WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.120 Guys will see me a dick pic as if that's the 00:00:03.120 --> 00:00:06.540 entry in here. And that's the old fuck no. That's 00:00:06.540 --> 00:00:10.320 the old fuck no. Instant block. I get them too. 00:00:10.560 --> 00:00:14.679 Yes. So think about it. I get them from single 00:00:14.679 --> 00:00:19.000 females as well. Yes. What? Yeah. Trying to sell 00:00:19.000 --> 00:00:23.260 somebody or what? No. Asking me, sends me a picture 00:00:23.260 --> 00:00:25.620 of their crotch going, so do you think I'm a 00:00:25.620 --> 00:00:28.420 good fit for the event? Yeah. My answer to that 00:00:28.420 --> 00:00:31.280 is no, I'm sorry. Let me tell a story really 00:00:31.280 --> 00:00:33.200 quick about what my single friend does with dick 00:00:33.200 --> 00:00:35.380 pics. She says, thank you for that. I will be 00:00:35.380 --> 00:00:37.460 sending it to the next guy that sends me a dick 00:00:37.460 --> 00:00:40.140 pic. 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But if you're ready to 00:01:48.849 --> 00:01:52.209 step into your masculine edge and embrace a lifestyle 00:01:52.209 --> 00:01:55.349 that demands mastery, welcome to the Brotherhood. 00:01:58.090 --> 00:02:01.189 Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood podcast, where 00:02:01.189 --> 00:02:04.530 we talk power, pleasure, and the art of dominance 00:02:04.530 --> 00:02:07.489 in ethical non -monogamy. This is not your average 00:02:07.489 --> 00:02:10.449 lifestyle podcast. This is for men who lead, 00:02:10.729 --> 00:02:14.210 men who master, and men who leave a lasting impression. 00:02:14.830 --> 00:02:18.310 If you're here, you're not just curious. You're 00:02:18.310 --> 00:02:21.590 ready to elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives, 00:02:21.909 --> 00:02:25.349 stags, and open -minded explorers, we see you. 00:02:25.729 --> 00:02:55.349 Let's go. Welcome to another episode of the Bull 00:02:55.349 --> 00:02:58.370 Brotherhood podcast. I'm one third of your hosting 00:02:58.370 --> 00:03:01.729 team, Siren from the Siren of Freedom podcast. 00:03:01.849 --> 00:03:07.409 We are recording live from Splash Mocha, Houston. 00:03:08.159 --> 00:03:10.460 And Brian Morgan cannot be with us, so I get 00:03:10.460 --> 00:03:12.979 the honor of introducing our guest today. We 00:03:12.979 --> 00:03:16.960 have, of course, my hubby Socrates. Hey, everybody. 00:03:17.120 --> 00:03:20.219 And today on our panel, we're going to be discussing 00:03:20.219 --> 00:03:23.259 how to navigate hotel takeovers. And we have 00:03:23.259 --> 00:03:27.800 Chris Minx. Hello, everybody. And the lovely 00:03:27.800 --> 00:03:31.560 Tina, who runs this shit. Hey, guys. And Dimitri, 00:03:31.699 --> 00:03:36.060 head honcho of security, hugs, and telling it 00:03:36.060 --> 00:03:39.030 like it is. Good afternoon, everybody. All right. 00:03:39.389 --> 00:03:41.870 So I'm going to turn it back over to Socrates 00:03:41.870 --> 00:03:44.750 and we'll get this thing going. How's everybody 00:03:44.750 --> 00:03:48.009 doing today? So we have we do have an audience 00:03:48.009 --> 00:03:50.590 here. So we just want to welcome everybody that 00:03:50.590 --> 00:03:53.949 came in to see us. And we have a really, really 00:03:53.949 --> 00:03:58.590 great panel here. And so our topic today is how 00:03:58.590 --> 00:04:03.110 to navigate just any hotel takeover in the lifestyle. 00:04:03.430 --> 00:04:07.439 Right. So there's a lot of. Things you want to 00:04:07.439 --> 00:04:10.539 consider, you know, interacting with the promotions 00:04:10.539 --> 00:04:13.000 company for, in this example, Splash Mocha, right? 00:04:13.180 --> 00:04:16.120 What their rules are, what their expectations 00:04:16.120 --> 00:04:18.720 of you are, what you can expect from them and 00:04:18.720 --> 00:04:21.100 how to do that. We could talk about that. And 00:04:21.100 --> 00:04:24.160 then there's people in the community. If you're 00:04:24.160 --> 00:04:26.379 a couple, if you're a bull, or if you're a single 00:04:26.379 --> 00:04:29.959 guy or a single girl, whatever it is, how do 00:04:29.959 --> 00:04:34.720 you navigate from that perspective, right? From 00:04:34.720 --> 00:04:37.680 a husband's perspective, who might be a stag, 00:04:37.699 --> 00:04:40.639 how do you navigate? Or a cuck, or you're just 00:04:40.639 --> 00:04:44.300 a swinger couple. And then there's obviously 00:04:44.300 --> 00:04:47.319 the people you interact with. So we don't have 00:04:47.319 --> 00:04:49.000 to keep it in those categories, but that's how 00:04:49.000 --> 00:04:51.759 I kind of look at it. So I just want to start 00:04:51.759 --> 00:04:56.019 in general and say to everybody, what do you 00:04:56.019 --> 00:04:59.199 think the things that you need to first start 00:04:59.199 --> 00:05:01.839 thinking of when you've picked? From this point, 00:05:01.879 --> 00:05:03.660 you've picked somewhere like Splash Mocha to 00:05:03.660 --> 00:05:05.579 go to. It's a hotel takeover. You're going to 00:05:05.579 --> 00:05:08.420 spend a couple of days locked in the hotel doing 00:05:08.420 --> 00:05:11.220 your thing. What do you think, Dimitri, like 00:05:11.220 --> 00:05:12.920 what's the first thing you should really start 00:05:12.920 --> 00:05:14.680 thinking of if you want to have a good time? 00:05:14.959 --> 00:05:17.879 Well, what I do is I let everybody know in detail 00:05:17.879 --> 00:05:23.139 this is a hot wife convention. Hot wife convention. 00:05:23.560 --> 00:05:25.939 What separates us from everybody is that it's 00:05:25.939 --> 00:05:29.680 more centered around the single man. Our courses 00:05:29.680 --> 00:05:33.480 say Splash Mocha, so preferably, you know, men 00:05:33.480 --> 00:05:35.560 of color, but we don't discriminate against anyone. 00:05:36.259 --> 00:05:39.300 But the main thing I try to tell couples are 00:05:39.300 --> 00:05:43.920 to have those hard conversations. You know, ask 00:05:43.920 --> 00:05:46.379 the questions that you think about or what you 00:05:46.379 --> 00:05:48.959 may feel, because I don't want you to come through 00:05:48.959 --> 00:05:52.060 those doors and you don't have a good time or 00:05:52.060 --> 00:05:55.079 have any good experiences. And then you go home 00:05:55.079 --> 00:05:58.180 angry and bitter with each other. And also, I 00:05:58.180 --> 00:06:00.600 don't want to give out too much. No. I'll stop 00:06:00.600 --> 00:06:02.920 right there and I'll come back. Tina, I'd love 00:06:02.920 --> 00:06:04.899 to hear from you. What do you think? Well, in 00:06:04.899 --> 00:06:07.560 regards to Splash Mocha, what I like to tell 00:06:07.560 --> 00:06:10.879 people is on our website, we have a membership 00:06:10.879 --> 00:06:14.060 program where people can sign up, kind of like 00:06:14.060 --> 00:06:17.860 SDC, Cassidy, get a premium membership. And what 00:06:17.860 --> 00:06:20.100 that will do, that will put you in our chat groups 00:06:20.100 --> 00:06:22.660 right on our website. And then you can start 00:06:22.660 --> 00:06:25.199 chatting with guests who are already Splash Mocha 00:06:25.199 --> 00:06:26.980 minded, especially in the hot wife lifestyle. 00:06:27.600 --> 00:06:30.120 And then once you make a reservation at whatever 00:06:30.120 --> 00:06:32.959 hotel, then when that reservation is made, you're 00:06:32.959 --> 00:06:36.459 put into that specific party chat group. So you 00:06:36.459 --> 00:06:38.439 can start chatting with these people, start making 00:06:38.439 --> 00:06:40.600 your connections. And then if you're brand new, 00:06:40.759 --> 00:06:43.620 especially to the Splash Mocha game, you're brand 00:06:43.620 --> 00:06:46.480 new, I tell guests, step outside of your box 00:06:46.480 --> 00:06:49.819 just a little bit and introduce yourself. Let 00:06:49.819 --> 00:06:53.379 them know you're brand new to this event. Splash 00:06:53.379 --> 00:06:55.339 Mocha guests, I can't speak for other events, 00:06:55.420 --> 00:06:58.680 but Splash Mocha guests love meeting brand new 00:06:58.680 --> 00:07:01.660 folks. And the reason being, they get to see 00:07:01.660 --> 00:07:05.000 the party all over again, brand new through your 00:07:05.000 --> 00:07:08.170 eyes. Because they're sharing your experiences 00:07:08.170 --> 00:07:11.350 and they will introduce you to a whole host of 00:07:11.350 --> 00:07:13.389 different people. Next thing you know, you've 00:07:13.389 --> 00:07:15.550 got a whole bunch of brand new friends that you're 00:07:15.550 --> 00:07:17.470 probably going to remain friends with once you 00:07:17.470 --> 00:07:20.610 leave this event. Yeah, I like that. And I was 00:07:20.610 --> 00:07:23.990 thinking that myself, like if I was to give that 00:07:23.990 --> 00:07:26.569 advice, I would say get on there and. Get to 00:07:26.569 --> 00:07:28.709 know the people, interact if you can. Because 00:07:28.709 --> 00:07:30.110 you're going to make those connections before 00:07:30.110 --> 00:07:33.449 you arrive. You're going to share photos. It 00:07:33.449 --> 00:07:35.829 doesn't have to be X -rated. It can just be face 00:07:35.829 --> 00:07:37.810 photos. And then those people you've made connections 00:07:37.810 --> 00:07:40.670 with online and in the chat groups, you're going 00:07:40.670 --> 00:07:42.370 to meet them face -to -face here. And you'll 00:07:42.370 --> 00:07:44.829 already have something in common to talk about. 00:07:45.370 --> 00:07:48.209 What do you think, Mo? So we always liken the 00:07:48.209 --> 00:07:51.009 Splash Mocha Party as one of the elite parties. 