He who seeks the approval will lose her respect.
But when you're out here, when you are commanding
mastery and speaking with mastery, then you're
doing what? You're getting what from her. You're
commanding her desire. She desires you more and
more. When you speak to a woman or a couple,
you're not exchanging words. You're exchanging
power. And the energy is rare within the first
five seconds of you starting that conversation.
Always put a woman's needs first, especially
in the lifestyle. And here's why. Let me tell
you what it doesn't mean first. It doesn't mean
put your needs last. Your needs become second.
But it doesn't mean that she can disrespect you
if meeting her needs means that. It doesn't mean
she can neglect your desires and fantasies if...
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she has the right to be neglectful or not consider
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So to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
and gentlemen, good evening. Welcome to another
informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood podcast.
I'm the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, coming
at you with my lovely family and podcast team,
the beautiful and seductive Siren. Good evening.
As well as my perpetual student, nephew himself,
Socrates. What's good? What's good, y 'all? Take
it over, brother. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. So we're
really excited about this episode. I'm very excited
about this. So if I'm going to open up to our
listeners a little bit, I have a big dick. Hallelujah.
Well, let's tell it like it is. Wait, people
were under the impression that I had married
you for the money and that you had a micropenis,
and now you're going to reveal this? Oh, shit.
Now they know I'm shallow. As did he. I put that
on my manifestation, though. I'm on big dick.
Let's just get down to it. Mr. Sigma male isn't
so bad himself. And the reason why I say it like
that is because I don't mind admitting that most
of my life I didn't think that way. And I struggled
with that for a while. And when I entered into
the lifestyle, you know, I entered in. with my
ex and we you know did our thing but i did not
play solo i didn't play a lot because she wasn't
comfortable with that which is fine so when i
got divorced i got into the lifestyle straight
away as a bull right and when i got online one
of the first interactions i saw was a lady who
was like called herself a size queen. So I was
like, okay, you know, I should be able to fit
that. And I asked her, well, you know, being
the student I am, I was asked a lot of questions.
I'm like, well, you know, what do you consider
size queen? And, you know, we've asked this question
a lot with a lot of people on, I think on both
podcasts. And it's interesting what women say
when they say they're a size queen. Yeah, it's
a range. It is a range. I think so far I've heard
everything from a minimum of six inches to a
minimum of eight, right? Well, this lady was
like. No, we've heard higher than that. Oh, okay.
It's been six to ten has been the minimum. Okay.
And then one lady said she didn't really care
about length. It needed to be the girth of a
Coke can. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Ooh.
So the lady that. I was talking to online was
like 11 inches. And I was like, damn. Now, I'm
not going to give you all my size, but I ain't
11. I will say, you know, the empirical researcher
that I am, the national average for men in general
in America is six and a half inches. No, I'm
sorry. For white men, five and a half inches
for white men. For a black man, it's six and
a half. That's the average. I am well above that.
However, I did not know that, and nor did I feel,
had that walk around with that big dick energy
for a long time. I really didn't. So I had some
concerns. I had insecurities about it. I didn't
know, you know, and don't get me wrong, women
have told me I had a big dick, but I didn't believe
them, you know. I really didn't. So one time,
So my ex sat down and she was explicitly explaining
to me, you know, you don't need to worry about
that. And I didn't get it. You know, I didn't
understand it. So she sat down and she wrote
a matrix for me. And I have been trying to duplicate
that matrix visually, especially for, you know,
today's like this episode to be able to put something
online to show you. And I haven't come up with
that, but I called it the dick matrix. and that's
what we're going to talk about today. We're going
to talk about her perspective, and I've talked
to many other women who share this perspective,
and based on the research that I've shared and
the things that we've learned being in this lifestyle,
especially from Unk, about what really matters
for most women, period, and for specifically
most women in the lifestyle. So we're going to
get into this today. But for us, we're going
to move from the dick matrix to what we're calling
the bull value matrix. So when you get into this
lifestyle and you are looking at, well, you know,
what makes a bull? Especially in this lifestyle,
we are in ethical non -monogamy and we are really
heavily into interracial. That's a, you know,
a niche of a niche in this community. So whenever
you're coming to any kind of event that features
black men or you're looking for black men, you
know, almost all of them are at least on their
top 10 list of things they're looking for is
size. Right. But that's not all they're looking
for. Right. They're looking for values and things
that they can look for, that they can get, that
they will interact with them. a black man or
any man that have more value than just dick size
and penetration. So we're going to talk about
that today. Before I get started on that, tell
me what you, like, for your experience in this
lifestyle, you know, especially in Europe, what's
the approach or opinion of European women? when
it comes to dick size and when they're selecting
for black men, especially? Nephew, European women
absolutely go gaga over black men. And it starts
off with, of course, the physical, the physical
traits. I can, if you were to line up maybe five
black guys. And they all have different body
types, you know, from the mesomorphic or muscular
physique to the slender guy in the now physique,
but still has some form of muscularity to the
guy that might be a little bit heavier. Not fat,
but just a little bit thicker. They go crazy
over the body. first and foremost the body game
speaks a lot then they look facial the facial
recognition and it doesn't matter if you're dark
skin light skin brown skin caramel whatever um
that's what attracts them first and then it is
the whole it comes down to you hear me talk about
the aura the charisma right um the swag you know
of black men compared to what you know most other
races don't have um and then once they get with
you it you have some that that that will consider
themselves size queens but here again once you
put the equation together as that good as that
good boy that knows how to do everything to a
woman, not only just physically, but get inside
her head emotionally and mentally, when you put
all that together and get with her, she's done.
I mean, it's, it's nice to stick a fork in it.
