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Welcome back to the Deep Dive. Okay, so our job,

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as always, is to take all those sources you send

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us, the articles, fan wikis, interviews, you

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name it, and really boil it all down for you.

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Okay, cut through the noise. Exactly. And today,

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we are suiting up, it's going to be, wait for

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it. We're diving deep into How I Met Your Mother.

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Oh, yeah. This is a big one. Nine seasons, over

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200 episodes. It ran from 2005 to 2014. And honestly,

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it kind of redefined the network sitcom in a

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lot of ways. It really did. So our mission today

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is to go beyond, you know, the yellow umbrella

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and the catchphrases. We want to look at the

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surprising structure, the real life stuff that

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inspired it. Yeah. And yeah, the legacy, including

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that ending. Right, that ending. We'll definitely

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get there. But first, the core concept. It's

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unique, isn't it? Future Ted, Bob Saget's voice

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in 2030, telling his kids this epic story about

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how he met their mom, Tracy McConnell. Covering

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the years 2005 to 2013, basically. And it's not

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just jokes. It blends sitcom, rom -com, and honestly,

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some pretty heavy dramatic moments, too. For

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sure. And what's immediately interesting when

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you break it down is how it looks like a standard

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hangout show, you know, like Friends. Yeah, on

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the surface. But that narration, that frame story,

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it immediately blows that up. It allows for all

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this nonlinear stuff jumping back and forth in

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time. They built this whole mythology over like

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a decade. It really rewarded the people who stuck

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with it. Okay, let's start at the beginning.

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The creators, Carter Bays and Craig Thomas. Where

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did this idea even come from? Well, it wasn't

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some, like, abstract concept. It was super personal.

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They were writers together on Letterman. Right,

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in New York. Exactly. And they basically just

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wanted to, quote, write about our friends and

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the stupid stuff we did in New York. It came

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directly from their own lives, navigating their

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late 20s, early 30s. That's where that authenticity

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comes from, I think. And that translates directly

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to the characters, doesn't it? Ted is kind of

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based on Baze? Loosely, yeah. the sort of hopeless

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romantic architect, and Marshall and Lily, the

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rock -solid couple. They're based on Thomas and

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his wife, Rebecca. Right. Which leads to this

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amazing little casting story. Yeah. Rebecca,

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Thomas' wife, she was okay with having Lily based

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on her, but she had one condition. Only one.

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What was it? They had to cast Allison Hannigan.

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No one else. Wow. That's specific. Super specific.

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Yeah. But Hannigan was perfect. Coming off Buffy,

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American Pie, she was looking for a comedy, and

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it just clicked. Imagine pinning your show on

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getting one specific actress. But it worked.

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She and Jason Segel had that chemistry. Yeah,

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you totally believed them as a couple from day

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one. And you needed that. You needed that stable

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anchor with, you know, Ted's endless searching

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and Barney being, well, Barney, hashtag, tag,

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tag, tag, be behind the scenes production decisions.

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Speaking of casting coups. Robin Scherbatsky.

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Ted's big love interest for most of the show,

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but explicitly not the mother. That casting was

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apparently make or break, too. Oh, huge. So Jennifer

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Love Hewitt was offered the part first. Big star

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at the time. Really? I didn't know that. Yeah,

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she turned down. So they ended up casting Cobie

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Smulders, who was pretty much unknown then, especially

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in the U .S. Yeah. And Baze and Thomas later

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said this was like a massive stroke of luck because

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she was unknown. The audience discovered her

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with Ted. Their quote was something like. When

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Ted's seeing her for the first time, America's

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seeing her for the first time. Huh. That makes

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sense. It adds to the mystery, the intrigue.

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Exactly. It wasn't like, oh, there's Jennifer

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Love Hewitt playing Robin. It was, who is this

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person Ted's so obsessed with? Helped keep people

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hooked. Okay, but production -wise, the show

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itself, it looks smooth, but behind the scenes,

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it sounds like it was kind of nuts to film. You

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hear laughs, but it wasn't a live audience show.

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Not even close. Your typical sitcom. Multi -camera,

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live audience, boom, boom, boom, H -I -M -Y -M.

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Single camera, much more cinematic. And the reason,

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that structure we talked about. Flashbacks and

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flash -forwards. Constantly. They'd have sometimes

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like 50 different scenes crammed into one 22

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-minute episode. Little quick cuts, fantasy bits.

