WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.180 It was my first splash and there was this girl 00:00:03.180 --> 00:00:05.660 and to this day when I see her something in me 00:00:05.660 --> 00:00:09.759 just it just electrifies she's she has this kind 00:00:09.759 --> 00:00:13.400 of southern feminine swag I don't know what you 00:00:13.400 --> 00:00:17.660 want to call it that just gets me going so she 00:00:17.660 --> 00:00:19.480 was one of the first women I said hey you know 00:00:19.480 --> 00:00:21.260 if you're you know if you're you know you're 00:00:21.260 --> 00:00:24.079 okay with it I'd like to you know play with you 00:00:24.079 --> 00:00:26.179 that's how I said it to you nervous stuttering 00:00:26.890 --> 00:00:28.789 She said, oh, yeah, it'd be great. Yeah, let's 00:00:28.789 --> 00:00:32.030 catch up later. We're business people, me and 00:00:32.030 --> 00:00:35.890 Siren. 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Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, 00:02:36.330 --> 00:02:38.710 and welcome to another informative episode of 00:02:38.710 --> 00:02:41.270 the Bull Brotherhood podcast. I'm the one and 00:02:41.270 --> 00:02:44.330 only Sigma Male Brian Morgan, the lone wolf coming 00:02:44.330 --> 00:02:47.750 at you as one third of the podcast family, along 00:02:47.750 --> 00:02:50.770 with the beautiful couple of Siren and Socrates. 00:02:51.650 --> 00:02:54.810 Ladies and gentlemen, how you doing? Doing good. 00:02:55.580 --> 00:02:58.620 Doing real good, real good, Unc. What's good 00:02:58.620 --> 00:03:01.560 with you and welcome back from a, from what I 00:03:01.560 --> 00:03:04.819 hear, an exciting tour of Houston, Texas and 00:03:04.819 --> 00:03:08.439 this Splash Mocha, another Splash Mocha event. 00:03:08.860 --> 00:03:12.000 How was it, y 'all? Man, it was, you know, I 00:03:12.000 --> 00:03:14.060 always say, people ask me, what's your favorite 00:03:14.060 --> 00:03:16.419 one? I'm always like the last one I went to. 00:03:16.560 --> 00:03:18.979 But, you know, Houston is the favorite location 00:03:18.979 --> 00:03:22.199 for sure. But, you know, we always learn. We 00:03:22.199 --> 00:03:25.000 always go in there with some goals, like mental 00:03:25.000 --> 00:03:27.819 and emotional goals to achieve. We never go in 00:03:27.819 --> 00:03:30.580 there with numbers or anything like that. We're 00:03:30.580 --> 00:03:32.319 always in there like, how can we improve ourselves? 00:03:32.539 --> 00:03:34.479 That kind of thing. And we got a lot. We have 00:03:34.479 --> 00:03:37.659 a lot. What is it about Houston that makes it 00:03:37.659 --> 00:03:39.780 your favorite? Siren, you want to go first? I 00:03:39.780 --> 00:03:41.979 just already have a special place in my heart 00:03:41.979 --> 00:03:44.439 for the Houston men. They always take real good 00:03:44.439 --> 00:03:47.259 care of me inside and outside of Splash. And 00:03:47.259 --> 00:03:50.979 then I think, too, in Fort Lauderdale, I just... 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:54.020 Before I went there, I went there with three 00:03:54.020 --> 00:03:56.939 things that I wanted to make sure that I achieved. 00:03:57.060 --> 00:03:59.419 In the past, I really did focus on numbers. I 00:03:59.419 --> 00:04:02.219 wanted to get a lot of play going. And then, 00:04:02.219 --> 00:04:05.159 you know, once you kind of get that craziness 00:04:05.159 --> 00:04:07.759 out of your system, you can slow down and really 00:04:07.759 --> 00:04:09.879 think about what you want, like you say, evolve. 00:04:10.539 --> 00:04:13.840 So I went in there with the mentality of making 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:17.220 sure I was where I wanted to be with who I wanted 00:04:17.220 --> 00:04:20.160 to be doing what I wanted to be doing. So that 00:04:20.160 --> 00:04:23.819 really worked well in Fort Lauderdale. And I 00:04:23.819 --> 00:04:28.220 damn near nailed it. And then in Houston, I think 00:04:28.220 --> 00:04:30.699 I had it going, but then I wasn't feeling well. 00:04:31.259 --> 00:04:34.959 So I didn't get to execute according to what 00:04:34.959 --> 00:04:38.899 I wanted perfectly. And there was little hiccups. 00:04:38.899 --> 00:04:42.579 But overall, I think that Houston is just a great 00:04:42.579 --> 00:04:44.800 place with great people. There's a lot of local 00:04:44.800 --> 00:04:47.430 people that are really great. and a lot of local 00:04:47.430 --> 00:04:49.870 men especially. The ladies are very supportive 00:04:49.870 --> 00:04:52.850 that are from the area. A lot of them I'm blessed 00:04:52.850 --> 00:04:56.269 to call friends. So that's really what makes 00:04:56.269 --> 00:04:59.230 Houston my favorite. And that was her first splash. 00:04:59.949 --> 00:05:01.829 That was her first and second splash. Oh, really? 00:05:01.970 --> 00:05:04.589 Oh, yeah, yeah. When we first came, that was 00:05:04.589 --> 00:05:07.870 the first time that Houston was where we started. 00:05:09.310 --> 00:05:13.129 Okay. Back to the birthing of Splash Mocha for 00:05:13.129 --> 00:05:16.180 me. It's also where she got her. named siren 00:05:16.180 --> 00:05:20.920 yeah okay so that was like the the i was born 00:05:20.920 --> 00:05:23.220 in houston go ahead i'm sorry i was also born 00:05:23.220 --> 00:05:25.259 in oh really so that's home just keeps adding 00:05:25.259 --> 00:05:29.660 okay okay okay so like the um the baptism and 00:05:29.660 --> 00:05:32.560 the rebirth huh right all in one good sounds 00:05:32.560 --> 00:05:35.120 like a winner sounds like a winner who did you 00:05:35.120 --> 00:05:39.300 meet like new or i mean just give me like a rundown 00:05:39.300 --> 00:05:42.139 of pretty much what you did you know From like 00:05:42.139 --> 00:05:44.439 the time you got there and to the time you started 00:05:44.439 --> 00:05:47.160 playing, et cetera, et cetera. Who'd you meet? 00:05:47.220 --> 00:05:50.100 Who'd you wish you would have met? Did you make 00:05:50.100 --> 00:05:52.139 some great connections, et cetera? Well, we did 00:05:52.139 --> 00:05:54.740 it a little bit differently this time. We had 00:05:54.740 --> 00:05:57.139 some business things going on. So Socrates came 00:05:57.139 --> 00:06:00.579 in on Wednesday. I came in on Tuesday. And a 00:06:00.579 --> 00:06:04.120 gentleman from the area picked me up and, you 00:06:04.120 --> 00:06:06.379 know, brought me to the hotel and, you know, 00:06:06.379 --> 00:06:08.680 got me settled in. And then, you know, we did 00:06:08.680 --> 00:06:11.480 something that was new for us. We don't. We haven't 00:06:11.480 --> 00:06:13.259 done a lot. We've each just done it once since 00:06:13.259 --> 00:06:16.100 we've been meeting each other, and we have stayed 00:06:16.100 --> 00:06:20.100 overnight. So we made a special occasion kind 00:06:20.100 --> 00:06:22.939 of thing out of it. I wasn't sure how I would 00:06:22.939 --> 00:06:26.220 feel about that, you know, because I have sleep 00:06:26.220 --> 00:06:29.500 apnea, I have a CPAP, you know, just different 00:06:29.500 --> 00:06:31.839 things. It was more about how I would, if I would 00:06:31.839 --> 00:06:34.959 get my rest with someone that wasn't my husband. 00:06:35.800 --> 00:06:38.740 in the room with me versus being nervous about 00:06:38.740 --> 00:06:40.560 the person you know i felt safe and comfortable 00:06:40.560 --> 00:06:44.220 with him but just that process so so that went 00:06:44.220 --> 00:06:48.220 just fine and then the next day i just wasn't 00:06:48.220 --> 00:06:50.379 feeling i started just like not feeling great 00:06:50.379 --> 00:06:54.459 like just lower energy took an i think i i played 00:06:54.459 --> 00:06:58.379 around noon a guy came you know on wednesday 00:06:58.379 --> 00:07:00.759 from the area but he was also going to be a part 00:07:00.759 --> 00:07:04.230 of splash and we played Then I took a nap, and 00:07:04.230 --> 00:07:06.810 then about that time it was time to go get my 00:07:06.810 --> 00:07:09.730 husband. So I, you know, rode to the airport 00:07:09.730 --> 00:07:12.269 with the gentleman that had picked me up, and 00:07:12.269 --> 00:07:15.790 we got him to the hotel and, you know, got him 00:07:15.790 --> 00:07:18.569 settled in. And then we just started mingling 00:07:18.569 --> 00:07:21.550 right away. Finished out the evening with a couple 00:07:21.550 --> 00:07:25.490 more local guys from the area that, you know, 00:07:25.490 --> 00:07:27.149 because it's Wednesday night, you know, anybody 00:07:27.149 --> 00:07:29.930 can come in the hotel. And I had met them previously 00:07:29.930 --> 00:07:33.439 at a party, so they... Didn't attend Splash, 00:07:33.439 --> 00:07:37.439 but they were there before that. And then by 00:07:37.439 --> 00:07:39.720 Thursday morning, I was really not feeling well. 00:07:39.819 --> 00:07:42.519 I had some definite, you know, exhaustion and 00:07:42.519 --> 00:07:44.959 emotions, you know, just work through just from 00:07:44.959 --> 00:07:48.139 not feeling good. Worked through those, you know, 00:07:48.139 --> 00:07:50.500 decided that, you know, it was best for me to 00:07:50.500 --> 00:07:52.759 just go by what I was talking about. You know, 00:07:52.800 --> 00:07:55.720 if I am not feeling well, I need to just go to 00:07:55.720 --> 00:07:57.779 the room and rest. I need to not try to push 00:07:57.779 --> 00:08:02.639 myself, not try to do a bunch. and Socrates consistently 00:08:02.639 --> 00:08:06.040 checked on me throughout the weekend, and I just 00:08:06.040 --> 00:08:08.920 kept saying, go play, go play. I'm going to bed 00:08:08.920 --> 00:08:11.519 at whatever time I need to go to bed for my body, 00:08:11.540 --> 00:08:13.899 and I'll see you when I see you. We do a lockdown 00:08:13.899 --> 00:08:16.519 date every month, and that's coming up tomorrow, 00:08:16.680 --> 00:08:20.060 where we spend 24 hours just with each other. 