She's done. Okay. So that is the whole, you know,
that's the whole stigma of, of how they look
at black men. Yeah. I love it. And that really
makes sense. Siren. really talks about, and I'll
let her explain it because I don't want to mess
this concept up, but she loves, what do you call
it, the average man? I just call it the average
dude. Yeah. And so, go ahead. It's such a positive
thing because my husband first was like, don't
go around telling guys that you love an average
dude. But here's what I mean. I mean an average
dude. The dude that maybe ladies walking down
the street. is not necessarily going to catch
their attention physically, okay? He's not a
bad -looking dude, but he doesn't have, like,
a six -pack, and he's not 6 '4", and, you know,
just chiseled features and all these things,
you know? He's no model, but neither am I, you
know? But I just find those guys, oh, delightful
for so many reasons. We're getting ready to go
to Splash. um, in Fort Lauderdale next week.
And it seems like there's going to be a lot of
new faces for us. And my husband said, oh, maybe
there'll be, you know, all these good looking
da -da -da -da -da -da, you know, lists off all
these things. And I said, oh, I hope not. I said,
I hope there's a whole bunch of average dudes
because that's what I love. And these guys are
just They have all these other things going for
them besides the physical. They know how to talk
to you. They're a little bit nerdy. So they just
put in that effort to the experience that I just
really love and enjoy. So that's my short explanation.
And that's exactly what I mean by gentlemen who
bring everything to the table. Don't get me wrong.
I'm a gym rat. And yes, you know, I try to look
a certain way, you know, present myself a certain
way. But here again, if I would show you pictures
of how I look when I was younger, I look like
a pencil and you just put my damn head on top
of a pencil. OK, and I just didn't like looking
like that. But I had to learn how to how to.
with the physical, take the genetics that I had
and create my best body. But then I was taught
how to, again, by my handler, how to talk to
a woman, how to approach a woman, just how to
be myself, my true self around, you know, around
women and be able to talk about it, about any
and everything and just treat women the way that
they want to be treated. I don't care if it's
a splashy event or if you're going, if you meet
a woman in the grocery store, you know what I
mean? If you know how to damn talk and treat
her the way that she wants to be treated, you're
going to get the response. You're going to get
that positive response. And that's what I want
the bulls to know right now is embrace who you
are. That's what I'm trying to say. Embrace who
you are and bring your best version to the table,
okay? You don't have to look like damn Mr. Olympia.
and walk around with them six -pack abs and all
that stuff like that, but love who you are and
then put together your best package and then
be confident and present it, you know, and let
the chips fall where they may. And you'll see
what I'm talking about. You'll be a successful
bull. And a successful guy. One of the things
I love about this podcast, and we're going to
talk about a keyword that Unk said, the package.
One of the things I love about this podcast is
we're talking about skills that anybody can use.
You could be 100 % vanilla listening to this.
You don't want anything to do with the lifestyle.
But the skills we're going to talk about are
going to help you in dating, help you have a
lot more confidence in the bedroom, help you
have a lot more confidence if you're a bull who
has, you know, on the way to see a hot wife or
a single female, whatever you're doing. And you're
concerned because you're new and you're concerned
about your dick size. You ain't got an 11 -inch
dick or 12 -inch dick or you ain't got a third
leg in between your, you know, a third leg, kickstand.
You know, we're going to have some things for
you. And the thing we're talking about is the
package. So let me explain to you what my ex,
how she explained it. She explained it that a
dick is a filler. And that filler can bring you
over the top. It can compensate. Or it can be
something that takes away. So what she's explaining
is the same way that Brian is talking about,
which is what are your looks? How do you present
yourself? Not looks in what you can't control,
but, you know, like Anka's saying, are you working
on your body? Are you presenting yourself? Well,
we've talked about this in a quality episode.
Are you... Your breath? Good, right? Did you
wash your ass? Right? Please wash your ass. All
of those things, right? Everything. Everything
that you just said right there, nephew. Everything.
I didn't mean to interrupt, but keep talking.
Yeah, no, no, no. And so she also talked about,
you know, how well you interact with women. Are
you funny? Are you humorous? Do you have something
interesting to talk about? Are you... confident
enough in yourself to let her talk, to be inquisitive,
right? Do you have a plan in life? Are you going
somewhere? And she said, look, genuinely, women,
and, you know, listen, I'd love to hear from
our listeners, especially you ladies on this.
We'd love you to hit us up on Instagram or email
us, thebullbrotherhoodpodcast at gmail .com.
We'd love to hear your thoughts on this, but
it's like, When you have an average or smaller
-sized dick, but you can work it, you know how
to talk to women to get to that situation. Again,
you know the experience, right? You know foreplay.
You know how to approach a woman's body. You
know how to get her in the mood, keep her in
the mood. You know those things. We're going
to go over some of those details. That's the
full package. And I got some stories. And Siren's
got some stories. And so... When you come as
a full package, a lot of, if you don't have,
if you ain't packing and you have all those other
skills, then you don't need that size. And the
reverse is true. Being in this lifestyle, especially
as, you know, we are in our crazy phase. A friend
of ours said, you know, we're getting a lot of
experience. And I have talked to several ladies
in this lifestyle and vanilla ladies who say,
look, like there's the guys that do have the
third leg. And a lot of them, not all, a lot
of them, not all are just pounded out guys. And
again, that's not putting them down. Some women
just want you to come in, you know, beat the
coins out of them and go about your business.
I like that sometimes. Yeah. But a lot of women
eventually say, well, I either move on from that
or at least I want a lot of other things that
I can get out of the experience, right? Especially
a woman who's been in the lifestyle for a long
time. A lot of those ladies are looking for something
more than a guy who's packing something and can
pound it out. Now, you should be able to do all
of it. But when you are just relying on your
dick, it is only, even if you're just a pounding
out guy and you got everything, six pack abs,
you know, over six feet tall, making six figures
and your dick is over six and a half inches or
whatever. And you got all of that. If you don't
have the personality, the confidence, the looks,
the how to interact with women, it's only going
to take you so far. Right. So we're going to
go over a few of these things. But before we
do, let's get it. Let's hear some of these stories
that Siren's talking about, because I know some
of my favorite stories that she has that I, you
know, I want to hear some of the experiences
that she's had that says, yeah, you know, like
this guy wasn't packing, but he was, you know,
he did his thing. Well, I'll just give the most
the most recent is one of my favorite current
regulars. And, let's say, good -looking guy.
