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Welcome back to the Deep Dive. I want to start

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today by asking you, the listener, to check in

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with your body for a second. And I mean, seriously,

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literally check in. Think about the last time

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you opened a news app, or maybe you clicked on

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a trending topic on X or whatever social media

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you use, and you saw an opinion that was just

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the exact opposite of yours. Oh, I know exactly

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where you're going with this. I feel it already.

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You do, right. It's not just an intellectual

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thought. It's not just, oh, I disagree with that

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policy. It's... physical. It's a tightness in

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the chest. Maybe your stomach drops a little

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bit. Your heart rate actually goes up. It feels,

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well, it feels dangerous. Right. It's the fight

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or flight response. Literally, your nervous system

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is reacting as if a tiger just walked into the

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room. Exactly. And we're so used to hearing that

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this is just. just how politics is in the 21st

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century. We're told it's because of polarization

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or the algorithms or, you know, fake news. And

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sure, those are the accelerants. But we have

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a stack of research today that suggests the fuel

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for this fire, the actual root cause, is something

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much, much deeper. It's about the very way we

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define who we are. It's about this concept we

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cling to called identity. And here is where it

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gets fascinating and honestly, a little confronting

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right out of the gate. The central thesis of

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the material we're diving into today, it's centered

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around an essay titled Idolatry of Identity.

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And it argues that the way we think about identity

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is actually a mistake. It's a category error.

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A category error. Yeah. It argues that we have

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taken these labels, race, party, nation, gender,

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and we've made them bear more weight than they

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can possibly hold. We have turned them effectively

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into idols. Idolatry of identity. That is, I

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mean, that's a heavy title. It sounds extremely

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biblical. And I have to ask right off the bat,

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isn't idolatry a bit of a loaded religious term

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for what is essentially a political and sociological

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discussion? It is entirely. intended to be loaded

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the authors are using it very specifically in

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a theological sense an idol isn't just a golden

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calf it's something finite that you treat as

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if it were infinite it's something created that

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you worship as the creator okay finite treated

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as infinite right and the argument here is that

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we are in a crisis not because we have identities

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obviously we have them but because we've elevated

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them to the status of gods we look to our political

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tribes or our social labels for our salvation

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our absolute worth our ultimate meaning and because

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they are just fragile human -made constructs,

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they are cracking under the pressure. That's

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the part I want to unpack right away. You said

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human -made constructs, because it feels like

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who I am, my identity, is the most natural, ancient,

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rock -solid thing in the world. But you're saying,

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based on this research, that identity as we know

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it is actually a modern invention. That is probably

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the biggest shocker in the research. We tend

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to think human beings have always walked around

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worrying about their identity. But the sources

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argue that a medieval peasant or a member of

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a classical Islamic polity or a Roman citizen,

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they didn't have an identity crisis in the way

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we do. They didn't have to go find themselves.

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Wait, so if I'm a peasant in 12th century France,

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I don't have an identity. Not in the modern sense.

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You have a role. You have a place. And that's

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the journey we're going on today. We are going

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to look at how we invented the modern self, how

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that invention has been weaponized into the polarization

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we hate. And then, and this is the really ambitious

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part of the deep dive, we are going to see if

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ancient religious traditions offer us a way out.

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And just to be clear for the listener, because

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we're bringing up religion and ancient traditions,

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this isn't a sermon. We aren't here to convert

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anyone today. Not at all. We are looking at these

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traditions, Islam, Hinduism, Jainism, Judaism,

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Christianity, as deep reservoirs of psychology

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and sociology. These are systems that have spent

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thousands of years thinking about the human ego,

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the self, and community. The argument is that

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they might have the intellectual tools to repair

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our broken politics. Tools that secular liberalism

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just doesn't have in its current toolkit. So

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the mission is to figure out why we are so angry

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at each other and how ancient wisdom might fix

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it. Let's start with that history lesson. You

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said identity is invented. Take us back to that

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medieval peasant. Right. To understand this,

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we have to look at the work of the philosopher

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Charles Taylor. He wrote this massive, dense

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book called Sources of the Self. It's a complete

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doorstop, but it's brilliant. Taylor draws a

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fundamental distinction between the pre -modern

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self and the modern self. Okay, set the scene

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for the pre -modern. So imagine you are that

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peasant in 12th century France. You do not wake

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up in the morning wondering, who am I, really?

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You don't take a personality test. You don't

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curate a bio. Your identity is given to you.

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Given by whom? By your circumstances. by your

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family, your guild, your village, and ultimately

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by the cosmos or God. You are the son of John.

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You are a blacksmith. You are a subject of the

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king. You are a child of the church. Your place

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in the hierarchy is fixed. It's external to you.

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Taylor calls this the porous self. Porous, meaning

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things pass through it. Yes, meaning you are

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open to the world. The meaning of your life comes

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from outside of you, from the spiritual world,

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from the community structure. You are a node

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in a network that already exists. You don't have

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to invent the network. That sounds, well, on

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the one hand, incredibly restrictive. You're

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stuck. If you're born a blacksmith's son, you're

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a blacksmith. There's no upward mobility, no

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following your dreams. Absolutely. It was incredibly

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restrictive. But, and Taylor makes a huge point

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of this, it was also psychologically restful.