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You couldn't possibly do that line. Impossible.

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Craig Thomas joked it would blur the line between

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audience and hostage situation. You'd be there

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all night. Huh. Okay, so the laugh track. It's

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there, but it was added later. They'd finish

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editing an episode, screen it for an audience,

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and record their laughter. So you get the feel

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without the production nightmare. Clever. Now,

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this next bit about controlling the narrative.

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This is wild. They knew the ending years in advance.

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And filmed part of it. This is probably the craziest

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bit of long -term planning in TV history. Back

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in 2006, during season two. Season two. Yeah.

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They realized the actors playing Ted's kids,

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Luke and Penny, were teenagers. By the time the

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show ended, potentially eight, nine years later,

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they wouldn't look right. Oh, good point. They'd

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be adults. Exactly. So they filmed the kids part

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of the final scene, the big reveal on the couch,

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way back then. In 2006. No way. They filmed the

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series finale ending eight years early. Just

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the kids' reactions on the couch, yeah. Got them

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to sign NDAs, lock the footage away. It meant

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they were committed to that specific ending from

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incredibly early on. Talk about sticking to your

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guns. Hashtag to hashtag C. Setting and sound.

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Okay, let's talk about the vibe. McLaren's pub.

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The gang's hangout. It feels so real, but it

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wasn't actually one specific bar, right? Right,

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it was more of an homage. Yeah. A composite.

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Bays and Thomas based it on like four different

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bars they actually went to in New York. McGee's,

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McHale's, Chumley's and Fez. They apparently

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took inspiration from a mural in McGee's for

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the look. And the name McLaren's. Any significance?

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Yeah. A nice little inside joke. It was named

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after Carter Bays assistant at the time, Carl

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McLaren. And they named the bartender Carl, too.

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Doubling down. It's that kind of personal touch

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that makes the world feel lived in, you know?

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Totally. And the theme song, that short, catchy

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bit at the start. Instantly recognizable, right?

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Just 12 seconds. It's a clip from a song called

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Hey Beautiful by a band called The Solids. Okay.

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And here's the kicker. Bayes and Thomas. They're

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in the solid. Look out. They wrote their own

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theme song. Pretty much. Yeah. Just reinforces

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how much of their own DNA is baked into this

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show, right down to the music. Yeah. And they

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were super involved in picking all the songs

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throughout the series, too. Lots of key emotional

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moments hinged on specific tracks. Hashtag tag

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two. The unreliable narrator and narrative devices.

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Hashtag, hashtag, tag A. The framing device and

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unreliable memories. Okay, let's really get into

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the structure. Future Ted in 2030 telling the

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story. We mentioned Bob Saget's voiceover. But

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the sources hammer this home. He is an unreliable

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narrator. That changes everything. It's absolutely

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crucial. Like it's the master key to understanding

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the show. He's telling this story decades after

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it happened. So memories fade. Details get fuzzy.

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Exactly. He misremembers things. He exaggerates.

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He leaves stuff out. He frames things to make

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himself look maybe a little better. Or just to

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suit the story he wants to tell his kids. Precisely.

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And that unreliability does a few key things.

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One, it papers over some of Ted's less flattering

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moments. Let's be honest, Ted could be kind of

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pretentious or self -bidding sometimes. Future

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Ted sands those edges down a bit. Makes himself

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the slightly more heroic protagonist of his own

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story. Okay, that makes sense. What else? Two,

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it justifies all the crazy structural jumps.

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The conflicting accounts of the same night, the

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nested flashbacks, the stories changing slightly

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each time they're told. His unreliable memory

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is the perfect excuse for that narrative playfulness.

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Think about the goat episode where everything

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is out of order. Right. You're piecing it together

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with him almost. And third, it's how they got

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around network sensors, especially with stuff

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Ted wouldn't want to explicitly tell his kids

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about. Ah, the euphemisms. The best ones. Sex,

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drugs, swearing. He substitutes things like the

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famous eating a sandwich euphemism for smoking

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pot. Or sometimes literally showing an animal

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instead of a person during an awkward story.

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Yeah. It's funny, but it also fits the frame.