00:07:51.110 --> 00:07:53.500 And it's usually not a... first timer to the 00:07:53.500 --> 00:07:55.939 lifestyle event, right? The couples that come 00:07:55.939 --> 00:07:58.480 to Splash Mocha usually have had that walk through 00:07:58.480 --> 00:08:01.240 their journey into the lifestyle. They've done 00:08:01.240 --> 00:08:03.379 the swapping. They've done, now they're moving 00:08:03.379 --> 00:08:06.959 into the hot wifing thing. It becomes that you've 00:08:06.959 --> 00:08:08.720 had those early conversations, you know, your 00:08:08.720 --> 00:08:11.000 dynamic and your relationship. So then when it's 00:08:11.000 --> 00:08:13.060 like, we're going to go to Splash Mocha, the 00:08:13.060 --> 00:08:14.879 chat room, and you don't have to chat. That's 00:08:14.879 --> 00:08:17.259 very intimidating. A lot of people, I don't know 00:08:17.259 --> 00:08:21.000 what to say. My wife, hot wife, Angel Minx, she 00:08:21.000 --> 00:08:24.129 is horrible at text chatting she doesn't think 00:08:24.129 --> 00:08:26.550 and text it out very well what she's making but 00:08:26.550 --> 00:08:29.629 sitting and watching the dynamic and just reading 00:08:29.629 --> 00:08:31.910 the interaction of people starts to give you 00:08:31.910 --> 00:08:35.789 that idea the other piece to it is as any subculture 00:08:35.789 --> 00:08:38.509 there is a different terminology within that 00:08:38.509 --> 00:08:41.470 subculture that you can start to learn by watching 00:08:41.470 --> 00:08:44.029 these conversations and understanding the different 00:08:44.029 --> 00:08:46.250 dynamics what your dynamic you might even not 00:08:46.250 --> 00:08:49.259 even have defined your dynamic yet so Getting 00:08:49.259 --> 00:08:51.899 that piece of education, doing the research, 00:08:52.019 --> 00:08:54.779 if you will, before you come to the event kind 00:08:54.779 --> 00:08:58.120 of eases that comfort level coming in. Now, I 00:08:58.120 --> 00:09:01.080 say all that to advanced couples. There was an 00:09:01.080 --> 00:09:04.460 Atlanta mocha. To be honest, this is Angel and 00:09:04.460 --> 00:09:09.159 I's 15th Splash Mocha since 2022. My wife's addicted 00:09:09.159 --> 00:09:12.299 to this product, right, to this staff because 00:09:12.299 --> 00:09:15.100 it is a true family. And that's what even first 00:09:15.100 --> 00:09:17.340 -timers come in, they get that. But we were at 00:09:17.340 --> 00:09:20.840 this Atlanta mocha. And a couple came in in their 00:09:20.840 --> 00:09:24.419 early 60s. They had never done anything lifestyle 00:09:24.419 --> 00:09:27.120 in their life. They had never done a swap. The 00:09:27.120 --> 00:09:29.399 only people they'd had sex with was each other 00:09:29.399 --> 00:09:32.899 in 30 plus years of marriage. And their first 00:09:32.899 --> 00:09:35.860 party was a splash mocha party. They had been 00:09:35.860 --> 00:09:37.539 listening to podcasts. They had been doing the 00:09:37.539 --> 00:09:41.000 research. They were just both mentally on that 00:09:41.000 --> 00:09:44.120 point that this was where they wanted to jump 00:09:44.120 --> 00:09:46.659 in. And I'm like, we're looking at one. You jumped 00:09:46.659 --> 00:09:49.360 into the deepest end of the pool you possibly 00:09:49.360 --> 00:09:52.259 could have. Not to interrupt, there were two 00:09:52.259 --> 00:09:56.519 couples at that party on that same page. Really? 00:09:56.759 --> 00:10:00.279 And they've been ever since. And it was at the 00:10:00.279 --> 00:10:02.059 end of the weekend, because they came, they listened 00:10:02.059 --> 00:10:03.200 to the podcast at the end of the weekend. They 00:10:03.200 --> 00:10:05.299 came up, were hugging us, hugging all of the 00:10:05.299 --> 00:10:07.460 staff, said this was a transformative weekend 00:10:07.460 --> 00:10:11.600 for us. They didn't play with anybody. But she 00:10:11.600 --> 00:10:17.320 got flogged in the S &M room. She was just emotionally 00:10:17.320 --> 00:10:20.559 overcome. And then they came to everybody afterwards. 00:10:20.720 --> 00:10:22.940 And it's like, we did something really good, 00:10:23.019 --> 00:10:24.879 right? These guys put on something really good 00:10:24.879 --> 00:10:27.440 that changed this couple's dynamic forever. So 00:10:27.440 --> 00:10:29.340 the research, that's my biggest thing. Coming 00:10:29.340 --> 00:10:31.879 to these, getting ready for it, doing the research 00:10:31.879 --> 00:10:34.740 ahead of time. No ditty, but it turns me on when 00:10:34.740 --> 00:10:37.139 a man says research. I'm sorry. I'm that much 00:10:37.139 --> 00:10:39.559 of a nerd. I was going to say, you really are 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:43.539 a nerd, aren't you? Ask her. I have apps just 00:10:43.539 --> 00:10:46.740 for research. I have AI just, and I'll talk to 00:10:46.740 --> 00:10:49.360 it for hours. I want you to know, what can you 00:10:49.360 --> 00:10:50.960 tell me about the universe and how it connects 00:10:50.960 --> 00:10:53.759 to Adlerian psychology? And she's just like, 00:10:53.799 --> 00:10:55.299 oh my goodness, just go talk to your girlfriend. 00:10:55.740 --> 00:10:57.960 Siren, I want to, I really want, I got a few 00:10:57.960 --> 00:10:59.940 questions, but I want to hear from you. I think. 00:11:00.299 --> 00:11:01.779 you know, if you're a couple coming together, 00:11:01.860 --> 00:11:04.240 it's important to talk about, even if you don't 00:11:04.240 --> 00:11:06.200 know what to expect, like, but hopefully you 00:11:06.200 --> 00:11:10.059 should have some expectations because, you know, 00:11:10.059 --> 00:11:12.639 of doing the research first, you know, I mean, 00:11:12.639 --> 00:11:15.639 what to expect expectations, but listing out 00:11:15.639 --> 00:11:18.980 together, like what your do's and don'ts might 00:11:18.980 --> 00:11:21.080 be. And then just having those communication 00:11:21.080 --> 00:11:25.279 breaks throughout the day, like. I've learned 00:11:25.279 --> 00:11:27.620 that I need like more communication breaks. Like 00:11:27.620 --> 00:11:30.500 I need some structure to my splash mocha. I can't 00:11:30.500 --> 00:11:33.019 just be running all over the place. So you learn 00:11:33.019 --> 00:11:36.639 through going like what specifically works for 00:11:36.639 --> 00:11:39.679 you and doesn't work for you. But just making 00:11:39.679 --> 00:11:42.000 sure with your partner, if you're coming with 00:11:42.000 --> 00:11:46.200 your husband or your wife, like what your guidelines 00:11:46.200 --> 00:11:49.789 are for each other. And then after action report, 00:11:49.990 --> 00:11:52.470 make sure after the event that you get together 00:11:52.470 --> 00:11:54.769 and you spend time like dissecting how it went 00:11:54.769 --> 00:11:57.429 for you and what you liked, what you didn't like, 00:11:57.549 --> 00:12:00.649 what you want to do different next time. I like 00:12:00.649 --> 00:12:05.529 that. And I want you to talk about your first 00:12:05.529 --> 00:12:09.210 experience here. So I'm going to share a little 00:12:09.210 --> 00:12:12.769 bit. So when I first came, I when I was like, 00:12:12.850 --> 00:12:15.009 OK, I'm going to take you here. I'm going to, 00:12:15.009 --> 00:12:17.799 you know. Have you experienced this? I thought 00:12:17.799 --> 00:12:21.720 it was 100%. You have to be a single man, and 00:12:21.720 --> 00:12:24.860 that's it. And it's just going to be a bunch 00:12:24.860 --> 00:12:28.320 of black vultures. I might sound terrible. I 00:12:28.320 --> 00:12:30.059 don't mean to disrespect nobody. But that's what 00:12:30.059 --> 00:12:31.659 I thought. So I was like, okay, I'm ready to 00:12:31.659 --> 00:12:34.620 fight. And I wanted to have a good time. So I 00:12:34.620 --> 00:12:39.700 can go. So when we went, and it wasn't until 00:12:39.700 --> 00:12:41.980 we had the men's meeting. I was like, oh, my 00:12:41.980 --> 00:12:45.440 goodness. This is phenomenal. Because they're. 00:12:45.720 --> 00:12:48.980 holding people accountable before it really even 00:12:48.980 --> 00:12:52.759 gets going. You know what I mean? And so with 00:12:52.759 --> 00:12:56.259 you, that was it for me. And then later on, I 00:12:56.259 --> 00:12:58.059 found out, oh, I can have some fun here too. 00:12:58.159 --> 00:13:02.500 But for you, I want you to talk about your nerves 00:13:02.500 --> 00:13:04.620 all the way up to it and kind of like how we 00:13:04.620 --> 00:13:06.679 first got, you know, how I had to kind of like. 00:13:07.460 --> 00:13:09.940 sit you down. Like, I love that stuff. Are you 00:13:09.940 --> 00:13:13.519 going to tell it or am I? Well, the first mistake 00:13:13.519 --> 00:13:15.620 we made was coming in on Thursday instead of 00:13:15.620 --> 00:13:18.799 Wednesday, because that's not giving me any time 00:13:18.799 --> 00:13:21.360 to like acclimate to the environment. And especially 00:13:21.360 --> 00:13:24.399 from where we live, where there isn't much diversity. 00:13:25.519 --> 00:13:28.299 I felt a lot like that time in Vegas when I walked 00:13:28.299 --> 00:13:31.360 into club rehab and there was just like all these 00:13:31.360 --> 00:13:34.120 black guys and I was like, I have died and gone 00:13:34.120 --> 00:13:36.679 to heaven. And I was with my friend and I grabbed 00:13:36.679 --> 00:13:38.840 her arm and I was like, how does this work? Do 00:13:38.840 --> 00:13:41.440 I choose them? Do they choose me? And I felt 00:13:41.440 --> 00:13:43.500 a lot like that same feeling, but knowing that 00:13:43.500 --> 00:13:45.799 I was going to get to choose more than one. So 00:13:45.799 --> 00:13:48.700 I had talked to probably like 30 guys ahead of 00:13:48.700 --> 00:13:50.399 time. I didn't play with a single one of them. 00:13:50.970 --> 00:13:53.470 And that's often how it can work. But it still 00:13:53.470 --> 00:13:56.570 is good to chat because it still gives you some 00:13:56.570 --> 00:13:59.409 comfortability with people in general. But when 00:13:59.409 --> 00:14:03.149 I walked in Thursday afternoon and like kind 00:14:03.149 --> 00:14:05.149 of there was already you guys know there's like 00:14:05.149 --> 00:14:07.250 already so many people here on Wednesday. Then 00:14:07.250 --> 00:14:09.669 to walk in on Thursday, my jaw was just on the 00:14:09.669 --> 00:14:14.309 floor. And then I was just frozen. And he's like, 00:14:14.370 --> 00:14:16.230 go talk to people like you've been talking to 00:14:16.230 --> 00:14:19.179 these guys. I said, I can't. And I went and sat, 00:14:19.299 --> 00:14:21.179 it was Houston, and I went and sat in the corner, 00:14:21.419 --> 00:14:22.700 you know, up there in that kind of that little 00:14:22.700 --> 00:14:25.919 library area. And I just sat in the corner. And 00:14:25.919 --> 00:14:27.779 he's like, go talk to people. This is why we're 00:14:27.779 --> 00:14:31.059 here. I just can't. I can't. And he went and 00:14:31.059 --> 00:14:33.240 got me a drink. And then I, so I had a drink. 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:35.480 And then I still was like, he's like, what do 00:14:35.480 --> 00:14:37.500 you need? Because we paid a lot of money to be 00:14:37.500 --> 00:14:40.519 here. And I said, I think I need you to just 00:14:40.519 --> 00:14:42.559 take me upstairs. I need you to fuck me real 00:14:42.559 --> 00:14:45.220 good and get me, like, all evened out. And then 00:14:45.220 --> 00:14:48.620 I can come down and be like, oh, okay, hi. You 00:14:48.620 --> 00:14:50.460 know, and I didn't have the name Siren yet at 00:14:50.460 --> 00:14:53.759 that time. So, and then that first one is where 00:14:53.759 --> 00:14:58.000 I got my name. So, yeah. But it was very overwhelming. 