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Yes. You didn't have the anxiety of definition.

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You didn't have to constantly prove your existence

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or your validity. Because your existence was

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an objective fact of society, you fit. Okay,

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I can see that. There's a certain safety in knowing

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your exact place. But we obviously don't live

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there anymore. We don't want to live there. What

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changed? Modernity. The Enlightenment. The Romantic

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Era. Taylor describes this massive shift as radical

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reflexivity. Radical reflexivity. Break that

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down for us. It's the turn inward. Think about

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Descartes, I think, therefore I am. Think about

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the romantics who believed you had to find your

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unique inner voice. The source of meaning moves

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from the outside world, the stars, the king,

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the church, to the inside of your own head. The

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self becomes a project. So instead of looking

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at the stars to know who I am, I look into my

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own feelings. Precisely. And this is a massive

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shift in human history. Identity stops being

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something you receive and starts being something

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you construct. You have to discover your inner

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truth, interpret it, and then, and this is the

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crucial part for our politics, express it to

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the world. Express yourself. That is the ultimate

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modern mantra. It is. But this creates a totally

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new problem that the medieval peasant never had

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to deal with. Taylor calls it the politics of

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recognition. Recognition. Okay, explain that

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mechanism. How does that work? Well, think about

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it. If my identity is given by the village, if

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I am the blacksmith, I don't need you to validate

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me. Everyone sees the anvil. Everyone knows who

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I am. It's an objective fact. But if my identity

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is something I discovered inside myself, something

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unique, personal, maybe a little fragile, then

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it's invisible to you unless I express it. And

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once I express it, I desperately need you to

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confirm it. Yeah. So I need you to say, yes,

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I see you. Your identity is valid. Exactly. If

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you ignore me or if you misrecognize me, if you

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use the wrong label or you mock my inner truth,

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it doesn't just feel like you're being rude.

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It feels like you are erasing my very existence.

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Taylor argues that because identity is now constructed

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internally but formed in dialogue with others,

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we have developed an insatiable need for external

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validation. That resonates so much with the social

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media age. It's not enough to just be something.

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I have to post about it. And if I post it and

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get zero likes or if people criticize it in the

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comments, I feel this crushing weight. It's not

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just embarrassment. It feels like an existential

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crisis. It is exhausting. We've created a world

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where everyone is walking around holding a fragile

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glass sculpture of their own ego. go, basically

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begging everyone else not to drop it. But hold

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on a second. Is this just about us being sensitive,

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you know, snowflakes? Or is there something philosophical

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missing here? Because it feels like we've also

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lost the ability to even argue about what's good

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or bad in the public square. You hit the nail

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on the head. That brings us to the second pillar

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of our history lesson here, the work of Alistair

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McIntyre and his book After Virtue. McIntyre

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argues that that period where we embraced reason

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and science actually broke our moral compass

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entirely. How so? I thought the Enlightenment

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was supposed to liberate us from superstitions.

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Reason was supposed to fix everything. Give us

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a solid foundation. It tried to. The Enlightenment

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thinkers tried to base morality on pure reason

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alone. They wanted to discard the old superstitions

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about God or cosmic order. But McIntyre says

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they failed because they discarded a vital concept

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called teleology. Teleology. That comes from

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the Greek word telos, right? Meaning purpose.

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Right. Telos means the end or the goal or the

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purpose of a thing. Let's use a really simple

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example. A watch. What is the talos of a watch?

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To tell time accurately. Correct. Because you

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know the talos of a watch, you can make an objective

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moral statement about it. You can say, this is

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a good watch if it keeps time, or this is a bad

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watch if it's slow. The goodness is defined by

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how well it fulfills its inherent purpose. Okay,

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that makes total sense for a machine or a tool.

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Well, in the pre -modern world, we believed human

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beings had a telos too. Maybe it was to glorify

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God or to live in accordance with nature or to

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serve the polis in ancient Greece. Because we

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had a shared definition of what a human was for,

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we could agree on what a good human was. We could

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agree on virtues. But we don't agree on what

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humans are for anymore. Exactly. Science doesn't

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do telos. Science tells you how the mechanism

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works, not what the purpose of the mechanism

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is. We discarded the idea of a shared purpose.

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So now we are left with moral rules. Don't kill,

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be free, treat people fairly, but we have no

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context for why. McIntyre calls the result emotivism.

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Emotivism. That sounds like acting on your emotions.

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Essentially, yes. It's the philosophical view

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that all moral claims like abortion is wrong,

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freedom is good, taxation is theft, are actually

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nothing more than expressions of personal preference.

