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Why don't we kick off with how did you get started

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in kink Mx? What were those first experiences

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like? Many, many years ago, because I am very,

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very old. But back when I was a teenager and

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really got introduced to kink completely by accident

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and kind of looking back on it, probably not

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the best way to start, although it is quite a

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funny story. I was out on a night out and I hooked

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up with this very lovely girl. We went back to

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her place and we were having sex and she kept

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encouraging me to... slap her and I was like

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no you don't do that that's not that's not right

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you don't hit a woman you know all those things

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you do when you grow up which is absolutely right

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and it went on like that for a little bit and

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eventually she just stopped and said if you want

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me to cum you're going to have to hit me relatable

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yeah and in that moment I was like all right

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then and gave it a go and we had a great time

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and that was my first introduction to anything

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vaguely kind of kinky really but I really enjoyed

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it and kind of explored that a little bit with

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her and with other people and just kind of really

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got into that idea of doing really mean things

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to people who like having really mean things

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done to them playing with that idea that it is

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kind of in quotes wrong. to anyone. I often think

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a big part of what drives kink for a lot of people,

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I think, and definitely for me, is that kind

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of grappling with the dark side of your own nature.

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Like, what are the worst things that I could

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potentially do to a person? What are the worst

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things that could potentially happen to me? What

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am I most afraid of? What am I most ashamed of?

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And taking those out and turning them into a

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game.