlin, Nevada.

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Exactly. Had a sold -out show book at the Riverside

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Resort Hotel and Casino. Driving across the desert.

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Needles Highway. Northwest of Needles, California.

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In his Pontiac Trans Am. Yeah, that iconic car.

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Yeah. And the setting, dark desert road. Sets

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the scene, doesn't it? It does. And the crash.

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It wasn't minor. Head -on collision. Right. A

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pickup truck. driven by a 17 -year -old kid who,

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reports said, had been drinking alcohol. Tried

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to pass another car across the center line. And

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just plowed right into Kinison's Trans Am. Catastrophic.

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And the crucial detail, the one that connects

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everything for the story, Carl Bove was in the

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car. Yes, his best friend, his opener, riding

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with him. And somehow, miraculously, LeBove survived.

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Sawir survived too, but with injuries. A concussion

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needed hospitalization. Right. But Kinison, he

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was driving. Yeah. And he didn't make it. And

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a key factor, tragically, was the seatbelt. He

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wasn't wearing one. No. And that meant his head

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hit the windshield hard. But the really bizarre

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part is what happened immediately after. Yeah,

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the witnesses said he seemed okay at first. Shockingly,

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yes. Minor facial wounds, apparently. He actually

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got out of the car, sat down on the roadside,

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seemed lucid. But inside... The damage was done.

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Totally. The autopsy later showed massive internal

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injuries. Corn aorta, ruptured blood vessels

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in his abdomen, cervical spine dislocation. It

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was unsurvivable. Fatal within minutes. But before

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he passed, those last words, they're incredibly

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haunting. Yeah. The accounts from witnesses,

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including LeBeau, are just cinematic almost and

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deeply strange. He was talking, but not to anyone

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there. Apparently not. He reportedly asked out

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loud, why now? Then a pause. Then, but why? Like

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he was arguing with someone or something? And

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then after another pause, and friends later interpreted

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this pause as him maybe receiving some kind of

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answer. Okay. Okay, okay, okay. Wow. From rage

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and questioning to acceptance. In seconds. Yeah.

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One friend said whatever voice was talking to

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him gave him the right answer and he just relaxed

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with it. It's quite an image. The ultimate rebel

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preacher's son having this final personal reckoning

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on the side of a highway. A truly unbelievable

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end. And the legal side of it, the driver. It

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feels disproportionate, maybe. The teen driver

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pleaded guilty to vehicular manslaughter with

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gross negligence. And the sentence. For causing

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the death of a major star, injuring his wife.

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One year of probation, 300 hours of community

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service, and his driver's license suspended for

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two years. That's remarkably light, considering...

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It seems that way. So, Kinison's gone at 38.

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Career cut short. But his legend instantly solidified.

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Yeah, the posthumous honors started rolling in.

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The Grammy in 94 for Live From Hell. George Carlin

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dedicating his 94 special, Jammin' in New York,

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just saying, this show is for Sam. Ozzy Osbourne

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saying he believes Sam was upstairs. He's next

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to God. The world mourned the public figure,

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the icon. But meanwhile, you've got Carl LeBove,

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the survivor, left holding this immense psychological

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trauma of having seen it all happen right in

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front of him. Yeah, the quiet guy left with the

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loudest, most horrific memory. So for almost

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20 years, that was kind of the narrative, right?

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Yeah. Kinison, the loud, tragic, flawed genius.

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LaBeouf. Yeah. The loyal friend who survived

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the wreck. Yeah, the story seems settled. Horrific,

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but settled. Until February 2011, nearly 19 years

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after the crash, this bomb drops. A revelation

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that just completely rewrites the story of their

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friendship and LaBeouf's suffering. This is where

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it goes from shared tragedy to just jaw -dropping

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personal betrayal. It's incredibly painful to

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even talk about. It really is. The news broke.

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Places like the Toronto Sun reported it. Sam

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Kinison had secretly fathered a child. Okay.

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But with who? With Carl LeBeau's ex -wife. Oh,

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my God. His best friend's ex -wife. Yes. And

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the really brutal part. For almost 13 years,

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Carl LeBeau had believed this child, a daughter,

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was his. He'd been paying child support. He raised

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her as his own, believing she was his. Yes. For

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13 years. She was 21 years old when LeBeau finally

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managed to file the legal papers challenging

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the paternity. How do they even prove it with

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Kinison dead for so long? DNA. They got samples

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from Kinison's brother, Bill. And the result?

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Unmistakable. A 99 .8 % likelihood that Sam Kinison

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was the biological father. Wow. Just devastating.

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So for nearly two decades, Kinison took this

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secret to his grave. Labov's ex -wife knew. And

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Labov was living this lie, unknowingly footing

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the bill, emotionally and financially, for his

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dead best friend's secret child. And the financial

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cost. It wasn't just the past support, was it?

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It got worse. Oh, way worse. It became this crushing

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burden. He reported losing his driver's license,

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his passport. Why? because he was deemed to owe

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over $187 ,000 in back child support. Wait, back

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support? Even after proving he wasn't the father?

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How does that even work? It's a really harsh

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aspect of the legal system in some places. Even

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if you disprove biological paternity later, the

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person who was legally recognized as a father

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during those years can still be held liable for

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the support that accrued before the paternity

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was legally changed. So he was basically on the

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hook for a massive debt generated while everyone

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thought he was the father. A debt for Kinison's

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child. Essentially, yes. He was trapped. Financially

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obligated for money related to a child fathered

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in secret by his supposed best friend. It's just

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mind -boggling. Financial purgatory. And the

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emotional toll. You can't even quantify that.

