WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.940 You don't have to be lifestyle over there. You 00:00:02.940 --> 00:00:06.379 know, military is an advantage and chocolate 00:00:06.379 --> 00:00:08.699 is an advantage. And, you know, if you get the 00:00:08.699 --> 00:00:12.259 mix of the two, you become fantasy to somebody. 00:00:13.019 --> 00:00:15.000 And, you know, they're telling you the nastiest 00:00:15.000 --> 00:00:19.940 things that they want you to do. And or they're 00:00:19.940 --> 00:00:22.920 just open to, hey, what do you want? What do 00:00:22.920 --> 00:00:24.379 you want? What do you want? What do you want 00:00:24.379 --> 00:00:28.629 to do to me, Danny? So at that time. You just 00:00:28.629 --> 00:00:31.050 you just communicate, you talk. And like I said, 00:00:31.109 --> 00:00:34.649 the realm of fantasy exists. 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But if you're ready to 00:01:45.650 --> 00:01:49.010 step into your masculine edge and embrace a lifestyle 00:01:49.010 --> 00:01:52.150 that demands mastery, welcome to the Brotherhood. 00:01:54.890 --> 00:01:57.969 Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood Podcast, where 00:01:57.969 --> 00:02:01.329 we talk power, pleasure, and the art of dominance 00:02:01.329 --> 00:02:04.269 in ethical non -monogamy. This is not your average 00:02:04.269 --> 00:02:07.250 lifestyle podcast. This is for men who lead, 00:02:07.510 --> 00:02:11.009 men who master, and men who leave a lasting impression. 00:02:11.669 --> 00:02:15.090 If you're here, you're not just curious. You're 00:02:15.090 --> 00:02:18.389 ready to elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives, 00:02:18.710 --> 00:02:22.129 stags, and open -minded explorers, we see you. 00:02:22.569 --> 00:02:40.120 Let's go. Ladies and gentlemen, good evening 00:02:40.120 --> 00:02:42.539 and welcome to another episode of the Bull Brotherhood 00:02:42.539 --> 00:02:45.759 podcast. I'm one third of your podcast founder, 00:02:45.879 --> 00:02:48.080 the host with the most Brian Morgan, aka the 00:02:48.080 --> 00:02:51.300 Sigma male, the lone wolf coming at you with 00:02:51.300 --> 00:02:54.620 my brother from another mother, the nephew himself, 00:02:54.800 --> 00:02:57.719 Socrates. What's up, baby boy? What's good? What's 00:02:57.719 --> 00:03:02.319 good? I'm excited about this episode man Exactly 00:03:02.319 --> 00:03:05.900 exactly ladies and gentlemen. I am giving a special 00:03:05.900 --> 00:03:10.300 shout out to the lady of the house siren she 00:03:10.300 --> 00:03:13.000 is taking a a leave of absence for the night 00:03:13.000 --> 00:03:16.199 but she sends all of her love okay and ladies 00:03:16.199 --> 00:03:18.580 and gentlemen we got a real real real special 00:03:18.580 --> 00:03:22.379 guest tonight um you heard me talk about my exploits 00:03:22.379 --> 00:03:24.840 uh as far as being a soldier united states army 00:03:24.840 --> 00:03:28.080 and living overseas in europe and i always tell 00:03:28.080 --> 00:03:30.659 you i can always talk about it but i wish i had 00:03:30.659 --> 00:03:33.689 somebody on the podcast went over there and kind 00:03:33.689 --> 00:03:36.650 of lived it himself also and tonight we have 00:03:36.650 --> 00:03:39.409 that uh ladies and gentlemen i give to you from 00:03:39.409 --> 00:03:41.729 the united states military he has recently retired 00:03:41.729 --> 00:03:44.530 i've been retired for about seven months i give 00:03:44.530 --> 00:03:48.849 to you james what's going on my brother i'm doing 00:03:48.849 --> 00:03:50.750 all right i'm doing it right i appreciate you 00:03:50.750 --> 00:03:53.490 inviting me on this evening it's a pleasure to 00:03:53.490 --> 00:03:56.009 have you man it really is really a pleasure to 00:03:56.009 --> 00:03:58.150 have you and once again uh congratulations on 00:03:58.150 --> 00:04:00.250 your retirement from the service and welcome 00:04:00.250 --> 00:04:08.409 to another brotherhood yes um ladies and gentlemen 00:04:08.409 --> 00:04:12.009 again as i said before james has uh he's been 00:04:12.009 --> 00:04:15.069 overseas and he has experienced what i've experienced 00:04:15.069 --> 00:04:17.790 for like 14 years over there and we're going 00:04:17.790 --> 00:04:22.449 to talk about tonight how um servicemen who get 00:04:22.449 --> 00:04:26.350 into the lifestyle uh living overseas while living 00:04:26.350 --> 00:04:29.870 overseas the benefits the the differences between 00:04:31.190 --> 00:04:35.829 how we maneuver here and how we maneuver overseas, 00:04:36.110 --> 00:04:39.089 how different the couples are, how different 00:04:39.089 --> 00:04:42.850 just the single women are compared to what we 00:04:42.850 --> 00:04:45.329 have over here. So I'm going to turn it over 00:04:45.329 --> 00:04:47.689 to, of course, Nephew. Nephew always starts things 00:04:47.689 --> 00:04:49.949 off with the greatest questions. That's why he's 00:04:49.949 --> 00:04:52.250 known as Socrates. So I'm going to turn it over 00:04:52.250 --> 00:04:54.790 to you, Nephew. Yeah, no, I appreciate it. And 00:04:54.790 --> 00:04:57.910 I just want to put my little... Being in the 00:04:57.910 --> 00:05:01.029 hat, too, I served in the Navy. It was a shorter 00:05:01.029 --> 00:05:03.670 stint than these two gentlemen. I went in as 00:05:03.670 --> 00:05:06.129 a reservist. I was called active duty for Iraq, 00:05:06.250 --> 00:05:09.329 and I was able to serve my country. And I did 00:05:09.329 --> 00:05:11.649 not experience any of the lifestyle stuff being 00:05:11.649 --> 00:05:14.170 in the Navy. I moved around a lot. I was never 00:05:14.170 --> 00:05:16.329 really stationed anywhere for too long being 00:05:16.329 --> 00:05:20.129 in a construction battalion. But, you know, my 00:05:20.129 --> 00:05:23.930 family's service goes back to the Civil War. 00:05:24.250 --> 00:05:28.360 We love this country. We're all happy to serve. 00:05:28.540 --> 00:05:31.459 And I just want to say thank both of you guys 00:05:31.459 --> 00:05:34.920 for a lifelong dedication to this country and 00:05:34.920 --> 00:05:39.040 to the safety and freedom of this country. I 00:05:39.040 --> 00:05:41.379 take it seriously. My father who served, uncles, 00:05:41.420 --> 00:05:43.959 cousins. I have family members now that served. 00:05:44.060 --> 00:05:46.839 I just want to say thank you to gentlemen because, 00:05:46.939 --> 00:05:50.959 you know, I have I got my political views on 00:05:50.959 --> 00:05:52.620 the certain wars that we serve or what we're 00:05:52.620 --> 00:05:54.740 doing over there. But when it comes to the man 00:05:54.740 --> 00:05:58.129 next to you, Um, at the end of the day, it doesn't 00:05:58.129 --> 00:06:00.470 matter. It's about making sure you get home safe. 00:06:00.529 --> 00:06:02.649 The man next to you gets home safe and we're 00:06:02.649 --> 00:06:04.110 able to carry out the orders that we're given. 00:06:04.470 --> 00:06:09.449 So thank you too, gentlemen. Appreciate you. 00:06:09.470 --> 00:06:11.250 Appreciate you. And again, brother, thank you 00:06:11.250 --> 00:06:13.769 for your service. All right. It doesn't matter 00:06:13.769 --> 00:06:16.509 if you were a reservist or a national guard or 00:06:16.509 --> 00:06:18.769 what, you know what I mean? If you serve, you 00:06:18.769 --> 00:06:20.370 serve. All right. And we're all part of that 00:06:20.370 --> 00:06:23.550 brotherhood. So thank you for your service. Truly, 00:06:24.050 --> 00:06:33.180 truly. So yeah, so as Unk accurately says, I 00:06:33.180 --> 00:06:35.740 always have a thousand questions. So I would 00:06:35.740 --> 00:06:37.740 say the biggest question, we'll start big and 00:06:37.740 --> 00:06:39.720 then we'll go down to some more granular things. 00:06:40.019 --> 00:06:44.519 For both of you, Mr. Morgan first, what was the 00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:48.199 number one thing that you learned in the military 00:06:48.199 --> 00:06:52.870 that was not specifically for? the lifestyle 00:06:52.870 --> 00:06:55.509 or how you treat women or interactions between 00:06:55.509 --> 00:06:58.350 any of that. What were the things that you learned 00:06:58.350 --> 00:07:00.649 or the biggest things you learned serving in 00:07:00.649 --> 00:07:03.529 the military that carried over to this lifestyle 00:07:03.529 --> 00:07:07.930 and gives you an advantage as a bull, as a high 00:07:07.930 --> 00:07:12.589 -level operator in this game? The discipline 00:07:12.589 --> 00:07:15.509 and the patience needed to accomplish a mission. 00:07:16.810 --> 00:07:20.100 When you're a bull in the lifestyle, And here 00:07:20.100 --> 00:07:24.839 again, I've said it before, you have to be able 00:07:24.839 --> 00:07:28.920 to adapt to whatever situation that is with that 00:07:28.920 --> 00:07:31.540 couple, whether they are a new couple coming 00:07:31.540 --> 00:07:34.240 into the lifestyle and you are there to guide 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:38.759 them, or if they are a seasoned couple and you 00:07:38.759 --> 00:07:41.220 have to come in there and they're ready to just, 00:07:41.339 --> 00:07:45.399 pardon the pun, go to war. Right? So you have 00:07:45.399 --> 00:07:48.860 to adapt and overcome. You have to adapt and 00:07:48.860 --> 00:07:50.620 overcome, man. I mean, you know, you might be 00:07:50.620 --> 00:07:54.699 a damn sniper one night and then you just pow, 00:07:54.800 --> 00:07:57.259 pow, pow, pow, pow, fucking all night long. Or 00:07:57.259 --> 00:08:03.240 you might be a long range, damn, what is that 00:08:03.240 --> 00:08:06.149 called? I can't think of any more words right 00:08:06.149 --> 00:08:08.310 now. But it's like a scout. You're out there, 00:08:08.350 --> 00:08:11.029 you know, you're scouting the situation. And 00:08:11.029 --> 00:08:13.810 you're just filling out the couple and talking 00:08:13.810 --> 00:08:16.069 to them and communicating, making sure they're 00:08:16.069 --> 00:08:19.129 good, making sure they're good with you, and 00:08:19.129 --> 00:08:22.209 just, you know, filling them out. So, like I 00:08:22.209 --> 00:08:25.269 said, it's discipline, patience, and then, you 00:08:25.269 --> 00:08:29.889 know, learning how to attack accordingly. Word, 00:08:30.029 --> 00:08:35.379 word. I love it. James? I agree completely with 00:08:35.379 --> 00:08:38.139 what he said, but my answer would simply be really 00:08:38.139 --> 00:08:42.299 communication. In the military, you have to communicate 00:08:42.299 --> 00:08:47.480 across all age ranges, all demographics, races, 00:08:47.759 --> 00:08:50.639 all the rest of that fun stuff, and you have 00:08:50.639 --> 00:08:52.220 to be able to communicate clearly, especially 00:08:52.220 --> 00:08:56.019 in this lifestyle. Sometimes, as he said, you 00:08:56.019 --> 00:08:59.820 have a seasoned couple, and other times you have 00:08:59.820 --> 00:09:03.500 a couple that's a bit new. And as you're moving 00:09:03.500 --> 00:09:06.259 and building this lifestyle, everyone's a little 00:09:06.259 --> 00:09:08.360 bit different. Everyone's relationship is a little 00:09:08.360 --> 00:09:10.159 bit different. Everyone's dynamic is a little 00:09:10.159 --> 00:09:13.259 bit different. So being able to clearly communicate, 00:09:13.500 --> 00:09:17.820 of course, your boundaries as well and receive 00:09:17.820 --> 00:09:20.259 theirs, being able just to have a conversation. 