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It's like saying, I like vanilla ice cream, but

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we dress it up in fancy language to sound like

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objective truth. So when I say this policy is

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unjust, I'm not actually stating a fact about

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the universe. I'm just saying, boo, I don't like

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this. According to McIntyre, that is exactly

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how our public discourse functions now. We shout

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justice and rights at each other. But because

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we have no shared standard of truth or purpose

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to adjudicate the argument, we are just shouting

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our emotional preferences. And this connects

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back to identity. How exactly? Well. If we can't

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agree on what is true or what is the purpose

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of life, we retreat to the only thing we have

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left. Who I am. Identity replaces truth as the

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basis for political argument. I can't prove I'm

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right based on a universal standard, so I claim

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that my identity demands this view. As a blank,

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I believe this. And if you disagree with me,

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you aren't just disagreeing with my logic. You

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are attacking me. You are attacking my existence.

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Bingo. And that seems to be where all the anger

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comes from. If we're just debating tax rates

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and we both agree the goal is economic growth,

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that's a math problem. We can solve math. We

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can look at data. But if we're debating my identity,

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my existence, my recognition, that's a war. And

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this brings us to the weaponization of identity.

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Because it's not just that we are isolated individuals

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wandering around with these fragile selves. We

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are clumping into tribes. Huge tribes. This is

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where we get into the work of Liliana Mason,

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specifically her book Uncivil Agreement. I found

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this part of the deep dive totally fascinating

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because she uses hard data to explain why politics

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feels so much more toxic now than it did 50 years

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ago. She uses the term social sorting, right?

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Yes. Social sorting. Explain that. Because I

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think people assume we've always been fiercely

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divided. We have, but the structure of the division

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was entirely different. Imagine the U .S. in

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the 1960s or 70s. You might be a Republican,

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but you might also be a union member. You might

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be a Catholic living in the Northeast. Okay,

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I'm picturing that guy. Now, generally, unions

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leaned Democrat, but you're a Republican, so

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your identities are cross -cutting. You have

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friends at the union hall who are Democrats,

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but you agree on labor issues. You have friends

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at church who are Democrats, but you agree on

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theology. Your Republican -ness was just one

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slice of your pie. It didn't consume the whole

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thing. So I had social pressure to not hate Democrats

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because my bowling partner was a Democrat. We

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had other things keeping us together. Exactly.

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You had overlapping circles of belonging. But

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Mason shows that over the last few decades, these

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identities have sorted. They have stacked up

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on top of each other. Stacked up how? What does

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that look like today? Today, if you tell me your

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political party, I can probably guess your religion,

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your race, whether you live in a city or the

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country, what kind of car you drive, and even

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what grocery store you shop at. The circles have

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all merged into one giant circle. We've created

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what the source calls the mega identity. The

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mega identity. And the stakes go through the

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absolute roof. Because now, if our party loses

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an election, it's not just that my taxes might

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go up. It feels like my religion, my culture,

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my race, and my geographic way of life have all

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been rejected by the country. It feels like an

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existential referendum on me. And the data backs

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this up in a terrifying way. There was a study

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by Iyengar and Westwood in 2015 that the source

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cites. They found that partisan discrimination

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in the U .S. now exceeds racial discrimination.

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Wait, say that again? That is a massive claim.

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Partisan discrimination is higher than racial

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discrimination. In experimental settings, yes.

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They gave people resumes to review for a scholarship

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or a job. They found that people were significantly

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more likely to discriminate against someone from

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the opposing political party than against someone

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of a different race. That is wild. But if you

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think about it, we have very strong social norms

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that say do not be racist. You get fired for

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being racist. But we have absolutely no social

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norms that say don't hate the other political

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party. In fact, you get rewarded for it. It's

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social currency. It's the last acceptable prejudice.

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It allows us to vent all that tribal aggression

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that we can't use elsewhere. So we have these

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mega identities and they are fueled by this insatiable

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need for recognition that Taylor talked about.

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Francis Fukuyama has a term for this in the research,

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right? Yes. In his book Identity, he talks about

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thymos. It's a concept originally from Plato.

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It refers to the part of the soul that craves

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recognition and dignity. Fukuyama says there

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are two types. There is isothemia. Isothemia,

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like an isosceles triangle. Equal. Right. The

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desire to be recognized as equal. I am just as

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good as you. This is the basis of the civil rights

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movement, feminism. Gay rights. It's the drive

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for equal dignity. And that's good. We want that

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in democracy. But there's a dark side. But Fukuyama

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warns that isothemia has a very dangerous tendency

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to slide into megalothemia. Megalothemia. That

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sounds like a Godzilla villain. It's the desire

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to be recognized as superior, to have your group

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acknowledged not just as equal, but as the best,

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the real Americans, the enlightened ones, the

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chosen ones. When you combine the mega identity

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with megalithemia, you get a recipe for civil

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conflict. You get a zero -sum game where my dignity

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practically requires your humiliation. The irony,

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and this is the part that might upset some people,

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but we have to go there to understand the source

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material, is that the things we are fighting

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over, these categories, might not even... be

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as real as we think they are this is the core

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paradox of the whole thing kwame anthony appear

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wrote a book called the lies that bind he argues

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that we are ready to go to war for categories

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that are in his words riddled with contradictions

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take race for example right now we have to be

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very careful here racism is incredibly real the

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sociological effects of race are undeniably real

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absolutely sociologically historically race is

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a massive reality with massive consequences but

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apia is talking about biology and ontology. He

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points out a stunning fact. 90 % of genetic variation

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in humans exists within racial groups, not between

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them. Meaning there's more genetic difference

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between two random white guys than between the

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average white guy and the average black guy.

