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Hi, everybody. Welcome to the Canine Connection

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podcast. Today, Lori and I are going to follow

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up a little bit on the last podcast where we

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talked about how incredibly challenging it is

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to get the dog in the ring that we would like

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to have. I guess more specifically, we're talking

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about Zesty and Ever and about... thing that

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we're going to try and change some things, change

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our perspective on things, do some things differently

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and so on. So I think it's been, I want to say

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maybe a week and a half, give or take since then.

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Yeah. And Lori said she's been doing a lot and

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thinking a lot and she did have one show. So

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she's going to tell us all about that. And then

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we're just going to see where this leads us because

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we don't have a plan. Yeah. um so the last time

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we talked we had talked about um a bunch about

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you know the dogs in their arousal state like

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in training we can definitely get them up you

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know as soon as we pull the cookie out we can

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get them to look flashy and exciting and in the

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in the game um but that's not necessarily what

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we get in the trial ring like we talked about

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so But it's easy to do that the second, you know,

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it's easy to just pull a cookie out or play the

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game. And that's that's going to create that.

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So I had come up with a couple of things last

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time we talked about, like where I was just going

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to do some more of like like calming praise to

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her in the ring, like good girl with. And I had

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talked about using that wow word, which is kind

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of like. You know, sometimes we feed that, sometimes

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we don't, but it's just another cue that we can

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bring legally into the ring, kind of like to

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let them know that they're on the right track

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and they're doing fine. Because like we talked

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about, they get worried, they care so much, then

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it starts to become where they look like they

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want to die. And then going into the exercise,

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you're like. we could very well enqueue this

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because they look that way. So I did that. I

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went, I had my plan. I was proud of myself because

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I actually stayed on the plan and executed it.

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And it was a one -day trial, but two trials in

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one day. So four classes. So I went into my first

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class and I had no dog, like she was stressy

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and worried. And so I did all the things that

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I had planned on doing and trying. And, um, she

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pulled through the class. She, you know, it doesn't

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matter like what she got, right? Like, I don't

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care. Like she. She she came through with a really

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nice score. But at the end of the day, it's always

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like it felt like crap, like I hated it. She

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looked like she wanted to die through it. The

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thing with Ever is even when she looks like that,

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the dog. is still precise because that's just

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who she is she's still it's her training she's

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well trained right so even though like she comes

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out and either wins a class or gets a really

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nice score like in my head I'm like that doesn't

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feel good like that's not what I want that's

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not the feeling I want what my dog don't look

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like so I did do all of that stuff Um, did it

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help? There were moments where I felt like it

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helped, but what I did notice was because I kept

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everything so calm, I was calm and I was like,

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good girl. It actually like kept her arousal

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down. I think it got her too low. I think it

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got her too low. And so. We went into our next

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class, which was actually utility. Open was first,

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utility was second. And by the time I got in

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that class and I was trying to effectively use

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the same techniques that I had in my plan, she

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actually like looked like she wanted to die.

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And the first exercise was gloves. And she literally

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went out to the glove and froze. like froze like

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totally bailed and literally looked like she

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wanted to melt in a puddle so I was just like

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it's okay come on come on come on good girl it's

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okay it's all right next exercise was articles

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and like I said in the last episode we did like

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this is our thing articles are like our nemesis

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so of course we go to articles and I'm like And

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literally right here, I'm like, I just want to

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cheerlead her through. But I'm like, I'm not.

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I'm just going to try to stick with my plan and

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see if I can push her through. But it didn't

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work. So I sent her to the article pile. She

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went out to the article pile. Same thing like

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she did in gloves. Like she stood over the pile

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and like totally froze up and bailed. Could not

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push through. So I was like, you know, I think

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we're done today. Thanks, judge. Blah, blah,

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blah. Left. Because I was like, I'm not going

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to keep going. this obviously isn't working for

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whatever reason, whether it's because we haven't

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done it long enough, because literally, if anyone

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remembers, I had just started this like four

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days before the trial. Right. So I did want to

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just make that point, right? Like, yeah, not

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saying it will work or not, but just for context.

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Yeah. Right. You'd only been working on that

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for four days. So that was a big change. And

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you have a. fairly long history of trialing in

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a certain way yeah also too like she's used to

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you being a certain way so now you're different

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different is always going to be well different

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right different totally and for a dog like her

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she's going to be like a little bit confused

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by that so I'm not saying one way or the other,

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just like context, right? Yes, yeah, for sure.

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Like just so everyone knows where we're at. And

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in training, she's used to doing everything in

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very high arousal. She is. And then her arousal

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lowers in the ring. But like, yeah, she probably

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it's possible, too, that like in lower arousal,

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she just doesn't even know what to do. Right.

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Because that's not exactly. So then I had I had

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two more classes to do and I was like, all right,

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well, I could either just pack up and go home

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or I'm going to try to see if I can change my

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handling and get her through. So I ended up.

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going back to what i feel like i have to do to

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get her through is i have to like i have to warm

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her up get her barking spin twist like i have

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to manufacture it a little bit and get her into

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that higher arousal state and then like we go

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blasting into the ring and this is again, like

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what we just talked about, like, this is kind

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of what she knows. Like, this is how I trial

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her knowing she needs me to kind of carry her

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through like this. And, and that's what I did.

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Like, I was like looking at her, like, like.

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Like I had some big secret, like we just won

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the lottery and she really likes that. But I

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have to work freaking so hard. Like I have to

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work so hard through the entire class. Like I

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feel like I'm just on the edge of the cliff.

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Like if I let my guard down a second and just

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go into like kind of let her do the work, then

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she's going to drop on me. So we ended up getting

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through the next two classes. But then I'm, like,

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thinking about all this because then I'm like,

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all right, some people have said to me, like,

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you may have to do that with her. Like, you may

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have to carry her through classes like that.

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Yeah. But part of me is like, but, okay, I might

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have to kick her up into a little bit higher

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arousal just because of who she is. And maybe

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that will prevent her from kind of going, getting

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into her head about things. But then again, I'm

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going, but she also needs to learn to push through

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like we talk about. So then I'm thinking about

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so like all the thinking I go home and I'm like,

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all right, what's my plan going to be? And I

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don't I don't I want her to. Like, so what I

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see a lot in the ring is I see it in my transitions.

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I see it in my setups. I see it in things like

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my pivots. That's where I start to see where

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she's like, oh God, oh God. Because the dog is

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totally trained. I've done all the things to

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motivate her in exercises so that like the exercises

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are fun and she likes them. But it's the in -between

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stuff where she starts to worry where that's

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where I start to see it start to be like, oh,

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God, transitioning to the next exercise. She

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looks like she wants to die. That's where I feel

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like I got to be like, I have to work so hard

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to convince her to like, it's OK. You know, all

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that work I have to do. And I'm like, that's

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where I need her to be like, you need to bring

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it to the table. Like, this is where my head's

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going right now. You need to bring it to the

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table a little bit. Like, that's not the transition

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I want you to do. That's not the setup I want

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you to do. So, like, I figured out a few things.

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So, one is, and I felt this for a while, where

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I feel like I have, when Zest struggles. Right.