The first time we kissed, it was amazing. He's
well -spoken. He's got things going on for him
in life. But he ain't packing. But, man, he's
got all the other tricks in the book. He knows
from the minute he walks in the door, he pulls
me close immediately and kisses me. And then
we go out to our hot tub. He pulls me close in
there, immediately starts rubbing my feet. How's
your week been going? You know, immediately starts
engaging in the conversation, listening, letting
me just ramble on. You know, get all my words
out because women, we like to talk, right? And
then lets me do that for a little bit, maybe
five minutes or so. And then he moves to the
next step. You know, pulls me in close, starts
kissing me. He's an amazing kisser. And then
someone told me the other day, if someone's an
amazing kisser, they're probably pretty damn
good at pussy eating too. And I found that to
be true with this gentleman. So, every step of
the way, by the time you get to the point where
the dick comes out, you don't even care. Because
he's already taken you on this whole journey
of like feeling good, getting comfortable. And
before he even brings that out, you know, you've
probably already had three or four orgasms. So
that's just one example, you know, and then you
just forget all about that. You know, so he just
takes you on this journey from the second he
walks in the door to the second he leaves. He's
fun. He's engaging. He's confident. You know,
if you didn't know, if you didn't see, you would
think he was packing 10, 12 inches because that's
how he carries himself. Not in a cocky manner
at all, but in a very confident, I know what
I bring to the table in all the areas. You know,
he'll pick the music. You know, he just, he's
got it together. He's got his shit together.
So we like to say. He has learned how to not
only talk to a woman, but also dominate their
mind. He also speaks a couple of languages. So
sometimes he'll just. spit out a couple french
phrases and i have no idea he could be saying
you dumb bitch but i have no idea i just it sounds
romantic because it's in french yeah uh so that's
that's just one of the more recent ones i'm curious
to know socrates what some of your favorite ones
are that you that you wanted did you have a specific
story that you wanted me to share uh um We might
have to edit this part. I'm not sure, but the
three -inch guy that looks like Elmer Fudd. That's
my favorite one. Oh, that's your favorite one?
What was that now? That three -inch guy that
looks like... Well, and that... So early on in
the lifestyle, even though I pretty much exclusively
dated black men after I got divorced from my
first husband, early on in the lifestyle, I was
kind of just... I was trying out all the flavors
before... I settled into, really, I'm a queen
of spades. You know, I just am. So we went to
a club, and it was New Year's. We were interacting
with a couple. The wife was what Socrates likes,
thick, curvy, cute, fun, and they were interested
in us. both of them and he was just kind of dorky
looking like we say he looked like Elmer Fudd
just kind of a pudgy guy uh not attractive I
was like hey well I'll go back there and kind
of just see you know I wasn't really I didn't
really have high expectations but I was like
you know this couple they keep coming to us they're
very friendly the vibe seems to be good let's
try it out It was pretty entertaining, actually,
because later in the after -action report, Socrates
said that he didn't really have that much fun
with the wife, which is kind of an unusual situation,
because he usually always has fun with the woman,
and it's usually me that's kind of getting the
short end of the stick in a full -swap situation.
But this guy, and he was a little bit girthy,
not really. He wasn't, I think, I don't know,
three inches if he was that small. But it was
pretty small, like four, three, four. And I didn't
have much hope for what was going to happen when
I saw it. But that guy pounded the shit out of
me. And he was just, like, really good at oral
and all of the other things. And he was just
smiling at me the whole time. And then his wife
was cheering him on. And I would say that's definitely...
One of, one, if not the best experience that
I have ever had with a white man. And he had,
he had like nothing, he, but he had all the confidence
in the world. Like he was, he knew what he was
doing. He knew how to touch you, where to touch
you, what to do. And I was screaming my head
off like siren does. So that's why I say, you
know, go ahead. May I ask how old was he? Oh,
they're probably in our, you know, the same,
like the. 40s, early 40s range. So he probably
learned at a very early age. He learned at a
very early age. He accepted the fact that, hey,
I'm not one of these guys that's got 8, 9, 10
inches, but I am going to master the other art.
You know what I mean? I'm going to know how to
damn do gray oil. I'm going to know how to talk.
I'm going to know how to touch, caress. And I
am going to still bring it as if I have eight,
nine, or ten inches. You know what I mean? Yeah,
and it was just enthusiastic. Here again. Exactly.
Confidence, confidence, confidence, men. Okay?
Don't let things get inside your head. I think
that's what happens to a lot of our bulls. And
regardless if it's at Splash or just in life
in general, you think, hey, I have to be a man
to be a true bull. I got to be this. My dick's
got to be this long, and I got to look like this.
I got to look like that. That's bullshit. You
shoot that as bullshit. Okay? That is a crock
of bullshit. You know, this guy right here, look,
you said, look, wasn't attractive, looked like
Elmer Fudd, but hey, he got in there and he handled
his damn business. That's what it's about. That's
what it's about. You know, this is what I bring
to the table and damn it, I'm going to bring
it. Okay? And you're going to have, I'm going
to make sure that you have a good time. It was
all about Siren. You know, it was all about Siren.
It was all about the Siren's pleasure. So, yeah,
hey, hands off to Elmer Fudd. Well, and, you
know, a lot of time in a full swap situation,
we have found where the husband hasn't been able
to concentrate on me because he's been so distracted
by what's happening with his wife and Socrates.
Sure, exactly. He wasn't worried about that.