00:08:20.079 --> 00:08:22.819 We don't talk to nobody else. We may or may not 00:08:22.819 --> 00:08:25.480 go anywhere. Usually we just stay at home and 00:08:25.480 --> 00:08:27.699 just have some connection time. So I knew that 00:08:27.699 --> 00:08:30.139 was coming up. So I was like, you know, here's 00:08:30.139 --> 00:08:32.120 the place where we can, you know, be with all 00:08:32.120 --> 00:08:34.600 these people. And when we get home, we'll have 00:08:34.600 --> 00:08:38.340 our connection time. So he was great. He kept 00:08:38.340 --> 00:08:40.419 checking in on me, but I just kept encouraging 00:08:40.419 --> 00:08:43.500 him, go play and go have a good time. I did have, 00:08:43.580 --> 00:08:47.120 he organized a gangbang for me and another gal 00:08:47.120 --> 00:08:48.840 that's from our area that was in attendance. 00:08:49.419 --> 00:08:52.220 So anyways, that was a good time. He did a really 00:08:52.220 --> 00:08:54.799 good job with that. Usually he has a hard time 00:08:54.799 --> 00:08:57.320 not jumping in because he wants to be part of 00:08:57.320 --> 00:08:59.059 the fun and the beauty that's going around. But 00:08:59.059 --> 00:09:02.120 he did real good just facilitating the gangbang 00:09:02.120 --> 00:09:04.019 and letting the other guys have their fun with 00:09:04.019 --> 00:09:06.480 us and jumped in a little bit at the end. Got 00:09:06.480 --> 00:09:09.799 some good videos and pictures for me to have 00:09:09.799 --> 00:09:12.769 as memories. So that's nice. And then I just, 00:09:12.830 --> 00:09:14.309 you know. That's what you're supposed to do. 00:09:14.450 --> 00:09:17.230 Yeah. Then I just made sure that I had, you know, 00:09:17.230 --> 00:09:21.490 good, quiet connections. Room parties, I really 00:09:21.490 --> 00:09:23.399 have to gear up for those. They're not. They're 00:09:23.399 --> 00:09:25.000 not necessarily my jam. I know a lot of people 00:09:25.000 --> 00:09:27.639 love them. They're great. Socrates, he loves 00:09:27.639 --> 00:09:29.779 them. He went to a bunch. I didn't go to a single 00:09:29.779 --> 00:09:32.519 one and I was perfectly happy with that. I love 00:09:32.519 --> 00:09:35.600 my one -on -one connections with guys. I love 00:09:35.600 --> 00:09:38.100 that chance to just slow down, talk. Like my 00:09:38.100 --> 00:09:42.179 life is very busy outside of Splash. So I think 00:09:42.179 --> 00:09:45.080 for me to be able to slow down there and just 00:09:45.080 --> 00:09:49.500 relax and then really enjoy whatever moment I'm 00:09:49.500 --> 00:09:52.669 in with whoever I'm in it with is really... important 00:09:52.669 --> 00:09:55.950 to me and really meets my needs for splash whereas 00:09:55.950 --> 00:10:00.610 socrates is a people person he's an extrovert 00:10:00.610 --> 00:10:02.929 being around people just charges his battery 00:10:02.929 --> 00:10:06.970 so you know we just really both navigated splash 00:10:06.970 --> 00:10:09.950 in the way that was best for us and we learned 00:10:09.950 --> 00:10:12.090 you know how to navigate it a little bit better 00:10:12.090 --> 00:10:16.190 next time you know as a couple or you know run 00:10:16.190 --> 00:10:18.750 around separately so we always learn something 00:10:18.750 --> 00:10:22.759 we always talk before and after about what worked, 00:10:22.840 --> 00:10:25.879 what didn't work, and we just keep improving 00:10:25.879 --> 00:10:29.299 on it. So if I hadn't been feeling poorly throughout 00:10:29.299 --> 00:10:32.580 and just saving every little bit of energy for 00:10:32.580 --> 00:10:35.580 any playtime I could get, then I would have said 00:10:35.580 --> 00:10:38.980 it was damn near perfect. So you had a good time 00:10:38.980 --> 00:10:41.720 regardless of the situation. And it was very 00:10:41.720 --> 00:10:44.519 sweet. Right away on Wednesday, a lady ran up 00:10:44.519 --> 00:10:48.210 to me and she was like, siren, siren. I'm so 00:10:48.210 --> 00:10:50.950 sorry. I'm just, I'm fangirling. And I was like, 00:10:51.049 --> 00:10:53.169 oh, you're fine. You're fine. She's like, me 00:10:53.169 --> 00:10:54.789 and my husband, we listen to your podcast all 00:10:54.789 --> 00:10:56.809 the time in the car when we're driving together. 00:10:57.169 --> 00:11:00.269 And she was just really excited. And so I was 00:11:00.269 --> 00:11:03.210 like, oh, I met my first big fan. It was very 00:11:03.210 --> 00:11:06.029 sweet. She's a really nice lady. So it's just, 00:11:06.090 --> 00:11:08.149 you know, people are getting a lot of benefit 00:11:08.149 --> 00:11:10.389 from the podcast that we do. And that's really 00:11:10.389 --> 00:11:13.649 what we want is to help our community and to, 00:11:13.649 --> 00:11:16.330 you know, give them more knowledge, more encouragement. 00:11:17.129 --> 00:11:20.049 And more resources. So if that's being accomplished, 00:11:20.169 --> 00:11:22.690 that's all I can ask for. You know, if you know 00:11:22.690 --> 00:11:25.230 my name or not, that's, you know, irrelevant. 00:11:25.509 --> 00:11:27.570 But if you're getting what you need out of the 00:11:27.570 --> 00:11:30.049 podcast that we share, then that's a win for 00:11:30.049 --> 00:11:33.509 me. So, Socrates, what about you? Well, it was 00:11:33.509 --> 00:11:36.269 a lot, like I say. But I do want to say, first 00:11:36.269 --> 00:11:38.070 off, thank you to all the listeners that did 00:11:38.070 --> 00:11:41.950 come up to me and share their thoughts and, you 00:11:41.950 --> 00:11:43.529 know, how much they are enjoying the podcast. 00:11:45.519 --> 00:11:47.519 I want to also encourage you guys, you know, 00:11:47.519 --> 00:11:50.539 email us. We're on Telegram. The Bull Brotherhood 00:11:50.539 --> 00:11:54.200 is on Telegram. I'll put that link on there. 00:11:54.840 --> 00:11:56.879 You know, but I really, really enjoyed that. 00:11:56.960 --> 00:12:00.480 I really enjoyed hearing, you know, all of it 00:12:00.480 --> 00:12:04.799 was positive, but I'm open to any kind of criticism 00:12:04.799 --> 00:12:07.759 you might have that we can get better. Or at 00:12:07.759 --> 00:12:09.360 least clarify, nah, that's how we're going to 00:12:09.360 --> 00:12:10.840 talk because we're going to be bold. We're going 00:12:10.840 --> 00:12:12.240 to say what we believe in. We're going to stand 00:12:12.240 --> 00:12:15.419 on business. That was awesome. As far as me, 00:12:15.600 --> 00:12:19.620 I was out of sorts in the beginning because she 00:12:19.620 --> 00:12:22.679 was not feeling well. Because here's the thing, 00:12:22.679 --> 00:12:25.700 you guys. There was one time, the second splash, 00:12:26.120 --> 00:12:28.980 I missed my Achilles trying to play basketball. 00:12:29.240 --> 00:12:32.220 And I had to go in a boot. And I was towards 00:12:32.220 --> 00:12:34.980 the end of it. Like, I wasn't really in a bad 00:12:34.980 --> 00:12:37.240 shape. But there was a time where we were thinking 00:12:37.240 --> 00:12:38.840 about, I don't know if I can make it. She's like, 00:12:38.940 --> 00:12:41.460 look, Fu, if I have to wheel you around in a 00:12:41.460 --> 00:12:45.279 wheelchair, we going. And I'm like, okay. So 00:12:45.279 --> 00:12:48.840 this is the highlight of her year. We do it three 00:12:48.840 --> 00:12:51.860 times a year. It's the highlight of our lifestyle. 00:12:52.759 --> 00:12:56.639 And I'm ready to kind of expand, but it's something 00:12:56.639 --> 00:12:58.440 that she truly loves. She doesn't get that kind 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:02.580 of treat a lot of other places. And I just really 00:13:02.580 --> 00:13:05.870 loved. how well she handled it. I didn't believe 00:13:05.870 --> 00:13:08.929 her. She kept saying, I'm fine, Daddy. There's 00:13:08.929 --> 00:13:11.070 nothing in the world you can do. Go have fun. 00:13:11.830 --> 00:13:14.850 So you got a chance. Go ahead. No, go ahead. 00:13:15.029 --> 00:13:17.190 So you got a chance to actually get out there 00:13:17.190 --> 00:13:20.649 and maneuver. Of course, she knows that she's 00:13:20.649 --> 00:13:22.929 giving you the green light to go out there and 00:13:22.929 --> 00:13:27.210 just do your thing. So how did you approach that 00:13:27.210 --> 00:13:30.149 situation? I mean, did you go out there and just... 00:13:30.559 --> 00:13:35.179 be my typical nephew and get bug wild? Or did 00:13:35.179 --> 00:13:40.080 you take some of what Anka's been telling you 00:13:40.080 --> 00:13:42.919 and, you know, go out there and play with it 00:13:42.919 --> 00:13:45.580 a little bit? Well, Simon would disagree with 00:13:45.580 --> 00:13:47.580 it in the way it's explained. So I would say 00:13:47.580 --> 00:13:51.179 it's kind of both. I took your advice in the 00:13:51.179 --> 00:13:54.519 sense that I have ADHD and it's not an excuse. 