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Often, yes. Biologically, race is not a coherent

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category. It's a sloppy historical shorthand

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we invented based on superficial traits. Or take

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nationality. Most modern nations are very recent

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inventions, or religion traditions are internally

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fractured with thousands of sects. But we treat

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these fluid sociological constructions as if

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they are fixed, hard realities. We treat them

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as ontological, as the very ground of our being.

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That's the idolatry part from the title. We've

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taken a costume that society handed us, and we've

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convinced ourselves it's our actual skin. Precisely.

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We've forgotten that we made these categories

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up. And because we treat them as fixed gods,

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we are trapped in them. We worship the label.

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So let's take a breath and look at the diagnosis

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we have so far. We have a modern self that is

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anxious, turned inward, and desperate for external

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validation. We have lost our shared moral language,

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so we just shout our feelings at each other.

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We have stacked our identities into megatribes.

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And we are worshiping these tribes as if they

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are the ultimate biological truth. That is the

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incredibly bleak picture. It is bleak. If this

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were a standard political show, this is where

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we would say, so vote for this candidate, they'll

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fix it or pass this law. But the source material

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strongly suggests that politics cannot fix this

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because politics is just the symptom. The cure

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has to go much deeper. Into the spiritual and

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psychological. Yeah. And again, not in a thoughts

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and prayers kind of way, but in a let's deconstruct

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the human psyche kind of way. The argument is

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that ancient spiritual traditions have actually

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known about this idolatry of the self for millennia.

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They have. They've been essentially debugging

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the human operating system for 3 ,000 years.

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And they offer a profound corrective. If the

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problem is a rigid, constructed self that demands

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constant worship and validation, the solution

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is to realize that this rigid self is an illusion.

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Let's start with the East. I was really struck

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by the section on Islam and the research, specifically

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the Sufi tradition. They have a concept called

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the nafs. The nafs. It's usually translated into

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English as the ego or the lower self. But what

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I love about the Sufi perspective is that the

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self isn't a statue. It isn't a fixed thing you

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have to defend. It's a process. It's incredibly

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fluid. So I'm not just one thing forever. I don't

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have a true self I have to protect. No. The Quran

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describes stages of the self. It's almost like

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a developmental ladder you climb. You start at

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the bottom with nafs al -amara. The commanding

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self. Right. This is the self that commands you

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to do evil or just gives in to base desires.

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It's pure impulse, pure ego. It's the toddler

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in your brain screaming, I want. It's the part

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of you that wants to dunk on someone on Twitter

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because it feels really good in the moment to

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be superior. We've all been there. It does feel

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good in the moment. We all live there sometimes.

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But then, ideally, you mature and move to Nafs

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al -Awamah, the self -blaming conscience. This

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is when you realize you messed up. You feel guilt.

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You look at your own anger online and say, you

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know, that wasn't the real me. I can do better.

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And the final goal. The goal is to reach Nafs

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al -Mumain, the soul, at peace. And ultimately,

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in Sufism, the ultimate spiritual goal is Fana.

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Fana. That translates to annihilation, right?

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That sounds terrifying to a modern person. It

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sounds totally scary to the modern ear because

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we are so obsessed with preserving ourselves,

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recognizing ourselves. But fauna isn't destruction

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in a violent or nihilistic sense. It's the passing

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away of the ego. It's the deep realization that

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I am not the center of the universe. It's just

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getting over yourself. Exactly. William Chittick,

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who is a great scholar of Sufism, has this wonderful

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quote in the material. Each moment of the self

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is unique. It liberates you. If the self is fluid,

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changing every single moment in relation to God

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and the world, then you don't have to defend

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a giant, rigid fortress of me. That is actually

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very freeing. If I mess up or if someone attacks

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my identity, I can say, well, that was just a

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fleeting state. That label isn't my soul. I don't

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have to burn the world down to defend it. It

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loosens the grip of the idol. It turns the idol

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back into dust. Now, Hinduism does something

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very similar, but it uses a different metaphor.

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The costume. The actor and the role. This comes

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from the Gita, doesn't it? Yes, the Bhagavad

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Gita and the Upanishads. They draw a very sharp,

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clear distinction between the Atman, the eternal

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self, the unchanging spark of the divine inside

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you, and the empirical self. The empirical self

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being your body, your caste, your job, your gender,

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your political party. Exactly. And the empirical

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self, the political party, the job, the social

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status, that's all part of Maya. Maya. Illusion.

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Maya. Illusion. Now, illusion doesn't mean it

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doesn't exist. The traffic jam is real. The election

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is real. It means it's not the ultimate reality.