00:09:20.500 --> 00:09:23.820 You put me in any room, in any place, and I can 00:09:23.820 --> 00:09:27.519 talk. So that has served me well in this lifestyle. 00:09:27.620 --> 00:09:31.399 It's allowed people to be comfortable. um you 00:09:31.399 --> 00:09:35.460 know uh both approaching me and me in um injecting 00:09:35.460 --> 00:09:40.000 in um a place where i'm not known you know whether 00:09:40.000 --> 00:09:42.860 it be a lifestyle event a club bar anything of 00:09:42.860 --> 00:09:46.019 that nature i can walk up and i'm a clear communicator 00:09:46.019 --> 00:09:48.360 comfortable doing that so that has served me 00:09:48.360 --> 00:09:51.039 well and i thank the military for that spoken 00:09:51.039 --> 00:09:55.159 like a true non -commissioned officer a true 00:09:55.159 --> 00:10:02.470 nco i love it love it Yeah, it's beautiful. So, 00:10:02.549 --> 00:10:05.129 yeah, let's back up a little bit, James. Great 00:10:05.129 --> 00:10:08.289 to have you on the show. Why don't you you you 00:10:08.289 --> 00:10:11.029 we one of the things we we we liked is that both 00:10:11.029 --> 00:10:13.409 you guys really entered into the lifestyle because 00:10:13.409 --> 00:10:17.110 and while serving. So tell us your origin story, 00:10:17.250 --> 00:10:18.669 brother. How did you get into this lifestyle? 00:10:21.570 --> 00:10:27.299 Well, my origin story was. probably i would think 00:10:27.299 --> 00:10:30.460 like uh many people um you know many gentlemen 00:10:30.460 --> 00:10:34.639 you don't have those dreams of you know fantasies 00:10:34.639 --> 00:10:36.679 things of that nature whether that be a threesome 00:10:36.679 --> 00:10:40.860 um and i originally thought that it only existed 00:10:40.860 --> 00:10:43.399 potentially like in that world of porn or some 00:10:43.399 --> 00:10:46.820 variation like that um so i'm jumping on these 00:10:46.820 --> 00:10:50.620 websites um i was on one of the websites uh many 00:10:50.620 --> 00:10:55.840 years ago and met a young lady And she said she's 00:10:55.840 --> 00:10:57.960 having a party one night. At first, we went to 00:10:57.960 --> 00:10:59.720 the movies the night prior. It was a vanilla 00:10:59.720 --> 00:11:04.480 date. And I still didn't think that any of this 00:11:04.480 --> 00:11:07.419 really happened in her life. But when she said 00:11:07.419 --> 00:11:09.460 she's having a party, she said she wasn't sure 00:11:09.460 --> 00:11:12.120 if I would enjoy the party. And I, you know, 00:11:12.139 --> 00:11:14.740 of course, being military, I'm pompous. I'm in 00:11:14.740 --> 00:11:19.070 my 20s at the time. i'm like hey how can you 00:11:19.070 --> 00:11:21.169 not invite me to a party and so she gives me 00:11:21.169 --> 00:11:23.690 the guidelines the rules of the party she didn't 00:11:23.690 --> 00:11:25.610 implicitly say it was lifestyle i didn't even 00:11:25.610 --> 00:11:27.590 know that there was a lifestyle at that time 00:11:27.590 --> 00:11:31.529 um so he gives me the rules of this party hey 00:11:31.529 --> 00:11:34.289 get down to your pajamas or your boxers some 00:11:34.289 --> 00:11:36.970 variation like that and bring a bottle and i 00:11:36.970 --> 00:11:39.809 said well i can do no less of course if i'm gonna 00:11:39.809 --> 00:11:42.210 bring a bottle um to the host of the party if 00:11:42.210 --> 00:11:45.990 i if i'm gonna be invited so when i finally get 00:11:45.990 --> 00:11:48.919 to the door beautiful young lady in lingerie 00:11:48.919 --> 00:11:52.759 um picks up and i'm in my 20s i'm naive at that 00:11:52.759 --> 00:11:56.360 time at that time so everyone's kind of talking 00:11:56.360 --> 00:12:00.779 and i'm socializing and it only hit me as the 00:12:00.779 --> 00:12:02.960 evening went on and people start to disappear 00:12:02.960 --> 00:12:06.559 i distinctly remember there was a little bit 00:12:06.559 --> 00:12:09.659 of a um people standing outside this one room 00:12:09.659 --> 00:12:13.259 and i'm a bit nosy so i'd walk over and that's 00:12:13.259 --> 00:12:15.320 when i finally see the first instance of people 00:12:15.320 --> 00:12:18.279 actually playing And, you know, at that time, 00:12:18.379 --> 00:12:21.679 my mind exploded. You know, everyone there was 00:12:21.679 --> 00:12:24.200 so cool and amazing and things of that nature. 00:12:24.240 --> 00:12:27.879 I said, everyone was just socializing. And there 00:12:27.879 --> 00:12:31.700 was this other realm that existed where, oh, 00:12:31.700 --> 00:12:33.799 shoot, you could actually say what you want. 00:12:34.600 --> 00:12:36.960 And ever since I've been to that party and I 00:12:36.960 --> 00:12:39.360 knew that that space exists where I can connect 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:42.519 with individuals that not only think about their 00:12:42.519 --> 00:12:46.399 fantasies, but there's actually a place. where 00:12:46.399 --> 00:12:51.120 you can explore them. That's been my place ever 00:12:51.120 --> 00:12:54.340 since. It's been absolutely amazing. I've met 00:12:54.340 --> 00:12:57.759 some great people, and I've made a memory or 00:12:57.759 --> 00:13:04.259 two. Nice. Sounds like you had a good time. Sounds 00:13:04.259 --> 00:13:10.879 like you had a very good origin encounter for 00:13:10.879 --> 00:13:14.899 that first time. Did you did you continue to 00:13:14.899 --> 00:13:18.519 interact with this particular female or were 00:13:18.519 --> 00:13:21.840 you like just anxious to like dive into the world 00:13:21.840 --> 00:13:23.960 after that? And you just kind of just started, 00:13:24.039 --> 00:13:26.820 you know, floating around different parties or 00:13:26.820 --> 00:13:29.200 did you just you know, how did you how did you 00:13:29.200 --> 00:13:33.299 maneuver after that one night? After that one 00:13:33.299 --> 00:13:36.200 night, I was for those of you that are aware 00:13:36.200 --> 00:13:38.799 of military, I was TDY at that time, so I was 00:13:38.799 --> 00:13:42.419 only in Germany for a couple of months. So that's 00:13:42.419 --> 00:13:44.399 just for those that are not familiar with the 00:13:44.399 --> 00:13:47.100 military, you're just somewhere just for a bit 00:13:47.100 --> 00:13:51.159 of time. So we did. We did actually kick it for 00:13:51.159 --> 00:13:53.399 the three months that I was there, you know, 00:13:53.399 --> 00:13:54.940 sometimes in a vanilla setting and sometimes 00:13:54.940 --> 00:14:00.059 she would throw an event. And since then, as 00:14:00.059 --> 00:14:04.700 I said, I was, you know, I knew that was me. 00:14:06.320 --> 00:14:08.360 Before we were speaking to Socrates, you know, 00:14:08.360 --> 00:14:11.139 I had this idea of fantasy and things of that 00:14:11.139 --> 00:14:13.659 nature, didn't have a word for it. And once I 00:14:13.659 --> 00:14:17.179 knew there was this place where, oh, shoot, I 00:14:17.179 --> 00:14:21.620 can I could actually say what I want sexually. 00:14:21.720 --> 00:14:24.639 I'm not judged for it or anything of that nature. 00:14:25.379 --> 00:14:28.460 That was that was amazing. So since then, I was 00:14:28.460 --> 00:14:33.200 I was I was totally in primarily. it's at events 00:14:33.200 --> 00:14:35.960 or you know on on websites or things of that 00:14:35.960 --> 00:14:41.100 nature just because it's not uh fully what's 00:14:41.100 --> 00:14:43.340 the what's the right word it's not fully advertised 00:14:43.340 --> 00:14:45.679 you never know who's lifestyle and who's not 00:14:45.679 --> 00:14:48.759 so i've been i've been lucky enough to you know 00:14:48.759 --> 00:14:50.899 go to events and you actually you know you start 00:14:50.899 --> 00:14:53.279 meeting people and things of that nature then 00:14:53.279 --> 00:14:56.679 from there hey we exchange digits and um and 00:14:56.679 --> 00:14:58.940 you um you build your you know you build this 00:14:58.940 --> 00:15:03.039 beautiful community that we have now And how 00:15:03.039 --> 00:15:05.799 did the how did the couples take you like when 00:15:05.799 --> 00:15:08.679 they see you at events? Were they were they like, 00:15:08.899 --> 00:15:11.320 oh, my God, you know, this is here's another 00:15:11.320 --> 00:15:14.100 beautiful black man. And did they approach you 00:15:14.100 --> 00:15:18.000 like aggressively or were they laid back and, 00:15:18.019 --> 00:15:20.639 you know, kind of like watch you move, how you 00:15:20.639 --> 00:15:25.039 move and then approach you or what? I'm thinking 00:15:25.039 --> 00:15:27.340 in my experience, you've got a mix. You've got 00:15:27.340 --> 00:15:29.960 those that are, you know, that, hey, they know 00:15:29.960 --> 00:15:32.519 what they want. They're looking for a black man 00:15:32.519 --> 00:15:34.940 and they're, you know, they go right for it. 00:15:35.179 --> 00:15:38.080 But in my experience, at least from what people 00:15:38.080 --> 00:15:41.299 have told from me, from bird's eye view is people 00:15:41.299 --> 00:15:45.340 see how I move. People see how I carry myself, 00:15:45.700 --> 00:15:48.379 how I move. And based on that, I've had more 00:15:48.379 --> 00:15:51.500 people reach out to me, you know, either, hey, 00:15:51.519 --> 00:15:54.289 hey. you know we've seen you at an event you 00:15:54.289 --> 00:15:57.289 carry yourself well you speak well you know um 00:15:57.289 --> 00:16:00.409 you know if i would say so myself halfway decent 00:16:00.409 --> 00:16:04.809 looking gentleman um so you know um and when 00:16:04.809 --> 00:16:07.909 the time comes that just allows couples um to 00:16:07.909 --> 00:16:11.509 um to um um to approach uh they don't approach 00:16:11.509 --> 00:16:14.529 aggressively we have our initial my usual is 00:16:14.529 --> 00:16:17.330 we have an initial conversation you know we vibe 00:16:17.330 --> 00:16:20.190 uh a little bit that's that that that's that 00:16:20.190 --> 00:16:22.950 that's my that's my main even though you know 00:16:22.950 --> 00:16:25.929 i'm happy to jump on the field um you know there's 00:16:25.929 --> 00:16:28.570 moments where hey it's instant it's not you know 00:16:28.570 --> 00:16:30.409 it's not time to talk or anything of that nature 00:16:30.409 --> 00:16:34.190 time and place but my main my main dynamic is 00:16:34.190 --> 00:16:36.850 getting to know them a little bit i enjoy the 00:16:36.850 --> 00:16:41.850 lady some we're enjoying banter um and and things 00:16:41.850 --> 00:16:46.149 progress from there that was uh that was one 00:16:46.149 --> 00:16:49.659 of the things um Lindsay, my baby girl, said, 00:16:49.840 --> 00:16:53.840 ladies and gentlemen, James has played with my 00:16:53.840 --> 00:16:57.480 baby girl for the last year at Splash Mocha. 00:16:58.519 --> 00:17:01.980 Yes, yes. And one of the things that she, one 00:17:01.980 --> 00:17:03.960 of the first things that she said, she was like, 00:17:04.079 --> 00:17:06.519 Daddy, he knows how to really talk to somebody. 00:17:06.579 --> 00:17:10.000 He's not just trying to, you know, let's fuck 00:17:10.000 --> 00:17:12.779 and fuck this, fuck that, da, da, da. But he 00:17:12.779 --> 00:17:15.430 was actually, you know, you actually. really 00:17:15.430 --> 00:17:17.710 really had a great conversation with her and 00:17:17.710 --> 00:17:19.769 she vibed with you and then you know when she 00:17:19.769 --> 00:17:22.549 saw you in it uh in Atlanta and I didn't have 00:17:22.549 --> 00:17:24.289 to say anything here when I saw you I was like 00:17:24.289 --> 00:17:27.569 okay I know he's good I mean the vibe was there 00:17:27.569 --> 00:17:30.910 with me you know when she said military man I 00:17:30.910 --> 00:17:33.269 was like okay this this is pretty much a no -brainer 00:17:33.269 --> 00:17:35.849 I just need to look at him and uh I was like, 00:17:35.930 --> 00:17:37.549 okay, good, baby, go ahead and go and have a 00:17:37.549 --> 00:17:40.410 good time. So, you know, for the couples out 00:17:40.410 --> 00:17:43.950 there who may be headed to Atlanta, Georgia next 00:17:43.950 --> 00:17:48.069 month for the Splash Milk event, I am telling 00:17:48.069 --> 00:17:50.329 you right now, you need to reach out and meet 00:17:50.329 --> 00:17:54.109 this young man. He's very, very nice, very, very 00:17:54.109 --> 00:17:59.470 charming. And he represents what we want as far 00:17:59.470 --> 00:18:02.390 as like that bull in the bull brotherhood. So 00:18:02.390 --> 00:18:06.039 reach out to James. I appreciate that. Truly, 00:18:06.099 --> 00:18:08.799 I appreciate that, my friend. And I appreciate 00:18:08.799 --> 00:18:10.640 that y 'all trust me enough to trust me with 00:18:10.640 --> 00:18:13.539 your lady. Oh, yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. 00:18:14.059 --> 00:18:19.220 Anytime, brother. Anytime. James, let me ask 00:18:19.220 --> 00:18:21.380 you, while you were overseas and you're in the 00:18:21.380 --> 00:18:24.720 lifestyle community, was being in the military 00:18:24.720 --> 00:18:28.559 a benefit? Or let me ask it a different way. 00:18:28.640 --> 00:18:33.400 If you're. If you're over in Europe somewhere 00:18:33.400 --> 00:18:37.119 and you were serving and a woman could pick a 00:18:37.119 --> 00:18:40.720 civilian, let's say another good looking black 00:18:40.720 --> 00:18:43.759 man as yourself, and he's there on business, 00:18:43.839 --> 00:18:47.519 but they got you there who's there serving the 00:18:47.519 --> 00:18:49.460 military. And let's say they don't have any issues 00:18:49.460 --> 00:18:52.819 with, you know, any kind of political or personal 00:18:52.819 --> 00:18:57.039 issues against it. You know, it's whatever. Would 00:18:57.039 --> 00:18:59.619 that benefit you? You know, were they looking 00:18:59.619 --> 00:19:02.140 for guys in the military or just as long as you 00:19:02.140 --> 00:19:07.400 were black and ready to go? That's funny that 00:19:07.400 --> 00:19:10.660 you would even say that. You know, as I meet 00:19:10.660 --> 00:19:14.900 people, you know, as you start conversation, 00:19:15.259 --> 00:19:17.099 hey, you know, hey, what are you doing here? 00:19:17.299 --> 00:19:19.920 Hey, what do you do for work? But as that conversation 00:19:19.920 --> 00:19:23.059 would float towards the military. um there's 00:19:23.059 --> 00:19:26.859 definitely a a subset of of of women that do 00:19:26.859 --> 00:19:29.640 enjoy you know the police officers the firemen 00:19:29.640 --> 00:19:31.819 military things of that nature men in uniform 00:19:31.819 --> 00:19:35.660 that definitely did exactly men in uniform men 00:19:35.660 --> 00:19:39.759 in uniform so uh that did um uh served me well 00:19:39.759 --> 00:19:41.579 and it seemed sort of activated a piece of them 00:19:41.579 --> 00:19:44.980 so you know i was you know they they may have 00:19:44.980 --> 00:19:47.480 been looking for a black gentleman but that military 00:19:47.480 --> 00:19:50.480 was definitely at least in my opinion you know 00:19:50.480 --> 00:19:54.519 a plus you know um you know us when we're in 00:19:54.519 --> 00:19:57.200 laid back side of me but at the same time i'm 00:19:57.200 --> 00:19:59.960 assertive and um you know ladies that i have 00:19:59.960 --> 00:20:04.039 met enjoy that control that that that that assertiveness 00:20:04.039 --> 00:20:07.059 that dominance you know even though i'm sure 00:20:07.059 --> 00:20:08.940 you hear i speak most laid -back gentlemen in 00:20:08.940 --> 00:20:12.700 the world but at the same time confident and 00:20:12.700 --> 00:20:15.140 assertive when i need to be you know you've got 00:20:15.140 --> 00:20:18.059 that certain presence brother there's something 00:20:18.059 --> 00:20:21.900 about a black man I don't care if he's light 00:20:21.900 --> 00:20:25.839 skin, caramel, brown skin, dark skin, or just 00:20:25.839 --> 00:20:29.039 black as tar. When he puts on that damn military 00:20:29.039 --> 00:20:32.259 uniform with the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, 00:20:32.539 --> 00:20:37.019 Coast Guard, the way we transform when we put 00:20:37.019 --> 00:20:41.119 that uniform on, the broad shoulders, you know, 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:44.460 the arms, the body speaks for itself when we're 00:20:44.460 --> 00:20:48.420 in that uniform, the aura, the charisma, the 00:20:48.420 --> 00:20:53.569 dominance. everything that a woman is wanting 00:20:53.569 --> 00:20:56.970 and desiring it comes across when we put a uniform 00:20:56.970 --> 00:20:59.589 on i've had the pleasure of wearing two different 00:20:59.589 --> 00:21:03.230 uniforms um one is a law enforcement officer 00:21:03.230 --> 00:21:06.210 and then one as a military man and let me tell 00:21:06.210 --> 00:21:08.670 you i have had some of the greatest encounters 00:21:08.670 --> 00:21:13.529 ever by just getting out of a squad car or just 00:21:13.529 --> 00:21:18.920 uh you know walking around in uh bd slash acus 00:21:18.920 --> 00:21:23.539 and and i mean it's just the aura it's it's just 00:21:23.539 --> 00:21:26.299 this is how we put together and and it just comes 00:21:26.299 --> 00:21:28.500 across you really don't have to say anything 00:21:28.500 --> 00:21:33.200 you know you just walk into a room and here again 00:21:33.200 --> 00:21:36.079 that word that aura that charisma you know that 00:21:36.079 --> 00:21:40.299 swag comes it just comes out and the ladies are 00:21:40.299 --> 00:21:43.470 are immediately drawn to you And they will come 00:21:43.470 --> 00:21:45.609 to you, and you don't have to say a whole lot. 00:21:45.970 --> 00:21:50.609 You really don't before you're in there. So, 00:21:50.730 --> 00:21:53.950 yeah, I can totally understand where you're coming 00:21:53.950 --> 00:21:57.250 from, James. And I know, Socrates, you do too, 00:21:57.329 --> 00:22:00.230 you know. Oh, yeah. Those Navy uniforms are damn 00:22:00.230 --> 00:22:02.970 fly. Oh, yeah. Navy uniforms are fly as hell. 00:22:03.369 --> 00:22:06.730 And when brothers put their shit on, I mean, 00:22:06.750 --> 00:22:09.670 I'm telling you, you know, it won't be long. 00:22:09.809 --> 00:22:12.380 It will not be long. You know, whether you're 00:22:12.380 --> 00:22:15.319 on leave, furlough, as the Navy calls it, I think, 00:22:15.380 --> 00:22:18.900 or whatever. You know, it won't be long, man, 00:22:18.900 --> 00:22:22.079 before the ladies are on your jock. And, you 00:22:22.079 --> 00:22:24.900 know, so, yeah, there's a difference. There's 00:22:24.900 --> 00:22:29.279 a difference between the civilian man and the 00:22:29.279 --> 00:22:33.980 military man. And people can pick up on that 00:22:33.980 --> 00:22:38.990 instantly. Instantly. Even when you're retired, 00:22:39.410 --> 00:22:43.509 I get asked all the time, hell, I can have on 00:22:43.509 --> 00:22:46.970 my damn workout gear. And somebody would ask 00:22:46.970 --> 00:22:48.829 me, they were like, I see you tuck your shirt 00:22:48.829 --> 00:22:51.849 in, even when you have on sweatpants to work 00:22:51.849 --> 00:22:54.190 out. I was like, yes. And they were like, what 00:22:54.190 --> 00:22:58.049 branch? That's what they'll say. They'll say, 00:22:58.109 --> 00:23:01.069 what branch? And I was like, Army. I was like, 00:23:01.130 --> 00:23:05.869 is it that? Is it that? One lady was like, honey, 00:23:06.069 --> 00:23:08.710 it's written all over your face. It's written 00:23:08.710 --> 00:23:11.750 