00:14:58.460 --> 00:15:01.679 And now we just come in early. And that helps 00:15:01.679 --> 00:15:05.000 a lot. But when you're new and you aren't used 00:15:05.000 --> 00:15:08.429 to that much, you know. beautiful black men in 00:15:08.429 --> 00:15:10.929 one place at one time it's like the same feeling 00:15:10.929 --> 00:15:13.370 of overwhelm what she didn't say is the draw 00:15:13.370 --> 00:15:16.190 the jaw was completely dropped at all times well 00:15:16.190 --> 00:15:18.429 i'm saying through the whole thing well you have 00:15:18.429 --> 00:15:20.350 to to get that those big black they say after 00:15:20.350 --> 00:15:22.169 that you just have to have your dropping for 00:15:22.169 --> 00:15:25.190 other reasons chris like we're both couples right 00:15:25.190 --> 00:15:28.029 we come here as a couple so i love the way you 00:15:28.029 --> 00:15:31.590 like your perspectives on things so like talk 00:15:31.590 --> 00:15:35.179 tell people like what do you think the husband 00:15:35.179 --> 00:15:37.840 and the couple, and it'd be general, it'd be 00:15:37.840 --> 00:15:40.720 a couple, stack vixen, whatever. What's their 00:15:40.720 --> 00:15:43.620 perspective? What should they go into as a mindset? 00:15:44.080 --> 00:15:47.120 Well, first of all, my wife and I are a stack 00:15:47.120 --> 00:15:50.460 vixen couple primarily. And coming into this, 00:15:50.460 --> 00:15:53.360 it was like, look, this is your vacation. This 00:15:53.360 --> 00:15:55.960 is about you, right? I'm going to be invisible. 00:15:56.519 --> 00:15:58.460 Nobody's going to give me the time of day. I 00:15:58.460 --> 00:16:00.460 don't, you know, I just, I'm there to support 00:16:00.460 --> 00:16:02.039 husband. I'm carrying the bags. I'm making sure 00:16:02.039 --> 00:16:03.279 you look good. I do all that kind of stuff, right? 00:16:03.879 --> 00:16:06.879 Not the case. That is absolutely 100 % not the 00:16:06.879 --> 00:16:09.220 case. The husbands have as much a role in this 00:16:09.220 --> 00:16:12.580 party as any of them. And understanding that 00:16:12.580 --> 00:16:15.200 from our first one to where we are now is a big 00:16:15.200 --> 00:16:17.440 piece of it. Any couple, no matter what your 00:16:17.440 --> 00:16:19.659 dynamic is, you have that set, but it's always 00:16:19.659 --> 00:16:21.960 fluid. And like, maybe I want to push this a 00:16:21.960 --> 00:16:23.419 little bit. Maybe I want to try this a little 00:16:23.419 --> 00:16:25.120 bit. These are the types of environments they 00:16:25.120 --> 00:16:28.220 set that up to have that opportunity to explore 00:16:28.220 --> 00:16:32.320 if you want. Then it's that just be that not 00:16:32.320 --> 00:16:36.879 afraid. to converse. Jaw -dropping, how do I 00:16:36.879 --> 00:16:39.240 even speak to one of these? How do I get it going? 00:16:39.759 --> 00:16:41.840 That's the beauty of this one with all the coaching 00:16:41.840 --> 00:16:44.539 that they do. Maybe you can't, but they've already 00:16:44.539 --> 00:16:46.679 taught the guys all these techniques for just 00:16:46.679 --> 00:16:48.600 making an open approach and non -threatening 00:16:48.600 --> 00:16:50.940 approach, all those things. All of a sudden, 00:16:50.980 --> 00:16:53.399 here's my cute little hot wife and I'm thinking, 00:16:53.440 --> 00:16:56.169 go catch you whatever you want, right? every 00:16:56.169 --> 00:16:58.110 guy's coming up to me hey how you doing what's 00:16:58.110 --> 00:16:59.529 your name what's your deal how's your you know 00:16:59.529 --> 00:17:01.649 making me a part of this thing and i'm like look 00:17:01.649 --> 00:17:04.329 i know you're not here for me but i should respect 00:17:04.329 --> 00:17:06.529 this fact that you're talking to me that you're 00:17:06.529 --> 00:17:09.190 involving me and then it's like hey she's giving 00:17:09.190 --> 00:17:10.789 me the thumbs up or her wink wink our little 00:17:10.789 --> 00:17:13.049 signals right got the baseball game going on 00:17:13.049 --> 00:17:16.700 you know and we're like okay and then He's like, 00:17:16.740 --> 00:17:18.859 come on, dude, you're coming too, right? So you're 00:17:18.859 --> 00:17:21.819 involved in it. Or if your dynamic is not, let 00:17:21.819 --> 00:17:24.160 them go play solo. We've done every variation 00:17:24.160 --> 00:17:26.700 we can kind of think of on this one. Pre -game 00:17:26.700 --> 00:17:28.720 free planning. What do you want? How are you 00:17:28.720 --> 00:17:30.519 going to do it? Who do you want? That kind of 00:17:30.519 --> 00:17:33.319 stuff. So it's just, it's like everything in 00:17:33.319 --> 00:17:35.460 life. You get out of it what you prepare for 00:17:35.460 --> 00:17:37.960 it and then adapt to the variables when they 00:17:37.960 --> 00:17:40.500 come. That's the best part is here's my plan. 00:17:40.839 --> 00:17:42.700 And at the end of the weekend, we ended up all 00:17:42.700 --> 00:17:44.730 the way over here. And no idea how we got there, 00:17:44.769 --> 00:17:47.329 but loved every minute of it. And then I'm calling 00:17:47.329 --> 00:17:50.410 Tina. I'm like, book me for the next one. We're 00:17:50.410 --> 00:17:54.390 late on a permanent payment. After the first 00:17:54.390 --> 00:17:56.589 three, I looked at Wayne. I said, I am not giving 00:17:56.589 --> 00:17:59.650 you every bit of my vacation dollars and my annual 00:17:59.650 --> 00:18:02.150 leave every year. I've got to do something else. 00:18:03.069 --> 00:18:05.940 And yet here you are. Didn't work out. We had 00:18:05.940 --> 00:18:08.160 a wait list for this Houston one because I delayed 00:18:08.160 --> 00:18:10.480 and it sold out while we were in Europe. And 00:18:10.480 --> 00:18:12.119 I come back and, like, get on the meals. It's 00:18:12.119 --> 00:18:14.240 gone. It's sold out. I'm like, oh, my God. Tina? 00:18:14.619 --> 00:18:17.140 Yeah. Put me on the guest list. Literally, he 00:18:17.140 --> 00:18:20.220 called me seconds after the last room was sold 00:18:20.220 --> 00:18:22.980 out. Because somebody made a comment in one of 00:18:22.980 --> 00:18:27.079 his groups, man, gone. And everybody sold it 00:18:27.079 --> 00:18:29.529 out. That's the, I can't think about, Hey, I 00:18:29.529 --> 00:18:32.470 want to go to next year's party. I need to prepay 00:18:32.470 --> 00:18:34.509 and plan for it now. I don't know what I'm doing 00:18:34.509 --> 00:18:37.329 six months, but I need to book my 12 month ahead, 00:18:37.430 --> 00:18:39.869 you know, new year's Eve party or the April, 00:18:39.890 --> 00:18:42.569 you know, Atlanta hotel party, which new hotel 00:18:42.569 --> 00:18:46.329 be told phenomenal. Try Atlanta. Did you book 00:18:46.329 --> 00:18:50.420 it? Oh yeah. Oh yeah. I booked before I came 00:18:50.420 --> 00:18:52.440 here because I know that if I don't book the 00:18:52.440 --> 00:18:54.440 next one before we go to the current one, then 00:18:54.440 --> 00:18:56.480 this will have it sold out. And I don't want 00:18:56.480 --> 00:19:00.000 Socrates to be crying. And suck you. That's unlike 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:03.279 most of the lifestyle parties that you will see, 00:19:03.319 --> 00:19:05.700 other takeover hotel stuff. Nothing sells out 00:19:05.700 --> 00:19:08.700 and books as fast as this event. So it's one 00:19:08.700 --> 00:19:10.599 of those you have to really pre -plan. And most 00:19:10.599 --> 00:19:12.380 of us aren't thinking that far ahead in our relationship. 00:19:13.289 --> 00:19:15.210 As a husband, I'm like, oh, I really want to 00:19:15.210 --> 00:19:17.630 see her do this with two of these really hunky 00:19:17.630 --> 00:19:19.509 mess. I don't think that far out. So then it's 00:19:19.509 --> 00:19:21.509 like, oh, all right, I got to go. What am I going 00:19:21.509 --> 00:19:24.190 to do next July? OK, I'm going to go to Florida 00:19:24.190 --> 00:19:27.049 now. Why don't you just plan your year around 00:19:27.049 --> 00:19:31.190 it? Well, we're there. I'm there now. You're 00:19:31.190 --> 00:19:33.990 making it too complicated. Another thing I wanted 00:19:33.990 --> 00:19:36.490 to touch on, too, is like you kind of discover 00:19:36.490 --> 00:19:38.690 through going to the different mochas, like what 00:19:38.690 --> 00:19:41.839 you need and. And I'm more of an extroverted 00:19:41.839 --> 00:19:44.579 introvert where I need that time in between to 00:19:44.579 --> 00:19:48.099 recharge from people. This one more than others 00:19:48.099 --> 00:19:49.720 because we went on another trip right before 00:19:49.720 --> 00:19:53.019 this. So if my energy is low, it's because I'm 00:19:53.019 --> 00:19:56.019 just worn out from like 10 straight days of traveling. 00:19:56.359 --> 00:20:00.119 But the last mocha, I decided that I wanted to 00:20:00.119 --> 00:20:02.799 make sure I was going to be who I wanted to be 00:20:02.799 --> 00:20:06.039 with, where I wanted to be, doing what I wanted 00:20:06.039 --> 00:20:08.740 to do at all times, and just make sure that I 00:20:08.740 --> 00:20:12.849 was like, taking care of myself in the experience. 00:20:13.329 --> 00:20:16.349 So it's like, he's off doing his thing. I can 00:20:16.349 --> 00:20:18.549 be off doing my thing. I don't have to be down 00:20:18.549 --> 00:20:20.490 at the party all the time. I can be, I just came 00:20:20.490 --> 00:20:23.809 from a nap. So did Chris. So it's like, you can 00:20:23.809 --> 00:20:26.210 be up taking a nap. You can let your, you know, 00:20:26.210 --> 00:20:29.069 spouse, you know, run wild if that's your dynamic, 00:20:29.210 --> 00:20:33.670 but just being okay with changing what you do 00:20:33.670 --> 00:20:35.410 each time. Like we always have a check -in before 00:20:35.410 --> 00:20:37.190 and after and like, okay, how are we going to 00:20:37.190 --> 00:20:40.019 try to move through this one? And then, you know, 00:20:40.019 --> 00:20:41.720 just making sure that you're being true to yourself 00:20:41.720 --> 00:20:45.039 and like what you need for all of your physical, 00:20:45.279 --> 00:20:49.119 mental and, you know, emotional health during 00:20:49.119 --> 00:20:52.160 the event too. And part of that is understanding 00:20:52.160 --> 00:20:54.440 your dynamic of how you guys like to play. Is 00:20:54.440 --> 00:20:56.059 it individual? Do you like to be there? Do you 00:20:56.059 --> 00:20:57.680 have to be there? Do you play in the room? Do 00:20:57.680 --> 00:20:59.460 you play in the playrooms downstairs or in public? 00:20:59.579 --> 00:21:01.539 Do you like to expose yourself and be watched? 