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What is flow to me? It really embodies who I

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am. I mean, I'm really just living in the moment.

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Especially at an event. There's no set thing

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that I have to do. There's no set person I have

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to be with. Besides me running the room, I literally

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do whatever the fuck I want to do. And can't

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nobody shake me from that. This podcast contains

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explicit adult content, mature themes, and candid

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conversations about sex, dominance, power exchange,

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and ethical non -monogamy. It is intended for

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audiences 18 and over only. Listener discretion

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is advised. The views expressed by our guests

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are theirs alone and do not necessarily reflect

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the views or values of the hosts. producers,

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or affiliated brands. The Bull Brotherhood podcast

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is for educational, entertainment, and empowerment

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purposes only. Nothing in this podcast should

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be interpreted as legal advice, medical guidance,

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or psychological counseling. We speak from experience,

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not credentials. Always practice consent, respect

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the boundaries of others, and follow local laws.

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If you're not comfortable with Frank talk about

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sex, kink dominance or emotional power this probably

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isn't the show for you but if you're ready to

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step into your masculine edge and embrace a lifestyle

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that demands mastery welcome to the brotherhood

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welcome to the bull brotherhood podcast where

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we talk power pleasure and the art of dominance

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and ethical non -monogamy this is not your average

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lifestyle podcast this is for men who lead men

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who master, and men who leave a lasting impression.

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If you're here, you're not just curious. You're

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ready to elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives,

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stags, and open -minded explorers, we see you.

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Let's go. Welcome to another exciting episode

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of the Bull Brotherhood. I am one third of your

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podcast team, along with Socrates and Brian Morgan.

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Brian Morgan is over on O -Faces tonight, podcasting

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with Mr. Mocha. So Socrates and I are here with

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our guest, Goliath. Welcome, Goliath. What's

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going on, y 'all? What's going on there, Ben?

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Hey, we're so glad that you're here. You guys

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have heard him on previous episode. We were just

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at Splash Mocha and him and Socrates had an enlightening

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moment. And so we want to focus the attention

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on that. But before we get into that, Goliath,

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tell us what you're doing. You're doing a whole

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lot of things, a whole lot of places to really

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move the ethical, non -monogamous bull community

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along. And we want to hear more about that. So

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tell us more about what you're doing. Well, I'm

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doing a little bit of everything nowadays. Right

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now, the main thing I'm doing now is I'm... I'm

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going to be taking over the Magnum BBC's group.

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Some of y 'all may have heard it. We're based

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out in Dallas, Texas. The leader and founder,

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Yanni, he's been doing it for, I don't know,

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20, 30, I don't know how many years, but the

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time has come to the changing of the guard. So

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that's where I come in to be leading that and

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got the first part of me being the official leader

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coming up in January. For those that want to

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get in contact with me. Yeah, where can we sign

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up? Because I need to sign up. Socrates told

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me today. Better get fucking signed. I mean,

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I like STC, but for people that don't have STC,

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I can be found on Twitter, X, whatever you guys

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want to call it, at Goliath of DFW for my Telegram.

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You just got to know me to get that. So if you

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hear about me, reach me on another platform and

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then get to me so I can get you that information.

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Don't need everybody finding me on that right

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now. And when is it? Oh, it's January 16th and

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19th in Dallas, Texas. So it's going to be a

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nice little event. So I encourage everybody to

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come and check it out. I'll be buying my plane

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tickets while we do this podcast. For sure. Come

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on back. It's going to be well worth it. I promise

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you. Yeah. And how much does it cost for a couple

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to go to one of those for the weekend? oh you're

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putting me on the spot i don't even got the fly

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in front of me but we're free right because we're

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put we're we're you know we're promoting it oh

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we're gonna we're gonna work something out on

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the underground you know yeah i got ways i can

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pay you i got ways i can pay you Oh, man, the

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fans may be listening, man. We do not promote

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prostitution or solicitation or anything like

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that here. So I'll put that out there right now.

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Oh, I was talking about, like, cleaning your

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house or something, like vacuuming before. I

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don't know what you were insinuating. Oh, man,

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you know, there's some things that I'm trying

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to ring the sound or something like that. I'm

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talking about washing dishes. I can holler while

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I vacuum, you know. Okay, okay. I like that.

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I'm so dirty. That's so funny. And then, okay,

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we've got the Magnum Party going on. What's this

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I hear about naughty in New Orleans? Yeah, yeah,

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naughty in New Orleans. Yeah, people hear about

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the plus one room. Probably know the chocolate

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room, but everybody knows the plus one room.

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That's where all the... the Black gentlemen are

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at. We hold it down, and I'm the leader of that.

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We make sure that there's quality men to service

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and uphold our standard and make sure that we

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please the women who are into us. So that event

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is in July. I don't know the exact dates off

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the top of my head, but it happens every year.

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And last year was a wonderful success. It was

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my first time running that, running that, doing

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the Hope and Forum for new couples who didn't

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know what it was all about. So they got interested

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and it was a very successful time. So I encourage

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you to come check that out as well. Besides Naughty,

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there's also Black the Cap, one of my favorite

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events that I do go to. I've been to it four

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times and I do host that as well. Another one

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of my brothers, my boy, Mr. East Coast out of

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Vegas. So yeah, Black the Cap, for those that

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don't know, it's in France. This year is the

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last week of August. It's a wonderful event.

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All -Naked City, lifestyle capital of the world,

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in my opinion. But don't just take my opinion.

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Come and check it out. I know there's a lot of

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brothers and sisters and couples that are going

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to be going this year because they've heard the

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hype and they want to jump on board. So if you

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need information on that, definitely hit me up.

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As well on that, it's a magnificent event. It

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will blow your mind how open the Europeans are

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as opposed to how we do things here in the U

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.S. of A. Yeah, refreshing, I'm sure. Oh, very

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refreshing. I want to ask a question about that

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couples class. How well attended, how well received

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was that? Tell us a little more about that. I

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think more events should adopt things like that.

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I haven't actually been to a class like that,

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but in talking in some of the ladies' chats and

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some other things, it just seems like that would

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be a good addition to many events, this orientation

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for couples on how to navigate, you know, in

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their interactions with the black gentleman.

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So that class, first of all, I didn't even want

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to do it. I mean, they said, hey, this is part

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of the assignment. And I'm like, I hate public

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speaking, but the best way to get comfortable

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is to get uncomfortable. So I did it last year

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and it became a little bit easier this year.

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But so for the class, it was very well attended.

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It was way more people than I expected. Before

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we had to move into a meeting room, like a conference

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room at the hotel. So I turned it into a panel.

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I discussed. Of course, like, the fetishization

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of single black men and how we are people, not

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just body parts. Talk about the different etiquettes

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whenever we come into a protest or whenever we

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come to rule, the expectations that, like, it's

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just like, just because somebody comes to the

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room doesn't mean we got to fuck them, right?

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Right. I understand that you may want me, but

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guess what? The two -way street. I got it. I'm

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in for it as well. Yeah, it's a two -way street

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and stuff like this. Some people have this. Some

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people had a misconception like, hey, this is

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because they're in there like auction. Like,

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I want this one. We ain't doing that shit. So,

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yes, it was a good educational system. And then

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also, I allowed them to ask the question that

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they had pondering in mind. And in that class,

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I say nothing is off limits. So I don't give

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a damn. What you got to say, say it. And the

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gentlemen that attend, they also were up there

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with me so that they weren't just getting my

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perspective on things, that they were able to

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get various different perspectives from different

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regions of men that do lifestyle in different

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places. So it was very educational for them,

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and it was very well attended. So I look forward

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to doing that again. Nice, nice. Well, let's

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talk about the interaction then between you and

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Socrates. Socrates, do you want to? He he he

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practically came running to the room. I don't

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know if I was napping, whatever. And he's like,

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oh, I just said someone spoke life into me and

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changed my life. And hallelujah. You know, so

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it was a whole thing, which my husband gets these

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these, you know, pivotal moments. We call them

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revelations where. Things just come together

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in his mind and then he understands them. And

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if anyone knows him, they know that he asks a

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lot of questions to get to these answers. But

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sometimes a conversation and just a couple of

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questions will get him there. really exciting

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it's like a little fast pass at disneyland or

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something so tell us about the conversation babe

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between you and goliath where were you at what

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was taking place just just go into that and then

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we can hear goliath's thoughts as well yeah yeah

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i can't wait so we gotta go way back to number

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one to add to this man's repertoire and all the

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things he does The reason why this came up is

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because he also heads up the glory hole and reverse

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glory hole room in Splash Mocha. So one of his

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many talents, which also happens to be Socrates'

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favorite place to be. I guarantee to find you

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in there. Yeah, so ladies, if you want to find

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it. My dick will be through the hole waiting

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for your lovely mouth. So what people don't know

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about me is I have ADHD as fuck and I am addicted

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to my calendar. Now, I don't run my calendar.

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My wife and my office manager do because that's

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how terrible I am at it. So but when I'm there,

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I own several businesses. We do these podcasts.

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I'm a very busy person. I sleep very little.

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And so I'm just building kind of like. Giving

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people the context of why this matters to me.

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And so I'm a very regimented person. And so the

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first time I went to Splash, you know, we've

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talked about this before. I went to this. I went

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there and I was I wasn't concerned about me because

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I didn't I didn't understand what Splash was.

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I was just thinking, OK, Siren's going to have

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a good time and I'm just going to be chilling,

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talking to other husbands and, you know, twiddling

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my thumbs. Right. And. Come to find out, oh,

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you know, I'm a black man and they're down for

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it. And so unbeknownst to me, my wife just said,

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screw it. I know what he needs. So they just

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started, she just started setting appointments.

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Well, the ladies kept asking me, like, can I

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get some time with your husband? And I was like.

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Well, the only way I know how to keep track of

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that is to go to Google Calendar. So, you know,

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it's my fault originally. And Saturday of that

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one, that wasn't the first splash, though. That

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was the second one. With the calendar stuff?

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Yeah, I didn't do it the first one. Oh, okay.

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Are you sure? Yes. I'm positive because I was

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much more comfortable with people the second

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one. People didn't approach that boldly the first

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time that we attended. And that was when your

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Achilles was ruptured and you were in the boot.