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No. LeBeau himself said that learning the truth

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on top of the trauma of witnessing the crash,

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it just broke him for years. How did he cope?

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Not... Well, initially. He turned to self -medication,

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admitted abusing alcohol, saying it was the only

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way he could even get on stage to do his comedy

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act. Just trying to numb the pain of this...

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this unbelievable betrayal. And it got darker.

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He reached a point during this period where he

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attempted suicide. Oh, God. Kinison's actions,

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years after his death, were literally destroying

00:17:45.660 --> 00:17:48.480
LeBeau's life. Actively destroying it. Think

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about the layers. The guy was his best friend,

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his road dog, the man he was loyal to right up

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to the horrific end. Surviving the crash with

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him. And all along. Kinison had saddled him with

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this secret, this ticking time bomb of a debt,

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emotionally and financially, that lasted decades

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and nearly killed him. It's almost impossible

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to comprehend that level of betrayal. It really

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is. Which makes LeBeau's eventual perspective

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even more remarkable. What do you mean? How did

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he handle it long -term? He somehow found a way

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to forgive. He stated publicly he'd learned to

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forgive Sam for what he did. Forgive that. That's

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incredible strength. It really is. And even more

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amazing, maybe. He said he managed to maintain

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a good relationship with the young woman herself.

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He mentioned she actually showed up at one of

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his stand -up gigs years before the news broke

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publicly. And he was able at that point to tell

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her the truth about who her biological father

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was. So he gave her that clarity despite everything

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he'd been through. He still protected her, in

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a way. It seems like it. That ability to move

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past such a profound betrayal, to still have

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a connection with the young woman he raised,

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it says so much about his character. Yeah. The

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loyal friend turned out to be the one with the

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immense emotional strength to clean up Kinnison's

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biggest, darkest mess. So Carl above, he kept

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going, continued his comedy career, but always,

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you know, shadowed by Kinnison. Yeah, you couldn't

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escape that association, professionally but also

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personally, carrying that huge weight. His life

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really became about endurance, didn't it? Just

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surviving this prolonged, unbelievable adversity.

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And he passed away relatively recently, April

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23, 2021. Yeah. Died from cancer. At home in

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Las Vegas, he was 62. Still quite young, really.

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Definitely. And the tributes that came out after

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his death, they often hit on this contrast. His

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gentle nature versus the chaos he lived through.

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Like Carrot Top's post. Exactly. The fellow Vegas

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comedian, Carrot Top, put something on Instagram

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calling LeBeau one of the best today. Yeah. Not

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only one of the funniest, talented people, but

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one of the sweetest. One of the sweetest. Right.

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A sweet guy who endured the absolute worst of

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that intense rock and roll comedy world, largely

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because of his best friend. Yeah. It's a stark

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contrast. So if we try to tie their legacies

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together, this whole deep dive kind of comes

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down to that intense, maybe toxic duality of

00:20:06.410 --> 00:20:08.650
their friendship. Right. Kinison. Yeah. Short,

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brilliant, explosive career, but ultimately defined

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by self -destruction and the wreckage he created.

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And above. A longer life, seemingly stable on

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the surface, but fundamentally reshaped, almost

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destroyed by loyalty to someone who betrayed

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him so deeply. Kinnison's legacy is often just

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boiled down to the scream, the persona. But these

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sources, they reveal something much more devastating.

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A guy whose public anger maybe came from private

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trauma, yeah, but whose private actions, his

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irresponsibility, set off this chain reaction,

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financial ruin, emotional crisis, all landing

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on the person closest to him. And LaBeouf's quiet

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suffering, his near ruin, his eventual forgiveness,

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that becomes this incredibly sad, powerful footnote

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to the whole Kinison myth. It really does. The

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devastating cost of loyalty. Hashtag, hashtag

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outro. So we've covered a lot. We've seen the

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rise of this. This comedic titan, Sam Kinison,

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and the truly astronomical price paid by his

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closest friend, Carl Above. Yeah, it's a really

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stark reminder of how tightly fame, chaos, and

00:21:10.660 --> 00:21:13.440
betrayal can bind people together, even after

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death. Absolutely. And thinking about the timeline,

00:21:16.039 --> 00:21:18.619
it's chilling. Yeah. The sources show that Kinison's

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family tragedy, his brother Kevin's suicide.

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Yeah, that happened in 88. Right. And that seems

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to have occurred shortly before the period when

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he would have fathered this child with Lubav's

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wife. That timing is... It leaves you wondering,

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doesn't it? Did that immense personal loss, maybe

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the ultimate feeling of betrayal by life or family,

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send Kinison into such a dark, self -destructive

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spiral? But he became capable of betraying his

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closest friend in such a profound way. Exactly.

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Was it lashing out? Was it just recklessness

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amplified by grief and addiction? We can't know

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for sure, obviously. No, but it raises that fundamental

00:21:53.450 --> 00:21:56.089
question about artists, especially confrontational

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ones like Kinison. What does it mean when their

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life is defined both by this incredibly powerful

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public art and by these secret private choices

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that create decades of chaos and pain for someone

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else, especially someone who trusted them completely?

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Yeah, the hidden cost of that outlaw persona

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carried not just by him, but by those around

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him, particularly Lebeau, drowning in debt and

00:22:18.430 --> 00:22:20.730
despair because of secrets kept by his friend.

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It's definitely the kind of tangled, tragic complexity

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that only a real deep dive into the sources can

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start to unravel. A lot to think about there.