No, he was able to look over once in a while,
smile at his wife, and keep on trucking. So he
was, you know, they had been in their lifestyle
for a while. Oh, yeah, and you can tell. Love
it. So if we ever hear, if these people ever
hear this episode, I just want to say, it's not
that the wife was bad or anything. What I realized
looking back is that I can tell she's been in
a lifestyle a long time and she had a process.
Wasn't like she's being manipulative or running
me through a system or anything, but you can
tell she had a process. And I saw it and it just
jolted me because I'm like, I like it. I have
a process, and that process comes from an authentic
place, so I'm okay with it. And it's also because
I'm kind of on the spectrum just a little bit,
so I need to kind of have those things to keep
my mind focused. But she was great. It was just
I could tell she was like, I've been here, done
that. I'm kind of doing the things that I usually
do, and I was like that. Getting back to Elmer
Fudd, what I like about this dude is that he
was smooth all the way through. And he checked
in on me, made sure I was good, checked in on
his wife, made sure that she was good. And the
guy just knew what he was doing all the way around.
You know? Ultimate confidence, ultimate aura,
charisma all the way around. Sound like a great
couple. Oh, yeah. Sound like great. And I love
where it sounds like she completely... endorses
her man. You know what I mean? Stands by her
man. You know what I'm saying? She wants him
to have a great time and he wants her to have
a great time. And when you have that closeness
like that, just like you two have, when you have
that closeness like that, then you're going to
have great, great encounters every damn time.
Whether it's a full swap same room or if you
guys had a splash and you're going one way and
you know... The other's going west while you
go east. You're going to have great encounters
every damn time. So, here again, hats off to
Elmer. Does Elmer Fudd have, like, something
that he always says? I forgot, yeah. He's always
has that hat and carrying his gun, though, and,
oh, wascally wabbits. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, he's
always hunting. He's hunting. He's hunting. He's
always hunting wabbits. He's always hunting wabbits.
He found a rabbit. There you go. There you go.
There you go. Yeah. He went down the hole and
found that rabbit for sure. Hey, sounds like
he went down that rabbit hole and did what he
was supposed to do. Yeah. That's all to him.
Because I was not expecting, I had the, just
my, but I think that was one of the guys that
helped me see. like even the most you know just
that guy was probably like you know what you'd
consider below average on attraction or whatever
but man just showed me, like, ladies, sometimes
you pass it over a good thing when you get hung
up on them having all the sixes, right? Over
six foot, six figure, six pack, over six inches.
Sometimes you are missing out on some treasure.
So at Splash, when there's like average dudes
are like, oh, I didn't think that you'd even
talk to me because you're so popular. First of
all, I don't even consider myself popular, but
okay. And then they're like... Oh, I didn't know
that you talked to me. And I said, are you kidding?
I am on the prowl for the average dude. So please
come talk to me if that is you. That's my favorite.
Siren, believe me. Just like the women do their,
what am I trying to say? When they check everybody
out, like in the Splash Mocha, I guess it's the
Splash Mocha. What is where everybody's in there
and you can kind of like communicate exactly
in a chat room type thing. They got the guys
do their research too. Okay. So they, I believe
me, they know who siren is. They know, they know
who to fire. I call it the, it's like the high
school basketball players or football players
where you have the, the, the three, four and
five star, you know, all star people. You consider
that, I guess one of the five star recruits.
So you might, sometimes I think you may. Yeah,
sometimes I think you might, you might, you along
with some other ladies might like, might like
intimidate some of the guys. Really. And this
is not a bad thing. And that's what I'm telling
the guys right now. Don't be intimidated. You
know what I mean? Walk up to these ladies and
be the gentleman that you are and introduce yourself
and go from there. Have that confidence and treat
them like, just treat them like a lady. Treat
the ladies like the queens that they are. And
you'll be surprised what the outcome will be.
That's a good song for the whispers, y 'all.
Check it out. Treat her like a lady. That's it.
That's it. That is it. Part of that equation
that we were talking about earlier, right? Yeah.
And wait for us to talk about that episode. And
hopefully when we hear these podcasts too, guys,
you know that my husband's not scary either.
If you just high -five, he'll high -five you
in the hallway on the way out of our room. after
you just got done with me. Yeah, I'm just here
to protect her safety. So, you know, I'm here
to protect her emotionally, spiritually, financially,
you know, physically. You know, if you're not
attacking her, putting her down, doing anything
negative or wrong or neglectful, disrespectful
to her, then have a good time. Shit, you know,
like, I'm here to protect her. You know, so if
you can harboring her in some way, then, yeah,
we don't, you know, like Bernie Mac says, it's
going to be some furniture moving around these
motherfuckers. As it should be. That is your
queen. Yeah, that's my queen. That's your queen.
But besides that. You know what I mean? Yeah.
And I'm definitely not a lightweight as far as
like, you know, if I tell my daddy about you
in a negative way, that means you fucked up because.
I'm 99 % easy to please, happy. So don't be intimidated.
But know I'm going to be honest with you. And
if I'm not interested, I'll just tell you. I'm
not going to lead you on. And don't worry about
your dick size. Don't worry about your personality
and how you work it and, you know, what you're
doing with it. So we're going to get into a few
things. I'm really excited, y 'all. Nerd Alert,
ChatGBT5 came out today, and I'm super excited.
I won't get into what that means, but all of
my nerds know what it means. Hey, can I share,
though? I just looked up how to measure your
penis. So for those of you that are curious on
the proper way to measure your penis, I just
wanted to share the tips. Okay. Oh, just the
tip? They're just measuring the tip? The tip
needs to be... Okay, go ahead. It says, if you
want to measure your penis, the length is measured
from the top to the tip. From the top down to
the tip. The top of your penis is where it meets
your pubic bone. And the tip is the very end
of the glands, a .k .a. the head. To get the
most accurate measurement, compress any fat in
front of your pubic bone. So that's a good tip
for you full -bodied men, you know, that need
to get a little out of the way, you know. Also,
don't include any extra length from your foreskin.