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yeah so so yeah so i made this count you know

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and it was basically i think by the time we started

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doing the calendar thing it was like friday and

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then saturday i had him booked back to back to

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back like i came in i brought him a cheeseburger

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i was like hey you about wrapping up here because

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you're and he's like yeah we're about done i

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was like when he's like when's my next appointment

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i said 10 minutes like i had this guy every hour

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on the hour with no breaks because I thought

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that's crazy I thought oh yeah like you know

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you know when you're with your partner and you

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just know exactly what to do and when to do it

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and so something that takes another person two

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hours to get to you can get to in 15 minutes

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so that timeline was in my head I'm like you

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know we like 10 15 to 30 minutes but when you're

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playing with someone else you're you're taking

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your time you know so I had him and then he never

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made it down to the party on Saturday night I

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left him. He's like, I'll be down in 20 minutes.

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I said, you're not coming down. I know you're

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not coming down. It's OK. When I came back up

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at 4 a .m., he was asleep on the bed with his

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clothes on, his whole bag, you know, around his

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shoulder. He thought he thought he was going

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to be a badass. No, but that's just that's how

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a lot of men. you know, operate. Oh yeah. I'm

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so ready for splash. And then they go hard. And

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then, you know, that's why everybody tell them

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it's a marathon, not a sprint. Yeah. We got guys

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here locally. They're like, I'm ready to go.

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I'm like, you're not ready. I said, if you can't

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make me tap out, you are not ready. So anyway,

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that's just the background. Like that's how crazy

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I was. And obviously that got, that got old quickly.

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And. A lot of women weren't down for that, which

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is fine. But so I tried it the other way and

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I got into a lot of trouble because, you know,

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women saying, oh, he's not paying attention or

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he's too busy. He's running all over the place.

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And I'm like, yeah, because my whole life is

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ran by calendar. So when I'm here, I'm on vacation.

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And most people, they're like, dude, I, you know,

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they're professionals. You know, they have jobs

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or they're business owners or parents, you know,

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active lives. And they're like. I do that shit

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outside of, you know, a hotel takeover or whatever

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I'm doing. I don't want to do that shit when

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I'm here, right? So it wasn't working for me.

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And I was pissing people off or, like, missing

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the people I wanted to or, you know, or didn't

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have enough time with the people I wanted to

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or, you know, whatever the situation is. And

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it wasn't working out for me. And from day one,

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everybody was saying, man, just go with the flow.

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And I tell you, I hated that statement. I don't

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go with the flow at nothing. Like, I used to

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surf. And I'm like, you can't go with the flow.

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You have to paddle your ass off to catch that

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thing. There's no such thing. I'm like, and even

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if I'm, you know, kayaking, because I like to

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do a lot of water sports things, I still ain't

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going with the flow. I'm not a go with the flow

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guy. And so it just drove me crazy. This was

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our eighth splash. Nothing was working. It was

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frustrating people and frustrating my wife. And,

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you know, people tell me all kind of reasons

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why you should go with the flow and why it works.

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And I just said, you know what? I said, the guy

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that I know sees the flow, he sees how the flow

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works, is Goliath. So I said, I'm going to go

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up to him and ask him about it. get his opinion

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and i was like and i'm just gonna let you go

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from there where i went but goliath but i was

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like hey you know i like to schedule i like to

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do this i like you know but i'm having some troubles

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what do you think and and he just said go with

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the flow and then i'll let you you know well

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it's some of that too babe that you really like

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to have things to look forward to yeah that are

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like a sure thing yeah that too exactly so it's

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like you know, sometimes just having things on

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the calendar, but Goliath and I had a great conversation

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via text today about it. And I think that was

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really, you know, a lot of what we're going to,

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we're going to get into. So. Yeah. So Goliath,

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break it down, break it down, you know, tell

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the, tell our listeners, you know, what you,

00:17:03.629 --> 00:17:05.890
the wisdom you broke down to me, brother. I mean,

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so like you, you came to me and you've told me

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like, you want, you want, you want things to

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be a certain way. Things have to go their way

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for you. And when things didn't go that way,

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you get frustrated. You think, if it didn't happen

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now in my time, it's never going to happen. So

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the opportunity is done with. And I'm like, man,

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no, you can't be like that. You just got to really

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go with the flow. And you gave me that same thing.

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Like, man, what do you mean by that? Like, everybody

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says that. But the thing is, going with the flow,

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the door is always open. Like, it's never shut.

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Things don't happen for various different reasons,

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whether it be the girl may have just got done

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with the play date, so the 2 o 'clock that you

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plan to have with her, she still wore out or

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still tired from the last one, and she needs

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a little more time. Maybe it was a stressful

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situation for her where she needs more time to

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decompress so that she can give you her full

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attention. Or maybe... Oh, she's actually hungry

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or she got, she got women problems. It could

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be numerous different things. You can't let that

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affect your psyche. It just, it just wasn't meant

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to happen right then and there. Just, just keep

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it pushing. And you've already expressed your

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interest. Like you said, you've expressed your

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interest already to them. And so that's already

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understood by them. Yeah. Go with the flow. Okay,

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go ahead. Well, I was just going to say, too,

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is a lot of times it's not the lack of interest.

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It's just the timing. And when we talked about

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it earlier today, I said, you know, the beauty

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of flow, not worrying about who you're going

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to play with and when. And then when it finally

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happens, it's super, super fun. It's like you

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and I have talked for how many splashes? Like,

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oh, yeah. Like, let's get together. I ain't worried

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about it. Eventually, when the time comes, the

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time comes. And we'll have a great time. But,

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you know, another thing too, Socrates, you say,

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we got to stop acting like we're not coming back

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to this. You know, we say that with Hawaii or

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anything else. It's like, if you don't get to

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experience everyone or everybody, oh, I missed

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your chance. No, you didn't. What if you didn't

00:19:11.599 --> 00:19:13.559
even see that person? You know, you didn't miss

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out on something that you didn't get to do. You

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know, there's going to be more. There's going

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to be more. And that's exactly it. Because, like,

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for me, like, for instance, I've been doing Splash,

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what, since 2019. And there's people that I've

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met since 2019 that we still ain't played yet.

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And we know the interest is there. But we in

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2025, six years, we haven't played yet. We got

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great chemistry. We chat it up all the time.

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We see each other. But just things just haven't

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lined up for various reasons. But there's no

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love lost when you're able to talk. And there's

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others where I've met in a short period of time

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where the opportunities come, we don't play.

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And it was great. It's all about organic timing.

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So I always say this. I say this shit all the

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time. And I'm not saying this is you, Socrates.

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I'm never pressed for pussy. Pussy is always

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going to be there. It's always going to be available.

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Amen. I know with Splash, it's a hypersexual

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time. There are some people that make lists.

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okay i want to be able to i want to be able to

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connect with this person this time like like

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this is a high priority mission for me or whatever

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so you won't put your all in to try to make that

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happen but sometimes it's just not meant to be

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but guess what the door is always open i i would

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say that like there's one one situation there's

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one lady that i'm very very very highly of I

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think very highly of her. We made interest known,

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I think, back in 2022. And we kept on missing

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each other. One time, I just finished playing.

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She was trying to come. We see each other in

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passing. I'm like, oh, this is going to be the

00:21:00.819 --> 00:21:02.559
time. I'm like, I just got done playing. I got

00:21:02.559 --> 00:21:05.559
to go freshen up. I come back. I see her. She's

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going with another guy. I'm like, hey, go do

00:21:07.420 --> 00:21:10.980
your damn thing. Say have fun. And that happened,

00:21:11.039 --> 00:21:13.240
like, at two or three different events back to

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back. I mean, it was a slow burn, but guess what?

00:21:16.240 --> 00:21:18.440
It built that anticipation. Like, hey, whenever

00:21:18.440 --> 00:21:20.980
we get our time together, this is going to be

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fucking magical. So one time she come down there

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to the Red Story Hall room. She come down there.

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She gave me her kiss like she usually do and

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stuff like that. She gave me that look. Like,

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when is this going to happen? And me being horny

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at the time and the room wasn't really as busy.

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Shit, my ass looked around. I told one of the

00:21:48.210 --> 00:21:50.789
homies, I said, hey, man, I'm about to shut this

00:21:50.789 --> 00:21:52.829
damn door. Just stand outside the door. And if

00:21:52.829 --> 00:21:56.190
anybody asks, it's some construction going on

00:21:56.190 --> 00:21:58.069
in here. Things will be open whenever they be

00:21:58.069 --> 00:22:00.549
back open again and shit like that. So, yeah,

00:22:00.650 --> 00:22:03.210
I kicked everybody the fuck out. And shit, me

00:22:03.210 --> 00:22:06.490
and her had our very first session in the playroom.

00:22:07.029 --> 00:22:10.589
And that shit was fucking magical as shit. I

00:22:10.589 --> 00:22:14.690
mean. I prefer it than one of our rooms because

00:22:14.690 --> 00:22:17.849
the beds are more comfortable. But we had a fucking

00:22:17.849 --> 00:22:22.569
fantastic time. And that was, it was everything.

00:22:22.869 --> 00:22:26.970
And I enjoyed it very much. We both equally enjoyed

00:22:26.970 --> 00:22:29.869
it. It was like, damn, that weight, it was all

00:22:29.869 --> 00:22:32.210
well worth it and stuff like that. So sometimes

00:22:32.210 --> 00:22:34.410
you just got to, hey, just go with the flow and

00:22:34.410 --> 00:22:37.029
shit going to work out for you. And you even

00:22:37.029 --> 00:22:40.539
gave me a scenario to tell me about the... Tell

00:22:40.539 --> 00:22:43.539
me about the dance situation, Socrates. The what

00:22:43.539 --> 00:22:45.880
situation? Whenever you were dancing with somebody's

00:22:45.880 --> 00:22:48.839
friend on the dance floor, and you said you had

00:22:48.839 --> 00:22:53.480
tried to talk to one of her friends, and you

00:22:53.480 --> 00:22:57.579
thought there was no interest. She saw you dancing

00:22:57.579 --> 00:23:01.079
with her friend. Exactly. And guess what? You

00:23:01.079 --> 00:23:03.799
end up getting somebody that you wanted just

00:23:03.799 --> 00:23:07.839
on the flow shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I remember

00:23:07.839 --> 00:23:10.809
that. Yep. That one was nice. So, so, so that,

00:23:10.849 --> 00:23:13.609
so that right there was a perfect, a perfect,

00:23:13.670 --> 00:23:16.730
you know, the damn word I want to use. Example.