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Like I have to bribe him. So I'm like, I have

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to flip it. Right. I have to teach. And that's

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my fault. Right. Because he gets sucky. And then

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I'm like, oh, God. And then I do something to

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help him out, which is instinct. Right. It's

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what most people would do. So. Yeah. So then

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I'm like, OK, I have. No, no, no, no. You have

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to give me except really good work. really good

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effort and then I will reward that so I need

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to flip it around right so instead of saying

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come on give me a good transition because he

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has a similar issue right right and then if he

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doesn't go no no buddy this is a transition I

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want and help him out and blah blah blah because

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I know like if I bring the cookies out or a toy

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out in that moment I'll get what I want. Right.

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But in essence, I'm creating it. He's not giving

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it to me. So I took him to the Lowe's the other

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day and he worked exactly like in the ring. And

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I was like, oh, perfect, because this is what

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I need. I need him to be like he is in the ring.

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Right. I said, OK, so I let's say, I don't know,

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send him to the glove. Right. Oh, oh. you know,

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really slow, trots back. And I took it and I

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felt this overwhelming urge to get out my toy

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or get out some cookies. And I'm like, nope,

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I'm not doing it. But neither am I going to accept

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this because it's not meeting my criteria of

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what I want, right? And I've taught you what

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I want. So it's not like you don't know. Now,

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I'm not going to like beat you over the head

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or be like, no, I'm just like not going to reward

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it. Right. Because like if I said to the dog

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down and the dog sat, I'm not going to go yes

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and give him a cookie. Right. I'm going to go

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silly dog stand. I said down. And then when you

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down, I'll say good dog or whatever. Right. Right.

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So it's the same concept. It's just a bigger

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chain right now. And again, I know I fully train

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this. He has a skill level, etc. Right. So whether

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it's the distraction or whether it's he feels

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pressure in that environment, regardless, it's

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OK. We're just going to do it again. Right. So

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no cookie, no toy. I did try to charge him up

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a little bit at the beginning. So bounce, bounce

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again. And he's like, OK, can kind of bounce.

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I'm like, no. bounced like for real. And I just

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stayed with it until he started bouncing like

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a lunatic. So again, even there, there was like

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this hesitation and I felt myself going to cave.

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Right. And I'm like, no, I'm just going to be

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super patient. Right. Come on. So until he's

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bouncing freely. Because at the beginning he's

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bouncing because I told him to. It's a command.

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But dude, when we train, you bounce freely all

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the time. By freely, I mean, you're just, yeah,

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I'm bouncing. Right. Because you want to. So

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I'm just going to wait you out. Right. And then

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all of a sudden he turns a corner and he starts

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hopping like freely. And I'm like, good boy.

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Now let's try to do the glove. Right. Let's pivot.

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Send. He runs out. He starts to run back before

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he can truck because now you gave me three quarters.

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Really good effort. I'm like, yes. So now you

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said a really good comparison. This is the work

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I will reward when you give me that work. I will

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give you a really good reward for that. If you

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give me the other work, I'm not going to get

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upset with you, but we're going to try it. a

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few more times until you get it. So I kind of

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did that with him. And then, um, I went to a

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match on Saturday and same kind of similar thing,

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like a little better than at the store, but you

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know, I always get the same at a match, but usually

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I always go and help him. And I'm like, nope,

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we're going to do the same thing. you're going

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to give me effort and I'm just going to be really

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patient. I don't care if we only do one exercise

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out of four runs. I don't care. Like, but we're

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going to do it over a few times until you give

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me what I want, or at least give me effort, right?

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Like more effort. And then we're going to have

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a party with that. And then by the time, and

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so that, so I had some really nice pieces. I

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felt like he was starting to have some understanding.

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And then Sunday I went to a match and he worked

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lights, lights out. Now I'm not saying it's going

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to work at a show or whatever, but I do remember

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that this is what I did a few months before the

00:16:05.429 --> 00:16:08.610
NOC. Cause I would go to like. you know, like

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stores in front of the Walmart, et cetera, et

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cetera. And he will get really flat, like in

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the ring. Now, whether it's distraction, whether

00:16:17.470 --> 00:16:21.470
it's whatever the case, right? And I remember

00:16:21.470 --> 00:16:24.330
back then what I did was I would be like, oh,

00:16:24.350 --> 00:16:26.950
silly dog, that's not how you do that exercise.

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Let's try again. And I'd have to do some exercises

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like three or four times and then he would run

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and I'd be like, yes, woo -hoo. huge like shenanigans

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and he figured it out right and it carried over

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then somewhere along the line more than likely

00:16:45.470 --> 00:16:48.769
my fault right probably somewhere he got a little

00:16:48.769 --> 00:16:52.149
sucky I went and covered up for it in my training

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yep and so on so anyway that so the other thing

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I'm doing is like kind of in a similar vein but

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i'm doing this like at home because i do have

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a similar issue with like transitions pivot stuff

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like that yeah and again usually i'm like come

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on let's go and if he i'm like all right that's

00:17:12.690 --> 00:17:14.890
the best you can do all right good job no i'm

00:17:14.890 --> 00:17:18.269
like dude no i want you slamming into me and

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hopping like a lunatic because you know if i

00:17:21.529 --> 00:17:24.410
get less maybe i'll get what i want right but

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again i'm not gonna bribe you into it So we're

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just in my garage and I'm like, let's go. That's

00:17:33.140 --> 00:17:35.339
my transition cue. And he's like, but I'm like,

00:17:35.420 --> 00:17:38.160
oh, silly dog. That's not a transition. Let's

00:17:38.160 --> 00:17:42.279
try that again. Let's go. Right. And I'll sidestep.

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And then when he gives me a lot of energy, then

00:17:48.119 --> 00:17:52.599
I would go, that's what I want. Yeah, exactly.

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And then I'm. also mixing in and this is like

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where I'm a little bit weak where I tend I still

00:18:00.440 --> 00:18:05.380
think I reward too much um where then he'll give

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me that and I'll go yes and then I'll reward

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him so now I don't reward it every time I'll

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do wow so sometimes I just praise you and you

00:18:16.220 --> 00:18:19.660
jump up and down Sometimes I'm just like, that

00:18:19.660 --> 00:18:22.519
was really good. I love that. Sometimes I'm like,

00:18:22.559 --> 00:18:25.240
super buddy. We move a little bit. Then I go,

00:18:25.279 --> 00:18:28.940
yes. Then I actually feed you or, or I go toy

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and we do the toy so that you're not actually

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getting a food or toy reinforcer every time.

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And at first he was constantly like, wait, what?

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Where's the food? Wait, what? Where's the toy?

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Wait, what? And I'm like, no, no, you're good.

00:18:45.900 --> 00:18:48.079
And he's like, well, thanks. But looking around

00:18:48.079 --> 00:18:49.759
like, where's the toy? I'm like, nope, you're

00:18:49.759 --> 00:18:51.599
not getting it. Come here. Jump up and down.

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And it was hard because we were neither of us

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were comfortable with it. Right. And so, again,

00:19:00.599 --> 00:19:05.519
I feel that temptation to just go fuck it and

00:19:05.519 --> 00:19:09.059
give him the food. Right. And I'm like, no, no,

00:19:09.099 --> 00:19:13.180
no, no. Like, I have to. kind of and it's that

00:19:13.180 --> 00:19:15.980
piece is starting to get better and better and

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better like every day where and I think part

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of it is where we feel like oh they're looking

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for it like oh they're no but yeah they are because

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that's I've created that expectation. Yes. It's

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not like he can't do it without it. He's confused.