all over your face. When you walk, the way you 00:23:11.750 --> 00:23:14.109 walk around the gym, you know, after you do a 00:23:14.109 --> 00:23:16.549 set, you go get some water, you walk straight 00:23:16.549 --> 00:23:19.650 as a damn arrow. You know, she was like, it's 00:23:19.650 --> 00:23:23.029 written all over your damn face. So here again, 00:23:23.250 --> 00:23:26.990 it's that aura. It's that aura. And ladies, we're 00:23:26.990 --> 00:23:31.160 going to let that aura down show. come out in 00:23:31.160 --> 00:23:34.420 about another month or a few weeks or whatever 00:23:34.420 --> 00:23:42.200 a few weeks so be ready um so both you guys were 00:23:42.200 --> 00:23:46.599 introduced to lifestyle in germany right yeah 00:23:46.599 --> 00:23:49.839 uh -huh well i will agree with me yes yeah yeah 00:23:49.839 --> 00:23:54.099 so so james um you know we've talked you know 00:23:54.099 --> 00:23:56.079 uncas talk about this a lot but i definitely 00:23:56.079 --> 00:23:59.890 want to hear from you talk to me about the You 00:23:59.890 --> 00:24:02.630 know, what's different or special or what you 00:24:02.630 --> 00:24:05.430 like about the German lifestyle community out 00:24:05.430 --> 00:24:11.150 there? I absolutely love Europe. If I even had 00:24:11.150 --> 00:24:13.609 the opportunity, I would move back. It's so much 00:24:13.609 --> 00:24:19.690 more open over there as far as sexually. When 00:24:19.690 --> 00:24:22.250 the time comes, whether that you be in a lifestyle 00:24:22.250 --> 00:24:27.390 club or you be in a vanilla club in the U .S. 00:24:28.259 --> 00:24:31.400 You know, sometimes there's a bit of cat and 00:24:31.400 --> 00:24:32.940 mouse, there's a bit of games, things of that 00:24:32.940 --> 00:24:35.640 nature. Some of you remember back in the day 00:24:35.640 --> 00:24:38.240 when you would get, you know, a lady's number 00:24:38.240 --> 00:24:40.079 in the club, hey, I'll call you tomorrow, I'll 00:24:40.079 --> 00:24:42.200 call you in a couple days, variation like that. 00:24:43.799 --> 00:24:46.339 Over there, if there's that instant attraction, 00:24:46.700 --> 00:24:50.700 you know, sex isn't as taboo over there. If there's 00:24:50.700 --> 00:24:53.180 that attraction, I remember I was in K -Town, 00:24:53.299 --> 00:24:56.579 Kaiserslautern, to those of you who haven't been 00:24:56.579 --> 00:24:59.519 over there. um big military community over there 00:24:59.519 --> 00:25:03.019 i'm in a nightclub meet a beautiful um beautiful 00:25:03.019 --> 00:25:05.519 life i think she was brazilian i flashed back 00:25:05.519 --> 00:25:07.700 to my sixth grade spanish because i don't speak 00:25:07.700 --> 00:25:11.220 a lick of spanish all i could remember was two 00:25:11.220 --> 00:25:14.220 bonita or some variation like that and excuse 00:25:14.220 --> 00:25:16.279 me if i'm getting the words wrong i just was 00:25:16.279 --> 00:25:18.380 trying to communicate you're pretty and we're 00:25:18.380 --> 00:25:20.500 smiling and we're communicating close enough 00:25:20.500 --> 00:25:26.900 close enough um yep yep and At the end, you know, 00:25:26.920 --> 00:25:29.059 I get another friend to kind of translate, hey, 00:25:29.099 --> 00:25:32.039 I'll call you tomorrow. Hey, it was good seeing 00:25:32.039 --> 00:25:34.700 you, you know. And, you know, instantly was like, 00:25:34.779 --> 00:25:36.799 no, I'm going with you tonight. You know, I'm 00:25:36.799 --> 00:25:38.619 like, hey, what are you doing later on? You got 00:25:38.619 --> 00:25:40.099 a good breakfast? And she's like, I'm going with 00:25:40.099 --> 00:25:45.359 you. It's so much more open there. It's desire 00:25:45.359 --> 00:25:50.519 and saying what you want. At least in my opinion, 00:25:50.559 --> 00:25:54.859 it's not as much of a hurdle there. where in 00:25:54.859 --> 00:25:59.240 the Americas, it seems like it's taboo, you know, 00:25:59.240 --> 00:26:02.259 in some circles. You know, oh, shoot, how am 00:26:02.259 --> 00:26:04.000 I thinking this? I shouldn't have this thought, 00:26:04.200 --> 00:26:07.579 things of that nature. Oh, you've been flirting 00:26:07.579 --> 00:26:09.279 all night, feeling each other all night. You 00:26:09.279 --> 00:26:11.539 could see that, you know, that chemistry is there, 00:26:11.640 --> 00:26:15.720 but no, I'm not going to do that. We got to have 00:26:15.720 --> 00:26:19.980 12 dates and six engagements before I actually 00:26:19.980 --> 00:26:26.210 let you do these things, per se. So it doesn't 00:26:26.210 --> 00:26:30.869 exist as much there. And I love the openness. 00:26:31.829 --> 00:26:33.630 It's actually great, even though, of course, 00:26:33.710 --> 00:26:36.250 I love being in the U .S., love the conversations, 00:26:36.269 --> 00:26:42.490 but it's just different over there where there's 00:26:42.490 --> 00:26:44.690 absolutely nothing. I think even now, like the 00:26:44.690 --> 00:26:47.650 sex stores, you know, here you potentially have 00:26:47.650 --> 00:26:50.049 to go to a seedy neighborhood or a variation 00:26:50.049 --> 00:26:53.369 or they've got them all over. People are window 00:26:53.369 --> 00:26:55.849 shopping like, oh, there's the Vibratasaur 3000. 00:26:56.349 --> 00:26:58.190 And it's in the middle of the day. And they're 00:26:58.190 --> 00:27:01.930 just looking at a window. And I was just like, 00:27:02.049 --> 00:27:05.450 OK, it's the same thing in the realm of drinking. 00:27:08.089 --> 00:27:10.210 Drinking is a part of their culture. Sex is a 00:27:10.210 --> 00:27:13.329 part of their culture where, you know, Americans, 00:27:13.569 --> 00:27:17.450 you know, overindulge on drinking, where Europeans 00:27:17.450 --> 00:27:20.740 don't just because they have. been um exposed 00:27:20.740 --> 00:27:24.279 um to it so it's not as not as tab but when you 00:27:24.279 --> 00:27:29.119 don't over indulge as much over there most most 00:27:29.119 --> 00:27:34.240 uh most occupations overseas in germany socrates 00:27:34.240 --> 00:27:39.339 the the you are allowed like two breaks where 00:27:39.339 --> 00:27:42.569 you can have a like a beer break Who the fuck 00:27:42.569 --> 00:27:45.490 does that? You know what I mean? Where you can 00:27:45.490 --> 00:27:50.109 stop and drink a damn fucking Heffy Weissen, 00:27:50.230 --> 00:27:56.529 which is a real popular damn beer. They get that 00:27:56.529 --> 00:28:02.390 twice a day over there. And as far as going to 00:28:02.390 --> 00:28:05.470 the club, to reiterate on what James was saying, 00:28:05.569 --> 00:28:10.000 to go to the club there. and leave with just 00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:14.500 a number or numbers is a wasted night. In my 00:28:14.500 --> 00:28:18.140 opinion, it is a wasted night. You are, you are, 00:28:18.200 --> 00:28:22.299 when, when you go to the club there, 75 % of 00:28:22.299 --> 00:28:26.420 the time, 75 % of men are going to meet and fuck 00:28:26.420 --> 00:28:30.099 that night. You're going to meet and fuck that 00:28:30.099 --> 00:28:31.980 night. All right. It might be in the parking 00:28:31.980 --> 00:28:34.220 lot. It might be in the parking lot. Hell, it 00:28:34.220 --> 00:28:36.059 might be in the bathroom. You know what I mean? 00:28:36.079 --> 00:28:37.559 Depending on what type of damn club it is or 00:28:37.559 --> 00:28:40.200 how big the club is. Or you might go back to 00:28:40.200 --> 00:28:42.700 the bags or to your apartment or whatever. Or 00:28:42.700 --> 00:28:45.759 her apartment. But you are going to have sex 00:28:45.759 --> 00:28:50.039 that night. They want you. They want you. And 00:28:50.039 --> 00:28:55.160 they have to have you. You know? And here again, 00:28:55.279 --> 00:28:57.660 I talk about them being so damn uninhibited. 00:28:57.920 --> 00:29:03.660 In the bedroom, brother. Pandora's box is open. 00:29:04.400 --> 00:29:07.640 All right? If you're not used to getting your 00:29:07.640 --> 00:29:11.880 asshole licked, I sure hate it. You're going 00:29:11.880 --> 00:29:15.400 to learn today. You know what I mean? And you 00:29:15.400 --> 00:29:21.599 can open up your box of tricks with her. I mean, 00:29:21.640 --> 00:29:25.200 they are so, those women, they want you. And 00:29:25.200 --> 00:29:28.359 they want all of you in every way. In every fucking 00:29:28.359 --> 00:29:33.079 way possible. And here again, if you form, you 00:29:33.079 --> 00:29:36.380 know, let's say you have a relationship with 00:29:36.380 --> 00:29:41.099 one, you know, it won't be long. If it becomes 00:29:41.099 --> 00:29:43.519 long -term, it won't be long before you got to 00:29:43.519 --> 00:29:46.859 start having those conversations where, you know, 00:29:46.900 --> 00:29:50.220 you may not have known that, like, she's bi or 00:29:50.220 --> 00:29:52.779 something like that. And you come home one day 00:29:52.779 --> 00:29:55.640 and, you know, there's a girl sitting there with, 00:29:55.660 --> 00:29:58.519 you know, a mama. And you're looking like, what's 00:29:58.519 --> 00:30:02.480 going on? and next thing you know bam you guys 00:30:02.480 --> 00:30:06.420 are going at it or i mean i mean it's just it's 00:30:06.420 --> 00:30:09.339 different man it is different there we don't 00:30:09.339 --> 00:30:12.660 deal with the hang -ups that we have with a lot 00:30:12.660 --> 00:30:16.279 of american women it just doesn't happen you 00:30:16.279 --> 00:30:19.799 know even just a regular life uh to come home 00:30:19.799 --> 00:30:23.599 and and and you know the the house is damn immaculate 00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:26.680 and you know the food is is great and you guys 00:30:26.680 --> 00:30:29.309 can sit there you can either have a great conversation 00:30:29.309 --> 00:30:31.950 or she can realize that, hey, he's had a real 00:30:31.950 --> 00:30:34.349 hard fucking day. You know, I'm just going to 00:30:34.349 --> 00:30:38.150 give him a shower. You know, he can just stay 00:30:38.150 --> 00:30:41.049 in the shower. Or, you know, I give him a bath 00:30:41.049 --> 00:30:44.509 and tuck him in and put him to bed. I mean, that's 00:30:44.509 --> 00:30:48.690 why so many black guys go over there and they 00:30:48.690 --> 00:30:51.890 end up staying for the rest of their life. I've 00:30:51.890 --> 00:30:55.690 told you guys before, had it not been for my 00:30:55.690 --> 00:30:59.019 parents having uh health scares at the same time 00:30:59.019 --> 00:31:02.160 you guys will not know me and i mean that's the 00:31:02.160 --> 00:31:04.880 guy's honest truth you would not know me i would 00:31:04.880 --> 00:31:09.059 still be in wiesbaden germany living uh retired 00:31:09.059 --> 00:31:12.640 um my two best friends we were going like i said 00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:17.079 we're gonna open up either a a a a little small 00:31:17.079 --> 00:31:22.420 sex you know sex house um or we'll go up uh some 00:31:22.420 --> 00:31:25.579 form of a little nightclub one or two And I was 00:31:25.579 --> 00:31:27.059 going to speak German for the rest of my fucking 00:31:27.059 --> 00:31:29.339 life. I wouldn't come back across the water. 