00:23:16.730 --> 00:23:18.670
That's a basic word, but perfect example of how

00:23:18.670 --> 00:23:21.109
that shit works out for you. Well, and I'm like,

00:23:21.190 --> 00:23:22.849
I was telling you earlier on the text too. It's

00:23:22.849 --> 00:23:25.730
like, I ran buck wild for many a splashes. And

00:23:25.730 --> 00:23:28.829
then I just started being, I think it was Atlanta

00:23:28.829 --> 00:23:33.990
last year. Yeah. So 2024 that I had like 17 appointments

00:23:33.990 --> 00:23:37.289
booked before I even got there. And then I got

00:23:37.289 --> 00:23:40.339
there. And then I got through a few of them.

00:23:41.019 --> 00:23:45.279
But then I met someone like Thursday night. And

00:23:45.279 --> 00:23:47.099
then I ended up playing with him like six or

00:23:47.099 --> 00:23:49.940
seven times. Had to cancel all my damn appointments.

00:23:50.039 --> 00:23:53.319
So, you know. And after that I was like, I'm

00:23:53.319 --> 00:23:55.880
not doing this appointment shit anymore. Because

00:23:55.880 --> 00:23:59.960
I hated canceling on the other people. But I

00:23:59.960 --> 00:24:03.839
was like, I want to be where I want to be with

00:24:03.839 --> 00:24:06.359
who I want to be. And then. in fort lauderdale

00:24:06.359 --> 00:24:09.259
this year before that one i was like you know

00:24:09.259 --> 00:24:11.960
what i'm just going to make sure that i am with

00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:15.779
who i want to be with where i want to be doing

00:24:15.779 --> 00:24:18.640
what i want to be doing at all times and if i

00:24:18.640 --> 00:24:21.740
adopt that motto then i'm going to have a great

00:24:21.740 --> 00:24:25.480
time so this you know this splash i wasn't feeling

00:24:25.480 --> 00:24:29.019
as good so there was a lot of times that you

00:24:29.019 --> 00:24:30.480
know i'm sitting with a group of people they're

00:24:30.480 --> 00:24:34.160
talking My energy's low. I'm not really comprehending

00:24:34.160 --> 00:24:35.859
what they're talking about anyway because I don't

00:24:35.859 --> 00:24:37.880
feel great. And I'm just like, you know what?

00:24:37.900 --> 00:24:39.400
I'm just going to go to the room. I'm going to

00:24:39.400 --> 00:24:41.779
go to the room and rest. You know, Socrates ran

00:24:41.779 --> 00:24:43.819
after me a couple times like, you okay? You okay?

00:24:44.079 --> 00:24:45.880
I'm like, I just don't feel good. I was like,

00:24:45.920 --> 00:24:48.099
nobody's pissing me off. I'm not mad. I'm not

00:24:48.099 --> 00:24:50.880
upset. You know, I just don't want to be here

00:24:50.880 --> 00:24:53.500
right now. So I should go to bed. Save my energy.

00:24:53.700 --> 00:24:56.119
So, you know, if you really think about those

00:24:56.119 --> 00:24:58.799
three things, then you really can't go wrong.

00:24:59.369 --> 00:25:02.369
you know, and cause that is the definition of

00:25:02.369 --> 00:25:05.289
flow is just, Hey, if right now in this space,

00:25:05.490 --> 00:25:07.490
you're not enjoying yourself, switch things up,

00:25:07.529 --> 00:25:10.670
do something different. But you know, I didn't,

00:25:10.670 --> 00:25:14.329
I didn't chase down anybody or, you know, feel

00:25:14.329 --> 00:25:17.289
FOMO or anything like that. Cause I was just

00:25:17.289 --> 00:25:20.230
being present at all times. I wasn't worried

00:25:20.230 --> 00:25:21.769
about what I was doing in the next half hour.

00:25:21.869 --> 00:25:27.279
So yeah, I love that. Being present is always

00:25:27.279 --> 00:25:29.660
definitely being part of the flow. And so I want

00:25:29.660 --> 00:25:32.819
to piggyback on that. So Siren gave her definition

00:25:32.819 --> 00:25:35.559
of flow, which I think is brilliant. Goliath,

00:25:35.619 --> 00:25:39.660
what is your definition of flow? What is flow

00:25:39.660 --> 00:25:43.960
to you? What is flow to me? It really embodies

00:25:43.960 --> 00:25:47.500
who I am. I mean, I'm really just living in the

00:25:47.500 --> 00:25:51.259
moment. Like, there's no, especially at an event,

00:25:51.359 --> 00:25:55.829
like, there's no set thing. That I have to do.

00:25:55.970 --> 00:25:59.049
There's no set person I have to be with. Besides

00:25:59.049 --> 00:26:02.410
me running the room. I literally do whatever

00:26:02.410 --> 00:26:05.390
the fuck I want to do. And can't nobody. Can't

00:26:05.390 --> 00:26:09.849
nobody shake me from that. Like. If I want. Like

00:26:09.849 --> 00:26:12.190
she said. If I want to go fuck this person for

00:26:12.190 --> 00:26:14.710
two hours. And then take me a nap afterwards.

00:26:15.589 --> 00:26:17.470
I'll be totally fine with that. And won't get

00:26:17.470 --> 00:26:19.049
too fucked when anybody else thinks about it.

00:26:19.430 --> 00:26:21.630
Because that's what I want to do. I'm doing what

00:26:21.630 --> 00:26:27.519
I enjoy. Not because. Damn, I got to go to this

00:26:27.519 --> 00:26:29.779
person's room at 5 o 'clock or they have this

00:26:29.779 --> 00:26:33.700
room party here at 2 .30. Shit, I got somebody,

00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:36.180
I'm with somebody right now. Do I want to cut

00:26:36.180 --> 00:26:40.059
things short? Nah, I'm enjoying my time with

00:26:40.059 --> 00:26:43.000
who I'm enjoying it with. And if it's mutually

00:26:43.000 --> 00:26:45.230
there. That's what I'm doing. Or if I just want

00:26:45.230 --> 00:26:48.170
to just be on my fucking shelf and take me a

00:26:48.170 --> 00:26:51.369
nap and watch a college football game or just

00:26:51.369 --> 00:26:53.849
be on my phone scrolling, I have the right to

00:26:53.849 --> 00:26:56.349
do all that. I mean, I'm just doing whatever

00:26:56.349 --> 00:26:58.970
that I want to do with no obligation. I think

00:26:58.970 --> 00:27:01.170
that's what flow is. And just letting things

00:27:01.170 --> 00:27:07.009
happen organically. So, you know me, I'm a very

00:27:07.009 --> 00:27:10.460
tactile person. Like everything... has to make

00:27:10.460 --> 00:27:13.799
sense for me, not because of insecurities. I

00:27:13.799 --> 00:27:15.940
think a lot of, like you said, I'm not pressed

00:27:15.940 --> 00:27:17.680
for pussy either. Like before I got into the

00:27:17.680 --> 00:27:21.079
lifestyle, my numbers was high and there was

00:27:21.079 --> 00:27:22.519
no problem. There's never been a problem getting

00:27:22.519 --> 00:27:25.460
pussy in my life since I was 12. Okay. Okay.

00:27:25.599 --> 00:27:29.640
But you know, I mean, my first, I think it was

00:27:29.640 --> 00:27:32.140
the second splash. We celebrated a number out

00:27:32.140 --> 00:27:34.740
there. Like I reached incredibly high number

00:27:34.740 --> 00:27:37.980
of splash. And that was a big thing that siren

00:27:37.980 --> 00:27:40.460
did. So it was never about being pressed for

00:27:40.460 --> 00:27:44.819
it. It was always about, I am so out of sorts

00:27:44.819 --> 00:27:49.200
when I don't know the next thing I can look forward

00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:52.539
to where I'm going. So it's hard for me. It was

00:27:52.539 --> 00:27:59.160
hard for me to grasp what I wanted to do next.

00:27:59.279 --> 00:28:02.440
If it's nothing on the calendar to tell me, cause

00:28:02.440 --> 00:28:05.170
I'm not putting stuff on the calendar. That everybody

00:28:05.170 --> 00:28:08.190
else wants me to do. I have people like my wife

00:28:08.190 --> 00:28:12.730
and my office manager. I pay her to put things

00:28:12.730 --> 00:28:14.950
that I say, this is the things I want to do with

00:28:14.950 --> 00:28:18.130
my life. Right. So, but I said all that to say

00:28:18.130 --> 00:28:21.430
this, what you said to me blew me away, which

00:28:21.430 --> 00:28:24.309
is at least always leaves the door open because

00:28:24.309 --> 00:28:27.309
the reason, the thing I've told this story before,

00:28:27.390 --> 00:28:30.809
and if you know who you are, like, I want you

00:28:30.809 --> 00:28:33.329
to know that cause she goes to splash all the

00:28:33.329 --> 00:28:37.990
time. that I respect you even more now. I love

00:28:37.990 --> 00:28:40.890
it. It wasn't out of problem. This woman didn't

00:28:40.890 --> 00:28:43.369
do anything wrong. And I think I talked about

00:28:43.369 --> 00:28:47.769
it in our episode when we were at Splash. And

00:28:47.769 --> 00:28:50.990
I said, look. So I went in and I saw her. And

00:28:50.990 --> 00:28:54.150
I'm this type of person where it's all about

00:28:54.150 --> 00:28:57.710
chemistry and vibe to me. All about that. And

00:28:57.710 --> 00:29:00.049
I get teased because I'll play with some women

00:29:00.049 --> 00:29:01.910
that some guys are like, they got on the ugly

00:29:01.910 --> 00:29:04.779
still. And I'll play with some or I'll interact

00:29:04.779 --> 00:29:09.359
with some really hot women. And they'll be like,

00:29:09.440 --> 00:29:12.500
I won't be interested because the vibes is not

00:29:12.500 --> 00:29:15.900
there. That's just me. Some guys go off looks.

00:29:16.019 --> 00:29:17.680
It's no problem. I don't care about that. Some

00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:20.359
guys go off whatever they own. That's my thing.

00:29:20.880 --> 00:29:26.259
I don't care. So, but when, but so I saw this

00:29:26.259 --> 00:29:32.759
girl and I rarely catch a vibe with looks. I'm

00:29:32.759 --> 00:29:34.819
rarely like, oh, love at first sight type of

00:29:34.819 --> 00:29:37.380
person. I'm rarely like, I can look at a woman

00:29:37.380 --> 00:29:39.759
and be like, oh, she's hot. But the vibe's not

00:29:39.759 --> 00:29:42.039
there because I don't know her, right? There's

00:29:42.039 --> 00:29:44.980
no vibe there. She's just attractive. But then

00:29:44.980 --> 00:29:47.319
there's this one woman I saw and I said, not

00:29:47.319 --> 00:29:50.259
only is she hot, I'm just vibing off or just

00:29:50.259 --> 00:29:54.480
watching her, right? So then, boom, that happens.