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So I have to be patient and work through the

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confusion. And now he's starting to understand.

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Oh, sometimes we just jump up and down. Sometimes

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we do that. I'm not saying it's fully there,

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but. The key here is multiple, many, many times

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within sessions and from session to session,

00:20:01.140 --> 00:20:05.799
I could feel myself going, this isn't working.

00:20:05.940 --> 00:20:09.599
I'm just going to do what I've always done. And

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then I have to stop myself and go, wait, is it

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not working? I can't really say that yet because

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I need more time. Exactly. Exactly. Definitely.

00:20:24.529 --> 00:20:27.349
Yeah. And I, I'm doing the same thing and what

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I'm doing with my, um, what I'm doing right now,

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what the new thing is the new flavor of the week

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this week is I'm doing a ton of, I'm just calling

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it doodling. So what was really interesting was

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I went to go set up ever to go do articles. the

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week after we got back, I'm like by myself in

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my building. Like there's no one there. There's

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no, there's no like any form of like outside

00:21:01.480 --> 00:21:03.720
pressure that would make her feel like, oh God,

00:21:03.779 --> 00:21:06.440
we're doing like the formal thing. I just set

00:21:06.440 --> 00:21:11.140
her up. I marked her article pile and she literally

00:21:11.140 --> 00:21:15.230
like. tried to climb up my body. Like she couldn't

00:21:15.230 --> 00:21:17.049
even sit there. So I'm like, all right, well,

00:21:17.109 --> 00:21:19.730
there's definitely emotional baggage attached

00:21:19.730 --> 00:21:25.769
to this exercise. So talking to somebody else

00:21:25.769 --> 00:21:29.410
who I train with, I was hashing this out and

00:21:29.410 --> 00:21:31.190
she's familiar with some of this stuff that's

00:21:31.190 --> 00:21:34.410
going on, whatever. And she said, why don't you

00:21:34.410 --> 00:21:39.609
right now separate? You're like, you work on

00:21:39.609 --> 00:21:43.509
your transitions and your setups, like the doodling

00:21:43.509 --> 00:21:47.509
part of it, where she has to do those pieces

00:21:47.509 --> 00:21:51.369
correctly. Like she has to bring it to the table

00:21:51.369 --> 00:21:54.509
and don't even just, don't even do the exercise,

00:21:54.569 --> 00:21:57.809
like set all your crap up, do your ring entrance,

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do your transition, do your setup. And she has

00:22:00.150 --> 00:22:04.569
to do it. And I did that by myself in my building,

00:22:04.670 --> 00:22:08.940
nobody there. And I got sucky. Like I got trial

00:22:08.940 --> 00:22:12.339
-y, crappy shit I get, which was great because

00:22:12.339 --> 00:22:15.660
then I worked on it. So when she didn't transition,

00:22:15.980 --> 00:22:18.240
like she got all like, oh, I can barely stay

00:22:18.240 --> 00:22:20.299
with you and heal position through this fucking

00:22:20.299 --> 00:22:23.539
transition. I go, and I have to watch myself

00:22:23.539 --> 00:22:26.480
because I get annoyed. So I had to really watch

00:22:26.480 --> 00:22:29.240
my emotional state. Yeah, and that's a huge point,

00:22:29.359 --> 00:22:32.079
right? Because it's so important for us to be

00:22:32.079 --> 00:22:36.339
mindful. It is. And she's emotions moment by

00:22:36.339 --> 00:22:39.500
moment. So we can manage them because we can't

00:22:39.500 --> 00:22:41.960
manage them if we're not aware. If we're aware,

00:22:42.299 --> 00:22:44.940
it's OK to have those emotions. We are human.

00:22:45.200 --> 00:22:48.339
Right. But we must be aware and manage them.

00:22:48.480 --> 00:22:52.140
And that's the key. Right. Really the key. Because

00:22:52.140 --> 00:22:56.000
I had that dog like she. Yeah. So I'm just like,

00:22:56.099 --> 00:22:58.819
oh, I go, no, no, no. That's not a transition.

00:22:59.059 --> 00:23:02.220
I got. So I take her by the collar, which she's

00:23:02.220 --> 00:23:05.480
like. oh God, I have to watch this too. But I

00:23:05.480 --> 00:23:08.779
have to be like, this is a transition. Let's

00:23:08.779 --> 00:23:11.319
go or whatever my word is I use, which is actually

00:23:11.319 --> 00:23:16.440
with me. And she's like, oh, but I go with me

00:23:16.440 --> 00:23:19.559
until she actually willingly comes on the collar.

00:23:19.740 --> 00:23:22.000
Like I'm putting that in and she understands

00:23:22.000 --> 00:23:26.059
that. So once she does that, I go, oh, wow, look

00:23:26.059 --> 00:23:29.380
at you. You did it. Let's go try it again. Dude,

00:23:29.460 --> 00:23:32.529
this took like. This took like three, four reps

00:23:32.529 --> 00:23:37.109
before I got a with me. But once she did it and

00:23:37.109 --> 00:23:41.369
was ears up like, OK, I'm coming. That's when

00:23:41.369 --> 00:23:43.150
I marked it like what you just talked about.

00:23:43.470 --> 00:23:48.730
But it I've got all like I'm so I'm I'm working

00:23:48.730 --> 00:23:52.009
on all this in my pit. I get it in my pivots.

00:23:52.049 --> 00:23:55.490
I don't know what it is. Like I pivot. She pivots

00:23:55.490 --> 00:23:58.309
with me. And then as I'm coming to the end of

00:23:58.309 --> 00:24:01.740
the pivot. She looks like she wants to die. Well,

00:24:01.740 --> 00:24:04.779
it probably starts before the pivot because for

00:24:04.779 --> 00:24:06.819
a pivot, they're sitting there for a long period

00:24:06.819 --> 00:24:09.119
of time and they get really flat. I've been doing

00:24:09.119 --> 00:24:13.460
this game that sometimes I'm like, what is wrong

00:24:13.460 --> 00:24:16.579
with you? So like I do this workshop, like I'm

00:24:16.579 --> 00:24:18.640
putting together this workshop, right? A few

00:24:18.640 --> 00:24:25.789
weeks ago. And so I'm like, oh, so. The workshop

00:24:25.789 --> 00:24:29.609
is like things you can do to increase arousal.

00:24:29.609 --> 00:24:31.750
Right. Because we're always talking about managing

00:24:31.750 --> 00:24:35.849
arousal, whatever. So I'm like, OK, so I put

00:24:35.849 --> 00:24:38.049
and then I'm like thinking in my head, OK, what

00:24:38.049 --> 00:24:41.589
can we like? All right. This technique, that

00:24:41.589 --> 00:24:43.670
technique that and then I'm like, all right,

00:24:43.690 --> 00:24:46.769
the ready, steady game. And I go in my garage

00:24:46.769 --> 00:24:51.029
to film it. Do you think I've done this with

00:24:51.029 --> 00:24:56.259
Zesty? No. So I'm doing it with him and I'm like,

00:24:56.339 --> 00:25:00.759
oh, my God, he loves this game. It's working

00:25:00.759 --> 00:25:06.599
amazing. What is wrong with you? Right. So it's

00:25:06.599 --> 00:25:10.220
that concept that you talk about is the dopamine

00:25:10.220 --> 00:25:13.740
is released in anticipation of something exciting.