00:21:01.660 --> 00:21:03.980 Or do you like to be private? So then if you 00:21:03.980 --> 00:21:06.440 understand that part of you, then you're prepped 00:21:06.440 --> 00:21:09.339 for it. We like to do fun lights and decorate 00:21:09.339 --> 00:21:11.539 our inside of our room. So it doesn't just look 00:21:11.539 --> 00:21:13.420 like a standard hotel room. We stay in a lot 00:21:13.420 --> 00:21:15.940 of hotel rooms on our travel all year long. So 00:21:15.940 --> 00:21:18.940 for Mocha events, I have an entire suitcase full 00:21:18.940 --> 00:21:22.059 of lights, laser lights, music, speakers, and 00:21:22.059 --> 00:21:24.460 we set a real ambiance. My wife likes to go back 00:21:24.460 --> 00:21:27.640 and play in our room, not so much down in front 00:21:27.640 --> 00:21:29.880 of everybody. So understanding that dynamic, 00:21:30.059 --> 00:21:33.640 we come prepared to have that be our intimate 00:21:33.640 --> 00:21:36.859 space and that be our play space. Like you said, 00:21:36.920 --> 00:21:39.039 what is your needs? And then what are the check 00:21:39.039 --> 00:21:41.200 -ins, check -outs, and how do you play it? We're 00:21:41.200 --> 00:21:44.299 advanced. I like the minks to go run amok. Go 00:21:44.299 --> 00:21:47.000 find what you want. Surprise me. I like to walk 00:21:47.000 --> 00:21:49.359 back into the room after. I'm a side quester, 00:21:49.359 --> 00:21:50.700 if you're familiar with that, right? I always 00:21:50.700 --> 00:21:52.900 got to go. I can't sit still. So it's like, where's 00:21:52.900 --> 00:21:54.779 Chris? Literally have a shirt that says, I'm 00:21:54.779 --> 00:21:57.519 Chris, because they lose me all the time. I side 00:21:57.519 --> 00:21:59.579 quest. But I like side questing, and I come back 00:21:59.579 --> 00:22:00.960 to the room, pop it open, and all of a sudden, 00:22:01.000 --> 00:22:02.900 there she is, bent over the bed, getting roiled. 00:22:02.980 --> 00:22:05.539 And I'm like, ah. Super Bowl hit right there, 00:22:05.599 --> 00:22:08.279 right? Touchdown. So that's where we are in our 00:22:08.279 --> 00:22:10.680 dynamic. And you guys provide that. We love it. 00:22:10.779 --> 00:22:13.640 I mean, we're addicted. It's a problem, but we 00:22:13.640 --> 00:22:16.539 love it. Then let me have a problem for your 00:22:16.539 --> 00:22:19.099 bank account. So just make more money. Yeah, 00:22:19.119 --> 00:22:21.220 I know. I make more money. It's not a problem. 00:22:21.539 --> 00:22:26.539 So this place is about black men that, you know, 00:22:26.559 --> 00:22:30.359 love this lifestyle. So, D, like, you talk to 00:22:30.359 --> 00:22:33.059 every single one that comes here, right? Yes. 00:22:33.240 --> 00:22:38.819 Yeah. So talk to us about what it takes to be 00:22:38.819 --> 00:22:41.920 here and navigate this as a single man that you've 00:22:41.920 --> 00:22:45.039 seen that really works. What it takes? Yeah. 00:22:45.319 --> 00:22:48.680 Just like basic things that they need to, that 00:22:48.680 --> 00:22:51.700 stand out to you because you're in the best position 00:22:51.700 --> 00:22:53.799 to talk about it. That's a good one. I feel like 00:22:53.799 --> 00:22:56.440 I'm beating you all over again. That's a good 00:22:56.440 --> 00:22:59.019 question. He needs to renew his membership. You 00:22:59.019 --> 00:23:02.220 should. I'd be like, you know. Well, what I will 00:23:02.220 --> 00:23:05.480 tell you is that. I don't do the questions, the 00:23:05.480 --> 00:23:08.599 standard BS. I have a genuine conversation, and 00:23:08.599 --> 00:23:11.740 I want the guy or that potential to be completely 00:23:11.740 --> 00:23:15.559 honest and comfortable with me. So as I carry 00:23:15.559 --> 00:23:18.839 the conversation going, I kind of put questions 00:23:18.839 --> 00:23:20.819 in there to make sure I would catch them in the 00:23:20.819 --> 00:23:23.200 light because I always tell them the word is 00:23:23.200 --> 00:23:25.099 everything to me, no matter whatever you have. 00:23:25.640 --> 00:23:28.880 But I will take the biggest flag for me. And 00:23:28.880 --> 00:23:33.720 to test this, guys will see me a dick pic as 00:23:33.720 --> 00:23:36.119 if that's the entry in here. And that's the old 00:23:36.119 --> 00:23:39.859 fuck no. That's the old fuck no. Instant block. 00:23:40.119 --> 00:23:45.380 I get them too. Yes. So think about it. I get 00:23:45.380 --> 00:23:48.619 them from single females as well. Yes. What? 00:23:48.859 --> 00:23:52.480 Yeah. Trying to sell somebody or what? No. Asking 00:23:52.480 --> 00:23:55.359 me, sends me a picture of their crotch going, 00:23:55.559 --> 00:23:57.920 so do you think I'm a good fit for the event? 00:23:58.299 --> 00:24:01.619 Yeah. My answer to that is no, I'm sorry. Let 00:24:01.619 --> 00:24:03.519 me tell a story really quick about what my single 00:24:03.519 --> 00:24:05.720 friend does with dick pics. She says, thank you 00:24:05.720 --> 00:24:07.740 for that. I will be sending it to the next guy 00:24:07.740 --> 00:24:09.759 that sends me a dick pic. So she keeps them on 00:24:09.759 --> 00:24:12.740 rotation, and she just sends back the dick pic 00:24:12.740 --> 00:24:16.160 of the last guy that sent her one. So there's 00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:19.579 an idea for your portfolio. As the guy who gets 00:24:19.579 --> 00:24:22.720 all the dick pics for my wife? I love that. Doing 00:24:22.720 --> 00:24:26.119 that one. Well, I don't want them. That's the 00:24:26.119 --> 00:24:28.660 whole point about it. I don't want. But, no, 00:24:28.740 --> 00:24:31.059 I try to have just a genuine conversation and 00:24:31.059 --> 00:24:33.319 be a confident, be a character, or to try to 00:24:33.319 --> 00:24:35.799 build some type of friendship with that person. 00:24:36.400 --> 00:24:39.299 Because truly, really deep down, I try to give 00:24:39.299 --> 00:24:42.279 everybody an opportunity. But I want them to 00:24:42.279 --> 00:24:45.880 be as honest as possible, and I just start asking 00:24:45.880 --> 00:24:48.799 them. Your experience, your dynamic, where are 00:24:48.799 --> 00:24:50.579 you trying to go with this? How have you ever 00:24:50.579 --> 00:24:53.319 heard from us? You know, again, like I said, 00:24:53.380 --> 00:24:57.299 the flags is like the top thing I get. The dick 00:24:57.299 --> 00:25:00.440 pics, or I get a guy go, oh, I'm 25. Well, how 00:25:00.440 --> 00:25:01.819 long have you been in the lifestyle? 10 years. 00:25:02.339 --> 00:25:06.380 So you start with, it's you? You know, I get 00:25:06.380 --> 00:25:09.579 this type of shit we get. Or I would get people 00:25:09.579 --> 00:25:13.359 say, oh, Dimitri, my boy, just talking to him. 00:25:13.660 --> 00:25:17.109 You know, I get all that. We get all of that, 00:25:17.230 --> 00:25:20.269 you know. Or the miscues that they don't think 00:25:20.269 --> 00:25:22.430 we communicate. We talk and share everything. 00:25:22.650 --> 00:25:26.190 We even put the texts in group together. So there 00:25:26.190 --> 00:25:28.789 is no way you can pretty much bullshit us. So 00:25:28.789 --> 00:25:31.670 I try to put those baits and traps out there. 00:25:31.750 --> 00:25:33.369 They see where they fall from. But when they 00:25:33.369 --> 00:25:36.250 come in humble, and first and foremost, if they're 00:25:36.250 --> 00:25:39.289 very humble and honest, not to my team, I go, 00:25:39.410 --> 00:25:42.829 okay, he could be groomed. He's potential. And 00:25:42.829 --> 00:25:45.299 I would give him an invite. But before he gets 00:25:45.299 --> 00:25:48.400 that invite, or after he gets it, I keep a genuine 00:25:48.400 --> 00:25:50.960 conversation going with him because I want to 00:25:50.960 --> 00:25:53.859 check in with him, let him know what to expect, 00:25:54.259 --> 00:25:57.579 let him know our standards on hygiene, education, 00:25:58.039 --> 00:26:00.960 experience, the etiquette, and our rules and 00:26:00.960 --> 00:26:02.740 regulations that we have posted all over the 00:26:02.740 --> 00:26:04.740 hotel. I don't want to give out too much because 00:26:04.740 --> 00:26:07.200 I don't want to put my venom process out there. 00:26:07.660 --> 00:26:09.859 But overall, I just have a genuine conversation 00:26:09.859 --> 00:26:12.420 with these guys and try to set traps for them. 00:26:12.910 --> 00:26:14.809 If they answer for you, but I don't want to put 00:26:14.809 --> 00:26:18.670 too much out. No, no, I get that. I guess I'm 00:26:18.670 --> 00:26:21.829 more asking, like, if you were to look at, you 00:26:21.829 --> 00:26:24.730 know, Mr. Mocha's word is a cross section of 00:26:24.730 --> 00:26:29.029 black individuals, bulls and whatever, even if 00:26:29.029 --> 00:26:32.329 they're married. And you see the guys that come 00:26:32.329 --> 00:26:35.670 often that have, you know, great success. They 00:26:35.670 --> 00:26:38.069 have a good time. People like them. Their name 00:26:38.069 --> 00:26:41.039 is good. What are some of the basic things? fundamental 00:26:41.039 --> 00:26:44.420 characteristics of these cats that you see? Well, 00:26:44.480 --> 00:26:48.299 they have confidence, you know, and they're comfortable 00:26:48.299 --> 00:26:50.799 in their own lane. They understand they don't 00:26:50.799 --> 00:26:53.160 have to be 6 '3 with a 10 -inch dick, you know, 00:26:53.180 --> 00:26:58.299 and we talk to them about it to ensure them when 00:26:58.299 --> 00:27:00.359 you think you're the biggest dick in the pond, 00:27:00.420 --> 00:27:02.420 there's a bigger dick in the lake, like, or a 00:27:02.420 --> 00:27:04.839 bigger dick in the ocean. Keep it, you know, 00:27:04.859 --> 00:27:07.660 just genuine. You'll be okay. Understand you're 00:27:07.660 --> 00:27:09.619 not going to be everybody's preference, you know. 00:27:10.039 --> 00:27:12.240 I tell them all the time, this is a convention, 00:27:12.579 --> 00:27:16.059 not a party. So just because you don't get your 00:27:16.059 --> 00:27:18.380 money, you don't pay, don't mean you're guaranteed 00:27:18.380 --> 00:27:20.900 to play. You got to have those conversations. 00:27:21.299 --> 00:27:24.740 There's a term I use all the time. Please listen 00:27:24.740 --> 00:27:28.980 to the couple. When your dick get hard, you go 00:27:28.980 --> 00:27:35.380 dumb. And then you have those problems. So I 00:27:35.380 --> 00:27:38.670 don't want folks to... Hold on, D. Say that back 00:27:38.670 --> 00:27:40.410 for the people out in the back. Can you say that 00:27:40.410 --> 00:27:43.910 one more time? When their dicks get hard, sometimes 00:27:43.910 --> 00:27:47.309 they go dumb. Sometimes. Sometimes. All of us. 00:27:47.329 --> 00:27:50.829 That includes me. You got to have a conversation. 00:27:51.170 --> 00:27:54.069 It's all about the conversation. But I don't 00:27:54.069 --> 00:27:56.529 ever focus on the physical because that's what 00:27:56.529 --> 00:28:00.369 hurt most men. You know, the ego, the pride. 00:28:01.410 --> 00:28:04.809 It kills them, especially as a single man. You 00:28:04.809 --> 00:28:06.970 know, I don't want to try to add racing to it, 00:28:07.009 --> 00:28:09.779 but. Being single and black is like having two 00:28:09.779 --> 00:28:12.720 strikes against you. But I try to know that those 00:28:12.720 --> 00:28:15.259 are plus when you come to Splash Mocha. So let 00:28:15.259 --> 00:28:19.160 me piggyback off that. Yes. At Splash Mocha, 00:28:19.279 --> 00:28:22.079 we do not judge a person by what's in their pants, 00:28:22.299 --> 00:28:25.019 the color of their skin, or what they look like. 00:28:25.500 --> 00:28:29.240 We judge folks at Splash Mocha by their character. 