have you ever ran into somebody unexpectedly
and you hit it off and you make it clear that
you just in it for fun you set up front no long
-term relationships and the person You meet,
says, I'm fine with that. And then your situation
turns into a love triangle, which you didn't
really plan on. This is the episode of Lover
Stalker Killer. One of these threesomes in that
dead And boy boy, are you in for a bizarre twist?
year 2000 this guy was working at a truck stop
as a mechanic and he met this other woman that
worked there they started dating and eventually
had a few kids they thought they had it all a
house two kids good jobs but he worked days and
she worked nights And they hardly saw each other.
And that's where their relationship fell apart.
So the mother, the ex -girlfriend decided she
wanted to go home to Nebraska because their relationship
was over at that time. And he, being the good
father, said, there's no way I'm not taking care
of my kids. So he moved to Nebraska behind her.
so he can take care of his kids. But the relationship
was over and they both understood it. So as he
was building his life in Nebraska, he got a job
in the automotive industry. But he was lonely
and he no longer could fight their urge. So he
did what everybody else does he built a profile
online and Guess what dating site he went to
Yep, you guessed it plenty of fish Where there
are no charges and online dating is completely
free And instantly he was matched with over 10
,000 ladies there wasn't really a connection.
Eventually, he got a match. Liz, who was 34 while
he was 35, she owned a business in housekeeping.
Now, their profiles were almost exactly alike.
She loved animals. She had two dogs, a cat, and
a snake. Or one dog, two cats, and a snake. I
can't remember. But he loved animals. They both
had two kids. It was almost eerily matching.
And I don't know. Was she matching his likes?
and profile on purpose so he would pick her so
they would have something a lot of things in
common hmm we would never know will we unless
she reveals it now this was his first real date
in years they went out bowling bar They have
fun He said she was really energetic smiling
full of energy, but Most people are like that
on a first date especially if they're trying
to really impress someone and want to display
a personality That they would think their date
It's going to be attracted to so From my perspective
she was doing a little too much Because that
didn't really match her personality But hey,
I've done that you know, I had real real good
fun And sometimes you have to animate it, you
know? Oh, you probably don't know. I don't know.
But sometimes, on the first date, it's extra.
Remember, he made it clear to Liz that he was
not absolutely going to be tied down. He wasn't
looking for anything serious He was just looking
for someone to hang out have sex with because
They did have sex. I believe on the first night
after they had so much fun and Liz agreed like
she was in there for a long run and she was Not
ready for anything serious either One day when
he was working at the shop, Carrie Farmer walks
in and he thought she was the most beautiful
thing he had ever seen. She told him what was
wrong with her car. He said he'll fix it and
he didn't think nothing twice. He didn't think
he will ever see her again. But lo and behold,
honey child, you guessed it, they met on a dating
site. Actually, they saw each other again on
the dating site. Hmm, that's strange. She comes
into his mechanic shop to have her car fixed.
They said, thank you, thanks for your work, thanks
for your customer service, thanks for your business,
and with their separate ways. Then all of a sudden
he runs into her profile on a dating site Hmm
So a couple of weeks later He was on a dating
site and he ran across her profile Carrie Farber
He's like, hey, I know you she's like, I know
you too and they started chatting How ironic
is that? The woman going to shoot you into your
shop to have her car fixed. You said goodbye,
thanks for your business. And then a couple weeks
later, you come across her profile? On her dating
site? Hmm. So, they finally hooked up, went out
on a date, and he found out she was totally out
of his - his league. Even though she had a child
when she was young, she went back to school,
she had a career in IT, computers were her thing.
She was smart and sexy. And even though he was
up, he says she was out of her league. Hey, they
hit it off. They went back to his place and not
even Before they took their coats off his doorbell
ring Guess see what is Liz the woman he first
met and told He was not looking for anything
serious. This is just fun, and I'll see you when
I see you. So, picture this scenario. He dated
Liz. They had sex. He made it clear he wasn't
looking for anything serious. Carrie comes into
his shop to get her car fixed. He fixed a car
that went on their way. Two weeks later, he saw
Carrie on the dating site. He sent her a message.
She responded. They went out. They went back
to his place and Liz shows up. Is that a coincidence
or was Liz following them? I need to get some
out of your apartment in front of Carrie. So
Dave had explained this situation in front of
Carrie, this girl who just met. He was feeling
fucking awkward. The words were out of his mouth.
And Carrie left. She's like, I'm not putting
up with this bullshit. And you somebody I just
met. Liz was still in the apartment getting something
out of his apartment. She just so happened to
need that something when he took another woman
to his house. So after she left, he called Carrie
and wanted Carrie to come back. She's like, hey,
I'm almost halfway home. Why don't you come over
to my place? So Carrie lived in... Macedonia
a tiny town in Iowa and when he arrived at her
house she's like look we're not boyfriend and
girlfriend we're not getting married this is
just fun this is not serious he's like oh what
the hell yes I'm in so that's just what he was
looking for so he set the boundaries with Liz
now Kerry set the boundaries with him like, hey,
we're just fuck buddies, basically. And he was
all for it. So, Carrie worked three blocks from
his apartment. They saw each other a lot. She
spent the night over his house many of times.