00:25:13.940 --> 00:25:17.519
Right. Not it's like in anticipation of. Right.

00:25:17.559 --> 00:25:24.650
So it's the whole ready, steady. one two three

00:25:24.650 --> 00:25:30.069
and then an explosion right like yes and then

00:25:30.069 --> 00:25:33.549
I'm like tossing cookies or chase it go or I

00:25:33.549 --> 00:25:35.369
have the cookie I'm like is it gonna go left

00:25:35.369 --> 00:25:38.490
or right or what where's it going this way that

00:25:38.490 --> 00:25:42.009
way and he's like and then I finally toss a cookie

00:25:42.009 --> 00:25:44.250
and then he gets a cookie and then I'm like get

00:25:44.250 --> 00:25:46.869
back in here now it's back to stillness right

00:25:46.869 --> 00:25:53.269
so I'm like ready two three, and then explosion.

00:25:53.390 --> 00:25:57.430
So I do that over and over and he starts to get

00:25:57.430 --> 00:26:02.210
crazy. Right. So then I'm like, okay, I can transition

00:26:02.210 --> 00:26:05.930
that to doing that without a verbal. So I'm just

00:26:05.930 --> 00:26:08.569
looking at him. I'm saying it in my head. Ready?

00:26:08.630 --> 00:26:11.880
Two, three, right. So this doesn't all happen

00:26:11.880 --> 00:26:14.140
in five minutes, like session after session.

00:26:14.519 --> 00:26:16.819
Right. So now I can look at him, say it in my

00:26:16.819 --> 00:26:20.779
head. And he's like, and then an explosion. Right.

00:26:20.859 --> 00:26:25.220
So I'm like, OK, now I can start bringing this

00:26:25.220 --> 00:26:28.740
into my pivot. So now instead of him sitting

00:26:28.740 --> 00:26:31.079
there going, oh, God, oh, God. And then I do

00:26:31.079 --> 00:26:35.490
the pivot and he's like, I'm coming. Right. I'm

00:26:35.490 --> 00:26:38.710
like, and then I get like, and then I explode

00:26:38.710 --> 00:26:41.849
into the pivot. So it's not completely finished,

00:26:41.890 --> 00:26:46.210
but it's definitely like, I can see it working.

00:26:46.269 --> 00:26:48.970
So I'm doing that, like heading into my transition.

00:26:50.230 --> 00:26:54.009
I'm doing it like on pivots. I'm doing it wherever

00:26:54.009 --> 00:26:59.819
I feel like. the exercise might be flat so what

00:26:59.819 --> 00:27:03.420
I did is like um he doesn't like explode into

00:27:03.420 --> 00:27:06.900
the article so I'm taking out the pivot I'm just

00:27:06.900 --> 00:27:11.279
sitting him and I'm like ready two three and

00:27:11.279 --> 00:27:16.359
he's like and I'm like fine and he's like running

00:27:16.359 --> 00:27:20.500
out and now that's like starting to look way

00:27:20.500 --> 00:27:25.569
better um So anyway, so I'm incorporating. But

00:27:25.569 --> 00:27:30.849
again, I'm like, I'm not feeding. I'm not bribing

00:27:30.849 --> 00:27:33.849
it. Right. Like very quickly, I started reducing

00:27:33.849 --> 00:27:37.250
the food and I would do the pivot. And then I'd

00:27:37.250 --> 00:27:42.150
go, wow. And wow, meaning you may not get food.

00:27:42.329 --> 00:27:44.710
You may not get a toy. Maybe you will. Maybe

00:27:44.710 --> 00:27:46.589
you won't. Maybe I'm just going to praise you.

00:27:46.630 --> 00:27:49.029
Maybe we're just going to jump up and down. Right.

00:27:49.109 --> 00:27:51.730
So immediate, cause I'm like, I'm not good. If

00:27:51.730 --> 00:27:56.289
I immediately now take this game and every single

00:27:56.289 --> 00:27:59.349
time pay it, well, what's going to happen when

00:27:59.349 --> 00:28:04.230
I don't pay it? Exactly. I'm going to be screwed.

00:28:04.670 --> 00:28:09.529
So immediately I'm moving away and same with

00:28:09.529 --> 00:28:12.049
my transitions, right? Like I do the game, then

00:28:12.049 --> 00:28:15.829
we explode into the transition and I'm varying

00:28:15.829 --> 00:28:21.339
what's going to happen. And, um, so that again,

00:28:21.599 --> 00:28:24.160
don't know. I won't know for a couple of weeks.

00:28:24.220 --> 00:28:25.980
I don't think my next show is for like another

00:28:25.980 --> 00:28:30.940
couple of weeks. If, or how any of this is gonna

00:28:30.940 --> 00:28:36.200
transfer, but so far there, there are definite

00:28:36.200 --> 00:28:41.039
areas where in the past, even just training with

00:28:41.039 --> 00:28:43.400
my training partners, like his articles have

00:28:43.400 --> 00:28:48.240
been like meh, you know? And like today he like

00:28:48.240 --> 00:28:52.339
flew out, went boom, boom, grabbed it flying

00:28:52.339 --> 00:28:57.099
back. And I'm like, yes. Yeah. And I did make

00:28:57.099 --> 00:28:59.099
a big deal about that. And I did pay it because

00:28:59.099 --> 00:29:03.539
it was first rep. Yeah. Lots of effort. Yeah.

00:29:04.259 --> 00:29:09.940
So I think it's like changing that mindset of

00:29:09.940 --> 00:29:17.099
like getting sucked into like. Paying them to

00:29:17.099 --> 00:29:22.319
get what we want versus give me what I want,

00:29:22.480 --> 00:29:27.279
then I am going to reward you for doing it. Right.

00:29:27.440 --> 00:29:31.700
Exactly. Exactly. That's the mindset for sure.

00:29:33.720 --> 00:29:37.680
Because otherwise we're inadvertently teaching

00:29:37.680 --> 00:29:42.839
them if it gets hard or if. whatever's going

00:29:42.839 --> 00:29:47.180
on and you act like this, then I will bail you

00:29:47.180 --> 00:29:50.200
out. Right. And then when we can't bail them

00:29:50.200 --> 00:29:53.160
out, well, then we're stuck and they're stuck.

00:29:53.400 --> 00:29:58.240
Right. And then we have kind of a problem. So

00:29:58.240 --> 00:30:02.519
we, but we can't take all reinforcement away,

00:30:02.640 --> 00:30:07.579
you know? So I think it's just shifting the responsibility.

00:30:07.599 --> 00:30:11.740
Like I'll even, I'll even say like, I've trained

00:30:11.740 --> 00:30:14.799
in my training partner's training building with

00:30:14.799 --> 00:30:17.920
him or with my other two training partners and

00:30:17.920 --> 00:30:20.960
chained a few exercises and done transitions.