00:28:29.319 --> 00:28:32.859 And solely that character. And I love that because 00:28:32.859 --> 00:28:34.720 at the end of the day, like you said, that's 00:28:34.720 --> 00:28:37.500 all that matters. You know? Oh, yeah. Oh, yes. 00:28:37.680 --> 00:28:39.740 That's all you got at the end of the day. Your 00:28:39.740 --> 00:28:42.140 word and character. And the best thing about 00:28:42.140 --> 00:28:45.460 this community is that these people that they 00:28:45.460 --> 00:28:48.460 vet and find those basic characters, when they 00:28:48.460 --> 00:28:51.319 come to the event, they might be brand new, first 00:28:51.319 --> 00:28:54.920 time ever. They learn. There's mentorship from 00:28:54.920 --> 00:28:58.259 the older gentlemen. They give back so that it's 00:28:58.259 --> 00:29:01.859 a constant feeding and growth of new coming in. 00:29:02.480 --> 00:29:04.759 And then Angel and I have been lifestyle for 00:29:04.759 --> 00:29:06.940 20 years. We met, she was a single female on 00:29:06.940 --> 00:29:08.980 a swinger side, right? So I caught the unicorn 00:29:08.980 --> 00:29:11.339 and we have walked this journey through every 00:29:11.339 --> 00:29:15.519 aspect of the situation as it's developed for 00:29:15.519 --> 00:29:17.960 us, this road. People come here, same thing. 00:29:18.079 --> 00:29:21.160 They are doing that same adventure and going 00:29:21.160 --> 00:29:24.460 along. Now, as the older gentlemen, and I look 00:29:24.460 --> 00:29:27.259 across the crowd and I meet these guys, I want 00:29:27.259 --> 00:29:28.900 to teach these young guys and give them that 00:29:28.900 --> 00:29:31.839 feedback. Hey. Good job. Here's what you did 00:29:31.839 --> 00:29:35.079 well that got my wife in your pants, right? So 00:29:35.079 --> 00:29:36.880 that they can take that and understand. And I 00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:39.000 see those guys that are on the wall and they're 00:29:39.000 --> 00:29:41.460 like nervous and everything. And I go over and 00:29:41.460 --> 00:29:44.539 I go, how's your mocha, right? Get them to talk, 00:29:44.680 --> 00:29:47.059 explain. And they're like, oh man, your wife, 00:29:47.099 --> 00:29:50.180 whatever. It's like, yeah, go talk to her. Well, 00:29:50.240 --> 00:29:51.680 I don't know how to, or I don't know what to 00:29:51.680 --> 00:29:55.180 say. Give them a little prompt. Now that little 00:29:55.180 --> 00:29:57.980 Colonel sits in his head and grows. He gets a 00:29:57.980 --> 00:30:00.160 little more confidence, a little more. But it 00:30:00.160 --> 00:30:02.599 all starts with the base of vetting that this 00:30:02.599 --> 00:30:05.960 event does. And then the community feeds itself. 00:30:06.339 --> 00:30:09.099 We only grow stronger as we give back to our 00:30:09.099 --> 00:30:11.599 community. If we're only around just like eyes 00:30:11.599 --> 00:30:14.660 in, just about me, just me, get mine. It dies. 00:30:15.240 --> 00:30:17.940 This has flourished in a way that is unlike anything 00:30:17.940 --> 00:30:20.420 else. And it's because of that mentorship that 00:30:20.420 --> 00:30:22.640 the men give the men, the women give the women. 00:30:23.279 --> 00:30:25.940 Ladies, if you want a dick comment, like not 00:30:25.940 --> 00:30:28.319 dick comment. If you're interested in a certain 00:30:28.319 --> 00:30:31.180 thing. Go see Angel. She'll tell you, oh, you 00:30:31.180 --> 00:30:34.500 like hard, fast, big. Go check those guys over 00:30:34.500 --> 00:30:36.400 there. Right. If you like a little more sensual, 00:30:36.420 --> 00:30:38.720 smaller, you know, those guys over there are 00:30:38.720 --> 00:30:40.119 good. Right. She can give you all of that type 00:30:40.119 --> 00:30:42.559 of information and then it shares amongst the 00:30:42.559 --> 00:30:44.859 girls and they help each other out. So it's it's 00:30:44.859 --> 00:30:47.319 give and take all the way through. So the beauty 00:30:47.319 --> 00:30:50.279 part about this event is, like Dimitri said, 00:30:50.440 --> 00:30:52.279 we take these new guys, we give them a chance. 00:30:53.059 --> 00:30:56.500 And with what we consider the Splash Mocha culture. 00:30:57.119 --> 00:30:59.960 They are going to carry what they learn here 00:30:59.960 --> 00:31:02.619 outside of Splash Mocha. They're going to take 00:31:02.619 --> 00:31:04.799 it to other events. And I can't tell you how 00:31:04.799 --> 00:31:06.380 many couples have called me and said they've 00:31:06.380 --> 00:31:09.180 gone to a mansion party or a small house party 00:31:09.180 --> 00:31:12.779 or another partial hotel takeover party, and 00:31:12.779 --> 00:31:16.180 they can choose and pick out all the Splash Mocha 00:31:16.180 --> 00:31:18.519 guys who are in attendance because they don't 00:31:18.519 --> 00:31:22.259 act like frat boys running around like they're 00:31:22.259 --> 00:31:25.519 a kid in a candy store. And because of what they've 00:31:25.519 --> 00:31:29.200 learned here, They're applying it outside of 00:31:29.200 --> 00:31:32.240 this event, and it's making them the standout 00:31:32.240 --> 00:31:34.859 people. And they're getting the attention, and 00:31:34.859 --> 00:31:36.740 the little frat boys that are running around 00:31:36.740 --> 00:31:40.019 are being left out in the cold. Well, it's good 00:31:40.019 --> 00:31:42.720 to see that because it also lets the couples 00:31:42.720 --> 00:31:44.759 know they can let their guard down, especially 00:31:44.759 --> 00:31:47.940 the husband. You know, they'll come in, they 00:31:47.940 --> 00:31:50.579 have to be overly protective or assume to be. 00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:52.900 But when you come in and you see the character, 00:31:53.079 --> 00:31:55.180 you see how comfortable everybody are, he pretty 00:31:55.180 --> 00:31:58.660 much is, like, level out. So, like, even to Chris, 00:31:58.859 --> 00:32:01.259 he's, like, a one percenter of the couples here 00:32:01.259 --> 00:32:04.980 because he actually push guys. Hey, yes, yes, 00:32:05.079 --> 00:32:08.779 ancient means go. But, you know, most couples, 00:32:08.880 --> 00:32:11.400 when they come in, they don't do that. And it's 00:32:11.400 --> 00:32:13.539 not a bad thing. You know, that's his wife. That's 00:32:13.539 --> 00:32:15.980 his queen. He's willing to make sure she's okay. 00:32:16.440 --> 00:32:20.700 So, but meeting the guys here. It kind of gives 00:32:20.700 --> 00:32:22.960 them a sense of comfort, like, OK, that's stable. 00:32:23.059 --> 00:32:26.220 We can curve it and just go from there. I love 00:32:26.220 --> 00:32:28.099 that. I love that. And so you mentioned it's 00:32:28.099 --> 00:32:31.420 a convention, right? So, Tina, can you talk about 00:32:31.420 --> 00:32:34.420 like one of the things I think is great is all 00:32:34.420 --> 00:32:37.420 the courses we have here that you can take advantage 00:32:37.420 --> 00:32:39.740 of. And like I said, when I first went to the 00:32:39.740 --> 00:32:43.059 men's group, it was the fact that at the end, 00:32:43.079 --> 00:32:46.039 what sealed me is about three or four guys got 00:32:46.039 --> 00:32:49.279 up and got on people. Right. And I'll get in 00:32:49.279 --> 00:32:51.700 that later, but that was that course, and I would 00:32:51.700 --> 00:32:54.680 go to other courses. So talk about some of the 00:32:54.680 --> 00:32:57.319 courses you have and why you guys decided to 00:32:57.319 --> 00:32:59.660 do that. Because a lot of them don't do that. 00:32:59.900 --> 00:33:02.700 Right. Well, I mean, it's a three -day event, 00:33:02.859 --> 00:33:06.420 and all the Florida events have pool parties. 00:33:06.839 --> 00:33:09.480 So not everybody wants to go to the pool party. 00:33:09.539 --> 00:33:12.400 Not everybody wants to sit outside and be at 00:33:12.400 --> 00:33:15.599 the pool. So you've got people captured in a 00:33:15.599 --> 00:33:18.390 hotel. Yeah, they're here to play and have some 00:33:18.390 --> 00:33:22.210 private fun, but they're not always doing that 00:33:22.210 --> 00:33:25.930 either. So we started figuring out, let's do 00:33:25.930 --> 00:33:27.910 some seminars. Now, Wayne and Missy, who are 00:33:27.910 --> 00:33:30.910 the owners of Splash Mocha, they own Splash Takeovers 00:33:30.910 --> 00:33:34.470 first, and Splash Mocha was the spinoff of that. 00:33:34.650 --> 00:33:37.710 Splash Takeovers is the couple's only event, 00:33:37.730 --> 00:33:40.490 which is now owned by somebody else, and Splash 00:33:40.490 --> 00:33:44.319 Mocha is its own standalone entity. They had 00:33:44.319 --> 00:33:47.079 seminars for the couples. So that's another reason 00:33:47.079 --> 00:33:50.759 why they carried that footprint from Splash Takeovers, 00:33:50.799 --> 00:33:52.920 footprint, blueprint, whatever you want to call 00:33:52.920 --> 00:33:56.220 it, and carried that into Splash Mocha. So we 00:33:56.220 --> 00:34:00.039 offer seminars. And there's no extra charge for 00:34:00.039 --> 00:34:02.500 them. It's all included in your room package. 00:34:02.559 --> 00:34:04.339 The only thing that's not is food and drink. 00:34:04.640 --> 00:34:08.019 And so they brought that with them from Splash 00:34:08.019 --> 00:34:11.829 Takeovers when they owned it. We have seminars, 00:34:11.829 --> 00:34:14.789 and all the people that do the seminars are volunteers. 00:34:15.530 --> 00:34:18.190 Dimitri does one. Michael C. with the Keys and 00:34:18.190 --> 00:34:20.849 Inklings podcast. I'm sorry. I should have asked 00:34:20.849 --> 00:34:22.570 before mentioning. No, no. Yeah, please do that. 00:34:23.170 --> 00:34:27.269 That's my boy. You know, and Michael C. also 00:34:27.269 --> 00:34:30.769 does a seminar for us. We have a lady who will 00:34:30.769 --> 00:34:33.690 do a blowjob seminar when she's in attendance, 00:34:33.929 --> 00:34:37.070 and she has, before her husband passed away, 00:34:37.309 --> 00:34:41.739 she consulted his urologist. on her seminars 00:34:41.739 --> 00:34:46.059 and he helped her create her seminar. So it's 00:34:46.059 --> 00:34:50.519 a medical, actually a scientific. She's got it. 00:34:50.539 --> 00:34:53.320 It's a two harder. One day is about the science 00:34:53.320 --> 00:34:55.260 of it all. And then the second day is a hands 00:34:55.260 --> 00:34:58.320 -on demonstration. But not everybody wants to 00:34:58.320 --> 00:35:00.619 be at the pool parties. Not everybody wants to 00:35:00.619 --> 00:35:02.639 be playing all the time. And when you've got 00:35:02.639 --> 00:35:05.900 everybody, we want people to stay here. We don't 00:35:05.900 --> 00:35:08.179 want them to go outside of the hotel looking 00:35:08.179 --> 00:35:11.679 for. Something to do during the day. So that's 00:35:11.679 --> 00:35:14.119 why we have the seminars is to help keep them 00:35:14.119 --> 00:35:17.820 in house and have things to do during the day. 00:35:17.860 --> 00:35:20.860 And especially if we do have a pool party and 00:35:20.860 --> 00:35:22.960 it starts raining and storming. I mean, in Florida, 00:35:23.019 --> 00:35:26.159 wait 20 minutes. The weather is going to change. 