So bad news for you uncircumcised men. You can't
use that as an extra measurement. If you want
to measure girth, measure around the base or
middle of your shaft. So, you know, you can't
be wrapping your balls up in there and like,
you know, thinking that's part of your girth.
Sorry, fellas. So I just thought that was a fun
little factoid. So go ahead. And gentlemen, I
say cheat, cheat, cheat. Measure from the bottom.
and measure your foreskin, everything. And if
she calls you on it, be like, hey, I didn't go
to dick measuring school. I'm just telling you.
You know what? I don't know if I've really, I've
asked a guy how tall he is. I don't know if I've
ever asked a guy. Like, I know we measured yours
together. you know, because we were curious,
but I don't think I've ever asked a guy, how
long is your penis? I don't think I've ever have.
You can just tell. We can just tell. Yeah, but
in reality, though, a lot of women, if you took
a poll, a lot of women, they really do not care.
They don't. You have some that say, yeah, I'm
a size queen, and that's all bullshit. I know.
I've been with women who, yeah, I'm a size queen,
I'm a size queen, and then when I put this thing
on, all five years from first to fifth, they
forgot. They forgot all about that. You know,
we've joked about how guys talk themselves out
the pussy. Well, you talk yourself into the pussy.
That is your skill. I don't know. I saw it for
a second, you know, and then bloop. Right? It's
like talk yourself into it, you know? Yeah. I
have mastered a whole lot of skills in my years
on this. Believe me. So, you know, to play with
me, I'm bringing a whole package. I am truly
bringing a package. All right? We're going to
go to school. We're going to go from kindergarten
to goddamn 12th grade. All right? So... Let's
do it. You know. I'm ready. Oh, boy. Oh, boy.
I looked up some stuff on chat, and I really
want to read this because I was really thinking
about the anatomy of the pussy. and there's a
lot that comes out, but I'm only going to read
a few excerpts. Comes out. I am holding back.
No, this is where you're supposed to not hold
back. He has said like 10 things already where
I was like snickering. No, see, that's where
you got to get it straight because, listen, y
'all, the reason why we have Siren on this podcast,
she has her own, check it out, the Siren of Freedom
podcast. And the reason why we're leaning heavily
into this woman being in this industry is because
she will not fucking shut up about sex. All the
damn time. And I had to cut her out sometimes.
Like, look, when we talk in business, can you
not bring up sex? But I make the construction
workers blush. Yeah, but see, the whole thing
is a time and a place. I want you to go wild
here. not when we're trying to talk about marketing
strategies for our businesses that have nothing
to do with sex. That's all I was saying. Okay,
so a woman's... I'm going to read this. Go ahead,
Unc. No, I was about to say, I know what you're
talking about, nephew, because I got one down
in Jacksonville, North Carolina, that I swear
to God, I thought I was bad, bro. Her and I are
two people. Two peas in a pod. She's just the
red -headed person. You've never got a twin,
but I'm trying to tell you, she cannot. She is.
I don't know what to say about it sometimes.
I'm just like, sweetie, I just want to put you
in a damn box or something and damn close it
up. Like, you can't stop. I mean, she cannot
stop. She can't stop talking about it. Dude,
we can lay in the bed. We are asleep, okay? And
all of a sudden, I hear something over there.
And she's playing with her damn... I'm like,
God damn, sweetie. You know, can't you... In
our sleep? Yes, in her sleep. I do that. I rub
your balls, and then I'm like, sleep. Lord, man.
I'm telling you, brother. I'm telling you, so
I know what you're going through. You poor guys.
Look, I'm playing on here to our listeners because
nobody fucking cares. Even my boys who have none
of my squad have a problem with poonanny, with
sex, with attracting women, with pleasing women.
None of them. They are top notch. Even my boys
is like. Bro, if you don't shut up, we ain't
trying to hear that. We ain't trying to. I'm
like, it's too much, y 'all. Brother, sit down.
So I like this little excerpt here. So Chad GBT
says, a woman's vaginal canal does not shrink
or mold itself permanently to one's particular
penis size, but it does respond dynamically in
the moment to arousal, emotional comfort, and
pelvic floor muscle tone. which makes it feel,
and this is the key word, custom fit to a particular
person. But that's due to muscle control, elasticity,
not anatomical shrinking. So I wanted to hit,
it goes into this really deep explanation, but
I wanted to hit something that's called sensory
feedback loop. So this is the, for all of my
nerds, it's the scientific. An anatomical response
to some of the things we're going to talk to
you about doing and being that is going to get
you to the point where whatever size. Now, if
you call yourself a bull, you know, a micro penis,
we can't help you. Anybody's average or above,
this is for you. They're confused now because
the siren of freedom, you said you had a micropenis
and now you're telling everyone you have a big
dick. So I guess ladies. The ladies are going
to have to find out for themselves. Figure that
out. Just email me and I'll send you a picture.
Send it in three parts so it can still look like
a micropenis. Like this is the first. Third,
right? And then, no, anyway. Back to the sensory
feedback loop stuff. So nerve endings in the
vaginal walls, cervix, and pelvic floor send
feedback to the brain about stretch, pressure,
and movement. With a regular partner, right?
And this is some of you bulls who have regular
play partners, or you have... You know, regular
unicorns that you play or your wife or, you know,
some guys like me are marables, whoever you're
regular with. And I think you can hack this,
too, but we won't get into that one today. With
a regular partner, her brain learns their thrust
rhythm, girth and curvature and unconsciously
adapts muscle engagement to amplify pressure,
pleasurable contact points. Think of it like
I love this part. Think of it like dancing with
someone, you know, well, your bodies remember
each other's timing. So this is what I'm saying.
I love that. This is what I'm saying here. What
I'm telling you, gentlemen, is that if you have
game and what I call game is not being deceitful
or lying. Game is the ability to speak to a woman
in her language from a masculine perspective.