00:13:54.639 --> 00:13:57.220 I'm working on it, but I really do. And so... 00:13:57.639 --> 00:14:00.500 I am kind of a squirrel person. And I took your 00:14:00.500 --> 00:14:03.440 advice, Mr. Mocha. I mean, the entire squad. 00:14:03.620 --> 00:14:06.320 Pagan. It doesn't matter who you mention. And 00:14:06.320 --> 00:14:10.179 I slowed down a little bit. And I tried to sit 00:14:10.179 --> 00:14:13.259 in places and just chill and watch. And what 00:14:13.259 --> 00:14:14.860 started happening is people started coming to 00:14:14.860 --> 00:14:18.860 me. And then I would start getting the buzz. 00:14:19.059 --> 00:14:21.419 And then I would get back into my ADHD a little 00:14:21.419 --> 00:14:23.779 bit. And then I would stop myself, calm back 00:14:23.779 --> 00:14:26.649 down. and chill. And another thing that I did 00:14:26.649 --> 00:14:29.309 was huge this time. I didn't do much at all in 00:14:29.309 --> 00:14:31.889 the playrooms besides the glory home. That's 00:14:31.889 --> 00:14:33.950 my spot. I'm always going to go there. But like 00:14:33.950 --> 00:14:36.149 the big playrooms and some of the other wife 00:14:36.149 --> 00:14:38.649 watching rooms and all those things, I'm usually 00:14:38.649 --> 00:14:42.690 in there and I didn't. I decided this time I 00:14:42.690 --> 00:14:45.090 wanted to really start chilling, hanging with 00:14:45.090 --> 00:14:47.990 the boys, you know, talking to the squad, seeing, 00:14:48.070 --> 00:14:50.169 you know, how they doing, catching up with them. 00:14:50.919 --> 00:14:53.779 And really getting to know couples, sitting down 00:14:53.779 --> 00:14:55.879 and talking to them for a long time. I speak 00:14:55.879 --> 00:14:58.899 Spanish and I don't have an opportunity to practice 00:14:58.899 --> 00:15:02.980 my Spanish where I live. So I met a couple where 00:15:02.980 --> 00:15:04.759 the husband didn't speak English and the wife 00:15:04.759 --> 00:15:07.360 was bilingual. So I was able to kind of practice 00:15:07.360 --> 00:15:11.120 my Spanish, you know, and chill with them and 00:15:11.120 --> 00:15:14.120 converse and really get to know them. And then 00:15:14.120 --> 00:15:15.720 I spent a little bit more, a lot more time in 00:15:15.720 --> 00:15:21.409 the room parties. It was much more of a vibe. 00:15:21.529 --> 00:15:24.049 It was much more of my vibe. And so, yeah, I 00:15:24.049 --> 00:15:27.029 listened to what you said. I sit back a lot more 00:15:27.029 --> 00:15:29.470 than I normally do. Now, I think this next one 00:15:29.470 --> 00:15:30.750 is going to be people that aren't even going 00:15:30.750 --> 00:15:33.230 to recognize me because I see the vision now. 00:15:33.289 --> 00:15:35.750 I see what especially you and Mr. Mocha have 00:15:35.750 --> 00:15:38.870 been saying. You guys were surely missed, by 00:15:38.870 --> 00:15:41.350 the way. You guys were really missed there. Everyone 00:15:41.350 --> 00:15:44.429 asked. Everyone asked about you guys. But the 00:15:44.429 --> 00:15:46.809 specific advice you guys gave me to sit back, 00:15:46.929 --> 00:15:53.570 chill, be observant. Pay attention. And take 00:15:53.570 --> 00:15:57.690 a breather. Watch what's going on. That worked 00:15:57.690 --> 00:16:02.169 tremendously. But I will say this. Siren, we 00:16:02.169 --> 00:16:05.909 used to get into it because the way she wanted 00:16:05.909 --> 00:16:10.009 to manage the women I played with, especially 00:16:10.009 --> 00:16:13.370 if it's local, was very, very hands -on. And 00:16:13.370 --> 00:16:14.950 I would say, look, I don't have a problem with 00:16:14.950 --> 00:16:18.059 that. insecure, jealous. They need to know our 00:16:18.059 --> 00:16:20.879 bond. They need to know how much we love each 00:16:20.879 --> 00:16:24.299 other, you know, but you're doing too much. The 00:16:24.299 --> 00:16:27.559 only thing I need you to do is let them know 00:16:27.559 --> 00:16:31.299 one thing, and it should be 100 % truth. We are 00:16:31.299 --> 00:16:35.820 solid. Like, me and Socrates over there, that's 00:16:35.820 --> 00:16:38.340 sealed. There's nothing you can do to take that 00:16:38.340 --> 00:16:40.740 man away from me. The only person that's going 00:16:40.740 --> 00:16:45.360 to lose Socrates is Siren. That's it. So, she 00:16:45.360 --> 00:16:47.659 did that and she did it in her own way and i'll 00:16:47.659 --> 00:16:49.240 let her talk about it if she wants to talk about 00:16:49.240 --> 00:16:52.320 how but that i think made the difference i didn't 00:16:52.320 --> 00:16:54.860 have to go out there chasing anything pursuing 00:16:54.860 --> 00:16:58.480 anything follow up you know we're business people 00:16:58.480 --> 00:17:01.659 so i had a story to tell and it was my first 00:17:01.659 --> 00:17:05.460 it was my first splash and there was this girl 00:17:05.460 --> 00:17:07.940 and to this day when i see her something in me 00:17:07.940 --> 00:17:12.039 just it just electrifies she's she has this kind 00:17:12.039 --> 00:17:15.599 of southern feminine swag, I don't know what 00:17:15.599 --> 00:17:18.559 you want to call it, that just gets me going. 00:17:18.920 --> 00:17:21.460 So she was one of the first women I said, hey, 00:17:21.480 --> 00:17:26.240 if you're okay with it, I'd like to play with 00:17:26.240 --> 00:17:28.460 you. That's how I said it to you. Nervous, stuttering. 00:17:29.059 --> 00:17:31.220 She said, oh yeah, it'd be great. Let's catch 00:17:31.220 --> 00:17:35.619 up later. We're business people, me and Siren. 00:17:36.519 --> 00:17:38.339 One of the biggest things we say to each other 00:17:38.339 --> 00:17:40.559 all the time is fortune is in the follow -up. 00:17:40.720 --> 00:17:43.359 Well, that don't work at Splash Mocha, gentlemen. 00:17:43.660 --> 00:17:46.759 Not the way I did. Because I followed up. Yeah, 00:17:46.799 --> 00:17:50.019 you know, every time she said, yeah, yeah, let's 00:17:50.019 --> 00:17:53.079 catch up later. I followed up two more times. 00:17:53.220 --> 00:17:57.440 The third time when she was like, yeah, let's 00:17:57.440 --> 00:17:59.579 catch up later. You know when she said it? Sunday 00:17:59.579 --> 00:18:03.519 as we're leaving with our luggage. I said, I 00:18:03.519 --> 00:18:07.880 said, I'm never, ever doing that again. Now, 00:18:07.920 --> 00:18:10.819 funny thing is, I ended up in a room party. And 00:18:10.819 --> 00:18:12.900 the first thing she did was trip her clothes 00:18:12.900 --> 00:18:15.700 off and jumped on my dick. But that's not the 00:18:15.700 --> 00:18:18.299 point. Oh, on this one? No, the next one. Oh. 00:18:18.339 --> 00:18:20.619 The one right after that. Because remember, I 00:18:20.619 --> 00:18:22.500 was upset about it and everything. I was like, 00:18:22.579 --> 00:18:26.859 oh, I'm never doing that again. Oh, okay. So 00:18:26.859 --> 00:18:30.900 I said all that to say I didn't have to. Because 00:18:30.900 --> 00:18:34.359 I was like, I am not doing that. I'm here. I 00:18:34.359 --> 00:18:37.779 know the value I bring. I'm one who masters my 00:18:37.779 --> 00:18:41.500 craft. I take pride in it. And I'm a lover of 00:18:41.500 --> 00:18:45.180 women. I am in love with my wife. But she knows 00:18:45.180 --> 00:18:48.160 I appreciate women's body, their femininity, 00:18:48.279 --> 00:18:50.839 their magic, their power, their ability to create 00:18:50.839 --> 00:18:55.339 life. She knows that. So that's valuable. That's 00:18:55.339 --> 00:18:57.599 something of value. And I don't want to spend 00:18:57.599 --> 00:19:01.420 my energy chasing anybody but my wife. Now, I 00:19:01.420 --> 00:19:04.299 will pursue you, but I chase my wife all around 00:19:04.299 --> 00:19:07.740 here mentally, emotionally. Well, not physically 00:19:07.740 --> 00:19:09.940 because I can't keep up with her sexually, but 00:19:09.940 --> 00:19:11.859 I just can't keep up with that. But I chased 00:19:11.859 --> 00:19:14.880 my wife. I ain't chasing a woman I might not 00:19:14.880 --> 00:19:15.599 ever see. I think you're scaring the guys away. 00:19:15.960 --> 00:19:17.980 Scaring them away. It's not like that, guys. 00:19:18.160 --> 00:19:20.619 It's like that, guys. You'll be fine. You won't 00:19:20.619 --> 00:19:23.680 be fine. You'll be fine. I want to speak to the 00:19:23.680 --> 00:19:27.819 comfort part. So I think what really helped when 00:19:27.819 --> 00:19:31.460 he's referring to is not only what I did in the 00:19:31.460 --> 00:19:34.119 ladies' chat, but also what we did in the vent 00:19:34.119 --> 00:19:39.160 chat. And I think... More people that are coupled 00:19:39.160 --> 00:19:43.819 up would do well to present this in the event 00:19:43.819 --> 00:19:46.980 mingle. So I really want to push this. And it's 00:19:46.980 --> 00:19:50.779 the idea that especially if you're in an interracial 00:19:50.779 --> 00:19:53.940 relationship and you're going to splash, that 00:19:53.940 --> 00:19:57.480 just creates a level of. A little bit of a barrier. 