00:35:26.599 --> 00:35:29.559 And, you know, they have that to fall back on 00:35:29.559 --> 00:35:32.619 and go hang out and go learn something for an 00:35:32.619 --> 00:35:35.980 hour. In one of my first MOCA's, they had a seminar 00:35:35.980 --> 00:35:40.059 on lifestyle swinging. and the Bible. And it 00:35:40.059 --> 00:35:42.679 was taught by a former minister. She was a retired 00:35:42.679 --> 00:35:45.840 minister. It was the most incredible class I've 00:35:45.840 --> 00:35:47.760 ever been to. She's the same one that does the 00:35:47.760 --> 00:35:49.119 blowjob seminar. She does the blowjob seminar 00:35:49.119 --> 00:35:52.099 as well, too, which Angel said was the most incredible 00:35:52.099 --> 00:35:54.559 seminar she'd ever attended because she learned 00:35:54.559 --> 00:35:56.940 so much, and then she got to put it into effect. 00:35:57.079 --> 00:36:00.860 But this seminar on the Bible and how a lot of 00:36:00.860 --> 00:36:02.639 us have that conflict with our religious beliefs 00:36:02.639 --> 00:36:04.829 and all that kind of stuff. She broke this down. 00:36:04.889 --> 00:36:06.650 It was great. We started out with a prayer. We 00:36:06.650 --> 00:36:08.210 all gathered together for the seminar. She's 00:36:08.210 --> 00:36:11.650 like, join hands. Let's pray. I'm like, I'm at 00:36:11.650 --> 00:36:14.489 a swinger event and we're kicking it off like 00:36:14.489 --> 00:36:18.110 this. And then her explanation and passages that 00:36:18.110 --> 00:36:20.429 she showed, this has been going on since the 00:36:20.429 --> 00:36:24.110 dawn of time. We are not weird. And that's probably. 00:36:24.480 --> 00:36:27.059 The second thing about this, understanding husbands, 00:36:27.179 --> 00:36:29.500 as you come in there with your hot wife, you 00:36:29.500 --> 00:36:32.519 have already crossed that threshold to promoting 00:36:32.519 --> 00:36:36.420 her into a lifestyle that she's been raised not 00:36:36.420 --> 00:36:38.559 to be a part of, right? This is unacceptable 00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:42.159 as a lady from the day you're born. You've crossed 00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:44.079 over that threshold and you have the supportive 00:36:44.079 --> 00:36:46.320 husband who's doing this together with you. Now 00:36:46.320 --> 00:36:50.159 having that next level piece of unity and adjustment, 00:36:50.360 --> 00:36:51.780 I completely lost where I was going with that 00:36:51.780 --> 00:36:54.199 point. Anyway, the seminars are phenomenal because 00:36:54.199 --> 00:36:57.139 I get bored easily. I'm moving around my side 00:36:57.139 --> 00:36:59.380 quest. So the seminars was a unique thing and 00:36:59.380 --> 00:37:01.340 I love them and they have been very, very valuable. 00:37:01.500 --> 00:37:03.260 Everyone that I've ever attended. They're really 00:37:03.260 --> 00:37:06.739 good. I love them. We, because I was at a seminar, 00:37:06.780 --> 00:37:10.260 we got the name siren. I just wanted to, I wanted 00:37:10.260 --> 00:37:13.619 to talk about. Like our evolution, I had to put 00:37:13.619 --> 00:37:15.940 that word in there for Mr. Brian Morgan. Like 00:37:15.940 --> 00:37:20.139 I said, when I came, I was nervous as fuck. And 00:37:20.139 --> 00:37:23.320 sitting down, being able to talk to Mr. Mocha, 00:37:23.420 --> 00:37:27.699 talk to Dee, talk to Tina. I've even listened 00:37:27.699 --> 00:37:31.219 to Chris and Angel Means before I even met these 00:37:31.219 --> 00:37:33.840 people. And listening to how they navigated, 00:37:33.960 --> 00:37:36.639 this stuff really helps. Because, you know, as 00:37:36.639 --> 00:37:39.619 a married man, my first concern was my wife's 00:37:39.619 --> 00:37:43.099 safety and her being treated with respect and 00:37:43.099 --> 00:37:47.800 men approaching properly. And then what really 00:37:47.800 --> 00:37:49.559 happened is I was sitting down and she's like, 00:37:49.719 --> 00:37:51.699 OK, I scheduled you at one o 'clock and at three 00:37:51.699 --> 00:37:54.199 o 'clock. I said, wait, what? I thought I was 00:37:54.199 --> 00:37:55.539 just going to sit around and watch you get fucked. 00:37:55.619 --> 00:37:59.019 So, OK. And after that, I started getting into 00:37:59.019 --> 00:38:03.559 how do I navigate myself? Because one, for the 00:38:03.559 --> 00:38:08.079 ladies. I have ADHD as fuck. So when I'm talking 00:38:08.079 --> 00:38:11.940 to you, it might look or feel like I'm not interested 00:38:11.940 --> 00:38:14.440 or I'm looking for another opportunity or another 00:38:14.440 --> 00:38:17.219 hot girl. That's just me with everything. So 00:38:17.219 --> 00:38:20.079 like my wife runs my calendar. I don't know what 00:38:20.079 --> 00:38:21.780 I'm doing tomorrow. I just know whatever's on 00:38:21.780 --> 00:38:24.179 the calendar because I might tell her I'm doing 00:38:24.179 --> 00:38:27.889 this, I'm doing that. I had a lot of people like 00:38:27.889 --> 00:38:30.550 Mr. Mocha, like D, tell me certain things to 00:38:30.550 --> 00:38:32.150 be like, hey, man, calm down. Here's what you 00:38:32.150 --> 00:38:34.389 need to focus on. Or don't worry about this. 00:38:34.449 --> 00:38:38.289 Worry about that. You know, and that helps. So 00:38:38.289 --> 00:38:40.849 when you coming in, if you're a couple or a single 00:38:40.849 --> 00:38:44.389 guy or for us, I do think there's no such thing 00:38:44.389 --> 00:38:48.170 as better or worse. But being a stag vixen and 00:38:48.170 --> 00:38:51.670 I are in a racial relationship and we're both, 00:38:51.710 --> 00:38:55.650 you know. Trying to get it in, that introduces 00:38:55.650 --> 00:38:58.550 a lot of challenges for us. And if it wasn't 00:38:58.550 --> 00:39:02.170 for the people that I call on a daily basis sometimes, 00:39:02.429 --> 00:39:05.210 I check on D at least once a week, if not, we 00:39:05.210 --> 00:39:09.309 talk two or three times. Yeah. And he knows I'm 00:39:09.309 --> 00:39:11.110 the guy, everybody knows Socrates is the guy 00:39:11.110 --> 00:39:14.210 with some questions. So I'm in his ear. I mean, 00:39:14.250 --> 00:39:16.250 what are you thinking about? You know, and they'll 00:39:16.250 --> 00:39:18.329 get on me. Like, yeah, that was, I understand 00:39:18.329 --> 00:39:20.329 the question, but you sound like a bitch. Well, 00:39:20.849 --> 00:39:23.460 though, honestly. When I see his phone, the number 00:39:23.460 --> 00:39:25.860 pop up, I go, I better get some coffee. This 00:39:25.860 --> 00:39:29.400 is going to be a conversation. Really? That's 00:39:29.400 --> 00:39:32.159 what I do to you when I see you? I call our IDs. 00:39:32.380 --> 00:39:34.880 Coffee. I better get some coffee. Because he 00:39:34.880 --> 00:39:37.340 likes to call me at 6 .30 and 7 o 'clock in the 00:39:37.340 --> 00:39:40.280 morning. I'm retired, so what's the best way 00:39:40.280 --> 00:39:43.079 to fuck with your friends, right? Wake up. But 00:39:43.079 --> 00:39:47.440 yes, no. Our conversations are pretty much different. 00:39:47.840 --> 00:39:52.570 Like, though, with Chris, Socrates. We don't 00:39:52.570 --> 00:39:55.449 hold back. You know, it's very, very vulgar. 00:39:55.469 --> 00:39:57.690 It's very, very, you would think, disrespectful. 00:39:58.590 --> 00:40:01.070 But it's just that crystal clear to where there's, 00:40:01.070 --> 00:40:04.389 we leave no room for miscommunication. Of course, 00:40:04.409 --> 00:40:06.489 with delays, we kind of keep it PG, keep the 00:40:06.489 --> 00:40:09.489 volume and everything down. But we still try 00:40:09.489 --> 00:40:12.949 to get our point across or truth across. And 00:40:12.949 --> 00:40:14.710 then you take from what you want to take from 00:40:14.710 --> 00:40:17.449 it. And these guys do it to me. So it's not like 00:40:17.449 --> 00:40:20.429 I am a guru, though. We do it to each other. 00:40:20.829 --> 00:40:22.489 And I think that's the best way how to keep each 00:40:22.489 --> 00:40:25.510 other humble. Yeah. You hold each other accountable. 00:40:25.969 --> 00:40:29.590 And if you come here and you're nervous or you're 00:40:29.590 --> 00:40:32.750 afraid, don't sit in the corner. As a guy, these 00:40:32.750 --> 00:40:35.329 women are here for you. Well, come up to some 00:40:35.329 --> 00:40:38.349 of these gentlemen that have a Splash Mocha staff 00:40:38.349 --> 00:40:42.090 jacket on or a T -shirt and say, hey, man, what 00:40:42.090 --> 00:40:44.190 do you think about this? They're the best ones 00:40:44.190 --> 00:40:48.429 to give you, like, the advice that you need to 00:40:48.429 --> 00:40:51.269 navigate well. You know, in my opinion, because 00:40:51.269 --> 00:40:55.710 it's like they're seeing the like explosion of 00:40:55.710 --> 00:40:58.489 a failure and they're seeing the explosion of 00:40:58.489 --> 00:41:00.329 all these dudes up in, you know, in the room 00:41:00.329 --> 00:41:02.510 where he wanted to be. He didn't think he was 00:41:02.510 --> 00:41:04.349 going to be or you know what I mean? So it's 00:41:04.349 --> 00:41:07.449 like for me, it's like, I'm sorry. I know everybody 00:41:07.449 --> 00:41:09.550 can't be like me because I'm going to ask you 00:41:09.550 --> 00:41:12.369 questions until I get on your nerves. Like. I'm 00:41:12.369 --> 00:41:13.949 going to ask you, when I first got into lifestyle, 00:41:14.190 --> 00:41:16.949 I wanted to give him some pussy, but he asked 00:41:16.949 --> 00:41:20.090 the questions way out of it. Talking out of it, 00:41:20.110 --> 00:41:22.110 talk your way out of it. Talk your way out of 00:41:22.110 --> 00:41:24.550 it. And I'll ask my way out of it. So what do 00:41:24.550 --> 00:41:27.150 you think about this? What do you think? And 00:41:27.150 --> 00:41:29.909 then if I do this, what do you think about it? 00:41:29.989 --> 00:41:32.670 Yeah, sometimes it's just a touch and feel experience 00:41:32.670 --> 00:41:35.610 and not a question and answer experience. And 00:41:35.610 --> 00:41:38.349 I had what really, really helped me and kind 00:41:38.349 --> 00:41:42.429 of turned it around is Mr. Mocha said, Socrates. 00:41:43.030 --> 00:41:45.449 You know how he talked. Socrates. He was like, 00:41:45.590 --> 00:41:49.610 it's an art, not a science. And I said, damn, 00:41:49.730 --> 00:41:52.210 you're right. Exactly. Yeah. So sometimes you 00:41:52.210 --> 00:41:53.769 just have to pretend like you're a blind man 00:41:53.769 --> 00:41:56.329 and read the book by Braille. Exactly. I like 00:41:56.329 --> 00:41:59.829 that. That's a really good. That's a. Yeah. I 00:41:59.829 --> 00:42:02.170 love that. If you're starting out and you have 00:42:02.170 --> 00:42:04.969 that nervousness, a lot of what draws the people 00:42:04.969 --> 00:42:06.730 into the lifestyle is people watching, right? 