OK, and when you have a. uh sex appeal and that's
not about being the hottest guy in the room sex
appeal is about being able to present yourself
to a woman in a way that makes her feel like
you're sexy and makes her feel like you know
what you're doing in the bedroom and when you
have all the understandings of how to interact
with that woman this is my claim her body will
respond and meet your dick where it's at. I'm
being serious. Her body will respond and meet
your dick where it's at. Now, some of these,
I've seen it on the bigger side, but then I was
really researching it because I've seen women
who are like, oh, I don't, you know, the guy
pulls his dick out and they're like, what you
doing with that? That, you know, that's too big.
This and that. And then most of the women are.
are like, well, I ain't no quitter. Let's see
what we can do, you know? And the body responds,
right? That was like me with the guy at the last
splash. Man. This is on the opposite end of the
spectrum, but along those lines, it's like, this
guy, it's Saturday night. We've been flirting
all week. We finally, our timing works out. And
I said, I'm yelling at him. Mr. Mocha hooked
me up. Mr. Mocha was my wingman on this. And
he he points up at the guys trying to get my
attention. And I yell out my room number. A bunch
of other guys are, you know, pretending to write
it down. I was like, no, no, just him. So we
go to the room and, you know, we do the thing
with kissing, you know, start taking our clothes
off. Well, I turn around because I try to, you
know, be kind of cute and show off my butt. And
I turn around, this man, I would not be surprised
if he told me it was 14 inches. And bigger than
a Coke can around. Much bigger. And I said, what
the fuck? And then the guy's name. And then I
said, it's Saturday night. What? do you think
i'm gonna do with that on a saturday night after
i've been getting fuck senseless all week i opened
the door and i said get the fuck out get the
fuck out and he looks at me all wide -eyed and
then i just laughed you know and shut the door
and then i was just like i don't know what i'm
gonna do what i'm gonna do and i just start circling
the bed and and then i just start being funny
you know i'm like she circles the bread bed eyeing
her prey you know And, you know, and then I got
up. It's like my favorite story from that splash.
I told all my vanilla girlfriends. They laughed
and laughed. And then I got up on the bed, and
we put some lube on that sucker. I mean, this
guy has, like, custom -made condoms from Australia.
They have fucking pole tabs on them. Like, I
said, why don't you just call Hefty up? Send
them some dick pics. They'll make you some condoms.
Hefty really does need to get into the Splashmo
casino and start making some condoms. Anyways,
so I just like lower myself down on it. And then
I'm like taking lots of breathing, you know,
deep breaths. And I finally get like kind of
comfortable. And then all of a sudden something
inside me just got hit just right. And he wasn't
even doing anything yet. And then I just got
this huge surge of adrenaline. And that's what
you're talking about, right? The memo to the
brain. Okay, girl. And I grabbed his shoulders
and I said, are you ready? And he was like, gentlemen,
start your engines type voice. And he just looked
at me just frightened. And then I just jackhammered
the shit out of that dick and squirted all over
him, all over the bed. It was flying everywhere.
And I was amazed at myself on that one. And that
is a prime example of what you're talking about,
how my body and my brain just responded. And
when I looked at that, I was like, there's no
way. There's no way. It works both ways. If the
woman is attracted to you and you know what you're
doing and you approach it the right way, the
body lubricates. It expands because the vaginal
walls are very, very elastic. And it'll say,
you know, it'll say, hold my beer. Let's see
what we can do. Yeah, and it didn't ruin me for
the next guy who was much, much, much, you know,
different. But it starts, though, with him being
able to read, to read you, being able to understand
and recognize what you're looking for, and then
act accordingly. Okay? And like I said, it started
with the communication first. You know what I'm
saying? Yeah, oh, I had no idea. Guys, let me
tell you. I had no idea. I've never guessed that
that was going on because of the way he treated
himself. Yep, there you go. There you go. Gentlemen,
listening right now, listen to what I'm about
to tell you. When you speak to a woman or a couple,
you're not exchanging words, you're exchanging
power. Okay? I'm going to say it again. When
you speak to a woman or a couple, you're not
exchanging words. You're exchanging power. And
the energy is red within the first five seconds
of you starting that conversation. I'm going
to say that again. Energy is red within the first
five seconds you're starting that conversation.
Okay? Because she can feel if you're nervous,
she's going to see it. If you're anxious, she's
going to feel it. If you're trying to impress,
she's going to know it. All right? Period. Facts.
Right there. That is facts. So, I mean. Yeah,
Socrates' jaw just dropped open when you said
that. Yeah, I wrote that shit down. I wrote that
shit down. It's going in my bull. journal right
now. I'll send it to you. I'll be able to remember
it. I didn't write it down, but I'll be able
to remember it and I'll send it to you. But that
is facts what I just spoke right there. That
is facts. Yeah. So we're coming up on time. Let's
go over a few things that we can specifically
talk about that will get you there. I had kind
of went over these things with Unk and we had
talked a lot about it and I sent it to him. So
I just want to go over a few of those excerpts
on, you know, what we came up with. And this
is what we're talking about, that package being
the complete package. Right. And taking advantage
of the bull value matrix, which is one skill
based traits. Right. So we've talked a lot about
these before. I'm just going to go down the line.
There are nine basic things we're talking about
here. One, physical appearance. Right. We've
talked about that. Your looks, your hygiene,
your fitness, how you present yourself. That
matters. This is all before you pull your dick
out. Right. Emotional presence. Right. Attuned,
not needy. Right. So you are being you're you're
watching her body language. Right. You're watching
how she talks to you, how she responds. A lot
of guys I've seen, not just a splash mocha, but
all kind of events. We've gone to clubs. We go
to local events. We go to house parties. We throw
parties. And I watch the way men interact, especially
at my parties. I like to watch the way men approach
women, talk to them, get them interested. And
a lot of it is about eye contact, being focused,
making her feel like she's the only one in the
room. Right? Read the room. Reading the room.