00:31:29.599 --> 00:31:32.599 I was not, man. I was not. If I did, hell, yeah, 00:31:32.660 --> 00:31:34.740 I'd go to Vegas, maybe or something like that. 00:31:34.779 --> 00:31:37.019 But other than that, shit. There's no reason 00:31:37.019 --> 00:31:40.420 to come back home once you are over there and 00:31:40.420 --> 00:31:43.380 you get acclimated and you become Blerman, as 00:31:43.380 --> 00:31:46.680 they say, black and German. There's no reason. 00:31:46.740 --> 00:31:48.500 There's no reason, man. Everything is there. 00:31:48.990 --> 00:31:52.690 Every nationality of woman is there and they 00:31:52.690 --> 00:31:56.609 are drop dead beautiful. I mean, you're Syrians, 00:31:56.769 --> 00:31:59.549 you're Germans, you're Russians. I mean, just 00:31:59.549 --> 00:32:04.069 everything is there. Everything is there. And 00:32:04.069 --> 00:32:07.529 when you get off the plane over there, you are 00:32:07.529 --> 00:32:12.490 a high dollar value item. Black man is a high 00:32:12.490 --> 00:32:14.769 dollar value item. And you really are a high 00:32:14.769 --> 00:32:17.410 dollar. Exactly. And you really are a high dollar 00:32:17.410 --> 00:32:22.190 value item now because of the, you know, a lot 00:32:22.190 --> 00:32:24.970 of the bases have closed. A lot of the bases 00:32:24.970 --> 00:32:26.569 have closed and the guys have come back to the 00:32:26.569 --> 00:32:28.349 States or they've retired and come back to the 00:32:28.349 --> 00:32:30.529 States. So, you know, you've got a lot of places 00:32:30.529 --> 00:32:33.210 now. Wiesbaden is now United States Army Europe 00:32:33.210 --> 00:32:37.210 headquarters. So that was where I lived. So I'm 00:32:37.210 --> 00:32:39.690 like right there in the midst of everything with 00:32:39.690 --> 00:32:42.549 Frankfurt, Germany. right there beside it he's 00:32:42.549 --> 00:32:45.029 like two big two big cities right there within 00:32:45.029 --> 00:32:49.750 of six kilometers less than 10 miles away from 00:32:49.750 --> 00:32:53.470 each other i mean it's beautiful man beautiful 00:32:53.470 --> 00:32:57.130 and there's parties different type of down sex 00:32:57.130 --> 00:33:02.190 parties every weekend every night nice you know 00:33:02.190 --> 00:33:04.609 you got something to go to you got something 00:33:04.609 --> 00:33:08.650 to go to it seems to me gentlemen absolutely 00:33:09.839 --> 00:33:11.920 It seems to me, the gentleman, that the lifestyle 00:33:11.920 --> 00:33:16.000 really just makes things more organized, easier, 00:33:16.339 --> 00:33:20.539 communication open. But it seems to me that you 00:33:20.539 --> 00:33:22.119 don't have to be lifestyle to kind of really 00:33:22.119 --> 00:33:25.400 enjoy the stuff in the military when you're overseas 00:33:25.400 --> 00:33:27.859 because they just like military men. They like 00:33:27.859 --> 00:33:30.640 military men in general of all races. But from 00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:33.539 what I'm hearing and my experience in the Navy, 00:33:33.779 --> 00:33:37.019 they like black men. And no matter what country 00:33:37.019 --> 00:33:40.329 you're in, they love their black men. This is 00:33:40.329 --> 00:33:41.890 something that's available to anybody, right? 00:33:41.950 --> 00:33:43.650 You don't have to be in the lifestyle to enjoy 00:33:43.650 --> 00:33:47.849 this kind of stuff, right? True. You don't have 00:33:47.849 --> 00:33:50.589 to be in the lifestyle. You don't. And there 00:33:50.589 --> 00:33:54.130 are a lot of military guys who are not in the 00:33:54.130 --> 00:33:56.930 lifestyle. But for the ones who have ventured 00:33:56.930 --> 00:34:01.410 into the world, along with the regular, you know, 00:34:01.529 --> 00:34:05.089 European world, you are living your best life, 00:34:05.089 --> 00:34:07.369 brother. I'm telling you, you're living your 00:34:07.369 --> 00:34:10.230 best life. And like I said, that's why a whole 00:34:10.230 --> 00:34:14.349 lot of guys do not come back across the Atlantic 00:34:14.349 --> 00:34:20.230 Ocean. They stay there. They stay there. I mean, 00:34:20.250 --> 00:34:24.690 hell, am I missing something, James? I was there 00:34:24.690 --> 00:34:27.340 for you. You're not missing something. No, you're 00:34:27.340 --> 00:34:30.420 not missing the thing. My time in Europe and 00:34:30.420 --> 00:34:33.559 a lot of my time was spent in Hawaii. It's the 00:34:33.559 --> 00:34:36.780 same with Asians, Pacific Islanders, things of 00:34:36.780 --> 00:34:43.179 that nature. They may come off a bit reserved, 00:34:43.420 --> 00:34:48.800 but those were some of the most amazing experiences 00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:50.639 where they know what they want in the bedroom. 00:34:51.099 --> 00:34:54.000 Those inhibitions drop when it comes down to 00:34:54.000 --> 00:34:57.219 a Black man. my story would have been instead 00:34:57.219 --> 00:34:59.780 of germany i would have been i would have been 00:34:59.780 --> 00:35:02.639 on oahu i would have been in hawaii to uh to 00:35:02.639 --> 00:35:05.500 this day if if i didn't if i didn't if i didn't 00:35:05.500 --> 00:35:08.860 have to move this last time um what's that um 00:35:08.860 --> 00:35:13.639 but yeah yeah um that that that that you don't 00:35:13.639 --> 00:35:17.000 have to be lifestyle over there you know military 00:35:17.000 --> 00:35:20.119 is an advantage and chocolate is an advantage 00:35:20.119 --> 00:35:23.309 and you know if you get the mix of the two you 00:35:23.309 --> 00:35:27.150 become fantasy to somebody. And, you know, they're 00:35:27.150 --> 00:35:29.409 telling you the nastiest things that they want 00:35:29.409 --> 00:35:34.849 you to do. Or they're just open to, hey, what 00:35:34.849 --> 00:35:37.909 do you want? What do you want to do to me, daddy? 00:35:38.710 --> 00:35:42.699 So at that time. you just you just communicate 00:35:42.699 --> 00:35:45.059 you talk and like i said the realm of fantasy 00:35:45.059 --> 00:35:48.739 exists and i i absolutely love it that i don't 00:35:48.739 --> 00:35:52.659 have to be scared or or or or wait if i say this 00:35:52.659 --> 00:35:55.699 what is she going to think you know i got a young 00:35:55.699 --> 00:35:57.780 lady or a couple or whoever that i can say what 00:35:57.780 --> 00:36:04.900 i want and yeah yeah and and socrates when when 00:36:04.900 --> 00:36:07.820 that couple or that or that single female when 00:36:07.820 --> 00:36:11.389 she commits to you our term of claim, train, 00:36:11.590 --> 00:36:17.849 and own, that last own, you own her. They're 00:36:17.849 --> 00:36:22.010 yours. I mean, they are yours, all right? And, 00:36:22.010 --> 00:36:25.690 you know, like I said, you can just open up Pandora's 00:36:25.690 --> 00:36:27.730 box, man. You can open up Pandora's box sexually, 00:36:27.869 --> 00:36:31.690 and, I mean, you can bring in other people, and, 00:36:31.869 --> 00:36:35.780 you know, there's no hang -up whatsoever. there's 00:36:35.780 --> 00:36:38.239 no hang -up whatsoever when she says she wants 00:36:38.239 --> 00:36:41.860 to please daddy she wants to please daddy in 00:36:41.860 --> 00:36:46.159 every way possible every way possible and the 00:36:46.159 --> 00:36:49.599 husband is is you guys become cooler than cool 00:36:49.599 --> 00:36:54.139 you know um you know me i love to work out so 00:36:54.139 --> 00:36:58.900 to find another fit type of husband ran we was 00:36:58.900 --> 00:37:03.199 working out then go back home here there's food 00:37:03.199 --> 00:37:07.340 and you know He sits over there and watches me 00:37:07.340 --> 00:37:10.460 and just have a ball with the wife. And we just 00:37:10.460 --> 00:37:13.179 sit there and we, yes, you fuck around, you go 00:37:13.179 --> 00:37:16.019 on vacations. And, and I mean, you know, to go 00:37:16.019 --> 00:37:18.860 on a cruise there and to go to different places, 00:37:18.880 --> 00:37:23.019 Italy, Greece, Spain, uh, as that couple, you 00:37:23.019 --> 00:37:25.239 know, together and then go there and meet other 00:37:25.239 --> 00:37:30.239 couples in the, in the world. You boy, this is 00:37:30.239 --> 00:37:34.260 your balls will be down. unloaded very very quickly 00:37:34.260 --> 00:37:38.679 you'll become you'll become you'll be coming 00:37:38.679 --> 00:37:40.579 and nothing coming out your damn dick you know 00:37:40.579 --> 00:37:44.119 but i mean just just just the whole community 00:37:44.119 --> 00:37:47.340 meeting different people and here again is meeting 00:37:47.340 --> 00:37:51.159 you know greeks and and italians and french and 00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:54.860 god especially when you go to france french people 00:37:54.860 --> 00:37:58.519 are just they're just i don't know time you get 00:37:58.519 --> 00:38:02.659 dead cap dodge the which is like one of the world's 00:38:02.659 --> 00:38:06.320 largest new beach new beaches it's something 00:38:06.320 --> 00:38:09.179 man it's something i mean you can sit at home 00:38:09.179 --> 00:38:11.380 in the u .s and like see something on television 00:38:11.380 --> 00:38:14.380 that's one thing but when you actually get to 00:38:14.380 --> 00:38:17.860 go over there and be and become a part of it 00:38:17.860 --> 00:38:23.519 man what what memories to take to the grave i 00:38:23.519 --> 00:38:25.340 love it true story i love what you said