00:42:06.809 --> 00:42:08.969 We travel around. We like to look at the dynamics. 00:42:09.090 --> 00:42:10.530 You sit in the airport, you watch people go by. 00:42:10.849 --> 00:42:13.150 Come to this party. And if you're nervous, start 00:42:13.150 --> 00:42:16.849 out, sit, observe, watch the couples and see. 00:42:17.239 --> 00:42:20.360 Who works what and how they work it. Find somebody 00:42:20.360 --> 00:42:23.139 that you like and then emulate what they're doing. 00:42:23.239 --> 00:42:26.119 See how they move. See who they go talk to. How 00:42:26.119 --> 00:42:28.440 do they do it? How do they dress? Costume ideas. 00:42:28.519 --> 00:42:30.639 All that kind of stuff. You can learn through 00:42:30.639 --> 00:42:33.539 observation and gain your own self -confidence 00:42:33.539 --> 00:42:36.400 through that observation. And then you just go 00:42:36.400 --> 00:42:39.139 try. Like every little step everybody takes in 00:42:39.139 --> 00:42:42.239 this journey. It's like, ooh, that was fun. I'm 00:42:42.239 --> 00:42:44.539 chasing the next high. Let's... Let's do this 00:42:44.539 --> 00:42:46.460 next time and see if it works. If you like it, 00:42:46.480 --> 00:42:48.719 you do. If you don't, we did it and we're going 00:42:48.719 --> 00:42:51.059 to move on. But observation, a big one here. 00:42:51.340 --> 00:42:53.780 I love that. I love that. So we do here, we are 00:42:53.780 --> 00:42:56.579 here, Smoka, and we do have an audience. So we'd 00:42:56.579 --> 00:43:00.639 love to get people's opinion, questions, statements. 00:43:01.300 --> 00:43:03.800 If you've been on before a thousand times, you 00:43:03.800 --> 00:43:06.599 never have. I'd love to hear anybody want to 00:43:06.599 --> 00:43:10.460 say anything or comment. No? Okay. I'm going 00:43:10.460 --> 00:43:14.550 to give you the mic. So you just hold it. So 00:43:14.550 --> 00:43:17.409 this is Jasmine here. Let me just say, first 00:43:17.409 --> 00:43:19.969 and foremost, thank you for putting on this event. 00:43:20.230 --> 00:43:23.070 When he first brought it to me, I was like, we're 00:43:23.070 --> 00:43:25.349 going where? We're going to do what? Are you 00:43:25.349 --> 00:43:29.110 crazy? But once I got in, I did exactly what 00:43:29.110 --> 00:43:32.650 you guys said. Just sit back, watch, check it 00:43:32.650 --> 00:43:36.369 out. And my first time, I was super, super scared. 00:43:36.570 --> 00:43:39.710 I didn't know what to expect. And when I got 00:43:39.710 --> 00:43:43.940 here, I felt like I walked into... A family reunion. 00:43:44.340 --> 00:43:47.440 And I didn't know anybody. Most incestuous family 00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:51.559 reunion. Yeah, it's funny. It's right. Very. 00:43:52.300 --> 00:43:55.860 But I just, I felt so comfortable. And then being 00:43:55.860 --> 00:43:58.639 able to speak with the guys and how everybody, 00:43:58.940 --> 00:44:01.980 that's my biggest thing. Protection. Am I going 00:44:01.980 --> 00:44:04.860 to be safe? And I know when I walk in through 00:44:04.860 --> 00:44:08.460 these doors for this event, I'm fine. And now 00:44:08.460 --> 00:44:11.199 to the point, this is our fifth, right? Fifth 00:44:11.199 --> 00:44:14.760 one. Been to Atlanta. All the others, Houston. 00:44:15.139 --> 00:44:21.019 I feel so comfortable and just can let go. And 00:44:21.019 --> 00:44:24.480 I couldn't do that at first. So I can say this 00:44:24.480 --> 00:44:29.139 is one of my best ones yet. So we did sign up 00:44:29.139 --> 00:44:35.000 for Atlanta. I know. Before we came here. But 00:44:35.000 --> 00:44:40.400 before we came here for this one, I was thinking, 00:44:40.440 --> 00:44:43.920 okay, what am I going to do? What haven't I done? 00:44:44.079 --> 00:44:46.820 Who haven't I done? That list never runs out. 00:44:47.019 --> 00:44:51.099 Yeah, exactly. Exactly. But I had already grown 00:44:51.099 --> 00:44:54.420 in my own mindset of exploring and doing more 00:44:54.420 --> 00:44:57.579 and saying, hey, I like this guy. Let's see if 00:44:57.579 --> 00:45:00.300 we can schedule something or, you know, go and 00:45:00.300 --> 00:45:03.260 talk or what have you. But this is an amazing 00:45:03.260 --> 00:45:06.400 event for those in the lifestyle, even if you're 00:45:06.400 --> 00:45:09.519 brand spanking new. Just try it out and talk 00:45:09.519 --> 00:45:11.460 to people who, like you said, talk to people 00:45:11.460 --> 00:45:14.199 who have already been here. We'll tell you. We'll 00:45:14.199 --> 00:45:17.739 tell you and be brutally honest. But I have to 00:45:17.739 --> 00:45:20.840 say this is amazing. So thank you. Thank you 00:45:20.840 --> 00:45:23.059 for that. Thank you. When you get to that hot 00:45:23.059 --> 00:45:25.280 wifing point in your relationship and you want 00:45:25.280 --> 00:45:27.880 to see the single stuff happen, right? The husbands, 00:45:28.019 --> 00:45:30.099 it's like an 80 -20. Most of the time the husbands 00:45:30.099 --> 00:45:31.739 are out there doing the screening, making all 00:45:31.739 --> 00:45:35.099 the communications. sussing out that person and 00:45:35.099 --> 00:45:37.519 stuff but there's so much effort work that goes 00:45:37.519 --> 00:45:40.719 into that to have it maybe fail you you finally 00:45:40.719 --> 00:45:43.119 meet you get it and it just doesn't fire off 00:45:43.119 --> 00:45:45.280 it's like oh my god i put all that time and waste 00:45:45.280 --> 00:45:47.599 into this and it's frustrated she wasn't happy 00:45:47.599 --> 00:45:49.019 it was a bad experience all that kind of stuff 00:45:49.019 --> 00:45:51.519 mocha parties it's like fishing in a stock pond 00:45:52.119 --> 00:45:55.000 Right. So it's easier for the husbands when you 00:45:55.000 --> 00:45:57.420 bring your wife to this. It's like they've done 00:45:57.420 --> 00:46:00.059 all that upfront work for you. So now you can 00:46:00.059 --> 00:46:02.099 focus on the two of you and what you're going 00:46:02.099 --> 00:46:03.880 to get out of the experience, what she's going 00:46:03.880 --> 00:46:05.800 to get out of the experience as your hot wife. 00:46:05.880 --> 00:46:07.760 You can feed that to her. And then you're like, 00:46:07.840 --> 00:46:09.980 oh, I like watching this or I like seeing this 00:46:09.980 --> 00:46:13.199 and doing all that. It's all here without all 00:46:13.199 --> 00:46:15.639 the effort. Right. So that's some of the investment 00:46:15.639 --> 00:46:17.199 that you get the bang for your buck when you 00:46:17.199 --> 00:46:20.579 come with these guys, too. So. Yeah, I'm Billy 00:46:20.579 --> 00:46:22.659 with Billy's Naughty Girl. She's right over there, 00:46:22.679 --> 00:46:24.900 night girl. So, yeah, I'd just like to say that, 00:46:24.920 --> 00:46:26.579 man, there's been so much brought up here that's 00:46:26.579 --> 00:46:29.840 like, oh, yeah, I got that. I got that. I got 00:46:29.840 --> 00:46:33.940 that. But as husbands, you really have to not 00:46:33.940 --> 00:46:36.420 be concerned about what's going on. Definitely 00:46:36.420 --> 00:46:39.159 the communication before and after. Most definitely. 00:46:39.690 --> 00:46:41.670 I had so many words. Now they're gone. What do 00:46:41.670 --> 00:46:43.570 you mean by not be concerned? Can you tell us 00:46:43.570 --> 00:46:44.969 a little bit more about what you mean by not 00:46:44.969 --> 00:46:45.789 be concerned? You know, like, just understand 00:46:45.789 --> 00:46:47.650 that, you know, these guys right here, they've 00:46:47.650 --> 00:46:49.590 done the vetting. They've done the talking. Yeah, 00:46:49.670 --> 00:46:51.730 and all the guys that are here are really good. 00:46:52.230 --> 00:46:54.309 Really good. Man, there's so many guys that are 00:46:54.309 --> 00:46:55.630 so good. We've actually made some really good 00:46:55.630 --> 00:46:58.590 friends here. Even so well that we went to our 00:46:58.590 --> 00:47:00.690 10th anniversary last August. It's the only reason 00:47:00.690 --> 00:47:03.269 we didn't go to Lauderdale. We went to Vegas, 00:47:03.329 --> 00:47:06.929 and one of the guys we met here flew up from 00:47:06.929 --> 00:47:11.150 Miami to spend... A weekend in Vegas with us. 00:47:11.190 --> 00:47:13.630 And it was a real good time. A real good time. 00:47:13.690 --> 00:47:15.190 So you're going to meet real good people here. 00:47:15.750 --> 00:47:18.150 Real people, for sure. Yes. And, yeah, we just 00:47:18.150 --> 00:47:20.170 really appreciate that. And it makes your playtime 00:47:20.170 --> 00:47:22.690 so much better. Like, just, I have a little joke 00:47:22.690 --> 00:47:24.369 with the guys. Like, I have to fuck you three 00:47:24.369 --> 00:47:26.050 times to figure out if I'm going to be your friend 00:47:26.050 --> 00:47:29.190 or not. Yeah. Because I don't want to talk to 00:47:29.190 --> 00:47:31.150 you for a month and then meet you and be like, 00:47:31.230 --> 00:47:34.250 so I usually am a few words until after we've 00:47:34.250 --> 00:47:36.969 played at least once. And then by the time if 00:47:36.969 --> 00:47:38.590 I've played with you three times, like we're 00:47:38.590 --> 00:47:40.150 pretty good friends. And then we talk about all 00:47:40.150 --> 00:47:42.269 kinds of crazy stuff, you know, like, oh, yeah, 00:47:42.349 --> 00:47:44.650 like what about this is going on? And, you know, 00:47:44.650 --> 00:47:47.309 like it's not very romantic sounding or sensual 00:47:47.309 --> 00:47:49.409 sounding, but we're just talking about real life 00:47:49.409 --> 00:47:51.670 and we have a little inside jokes. And so you'll 00:47:51.670 --> 00:47:53.230 become friends with people and definitely will. 00:47:53.500 --> 00:47:56.000 It just makes the play a lot more fun and there's 00:47:56.000 --> 00:47:58.280 a lot more laughter and less nerves and less 00:47:58.280 --> 00:48:01.300 like seriousness. Yep. So that's the kind of 00:48:01.300 --> 00:48:03.639 play I like. It's sport fucking at the end of 00:48:03.639 --> 00:48:06.739 the day, right? It's all about fun. It is. But 00:48:06.739 --> 00:48:09.780 when you come here, the friendships you make 00:48:09.780 --> 00:48:12.440 while you're here is going to translate outside 00:48:12.440 --> 00:48:15.219 of Sposh Mocha. You will meet people that you 00:48:15.219 --> 00:48:18.300 will continue to talk with outside of the event. 00:48:18.340 --> 00:48:21.920 And so many times I talk to. all of our guests, 00:48:22.039 --> 00:48:24.119 and by the way, Splash Mocha considers the guys 00:48:24.119 --> 00:48:27.219 and the couples guests. Everybody's a guest. 