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It's a cosmic play. Imagine you are a method

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actor on Broadway. You're playing a king. You

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wear the crown. You give the orders. You feel

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the power of the scene. But deep down, you have

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to know, I am not actually the king. I am the

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actor playing the king. I have to take the crown

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off and go home. But in our modern politics,

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we've completely forgotten we're actors. We think

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the costume is super glued to our skin. We think

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we are the role. And that's exactly why we fight

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so viciously. Because if the costume is all I

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have, if my political label is my entire existence,

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then an attack on the costume is a lethal attack

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on my existence. If my party loses the election,

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I psychologically die. So the spiritual practice

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here is to wake up on stage. To wake up and realize,

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I am playing the role of a Democrat, or I am

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playing the role of a conservative. And I will

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play it well. I will fight for justice as I see

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it. But I know that the person across the stage

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from me, the quote unquote villain, is also just

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an actor. They have the same eternal Atman. The

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Gita has a beautiful line about this, the equal

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vision. Yes. It says the wise person sees with

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equal vision a Brahmin, a priest, a cow, an elephant

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or a dog eater, which means an outcast. They

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see the exact same divine spark in all of them,

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regardless of the costume they are wearing in

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this life. That is radical equality. But let's

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be perfectly honest here. It's really hard to

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look at a political troll on the Internet, someone

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saying vile things and see a divine spark. It's

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incredibly hard. That's why it's called a spiritual

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discipline and not a weekend hobby. It goes against

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our tribal nature. Now, if we want a practical

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tool for how to actually talk to that troll or

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talk to someone we fiercely disagree with, Jainism

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is the absolute gold standard in the research.

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Jainism. These are the folks who are strictly

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nonviolent, right? Yeah. They wear masks sometimes

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to avoid inhaling and killing microscopic insects.

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Yes, ahisa perfect nonviolence is their core

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tenet. But the source material highlights something

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brilliant they developed called intellectual

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ahisa. Intellectual nonviolence. I love that

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concept. Let's dig into that. It's based on a

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philosophical doctrine called anekantavada. Did

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I pronounce that right? You sounded very confident,

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so let's go with yes, anacondavada. It translates

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to the many -sidedness of truth. The classic

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analogy they use, which you've probably heard,

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is the blind man and the elephant. Right. One

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touches the trunk and says truth is a snake.

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One touches the leg and says truth is a tree.

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One touches the ear and says truth is a fan.

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Exactly. They are all right based on their experience,

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but they are all wrong about the whole. Janes

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believe that reality is so massive and so complex

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that no single human view can possibly capture

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it all. Only a fully enlightened being, a Kevelin,

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can see the whole truth at once. For the rest

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of us, our view is always inherently partial.

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So how does a Jane argue politics then? Do they

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just say, well, everything is true, there is

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no right answer? That sounds like relativism.

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No, they aren't relativists. They use a system

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of logic called sadvada. It means conditional

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predication. Basically, every statement you make

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should have an invisible asterisk next to it

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that says, from a certain perspective. So instead

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of saying, the economy is failing, which is an

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absolute dogmatic statement. You would say from

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the perspective of a wage earner in the manufacturing

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sector, the economy is failing. And someone else

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might say, well, from the perspective of a tech

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shareholder, the economy is booming. And both

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are true. Both are true. Neither is the whole

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truth. They are facets of the diamond. If we

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actually spoke like that, cable news would cease

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to exist entirely. Tonight on Primetime. From

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a certain perspective, the other side has a valid

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point. The ratings would plummet to zero. they

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would absolutely plummet. But think about the

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profound epistemic humility that requires. It

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frames dogmatic attachment to your own view as

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a form of actual violence. To claim I possess

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the absolute final truth and you are absolutely

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100 % wrong is to do violence to the complexity

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of reality. That is a powerful reframe. Dogma

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as violence. So we have this massive deconstruction

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of the ego from the Eastern traditions. Sufism

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says the self is fluid. Hinduism says it's just

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a costume. Jainism says your truth is only partial.

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But there's another side to this puzzle. Because

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if you just deconstruct everything, you might

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end up with nihilism. You still need to build

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something back up. Right. We don't just need

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to humble ourselves. We need to actively honor

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the other person. We need a solid basis for human

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dignity. And this is where the Western Abrahamic

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traditions, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam,

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really shine in the source material. They give

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us an undeniable reason to respect the person

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we disagree with, even if we think they're dangerously

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wrong. Let's talk about the Jewish concept of

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the image of God. B'tzalem Elohim. It comes from

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Genesis 1 .27. God created man in his own image.

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This is the absolute bedrock of Western human

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rights. Even if our secular society often forgets

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the theological root of it, it means that every

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single human being, regardless of their utility,

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their intelligence, their wealth, or their politics,

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has infinite value. Because they bear the stamp

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of the creator. And the Talmud raises the stakes

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on this even higher. The Talmud says one who

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destroys a single life, it is as if he destroyed

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an entire world. Think about the gravity of that.

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Every person is a universe. Leo Beck, the great

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Jewish thinker, had a specific insight on this

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regarding diversity and how we view each other.

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Yes. He wrote that above all castes, classes,

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and nations stands one certainty, man or humanity.