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Dad trying to keep it relatively clean for the

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kids. It serves the comedy and the premise. Hashtag

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tag tag be the core five and the mother's delayed

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entrance. So let's talk about the main gang,

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the core five. They obviously grew over nine

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years, but those core personalities were there

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from the start. Absolutely. You've got Ted Mosby,

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played by Josh Radner, the architect searching

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for the one. That's his whole deal. And we know,

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spoiler alert, he finds Tracy, the mother. But

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she passes away in 2024, which sets up the controversial

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ending where he might go back to Robin. Okay.

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Then Marshall and Lily, the established couple.

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Marshall Erickson, Jason Siegel, Ted's best friend

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from college. He's the heart. The Minnesota nice

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guy, but obsessed with Sasquatch. Starts wanting

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to save the world as an environmental lawyer.

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Takes a detour into corporate law hell at GNB.

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Goliath National Bank. Right. Before eventually

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getting back to his dream and becoming a judge.

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Big arc for him. And Lily Aldrin. Allison Hannigan.

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She seems sweet, the kindergarten teacher, but

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underneath, she's kind of the master manipulator

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of the group, isn't she? Totally. Pulling strings

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behind the scenes. And dealing with her own stuff,

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like the secret credit card debt from compulsive

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shopping. That becomes a huge plot point. Forcing

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Marshall into that GNB job he hates adds real

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friction to the perfect couple. Then there's

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the breakout character, really. Barney Stinson.

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Neil Patrick Harris. Iconic. Sued up. Legendary.

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The playbook. He's the ultimate playboy, but

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it all stems from these deep -seated abandonment

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issues from his childhood. Right, his dad leaving.

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Exactly. The suits, the rules, the playbook,

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it's all armor. He does marry Robin, briefly.

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Is it? The divorce. But his big change comes

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when he has his daughter, Ellie, totally by accident.

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That finally breaks through. And rounding out

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the five, Robin Scherbatsky, Kobe Smulders. The

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career -focused Canadian news anchor. She's fiercely

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independent, doesn't want kids, loves scotch,

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cigars, guns. She's positioned almost as one

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of the guys in some way. Which makes her dynamic

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with Ted, who wants the exact opposite, wife,

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kids, white picket fence, so compelling. And

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so frustrating for him. Now, the biggest structural

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gamble. holding back the mother, Tracy McConnell,

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until the very end of season eight. Insane, right?

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A show called How I Met Your Mother, and you

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don't meet the mother for eight years. Kristen

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Milioti comes in, and she's perfect. But the

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whole show, up to that point, is technically

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about not meeting her. It's about the journey.

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But they did leave clues, didn't they? Like her

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name. Yeah, a little Easter egg for the super

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fans. Her first name, Tracy, was actually mentioned

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way, way back in Season 1, Episode 9. A stripper

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tells Ted her name is Tracy, and he jokes, and

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that, kids, is how I met your mother. Just a

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throwaway line, but they knew. It shows the long

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game they were playing. Hashtag Tag 3. Deep dive

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into the subplots and running gags. What made

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him so rich, I think, was its commitment to its

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own running gags. These weren't just one -off

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jokes. They built over seasons. The prime example

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has to be the slap bet. Oh, the slap bet. The

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gold standard of long -form sitcom gags. It started

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simply enough in season two. Why does Robin hate

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malls? Barney gets porn. Marshall gets she got

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married there. Right. And Marshall introduces

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the slap bet. Winner gets to slap the loser.

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Lily naturally becomes the slap bet commissioner.

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And the answer was Robin Sparkles. Teenage Canadian

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pop sensation. Legendary reveal. So Marshall

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wins. But here's the genius twist. Lily gives

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Barney a choice. Ten slaps right now, or five

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slaps, delivered by Marshall anytime, anywhere,

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across eternity. And Barney, being Barney, took

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the five slaps spread out. Which kept the gag

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alive for seven more seasons. It became this

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recurring event, slapsgiving. Marshall built

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up this whole mythology around the slaps. The

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anticipation was incredible. They really milked

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those last few slaps. Absolutely. And the final

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two, slaps four and five, delivered right before

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Barney and Robin's wedding in the final season.

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Perfect payoff, tying it all together after all

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those years. Hashtag, hashtag, be Robin Sparkles

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in the Pop Star Pass. And the Robin Sparkles

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reveal itself just opened up this whole other

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world of jokes. It was amazing. First, let's

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go to the mall. An instant classic within the

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show's world and kind of for the fans, too. But

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it wasn't just silly. Right. It had plot significance.