00:19:57.660 --> 00:19:59.799 You know, people don't quite know how to approach 00:19:59.799 --> 00:20:02.460 you because it's very different. A lot, you know, 00:20:02.460 --> 00:20:04.660 is like, you know, white couples are going there 00:20:04.660 --> 00:20:07.720 to seek a single black man, you know. So when 00:20:07.720 --> 00:20:10.000 an interracial couple goes, it's a little bit 00:20:10.000 --> 00:20:13.799 different. So what we did is in the chat, I put 00:20:13.799 --> 00:20:16.640 a picture of Socrates. This is just in the event 00:20:16.640 --> 00:20:19.380 mingles. And I said, hey, we're Siren and Socrates. 00:20:19.519 --> 00:20:23.200 We play separately. Stamp of approval. Ladies 00:20:23.200 --> 00:20:25.099 go, you know, you don't have to ask my permission. 00:20:25.960 --> 00:20:28.019 If you see me, say hi, I'd love to meet you. 00:20:28.140 --> 00:20:30.400 And then in the ladies chat, I did that like 00:20:30.400 --> 00:20:32.400 a little closer to the event. Then he did the 00:20:32.400 --> 00:20:35.079 same thing. He posts some pictures of me. You 00:20:35.079 --> 00:20:37.400 know, a couple of us as a couple says, hey, fellas, 00:20:37.579 --> 00:20:40.660 this is my wife. You know, be respectful. Tell 00:20:40.660 --> 00:20:43.220 it's time to be disrespectful and, you know, 00:20:43.240 --> 00:20:46.119 go for it. So I think that really helped. Then 00:20:46.119 --> 00:20:49.059 I saw a few other couples follow suit. But it 00:20:49.059 --> 00:20:52.099 really, you know, the feedback I heard was it 00:20:52.099 --> 00:20:55.069 really helped the couples that did do that. So 00:20:55.069 --> 00:20:58.730 that people knew, like, hey, this is how we can 00:20:58.730 --> 00:21:00.869 approach them. So there was one couple that was 00:21:00.869 --> 00:21:03.609 going to be, you know, a cuckold couple. And 00:21:03.609 --> 00:21:05.430 they were going to be there with her boyfriend. 00:21:06.089 --> 00:21:08.769 And so she's like, hey, we play separately. We 00:21:08.769 --> 00:21:10.990 don't have to ask permission, you know, her and 00:21:10.990 --> 00:21:13.569 her boyfriend. So she's like, feel free to approach. 00:21:13.789 --> 00:21:15.730 So a few people did that. And I really would 00:21:15.730 --> 00:21:18.210 like that to catch on because I think it just 00:21:18.210 --> 00:21:21.349 helped people to be prepared so they didn't have 00:21:21.349 --> 00:21:25.029 to, you know, wander so much. So if you're a 00:21:25.029 --> 00:21:26.950 little on the, of course you can just go up and 00:21:26.950 --> 00:21:29.170 ask, Hey, what's your dynamic? You know, how 00:21:29.170 --> 00:21:31.069 is this? But it takes away a little bit of that 00:21:31.069 --> 00:21:33.410 nervousness when you just know upfront. And a 00:21:33.410 --> 00:21:35.970 lot of the ladies said, excuse me, that, that 00:21:35.970 --> 00:21:37.730 really, they really appreciated that. And that 00:21:37.730 --> 00:21:40.210 gave them the confidence. And they really admired 00:21:40.210 --> 00:21:43.109 that to be able for me to just say, Hey, this 00:21:43.109 --> 00:21:45.609 is what's going on. You know, go for it. You 00:21:45.609 --> 00:21:47.150 don't have to find, and especially because they 00:21:47.150 --> 00:21:49.029 couldn't find me. I was in the room, you know, 00:21:49.029 --> 00:21:52.089 that would, that able enabled him to, you know, 00:21:52.089 --> 00:21:54.640 get a lot of playtime because. You know, if they 00:21:54.640 --> 00:21:56.140 would have been trying to find me, I guess they 00:21:56.140 --> 00:21:57.440 could have just came to the room, leave a note, 00:21:57.579 --> 00:22:02.519 sign up for Socrates. I don't know. But, you 00:22:02.519 --> 00:22:04.079 know, they didn't need to ask permission. So 00:22:04.079 --> 00:22:06.259 and in the past, I had been kind of like, hey, 00:22:06.380 --> 00:22:08.660 I would at least like to be acknowledged first. 00:22:09.099 --> 00:22:11.579 And now I'm just like, you know, if you see me, 00:22:11.579 --> 00:22:14.980 say hi. So was that a was that a big thing for 00:22:14.980 --> 00:22:18.339 you that you were able to feel comfortable enough 00:22:18.339 --> 00:22:20.819 to be just like, baby, go do your thing, you 00:22:20.819 --> 00:22:24.890 know? No one has to come to me and I kind of 00:22:24.890 --> 00:22:27.069 vet them or anything like that. Just do your 00:22:27.069 --> 00:22:30.410 thing. I'm good with it. You love me. That's 00:22:30.410 --> 00:22:33.029 definitely been an evolution for me over the 00:22:33.029 --> 00:22:37.849 last three years because we didn't even play 00:22:37.849 --> 00:22:41.109 separately at all until we went to our first 00:22:41.109 --> 00:22:42.769 splash about eight months into the lifestyle. 00:22:42.970 --> 00:22:46.029 And then it was probably... At least another 00:22:46.029 --> 00:22:49.890 six months before we played separately back at 00:22:49.890 --> 00:22:52.470 home, and now that's pretty much our go -to most 00:22:52.470 --> 00:22:53.930 of the time, unless we're having parties. No, 00:22:53.930 --> 00:22:56.670 it was more like a year. Another year? There 00:22:56.670 --> 00:22:59.269 was, yeah, because there was three, or at least 00:22:59.269 --> 00:23:01.589 three splashes where you were like, you know, 00:23:01.609 --> 00:23:04.210 I feel comfortable in Splash because it's this 00:23:04.210 --> 00:23:06.170 and it's that, but not out there. Yeah, not at 00:23:06.170 --> 00:23:08.869 home. Yeah. Yeah, I think it was just, yeah, 00:23:08.910 --> 00:23:11.660 there was just multiple levels of... you know, 00:23:11.660 --> 00:23:13.759 my own insecurities that I had to work through 00:23:13.759 --> 00:23:16.099 myself and nothing to do with our relationship, 00:23:16.119 --> 00:23:19.640 but it just had to do with me overcoming those. 00:23:19.759 --> 00:23:23.039 And that's where it's like, you know, Socrates 00:23:23.039 --> 00:23:25.019 has referred to it before is that the lifestyle 00:23:25.019 --> 00:23:27.039 has been my dojo. You know, he's like, do you 00:23:27.039 --> 00:23:28.200 want to get out? Do you want to take a break? 00:23:28.240 --> 00:23:31.599 He offers that anytime that I come upon a mountain 00:23:31.599 --> 00:23:34.279 that I need to conquer. And I just say, what 00:23:34.279 --> 00:23:37.759 do I mostly say to you when you offer that? No, 00:23:37.920 --> 00:23:41.009 I need to learn. I need to figure this out anyway. 00:23:41.329 --> 00:23:44.470 So I might as well do it now. Yeah, and if it's 00:23:44.470 --> 00:23:46.269 not coming up in the lifestyle, if we took the 00:23:46.269 --> 00:23:47.750 lifestyle away, it's just going to come out somewhere 00:23:47.750 --> 00:23:52.410 else. If I have an area of opportunity, an area 00:23:52.410 --> 00:23:55.210 that I need to grow in, it's going to come out 00:23:55.210 --> 00:23:58.109 regardless of what I'm involved in in my life. 00:23:58.210 --> 00:23:59.730 It's going to come out in my work. It's going 00:23:59.730 --> 00:24:02.170 to come out in my friendship somewhere. So I 00:24:02.170 --> 00:24:04.710 might as well deal with it head on together as 00:24:04.710 --> 00:24:08.430 a team than to just try to eliminate things. 00:24:09.259 --> 00:24:11.519 you know, you can't wrap me in bubble wrap forever, 00:24:11.700 --> 00:24:14.759 you know? So yeah, it was a, to answer your question, 00:24:14.839 --> 00:24:17.259 you know, it was a big jump for me to do that, 00:24:17.279 --> 00:24:20.920 but I really felt from Fort Lauderdale to Houston, 00:24:21.019 --> 00:24:24.440 like bridging that gap that, you know, and, and 00:24:24.440 --> 00:24:27.460 also with me just making sure that I was getting 00:24:27.460 --> 00:24:31.740 my own needs met and making sure instead of worrying 00:24:31.740 --> 00:24:34.559 about what he's doing, like, why am I not making 00:24:34.559 --> 00:24:36.819 sure that I'm having fun and doing what I want 00:24:36.819 --> 00:24:39.680 to be doing? So when I focused, it sounds selfish, 00:24:39.740 --> 00:24:41.980 but when I actually focused on myself a little 00:24:41.980 --> 00:24:45.240 bit more on like what I wanted, then I didn't 00:24:45.240 --> 00:24:50.220 have time or space to be jealous or insecure 00:24:50.220 --> 00:24:54.140 or worried about anything else, you know? So 00:24:54.140 --> 00:24:57.200 yeah, it's just been a good, good growth. So, 00:24:57.200 --> 00:25:00.720 and it went great. Had lots of ladies come, you 00:25:00.720 --> 00:25:03.900 know, send me messages and say how well he took 00:25:03.900 --> 00:25:05.900 care of them. And, you know, I thank them for 00:25:05.900 --> 00:25:08.839 giving him a fun time. And, yeah, it was great. 00:25:09.099 --> 00:25:12.880 Good deal. Socrates, how long did it take you 00:25:12.880 --> 00:25:15.799 once you ventured out to feel, like, totally 00:25:15.799 --> 00:25:18.440 comfortable doing, you know, being able to go 00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:22.279 out and, hey, just handle business, knowing that 00:25:22.279 --> 00:25:24.220 mama's good, you know, she gave you the green 00:25:24.220 --> 00:25:26.519 light? Oh, no, I never felt comfortable. That 00:25:26.519 --> 00:25:28.299 didn't happen until maybe two days after we got 00:25:28.299 --> 00:25:32.000 back. I benefited from the fact a little bit. 00:25:32.019 --> 00:25:34.220 Maybe I have the podcast. I've been there. This 00:25:34.220 --> 00:25:37.059 is my eighth time. I've got friends in the lifestyle. 