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But the specific brilliant Jewish genius here

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is holding the tension between the particular

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and the universal. What do you mean by that tension,

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the particular versus universal? Well, Judaism

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is a tribal religion. It's a covenant with a

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very specific people, the Jews. They have particular

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laws, particular lands, particular traditions.

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But the theology affirms the universal dignity

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of everyone, regardless of whether they are in

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that covenant or not. I can be deeply, passionately

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committed to my tribe, but I must also recognize

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the infinite worth. of the stranger that feels

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like exactly the balance we are completely missing

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right now we either have people who are all tribe

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and they hate the stranger or we have people

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who want to be enlightened global citizens but

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they have no local roots no tribe at all exactly

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judaism models how to be both you have a distinct

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home you love your home but you deeply respect

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the neighbor christianity takes this universalism

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and really blasts it out to the empire there's

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that famous verse in galatians the source mentions

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galatians 3 .28 Now, I've heard intense arguments

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about this verse. Is Paul saying those categories

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literally don't exist anymore? Is he being colorblind

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or genderblind? Because saying there is no male

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and female seems biologically... obviously untrue.

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It's a great question and it gets debated a lot,

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but most scholars argue he's not saying they

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physically vanish. He's not saying differences

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aren't real or don't shape our lives. He's saying

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they are secondary. They are no longer the fundamental

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standing of a person before God or the community.

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Context really matters here, right? Because of

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Rome. Huge context. In the Roman world, being

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a slave or free was absolutely everything. It

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determined if you were a human person with rights

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or literally a talking farm tool. Being Jew or

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Greek determined your entire legal and social

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status. Paul is saying, no, those labels are

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surface level. Your ultimate worth is determined

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by something that transcends those labels. He

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is relativizing the entire social hierarchy of

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the Roman Empire. So to apply it today, Democrat

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or Republican might describe how I vote. But

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it doesn't describe my ultimate worth as a human

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being. Exactly. It renders the political label

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penultimate. It's important, but it's not the

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ultimate truth about you. The mega -identity

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gets demoted. And Islam has a beautiful parallel

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to this in the Quran regarding why diversity

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even exists in the first place. Sura 49 .13 it

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says we made you into nations and tribes so that

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you may know one another yes the idea is that

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diversity isn't a mistake it isn't a bug in the

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system it's a deliberate feature god didn't make

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us different so we would fight and sort into

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mega tribes but so we would learn If everyone

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was exactly the same, there would be no knowing.

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There would be no friction, no curiosity, no

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growth. And there's that Islamic concept of fitra

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too, which I find really hopeful for the idea

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of a secular democracy. Fitra is the primordial

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nature. Think of it as the factory settings of

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the human soul. Abdulaziz Saqedina, a major scholar

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in this field, argues that fitra is what actually

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allows us to have a functioning pluralistic society.

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How so? How does fitra help us politically? Because

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Fitcher implies that every single human being

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has a God -given moral compass. Even if you are

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an atheist and I am a Muslim or you are a hardcore

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Republican and I am a progressive Democrat, we

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both have this innate capacity for reason, for

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conscience, for knowing right from wrong. So

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we aren't total aliens to each other, even across

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massive divides. We aren't aliens. We share a

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common language of moral justification that exists

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before our religious or political labels even

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enter the picture. We can reason together because

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we come from the exact same source code. So let's

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bring all these threads together. The Eastern

00:30:00.730 --> 00:30:02.990
traditions tell us, hey, your ego is a costume.

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Don't worship it. The Western traditions tell

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us, hey, that person you hate is made in the

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image of God. Treat them with ultimate dignity.

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That's the theory. Deconstruction of the idol

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and restoration of true dignity. But now we have

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to land the plane. How do we actually do this?

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How do we build a modern functioning society

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on this? Because right now it feels like we are

00:30:22.670 --> 00:30:26.029
ripping apart at the seams. Telling people to

00:30:26.029 --> 00:30:28.609
see the image of God in a Twitter troll is a

00:30:28.609 --> 00:30:31.049
very tall order, especially on Election Day.

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It is a massive order. And this brings us to

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the final piece of our source material. and the

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profound work of the late great rabbi Jonathan

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Sacks. He was a total giant in this field. He

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wrote a book called The Dignity of Difference.

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Great title, by the way. It's a wonderful book.

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And in it, he makes a crucial distinction that

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I think perfectly explains why our current politics

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is failing so miserably. He distinguishes between

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a social contract and a social covenant. Okay,

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political science nerds, wake up. This is your

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moment. Contract versus covenant. Break it down

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for us. A social contract, which is what modern

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liberal democracy is entirely built on, going

00:31:08.079 --> 00:31:10.420
all the way back to Hobbes and Locke and Rousseau,

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is fundamentally transactional. It's a business

00:31:12.940 --> 00:31:15.059
deal. Meaning I give you something, you give

00:31:15.059 --> 00:31:18.220
me something. Meaning I pay my taxes. The government

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fixes the road. I obey the law. The state protects