00:30:21.019 --> 00:30:25.299
And he's given me meh transitions. And I'm like,

00:30:25.339 --> 00:30:28.259
come on, come on. And like, I'm like, I guess

00:30:28.259 --> 00:30:31.900
he can't just can't give me more. And I've accepted

00:30:31.900 --> 00:30:34.900
it. Well, then I certainly can't expect to get

00:30:34.900 --> 00:30:38.109
more than that in the ring. You know, so now

00:30:38.109 --> 00:30:40.710
I'm just like, all right, buddy, let's try that

00:30:40.710 --> 00:30:44.329
again. Like, I'm not like, no, you're not. I'm

00:30:44.329 --> 00:30:47.670
just like, well, let's try it again. Right. I

00:30:47.670 --> 00:30:50.970
need a little bit more. And I think our dogs

00:30:50.970 --> 00:30:54.769
are very intelligent. All of our animals, like

00:30:54.769 --> 00:31:01.289
dogs, period, are incredibly intelligent. And

00:31:01.289 --> 00:31:04.650
they can learn concepts as long as we're consistent.

00:31:05.309 --> 00:31:10.519
Right. Um, so I do believe, cause I know I did

00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:13.799
it with zeal, you know, like I had to shift it

00:31:13.799 --> 00:31:16.339
around and it worked and he totally understood

00:31:16.339 --> 00:31:23.519
it. And he changed, like he became, he gained

00:31:23.519 --> 00:31:26.599
confidence, even though he was not innately confident,

00:31:26.720 --> 00:31:31.220
he became confident. Like, would he ever be as

00:31:31.220 --> 00:31:34.759
confident as Zayna? No, but he became confident

00:31:34.759 --> 00:31:40.119
enough. Yeah. To do really hard work at the highest,

00:31:40.220 --> 00:31:43.200
highest level under the toughest conditions.

00:31:43.680 --> 00:31:47.460
Right. So it's possible. It's just like, you

00:31:47.460 --> 00:31:49.720
know, it's just always like it's this process

00:31:49.720 --> 00:31:54.019
of getting to that point. Because, you know,

00:31:54.079 --> 00:31:57.180
our dogs change, too. Like they may look one

00:31:57.180 --> 00:32:00.039
way at one or two years old and a little different

00:32:00.039 --> 00:32:06.529
at three, four. And so it's that. It's so hard

00:32:06.529 --> 00:32:12.670
because it's just this, it's always fluid. It

00:32:12.670 --> 00:32:21.990
is. It is. It is. And I don't know, you know,

00:32:22.049 --> 00:32:29.329
I mean, this is like, to me, like, you know,

00:32:29.329 --> 00:32:32.569
it's easy. I don't know. It's hard to say what

00:32:32.569 --> 00:32:36.890
people will say about this. kind of topic but

00:32:36.890 --> 00:32:41.109
you know I'm a lot of people have like a method

00:32:41.109 --> 00:32:43.609
well if the dog's not doing it then this is what

00:32:43.609 --> 00:32:47.430
you do but I I just feel like it's more than

00:32:47.430 --> 00:32:50.089
that like the training aspect of it right like

00:32:50.089 --> 00:32:55.650
trying to figure out how to get like what we're

00:32:55.650 --> 00:33:00.730
looking for in the ring in a way for that particular

00:33:00.730 --> 00:33:03.029
dog you know because that's the other thing is

00:33:03.029 --> 00:33:07.190
like Ever's not every dog. Zesty's not every

00:33:07.190 --> 00:33:12.269
dog. Like you can't just use this method to train

00:33:12.269 --> 00:33:14.569
that piece. Do you know what I'm talking about?

00:33:14.710 --> 00:33:16.890
No, you can't. It's impossible because it's just

00:33:16.890 --> 00:33:20.529
like trying to teach every child the same way.

00:33:20.549 --> 00:33:24.250
Right? Right. It's just not. It's like me trying

00:33:24.250 --> 00:33:26.190
to teach all my students the same way. It's impossible.

00:33:26.430 --> 00:33:30.690
They're all different. And I have this similar

00:33:30.690 --> 00:33:34.319
struggle with students. Like, right. Like I'll

00:33:34.319 --> 00:33:37.539
have all these different students and I'm trying

00:33:37.539 --> 00:33:40.140
to present the material and all these 18 different

00:33:40.140 --> 00:33:45.180
ways. And then like, like they, sometimes they're

00:33:45.180 --> 00:33:47.680
looking at me and I'm looking at them and I'm

00:33:47.680 --> 00:33:49.519
like, they have no fucking idea what I just said.

00:33:49.619 --> 00:33:51.819
Like, I'm trying to, I'm like, okay, let me explain

00:33:51.819 --> 00:33:54.759
it this way. And I, I'm looking at her and I'm

00:33:54.759 --> 00:33:56.380
like, she still doesn't get it. I'm like, okay,

00:33:56.440 --> 00:33:58.160
let me try the thorough. And I'm like, she still

00:33:58.160 --> 00:34:01.269
doesn't get it. Right? Like, and that's not a

00:34:01.269 --> 00:34:03.750
reflection of me, nor is it a reflection of her.

00:34:04.109 --> 00:34:08.250
It's just a reflection of maybe at that moment

00:34:08.250 --> 00:34:12.070
in time, maybe that time of day, maybe, you know,

00:34:12.070 --> 00:34:15.630
she had other things on her mind. Maybe she's

00:34:15.630 --> 00:34:18.130
upset about something. Maybe I think I'm saying

00:34:18.130 --> 00:34:24.099
it one way and I'm not at all. things like happening

00:34:24.099 --> 00:34:27.840
at the same time. Right. And it's the same thing

00:34:27.840 --> 00:34:29.719
with dogs. It's like, and they don't even speak

00:34:29.719 --> 00:34:33.199
our language. Right. So they don't speak our

00:34:33.199 --> 00:34:36.019
language. They're all very different. They change

00:34:36.019 --> 00:34:38.599
moment by moment. They perceive the world differently

00:34:38.599 --> 00:34:44.860
than we do as humans. Right. Like there's so

00:34:44.860 --> 00:34:50.030
it's so complex, you know, and so. I absolutely

00:34:50.030 --> 00:34:54.309
don't. I don't think it's possible for any method

00:34:54.309 --> 00:34:57.690
to work for every dog. Like, I just don't see

00:34:57.690 --> 00:35:01.130
it. Like, I don't believe it's possible. Right.

00:35:01.909 --> 00:35:06.250
And to be fair to the dog, because we're also

00:35:06.250 --> 00:35:10.429
trying to be fair. And we're also, you know,

00:35:10.429 --> 00:35:13.929
like trying to be kind and like all these other

00:35:13.929 --> 00:35:19.139
things like. It's it's very complicated. And

00:35:19.139 --> 00:35:21.639
and then we also have to remember, like, what

00:35:21.639 --> 00:35:24.480
are we what the stuff we're asking them to do

00:35:24.480 --> 00:35:29.480
is so completely and utterly ridiculous. Like

00:35:29.480 --> 00:35:35.079
it makes zero sense to an animal like none, like

00:35:35.079 --> 00:35:39.639
none. Like when I hike with my dogs, the only

00:35:39.639 --> 00:35:43.019
thing they do that's remotely resembles anything

00:35:43.019 --> 00:35:47.690
is sniffing. Right. Like maybe that's remotely

00:35:47.690 --> 00:35:50.690
similar to send articles. Although I'm sure if

00:35:50.690 --> 00:35:52.329
they could tell you, they would be like, dude,

00:35:52.429 --> 00:35:55.769
it is absolutely nothing like what we do in real

00:35:55.769 --> 00:36:02.369
life. You know? So same as agility. Like what's

00:36:02.369 --> 00:36:05.309
with the contact? Like my dogs don't like run

00:36:05.309 --> 00:36:11.489
over a tree and then stop. Like what? Like any

00:36:11.489 --> 00:36:14.869
sport, like. We have to be empathetic and go,

00:36:14.929 --> 00:36:17.070
what we are asking them to do is so ridiculous.