And a lot of nights, they just talk and not have
sex. So one day, he was leaving his apartment
at 6 a .m. to go to work, and his life would
change forever. About 10 .30, he gets a text
from Carrie. And the text says, hey, we should
move in together. And he was thinking, uh, I've
just been seeing you for two weeks. Yeah, it's
hot and heavy. But it's just two weeks. And he
said, I thought we talked about nothing serious.
And this was bizarre because Carrie brought up
the fact that, hey, we're not boyfriend and girlfriend.
We're just F buddies. So after he said, we reminded
her of, we're just friends. This isn't moving
too fast and Much Not much sooner as he's sent
in She starts sending him Pages of text messages.
Hey, fuck you You've ruined my life I never want
to see you again, and that's bizarre Coming from
a woman who set boundaries So he was just in
shock like he's like I've been seeing you for
only two weeks, and you would have cut it off
Curse me out because I don't want to move in
with you Like he said no matter how well you
hit it off with somebody no matter how many years
you've been dating or married you really never
know a person so he went home at lunch he didn't
see her carry around her bags were gone her tooth
breath was was gone she was nowhere to be found
but you gotta admit it's kind of like He was
giving her mixed signals because she was spending
the night all the time. She had a bad toothbrush.
Hey, he could have been leading her on, not knowingly,
even though she said, I don't want anything serious.
This is where this gets really confusing. So
he was sad that it didn't work out, but he started
getting on with his life again. He didn't hear
anything from Carrie for a couple of days, but
out of the blue, he started receiving text messages
from her again. And she starts off by saying,
you're a bastard. I'm going to destroy everything
you love. Your life will be ruined For ruining
mine now he found this weird because He couldn't
figure out why Carrie the woman that set boundaries
Will be harassing him Because he chose not to
move in together I find that very bizarre myself
Her mother Nancy which live in the same town
knew she had met somebody online and Knew that
Liz was staying at her house because it was close
to her job and she can just rest there before
she went home But she sounded kind of odd When
she couldn't get a hold of Carrie and she hadn't
heard from her that was unusual for Carrie So
So one day he was at work and his front counter
guy said, Dave, the sheriff's looking for you.
The police, the sheriff, is looking for Dave.
So Dave went up front to talk to the policeman
and they said, they asked him, do you know Carrie
Farber? He said, yes. They said, she's missing.
Her mother filed a missing person's report. That
was bizarre, but he wasn't too surprised because
she was acting weird. So they asked him, where
is Carrie? He said he has no idea. They said,
you're her boyfriend. Why don't you know where
she is? but they had the information wrong because
they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend and He
pulled out his phone and he showed him all the
nasty text messages. She's been sending him side
note if someone is harassing you Threatening
you And they're sending text messages or leaving
voicemails, please save them I guarantee you,
you will need them for proof in the future. So
after he showed the nasty text messages, their
whole demeanor changed and they said, hey, hang
in there. A person won't spend their time harassing
you for much longer. They see bad breakups all
the time and harassment doesn't last. forever.
So her mom said shortly after she reported her
daughter missing, she started getting these weird
Facebook messages from her. The first one said,
I am not missing. I just don't want to come home
right now. So why didn't you call your mom or
text her? Do you send Facebook messages? Hmm,
and then she went on to say I love y 'all very
much, but I need time So she at least leaving
her young son behind also with her mom That's
very bizarre But eventually she did text her
mom on Mother's Day and said Happy Mother's Day,
but her mom was thrown off because started getting
like two Word messages or two two paragraphs
that Were just nasty messages Now a couple weeks
later Liz the first woman he met And made it
clear that he didn't want him relationship showed
up to his house now this is the same woman that
showed up the same night him and Carrie went
out on their first date so she showed up at his
house and she said I want to show you something
and this is at night she just shows up out the
blue so she shows him the side of her vehicle
that had been deeply keyed like you know how
somebody keys your car It ran from the front
all the way to the back. And it was deep. And
then she showed messages from Carrie that says,
I would do more if you did not leave Dave alone.
And then she called Liz a whore. Like, this is
crazy. This is the same woman who said to Dave,
we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. We're just
buddies. Now she's keying Liz's car The person
that she made eye contact with it for a few seconds
Because she showed up to Dave's house to get
something from his house Yeah, I'm confused too
Not long after Liz showed up at his house showing
Dave her car, Carrie started text messaging Dave
again. She said she was responsible for destroying
us. And then she said, I'm more diabolical than
a few scratches on a car. So at that point, Dave
and Liz when we're worried that something worse
could happen to both of them. Because at this
point, Carrie was stalking Liz, harassing Liz,
and sending Dave nasty text messages as well.
