Why don't we kick off with how did you get started
in kink Mx? What were those first experiences
like? Many, many years ago, because I am very,
very old. But back when I was a teenager and
really got introduced to kink completely by accident
and kind of looking back on it, probably not
the best way to start, although it is quite a
funny story. I was out on a night out and I hooked
up with this very lovely girl. We went back to
her place and we were having sex and she kept
encouraging me to... slap her and I was like
no you don't do that that's not that's not right
you don't hit a woman you know all those things
you do when you grow up which is absolutely right
and it went on like that for a little bit and
eventually she just stopped and said if you want
me to cum you're going to have to hit me relatable
yeah and in that moment I was like all right
then and gave it a go and we had a great time
and that was my first introduction to anything
vaguely kind of kinky really but I really enjoyed
it and kind of explored that a little bit with
her and with other people and just kind of really
got into that idea of doing really mean things
to people who like having really mean things
done to them playing with that idea that it is
kind of in quotes wrong. to anyone. I often think
a big part of what drives kink for a lot of people,
I think, and definitely for me, is that kind
of grappling with the dark side of your own nature.
Like, what are the worst things that I could
potentially do to a person? What are the worst
things that could potentially happen to me? What
am I most afraid of? What am I most ashamed of?
And taking those out and turning them into a
game.