00:29:54.660 --> 00:29:57.539
Now, a lot of times, majority of the time, I'll

00:29:57.539 --> 00:30:00.299
meet a woman and then the vibe comes around.

00:30:00.890 --> 00:30:03.450
And then there's the attraction, right? And it

00:30:03.450 --> 00:30:05.309
has nothing to do with her looks. Now, I have

00:30:05.309 --> 00:30:09.369
a preference. We all do. But I'm like that. So

00:30:09.369 --> 00:30:13.849
the reason why I was so obsessed with it because

00:30:13.849 --> 00:30:17.490
I was like, I rarely get women that I'm like,

00:30:17.630 --> 00:30:19.869
oh, I'm vibing with her and I haven't even talked

00:30:19.869 --> 00:30:22.549
to her yet. Right? And she was her. So I went

00:30:22.549 --> 00:30:24.829
up to her and I was like, okay, I'm going to

00:30:24.829 --> 00:30:27.509
talk to her. And I did. And I was like. We had

00:30:27.509 --> 00:30:29.710
a great conversation. And eventually I'm like,

00:30:29.829 --> 00:30:32.390
you know, so, you know, if you don't mind, you

00:30:32.390 --> 00:30:34.150
know, if you're interested, I'd love to play.

00:30:34.349 --> 00:30:38.329
And she was like, yeah. And then I can't remember

00:30:38.329 --> 00:30:42.069
what she said. She was like, I said it a lot

00:30:42.069 --> 00:30:44.009
in the last episode. But what was she saying?

00:30:44.049 --> 00:30:46.269
She was like, yeah, let's catch each other later

00:30:46.269 --> 00:30:49.230
or something like that. And so we're business

00:30:49.230 --> 00:30:51.710
owners. And one of the things that me and Siren

00:30:51.710 --> 00:30:54.410
say to each other all the time is fortune is

00:30:54.410 --> 00:30:57.039
in the follow up. And so I was like, okay, bet.

00:30:57.400 --> 00:31:00.200
I'll follow up with her, right? Saw her the next

00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:04.119
day. Hey, how's it doing? You know, get a chance,

00:31:04.220 --> 00:31:06.160
you know. What do you say about 2 o 'clock? I'd

00:31:06.160 --> 00:31:08.259
love to. Yeah, you know, right now I'm doing

00:31:08.259 --> 00:31:11.140
this. You know, let's do it later, you know.

00:31:11.440 --> 00:31:13.839
Something, I can't. She kept saying the same

00:31:13.839 --> 00:31:16.640
thing every time. And she was like, yeah, let's

00:31:16.640 --> 00:31:19.460
catch up later. And I was like, okay. Followed

00:31:19.460 --> 00:31:22.259
up the next day. Yeah. You know when I gave up,

00:31:22.279 --> 00:31:26.190
Goliath? It was the last day she said it. I was

00:31:26.190 --> 00:31:28.450
like the third or fourth day. And I was like,

00:31:28.529 --> 00:31:31.250
yeah, you know, next time. You know, I'd love

00:31:31.250 --> 00:31:34.730
to. She says, yeah, you know, maybe sometime

00:31:34.730 --> 00:31:39.049
later. And I was like, oh, I get it. Now, I thought

00:31:39.049 --> 00:31:41.470
that meant, here's the crazy thing. I thought

00:31:41.470 --> 00:31:43.910
that meant she wasn't interested. No problem.

00:31:43.990 --> 00:31:46.210
Women say that all the time. A few slashes later,

00:31:46.430 --> 00:31:48.650
I'm in a room party, like you said. And this

00:31:48.650 --> 00:31:51.009
proved your point. But I didn't understand it

00:31:51.009 --> 00:31:53.799
at the time. I'm in a room party. And I'm just

00:31:53.799 --> 00:31:57.039
doing my thing. She comes in, and I just love

00:31:57.039 --> 00:31:59.720
her style. She just comes in, and she just has

00:31:59.720 --> 00:32:03.059
this type of swag to her. And she just said a

00:32:03.059 --> 00:32:06.839
few things, took her clothes off, and went wild

00:32:06.839 --> 00:32:09.720
on me. And I was like, what the? And we had a

00:32:09.720 --> 00:32:12.160
great time, and then she moved on to whatever

00:32:12.160 --> 00:32:14.799
she was doing. Now, I didn't see what you said

00:32:14.799 --> 00:32:18.579
at that time. I was like, what the? I was so

00:32:18.579 --> 00:32:23.039
confused. I was all over the place. Because you

00:32:23.039 --> 00:32:25.140
were thinking with your actual brain and that

00:32:25.140 --> 00:32:27.019
was the time that you were supposed to be thinking

00:32:27.019 --> 00:32:30.059
with your dick. I'm just thinking with my dick.

00:32:30.059 --> 00:32:32.160
That was when you were supposed to shut your

00:32:32.160 --> 00:32:34.819
mind off and think with your dick. And you need

00:32:34.819 --> 00:32:37.160
to get that said. He's thinking too much with

00:32:37.160 --> 00:32:39.500
his brain at Splash. Maybe that's why you need

00:32:39.500 --> 00:32:42.529
that calm down period. Come into Splash. Don't

00:32:42.529 --> 00:32:45.509
think with your brain so much. Well, so the reason

00:32:45.509 --> 00:32:48.390
why I said all that, guys, is because when he

00:32:48.390 --> 00:32:52.710
said that, I didn't have something to hold on

00:32:52.710 --> 00:32:56.990
to. And I had an instance when I followed up

00:32:56.990 --> 00:32:59.849
with someone and it made me feel like she was

00:32:59.849 --> 00:33:03.450
just trying to reject me. But now, if I don't

00:33:03.450 --> 00:33:07.150
have a schedule, what he said was, it leaves

00:33:07.150 --> 00:33:11.240
the door open. So my mind easily said, oh. Then

00:33:11.240 --> 00:33:14.579
every time you talk to somebody, talk to them

00:33:14.579 --> 00:33:19.259
with the goal in mind of opening the door. And

00:33:19.259 --> 00:33:22.039
when the door is open, I make sure that every

00:33:22.039 --> 00:33:26.259
interaction says that door is wide open. Right?

00:33:26.460 --> 00:33:29.720
It could be I'm not attracted to him. He's not

00:33:29.720 --> 00:33:32.279
my type. But he's really cool. And I enjoy his

00:33:32.279 --> 00:33:34.279
podcast. Or they don't even know I have a podcast.

00:33:34.359 --> 00:33:36.880
He's really dressed nice. I like what he dresses.

00:33:36.980 --> 00:33:41.190
Whatever the case may be. You know, or. We played

00:33:41.190 --> 00:33:44.650
and she was like, it's so amazing. I hope I get

00:33:44.650 --> 00:33:47.210
to play when I'm getting, whatever it is. If

00:33:47.210 --> 00:33:51.970
now that my, my brain grasped on every internet,

00:33:52.049 --> 00:33:56.650
every interaction with that person, I'm doing

00:33:56.650 --> 00:33:59.829
everything I can to be my most authentic self.

00:34:00.009 --> 00:34:03.230
And then, so now all I need to do is just make

00:34:03.230 --> 00:34:05.250
sure that I do my best to keep that door open.

00:34:05.329 --> 00:34:09.070
And that changed everything. Like it changed

00:34:09.070 --> 00:34:13.449
my, All my demeanor about everything. Yeah. I'm

00:34:13.449 --> 00:34:16.150
glad I was able to instill that wisdom into you

00:34:16.150 --> 00:34:21.019
so that you can apply that. And so other aspects.

00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:25.059
That takes away my stress. Tell me why. Because

00:34:25.059 --> 00:34:27.460
you fucking stressed me out at Splash with this.

00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:31.000
You know, your nickname. That was during sex.

00:34:31.219 --> 00:34:33.800
Those noises were during sex. No, your nickname

00:34:33.800 --> 00:34:37.000
is Squirrel, right? The ladies call you that,

00:34:37.119 --> 00:34:40.099
okay? So if you are going to go with this new

00:34:40.099 --> 00:34:43.059
mantra, like that's really going to help everybody.

00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:45.360
that is like, okay, well, when's he going to

00:34:45.360 --> 00:34:47.500
dart off next? But if you're just trying to like

00:34:47.500 --> 00:34:50.239
pay attention and be present and be in the moment,

00:34:50.300 --> 00:34:52.960
like I told you about Fort Lauderdale, like you

00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:56.699
navigated that perfectly. And then this one,

00:34:56.719 --> 00:34:58.019
you know, I wasn't feeling good. So I wasn't

00:34:58.019 --> 00:34:59.559
around you. You know what I mean? So it just

00:34:59.559 --> 00:35:01.860
grows from there. But every time you like get

00:35:01.860 --> 00:35:05.199
a new piece of the puzzle for what works for

00:35:05.199 --> 00:35:07.920
you, you know, that just makes you more attractive

00:35:07.920 --> 00:35:10.639
and it makes more women come to you, you know?

00:35:11.230 --> 00:35:13.630
Like we were in Fort Lauderdale. We were, we

00:35:13.630 --> 00:35:16.369
had talked about, you know, just chilling a little

00:35:16.369 --> 00:35:20.590
bit more and we were in the pool and it was on,

00:35:20.849 --> 00:35:24.309
I think it was Thursday during the day, you know,

00:35:24.309 --> 00:35:25.949
before we took over. Or maybe it was on Wednesday

00:35:25.949 --> 00:35:29.289
because we usually come in on Tuesdays and we're

00:35:29.289 --> 00:35:32.110
crazy. So we were, we were chilling. He had,

00:35:32.190 --> 00:35:33.909
you know, I wasn't with him. He had the attention

00:35:33.909 --> 00:35:36.269
of three lovely ladies when one of his favorites

00:35:36.269 --> 00:35:39.909
walked in and I just. kind of went up beside

00:35:39.909 --> 00:35:43.409
him and i said remember dick daddy like you are

00:35:43.409 --> 00:35:47.170
already here with these three ladies and me she

00:35:47.170 --> 00:35:52.340
will come to us and say hello i was like just

00:35:52.340 --> 00:35:55.199
stay here don't start twitching or nothing like

00:35:55.199 --> 00:35:58.440
just just chill and he did and guess what she

00:35:58.440 --> 00:36:01.420
got her towel settled her husband settled the

00:36:01.420 --> 00:36:03.380
whole thing and then she came right over and

00:36:03.380 --> 00:36:05.880
joined us right so you got to have the company

00:36:05.880 --> 00:36:10.079
of four ladies plus your wife you know so just

00:36:10.079 --> 00:36:12.039
little things like that of seeing how it does

00:36:12.039 --> 00:36:15.139
work when you just breathe and are in the moment

00:36:15.139 --> 00:36:18.559
like that so just more things to add to his understanding

00:36:18.559 --> 00:36:23.199
just help him to you know to understand you know

00:36:23.199 --> 00:36:29.690
understand Yeah, and I couldn't be around him

00:36:29.690 --> 00:36:32.170
at this last one, so sorry, ladies, if I was

00:36:32.170 --> 00:36:34.969
just not feeling well. But the ladies took good

00:36:34.969 --> 00:36:38.670
care of him. I heard some feedback. I was like,

00:36:38.789 --> 00:36:42.309
go, release the hound. But what night was that

00:36:42.309 --> 00:36:44.650
that you talked to Goliath then? And how, tell

00:36:44.650 --> 00:36:46.989
us the difference between before you talked to

00:36:46.989 --> 00:36:49.610
him and after at that splash. Oh yeah. I mean,

00:36:49.610 --> 00:36:51.690
and like, how did you navigate the remainder?