00:31:21.500 --> 00:31:24.539
my private property. It is completely based on

00:31:24.539 --> 00:31:27.160
mutual self -interest. I do this so that you

00:31:27.160 --> 00:31:29.240
do that. That pretty much describes most of my

00:31:29.240 --> 00:31:31.279
interactions with the state. Right. And Sachs

00:31:31.279 --> 00:31:33.819
says the contract is necessary. You absolutely

00:31:33.819 --> 00:31:36.400
need it to run a state, collect taxes and pave

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roads. But it is entirely insufficient to run

00:31:39.839 --> 00:31:42.099
a society. Because what happens when the deal

00:31:42.099 --> 00:31:44.299
goes bad? If the government stops fixing the

00:31:44.299 --> 00:31:46.940
road, I want to stop paying. If the deal isn't

00:31:46.940 --> 00:31:49.349
working for me anymore. I want out of the contract.

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Exactly. It's fragile. If the society is just

00:31:52.329 --> 00:31:54.589
based on interests, then as soon as our interests

00:31:54.589 --> 00:31:57.569
diverge, which they inevitably will, we are enemies.

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We have nothing holding us together. A covenant,

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however, is completely different. How so? What

00:32:02.170 --> 00:32:05.069
is a covenant? A covenant is relational. It's

00:32:05.069 --> 00:32:07.210
transformative. Think of a healthy marriage.

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A marriage isn't, or at least it shouldn't be,

00:32:09.910 --> 00:32:12.509
a contract where I will wash the dishes only

00:32:12.509 --> 00:32:14.930
if you mow the lawn, and if you don't, the marriage

00:32:14.930 --> 00:32:18.609
is void. It's much deeper. It's I am bound to

00:32:18.609 --> 00:32:21.450
you. Your fate is my fate. I am loyal to this

00:32:21.450 --> 00:32:23.630
bond regardless of whether it is currently convenient

00:32:23.630 --> 00:32:25.730
for my self -interest. For better or for worse.

00:32:25.970 --> 00:32:29.130
Exactly. A covenant creates a we. A contract

00:32:29.130 --> 00:32:32.609
just manages a bunch of isolated I's. Sachs argues

00:32:32.609 --> 00:32:35.069
that in the modern West, we have moved from a

00:32:35.069 --> 00:32:37.200
politics of solidarity, which is covenant, covenant

00:32:37.200 --> 00:32:39.400
to a politics of identity, which is contract.

00:32:39.700 --> 00:32:42.400
We basically view the country as a giant hotel

00:32:42.400 --> 00:32:44.200
where we are all just trying to get the best

00:32:44.200 --> 00:32:46.720
room service for our specific tribe rather than

00:32:46.720 --> 00:32:49.140
a home that we actively build and maintain together.

00:32:49.420 --> 00:32:52.720
So we urgently need to recover covenantal thinking.

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But does that mean we all have to believe the

00:32:54.839 --> 00:32:57.279
exact same thing? Because that sounds a lot like

00:32:57.279 --> 00:32:59.880
assimilation, which people rightly push back

00:32:59.880 --> 00:33:02.440
against. No, and this is Sack's true brilliance

00:33:02.440 --> 00:33:04.859
here. He calls for integration without assimilation.

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Explain the difference between those two. Assimilation

00:33:07.460 --> 00:33:10.660
is the classic melting pot. You throw everyone

00:33:10.660 --> 00:33:13.079
in, turn up the heat, and they melt into one

00:33:13.079 --> 00:33:16.079
uniform sludge. You lose your distinctiveness,

00:33:16.240 --> 00:33:19.180
your heritage, your specific beliefs. Sack says

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no. Monotheism. The belief in one God does not

00:33:23.680 --> 00:33:26.619
mean monism. The belief in only one valid path

00:33:26.619 --> 00:33:30.079
or one uniform way to be human. The creator actually

00:33:30.079 --> 00:33:32.799
loves diversity. You can be fully Jewish, fully

00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:36.460
Muslim, fully Texan, fully Californian. You absolutely

00:33:36.460 --> 00:33:38.700
keep your distinct identity. So I get to keep

00:33:38.700 --> 00:33:40.920
my costume. You keep your costume. It's a beautiful

00:33:40.920 --> 00:33:43.519
costume. But you are bound to the whole society

00:33:43.519 --> 00:33:45.680
in a way that supersedes your private interest.

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You are committed to the relationship, to the

00:33:47.740 --> 00:33:49.940
covenant, more than you are committed to winning

00:33:49.940 --> 00:33:52.539
every single argument. That sounds incredible

00:33:52.539 --> 00:33:54.960
in theory, but it also sounds really hard in

00:33:54.960 --> 00:33:57.460
practice. Is there any empirical evidence that

00:33:57.460 --> 00:33:59.940
this actually works, or is it just nice philosophy?

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There is actual evidence. The source points to

00:34:02.420 --> 00:34:04.619
research by scholars like Ibrat Patel and Mohammed

00:34:04.619 --> 00:34:07.220
Abernumer. They study interfaith engagement and

00:34:07.220 --> 00:34:09.199
conflict resolution on the ground. And what do

00:34:09.199 --> 00:34:10.820
they find when they put these groups together?