Read the room first. I don't mean to cut you
off, but read the room first. Read it first.
And then act on what you see. I love that. Yep.
Third thing, romantic energy. Right now, in the
lifestyle, if you're a bull and you might be
saying, I ain't trying to do no romantic stuff.
This ain't poly. Well, you know, again, our poly
people, you know, these will help you. What we
mean by that is sensuality and intimacy. See,
even for those pounded out guys, there's time
and a place for be sensual, to take your time,
to create ambiance. Like, you know, I know a
lot of guys, a lot of single men, who they almost
give a massage every single time they play. Set
the mood, you know, candles. They're making it
clear to these women, look, I ain't marrying
you at the end of this. Now I'm sending you back
to your husband or back home to your kids or
whatever you're doing. But you won't forget me.
But you won't forget me. Right. Number four,
humor and wit. This is where I struggle, and
I've gotten a lot better. But listen, again,
I listen to a lot of red pill content. which
is just kind of the more Andrew Tate's. I don't
agree on a lot of it, but I listen to a lot of
that stuff because they have a lot of advice
on how to approach women. On our podcast, one
of the books we talk about is The Way of the
Superior Man. And he talks about being able to
banter, have charm, and have timing. That's what
humor is about. And every single dating coach,
woman's coach... You know pick up artist man
is fear Feminine it doesn't matter who they are.
They'll tell you a man that can make a woman
laugh is gonna get him them draws period point
-blank Right, that's how Homer Foote got me right
Oral mastery right Enthusiasm and technique right
um me I like to start off Eating pussy. It's
a turn -on for me. It definitely gets the woman
in the mood. It's teasing. It's getting those
vaginal walls to loosen up, to lubricate, to
get going, right? And I think there was a recent
study that showed that almost 70 % of women,
and I think this is a terrible number. I think
it's not where it should be. I think it's because
there is an epidemic of men not knowing what
to do with women anymore. 70 % of women prefer
orgasms through the clitoris or clitoral orgasms
because I just think men don't know what they're
doing with the dicks. But use your mouth game,
brothers. Six, consideration and aftercare, right?
Now, you might be saying, well, that's after
the fact, right? But if she's thinking about
you and you got an average dick. And now you've
approached her correctly. You've spoken to her
correctly. You've used the right amount of intimacy,
humor. You've used the right amount of foreplay
all the way up to oral. And you've done the deed.
You've done what you needed to do. You've delivered.
And after that, you were considerate of her time
or what her mental state was. And you took care
of her work. I'm telling you, she's going to
want to come back for more. Do you know what
aftercare is for me after we've had some great
sex and I know that she's come, you know, multiple
times and stuff. And I, hell, regardless if I
have come or not, but the fact that I might still
be laying there with her, I may be inside of
her or not, but I'm caressing her. I'm holding
her. I'm kissing her. I'm looking at her. We're
still having conversation, you know. Like I said,
I might still be inside of her, laying on top
of her, but we're still looking at each other,
talking, kissing, caressing. It's like having
a great workout, and then you get your cool -down
period for about 10 minutes before the workout
is over. So that's how I see it. Nice. That will
make her definitely want to, once you give her
back to the husband, and, well, he reclaims her,
what's my saying? I might not be on your bones,
but I'm on your mind. So that's how you do that
to me. That's the aftercare. That's what I do.
Right. And I think that's important because unless
you've planned a quickie experience, like I know
at the last splash. you know, Socrates and I
have a certain process in the evenings. Well,
he really wanted to play with this lady. And
I said, all right, you got 30 minutes. And they
ran up and did the thing, ran back down. And
so unless you have something planned like that,
you know, where you're like, hey, we're just
going to have a quick experience. I think that,
you know, no woman likes you to just hop off
of her and throw your clothes on and run out
the door. even at splash you know that's it's
nice yeah and like you know and just talk about
whatever just kind of ease out like you said
that cool down period um and that's you know
what in the long run helps me become friends
with guys that i've played with is the conversation
surrounding it so it's a little it's a little
joke that most of the guys i've played with more
than once know that i say i gotta fuck you three
times before I can see if I'm going to be your
friend. But all of that is part of it is just
seeing if I enjoy that whole process with you
because that's what will build a friendship for
later is not just that time but taking the time
to do all those steps. So I appreciate that.
I love it. I love it. So we're going to move
on to some of the things that our vanilla listeners
out there can benefit from. So if you're working
on a permanent relationship or long -term, Some
of the other considerations. And this one I think
is really interesting because I heard somebody
say, you know, I also follow a lot of, you know,
self -help guys or people that help you try to
make your money and step up your financial game
or your business game. And this one guy said,
you know, when you're wealthy, you don't have
to try as hard. I mean, look, I don't condone.
Go -diggers or people who build relationships
only are transactional. I don't put you down.
I got no disrespect to any of those. I truly
believe in being principle -centered and having
vision and purpose and being in love, having
life goals that are not just compatible about
your music or your food taste, but your values
and your decision -making. When it comes to financial
stability and in financial and environmental
stability it affects a woman there's a thing
called hypergamy and Those who listen to the
manosphere know that we're very well and high
permanent for hypergamy is what's called an evolutionary
Psychologist term it means that women marry or
have in serious relationships her Equal like
people on their same equal level or above Right.
Even to this day with independent women to make
more money, they're still looking for men who
at least match their energy financially or make
more than them. That's just a fact. Now, that's
a fact for the population level. That's not every
single woman. Right. When I don't mind saying,
you know, my wife doesn't like telling a lot
of people, but I was broke as schmuck when she
met me. Because it doesn't matter to me, but
I appreciate you. And. She knew I had hustle.
She knew I had my own place. I had my own cars.