00:36:17.170 --> 00:36:19.670
So, of course, it's hard because it makes no

00:36:19.670 --> 00:36:24.349
freaking sense whatsoever from the animal's point

00:36:24.349 --> 00:36:30.869
of view. Right. Agree. Agree. It's tough. It's

00:36:30.869 --> 00:36:34.050
really, really complicated. And I think the whole

00:36:34.050 --> 00:36:37.150
thing is you have to think about like, you know,

00:36:37.170 --> 00:36:40.250
I've been thinking so much about reinforcement.

00:36:40.610 --> 00:36:45.829
Right. Because it's kind of like a huge challenge.

00:36:45.969 --> 00:36:52.570
And like my one training partner, like not a

00:36:52.570 --> 00:36:55.510
hundred percent, but a greater percentage of

00:36:55.510 --> 00:36:57.769
her training is pattern training and a lower

00:36:57.769 --> 00:37:00.130
reinforcement rate. And our dog's working like

00:37:00.130 --> 00:37:04.110
lights out, you know? Yeah. So it's making me

00:37:04.110 --> 00:37:08.500
think a lot. Like I. Try to be super mindful

00:37:08.500 --> 00:37:12.559
of like weaning, you know, lessening food as

00:37:12.559 --> 00:37:16.039
quickly as possible, making behavior self -reinforcing,

00:37:16.079 --> 00:37:18.639
variable reinforcement, on and on and on. Watch

00:37:18.639 --> 00:37:21.960
myself next to her and I am like the cookie monster.

00:37:22.260 --> 00:37:26.719
Like I am like drowning my dog in cookies. So,

00:37:26.719 --> 00:37:31.219
you know, it's a good perspective for me to have

00:37:31.219 --> 00:37:35.739
because it's kind of like, huh. Like how much

00:37:35.739 --> 00:37:39.059
do I, and I think I wrote a little blog on that,

00:37:39.119 --> 00:37:42.260
like having had Peggy on here for the Seeing

00:37:42.260 --> 00:37:45.320
Eye interview, like, yes, you know, she talked

00:37:45.320 --> 00:37:50.380
about those dogs working, doing this incredibly

00:37:50.380 --> 00:37:54.110
complex task. For praise in essence, and for

00:37:54.110 --> 00:37:56.789
the reinforcer of getting to move out in the

00:37:56.789 --> 00:37:59.269
environment, because that's inherently self -reinforcing.

00:37:59.510 --> 00:38:03.030
Right. And it's like, holy Hannah, like, okay,

00:38:03.050 --> 00:38:05.969
I get it. Some of it is apples and oranges, but

00:38:05.969 --> 00:38:09.469
dog training is dog training. Like, you know,

00:38:09.469 --> 00:38:13.190
it's, it's really making me think about like

00:38:13.190 --> 00:38:18.929
patterns about, you know, using praise more,

00:38:19.110 --> 00:38:24.789
you know? Yeah. Using my food even less. Like,

00:38:24.789 --> 00:38:29.889
just really stop going on autopilot as a trainer

00:38:29.889 --> 00:38:34.250
and really push, try to push my boundaries a

00:38:34.250 --> 00:38:36.849
little bit more and see how much more can I get

00:38:36.849 --> 00:38:43.610
for less. Right. You know, and where is that

00:38:43.610 --> 00:38:46.730
balance, right? Like, there's always a balance

00:38:46.730 --> 00:38:49.230
because you can never just pattern train. You

00:38:49.230 --> 00:38:52.650
can never just, like, there has to be. And that

00:38:52.650 --> 00:38:54.989
balance is going to be different for every dog.

00:38:55.489 --> 00:38:57.869
And it's going to be different throughout the

00:38:57.869 --> 00:39:01.190
dog's lifetime, right? Like puppy, adult, you

00:39:01.190 --> 00:39:04.809
know. Exactly. So it's something that I think

00:39:04.809 --> 00:39:10.969
you have to be revisiting constantly or evaluating.

00:39:11.349 --> 00:39:16.030
I don't know what the right word is, but. Well,

00:39:16.130 --> 00:39:19.150
I think it's something like I, you know, I'm

00:39:19.150 --> 00:39:23.289
being way more mindful now with Salty, you know,

00:39:23.289 --> 00:39:27.349
because I want to start that early. Like, I think

00:39:27.349 --> 00:39:30.409
I created a lot of that with Ever, you know,

00:39:30.489 --> 00:39:36.889
especially and Stormy too a little bit. Not as

00:39:36.889 --> 00:39:42.159
much, but, you know, I wasn't as mindful. as

00:39:42.159 --> 00:39:45.380
when and where and how I'm giving reinforcers,

00:39:45.400 --> 00:39:49.179
right? I just, I think it could get way better,

00:39:49.280 --> 00:39:52.780
like you just said. So that's what I'm doing

00:39:52.780 --> 00:39:55.239
with Celtic. I think the tricky thing is like,

00:39:55.400 --> 00:40:00.320
yes, we can create all the behaviors we want

00:40:00.320 --> 00:40:04.860
the way we want them using a high reinforcement

00:40:04.860 --> 00:40:09.340
rate. The problem is always getting that in competition.

00:40:10.250 --> 00:40:13.849
that's the sticking point right that's where

00:40:13.849 --> 00:40:17.570
like most of my students they can train the exercises

00:40:17.570 --> 00:40:22.349
you know they can look really good and then it's

00:40:22.349 --> 00:40:26.670
like you go the barrier of entry to the ring

00:40:26.670 --> 00:40:33.170
is it's like the grand canyon right between having

00:40:33.170 --> 00:40:39.659
taught the exercises and then getting a decent,

00:40:39.699 --> 00:40:42.360
I'm not even saying great, like a decent, and

00:40:42.360 --> 00:40:45.900
by decent, I don't mean score placement. I mean

00:40:45.900 --> 00:40:49.079
like where, you know, we're feeling like, oh,

00:40:49.159 --> 00:40:53.159
my dog looked comfortable. My dog looked, dare

00:40:53.159 --> 00:40:56.880
I say, you know, happy or relaxed or, you know,

00:40:56.880 --> 00:41:00.619
because the reality, and this is where I think

00:41:00.619 --> 00:41:03.440
there's a big disconnect in training too, right?

00:41:03.539 --> 00:41:07.500
Like it's great to say, We should be doing all

00:41:07.500 --> 00:41:09.960
these things. We should never, the dog should

00:41:09.960 --> 00:41:12.579
never make mistakes. The dog should this, we

00:41:12.579 --> 00:41:14.400
should never tell them they're wrong. This, that,

00:41:14.420 --> 00:41:19.260
and the other thing. That's all great. But like,

00:41:19.300 --> 00:41:22.320
then we have to get them in the ring. And the

00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:25.440
reality is, and this is what I think is a problem.