00:36:51.849 --> 00:36:54.110
You got that advice. So to answer the first,

00:36:54.130 --> 00:36:57.570
the first part before it kind of, and to address

00:36:57.570 --> 00:36:59.710
some of the things you said before, like I'm

00:36:59.710 --> 00:37:02.789
not like, if I'm in front of you talking to you,

00:37:02.849 --> 00:37:05.849
I'm really interested in you, but I, you know,

00:37:05.849 --> 00:37:09.110
I, I'm not the type of person that can hear X,

00:37:09.190 --> 00:37:12.550
Y, and Z behind me and not look and hear somebody

00:37:12.550 --> 00:37:15.510
else. Know somebody, see somebody walk by that

00:37:15.510 --> 00:37:20.030
I know really well and not say hello or smell

00:37:20.030 --> 00:37:22.429
some really good food and not be curious. And

00:37:22.429 --> 00:37:26.309
so if that's all of these things going on, some

00:37:26.309 --> 00:37:28.869
of you guys call it overwhelmed. You know, like

00:37:28.869 --> 00:37:30.730
a lot of people say, oh, I just got overwhelmed

00:37:30.730 --> 00:37:34.050
because you have all these sensations. Overstimulated.

00:37:34.050 --> 00:37:36.769
Or overstimulated. I don't get overstimulated.

00:37:36.769 --> 00:37:41.070
I just get extra curious. So when everybody else

00:37:41.070 --> 00:37:44.389
gets overstimulated or nervous or the situation

00:37:44.389 --> 00:37:47.389
is too big for them, I just get more curious

00:37:47.389 --> 00:37:49.929
and more curious and more curious. And sometimes

00:37:49.929 --> 00:37:53.989
I'm supposed to be focused on the person in front

00:37:53.989 --> 00:37:56.869
of me. It doesn't mean I'm not fully in what

00:37:56.869 --> 00:38:00.150
they're saying because my brain is so crazy.

00:38:00.429 --> 00:38:04.150
I'm processing all of that. Body is responding

00:38:04.150 --> 00:38:06.429
to looking over here, thinking this way, moving,

00:38:06.550 --> 00:38:09.469
shifting. But now what this does is it gives

00:38:09.469 --> 00:38:13.269
me a goal. And that's all I needed. I wasn't

00:38:13.269 --> 00:38:15.530
a squirrel. I wasn't all that other stuff. I

00:38:15.530 --> 00:38:17.670
didn't have a goal. Because if you think about

00:38:17.670 --> 00:38:20.449
that splash, you don't think about the splash

00:38:20.449 --> 00:38:22.639
that I had all the appointments. I was chilled

00:38:22.639 --> 00:38:25.059
as fuck. You don't remember that, Siren, because

00:38:25.059 --> 00:38:28.019
you were having the time of your life. Because

00:38:28.019 --> 00:38:30.599
the first one, you were so nervous. And the second

00:38:30.599 --> 00:38:32.000
one, you were right. I think it was the second

00:38:32.000 --> 00:38:34.400
one. You went crazy because you were like, oh,

00:38:34.420 --> 00:38:37.280
shit, this is for reals. But I was chilled as

00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:40.739
fuck. Because why? I got a 2 o 'clock. So I go

00:38:40.739 --> 00:38:42.340
get my lunch. I'll take care of you. I got to

00:38:42.340 --> 00:38:44.619
do this. And I'm excited about the 2 o 'clock.

00:38:44.760 --> 00:38:49.059
None of the women, like, I'm not. I'm not the

00:38:49.059 --> 00:38:50.420
type of person, well, let's see what happens.

00:38:50.500 --> 00:38:53.239
No, if I see you, if I'm attracted to you, well,

00:38:53.300 --> 00:38:56.260
then I'm kind of, I'm the bull. I like to take

00:38:56.260 --> 00:38:58.019
leadership. I'm going to, we're going to send

00:38:58.019 --> 00:38:59.519
each other through the process. Now, it's not

00:38:59.519 --> 00:39:03.579
like every single time's perfection and, you

00:39:03.579 --> 00:39:08.280
know, the sun's coming out and fireworks are

00:39:08.280 --> 00:39:10.400
going off. I'm not saying that, but I was cool

00:39:10.400 --> 00:39:12.019
as fuck because I had something to grab hold

00:39:12.019 --> 00:39:14.750
to. If I don't have a player point. Then I'm

00:39:14.750 --> 00:39:17.030
going with my, me and my wife have routines.

00:39:17.230 --> 00:39:19.329
We get up in the morning. We go to breakfast

00:39:19.329 --> 00:39:22.690
together. Then we go, then, you know, then we

00:39:22.690 --> 00:39:24.610
have do whatever in between. Then we have lunch.

00:39:24.769 --> 00:39:27.829
We reconnect, you know. Then we do everything

00:39:27.829 --> 00:39:30.530
in between. And then we go down at night. And

00:39:30.530 --> 00:39:33.349
then we have our outfits. And we do the walk.

00:39:33.489 --> 00:39:35.710
I'm terrible at the walk because I'm ADHD as

00:39:35.710 --> 00:39:37.230
fuck. But, you know what I mean? We're supposed

00:39:37.230 --> 00:39:41.150
to walk and not be distracted. And I'm terrible

00:39:41.150 --> 00:39:46.340
at that. I knew in between those things, I had

00:39:46.340 --> 00:39:50.179
my play dates. And then after 10, it's the play

00:39:50.179 --> 00:39:54.000
rooms. And before this last one, I stopped. I

00:39:54.000 --> 00:39:55.699
had decided before I came, I'm not going to do

00:39:55.699 --> 00:39:58.739
the play rooms this time. As much. Besides the

00:39:58.739 --> 00:40:00.280
Glory Hill room. So I'm not going to do all the

00:40:00.280 --> 00:40:02.340
other rooms. I used to do almost all of them

00:40:02.340 --> 00:40:04.159
because I loved them all. And I decided, okay,

00:40:04.219 --> 00:40:07.800
so we do all that. Everything was planned out.

00:40:07.920 --> 00:40:10.119
If after 10, I'm going to walk through all the

00:40:10.119 --> 00:40:13.949
rooms. I'm going to get lucky. And then if I

00:40:13.949 --> 00:40:15.530
could take them up to a room, I will because

00:40:15.530 --> 00:40:18.969
I like the one -on -ones. And then every other

00:40:18.969 --> 00:40:21.829
time, glory hole. So glory hole, then walk around,

00:40:22.110 --> 00:40:25.250
get lucky maybe, check on my wife, talk to the

00:40:25.250 --> 00:40:29.110
friends. Glory hole, walk around, play, talk

00:40:29.110 --> 00:40:31.130
to some friends, use the bathroom, check on my

00:40:31.130 --> 00:40:35.170
wife. Glory hole, walk around. I'm not going

00:40:35.170 --> 00:40:37.309
to lie. I love it. This is what's going on. Yeah.

00:40:38.409 --> 00:40:41.309
The thing that revolutionized me is now I have

00:40:41.309 --> 00:40:43.269
something to hold on to in front of everybody.

00:40:43.429 --> 00:40:47.469
I don't care who it is, if it's staff, if it's

00:40:47.469 --> 00:40:52.429
hotel staff, if it's my best friend, if it's

00:40:52.429 --> 00:40:55.789
my wife, if it's a play partner, if it's a stranger

00:40:55.789 --> 00:40:59.190
off the street, I know, okay, I'm leaving the

00:40:59.190 --> 00:41:03.389
door open. So from Thursday to Saturday night,

00:41:03.510 --> 00:41:06.429
I'm leaving the door open. And that helped me

00:41:06.429 --> 00:41:09.579
tremendously. Helps calm me down so I can be

00:41:09.579 --> 00:41:11.039
like, I don't worry about the food over there.

00:41:11.099 --> 00:41:12.519
I'm leaving the door open in front of this woman.

00:41:12.800 --> 00:41:14.840
I don't worry about my friend who already have

00:41:14.840 --> 00:41:17.460
a door open that's walking by. That door is open

00:41:17.460 --> 00:41:19.860
already. I'm working on this door being open

00:41:19.860 --> 00:41:23.639
with this person. And I don't care about, okay,

00:41:23.719 --> 00:41:25.820
I checked my watch. I got plenty of time for

00:41:25.820 --> 00:41:27.880
the episode, you know, because we're podcasting.

00:41:28.139 --> 00:41:30.539
We're doing, you know, I'm on other people's

00:41:30.539 --> 00:41:33.420
podcast. You know, so I'm like, I'm not worried

00:41:33.420 --> 00:41:35.079
about that because while I'm in front of this

00:41:35.079 --> 00:41:37.489
person, I'm opening their door. And then. Once

00:41:37.489 --> 00:41:39.670
I need to leave because my wife's calling me

00:41:39.670 --> 00:41:42.409
or I have an appointment or I need to go, whatever,

00:41:42.590 --> 00:41:47.610
then I can end that conversation. Hopefully the

00:41:47.610 --> 00:41:51.190
door was made wider or opened or whatever. That's

00:41:51.190 --> 00:41:53.809
revolutionary for me because that's what I needed

00:41:53.809 --> 00:41:56.110
to hold on to. But I also think, and I want you

00:41:56.110 --> 00:41:58.889
guys to talk about this, I think it helps a lot

00:41:58.889 --> 00:42:01.349
of other people for a lot of other reasons. I

00:42:01.349 --> 00:42:03.989
just can't imagine them because I want my listeners

00:42:03.989 --> 00:42:05.730
to maybe think about some of them because...