00:25:37.640 --> 00:25:40.980 You know, I'm halfway decent looking guy. You 00:25:40.980 --> 00:25:43.619 know, I think what happened is some things are 00:25:43.619 --> 00:25:45.359 compounding. A lot of things I learned from you 00:25:45.359 --> 00:25:48.839 guys, my own personal journey. You know, so the 00:25:48.839 --> 00:25:51.380 fact that she put that message out, that allowed 00:25:51.380 --> 00:25:54.599 a lot to come to me, but I was out of sorts. 00:25:55.150 --> 00:25:58.210 The whole time. Because that's my wife. At the 00:25:58.210 --> 00:26:00.930 end of the day, I enjoy these women. Some of 00:26:00.930 --> 00:26:03.009 these people are my friends. Some of these people 00:26:03.009 --> 00:26:08.069 work with us. We've stayed at their homes. This 00:26:08.069 --> 00:26:11.809 is more than just a little vacation. But if my 00:26:11.809 --> 00:26:14.869 wife's not okay, I'm not okay. And like she said, 00:26:14.970 --> 00:26:16.789 I kept checking on her. It's more of like, I'll 00:26:16.789 --> 00:26:18.930 stay in. You want me to stay in? I have other 00:26:18.930 --> 00:26:20.990 things planned. She took it like I was throwing 00:26:20.990 --> 00:26:22.869 it in her face. But I was like, I have things 00:26:22.869 --> 00:26:24.509 planned. I need to cancel. Give me a second. 00:26:24.990 --> 00:26:28.230 But I'll stay. She's like, no, there's nothing 00:26:28.230 --> 00:26:30.930 you can do. You're just going to sit here on 00:26:30.930 --> 00:26:33.869 your phone while I'm sleeping. Yeah, it didn't 00:26:33.869 --> 00:26:36.130 make any sense. Why would both of us? Well, and 00:26:36.130 --> 00:26:38.230 the same was when you had that Fort Lauderdale 00:26:38.230 --> 00:26:41.289 experience where. You know, we had a little medication 00:26:41.289 --> 00:26:45.049 mix -up, and it was making things not go so well 00:26:45.049 --> 00:26:49.490 for Socrates in a number of areas. She can just 00:26:49.490 --> 00:26:51.950 say it. My dick wouldn't work. Yeah. You need 00:26:51.950 --> 00:26:55.509 to take Cialis, not Tramadol. Pro tip. And then 00:26:55.509 --> 00:26:58.529 you were also having digestive issues, too. So, 00:26:58.769 --> 00:27:02.569 you know, and you didn't. hold me back you know 00:27:02.569 --> 00:27:04.670 I came into the room early a couple of different 00:27:04.670 --> 00:27:07.089 times spent time with you put you to bed then 00:27:07.089 --> 00:27:10.049 go back out you know I made sure and take care 00:27:10.049 --> 00:27:12.089 of you as much as you wanted to be taken care 00:27:12.089 --> 00:27:14.809 of but you didn't say oh just stay in the room 00:27:14.809 --> 00:27:16.450 with me the whole time I mean then there's no 00:27:16.450 --> 00:27:19.170 reason that we should both miss out you know 00:27:19.170 --> 00:27:21.759 what are you gonna do while I'm sleeping so It 00:27:21.759 --> 00:27:23.819 was good for me to just get some rest. And we 00:27:23.819 --> 00:27:26.619 had just gone on another trip right before. So 00:27:26.619 --> 00:27:29.180 it all kind of just added up for me. What really 00:27:29.180 --> 00:27:31.180 helped, too, is, you know, my boys, man. Michael 00:27:31.180 --> 00:27:33.460 C. was just, you know how you do. He was doing 00:27:33.460 --> 00:27:35.140 his thing. And I was able to hang out with Pagan. 00:27:35.279 --> 00:27:38.339 And I was able to meet some other cats. I don't 00:27:38.339 --> 00:27:39.740 know if they want me mentioning their names. 00:27:39.819 --> 00:27:42.180 But I can mention Raven because he's going to 00:27:42.180 --> 00:27:43.960 be on the podcast. You know, you're going to 00:27:43.960 --> 00:27:47.559 get to meet him. He's super cool. So, you know, 00:27:47.619 --> 00:27:50.559 those are the things that kind of got me through. 00:27:51.350 --> 00:27:53.509 worried about her being, and I was able to enjoy 00:27:53.509 --> 00:27:56.329 myself. And honestly, I think probably about 00:27:56.329 --> 00:27:58.950 80 % of the people I played with were people 00:27:58.950 --> 00:28:00.529 I already played with, like people I'm comfortable 00:28:00.529 --> 00:28:03.210 with, people I know. They know I'm worried. I 00:28:03.210 --> 00:28:05.690 can just tell them, hey, we can play. But I'm 00:28:05.690 --> 00:28:07.589 kind of worried about my wife. Are you okay there, 00:28:07.630 --> 00:28:09.809 Uncle? Yeah, I'm good. I'm good. Yeah. I'm good. 00:28:10.450 --> 00:28:13.250 So, you know, those people. And then after a 00:28:13.250 --> 00:28:16.089 while, I played with some new people I haven't 00:28:16.089 --> 00:28:18.549 met, some people I've had my eye on and some 00:28:18.549 --> 00:28:21.619 things like that. Then I was more comfortable 00:28:21.619 --> 00:28:24.799 because I knew that my friends were checking 00:28:24.799 --> 00:28:27.779 on her. I had other people checking on her. She 00:28:27.779 --> 00:28:31.059 has plenty of friends because, again, we know 00:28:31.059 --> 00:28:33.160 a lot of people here. I mean, they're in Houston. 00:28:33.519 --> 00:28:36.240 We have a great, great friend group there, Houston 00:28:36.240 --> 00:28:38.279 and Dallas, actually. A lot of people from Dallas 00:28:38.279 --> 00:28:40.039 that we now know and we're good friends with. 00:28:40.160 --> 00:28:43.539 So that kind of got me through. But I'm out of 00:28:43.539 --> 00:28:46.039 sorts seeing my wife because she is the most 00:28:46.039 --> 00:28:49.779 jovial and energetic. add splash than anything 00:28:49.779 --> 00:28:53.180 so yeah yeah yeah it was weird too that's great 00:28:53.180 --> 00:28:55.500 because i just kept getting up and leaving situations 00:28:55.500 --> 00:28:57.500 and then he would like i'd be like i'm going 00:28:57.500 --> 00:28:59.500 to the room and he would come after me he's like 00:28:59.500 --> 00:29:01.460 are you mad at me is everything okay and i was 00:29:01.460 --> 00:29:04.200 like i just don't feel good and it was actually 00:29:04.200 --> 00:29:06.240 starting to irritate me that he wouldn't believe 00:29:06.240 --> 00:29:09.559 me because i was like babe you're not doing anything 00:29:09.559 --> 00:29:11.819 wrong and usually you don't get sick until the 00:29:11.819 --> 00:29:14.880 end like we'll get swingers flu we've done it 00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:17.410 we've been there eight times we We've had it 00:29:17.410 --> 00:29:19.970 like six out of eight or five out of eight times. 00:29:20.049 --> 00:29:21.809 Right. But remember, we had usually you're cool 00:29:21.809 --> 00:29:24.150 through it. Right. But we had gone on a trip 00:29:24.150 --> 00:29:27.509 for five days with our family. Then I was only 00:29:27.509 --> 00:29:30.089 home for one day and then I left again. And so 00:29:30.089 --> 00:29:33.839 I was just worn out. So, yeah, I usually but 00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:36.059 you know what? I didn't get full blown sick because 00:29:36.059 --> 00:29:38.000 I did take that time. But yeah, I was almost 00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:40.640 getting pissed at him for not believing me that 00:29:40.640 --> 00:29:43.819 like, I just don't feel good. I love you. I just 00:29:43.819 --> 00:29:46.500 don't feel good. Any energy that I have, I'm 00:29:46.500 --> 00:29:49.099 saving to like get a few playdates in while I'm 00:29:49.099 --> 00:29:53.119 here. We can connect when we get home. But he 00:29:53.119 --> 00:29:55.460 was always, you know, making sure I was out of 00:29:55.460 --> 00:29:58.660 sorts. Well, I tell you what, I absolutely love 00:29:58.660 --> 00:30:02.099 that Socrates. That lets the listeners and the 00:30:02.099 --> 00:30:04.640 followers know that, especially the bulls that 00:30:04.640 --> 00:30:06.680 have, you know, may have wives or girlfriends 00:30:06.680 --> 00:30:10.240 or significant others or whatever, that mama 00:30:10.240 --> 00:30:12.940 comes first. I don't give a damn where we are. 00:30:13.339 --> 00:30:16.299 She comes first. If she doesn't feel well, I 00:30:16.299 --> 00:30:20.180 don't feel well, you know? So that's what makes 00:30:20.180 --> 00:30:24.420 what you guys have extra special. It really does. 00:30:24.599 --> 00:30:28.220 So I commend you. I commend you for staying by 00:30:28.220 --> 00:30:30.059 her side, making sure that she was absolutely 00:30:30.059 --> 00:30:32.799 100 % okay, you know, before you went out and 00:30:32.799 --> 00:30:35.500 did what you did. So hats off to you, brother. 00:30:35.799 --> 00:30:38.440 Yeah, I tell her, look, I say, I don't care if 00:30:38.440 --> 00:30:40.619 I'm doing the nastiest, dirtiest, craziest thing 00:30:40.619 --> 00:30:42.880 away from you. You know what makes it amazing? 