00:41:25.500 --> 00:41:29.880
Like people are not, maybe this is a theory I

00:41:29.880 --> 00:41:33.400
have. I could be dead wrong. I think people grossly

00:41:33.400 --> 00:41:39.480
underestimate. the reality of the ring is freaking

00:41:39.480 --> 00:41:44.360
hard on them. Competition is hard. Like it's

00:41:44.360 --> 00:41:47.039
meant to be hard. Like I go all the way back

00:41:47.039 --> 00:41:52.090
to field work, right? Like. It's ludicrous. Like

00:41:52.090 --> 00:41:55.949
if you went duck hunting, you sit in a blind,

00:41:56.210 --> 00:41:58.809
the duck falls, your dog goes and gets it. You

00:41:58.809 --> 00:42:01.170
don't give a shit how the dog gets it. Just go

00:42:01.170 --> 00:42:03.090
get the damn duck and bring it back so I don't

00:42:03.090 --> 00:42:04.849
have to go in the water in the middle of winter,

00:42:04.929 --> 00:42:08.590
right? You do a hunt test or a field trial. It

00:42:08.590 --> 00:42:12.769
is completely artificial. Go in a perfectly straight

00:42:12.769 --> 00:42:15.909
line. Don't do this. Don't do that. And I'm going

00:42:15.909 --> 00:42:18.329
to put all these things in the way to throw you

00:42:18.329 --> 00:42:20.909
off and blah, blah, blah. It is completely and

00:42:20.909 --> 00:42:24.690
utterly artificial. All right. That's why it's

00:42:24.690 --> 00:42:27.210
a test. And that's why it's a competition. And

00:42:27.210 --> 00:42:30.989
it's hard. And every dog can't do it. And it

00:42:30.989 --> 00:42:37.190
is stressful. So for to. Kind of have the philosophy

00:42:37.190 --> 00:42:41.170
that I'm going to train my dog a certain way

00:42:41.170 --> 00:42:46.809
because I don't want my dog to be it to be hard

00:42:46.809 --> 00:42:50.289
or stressful or any in any way, shape or form

00:42:50.289 --> 00:42:53.750
in training and then put them in the ring. It's

00:42:53.750 --> 00:42:58.570
actually grossly unfair. Yeah, for sure. Because

00:42:58.570 --> 00:43:03.099
your dog's not prepared. Right. You know, and

00:43:03.099 --> 00:43:05.480
then to go, well, I have no idea what happened,

00:43:05.679 --> 00:43:07.480
blah, blah, blah, et cetera, et cetera. It's

00:43:07.480 --> 00:43:13.639
like we are not being realistic and honest and

00:43:13.639 --> 00:43:18.000
fair. Right. Like we have to say as a whole,

00:43:18.119 --> 00:43:21.360
as a community, no, this is really hard. And

00:43:21.360 --> 00:43:23.960
the hard part is not teaching your dog the exercises

00:43:23.960 --> 00:43:27.739
like that's a cakewalk. That's a cakewalk. Yeah.

00:43:27.860 --> 00:43:33.079
You know. And we have to teach our dogs how to

00:43:33.079 --> 00:43:40.739
handle adversity and how to push when it's hard

00:43:40.739 --> 00:43:44.940
because that's what they have to do in the ring.

00:43:45.219 --> 00:43:49.539
Yeah, exactly. And that's where it gets tricky

00:43:49.539 --> 00:43:54.960
because that's where, you know. And that's where

00:43:54.960 --> 00:43:57.780
I'm at with a lot of my students. But I, you

00:43:57.780 --> 00:43:59.840
know, I count myself very blessed because they're

00:43:59.840 --> 00:44:03.940
very open minded and very flexible because I'm

00:44:03.940 --> 00:44:06.460
really saying to them, don't make it a little

00:44:06.460 --> 00:44:09.440
harder. You know, dog makes a mistake. Everybody

00:44:09.440 --> 00:44:13.440
freaks out on panics and training. It's broken.

00:44:13.539 --> 00:44:18.159
No, your articles are not broken. No, that. Exercise

00:44:18.159 --> 00:44:21.380
is not broken. Know your contacts aren't permanently

00:44:21.380 --> 00:44:25.760
broken. Right. Like the dog made a mistake. Let's

00:44:25.760 --> 00:44:28.820
teach the dog how to work through this mistake.

00:44:29.719 --> 00:44:34.619
Let's sometimes let's let the dog figure it out.

00:44:34.780 --> 00:44:40.739
Right. And let them muddle muddle through it.

00:44:40.820 --> 00:44:44.679
And then let's try it again. And what I find

00:44:44.679 --> 00:44:47.900
is when we do it again, oh, look, the dog does

00:44:47.900 --> 00:44:51.199
it. And the dog figured it out on their own.

00:44:51.500 --> 00:44:54.539
You know, and those are the kind of things that

00:44:54.539 --> 00:45:02.059
like we have to put that in place. And we have

00:45:02.059 --> 00:45:04.579
to sometimes say to the dog, like with Ceci,

00:45:04.619 --> 00:45:08.960
like, buddy, I'm like that you have to give me

00:45:08.960 --> 00:45:13.199
a little more. Right. You know. And I'm not,

00:45:13.239 --> 00:45:15.860
I can't, sorry, but I can't pull out a cookie

00:45:15.860 --> 00:45:18.659
for you to do this. Like you, come on, buddy.

00:45:19.059 --> 00:45:21.760
Dig, I know you can do it. Come on, you can do

00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:26.179
it. And then he does it. See, you did it. And

00:45:26.179 --> 00:45:29.460
that's the word, you know, the dig. I want them

00:45:29.460 --> 00:45:32.280
to dig. I want her to dig when it gets hard.

00:45:32.420 --> 00:45:34.820
And that's where, like we talk about, it's so

00:45:34.820 --> 00:45:39.539
hard because we want to go into help mode, but

00:45:39.539 --> 00:45:44.349
we can't. And it feels yucky and messy. I can't,

00:45:44.349 --> 00:45:47.869
I hate it. And like rep, it might take two, three

00:45:47.869 --> 00:45:50.869
times before then she actually brings it on her

00:45:50.869 --> 00:45:56.190
own. And that's when I can reward her, you know?

00:45:56.590 --> 00:45:59.809
And the thing is, it's so interesting to me because

00:45:59.809 --> 00:46:02.630
like in every sport, right? Like I'm a sports.