00:42:06.319 --> 00:42:08.980
That's all I helped. It was like it helped this

00:42:08.980 --> 00:42:10.820
big problem, and that's it. But I'm sure there's

00:42:10.820 --> 00:42:13.139
other benefits to doing that. To going with the

00:42:13.139 --> 00:42:15.840
flow? Well, just the mentality of leaving the

00:42:15.840 --> 00:42:20.059
door open. Always going with the flow, but always

00:42:20.059 --> 00:42:23.500
leaving the door open for interactions with people.

00:42:23.639 --> 00:42:25.559
I think that would really help a lot of other

00:42:25.559 --> 00:42:28.199
people. I think people don't talk to certain

00:42:28.199 --> 00:42:31.780
people because maybe they're not interested.

00:42:32.059 --> 00:42:34.860
Well, what if you just left the door open? and

00:42:34.860 --> 00:42:36.980
had a conversation with somebody, and next thing

00:42:36.980 --> 00:42:38.320
you know, it might turn into a friendship, a

00:42:38.320 --> 00:42:40.619
business partnership, or hell, you might be turned

00:42:40.619 --> 00:42:42.519
on by somebody you're not normally playing with.

00:42:42.619 --> 00:42:45.280
You know what I mean? Well, you just named them

00:42:45.280 --> 00:42:47.059
all, so what do you mean you don't know? You

00:42:47.059 --> 00:42:52.679
just did it. I mean, I'll say this. I mean, I

00:42:52.679 --> 00:42:55.239
understand leaving the door open, but some people,

00:42:55.440 --> 00:42:56.820
I mean, that's going to be a whole other podcast

00:42:56.820 --> 00:43:00.380
thing I just thought about, but some people you

00:43:00.380 --> 00:43:03.199
want the door to be closed on. Mm -hmm. some

00:43:03.199 --> 00:43:06.039
some people you just like no fuck all that you

00:43:06.039 --> 00:43:08.739
ain't never getting this fucking done well and

00:43:08.739 --> 00:43:10.880
i've been coaching the ladies on that because

00:43:10.880 --> 00:43:15.119
i said you are it's kind of like this when i

00:43:15.119 --> 00:43:18.400
you know got divorced from my first husband i

00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:21.280
swore to myself if i wasn't 100 interested in

00:43:21.280 --> 00:43:24.670
a guy i would let him go immediately you know

00:43:24.670 --> 00:43:26.730
and even if i was only interested in him for

00:43:26.730 --> 00:43:28.849
a week you know whatever but if i wasn't 100

00:43:28.849 --> 00:43:31.329
on it i was gonna like let him go because guess

00:43:31.329 --> 00:43:34.010
what someone the love of his life could be around

00:43:34.010 --> 00:43:37.050
the corner and i'm wasting his time you know

00:43:37.050 --> 00:43:39.590
so it's a favor to them so i told the ladies

00:43:39.590 --> 00:43:42.670
i said if you're not interested in a guy you

00:43:42.670 --> 00:43:45.860
know i said If you're nice about it and you aren't

00:43:45.860 --> 00:43:48.179
rude, there ain't no guy that's going to like

00:43:48.179 --> 00:43:50.059
not let you come back and say, you know, I wasn't

00:43:50.059 --> 00:43:51.719
interested before, but I've been watching you.

00:43:51.980 --> 00:43:54.219
And now I am interested if you'd like to give

00:43:54.219 --> 00:43:56.880
it another shot, you know. But in the time being,

00:43:56.940 --> 00:44:00.579
don't say later or these things if you don't

00:44:00.579 --> 00:44:03.800
mean it. Just simply say, you know, I appreciate

00:44:03.800 --> 00:44:06.980
you, but I'm just not interested. That is such

00:44:06.980 --> 00:44:09.559
a simple line. And it's helped me so much. But

00:44:09.559 --> 00:44:12.019
it took me a few splashes because, you know.

00:44:12.559 --> 00:44:14.400
I'd be chatting up a dude and then I meet him.

00:44:14.440 --> 00:44:16.900
There's no vibe. And then I feel bad. So I was

00:44:16.900 --> 00:44:18.780
just like, I got to just tell him that because

00:44:18.780 --> 00:44:21.239
there is other women that do want to play with

00:44:21.239 --> 00:44:24.320
him and he's chasing me around and I'm not interested.

00:44:24.380 --> 00:44:27.139
That's not fair to the other women that do want

00:44:27.139 --> 00:44:30.739
to spend time with him or to him. So you're doing

00:44:30.739 --> 00:44:34.139
people a favor by just being truthful with them.

00:44:34.519 --> 00:44:37.559
And we got to get used to, you know, dealing

00:44:37.559 --> 00:44:39.789
with. you know, like you said, to get comfortable,

00:44:39.909 --> 00:44:43.150
you got to get uncomfortable. So, you know, and

00:44:43.150 --> 00:44:45.630
then, and then that way, if, if someone, you

00:44:45.630 --> 00:44:47.969
know, for whatever reason you're, you want to

00:44:47.969 --> 00:44:50.650
shut the door and keep it shut, you can with

00:44:50.650 --> 00:44:53.670
just that simple line, you know, and I've, I've

00:44:53.670 --> 00:44:56.530
haven't had any guys come back and, you know,

00:44:56.530 --> 00:45:00.030
try to, you know, cram the door open after I've

00:45:00.030 --> 00:45:01.630
said, Hey, you know, I'm just not interested.

00:45:02.150 --> 00:45:05.349
So I think that's a simple and effective way

00:45:05.349 --> 00:45:08.099
to do it. and you know everyone's worried about

00:45:08.099 --> 00:45:10.699
feelings and stuff i was like well you know not

00:45:10.699 --> 00:45:13.039
everybody is for everybody there but there is

00:45:13.039 --> 00:45:16.980
something for everybody there so you just have

00:45:16.980 --> 00:45:18.639
to kind of get used to that and the lifestyle

00:45:18.639 --> 00:45:21.099
is like not everybody's going to be your cup

00:45:21.099 --> 00:45:24.360
of tea or vice versa so and it's okay there's

00:45:24.360 --> 00:45:27.340
there's plenty there's plenty of people there

00:45:27.340 --> 00:45:31.199
to get to know so but leaving the door open too

00:45:31.199 --> 00:45:34.849
you know like like you said also Maybe where

00:45:34.849 --> 00:45:38.170
I do kind of feel like I try not to feel bad

00:45:38.170 --> 00:45:39.909
about it. But a couple of times this has happened

00:45:39.909 --> 00:45:42.130
to me where I've closed the door on a guy and

00:45:42.130 --> 00:45:44.730
then I end up playing with his roommate and then

00:45:44.730 --> 00:45:47.820
he walks in. in the middle of i'm having the

00:45:47.820 --> 00:45:49.980
best time ever with his roommate and i kind of

00:45:49.980 --> 00:45:52.440
go oh shoot like that kind of feels a little

00:45:52.440 --> 00:45:56.000
awkward but i'm also like well it is what it

00:45:56.000 --> 00:45:58.340
is and then his or his roommates like doesn't

00:45:58.340 --> 00:46:00.880
know that i turned his roommate down like the

00:46:00.880 --> 00:46:03.900
guy i'm playing with and he's like bragging about

00:46:03.900 --> 00:46:06.760
what a good time he had or whatever and then

00:46:06.760 --> 00:46:08.760
he walks in he's like oh is this the girl that

00:46:08.760 --> 00:46:11.280
you were talking about earlier and like you had

00:46:11.280 --> 00:46:13.219
such a good time with and he's like yeah and

00:46:13.219 --> 00:46:16.760
then the guy's like oh and i and i do feel bad

00:46:16.760 --> 00:46:19.519
about that but you know you just it's what if

00:46:19.519 --> 00:46:22.000
he spends a block what if he spends a block and

00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:24.800
like what if he's like damn that ass looking

00:46:24.800 --> 00:46:26.739
good up in the air like damn i see how you're

00:46:26.739 --> 00:46:29.400
slapping that ass and watching that well i was

00:46:29.400 --> 00:46:31.579
watching her watching you suck that dick like

00:46:31.579 --> 00:46:34.380
i had to try again like let's let's revisit this

00:46:34.380 --> 00:46:37.239
has that ever happened to you like no they just

00:46:37.239 --> 00:46:39.380
look disappointed and they try to get out of

00:46:39.380 --> 00:46:41.690
the room as fast as they can i'm just getting

00:46:41.690 --> 00:46:43.070
another drink i'm getting out of here i'm getting

00:46:43.070 --> 00:46:45.989
out of here and i don't care i think when one

00:46:45.989 --> 00:46:48.769
thing for me at splash is if you have a roommate

00:46:48.769 --> 00:46:52.230
that's equal equal airspace in there so i said

00:46:52.230 --> 00:46:54.869
you know if your roommate needs to come in and

00:46:54.869 --> 00:46:56.369
do whatever they need to do it's their room too

00:46:56.369 --> 00:46:59.110
i don't i don't want to be the cause of like

00:46:59.110 --> 00:47:00.510
someone getting shut out of their room but that

00:47:00.510 --> 00:47:02.989
usually they're like come in get their drink

00:47:02.989 --> 00:47:05.949
and get the fuck out now if it's somebody I've

00:47:05.949 --> 00:47:07.869
had guys, too, just lay on the bed scrolling

00:47:07.869 --> 00:47:10.030
their phone the whole time. Not even watching

00:47:10.030 --> 00:47:13.510
us. Not even paying attention. So, you know,

00:47:13.510 --> 00:47:15.849
or sleeping. You know, all kinds of situations.