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Totally. The second song, Sandcastles in the

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Sand, the power ballad. That's what brings Barney

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and Robin together for the first time, really.

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They bond over watching her embarrassing music

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video. It showed vulnerability. And then they

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explored her darker phase, too. Yeah, trying

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to break away from the pop image. Her grunge

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phase is Robin Daggers with P .S. I love you,

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mocking Alanis Morissette a bit. It was all just

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so well observed, playing on those Canadian stereotypes,

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too, in a fun way. Always reminding us she was

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slightly the outsider. Hashtag tag tags tag C.

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The pineapple incident and the captain. Okay,

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next iconic mystery. The pineapple incident.

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Season one. Ted wakes up drunk, sprained ankle.

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girl in his bed he doesn't remember, and a pineapple.

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Why did that stick with people so much? Because

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they never explained it. It was the one loose

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end they deliberately left dangling for the entire

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run of the show. For nine years. Yep. Ken even

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says in a later season, we never found out where

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the pineapple came from. It became this symbol

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of unexplained drunken nights and the random

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chaos of youth. Fans obsessed over it. So did

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they ever explain it? They did, but not in the

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show itself. It was in a deleted scene on the

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season nine DVD from the episode Daisy. Ah, OK.

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So what was the big secret? It involved the captain.

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You know, Zoe's weird boat of fest ex -husband

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played by Kyle MacLachlan. Oh, yeah, him. Apparently,

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the captain followed some old naval tradition

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of putting a pineapple outside his house as a

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sign of hospitality. Ted, completely wasted,

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just walked by and stole it on his way home.

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That's it. He just stole it. That's it. Anticlimactic,

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maybe. But they filmed the explanation. They

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just chose not to include it in the final cut,

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maybe thinking the mystery was better left unsolved.

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Hashtag tag tag D, the playbook, and Barney's

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philosophy. Can't talk about Barney without talking

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about the playbook. The legendary leather -bound

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book of scams. First shown in detail in season

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five, I think. It wasn't just pickup lines. It

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was these incredibly elaborate, sometimes sociopathic

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schemes to pick up women. Like the Lorenzo von

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Matterhorn. Exactly. Creating fake websites,

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elaborate backstories, it was the physical manifestation

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of his refusal to be vulnerable, his shield against

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genuine connection, all tied back to his dad

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issues. But he had to give it up, symbolically

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at least, for Robin. Had to. The season 8 finale,

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his proposal to Robin is the final play, The

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Robin. And as part of it, he burns the playbook.

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It signifies him finally being willing to ditch

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the games and be sincere. Even though he maybe

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had a backup copy. Well, yeah, it's Barney. But

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the symbolic act was key. And, you know, the

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playbook and Barney's whole philosophy, it spun

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off into actual books. Well, yeah. The bro code,

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bro on the go. Bro code for parents. And a cool

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little tidbit. If you watch this show in syndication,

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sometimes they'd put little excerpts from the

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bro code on screen as vanity cards at the very

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end. Extra content for the fans. Hashtag, hashtag,

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taggy, the doppelgangers. And signs from the

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universe. Another great running gag that evolved.

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The search for the doppelgangers. Started as

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just a funny visual thing in season five, seeing

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people on the street who looked exactly like

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the main five. Lesbian Robin, Mustache Marshall,

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Stripper Lily. Mexican Wrestler Ted. Can't forget

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Mexican Wrestler Ted. But then Marshall and Lily

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turned it into something more. They decided they

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wouldn't start trying for a baby until they saw

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the fifth and final doppelganger, Barney's. It

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became this, like, sign from the universe they

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were waiting for. Which created real tension

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because they kept thinking they saw him. Right.

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They saw a street magician. A cab driver. Yeah.

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Even Barney himself in disguise once. It was

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frustrating for them. But the actual payoff was

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so perfect. Who was it in the end? It wasn't

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a random lookalike. In season six, when they're

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struggling to conceive, they go to see a fertility

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specialist. Dr. Stangel. And he looks exactly

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like Barney. No way! Yes. So, the final doppelganger

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wasn't just a random sighting. He was the actual

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person who could help them start their family.

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The sign they needed was literally the help they

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needed. Beautiful writing. Hashtag tag 4B. Season

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highlights, the finale, and mixed reception.