as far 00:38:25.340 --> 00:38:28.380 as like with the couples i mean i i i've had 00:38:28.380 --> 00:38:32.269 the opportunity uh to uh be brought into you 00:38:32.269 --> 00:38:33.630 know a couple couples where you could actually 00:38:33.630 --> 00:38:36.570 you know like you said vacations enjoy them you 00:38:36.570 --> 00:38:40.769 know most recently um uh a couple that i met 00:38:40.769 --> 00:38:43.329 at splash we've been talking talking talking 00:38:43.329 --> 00:38:45.489 and the husband reached out and said hey will 00:38:45.489 --> 00:38:48.250 you be my lady's valentine's surprise i'll fly 00:38:48.250 --> 00:38:50.550 you out and i'll pay for the hotel we'll have 00:38:50.550 --> 00:38:53.789 an amazing weekend and and we did we we had i 00:38:53.789 --> 00:38:56.489 got picked up from the airport we not even we 00:38:56.489 --> 00:38:59.480 we not even finished driving from uh you know 00:38:59.480 --> 00:39:01.599 to the hotel and we're in the backseat fucking 00:39:01.599 --> 00:39:04.159 the husband's driving thank god for tesla um 00:39:04.159 --> 00:39:12.059 yeah but you know had an an amazing weekend where 00:39:12.059 --> 00:39:15.280 hey you know the husband trusted you with the 00:39:15.280 --> 00:39:17.400 you know with the lady and y 'all are vibing 00:39:17.400 --> 00:39:20.539 literally text uh every day had a blast went 00:39:20.539 --> 00:39:23.199 to haunted houses dinners things of that nature 00:39:23.199 --> 00:39:26.460 and on top of that bam you know you got you know 00:39:26.460 --> 00:39:28.389 hey you could fuck you know you got some you 00:39:28.389 --> 00:39:32.510 you you got amazing sex um you know there's you 00:39:32.510 --> 00:39:34.070 know a couple you know another couple that i'm 00:39:34.070 --> 00:39:37.550 in um here in the local area i'm in austin texas 00:39:37.550 --> 00:39:40.650 and in the local area where hey we go to dinners 00:39:40.650 --> 00:39:42.449 we hit movies they're the horror they're the 00:39:42.449 --> 00:39:44.949 horror movie people you know we can go hit a 00:39:44.949 --> 00:39:47.289 horror movie i think we saw a 28 uh i don't know 00:39:47.289 --> 00:39:50.929 if you could say uh uh uh trademark movies on 00:39:50.929 --> 00:39:55.650 the podcast sorry we saw a movie a few ago okay 00:39:55.650 --> 00:39:58.510 okay yeah not trying to get nobody uh intro so 00:39:58.510 --> 00:40:01.630 we saw uh 28 years later uh that that second 00:40:01.630 --> 00:40:04.849 part after that back to the hotel you know back 00:40:04.849 --> 00:40:08.809 to their apartment uh so you know when you when 00:40:08.809 --> 00:40:11.230 you get someone and you get invited to uh they 00:40:11.230 --> 00:40:13.150 invite you into their life in that aspect where 00:40:13.150 --> 00:40:17.309 hey i trust you with my lady it's it's it's great 00:40:17.309 --> 00:40:19.889 it's great and you could share like i said you 00:40:19.889 --> 00:40:21.909 could share what you want hey this is what i 00:40:21.909 --> 00:40:24.969 want to try and make it happen for you You know, 00:40:24.969 --> 00:40:27.690 or they introduce you to someone else and, you 00:40:27.690 --> 00:40:33.389 know, hashtag Aladdin, whole new world. Gentlemen, 00:40:33.809 --> 00:40:37.909 this question for both of you. Do you guys have 00:40:37.909 --> 00:40:39.690 like a you don't shit where you eat philosophy 00:40:39.690 --> 00:40:42.969 or have you guys like done some lifestyle when 00:40:42.969 --> 00:40:46.230 you've met people who are also in the service? 00:40:50.849 --> 00:40:57.090 I'll jump on that one first. I love the professionalism 00:40:57.090 --> 00:41:00.289 of the military. I have bumped into people that 00:41:00.289 --> 00:41:02.909 as you get into conversation, oh, I'm in the 00:41:02.909 --> 00:41:05.449 army too. You've got two schools of boss of people. 00:41:05.550 --> 00:41:07.110 Some people say that, hey, you know what? Nope, 00:41:07.210 --> 00:41:11.590 I do not play just in case. But I don't have 00:41:11.590 --> 00:41:14.030 that issue just because if we played before, 00:41:14.269 --> 00:41:16.809 you know, I retired as a non -commissioned officer 00:41:16.809 --> 00:41:20.719 and I've had. you know i i've had some interludes 00:41:20.719 --> 00:41:23.380 with you know commission officers you know lieutenant 00:41:23.380 --> 00:41:26.800 colonels general things of that nature i'm i'm 00:41:26.800 --> 00:41:30.420 i'm going to just be uh sergeant so -and -so 00:41:30.420 --> 00:41:33.000 when i see you or i'm going to walk past as though 00:41:33.000 --> 00:41:35.739 i don't know you you know depends on that dynamic 00:41:35.739 --> 00:41:37.820 that's not something that we're going to that 00:41:37.820 --> 00:41:40.800 that i'm going to put you out um being that both 00:41:40.800 --> 00:41:42.900 of us have careers and things of that nature 00:41:42.900 --> 00:41:45.679 you know i probably met you and you're married 00:41:45.679 --> 00:41:48.440 so of course i'm not gonna you know have someone 00:41:48.440 --> 00:41:50.719 wait how do you know him where do you know him 00:41:50.719 --> 00:41:53.260 from that's where you get started tap dancing 00:41:53.260 --> 00:41:57.380 so um yeah um i i've bumped into plenty of military 00:41:57.380 --> 00:42:00.139 people that that that are that are a part of 00:42:00.139 --> 00:42:02.360 this matter of fact i got a text a few ago um 00:42:02.360 --> 00:42:06.179 where um you know uh two of the old service members 00:42:06.179 --> 00:42:07.860 are getting married and they're in the lifestyle 00:42:07.860 --> 00:42:10.460 um where they invited me to come out to jersey 00:42:10.460 --> 00:42:13.559 and come kick it with them before you know before 00:42:13.559 --> 00:42:18.340 they make that great loop Yeah, I couldn't say 00:42:18.340 --> 00:42:22.860 it any better. We kind of, without coming out 00:42:22.860 --> 00:42:25.920 saying it, you know, and then I came in the military 00:42:25.920 --> 00:42:28.840 a long, you know, long, long time ago. So it 00:42:28.840 --> 00:42:31.139 was kind of known that, you know, if you were 00:42:31.139 --> 00:42:35.420 in that particular, you know, realm, lifestyle 00:42:35.420 --> 00:42:37.500 realm, whether it be hot wifing, like I said, 00:42:37.539 --> 00:42:40.119 we didn't have the term then or just regular, 00:42:40.179 --> 00:42:43.840 you know. swinging that you just kind of, if 00:42:43.840 --> 00:42:46.579 you saw somebody that you knew at a party or, 00:42:46.639 --> 00:42:49.820 you know, anywhere, you just kind of like nodded 00:42:49.820 --> 00:42:52.500 your head and just kept keeping pushing, you 00:42:52.500 --> 00:42:55.840 know, because, um, that was one of the things 00:42:55.840 --> 00:42:59.079 that at least back long then in my day, they 00:42:59.079 --> 00:43:03.480 would, um, kind of shun upon, um, as far as, 00:43:03.500 --> 00:43:06.159 you know, the military is concerned. especially 00:43:06.159 --> 00:43:08.719 when you are late on in your career if you make 00:43:08.719 --> 00:43:12.039 it a career and you become a senior you know 00:43:12.039 --> 00:43:15.820 non -com um and you're in the lifestyle so that 00:43:15.820 --> 00:43:18.260 was one of the things that i kept i kept pretty 00:43:18.260 --> 00:43:22.760 much um under wraps you know i had that life 00:43:22.760 --> 00:43:26.679 and then i had my what i what i call my just 00:43:26.679 --> 00:43:29.400 um you know, regular, you know, regular life 00:43:29.400 --> 00:43:32.199 where you knew the, uh, you knew the sergeant, 00:43:32.199 --> 00:43:36.199 you knew the fitness, uh, you know, guy and, 00:43:36.239 --> 00:43:39.139 uh, nothing else. You know what I'm saying? But 00:43:39.139 --> 00:43:42.059 that part of my life, I, I kept it, I kept it, 00:43:42.079 --> 00:43:47.340 I kept it, uh, under wraps. Yeah. And I, I love 00:43:47.340 --> 00:43:49.460 that. It's that even that fun secret, you know, 00:43:49.460 --> 00:43:51.340 if it's that, if you know, you know, you know, 00:43:51.340 --> 00:43:53.599 for those that you would pass by, whether that 00:43:53.599 --> 00:43:55.380 be in the military or the civilian life, you'd 00:43:55.380 --> 00:43:57.280 see them. And you can kind of, you know, hey, 00:43:57.400 --> 00:44:00.860 that nod or that smile. Exactly. Exactly. You 00:44:00.860 --> 00:44:04.400 two did something or weren't something. And then 00:44:04.400 --> 00:44:06.920 you need to pass by or let the meeting continue. 00:44:07.519 --> 00:44:12.920 And text later. That's it. That's it. I love 00:44:12.920 --> 00:44:19.599 it. I love it. Yeah. I really definitely tried 00:44:19.599 --> 00:44:21.940 to keep those two things separate. I was single 00:44:21.940 --> 00:44:26.070 and I just, I didn't. But in the Navy. You know, 00:44:26.090 --> 00:44:27.809 you're on a ship. Everybody knows what's going 00:44:27.809 --> 00:44:30.389 on. You know, like, we're on this ship for nine 00:44:30.389 --> 00:44:33.690 months. It's like, come on. So, you know, that's 00:44:33.690 --> 00:44:36.409 just what it was for the Navy. How has, we've 00:44:36.409 --> 00:44:39.309 talked a lot about, and we're kind of coming 00:44:39.309 --> 00:44:41.190 up on time, so I won't keep y 'all too long. 00:44:41.610 --> 00:44:46.269 But we've talked about, you know, the benefits 00:44:46.269 --> 00:44:50.090 of overseas. Have you guys benefited from or 00:44:50.090 --> 00:44:52.969 enjoyed anything in the States besides, you know, 00:44:53.010 --> 00:44:55.880 we know Hawaii's, you know. In the States. But 00:44:55.880 --> 00:44:58.980 in the lower 48, you know, have you guys enjoyed 00:44:58.980 --> 00:45:02.300 the benefits of being in the military here? Or 00:45:02.300 --> 00:45:04.340 I know it's different. You know, I would even 00:45:04.340 --> 00:45:07.840 dare say better in overseas. But what have you 00:45:07.840 --> 00:45:13.280 enjoyed here being in the service? Ooh, Texas, 00:45:13.460 --> 00:45:22.579 Texas. The great state of Texas. Oh, my goodness. 00:45:22.880 --> 00:45:28.389 Hook them horns. 