00:34:11.230 --> 00:34:13.250
They find that when people actually engage across

00:34:13.250 --> 00:34:16.050
lines of difference, but not just sitting in

00:34:16.050 --> 00:34:18.150
a conference room debating theology, because

00:34:18.150 --> 00:34:20.170
that usually goes nowhere and just entrenches

00:34:20.170 --> 00:34:22.809
people. Right. Debates just trigger the megalithymia.

00:34:22.849 --> 00:34:25.570
Exactly. But when they engage by actually working

00:34:25.570 --> 00:34:28.530
on a shared project, building a Habitat for Humanity

00:34:28.530 --> 00:34:32.110
house together, running a local food bank, cleaning

00:34:32.110 --> 00:34:35.190
up a park. Shared action. Shared action toward

00:34:35.190 --> 00:34:38.150
a common good. When they do that, the research

00:34:38.150 --> 00:34:41.630
shows they develop shared moral frameworks. They

00:34:41.630 --> 00:34:44.210
build a covenant. And they don't lose their religion

00:34:44.210 --> 00:34:47.230
in the process. A Christian often becomes a better

00:34:47.230 --> 00:34:49.750
Christian by working alongside a Muslim because

00:34:49.750 --> 00:34:51.650
they are challenged to actually live up to their

00:34:51.650 --> 00:34:54.389
own charitable values. But the crucial shift

00:34:54.389 --> 00:34:56.909
is that the other stops being an existential

00:34:56.909 --> 00:35:00.480
threat. It's the contact hypothesis, right? It's

00:35:00.480 --> 00:35:02.639
really hard to hate people close up. It's practically

00:35:02.639 --> 00:35:04.440
impossible to hate people when you are sweating

00:35:04.440 --> 00:35:06.599
alongside them, passing them a hammer. The abstraction

00:35:06.599 --> 00:35:09.320
falls away. The mega identity crumbles. You stop

00:35:09.320 --> 00:35:11.139
seeing a representative of the evil opposing

00:35:11.139 --> 00:35:14.000
party and you just see Dave. Just Dave, who is

00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:16.219
bad at using a hammer, but tells good jokes.

00:35:16.480 --> 00:35:19.960
And that mundane connection is the literal beginning

00:35:19.960 --> 00:35:22.659
of a covenant. You know, this whole deep dive

00:35:22.659 --> 00:35:24.920
has been quite a journey. We started with that

00:35:24.920 --> 00:35:27.420
physical tightness in our chest, the deep anxiety

00:35:27.420 --> 00:35:29.659
of the modern self scrolling through social media.

00:35:29.920 --> 00:35:32.840
We looked at how we turned identity into an idol,

00:35:32.940 --> 00:35:36.159
demanding constant recognition. And we ended

00:35:36.159 --> 00:35:38.820
up with Rabbi Sachs basically telling us to get

00:35:38.820 --> 00:35:40.820
married to our neighbors. It is a lot of ground

00:35:40.820 --> 00:35:43.719
to cover, but I think the core takeaway, despite

00:35:43.719 --> 00:35:46.679
all the heavy philosophy, is actually quite simple.

00:35:47.360 --> 00:35:49.820
Summarize it for us. What is the one thing the

00:35:49.820 --> 00:35:51.420
listener should take away from all this source

00:35:51.420 --> 00:35:53.719
material? The idolatry of identity is making

00:35:53.719 --> 00:35:56.579
us completely miserable. We are worshiping labels

00:35:56.579 --> 00:35:59.679
and categories that we invented ourselves. The

00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:01.679
way out of this trap is not to pretend we don't

00:36:01.679 --> 00:36:04.219
have identities. We do, and they matter. They

00:36:04.219 --> 00:36:06.539
shape our lives. The way out is to just hold

00:36:06.539 --> 00:36:08.989
them lightly. I see them as costumes. To see

00:36:08.989 --> 00:36:11.550
them as costumes. To practice the intellectual

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humility of the Jains, knowing our truth is always

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partial. To see the image of God like the Jews

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and Christians, knowing the other person is fundamentally

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sacred. And to see the fluid process like the

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Sufis, knowing that we are always changing moment

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to moment. And to realize that the person shouting

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at you on Twitter is also just a person in a

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costume, probably really scared, probably looking

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for validation and recognition, just like you

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are. Precisely. We are all just seeking dignity.

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Here is a provocative thought to leave you with

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to mull over on your own. The source suggests

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that all idols eventually must be transcended.

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If we can actually do this, if we can look at

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our own political party, our own tribe, our most

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cherished labels and say, this is important to

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me, but it's not God, we might actually find

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the freedom to connect with the human being behind

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the label. And maybe, just maybe, the cost of

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that freedom is admitting we don't have it all

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figured out. And that epistemic humility might

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literally be the only way we survive this century

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together. A huge challenge. But hey, that's exactly

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why we dive deep. We certainly do. Thanks for

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joining us for this one. Let us know. Are you

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ready to take off the costume? Even just a little

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bit. We'll see you next time.