00:47:16.070 --> 00:47:19.369
So that's very interesting when you're going

00:47:19.369 --> 00:47:22.250
to have a one -on -one and, you know, the roommate's

00:47:22.250 --> 00:47:24.789
in there. But I don't mind either way. But, no,

00:47:24.869 --> 00:47:27.449
I've never had them try again after they saw

00:47:27.449 --> 00:47:30.010
the hot action. They just look uncomfortable

00:47:30.010 --> 00:47:33.130
and leave. Respecting that boundary, sir. That's

00:47:33.130 --> 00:47:36.199
solid, man. Yeah, what other things might be

00:47:36.199 --> 00:47:39.000
a benefit of, like, leaving the door open, do

00:47:39.000 --> 00:47:42.619
you think, besides just play? Shit, I mean, genuine

00:47:42.619 --> 00:47:45.739
friendship. Some people, like, I'm a connection

00:47:45.739 --> 00:47:49.630
person. Like, I like knowing people. just more

00:47:49.630 --> 00:47:51.469
than just I wonder what else is going on in your

00:47:51.469 --> 00:47:53.230
life if they're open to that because not everybody's

00:47:53.230 --> 00:47:55.269
open to that some people are just like hey I

00:47:55.269 --> 00:47:57.650
just want to fuck keep it all sexual and that's

00:47:57.650 --> 00:47:59.570
it I don't want you to know nothing about my

00:47:59.570 --> 00:48:00.929
personal life I don't want you to know what the

00:48:00.929 --> 00:48:04.329
fuck I work at my kids and my business ventures

00:48:04.329 --> 00:48:06.250
they want to keep all that shit separate and

00:48:06.250 --> 00:48:09.329
that's totally fine but I think like there's

00:48:09.329 --> 00:48:11.449
some people like you don't know as the conversation

00:48:11.449 --> 00:48:14.599
starts going You don't know if there's potential

00:48:14.599 --> 00:48:17.619
for anything else because you pick up on the

00:48:17.619 --> 00:48:20.219
signs. I mean, I know I pick up on the signs

00:48:20.219 --> 00:48:23.019
and shit like that. So for me, I mean, I'm cool

00:48:23.019 --> 00:48:25.409
with... Maybe somebody's going to end up coming

00:48:25.409 --> 00:48:27.650
to my party. They may not be able to get that

00:48:27.650 --> 00:48:30.110
time with me in a splash environment or anything

00:48:30.110 --> 00:48:31.989
like that, but they're like, okay, I've heard

00:48:31.989 --> 00:48:33.849
about your party. Tell me about this. Oh, I've

00:48:33.849 --> 00:48:35.690
got to do this, this, this. You should come to

00:48:35.690 --> 00:48:37.389
Nadi. You should come to Black the Cap or whatever.

00:48:37.510 --> 00:48:39.769
So that could build that type of relationship

00:48:39.769 --> 00:48:42.590
with them or connection with them. So it doesn't

00:48:42.590 --> 00:48:45.090
always have to be sexual. I mean, some people,

00:48:45.110 --> 00:48:47.750
ideally, that's what you may want from them,

00:48:47.829 --> 00:48:50.530
but it may not start off as that and then eventually

00:48:50.530 --> 00:48:54.400
turn into that. Well, and and to another thing

00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:57.559
I think of as a woman is when guys just leave

00:48:57.559 --> 00:49:00.860
that door open, it gives me more people that

00:49:00.860 --> 00:49:04.920
I can go to if I if I need something, if I need

00:49:04.920 --> 00:49:08.199
a guy to walk with me or, you know, somewhere.

00:49:08.829 --> 00:49:11.590
or, you know, any safety issues. You know, you

00:49:11.590 --> 00:49:13.570
just have more people looking out for you. So

00:49:13.570 --> 00:49:16.250
when you're just kind and genuine to everyone

00:49:16.250 --> 00:49:19.489
and leave that door open, you know, or for mentorship,

00:49:19.730 --> 00:49:22.349
you know, like maybe some guy's not my cup of

00:49:22.349 --> 00:49:25.210
tea, but they're like, you know, they have a

00:49:25.210 --> 00:49:27.989
lady friend that's like, oh, you know, I want

00:49:27.989 --> 00:49:30.070
to talk more about this. And they're like, well,

00:49:30.150 --> 00:49:31.889
that Simon chick, like I never played with her,

00:49:31.949 --> 00:49:34.070
but she's got this podcast. She's got other things

00:49:34.070 --> 00:49:36.550
going. Maybe you could talk to her. So there's

00:49:36.550 --> 00:49:39.860
all just kinds of. of ways that we can help each

00:49:39.860 --> 00:49:42.780
other in this community besides with our private

00:49:42.780 --> 00:49:44.880
parts. They're not so private at these events,

00:49:45.019 --> 00:49:47.840
right? But, you know, it's a community of, like,

00:49:47.860 --> 00:49:50.960
helping people, you know, get to their other

00:49:50.960 --> 00:49:54.920
goals, too, outside of that area. So, yeah, just

00:49:54.920 --> 00:49:56.940
the genuine friendships. Like, we have people

00:49:56.940 --> 00:49:59.380
there that I feel really close to and genuine

00:49:59.380 --> 00:50:01.719
friendships, and we've never even played. So,

00:50:01.780 --> 00:50:05.849
you know, it's great. Or you may travel to their

00:50:05.849 --> 00:50:08.809
city and then you may have a connection there

00:50:08.809 --> 00:50:10.289
and get a little one -on -one or something like

00:50:10.289 --> 00:50:13.809
that. Get some dinner, give you some good tips

00:50:13.809 --> 00:50:16.889
on some things, life advice, that type of thing.

00:50:17.469 --> 00:50:21.050
It's more than just pussy and dick. It's endless

00:50:21.050 --> 00:50:22.989
possibilities. I like pussy and women love dick.

00:50:23.590 --> 00:50:26.010
Yeah, it's endless possibilities, though, of

00:50:26.010 --> 00:50:28.150
what could be connected. And then you know that

00:50:28.150 --> 00:50:30.590
those people, it's always someone that you can

00:50:30.590 --> 00:50:33.940
talk to. You know, like, you know, if you ran

00:50:33.940 --> 00:50:36.739
into them somewhere, you know, they know kind

00:50:36.739 --> 00:50:39.619
of your whole, you know, underground secrets.

00:50:40.019 --> 00:50:42.400
So it's always somebody that you can have to

00:50:42.400 --> 00:50:45.139
talk to that you know is like minded in that

00:50:45.139 --> 00:50:49.099
openness, too. So, Socrates, you got anything

00:50:49.099 --> 00:50:53.579
else to say? No, I had one question, but it was

00:50:53.579 --> 00:50:56.119
a personal question. But before we get to that

00:50:56.119 --> 00:50:58.860
last question. Did you have anything else to

00:50:58.860 --> 00:51:02.059
say about it or your wisdom on, you know, telling

00:51:02.059 --> 00:51:04.340
people to, you know, this is the way to go if

00:51:04.340 --> 00:51:06.920
you're going to go to events like this or just

00:51:06.920 --> 00:51:11.699
even in life? I mean, hey, there's no, hey, my

00:51:11.699 --> 00:51:14.260
shit ain't mine. I ain't the golden rule, nothing

00:51:14.260 --> 00:51:18.500
like that. So, hey, some people know how to flourish

00:51:18.500 --> 00:51:21.219
when doing appointments, and that's just a thing.

00:51:21.659 --> 00:51:23.619
They just angle on it, and that's what the fuck

00:51:23.619 --> 00:51:27.010
they do. It works for you. If all means go that

00:51:27.010 --> 00:51:29.329
way. But it's just a different perspective. I

00:51:29.329 --> 00:51:31.550
mean, I hear a lot of people be talking about,

00:51:31.670 --> 00:51:34.889
I got this appointment or I got this list. If

00:51:34.889 --> 00:51:36.929
I don't do this, it's a failure and all that

00:51:36.929 --> 00:51:41.570
type of shit. No, it's not. I mean, like, it

00:51:41.570 --> 00:51:43.369
ain't got to be like that. So there's nothing

00:51:43.369 --> 00:51:45.409
more than that for me. Well, I appreciate it.

00:51:45.409 --> 00:51:47.690
I think I covered all the bases. Yeah, we did.

00:51:47.889 --> 00:51:50.650
And, you know, I hope our listeners got something

00:51:50.650 --> 00:51:52.849
out of that for sure. Write us, you know, we'd

00:51:52.849 --> 00:51:55.360
love to hear from you. We love to hear some ideas

00:51:55.360 --> 00:51:58.039
on episodes or stuff you want to talk about.

00:51:58.300 --> 00:52:00.239
This is the Bull Brotherhood podcast, but we

00:52:00.239 --> 00:52:03.320
want to talk about everything ethical, not monogamy

00:52:03.320 --> 00:52:06.320
and relationships. So, you know, it's just our

00:52:06.320 --> 00:52:09.079
perspective. Siren, did you have anything else

00:52:09.079 --> 00:52:12.960
to add before I ask this personal question? No,

00:52:12.960 --> 00:52:15.099
I just think definitely, you know, like one of

00:52:15.099 --> 00:52:17.539
the tags that we need to have is like, I just

00:52:17.539 --> 00:52:20.579
think of that. That three parts, if that helps

00:52:20.579 --> 00:52:22.619
you, let me know. I would like to know if that

00:52:22.619 --> 00:52:25.039
helps anyone else of the being where you want

00:52:25.039 --> 00:52:27.119
to be with who you want to be doing what you

00:52:27.119 --> 00:52:29.340
want to be doing, you know? And I think that

00:52:29.340 --> 00:52:32.699
will, that will serve you well to make sure that

00:52:32.699 --> 00:52:35.039
you're taking care of yourself too. That splash,

00:52:35.340 --> 00:52:36.940
you know, a lot of people were talking about,

00:52:36.960 --> 00:52:39.699
you know, making more time for rest, making more

00:52:39.699 --> 00:52:43.179
time for chilling, you know? So, and knowing

00:52:43.179 --> 00:52:45.340
that you'll be back again, you'll be back again.

00:52:46.059 --> 00:52:48.289
That's it. Oh, thank you. Thank you. All right.