I paid my own bills. But I didn't have a lot
of extra money. But she saw my earning potential,
right? As a pre -gold digger. As a pre -gold
digger, right? I had my own gold, but I was like,
this guy can get some gold too. I see it. So
financial or environmental stability is very
important. It says to a woman, I don't have to
worry about bills all the time. If a woman's
going to bed, worrying about bills or worrying
about your end of it, that affects her emotional
state of being, which is going to affect her
vaginal state of being. Yeah, for real. Right.
Sensitivity without weakness. Right. Be be sensitive.
I like it like it's like for my Star Trek people
out there. You have sensors, right? You have
things that are reading the next ship. And how
well you attune those sensors tells you all the
details you're going to know, the more details
you're going to know about that ship. Are there
weapons powering up? Is there shield powering
up? Oh, shoot, these guys are about to attack.
Are there weapons down? Are there shields not
powered up? Or is there hyperdrive powered up?
Oh, these guys about to run. Right. Being sensitive
doesn't mean being emotionally weak. It means
attuned to her needs. Right. And then the last
one is orgasm giving potential. Right. Do you
have the ability? And I'm going to put this out
there. And I know some of my brothers in the
squad and the brotherhood disagree with me on
this. But this is my position. Always put a woman's
needs first. especially in the lifestyle. And
here's why. Let me tell you what it doesn't mean
first. It doesn't mean put your needs last. Your
needs should come second. But it doesn't mean
that she can disrespect you if meeting her needs
means that. It doesn't mean she can neglect your
desires and fantasies if meeting her needs means
that. It doesn't mean she has the right to be
neglectful or not consider you and who you are.
It doesn't make you lesser of a person. But what
it does do... Is it says, you know what? I'm
here to please you. And the way women operate
is that response when they can feel that you
are well put together, that all of your basic
fundamental needs are met. You don't need her.
You're not. You want her. You want her in her
life. You don't need her sexually because you
have the ability to get sex however way you want.
Or, you know, eventually get the kind of women
you want. When you walk in there and you're not
needy and you put her first, her desires first,
her pleasure first, right? Knowing, especially
me, I practice seed retention and I'm not going
to, I don't, I don't really like having orgasms
or coming with other women besides my wife. You
know, if you can get it, you can get it. But
I do that because I want to put her needs first.
And what I've experienced is that women go crazy
because once they know. He's going to make sure
that I'm well taken care of by the way he talks
to me, by his foreplay, by how he takes care
of me during the play period or for vanilla friends,
you know, while you're having sex or making love
to your wife or whoever you're with. And like
Mr. Morgan said, you know, that aftercare, the
taking the time, the, you know, cool down period.
When you have that process down. they explode
and they want to make you feel good. It's the
same principle as, you know, the old saying,
you give a woman a house and she gives you a
home, right? When you make sure that she has
a place that she feels comfortable, well taken
care of, protected, then she is ready to just
give you whatever the fuck you want. And what
I learned about in this lifestyle is women are
freakier than men. Period, point blank, end of
story, read you a damn sex novel. Let me say
this, though, nephew. Let me say this, nephew,
and to all the bulls out there listening, I agree
with you. I do agree with you. But at the same
time, though, bulls and nephew, we're not seeking
approval. Right, right, right, right, right.
We're not seeking approval because he who seeks
the approval, you lose her respect. I'm going
to say that again. He who seeks the approval
will lose her respect. But when you're out here,
when you are commanding mastery and speaking
with mastery, then you're doing what? You're
getting what from her. You're commanding her
desire. She desires you more and more. Okay,
so if you're seeking approval, you're going to
lose respect. But if you're speaking and you're
dominating with mastery. You got to command her
desire. Period. I'm done. That was the mic drop
right there. When he's going to leave, I was
like, what else am I going to say? Cue the music.
Cue the music. So, yeah, I mean, to close this
out, like, one of the reasons why I was so excited
about doing podcasts and I've been excited about
podcasting is because I fumbled through this.
lifestyle you know i started when podcasts first
started coming out eight nine years ago i started
when people first started talking about this
openly and even then people were losing their
jobs and you know getting canceled and all that
kind of stuff but i approach everything with
a mastery mindset i'm going to study and research
that's why i'm the perpetual student i'm going
to uh and i'm going to have a set time where
i'm going to study so i don't um You know, as
they say, when you when you play in dominoes,
study long, study wrong. Right. Like, but I'm
going to research. I'm going to ask questions.
I'm going to look into certain things. I'm going
to talk to people and then I'm going to try and
then I'm going to try. I'm going to go for trial
and error because I've started off with some
of the fundamentals. And that's what we're trying
to give you guys. Right. And even for the ladies
and the vanilla people, we want everybody. Their
sex life to improve we want everybody to have
better sex lives a better interpersonal relationships
and these are some of the skills that You know
the Sigma male has been perfecting for over 30
years Right and there's small cultural differences
in Europe But women are women and he's also came
here and I've seen him work his magic on American
women women are women You know so I just want
to encourage you guys to hit us up, man. We're
on Instagram. We're on Telegram. We're on, you
know, we will be on TikTok and other things.
Talk to us. But we want to be your, you know,
go -to people where you want to find wisdom and
skill sets and direction. That's what we're trying
to do here. So hopefully this, you know, was
of value to you guys. And, you know, you guys
can. Utilize this, and women and other couples
can look for these things in other bulls and
single men and manicorns and things of that nature
and know what you're looking for. So, Unc, did
you want to close it out with anything else?
Brother, I have nothing else to say. You and
Siren have done an absolutely wonderful job tonight.
And I'd just like to tell the listeners out there,
this is all facts. This was coming from the perpetual
student, Socrates, and, of course, his lovely
wife, the beautiful Siren. And this is the Sigma
male himself, Brian Morgan, telling you guys,
until next time, we wish you a good night. And
as usual, to all my brothers of the brotherhood
out there, I wish you guys a good night. And
to all my sexy hot wives and unicorns as well,
good morning. Until we meet again, y 'all, and
speak again. Keep it sexy. Sigma out.