So this police officer, he worked for Omaha Police
Department in Special Victims Unit. domestic
violence and stalking. Dave Krupa, that's his
last name, came to see him in 2012. Now mind
you, this is based on a true story. So Dave reached
out to the police department, talked to the detective,
and he voiced concerns about what was going on.
So, this is something he has seen for years.
Stalking, a jealous ex, harassment. But he started
looking deeply into this case. So, Dave was showing
him emails from Carrie. and one said no one will
be able to have you with me around. I will keep
every horror you see Away from you one way or
another I Like that I can still get in the building
put my ear up against your door and I can hear
everything Then I can go back outside look through
the windows and see if I see or hear anything
Those were the type of messages Carrie was sending
Dave and she She said, I will keep attacking
Liz until she leaves you. If I can't have you,
nobody will. And that's scary. When somebody
says that, yeah, watch out. Then she goes on
to say, I will destroy your life and take your
happiness. Mind you, this is the woman that said,
we're not born to... Find a girlfriend. You don't
have to explain nothing to me is this is not
serious and then After she spent the night She
wanted to move in with Dave When he said no She
start this crazy stuff if you think you confused
The detector said this is one of the most strangest
and unpredictable cases he's ever worked. Now,
you have to write all this down to remember it
or keep watching the show over and over and pausing
it to get a clear understanding what was exactly
going on. I can't even talk, I'm so confused.
So, as Dave was sitting in the coffee shop one
night, he gets a text. And the tech says, how
does that coffee taste? And then she's asked
him, do you see me? So he's by himself in a coffee
shop at night, sitting by a window, and he gets
this bizarre text. And he starts looking around
like, oh my goodness. Then she starts sending
these wacky texts. Do you want me your life?
You shouldn't have left me. Do you see me? I
can see you. Then she starts attacking his...
Anatomy. Hey limp dick. That's not funny. But...
This is... This is crazy. I'm not going away
I will harass you will pay for your infidelities
now mind you they've only been dating for two
weeks and not even serious you will fuck me soon
you're an asshole why do you dislike me hey loser
why you keep fucking around with these whores
these text messages were coming fast and furious.
And then, shortly after she sent these, she started
sending text messages from a different phone
number. I still have keys to your place. You
get busy that you can't even say fuck off. I
will always control you and make you miserable.
She was getting even madder. that he wouldn't
respond. He said he couldn't block them fast
enough at the rate they were coming in. I will
show you crazy. I don't understand why you're
not responding. I will take over your life. Do
you still want me? I know you do. I'm following
you all weekend. These were the crazy text messages
she was sending him You will pay for the rest
of your life I Will destroy your life. I don't
know what I saw in you. I will take over your
life Like wow she Doesn't have time to do anything
else, but harassed this man. What about her IT
job like Is she doing this all night and all
day? She just let this man take over her thoughts
and life. Then she started sending him emails
that were from different IP addresses. I have
two guys that are going to get you. You're a
jackass. I'm going back to Kansas. Your car's
outside. I will never let you be one of anyone.
And he said he received these messages up to
125 a day. Email. And the most bizarre message
she sent is, I should cut your heart out. Hmm.
When he went back to work, She start text message
him again. Hey, I can see you at work. I can
see who you talking to. And she was given details
of the customers he was talking to. Of course,
they reported this to the detective because he
starts getting really worried and afraid for
safety at this point. She sent him messages.
Every whore you talk to, I'll take pictures of
their plate number. Then she goes as far as to
say, I don't care if they are just customers.
I will still go after them. So the detective
thought she's watching him from somewhere. He
started doing reverse stakeouts to see where
she could be watching him from. The detective
went as far as to show Carrie's picture to the
surrounding houses and apartments and no one
has seen her. Then she was so bold to tell him
she's staying at 11618 Birch Street. This was
a couple of buildings away from him in the same
apartment complex. Apartment 12. She had a nerve
to tell him what apartment she's staying at.
So Dave puts on his coat, walks outside at night
looking for apartment 12. He doesn't want to
call the cops, he wants to hurt her bad. So he's
still looking, still looking, still looking.
And guess what? There's no apartment 12. So who?
Then after he found out there was no Department
12, he stepped back and looked at all the apartments
to figure out which one she was watching him
from. He couldn't figure it out. Now if you were
watching this show, this part will make you uneasy
because the way they set it up, like they had
this woman outside. Under a tree looking up at
the apartment window that just scared the mess
out of me Now this is the part that scared the
fuck out of Dave She sent him pictures of Liz's
apartment and then she said I wonder if she's
here She went on to say she left the garage door
open. Not only did she key Liz's car in the garage,
she spray painted on Liz's wall, whore. So Dave
called the cops, he filed a brief police report,
and that's all he can do at this time. And he
can tell that this is putting so much stress
on Liz and her kids. Stay tuned for parts 2,
3, and 4. Until next time, be careful who you
date, lock your doors and windows, and always
stay ready.