00:46:04.639 --> 00:46:08.360
fanatic because I've competed in sports and now

00:46:08.360 --> 00:46:11.159
there are sports that I have zero interest in

00:46:11.159 --> 00:46:14.880
but like sometimes I'll watch it because of the

00:46:14.880 --> 00:46:19.699
lessons right like and I feel like those human

00:46:19.699 --> 00:46:25.039
lessons apply to the animals as well right like

00:46:25.039 --> 00:46:30.800
every like the olympics like obsessed right with

00:46:30.800 --> 00:46:35.659
the drama because it's relevant to what we do

00:46:35.659 --> 00:46:40.559
okay like so the athletes will across the board

00:46:40.559 --> 00:46:43.659
tell you it's hard it's a struggle they have

00:46:43.659 --> 00:46:46.320
to do mental management they have to learn grit

00:46:46.320 --> 00:46:51.239
like they they will tell you like oh my god there

00:46:51.239 --> 00:46:54.159
was this great thing this michaela she just won

00:46:54.159 --> 00:46:59.590
olympic gold in slalom after having her last

00:46:59.590 --> 00:47:02.269
Olympics where it all went south, it was all

00:47:02.269 --> 00:47:04.909
a disaster. Anyway, like she was saying how,

00:47:05.130 --> 00:47:10.010
regardless of whether things go well or not,

00:47:10.110 --> 00:47:15.530
even when things go really well, it was a struggle

00:47:15.530 --> 00:47:23.389
to get that. Right. And they got there because

00:47:23.389 --> 00:47:29.110
of the struggle. They never say, I got here and

00:47:29.110 --> 00:47:32.550
it's been smooth sailing the whole way. They

00:47:32.550 --> 00:47:35.269
don't come out and go, I've always won everything.

00:47:35.409 --> 00:47:40.289
I've never lost. And, you know, it's just like,

00:47:40.510 --> 00:47:43.269
yeah, I don't know. It's just not that hard for

00:47:43.269 --> 00:47:47.929
me. You never hear them say that. Right. And

00:47:47.929 --> 00:47:51.949
the best of the best will tell stories of struggle

00:47:51.949 --> 00:47:57.769
and how they learned to become. strong and resilient

00:47:57.769 --> 00:48:01.750
right right and like i think it's the same like

00:48:01.750 --> 00:48:06.650
we're asking our dogs to do hard things so now

00:48:06.650 --> 00:48:09.570
some people say well i don't care if my dog doesn't

00:48:09.570 --> 00:48:12.750
do great it just has to qualify well great it's

00:48:12.750 --> 00:48:16.550
still hard right so your dog maybe your dog doesn't

00:48:16.550 --> 00:48:19.489
need as much resilience as my dog but your dog

00:48:19.489 --> 00:48:23.389
still needs resilience yeah for sure you know

00:48:23.389 --> 00:48:29.980
so Um, yeah, so that, so it's like, we really

00:48:29.980 --> 00:48:35.719
need to think about, you know, putting some resilience

00:48:35.719 --> 00:48:39.460
into their training, which like a lot, like I,

00:48:39.460 --> 00:48:43.199
like I said, like, um, we should, we should do

00:48:43.199 --> 00:48:47.099
a whole episode on it. Cause like, yeah, we have

00:48:47.099 --> 00:48:49.139
to, we have to do a whole episode on that. Cause

00:48:49.139 --> 00:48:51.980
like, I realized I could go down like, and like

00:48:51.980 --> 00:48:55.940
a whole rabbit hole right now. Because I'm really

00:48:55.940 --> 00:49:01.380
focusing on that. Yeah, me too. With my own dogs,

00:49:01.539 --> 00:49:08.500
but with my students. And it's having some really

00:49:08.500 --> 00:49:13.900
astounding, in a positive way, results. Yeah.

00:49:15.159 --> 00:49:19.320
Which certain of the things, like proofing, right?

00:49:22.440 --> 00:49:25.079
the old version of proofing is you set your dog

00:49:25.079 --> 00:49:27.480
up you make it really hard so your dog fails

00:49:27.480 --> 00:49:31.260
you tell your dog that's wrong right but the

00:49:31.260 --> 00:49:36.260
way we do it now is we make things hard and we

00:49:36.260 --> 00:49:39.420
let the dog kind of figure it out if they get

00:49:39.420 --> 00:49:41.699
stuck we help them just a little bit but it's

00:49:41.699 --> 00:49:45.010
like come on dog you can do it Yeah. And then

00:49:45.010 --> 00:49:47.349
they come out the other side and it really builds

00:49:47.349 --> 00:49:49.989
confidence. So that kind of stuff we've been

00:49:49.989 --> 00:49:54.070
doing, but I'm doing like things at a way younger

00:49:54.070 --> 00:50:01.570
age now. In the learning phase, like, yeah, we've

00:50:01.570 --> 00:50:04.409
been changing a lot of things. Yeah. So, yeah,

00:50:04.510 --> 00:50:07.090
we should do a whole episode on that. Yeah. Could

00:50:07.090 --> 00:50:09.989
probably be more than one episode. Yeah. But.

00:50:10.429 --> 00:50:13.250
Yeah, so I don't know. What's the take home?

00:50:13.409 --> 00:50:18.010
That it's hard. It's hard. It's fucking hard.

00:50:18.050 --> 00:50:20.969
Yeah, but I mean, I think that's fair. Like,

00:50:21.010 --> 00:50:23.190
because I think everybody always feels like they're

00:50:23.190 --> 00:50:25.369
failing because we're always comparing ourselves

00:50:25.369 --> 00:50:33.690
to this false image or this false, like, idea

00:50:33.690 --> 00:50:36.809
that, like, we should be able to or, you know.

00:50:37.110 --> 00:50:43.059
Right. And that it takes, you have to be flexible

00:50:43.059 --> 00:50:46.159
and you have to be willing to experiment. Yeah.

00:50:46.239 --> 00:50:49.800
And change things and try things. Definitely.

00:50:49.840 --> 00:50:53.639
Try and fail and try and fail and try and fail.

00:50:55.199 --> 00:51:01.219
That's the bottom line. That's what it is. That's

00:51:01.219 --> 00:51:06.960
what it is. Yeah. and try different things right

00:51:06.960 --> 00:51:09.059
because different things work for different dogs

00:51:09.059 --> 00:51:11.679
and I've sometimes tried stuff with a dog that

00:51:11.679 --> 00:51:13.940
didn't work and three years later I tried it

00:51:13.940 --> 00:51:15.840
again all of a sudden it works and I'm like oh

00:51:15.840 --> 00:51:23.360
that's weird yeah right um yeah and yeah definitely

00:51:23.360 --> 00:51:28.039
all right well we'll keep you guys posted on

00:51:28.039 --> 00:51:32.099
whether this stuff any of it worked or didn't

00:51:32.099 --> 00:51:39.079
work And helps you. And the next weeks and months

00:51:39.079 --> 00:51:46.019
of us endlessly trying to get what we need in

00:51:46.019 --> 00:51:50.699
the ring. The happy dog in the ring. Yep. And

00:51:50.699 --> 00:51:53.800
then there's Zaina. Happy birthday, Zaina. Zaina's

00:51:53.800 --> 00:51:57.860
10 today. Aw, happy birthday, you little whippersnapper.

00:51:58.280 --> 00:52:00.559
And no, I didn't do anything special because

00:52:00.559 --> 00:52:04.719
she thinks every day is her birthday. That's

00:52:04.719 --> 00:52:06.880
right. We'll just let her keep it. She's like,

00:52:07.079 --> 00:52:12.519
what? Every day is my birthday. Aw. She's so

00:52:12.519 --> 00:52:15.579
naughty. She's so funny. I let her bark at me

00:52:15.579 --> 00:52:19.300
in training today a whole lot. There you go.

00:52:19.340 --> 00:52:23.570
That made her happy. There you go. Perfect. that's

00:52:23.570 --> 00:52:30.670
perfect all right um okay okay the next episode

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bye everybody bye thanks