00:52:48.309 --> 00:52:50.909
So here's my question. So, you know, like I say,

00:52:50.989 --> 00:52:52.789
everyone else, everybody knows I love the Glory

00:52:52.789 --> 00:52:56.369
Hill Room. So what do you think? So there's been

00:52:56.369 --> 00:53:00.570
some times when some woman will, I mean, these,

00:53:00.730 --> 00:53:04.070
you know, it's always amazing. And I'm so grateful

00:53:04.070 --> 00:53:07.769
to these lovely women, no matter what, you know,

00:53:07.769 --> 00:53:12.269
color, age, look, race, it doesn't matter. But

00:53:12.269 --> 00:53:15.199
I want your... I want your opinion on it. So

00:53:15.199 --> 00:53:18.820
sometimes I've, I've gotten, you know, some fellatio

00:53:18.820 --> 00:53:23.739
from a lady and she wants to figure, see the

00:53:23.739 --> 00:53:27.360
guy on the other side. Right. And I'll go clean

00:53:27.360 --> 00:53:29.280
myself up and they'll be like, Hey, would you

00:53:29.280 --> 00:53:32.059
like to play? And I'm like, Oh fuck. Because

00:53:32.059 --> 00:53:34.280
she did an amazing job, but I am not attracted

00:53:34.280 --> 00:53:38.179
to this woman. What, what do you think? What

00:53:38.179 --> 00:53:41.139
do you think about that? Cause sometimes it was

00:53:41.139 --> 00:53:42.980
like, I think it was Fort Lauderdale. I was like,

00:53:43.469 --> 00:53:48.969
This woman did an amazing job. And I'm not sure

00:53:48.969 --> 00:53:51.130
which one it was. Anyway, I was like, this woman

00:53:51.130 --> 00:53:54.309
did an amazing job. And I'm not attracted to

00:53:54.309 --> 00:53:56.570
her, but she deserved it. And I played with her,

00:53:56.590 --> 00:53:59.329
and it turned out to be amazing. Right? I don't

00:53:59.329 --> 00:54:01.829
advise anybody to do that. I'm not sure. But

00:54:01.829 --> 00:54:04.210
I'm like, it turned out amazing. But it's a really

00:54:04.210 --> 00:54:07.130
tough situation for me. I do advise that. What?

00:54:07.309 --> 00:54:10.170
Because I've done that with guys. Yeah? I don't

00:54:10.170 --> 00:54:13.099
know. It's like, I don't. I don't know. I want

00:54:13.099 --> 00:54:15.119
to see what Goliath thinks about it because I'm

00:54:15.119 --> 00:54:17.699
just like, I kind of feel obligated. I don't

00:54:17.699 --> 00:54:20.159
want to play with you out of obligation, you

00:54:20.159 --> 00:54:23.119
know, but you did an amazing job, you know? Okay.

00:54:23.539 --> 00:54:26.719
Okay. So, okay. This is how we're going to go

00:54:26.719 --> 00:54:29.699
with that one right there. So, I mean, me personally,

00:54:29.760 --> 00:54:32.539
I love getting my dick sucked. Like, that's like,

00:54:32.840 --> 00:54:35.480
if you suck a great dick, like, that shit can

00:54:35.480 --> 00:54:39.039
take you so far in life in general. Amen, brother.

00:54:41.210 --> 00:54:45.150
That shit is fucking masterful. So, for me, if

00:54:45.150 --> 00:54:48.650
a woman sucked my dick good enough, but, okay,

00:54:48.750 --> 00:54:50.550
time out, time out. So, it's a different situation.

00:54:50.789 --> 00:54:52.250
So, it's a little bit different. Because you

00:54:52.250 --> 00:54:54.090
don't know who the fuck it is. Right. And you

00:54:54.090 --> 00:54:56.469
come back around, like, oh, it was her who sucked

00:54:56.469 --> 00:54:59.889
my dick. Like, it's not my speed, but fuck, she

00:54:59.889 --> 00:55:01.929
was sucking the fuck out of my dick. Right. Like,

00:55:01.949 --> 00:55:05.030
and mine gets played that ticker, like, I wonder

00:55:05.030 --> 00:55:08.150
what else she could do. Like, it's like... It's

00:55:08.150 --> 00:55:10.230
like the whole concept of the fucking glory hole

00:55:10.230 --> 00:55:11.769
to begin with, like the reverse glory hole for

00:55:11.769 --> 00:55:14.010
ladies. The ladies don't know what the fuck they're

00:55:14.010 --> 00:55:15.869
getting fucked by. They just know they're just

00:55:15.869 --> 00:55:18.329
getting some dick. They come in there, they get

00:55:18.329 --> 00:55:20.789
some dick. Some ladies will come out and be like,

00:55:20.849 --> 00:55:23.309
okay, who's fucking me? And I'll point to this

00:55:23.309 --> 00:55:26.030
guy over there, like, ain't no way that guy was

00:55:26.030 --> 00:55:27.849
fucking me. I said, I would never fuck him in

00:55:27.849 --> 00:55:29.769
a million years. I'm like, that was the one that

00:55:29.769 --> 00:55:31.429
was giving you all that good dick. And they look

00:55:31.429 --> 00:55:34.050
and they're like, damn, I missed it. I would

00:55:34.050 --> 00:55:38.409
never gave him a chance. But it's... But they're

00:55:38.409 --> 00:55:40.070
glad that it happened in the situation it did.

00:55:40.230 --> 00:55:44.710
Right. Just like my situation. Same with the

00:55:44.710 --> 00:55:47.090
dark room. Yeah. Yeah. Same with the dark room.

00:55:47.150 --> 00:55:49.530
There was the best one in there was a guy when

00:55:49.530 --> 00:55:52.289
I met him the next day. You know, I said, hey,

00:55:52.309 --> 00:55:55.030
come find me. You know, I want to meet you. Then

00:55:55.030 --> 00:55:59.590
he found me and I was like, this guy, no way.

00:55:59.690 --> 00:56:01.190
You know what I mean? But he was the best one.

00:56:01.690 --> 00:56:05.400
So it's like. Navigated as if you were blind.

00:56:05.559 --> 00:56:08.639
You wouldn't know, you know? No, I mean, I did

00:56:08.639 --> 00:56:13.320
that and it was amazing. She was great. And I'm

00:56:13.320 --> 00:56:16.920
glad I did it. But I was like, I have had some

00:56:16.920 --> 00:56:20.800
situations where I was like, but the only two

00:56:20.800 --> 00:56:24.429
times I genuinely. needed to go like i genuinely

00:56:24.429 --> 00:56:27.409
was like i'm in here too long i gotta go meet

00:56:27.409 --> 00:56:30.050
my wife you know so it worked out for me but

00:56:30.050 --> 00:56:32.070
i was like the next time i do that i'm just gonna

00:56:32.070 --> 00:56:35.170
i'm i'm just gonna let it happen and i did and

00:56:35.170 --> 00:56:37.510
i was glad i did it but i i wanted goliath's

00:56:37.510 --> 00:56:39.849
tape on it and your take what's your take you

00:56:39.849 --> 00:56:42.849
said the same thing yeah just i mean play as

00:56:42.849 --> 00:56:45.309
if you as if you were blind like if you're feeling

00:56:45.309 --> 00:56:49.090
great and you know everything about it it's like

00:56:49.090 --> 00:56:51.489
in the dark room i i mean there was a bunch of

00:56:51.489 --> 00:56:54.409
dudes that i was like you know why did it just

00:56:54.409 --> 00:56:58.150
passed over but we had a great time you know

00:56:58.150 --> 00:57:01.510
so but that just goes back to my sermon about

00:57:01.510 --> 00:57:04.050
how i love an average dude like one of my favorite

00:57:04.050 --> 00:57:07.869
play partners is like five five you know glasses

00:57:07.869 --> 00:57:11.550
nerdy you know a lot of ladies just go oh yeah

00:57:11.550 --> 00:57:14.130
he don't got muscles and he's not six six and

00:57:14.130 --> 00:57:17.250
you know but he's a great time so I'm just like

00:57:17.250 --> 00:57:19.389
hey if you don't you know some of these ladies

00:57:19.389 --> 00:57:21.489
oh I passed this guy over because of this I said

00:57:21.489 --> 00:57:24.409
well I'll take him I've had some great times

00:57:24.409 --> 00:57:27.389
with with guys that that other ladies were passing

00:57:27.389 --> 00:57:31.730
over for attraction reasons so I really try to

00:57:31.730 --> 00:57:34.449
get in there and give them a shot I don't think

00:57:34.449 --> 00:57:37.409
I've had too many. You know what? I was like,

00:57:37.469 --> 00:57:39.369
I've said it before, too. I was like, there's

00:57:39.369 --> 00:57:42.530
been a couple of guys that had stars in my eyes

00:57:42.530 --> 00:57:44.449
for them. And then I played with them and I was

00:57:44.449 --> 00:57:47.650
disappointed. So that's why I'm like, the attraction

00:57:47.650 --> 00:57:50.710
ain't everything all the time. It's about that

00:57:50.710 --> 00:57:53.210
vibe and that chemistry once you get going, you

00:57:53.210 --> 00:57:57.869
know? Right. So. I mean, yeah. So I'll say this.

00:57:57.909 --> 00:58:02.519
If somebody's sucking my dick, I've had it. In

00:58:02.519 --> 00:58:06.079
my years of lifestyle where a woman was sucking

00:58:06.079 --> 00:58:09.300
my dick so damn good, I'm like, shit, man, I'm

00:58:09.300 --> 00:58:11.460
obligated to give you this damn dick. Like, I

00:58:11.460 --> 00:58:12.980
want to give you this dick because you just made

00:58:12.980 --> 00:58:17.619
my dick. Like, a throat goat is a fucking, guys

00:58:17.619 --> 00:58:21.539
appreciate that shit so fucking much. Like, it's

00:58:21.539 --> 00:58:23.539
just, I got to call me a throat goat tonight

00:58:23.539 --> 00:58:25.300
the way I'm feeling right now because I want

00:58:25.300 --> 00:58:28.400
my dick sucked. Like, that shit makes me feel

00:58:28.400 --> 00:58:30.659
so good. Like, damn, now I got to give you some

00:58:30.659 --> 00:58:33.199
extra good dick. Because the effort that you

00:58:33.199 --> 00:58:35.659
just put in to suck on my dick or whatever. So

00:58:35.659 --> 00:58:40.280
sometimes you may do that one -off that you're

00:58:40.280 --> 00:58:42.960
like, I would never fuck you. But hey, come on.

00:58:43.199 --> 00:58:47.210
You never know. You never know. So, well, we

00:58:47.210 --> 00:58:50.670
have to flow right into our ending now. So we

00:58:50.670 --> 00:58:53.530
appreciate you being on here. We'll put your

00:58:53.530 --> 00:58:56.010
socials in the notes so that people can contact

00:58:56.010 --> 00:58:59.409
you for the Magnum party and everything else

00:58:59.409 --> 00:59:01.429
you've got going on. But we appreciate you being

00:59:01.429 --> 00:59:04.849
on tonight. And I can't do all the sultry things

00:59:04.849 --> 00:59:08.550
like Brian Morgan, but good night to everyone.

00:59:08.969 --> 00:59:11.090
Thank you for listening. Good night, y 'all.

00:59:18.730 --> 00:59:23.610
This is who we are. Confident and seductive.

00:59:23.949 --> 00:59:27.710
Dominant and classy. We stand tall, never fall.

00:59:27.889 --> 00:59:32.210
Bull brotherhood. Luxury untold.