6th Street, Bryan College Station, 00:45:28.730 --> 00:45:33.869 Lord have mercy, Austin, Waco, San Antonio, the 00:45:33.869 --> 00:45:39.769 Riverwalk, God damn, Houston. Brother, I've had 00:45:39.769 --> 00:45:42.650 some times in the great state of Texas. To all 00:45:42.650 --> 00:45:46.309 the ladies there that I've played with, love 00:45:46.309 --> 00:45:49.130 y 'all to death. I really do. To the couples 00:45:49.130 --> 00:45:53.099 I've met, love y 'all to death too. The great 00:45:53.099 --> 00:45:56.300 state of Texas, I had a ball there, as well as 00:45:56.300 --> 00:45:59.960 Colorado. Colorado, in my opinion, is the interracial 00:45:59.960 --> 00:46:04.719 capital of the United States. It really is. I 00:46:04.719 --> 00:46:12.179 had a freaking ball in Colorado also. My story? 00:46:12.920 --> 00:46:16.900 Of course, Europe's one thing, but I've had a 00:46:16.900 --> 00:46:19.679 great time in the... continental united states 00:46:19.679 --> 00:46:22.639 as well i am in the i am in the state of texas 00:46:22.639 --> 00:46:24.599 so i know exactly what you're talking about i'm 00:46:24.599 --> 00:46:28.579 in i'm in austin so hey often over there in the 00:46:28.579 --> 00:46:31.119 domain area i need to come out there and hang 00:46:31.119 --> 00:46:34.719 out with you because i love austin and i'm also 00:46:34.719 --> 00:46:37.980 latino i speak spanish i love all my mexican 00:46:37.980 --> 00:46:40.460 ladies and salvadorian ladies out there man and 00:46:40.460 --> 00:46:42.849 all the other nationalities I definitely need 00:46:42.849 --> 00:46:44.349 to come. I didn't mean to interrupt you. But 00:46:44.349 --> 00:46:46.489 I need to go out there. And get to San Antonio. 00:46:47.090 --> 00:46:50.289 Oh, yeah, for sure. And be like, oh, yeah, mami. 00:46:51.010 --> 00:46:58.469 And that is my kryptonite to any ladies on the 00:46:58.469 --> 00:47:00.369 line that may be at Splash or whatever. That 00:47:00.369 --> 00:47:04.889 is my kryptonite. So what's that? The Hispanic 00:47:04.889 --> 00:47:07.110 or the Latino. But, hey, I've had a great time. 00:47:07.230 --> 00:47:09.050 You know, when I get adopted into a community, 00:47:09.170 --> 00:47:12.369 wherever I end up landing PCS into. you know 00:47:12.369 --> 00:47:15.170 texas has been amazing to me hawaii north carolina 00:47:15.170 --> 00:47:18.510 with my time at brag uh anywhere i go where i 00:47:18.510 --> 00:47:21.349 land i must i'm social but you know and like 00:47:21.349 --> 00:47:23.309 i said earlier i don't communicate them so i'm 00:47:23.309 --> 00:47:25.670 gonna i'm gonna be the life of the party wherever 00:47:25.670 --> 00:47:28.489 wherever i land then once people find out about 00:47:28.489 --> 00:47:30.769 that uh you know we could just you know call 00:47:30.769 --> 00:47:33.550 that ultra ego side um just because you know 00:47:33.550 --> 00:47:35.769 wasn't out so much when i was in the military 00:47:35.769 --> 00:47:38.630 but if people knew they knew but when people 00:47:38.630 --> 00:47:41.409 find out about that other side boom well you 00:47:41.409 --> 00:47:45.710 know hey i had i had an amazing time and word 00:47:45.710 --> 00:47:47.750 would come out about me anyway i remember i think 00:47:47.750 --> 00:47:51.510 i was at uh eustis where you know i had soldiers 00:47:51.510 --> 00:47:54.570 come back around and i heard this about you it 00:47:54.570 --> 00:47:56.349 wasn't lifestyle it was just how i thought and 00:47:56.349 --> 00:47:57.730 i was just like okay i don't know how they found 00:47:57.730 --> 00:48:00.010 that out but still well the word you know the 00:48:00.010 --> 00:48:02.409 word don't spread enough and i hey i appreciate 00:48:02.409 --> 00:48:06.130 that i appreciate the yelp review um so you know 00:48:06.130 --> 00:48:08.820 um Even with the military, I've been treated 00:48:08.820 --> 00:48:12.280 amazing no matter where I go because people are 00:48:12.280 --> 00:48:14.119 drawn to it. Like I said, policemen, firefighters, 00:48:14.659 --> 00:48:18.320 military. Instantly, women are going to be drawn 00:48:18.320 --> 00:48:21.920 to that. Something about us is on radar. Your 00:48:21.920 --> 00:48:24.679 exploits will get around in a military community, 00:48:24.920 --> 00:48:30.260 okay? Here I am. I'm like 45 minutes from Fayetteville. 00:48:30.559 --> 00:48:35.739 And when I do go to the Ville, trust and believe, 00:48:35.880 --> 00:48:38.559 they know the signal mail is there, right? They've 00:48:38.559 --> 00:48:43.019 already put out an APB well ahead. So, you know, 00:48:43.039 --> 00:48:46.699 they know I'm coming. So, I mean, that's just 00:48:46.699 --> 00:48:53.400 your housewife, hot wife community. that lives, 00:48:53.659 --> 00:48:55.440 you know, on post or, like, in the surrounding 00:48:55.440 --> 00:48:59.260 areas, you know. Bragg is huge. So you have, 00:48:59.340 --> 00:49:03.119 like, your subdivisions of Fayetteville, which 00:49:03.119 --> 00:49:05.059 is Rayford, North Carolina, and a couple other 00:49:05.059 --> 00:49:09.280 places like that. And those communities, those 00:49:09.280 --> 00:49:13.800 communities, they represent in the hot wife lifestyle. 00:49:14.159 --> 00:49:19.440 They really do. There was a huge... Club in Fayetteville. 00:49:19.840 --> 00:49:22.239 The couple that owned it, they're gone now. I 00:49:22.239 --> 00:49:24.679 think they live in South Carolina now. But the 00:49:24.679 --> 00:49:29.500 club was called YKW. Oh, I heard about YKW. I 00:49:29.500 --> 00:49:33.079 heard about YKW. You know where. You know where. 00:49:33.300 --> 00:49:36.000 That's it. And that motherfucker was off the 00:49:36.000 --> 00:49:38.179 chain, brother. That bitch was off the chain. 00:49:38.300 --> 00:49:41.739 They had every month, they had a Friday night 00:49:41.739 --> 00:49:45.460 where they let the brothers in. And it was basically 00:49:45.460 --> 00:49:50.199 like a small splash for that night. And, you 00:49:50.199 --> 00:49:53.019 know, you had to have your damn tracksuit on 00:49:53.019 --> 00:49:55.519 when you went in there. Because you were the 00:49:55.519 --> 00:49:59.000 main course, hors d 'oeuvres and every damn thing 00:49:59.000 --> 00:50:03.920 else. And those military wives and civilian wives, 00:50:04.239 --> 00:50:07.059 they were in there, brother. they win that so 00:50:07.059 --> 00:50:09.639 you know and if you did your job the word got 00:50:09.639 --> 00:50:12.760 around the community very very quickly so you 00:50:12.760 --> 00:50:14.480 know when you came back again that they were 00:50:14.480 --> 00:50:17.219 expecting you to come in like every month on 00:50:17.219 --> 00:50:19.360 that friday night they were expecting you to 00:50:19.360 --> 00:50:21.960 come so you know that's that's the beauty of 00:50:21.960 --> 00:50:24.119 a military community compared to just regular 00:50:24.119 --> 00:50:26.699 civilian life you know family is really family 00:50:26.699 --> 00:50:30.539 we we might live in different spots you know 00:50:30.539 --> 00:50:33.659 in different uh uh areas around you know around 00:50:33.659 --> 00:50:36.360 bragging you know, down in Austin, et cetera. 00:50:36.599 --> 00:50:39.780 But we still, the word will get around in the 00:50:39.780 --> 00:50:43.860 community. And, you know, like I said, they represent 00:50:43.860 --> 00:50:46.519 and they expect you there too. If there's an 00:50:46.519 --> 00:50:50.280 event and they invite you, they expect you to 00:50:50.280 --> 00:50:52.559 be there. They expect you to be there. And if 00:50:52.559 --> 00:50:55.340 you've got friends, bring them. Because trust 00:50:55.340 --> 00:50:57.039 me, they'll be locked and loaded and ready for 00:50:57.039 --> 00:51:02.050 them. You guys have a great time. One of the 00:51:02.050 --> 00:51:04.389 things that James talked, you guys talked about 00:51:04.389 --> 00:51:06.670 yesterday that I did not hear when I was in the 00:51:06.670 --> 00:51:09.030 Navy, and I don't know if the Navy has its own 00:51:09.030 --> 00:51:11.030 version or a different name for it, but what 00:51:11.030 --> 00:51:14.610 is it? Is it Jody? Is that what it is? Jody. 00:51:15.550 --> 00:51:21.269 Y 'all talk to me about Jody. Yeah. Yeah. Well, 00:51:21.590 --> 00:51:25.760 go ahead, James. You know. you get that you know 00:51:25.760 --> 00:51:27.719 that you know that dear jody letter you know 00:51:27.719 --> 00:51:29.940 you uh when you leave you when you deploy go 00:51:29.940 --> 00:51:33.179 to basic training wherever you go uh the the 00:51:33.179 --> 00:51:38.079 jody's waiting to uh you know either uh conversate 00:51:38.079 --> 00:51:40.260 or slide in your lake you know so everyone has 00:51:40.260 --> 00:51:43.280 that story hey when i was deployed this happened 00:51:43.280 --> 00:51:47.179 um and uh we were talking yesterday where the 00:51:47.179 --> 00:51:50.539 advantage of the lifestyle is um when the time 00:51:50.539 --> 00:51:53.219 comes hey if couples would just have that that 00:51:53.219 --> 00:51:56.039 initial hard conversation you know those difficult 00:51:56.039 --> 00:51:58.039 conversations that's what i preach about the 00:51:58.039 --> 00:51:59.840 lifestyle the one thing i hear out of lifestyle 00:51:59.840 --> 00:52:04.699 couples is our communication is immaculate because 00:52:04.699 --> 00:52:07.659 you have to talk about everything you know because 00:52:07.659 --> 00:52:10.699 the relationship's more important than a misunderstanding 00:52:10.699 --> 00:52:15.400 so uh many times for military uh members hey 00:52:15.400 --> 00:52:18.559 one would go somewhere And then they would cheat 00:52:18.559 --> 00:52:22.800 or some variation like that. And that would break 00:52:22.800 --> 00:52:26.300 the relationship. And everyone has needs. Hey, 00:52:26.380 --> 00:52:29.019 you know, your husband or your wife is gone for 00:52:29.019 --> 00:52:32.039 six months or a year at a time. You know, hey, 00:52:32.159 --> 00:52:35.420 you know, God bless you for it. But if, you know, 00:52:35.420 --> 00:52:36.900 when the time comes, if you're able to have that 00:52:36.900 --> 00:52:39.139 conversation of, hey, you know, I've got some 00:52:39.139 --> 00:52:41.800 needs and I'm always going to, you know, lady, 00:52:41.900 --> 00:52:44.340 it's you and me, ride or die till the wheels 00:52:44.340 --> 00:52:48.900 fall off while you're gone. I don't have an issue. 