00:30:43.220 --> 00:30:45.680 Is I have this amazing woman at home. Because 00:30:45.680 --> 00:30:48.440 people don't understand about me. I had a hard 00:30:48.440 --> 00:30:52.160 time translating vanilla life to lifestyle, believe 00:30:52.160 --> 00:30:55.930 it or not, being the philosopher that I am. I 00:30:55.930 --> 00:30:58.950 had a lot of problems because, trust me, I have 00:30:58.950 --> 00:31:02.130 been a backup dancer for a rap group. I have 00:31:02.130 --> 00:31:05.470 been every kind of thing in a nightclub. I've 00:31:05.470 --> 00:31:09.750 owned my own club, salsa dancers. Listen, I can 00:31:09.750 --> 00:31:12.250 go to a bar, salsa club, grocery store, and pick 00:31:12.250 --> 00:31:15.190 up a woman anytime. I'm not bragging. I'm just 00:31:15.190 --> 00:31:17.970 saying, like, that's my past. I have a gigolo, 00:31:18.069 --> 00:31:22.029 pickup artist, manosphere past. You know, I was 00:31:22.029 --> 00:31:24.130 reading books about picking up women when I was 00:31:24.130 --> 00:31:28.529 19 years old. So this is nothing new to me. The 00:31:28.529 --> 00:31:30.910 thing what new to me is the new world of lifestyle 00:31:30.910 --> 00:31:37.910 and understanding that like my wife is what makes 00:31:37.910 --> 00:31:42.049 this sexy and fun and crazy because about 80 00:31:42.049 --> 00:31:44.650 % of it I did already before I even knew what 00:31:44.650 --> 00:31:48.109 lifestyle was on my single years in between relationships 00:31:48.109 --> 00:31:51.289 or before. You know, it's like when you when 00:31:51.289 --> 00:31:53.990 you part of a rap group back in the 90s, you 00:31:53.990 --> 00:31:56.710 know, I wasn't but like 17 and I was a backup 00:31:56.710 --> 00:31:59.549 dancer. They didn't go anywhere. But you're in 00:31:59.549 --> 00:32:03.240 Vegas performing and there's 30 year old. damn 00:32:03.240 --> 00:32:05.880 near model looking women jumping on you like 00:32:05.880 --> 00:32:08.640 that's that that makes an impression on you so 00:32:08.640 --> 00:32:11.400 it's not like i'm not used to that i'm not used 00:32:11.400 --> 00:32:14.900 to it with a beautiful woman that loves me and 00:32:14.900 --> 00:32:17.559 that has had my back when i was broke when i 00:32:17.559 --> 00:32:21.859 met her i pay i pay 90 of the bills now but when 00:32:21.859 --> 00:32:24.400 i met her she was making way more money than 00:32:24.400 --> 00:32:27.480 i was and all i have is my own place my own stuff 00:32:27.480 --> 00:32:32.509 but and Just got out of a divorce and just all 00:32:32.509 --> 00:32:35.329 this stuff, and she's built me here. No, none 00:32:35.329 --> 00:32:38.049 of this is worth her being upset or not feeling 00:32:38.049 --> 00:32:40.789 well or us not working out. None of that is worth 00:32:40.789 --> 00:32:43.849 that. So I can get that before I've had it. This 00:32:43.849 --> 00:32:46.789 is not new to me. It took me a while to translate 00:32:46.789 --> 00:32:50.549 the little things from vanilla life to swinger. 00:32:50.569 --> 00:32:53.430 It took me longer than it should have. But people 00:32:53.430 --> 00:32:57.289 think, oh, he's so insecure. I am insecure. I 00:32:57.289 --> 00:33:00.130 was. Because I was like trying to figure out 00:33:00.130 --> 00:33:02.950 how to translate it. I'm like, put me in a salsa 00:33:02.950 --> 00:33:05.829 club. Put me in a salsa club. And you guys will 00:33:05.829 --> 00:33:08.750 start writing, taking notes. Right. Put me in 00:33:08.750 --> 00:33:13.269 a hip hop club as the MC. Then you'll see. You 00:33:13.269 --> 00:33:17.450 know what I'm saying? Yeah. As far as couples 00:33:17.450 --> 00:33:20.210 that were there, did you guys meet some interesting 00:33:20.210 --> 00:33:23.470 couples? Talked to anybody interesting? Played 00:33:23.470 --> 00:33:26.559 with anyone interesting? And somebody, a couple 00:33:26.559 --> 00:33:28.759 that just like just stood out. The couple, the 00:33:28.759 --> 00:33:32.619 husband, they were sweet. Well, I said, babe, 00:33:32.839 --> 00:33:35.099 there's Joe Biden. So we just went over. That 00:33:35.099 --> 00:33:37.339 was that was a good icebreaker. You know, I said, 00:33:37.339 --> 00:33:40.319 hello, President Biden. They were, you know, 00:33:40.339 --> 00:33:42.140 an older couple, but they had been there the 00:33:42.140 --> 00:33:44.019 whole time. And they said it was kind of made 00:33:44.019 --> 00:33:46.299 me a little sad because they said this is the 00:33:46.299 --> 00:33:48.599 most friendliest interaction that we had had. 00:33:48.660 --> 00:33:51.890 And that was Saturday night. So I was like, oh, 00:33:52.009 --> 00:33:54.690 that sucks. But also I challenged some of the 00:33:54.690 --> 00:33:57.690 new couples. It's like, you also can't just sit 00:33:57.690 --> 00:34:00.190 in the corner and expect people to just come 00:34:00.190 --> 00:34:03.710 up to you. Like to get biblical on some people, 00:34:03.750 --> 00:34:05.630 there's a verse in the Bible that says, if you 00:34:05.630 --> 00:34:07.170 want to have friends, you have to show yourself 00:34:07.170 --> 00:34:10.369 friendly. And so, you know, sitting in the corner 00:34:10.369 --> 00:34:12.940 with your arms crossed. you know, with your face 00:34:12.940 --> 00:34:15.460 all mean. I know Socrates made it a special challenge 00:34:15.460 --> 00:34:18.019 to go up and talk to some men that were mean 00:34:18.019 --> 00:34:20.239 mugging everybody so he can talk about that. 00:34:20.340 --> 00:34:23.579 But I don't know. I just, you know, as much as 00:34:23.579 --> 00:34:26.719 I could with my mental brain power being, you 00:34:26.719 --> 00:34:29.880 know, on 10%, I just really tried to just go 00:34:29.880 --> 00:34:33.099 around and just talk to whoever, you know, give 00:34:33.099 --> 00:34:36.639 hugs, give smiles. I can't really remember any 00:34:36.639 --> 00:34:41.599 super meaningful. you know conversations with 00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:44.380 new people just floating around because I again 00:34:44.380 --> 00:34:46.539 during the kind of the mingle time my brain was 00:34:46.539 --> 00:34:50.480 really not on on all out so if anyone's listening 00:34:50.480 --> 00:34:53.659 please forgive me if I you know I did I did say 00:34:53.659 --> 00:34:55.880 in the ladies chat if I my face was saying something 00:34:55.880 --> 00:34:58.059 I said I was just not feeling good and sometimes 00:34:58.059 --> 00:35:00.619 I get overstimulated and I'm just better one 00:35:00.619 --> 00:35:02.300 -on -one there's a lady that's been trying to 00:35:02.300 --> 00:35:05.019 get to know me I said next splash let's just 00:35:05.019 --> 00:35:07.420 go have coffee one of the mornings just you and 00:35:07.420 --> 00:35:11.199 me away from everybody because it's just you 00:35:11.199 --> 00:35:13.639 know not flowing as well as I want to and I said 00:35:13.639 --> 00:35:15.599 I just think I need one -on -one time with you 00:35:15.599 --> 00:35:19.679 so sometimes that for me in a crowded area I'm 00:35:19.679 --> 00:35:23.199 not so good even though I do love people it's 00:35:23.199 --> 00:35:25.420 better for me like I have a whole bunch of friends 00:35:25.420 --> 00:35:28.320 and we're all you know just independent strong 00:35:28.320 --> 00:35:31.239 women but we don't necessarily get together in 00:35:31.239 --> 00:35:33.239 a group we just get together a lot on one -on 00:35:33.239 --> 00:35:36.599 -one and we have great times together so sometimes 00:35:36.599 --> 00:35:39.019 for me that's that's just what I need versus 00:35:39.579 --> 00:35:44.099 managing being a part of a crowd so so you want 00:35:44.099 --> 00:35:46.300 to talk about one -on -one time you want to talk 00:35:46.300 --> 00:35:49.079 about the mean mugging men mean mugging men the 00:35:49.079 --> 00:35:52.780 mmms yeah i can i know but didn't you you were 00:35:52.780 --> 00:35:55.000 about to say something no i was agreeing with 00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:58.440 siren i was like when i attend an event i much 00:35:58.440 --> 00:36:02.039 i much would rather have the one -on -one time 00:36:02.039 --> 00:36:04.849 myself and the couple You know, when we just 00:36:04.849 --> 00:36:06.530 get a chance to sit down somewhere and talk, 00:36:06.650 --> 00:36:09.809 whether it be breakfast in the morning or just, 00:36:09.889 --> 00:36:11.650 you know, going up to the room and just sit down 00:36:11.650 --> 00:36:14.030 and just have a nice conversation away from the 00:36:14.030 --> 00:36:16.510 group. You know, I don't care about being around 00:36:16.510 --> 00:36:21.699 the whole crowd scene, as you know. You know, 00:36:21.739 --> 00:36:25.059 damn where I am when I get there. So I'm with 00:36:25.059 --> 00:36:27.480 you on that one, Sire. I get a lot out of talking 00:36:27.480 --> 00:36:30.800 to someone one -on -one. I can really, I can 00:36:30.800 --> 00:36:33.280 feel you then when I'm talking to you. You know, 00:36:33.300 --> 00:36:35.139 when I can look at you and I can get close to 00:36:35.139 --> 00:36:38.139 you and really get to know, know you. You know, 00:36:38.139 --> 00:36:41.739 I can, I can tell then, okay, yeah, they're newcomers, 00:36:41.739 --> 00:36:43.860 but they really, there's something in them that 00:36:43.860 --> 00:36:46.059 wants, that wants and needs to be brought out. 00:36:46.699 --> 00:36:49.530 So that's how I am too. But, yeah, tell me about 00:36:49.530 --> 00:36:52.610 the mean mugging. Mean mugging men. Well, yeah, 00:36:52.750 --> 00:36:54.710 you wanted me to speak on the couples thing. 