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Hashtag tag tag yes. Key narrative moments by

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season. Okay, looking back, you can see how they

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built the stakes season by season. Season one

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sets up the core dynamics. Yeah, Marshall proposes

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to Lily. Ted meets Robin. Aunt Robin, crucially.

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And then, bam, the season ends with Lily leaving

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Marshall to go to San Francisco for art school.

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That moment of Marshall sitting on the steps

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in the rain, that was heavy for a sitcom. Sure,

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they weren't afraid to go there. And season three

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introduces some key recurring elements. Definitely.

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Marshall and Lily buy that awful apartment in

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Delwes, Trebla. Downwind of the sewage treatment

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plant. The slanted floors, the constant problems.

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It became a physical symbol of their financial

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issues. Mostly Lily's shopping debt. And crucially,

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season three is when Ted gets the yeller umbrella.

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At that St. Paddy's Day party he wasn't even

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supposed to be at. A huge moment, even though

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we didn't know its full significance yet. Season

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four felt like a big reset for Ted. Massive heartbreak.

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Stella leaves him at the altar. Ouch. But career

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-wise, things shift. Marshall gets sucked into

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GMB. Goliath National Bank. The evil empire.

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And Ted ends up designing their new headquarters,

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which he hates. It forces Marshall to compromise

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his environmental ideals to pay off Lily's debt.

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Again, real conflict for the perfect couple.

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Ted eventually escapes GNB and becomes a professor,

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which feels much more like him. Fast forward

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to season seven, babies and big relationship

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moves. Huge season. Marshall finally gets his

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environmental law dream job. Lily has Marvin

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Wafer Erickson. Adorable. And the Barney -Robin

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relationship really heats up, despite Quinn getting

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in the way for a bit. Then the season ends for

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that flash -forward bombshell. Barney's bride

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at the wedding is Robin, setting up the endgame.

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Which brings us to Season 9's unique structure.

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Almost the whole season is just one weekend.

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Pretty much. 22 out of 24 episodes cover just

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the 56 hours leading up to Barney and Robin's

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wedding in Farhampton. It was a bold move. How

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did that work? It let them do really intricate,

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non -linear stuff. jumping around within that

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weekend. And most importantly, it allowed the

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mother, Tracy, to meet each member of the gang

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individually before she finally meets Ted. We

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got to know her and see why she was perfect for

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him through their eyes first. Hashtag to hashtag

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B, critical response and the finale backlash.

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Now, the show wasn't always a critical darling,

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was it? The reception changed over time. Yeah,

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the early seasons, especially season two, got

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a lot of acclaim. Critics loved it. But as it

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went on, maybe seasons five, seven, definitely

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eight, the reviews got more mixed. Was season

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eight considered the weakest? Often, yeah. There

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was a feeling they were treading water, delaying

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the inevitable meeting with the mother. Getting

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that ninth season renewed was apparently tough,

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especially getting Jason Segel back on board.

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Once they locked season nine, though, they could

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finally cast Kristen Milioti and execute the

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endgame. The endgame being the finale, March

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31st, 2014. An hour long, and oh boy, the reaction.

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Overwhelmingly negative, like viscerally negative

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from a huge chunk of the fan base and critics.

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Why? What was the core issue? It all came down

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to the last maybe... 15, 20 minutes after spending

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the entire final season building up to Barney

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and Robin's wedding and finally introducing Tracy,

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who everyone loved. You revealed Barney and Robin

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get divorced after just three years. Yep. And

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then the gut punch. Tracy gets sick and dies

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in 2024. And the very final scene using that

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footage filmed back in 2006 has Ted's kids telling

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him mom's been gone for six years. It's time

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to move on. Ask Aunt Robin out. Yeah. And he

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does. So after nine years of being told Robin

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isn't the mother, Ted ends up with Robin anyway.

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Exactly. Fans felt like nine years of character

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development, especially for Barney and Robin

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learning to commit and all the emotional investment

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in Tracy was just thrown out the window to stick

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to an ending plan back when the show was completely

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different. It felt like a betrayal of the journey.

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That was the word used a lot. It ended up on

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all those worst TV finales ever lists almost

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immediately. It really soured the legacy for

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a lot of people. And the backlash was so strong

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they actually released another ending. They did

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on the season nine DVD. An official alternate

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ending. It basically cuts out the whole final

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section. No divorce for Barney and Robin. No

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mention of Tracy dying. It just ends happily

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with Ted meeting Tracy at the Farhampton train

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station under the yellow umbrella. Wow. So viewers

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could choose their own preferred ending, essentially.