00:52:49.679 --> 00:52:52.519 Just be communicative with me. You know, hey, 00:52:52.659 --> 00:52:54.880 let me vet a gentleman. Hey, if I'm going to 00:52:54.880 --> 00:52:56.579 allow a gentleman in my life, I want a certain 00:52:56.579 --> 00:53:00.980 caliber. Well, in my lady's life, I'm going to, 00:53:01.019 --> 00:53:03.280 you know, I want a certain caliber of gentleman. 00:53:03.280 --> 00:53:05.679 I want to make sure my lady's safe. If they would 00:53:05.679 --> 00:53:07.599 have those conversations that, hey, look, I've 00:53:07.599 --> 00:53:10.340 got needs while I'm gone, but I'm coming back 00:53:10.340 --> 00:53:13.639 to you, you know. some of these divorces and 00:53:13.639 --> 00:53:16.340 some of these stories and uh for the senior non 00:53:16.340 --> 00:53:18.039 -coms you know first started getting a phone 00:53:18.039 --> 00:53:20.699 call about my you know my wife or my husband 00:53:20.699 --> 00:53:23.860 you know that would um that would and at least 00:53:23.860 --> 00:53:26.260 in my personal opinion that would that would 00:53:26.260 --> 00:53:29.480 cut it down um because you know you would say 00:53:29.480 --> 00:53:32.199 hey i was gone but i'm coming back to you at 00:53:32.199 --> 00:53:34.440 the end of the night i'm coming back i'm coming 00:53:34.440 --> 00:53:39.050 back to you and And it's open enough for you 00:53:39.050 --> 00:53:41.429 to share and have these conversations on wants 00:53:41.429 --> 00:53:44.289 and desires. Sex gets better. Communication gets 00:53:44.289 --> 00:53:47.550 better. And now you got your daggone, you know, 00:53:47.570 --> 00:53:52.530 truly that Batman and Robin. You know, you got 00:53:52.530 --> 00:53:56.389 an ultimate team that keep nothing away from 00:53:56.389 --> 00:54:00.289 each other. Finance and physical destroys relationships. 00:54:00.329 --> 00:54:05.150 You can talk about both freely. Y 'all are bulletproof. 00:54:07.420 --> 00:54:11.000 Yeah, it's it's it's very, very hard to keep 00:54:11.000 --> 00:54:17.599 a marriage or a relationship going or keep it 00:54:17.599 --> 00:54:21.300 keep it steady in a military community. You know, 00:54:21.300 --> 00:54:24.360 the deployments, depending on what your military 00:54:24.360 --> 00:54:27.500 occupational specialty is, your job, you may 00:54:27.500 --> 00:54:30.619 be going a lot. He may be going a lot or she 00:54:30.619 --> 00:54:33.460 may be going a lot. You know, so you need to 00:54:33.460 --> 00:54:39.090 if you if I lined up. five or six military couples 00:54:39.090 --> 00:54:42.630 and they have been married 20 or more years and 00:54:42.630 --> 00:54:47.469 he's being in the army for those 20 or more years 00:54:47.469 --> 00:54:52.429 trust and believe probably 75 of that five or 00:54:52.429 --> 00:54:56.769 six are in the lifestyle in some way shape or 00:54:56.769 --> 00:55:00.369 form they are they've had that talk and they're 00:55:00.369 --> 00:55:03.210 like look we are each other's ride or die we 00:55:03.210 --> 00:55:05.869 love each other It's, you know, it's me and you. 00:55:06.010 --> 00:55:09.429 But I know damn well when you're in Afghanistan 00:55:09.429 --> 00:55:12.849 or Iraq or Bosnia or wherever, your dick is not 00:55:12.849 --> 00:55:15.389 going to stretch back here to Fort Hood or Fort, 00:55:15.449 --> 00:55:19.289 you know, Bragg or any other damn installation. 00:55:20.170 --> 00:55:23.630 So this is what needs to take place when you 00:55:23.630 --> 00:55:26.429 deploy. And you lay out, you be honest about 00:55:26.429 --> 00:55:28.409 it. You know, you lay out the damn ground rules. 00:55:28.670 --> 00:55:30.550 You lay out the do's and don'ts just like anything 00:55:30.550 --> 00:55:34.639 else. And the two of you all follow them. That's 00:55:34.639 --> 00:55:38.159 it. You know, nobody's lying to each other. Nobody's 00:55:38.159 --> 00:55:40.219 lying to each other. And your marriage will survive. 00:55:41.300 --> 00:55:44.980 You know? I love it. I love it. A lot of people 00:55:44.980 --> 00:55:47.219 don't know, and we'll try to put a link to this 00:55:47.219 --> 00:55:50.159 book in the show notes. The lifestyle in America 00:55:50.159 --> 00:55:54.320 started at the Air Force. So what people don't 00:55:54.320 --> 00:55:57.539 know is that the, I don't know how to say this, 00:55:57.639 --> 00:56:03.039 the most endangered or the highest death rates. 00:56:03.730 --> 00:56:07.530 in world war ii was not the army or marine guy 00:56:07.530 --> 00:56:12.809 in the front lines it was or you know it was 00:56:12.809 --> 00:56:17.610 the airline it was the pilot it was the the the 00:56:17.610 --> 00:56:22.190 and so they got together and said look you know 00:56:22.190 --> 00:56:24.590 i'm probably not gonna be i'm not i might not 00:56:24.590 --> 00:56:28.309 make it and can you take care of my wife and 00:56:28.309 --> 00:56:29.889 oh by the way you can probably sleep with her 00:56:29.889 --> 00:56:31.909 as well because you you know if you're gonna 00:56:31.909 --> 00:56:34.239 take care of her There probably should be a bond. 00:56:34.360 --> 00:56:41.280 And that thing started happening for our pilots 00:56:41.280 --> 00:56:44.440 in the Air Force, our, what do you call it? Our 00:56:44.440 --> 00:56:49.739 combat pilots. And so the lifestyle in America 00:56:49.739 --> 00:56:52.960 has a, and the book is called The Lifestyle. 00:56:53.000 --> 00:56:56.159 And it talks about the history of the lifestyle 00:56:56.159 --> 00:56:59.920 starting in America in the Air Force. So, you 00:56:59.920 --> 00:57:05.880 know. It has a deep military foundation and background, 00:57:06.099 --> 00:57:09.440 you know? And so this has been something that's 00:57:09.440 --> 00:57:11.300 been going on in the military for a long time. 00:57:11.699 --> 00:57:17.159 And, and so, yeah, I love all of this. It's something 00:57:17.159 --> 00:57:21.079 that I, you know, I get the same thing when I'm 00:57:21.079 --> 00:57:22.920 out in public. It's usually because I'm, I'm 00:57:22.920 --> 00:57:26.760 yes, ma 'am. And yes, sir. Half of that's just, 00:57:26.840 --> 00:57:30.670 I have my, my family's. I'm originally from Tennessee, 00:57:30.869 --> 00:57:33.389 Chattanooga. So I grew up in L .A., but I'm a 00:57:33.389 --> 00:57:36.929 southern boy at heart. And between the military 00:57:36.929 --> 00:57:39.570 and that, I just say, yes, ma 'am, yes, sir, 00:57:39.590 --> 00:57:42.530 all the time. And I just carry myself that way. 00:57:42.570 --> 00:57:44.710 And a lot of people say, OK, what branch? But 00:57:44.710 --> 00:57:50.090 I love this. And I have noticed not that anybody's 00:57:50.090 --> 00:57:54.780 better, but the kinds of people that we. believe 00:57:54.780 --> 00:57:57.159 in in the brotherhood like there's people that 00:57:57.159 --> 00:58:00.420 are in my squad that are not military and um 00:58:00.420 --> 00:58:03.579 but he he presents as either law enforcement 00:58:03.579 --> 00:58:06.219 or military and he has the same kind of disciplines 00:58:06.219 --> 00:58:08.760 and so the people that in the lifestyle that 00:58:08.760 --> 00:58:12.860 i really look up to a lot of them not all a lot 00:58:12.860 --> 00:58:16.199 of them are military bulls and the servicemen 00:58:16.199 --> 00:58:20.130 and even some of the stags and cucks um are in 00:58:20.130 --> 00:58:22.190 the military and shout out to our ladies that 00:58:22.190 --> 00:58:24.670 are are in the start one of my favorite playmates 00:58:24.670 --> 00:58:29.090 is she was um she was uh in the air force and 00:58:29.090 --> 00:58:31.409 a good friend of mine that's vanilla she was 00:58:31.409 --> 00:58:33.489 in the marines a sniper in the marines and she's 00:58:33.489 --> 00:58:37.949 a badass so you know i want to say go navy i 00:58:37.949 --> 00:58:40.530 want to say thank you uh you two army men for 00:58:40.530 --> 00:58:43.369 your service and uh did you guys want to have 00:58:43.369 --> 00:58:45.670 anything else uh did you want before we get off 00:58:48.920 --> 00:58:55.400 James, go ahead. If anybody, as I said, hey, 00:58:55.460 --> 00:58:57.920 I'll be at Splash next month. Looking forward 00:58:57.920 --> 00:59:00.659 to connecting. If any of you want to reach out 00:59:00.659 --> 00:59:02.539 previously, you can know when this episode comes 00:59:02.539 --> 00:59:05.860 out. I'm available on Telegram. Just looking 00:59:05.860 --> 00:59:09.179 without the G at the end for the number four. 00:59:09.679 --> 00:59:15.739 Now, 80. So feel free to reach out. I'm all about 00:59:15.739 --> 00:59:18.480 conversation and building connection. uh prior 00:59:18.480 --> 00:59:21.039 if you'd like to talk or any military people 00:59:21.039 --> 00:59:24.039 that um that if we if we hit a subject and you 00:59:24.039 --> 00:59:26.440 want to talk more on it okay reach out to me 00:59:26.440 --> 00:59:28.400 happy to have a conversation you know whether 00:59:28.400 --> 00:59:32.300 that you know whether that just be an idea um 00:59:32.300 --> 00:59:36.199 or you know or or if you're trying to build drop 00:59:36.199 --> 00:59:41.500 me a line good deal good deal so i continue i 00:59:41.500 --> 00:59:43.460 don't have anything to say my brother i think 00:59:43.460 --> 00:59:45.519 we have said it all we can go ahead and close 00:59:45.519 --> 00:59:49.289 this thing out Ladies and gentlemen, I would 00:59:49.289 --> 00:59:54.230 love to thank James. James, it has indeed been 00:59:54.230 --> 00:59:56.110 a pleasure. Thank you, my brother, for being 00:59:56.110 --> 00:59:59.250 on the podcast. You will be back again in the 00:59:59.250 --> 01:00:03.409 very near future, I hope. All right. And ladies 01:00:03.409 --> 01:00:07.090 and gentlemen, for myself, the Sigma male, and 01:00:07.090 --> 01:00:11.690 of course, my nephew, Socrates, we bid you good 01:00:11.690 --> 01:00:14.989 night. And we will be back next week with another 01:00:14.989 --> 01:00:19.210 informative podcast. Again, to all the brothers 01:00:19.210 --> 01:00:22.110 of the brotherhood, all right? We wish you a 01:00:22.110 --> 01:00:24.710 good night. And to all those lovely ladies and 01:00:24.710 --> 01:00:27.469 hot wives out there, I wish you good morning. 01:00:28.030 --> 01:00:32.090 Auf Wiedersehen. Cheers. Bye -bye. See you later, 01:00:32.170 --> 01:00:32.369 y 'all.