00:36:54.849 --> 00:36:57.489 So I just want to say, before I talk about mean 00:36:57.489 --> 00:37:01.110 mugging, I had interactions with several couples 00:37:01.110 --> 00:37:04.190 that I just want to say thank you. They were 00:37:04.190 --> 00:37:08.409 both, what I noticed is how locked in they were, 00:37:08.570 --> 00:37:12.409 how encouraging each one's were, how the husbands 00:37:12.409 --> 00:37:16.349 were there, and the smiles on their faces. Because 00:37:16.349 --> 00:37:18.489 there's three couples I did some very unique 00:37:18.489 --> 00:37:22.989 things with in the play parties, in the playroom, 00:37:23.130 --> 00:37:26.230 in the room parties. And the way the husbands 00:37:26.230 --> 00:37:29.150 reacted just really warmed my heart. As a stag, 00:37:29.230 --> 00:37:32.710 I love that. But the mean mugging guy, so let 00:37:32.710 --> 00:37:35.869 me get back to the beginning. So I never said 00:37:35.869 --> 00:37:37.630 it like this before, and it kind of made sense 00:37:37.630 --> 00:37:41.559 to me where I'm from. When I first... Went to 00:37:41.559 --> 00:37:44.159 Splash and Siren was like, look, we were going 00:37:44.159 --> 00:37:46.420 to all kind of white gang bangs because where 00:37:46.420 --> 00:37:48.280 we live, if you're going to go to a gang bang, 00:37:48.440 --> 00:37:50.599 it's going to be all vanilla, all white people. 00:37:51.239 --> 00:37:53.820 And it was great. That's no problem. But not 00:37:53.820 --> 00:37:56.739 vanilla, you know, white folks, which is great. 00:37:56.840 --> 00:37:59.380 And I've got some good friends. Maybe a couple 00:37:59.380 --> 00:38:02.000 of Latina guys. Right. Some of them are going 00:38:02.000 --> 00:38:03.840 to be coming to some of our parties. They're 00:38:03.840 --> 00:38:06.179 great people. Nothing wrong with that. But she's 00:38:06.179 --> 00:38:08.139 like, look, and I just said one to her one day, 00:38:08.159 --> 00:38:09.800 I said, look, you just need to admit that you 00:38:09.800 --> 00:38:12.409 are. you know queen of spades queen of spades 00:38:12.409 --> 00:38:16.010 so long story short she said she admitted it 00:38:16.010 --> 00:38:18.190 we we went out to a bunch of clubs everywhere 00:38:18.190 --> 00:38:21.090 and she's just like i need to find a place specifically 00:38:21.090 --> 00:38:24.590 for with black men so i found splash and i was 00:38:24.590 --> 00:38:27.469 thinking okay this is for her right i've done 00:38:27.469 --> 00:38:29.269 some stuff i've done all kind of crazy stuff 00:38:29.269 --> 00:38:33.050 this is for her and so i found it and i was preparing 00:38:33.050 --> 00:38:37.659 myself and my mind i was thinking I'm going to 00:38:37.659 --> 00:38:39.280 go in there with a bunch of crips and bloods. 00:38:39.280 --> 00:38:42.000 Like, I don't know why I was, I just thought 00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:44.880 it was going to be some really, and I don't even 00:38:44.880 --> 00:38:47.099 put down crips and bloods because I, but I mean, 00:38:47.119 --> 00:38:53.480 just really disrespectful, uneducated, unsophisticated, 00:38:53.480 --> 00:38:57.420 you know, don't know how to approach men. And 00:38:57.420 --> 00:38:59.699 I was horribly wrong. But when I went in there, 00:38:59.760 --> 00:39:02.699 I went in there mean mugging. I had my arms folded 00:39:02.699 --> 00:39:04.840 and I was, you know, looking around, ready to 00:39:04.840 --> 00:39:09.320 fight. And I was blown away at the men's meeting. 00:39:09.440 --> 00:39:12.199 And then I was later blown away how the men treated 00:39:12.199 --> 00:39:16.300 Siren and how well they all treated each other 00:39:16.300 --> 00:39:18.340 and how they lifted each other up. So I said 00:39:18.340 --> 00:39:21.420 all that to say I was talking to a fan that came 00:39:21.420 --> 00:39:23.000 up to us and he was telling us how much he liked 00:39:23.000 --> 00:39:25.539 the podcast and everything. And something about 00:39:25.539 --> 00:39:28.039 Mean Muggin came up. Oh, I was talking about 00:39:28.039 --> 00:39:30.139 Uncle Work. Because he was there. I was talking 00:39:30.139 --> 00:39:32.659 about Uncle Work. And if you listen to the podcast, 00:39:32.800 --> 00:39:34.460 you guys, I've talked about Uncle Work before. 00:39:34.659 --> 00:39:37.239 But I'll talk about it again. But I was talking 00:39:37.239 --> 00:39:39.480 about Uncle Work. He was like, yeah, man, that's 00:39:39.480 --> 00:39:41.460 what you did the first splash. And I said, what? 00:39:41.619 --> 00:39:45.079 Wait, what? I said, what? What you mean? He said, 00:39:45.119 --> 00:39:46.719 man, when you got in there, dude, you looked 00:39:46.719 --> 00:39:48.679 like you was ready to fight the first person 00:39:48.679 --> 00:39:52.219 that came up to you. And I said, the way I describe 00:39:52.219 --> 00:39:55.219 how I felt, I can't deny that. I never felt that. 00:39:55.480 --> 00:40:00.019 And Siren never said that. I said, I probably 00:40:00.019 --> 00:40:02.159 was. I didn't even notice what you were looking 00:40:02.159 --> 00:40:04.820 like. Yeah, because your jaw was dropped looking 00:40:04.820 --> 00:40:08.139 at all the other beautiful black men in there. 00:40:08.280 --> 00:40:10.239 Nervous -sided. Yeah, so that's all you kept 00:40:10.239 --> 00:40:12.820 saying is to all these beautiful black men. Never 00:40:12.820 --> 00:40:16.199 seen so many. So what I decided to do right after 00:40:16.199 --> 00:40:19.500 he said that was every, there was about three 00:40:19.500 --> 00:40:22.199 of them, every, me, there was one dude, man, 00:40:22.360 --> 00:40:25.920 I swear, he was sitting down. His wife is beautiful. 00:40:27.340 --> 00:40:30.940 I kid you not, he's buff. He's real buff. He 00:40:30.940 --> 00:40:34.739 is a body builder. You can just tell, you know. 00:40:35.079 --> 00:40:39.219 He ain't got no neck. Like, he's big. And he, 00:40:39.360 --> 00:40:41.880 a mean mug, the worst I've ever seen in Splash. 00:40:41.940 --> 00:40:44.980 Like, I mean, this guy was, and I said, I'm going 00:40:44.980 --> 00:40:47.260 up to him. So I went up to him, sat on the table, 00:40:47.400 --> 00:40:50.619 and I started talking to both of them. I talked 00:40:50.619 --> 00:40:53.360 to this dude for five minutes and asked him direct 00:40:53.360 --> 00:40:56.960 questions. And he answered with shoulder shrugs 00:40:56.960 --> 00:41:01.139 and looks and eye movements. And his wife would 00:41:01.139 --> 00:41:02.860 have to answer for him. And I just kept talking 00:41:02.860 --> 00:41:05.480 to him. And then I just said, hey, you're my 00:41:05.480 --> 00:41:07.239 challenge. I just said straight up because he 00:41:07.239 --> 00:41:09.760 wouldn't crack. And that's when he said, what 00:41:09.760 --> 00:41:14.340 do you mean? And I said, my boy over here told 00:41:14.340 --> 00:41:16.019 me when I first started coming, I used to mean 00:41:16.019 --> 00:41:18.550 mug people. And I told him, yeah, because I really 00:41:18.550 --> 00:41:22.210 felt like I was running too. Because I had bad 00:41:22.210 --> 00:41:25.909 experiences in the past. So, and, you know, this 00:41:25.909 --> 00:41:27.389 and this and that. And I said, you know what, 00:41:27.389 --> 00:41:29.409 man, you owe her a mean mugging. And his wife 00:41:29.409 --> 00:41:31.550 said, yes, thank you. She's like, I'm trying 00:41:31.550 --> 00:41:33.610 to get some dick. And he's scaring everyone away. 00:41:33.610 --> 00:41:37.170 His wife said, yes. And he just looked down like, 00:41:37.250 --> 00:41:39.969 I know. And then I was like, hey, man, like, 00:41:40.010 --> 00:41:42.369 I came up to you because I don't care. Yeah. 00:41:42.690 --> 00:41:44.590 Well, let me say this, though. Think about it. 00:41:44.610 --> 00:41:47.650 Think about it. put yourself in his shoes you're 00:41:47.650 --> 00:41:50.170 you're a bodybuilder so i'm assuming the the 00:41:50.170 --> 00:41:54.670 physique look like that of the pros that that 00:41:54.670 --> 00:41:58.190 i see all the time when i go to shows okay probably 00:41:58.190 --> 00:42:01.809 a big dude muscles everywhere vascular and veiny 00:42:01.809 --> 00:42:07.150 etc etc cut up and you are sitting at an event 00:42:07.150 --> 00:42:11.429 where you are going to watch your wife get beat 00:42:11.429 --> 00:42:15.320 down by these black guys And you're probably 00:42:15.320 --> 00:42:17.900 feeling some kind of overweight. You know what 00:42:17.900 --> 00:42:23.559 I mean? Big time. So I can kind of see maybe 00:42:23.559 --> 00:42:26.420 a couple going to one or two events and the husband 00:42:26.420 --> 00:42:30.139 be, you know, he's mean mugging, but underneath 00:42:30.139 --> 00:42:33.199 he's scared as fuck. He's scared as hell because 00:42:33.199 --> 00:42:37.039 he doesn't, he's really feeling some kind of 00:42:37.039 --> 00:42:39.980 weight. Like, you know, am I enough for her? 00:42:40.099 --> 00:42:43.239 You know what I mean? She's going to get some 00:42:43.239 --> 00:42:45.460 good dicks. She's going to open up. I'm probably 00:42:45.460 --> 00:42:48.820 going to see her in another light, and it's fucking 00:42:48.820 --> 00:42:51.219 with me. So that's where the mean mugging comes 00:42:51.219 --> 00:42:55.199 from. So for you to go up to him like that and 00:42:55.199 --> 00:42:57.760 be able to, I'm not going to say break him, but 00:42:57.760 --> 00:42:59.719 you were able to make him feel comfortable, correct? 