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Pretty much. A tacit admission, maybe, that the

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original ending didn't land the way they'd hoped

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for many viewers. Hashtag tag tag V. Hashtag

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tag tag A. Tie -ins in music. One thing H -I

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-M -M did incredibly well was extending its world

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beyond the TV screen, especially online. Oh,

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yeah. That was brilliant. Almost every fake website

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mentioned in the show, they made it real. Like

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what? Goliath National Bank had a site. TedMosbyISJJerk

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.com was real. You could watch Barney's ridiculous

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video resume. There was a slap bet countdown

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website, Puzzles the Bar, LilyEyesInLabor .com.

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Tons of them. That's amazing. Are they still

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up? Some of them actually are, believe it or

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not. It made the world feel so much bigger and

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more interactive. A really smart way to build

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the mythology. And the music continued to be

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important right to the end. Absolutely central.

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We mentioned Baze and Thomas being in the band

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that did the theme. They poured that same care

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into the whole soundtrack. Original songs like

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Barney's Nothing Suits Me Like a Suit became

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huge moments. That was an Emmy -nominated song,

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right? It was. And they licensed tracks perfectly

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for big emotional beats, using the Shins' simple

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song when Ted finally sees Tracy or Band of Horses

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at the funeral during a particularly low point.

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They knew how to use music. They even released

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two official soundtrack albums. Hashtag, hashtag,

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B spinoffs. And the continuing quest. With that

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level of success, spinoffs were inevitable, right?

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People wanted more. Totally predictable. The

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first big attempt was right after HLNY ended

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in 2013, 2014. It was called How I Met Your Dad.

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Okay, same concept, female perspective. Exactly.

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It was set to star. Greta Gerwig, believe it

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or not, with Meg Ryan doing the teacher voiceover.

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Greta Gerwig. Wow. What happened? CBS filmed

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the pilot, but they didn't love it. They asked

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Baze and Thomas, who were involved, to reshoot

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it. They refused, said their vision was right.

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So CBS passed. Dead on arrival. Ouch. But they

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kept trying. The idea wouldn't die. Different

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writers took stabs at a How I Met Your Father

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concept over the years. Eventually, Hulu picked

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it up. Right, the one with Hilary Duff. That

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actually made it to air. Yeah, it launched in

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2021. Hilary Duff, as Sophie, telling her son

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how she met his dad. It had a similar structure,

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modern setting. It even had cameos from Kobe

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Smulders and Neil Patrick Harris, tying it loosely

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to the original universe. How'd it do? It ran

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for two seasons, but Hulu canceled it in 2023.

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It just didn't quite capture that same magic,

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I guess. It kind of proves how hard it is to

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replicate that specific formula. The original

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really caught lightning in a bottle. Hashtag

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tag outro. So wrapping up this epic deep dive,

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what are the big takeaways? It wasn't just a

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sitcom. The structure was incredibly ambitious.

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Definitely. No live audience, the sheer number

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of cutaways, the long -running gags like the

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slap bet, the pineapple mystery, the doppelgangers.

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They built a really dense, rewarding world. And

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that world even spilled over onto the internet

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with the real websites. Right. But I think the

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absolute key thing for you to remember, the thing

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that unlocks it all, is future Ted. as that unreliable

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narrator. That's the lens through which we see

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everything. It justifies the style, the humor,

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the timeline bending, everything. It let them

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tell this sprawling story about finding the one,

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while Ted was mostly focused on Aunt Robin. But

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that dedication to a specific structure, a specific

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ending locked in years before, that's also where

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the controversy comes in? Absolutely. Filming

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that final scene in season two committed them

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to an outcome. And the sources suggest the backlash

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against that finale ending was so intense that

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it actually made studios nervous about greenlighting

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similarly complex pre -planned sitcoms for a

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while. It had a real chilling effect, apparently.

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Wow. So that leaves us with a final thought,

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doesn't it? Did that intense commitment to their

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original ending, the one locked in the vault

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from 2006, ultimately become a cage? Did it stop

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the show from evolving naturally with its characters?

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It's the big question, right? The legacy isn't

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just the nine seasons of laughs and romance.

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It's also about that final divisive chapter and

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whether sticking rigidly to the plan, no matter

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what, was the run of call. Something for you

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to chew on.