00:48:27.619 --> 00:48:31.059 They will have long -term friendships for years 00:48:31.059 --> 00:48:34.940 to come outside of the lifestyle. And, you know, 00:48:34.980 --> 00:48:37.920 I tell a story that my husband and I were getting 00:48:37.920 --> 00:48:41.099 ready to sell our house, and we had to strip 00:48:41.099 --> 00:48:45.280 the roof off, put a new roof on to be able to 00:48:45.280 --> 00:48:48.400 sell it. And smartass, I put on Facebook, hey, 00:48:48.440 --> 00:48:50.760 we got... We're tearing off our roof. Anybody 00:48:50.760 --> 00:48:52.599 want to volunteer to come help? Looking for a 00:48:52.599 --> 00:48:56.800 good workout. And I was just joking. Do you know 00:48:56.800 --> 00:49:00.079 who showed up? Lifestyle friends. Do you know 00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:02.699 who didn't show up? Vanilla friends. They were 00:49:02.699 --> 00:49:04.599 like, oh, we didn't know you were tearing off 00:49:04.599 --> 00:49:06.480 the roof. I'm like, bitch, you drove by my house 00:49:06.480 --> 00:49:09.239 three times that day to get to your own damn 00:49:09.239 --> 00:49:11.179 house. You knew what we were doing. Where were 00:49:11.179 --> 00:49:13.320 you? At least drop off a pizza for those boys. 00:49:14.199 --> 00:49:17.840 But it was lifestyle friends that came out. My 00:49:17.840 --> 00:49:20.420 husband and I have been in a lifestyle just over 00:49:20.420 --> 00:49:24.460 20 years now. And we've made such long -term 00:49:24.460 --> 00:49:26.460 friends that I've got friends we met in a lifestyle 00:49:26.460 --> 00:49:28.639 that would drive to Hawaii on four flat tires 00:49:28.639 --> 00:49:32.019 to help us out if it came down to it. And that 00:49:32.019 --> 00:49:34.639 is irreplaceable. These weekends have become 00:49:34.639 --> 00:49:36.760 more about the relationships with the people 00:49:36.760 --> 00:49:38.960 that come here than it is about the physicality. 00:49:39.309 --> 00:49:42.110 Right. That's the pure enjoyment of this is walking 00:49:42.110 --> 00:49:44.250 in. We've been to one this year. This is our 00:49:44.250 --> 00:49:46.389 second one at the end of the year. And we walk 00:49:46.389 --> 00:49:48.530 in like we haven't missed a mocha yet. People 00:49:48.530 --> 00:49:51.409 hugging us, kissing us. How you been? What's 00:49:51.409 --> 00:49:53.769 going on? Saw on the Facebook that Angel was 00:49:53.769 --> 00:49:55.590 in the hospital. What happened? I mean, just 00:49:55.590 --> 00:49:58.789 it was it was I don't have these conversations 00:49:58.789 --> 00:50:01.510 with my brothers, literal blood brothers. My 00:50:01.510 --> 00:50:04.329 family has no clue. I talked to these guys about 00:50:04.329 --> 00:50:09.289 everything. You know, it's funny that. About 00:50:09.289 --> 00:50:11.989 three years ago, we was doing a podcast with 00:50:11.989 --> 00:50:14.929 Michael C and the guys, and we was talking about 00:50:14.929 --> 00:50:17.289 friendship. And I was in thought. I said, you 00:50:17.289 --> 00:50:20.949 know, my dick comes with friendship. And now 00:50:20.949 --> 00:50:23.610 you can find that T -shirt on keysnaker .com. 00:50:24.710 --> 00:50:27.170 He turned my fucking pole to a fucking T -shirt. 00:50:28.010 --> 00:50:29.829 I'm going to have him make me the shirt that 00:50:29.829 --> 00:50:31.590 says, I got to fuck you three times to be your 00:50:31.590 --> 00:50:34.639 friend. Yep. I was like, oh my God. We had another 00:50:34.639 --> 00:50:37.679 little joke. We went to a cabin with a couple 00:50:37.679 --> 00:50:40.179 that we, a cuckold couple that we met here and 00:50:40.179 --> 00:50:42.559 we were having a really good time. And I came 00:50:42.559 --> 00:50:45.840 down one morning and she's like, I hope you don't 00:50:45.840 --> 00:50:48.500 mind. Your hair tie was laying on the table and 00:50:48.500 --> 00:50:50.780 I just borrowed it. And she was like, had this 00:50:50.780 --> 00:50:52.679 concerned look on her face. And I said, oh bitch, 00:50:52.920 --> 00:50:55.940 you can fuck my husband, but you cannot use my 00:50:55.940 --> 00:50:59.000 hair tie. So that's become a little joke too 00:50:59.000 --> 00:51:02.190 of like, you know, it's pretty funny. OK, well, 00:51:02.329 --> 00:51:04.969 we got to be cognizant of the time, guys. So 00:51:04.969 --> 00:51:07.389 does anybody want to say anything to kind of 00:51:07.389 --> 00:51:10.110 close it out or add something that hasn't been 00:51:10.110 --> 00:51:12.469 discussed? This has just been it's been so dope. 00:51:12.530 --> 00:51:15.550 Yeah. Come on. I would like to say the one thing 00:51:15.550 --> 00:51:18.090 about this again and coming into this lifestyle, 00:51:18.309 --> 00:51:21.190 you find your own confidence or you don't see 00:51:21.190 --> 00:51:23.630 it in your outside world. I think that's an important 00:51:23.630 --> 00:51:27.579 factor that. brings everybody here, because you 00:51:27.579 --> 00:51:30.199 discover more about yourself, and it's so awesome. 00:51:30.420 --> 00:51:32.420 And I want to say thank you. You're welcome. 00:51:32.760 --> 00:51:36.420 We're glad you're here. Did you want to introduce 00:51:36.420 --> 00:51:38.820 yourself? Oh, I'm so sorry. I am Billy's naughty 00:51:38.820 --> 00:51:42.940 girl. Naughty, mainly. Is she a possum? Okay. 00:51:43.099 --> 00:51:48.119 Yeah, I'll speak, all right? No. Okay. And it 00:51:48.119 --> 00:51:50.519 is emotional. I remember my first podcast session 00:51:50.519 --> 00:51:52.179 that I walked in and they were talking about 00:51:52.179 --> 00:51:54.300 body positivity and I was in the back of the 00:51:54.300 --> 00:51:56.719 room just sobbing because it was the first place 00:51:56.719 --> 00:51:58.699 where I was like, there's literally something 00:51:58.699 --> 00:52:02.719 for everyone here, every single body type, especially 00:52:02.719 --> 00:52:05.099 for us as women that, you know, struggle with 00:52:05.099 --> 00:52:08.900 that, because I just never felt like my body 00:52:08.900 --> 00:52:12.059 type was accepted before I came into the, you 00:52:12.059 --> 00:52:14.920 know, interracial community. I was just like, 00:52:14.980 --> 00:52:17.739 I just thought I was fat. And then to have it, 00:52:17.739 --> 00:52:21.360 like, worshipped here is, like, very amazing 00:52:21.360 --> 00:52:23.780 and incredible. And, like, every fat roll, every 00:52:23.780 --> 00:52:27.059 stretch mark, they're like, oh. And now girls 00:52:27.059 --> 00:52:29.679 that are bigger than me or whatever, I say, girl, 00:52:29.739 --> 00:52:31.559 your whole body feel like a titty. It's amazing. 00:52:31.820 --> 00:52:34.739 Like, don't look down on yourself at all. Like, 00:52:34.739 --> 00:52:36.599 it will be worshipped here. Hello, everyone. 00:52:36.719 --> 00:52:41.559 My name's Alex. Coming to Slash has been an amazing 00:52:41.559 --> 00:52:43.960 and eye -opening experience. I was in a lifestyle 00:52:43.960 --> 00:52:46.500 off and on for about six years before I started 00:52:46.500 --> 00:52:48.579 coming to Splash. And even then I've learned 00:52:48.579 --> 00:52:51.800 so much. From a single male's perspective, one 00:52:51.800 --> 00:52:53.500 of the things that really helped me get comfortable 00:52:53.500 --> 00:52:55.579 at this environment and still working through 00:52:55.579 --> 00:52:59.820 it is when Dimitri had said, like, it's a brotherhood 00:52:59.820 --> 00:53:02.559 and truly embrace the brotherhood. And that not 00:53:02.559 --> 00:53:05.739 only did it have an effect here, it also took 00:53:05.739 --> 00:53:09.320 that outside. And going to different parties, 00:53:09.340 --> 00:53:12.320 different events, it adds another layer of connection. 00:53:13.039 --> 00:53:15.559 That's just so amazing. And the level of self 00:53:15.559 --> 00:53:17.780 -awareness that you learn here, you learn what 00:53:17.780 --> 00:53:19.539 play dynamics you're comfortable with. Do you 00:53:19.539 --> 00:53:21.599 like to go play in the playrooms? Do you like 00:53:21.599 --> 00:53:25.000 to just go to the room parties? Do you like to 00:53:25.000 --> 00:53:28.820 do one -on -one? And I think my advice to single 00:53:28.820 --> 00:53:32.059 guys is keep an open ear, listen to the mentors. 00:53:32.639 --> 00:53:35.159 They're here to help you in this connection. 00:53:35.440 --> 00:53:39.860 And also with that, just slow down, take time 00:53:39.860 --> 00:53:42.469 to connect. I always love the connection. Yeah, 00:53:42.489 --> 00:53:44.670 we do come here for play, but I honestly, my 00:53:44.670 --> 00:53:47.130 best experiences have really been the ones where 00:53:47.130 --> 00:53:48.590 I've been able to truly connect with people and 00:53:48.590 --> 00:53:51.070 get to know them. I love it. I love it. Well, 00:53:51.190 --> 00:53:53.690 we can go on all night, but I just want to thank 00:53:53.690 --> 00:53:55.670 everybody. Unless you guys have anything else 00:53:55.670 --> 00:53:59.710 to say, we really appreciate you guys. I do have 00:53:59.710 --> 00:54:03.210 one thing I would like to thank everybody who 00:54:03.210 --> 00:54:05.730 has been supporting Splash Mocha from day one. 00:54:05.949 --> 00:54:08.940 You guys are what? It keeps us going and it keeps 00:54:08.940 --> 00:54:11.960 those wheels turning and makes my job so pleasurable. 00:54:12.159 --> 00:54:15.159 It's seeing everybody's happy faces. Thank you. 00:54:15.199 --> 00:54:17.920 You can follow me at ChrisMinks23 on Twitter 00:54:17.920 --> 00:54:20.579 and ChrisMinks23 on Instagram. If you have other 00:54:20.579 --> 00:54:23.380 questions, DM me. I love to talk about the lifestyle. 00:54:23.639 --> 00:54:26.300 You guys can also hit us up, thebullbrotherhood 00:54:26.300 --> 00:54:28.980 at gmail .com. Send us an email. If you want 00:54:28.980 --> 00:54:31.619 to ask anybody about who you've heard today, 00:54:31.739 --> 00:54:34.599 communicate and go through us. We'll talk to 00:54:34.599 --> 00:54:37.320 them. Thank you guys for showing up and we'll 00:54:37.320 --> 00:54:40.260 talk to you later. And then for ladies, I do 00:54:40.260 --> 00:54:42.340 have a ladies chat on Telegram, but you can reach 00:54:42.340 --> 00:54:46.260 out to me, Siren1982 on Telegram or the Siren 00:54:46.260 --> 00:54:49.139 of Freedom at gmail .com. And then, you know, 00:54:49.139 --> 00:54:51.960 just get more in depth for the ladies. Have a 00:54:51.960 --> 00:54:54.619 good night, everyone. And I don't have any Brian 00:54:54.619 --> 00:54:56.539 Morgan things. I'll wake up to you tomorrow. 00:54:56.840 --> 00:54:59.500 He says all these sweet nothings, but. Anyways, 00:54:59.619 --> 00:55:02.380 Missy Bryant. Thank you, everybody, for listening 00:55:02.380 --> 00:55:23.760 to the podcast. This is who we are. Bold, confident, 00:55:23.760 --> 00:55:27.579 and seductive. Dominant and classy. We stand 00:55:27.579 --> 00:55:33.800 tall, never fall. Bull brotherhood. Luxury untold.