00:43:00.480 --> 00:43:03.340 Yeah. In some way, shape, or form, you were able 00:43:03.340 --> 00:43:04.739 to make him feel comfortable. I got him to talk. 00:43:04.900 --> 00:43:06.780 That's good. I got him to talk, and he was here. 00:43:07.239 --> 00:43:09.460 Eventually, he still didn't talk a lot, but he 00:43:09.460 --> 00:43:11.869 was like, hey. Why are we here but not to do 00:43:11.869 --> 00:43:13.329 that? You know, he's like, that's why I'm here. 00:43:14.289 --> 00:43:16.750 Bodybuilding guys, unless they're talking to 00:43:16.750 --> 00:43:20.110 personal trainers or the cats that lift, they 00:43:20.110 --> 00:43:22.070 really are, they live in their own world, all 00:43:22.070 --> 00:43:25.809 right? I mean, you know, I'm not a bodybuilder 00:43:25.809 --> 00:43:28.469 or anything like that, but I'm an avid weightlifter 00:43:28.469 --> 00:43:32.150 who lifts like a bodybuilder. So I know how they 00:43:32.150 --> 00:43:35.969 live. I know they live. Very, very extrovert. 00:43:37.239 --> 00:43:39.840 You know, for you to get him to do that, good 00:43:39.840 --> 00:43:43.099 job. Good job, brother. Both of y 'all sound 00:43:43.099 --> 00:43:45.219 like you had a very, let me see, how do I say 00:43:45.219 --> 00:43:47.900 it, a very uplifting experience this time at 00:43:47.900 --> 00:43:50.659 this event. Yeah. Very, very uplifting. I just 00:43:50.659 --> 00:43:52.960 kept checking in with myself, too, because, you 00:43:52.960 --> 00:43:55.760 know, I will not lie and say, you know, every 00:43:55.760 --> 00:43:59.380 time that he's playing that I've been like 100 00:43:59.380 --> 00:44:03.599 % overjoyed. Because I get FOMO or jealous or 00:44:03.599 --> 00:44:05.539 whatever. But this time I really just kept checking 00:44:05.539 --> 00:44:07.599 in myself and being like, okay, I don't feel 00:44:07.599 --> 00:44:13.159 well. Am I truly wanting him to go? How am I 00:44:13.159 --> 00:44:15.559 feeling about it? And I just felt good that he 00:44:15.559 --> 00:44:19.579 could go. And then the experiences that I did 00:44:19.579 --> 00:44:22.980 have were so meaningful. I played with one guy 00:44:22.980 --> 00:44:25.320 that several ladies were turning up their nose 00:44:25.320 --> 00:44:29.409 to because he was a little bit... He was a colorful 00:44:29.409 --> 00:44:34.250 individual. He was a little bit maybe flamboyant. 00:44:34.510 --> 00:44:36.650 And so some of the women, you know, they're like, 00:44:36.730 --> 00:44:39.769 that's not my cup of tea. And I thought, why 00:44:39.769 --> 00:44:42.289 not? Let me just see what this guy's all about. 00:44:42.570 --> 00:44:45.730 And it ended up being one of the best play experiences. 00:44:45.829 --> 00:44:49.409 We laid on the bed fully clothed for 45 minutes 00:44:49.409 --> 00:44:54.929 and just talked. And I could tell he was kind 00:44:54.929 --> 00:44:58.079 of nervous to start. And then... I could tell 00:44:58.079 --> 00:45:00.199 we both had creative minds and just the way we 00:45:00.199 --> 00:45:02.239 were speaking just started flowing together. 00:45:02.860 --> 00:45:05.239 And it was just very uplifting and encouraging 00:45:05.239 --> 00:45:10.000 and positive conversation. And then when we got 00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:12.579 to the actual play, you know, he was talking 00:45:12.579 --> 00:45:14.880 a lot about he likes to please. And sometimes 00:45:14.880 --> 00:45:17.500 when guys say that, I go, okay, yeah, we'll see. 00:45:17.619 --> 00:45:20.340 In my mind, you know, because I'm like, sometimes 00:45:20.340 --> 00:45:22.800 they're just talking, you know. But he truly, 00:45:23.119 --> 00:45:27.039 the way he spoke really was the way he played. 00:45:27.559 --> 00:45:30.260 And it just flowed so well, and it was a great 00:45:30.260 --> 00:45:33.500 time. And I just went back to a couple of those 00:45:33.500 --> 00:45:36.420 ladies, and I said, that may not be everybody's 00:45:36.420 --> 00:45:38.960 cup of tea, but damn, it was a good cup of tea 00:45:38.960 --> 00:45:43.340 for me. So I really enjoyed that. And I love 00:45:43.340 --> 00:45:47.619 finding those gold nuggets, those guys that are 00:45:47.619 --> 00:45:52.840 just like a diamond in the rough. Maybe other 00:45:52.840 --> 00:45:56.190 people don't see it. But when you get them in 00:45:56.190 --> 00:45:58.590 that place where you can discover what they're 00:45:58.590 --> 00:46:01.590 really about one -on -one, then you just really 00:46:01.590 --> 00:46:04.449 meet some cool people that have some cool things 00:46:04.449 --> 00:46:06.449 to offer. Well, those are your friends, Mommy, 00:46:06.630 --> 00:46:09.650 because trust me, he got it in. Not all the women 00:46:09.650 --> 00:46:12.250 got that. I didn't say that. No, I'm just being 00:46:12.250 --> 00:46:14.789 funny. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, I didn't because 00:46:14.789 --> 00:46:17.469 he was bold. He was bold and he would just be 00:46:17.469 --> 00:46:20.389 like, you're hot and I would like some time with 00:46:20.389 --> 00:46:23.239 you. And he said it in such like... not a cocky 00:46:23.239 --> 00:46:25.619 way, like I'm going to get you, you know, but 00:46:25.619 --> 00:46:28.340 just like in a very complimentary and just like. 00:46:28.360 --> 00:46:30.820 Very complimentary way. Yeah. And a fun way. 00:46:30.900 --> 00:46:33.800 Like it was, it was a very different vibe. Like 00:46:33.800 --> 00:46:35.500 some of the guys are just super confident. Some 00:46:35.500 --> 00:46:38.019 kind of come off a little cocky. And then he 00:46:38.019 --> 00:46:40.400 just said it in such a fun, like, Hey, I'm here 00:46:40.400 --> 00:46:43.039 to have a good time. You know, he showed up late 00:46:43.039 --> 00:46:46.300 for our gang bang. He was invited to that. And. 00:46:47.039 --> 00:46:49.480 He was otherwise occupied, and by the time he 00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:52.960 got there, we were all done. So he said, well, 00:46:53.079 --> 00:46:55.940 you guys are hot and beautiful, and I hope that 00:46:55.940 --> 00:46:57.739 I get some time with you later. And then he just 00:46:57.739 --> 00:46:59.800 walked away, and then he followed up a couple 00:46:59.800 --> 00:47:03.440 more times, and it finally worked out. So I just 00:47:03.440 --> 00:47:05.980 encourage the ladies, sometimes when someone's 00:47:05.980 --> 00:47:08.559 just a little bit different than what you're 00:47:08.559 --> 00:47:11.639 used to, just give them a try. Give them a try. 00:47:11.739 --> 00:47:14.519 It's like trying a new food. You just might like 00:47:14.519 --> 00:47:16.949 it. You might find something there that... you 00:47:16.949 --> 00:47:19.210 weren't expecting. So that's some good, that's 00:47:19.210 --> 00:47:22.150 good. Some good knowledge and wisdom there for 00:47:22.150 --> 00:47:25.730 the ladies listening. Very good. Anything else 00:47:25.730 --> 00:47:28.650 that needs to be brought out from this after 00:47:28.650 --> 00:47:31.289 action report, ladies and gentlemen. Actually, 00:47:31.309 --> 00:47:33.710 I think we just need to do a part two because 00:47:33.710 --> 00:47:36.710 we haven't even hit the scratch the surface. 00:47:36.809 --> 00:47:39.489 There are so many other things that we discovered 00:47:39.489 --> 00:47:44.670 together that happened that, you know, we learned 00:47:44.670 --> 00:47:48.630 that we want to share. So I think that what we 00:47:48.630 --> 00:47:50.570 should probably do, because we could probably 00:47:50.570 --> 00:47:53.070 go another hour and a half. So we probably just 00:47:53.070 --> 00:47:55.369 end it there if you want and then do a part two. 00:47:56.110 --> 00:47:59.429 Yeah. Or maybe we can wrap it into the podcast 00:47:59.429 --> 00:48:01.630 that we're going to do with Raven. Yeah. Yeah. 00:48:01.670 --> 00:48:03.130 I think it's. Yeah, we could do that. That's 00:48:03.130 --> 00:48:05.329 kind of what you're alluding a little bit. There's 00:48:05.329 --> 00:48:07.849 more. That'll work. Okay. But either way. We 00:48:07.849 --> 00:48:10.610 can do that one. We can, you know, there's, there's 00:48:10.610 --> 00:48:13.610 lots of time that we can create more. So. That'll 00:48:13.610 --> 00:48:16.960 work. That'll work. Well, then, if there's nothing 00:48:16.960 --> 00:48:20.579 more to be said, ladies and gentlemen, you've 00:48:20.579 --> 00:48:24.219 heard it from Siren and Socrates. Sounds like 00:48:24.219 --> 00:48:27.519 Splash Mocha Houston was an absolute blast and 00:48:27.519 --> 00:48:31.760 also a very, very uplifting event for them as 00:48:31.760 --> 00:48:35.539 a couple. I'm so proud of them. Again, ladies 00:48:35.539 --> 00:48:38.219 and gentlemen, thank you for joining us tonight. 00:48:38.400 --> 00:48:41.059 I am the Sigma Male himself, along with Brian 00:48:41.059 --> 00:48:44.539 Morgan, along with the family, Siren and Socrates. 00:48:45.340 --> 00:48:48.360 Until we talk again, to all the boys out there, 00:48:48.460 --> 00:48:51.719 to my brothers, I bid you good night. And to 00:48:51.719 --> 00:48:54.820 all my sexy hot wives, you know the deal. Good 00:48:54.820 --> 00:48:58.739 morning. Until we meet again, y 'all, good night.