WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.240 The second one is physical. Uncovered a lot of 00:00:03.240 --> 00:00:06.379 it, you know. Get your breath right. Do your 00:00:06.379 --> 00:00:10.099 hair. Have a style of dress. Iron your clothes, 00:00:10.259 --> 00:00:12.859 right? Wash your ass. All that kind of stuff, 00:00:12.919 --> 00:00:17.699 right? But what I want to talk about... Wash 00:00:17.699 --> 00:00:20.760 your ass and your balls. And your balls. And 00:00:20.760 --> 00:00:24.399 your balls, for the love of God. Please. This 00:00:24.399 --> 00:00:28.440 podcast contains explicit adult content. Mature 00:00:28.440 --> 00:00:32.759 themes and candid conversations about sex, dominance, 00:00:33.140 --> 00:00:37.340 power exchange, and ethical non -monogamy. It 00:00:37.340 --> 00:00:41.640 is intended for audiences 18 and over only. Listener 00:00:41.640 --> 00:00:45.640 discretion is advised. 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Ladies 00:02:20.259 --> 00:02:22.000 and gentlemen, good evening and welcome to another 00:02:22.000 --> 00:02:24.620 informative episode of the Girl Brotherhood Podcast. 00:02:25.280 --> 00:02:27.819 I'm the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, along 00:02:27.819 --> 00:02:31.680 with the family, the lovely Siren. Say hello. 00:02:32.800 --> 00:02:38.180 Hello, everyone. And of course, my nephew himself 00:02:38.180 --> 00:02:41.740 and my brother from another mother, the informative 00:02:41.740 --> 00:02:44.699 Socrates, the perpetual student. What's up, brother? 00:02:44.900 --> 00:02:47.340 What's good? What's good? We ready to learn today. 00:02:47.439 --> 00:02:53.939 We're going to learn you today. Absolutely. Audience, 00:02:54.300 --> 00:02:57.039 ladies and gentlemen, we have a real doozy tonight 00:02:57.039 --> 00:03:00.960 because you often hear me use the word quality 00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:05.620 in a lot of my references when I'm talking about 00:03:05.620 --> 00:03:09.300 a particular bull. I think everyone who's in 00:03:09.300 --> 00:03:13.719 this lifestyle, whether new or mid -card or you're 00:03:13.719 --> 00:03:16.319 a seasoned veteran, as far as couples are concerned, 00:03:16.479 --> 00:03:20.099 you know about. the BBC bull. You know, you meet 00:03:20.099 --> 00:03:23.080 those guys when you go to different events. They 00:03:23.080 --> 00:03:26.259 are your one and done. They're strictly there 00:03:26.259 --> 00:03:29.419 to just provide the sexual pleasure, you know, 00:03:29.439 --> 00:03:33.719 i .e. the dick, and maybe that's it. You know 00:03:33.719 --> 00:03:37.960 about the dominant bull. The bull that comes 00:03:37.960 --> 00:03:40.639 in there, he takes the lead in the relationship, 00:03:40.900 --> 00:03:44.960 you know, and the hot wife really, she becomes 00:03:44.960 --> 00:03:48.400 submissive to his needs. You heard me talk about 00:03:48.400 --> 00:03:51.919 the alpha bull, okay? That bull is a little bit 00:03:51.919 --> 00:03:55.719 different. He provides more of, say, the boyfriend 00:03:55.719 --> 00:03:59.900 experience. But when I say what is a quality 00:03:59.900 --> 00:04:04.060 bull, that word quality means this individual, 00:04:04.280 --> 00:04:09.379 this bull brings everything to the table. He 00:04:09.379 --> 00:04:11.800 brings everything. He brings the physical. He 00:04:11.800 --> 00:04:15.909 brings the emotional. He brings... He just brings 00:04:15.909 --> 00:04:20.310 that it, that aura to the table. And he makes 00:04:20.310 --> 00:04:23.769 a couple just go home and be like, well, I just 00:04:23.769 --> 00:04:26.110 can't do without this guy. So we're going to 00:04:26.110 --> 00:04:29.610 discuss that tonight. This podcast is aimed more 00:04:29.610 --> 00:04:34.129 for my new bulls out there who are just coming 00:04:34.129 --> 00:04:36.629 into this life, as well as what I call my mid 00:04:36.629 --> 00:04:39.410 -carters. You're not a newbie, but you're not 00:04:39.410 --> 00:04:41.269 necessarily, you haven't been around the block 00:04:41.269 --> 00:04:44.769 a lot also. So here again. I'm going to start 00:04:44.769 --> 00:04:47.670 it off with asking my perpetual student, Socrates, 00:04:47.930 --> 00:04:50.569 to give me his definition of what that word quality 00:04:50.569 --> 00:04:53.689 means before we bring him into the bull lifestyle. 00:04:54.389 --> 00:04:58.389 Yes, sir. Yes, sir. So I think of several things. 00:04:58.470 --> 00:05:00.490 I'm just going to use a pattern that I always 00:05:00.490 --> 00:05:02.629 use, which is I always start from the spiritual 00:05:02.629 --> 00:05:05.970 or the ethereal down to the mental, then the 00:05:05.970 --> 00:05:08.879 emotional, then the physical. I don't want to 00:05:08.879 --> 00:05:10.740 get too religious with the spiritual. It's more 00:05:10.740 --> 00:05:13.980 about a state of being, who you are as an individual, 00:05:14.100 --> 00:05:19.199 and who you should be as a leader. A bull is 00:05:19.199 --> 00:05:25.639 there to lead the hot wife and husband or cuckold 00:05:25.639 --> 00:05:30.060 and cuckoldress through a journey, right? It 00:05:30.060 --> 00:05:34.399 could be a scene. It could be, you know, a date, 00:05:34.600 --> 00:05:39.250 a scene in the bedroom. on a scene out, you know, 00:05:39.269 --> 00:05:43.149 walking, it's about leadership. And that requires 00:05:43.149 --> 00:05:47.550 a vision. And it doesn't have to be like, you 00:05:47.550 --> 00:05:49.870 know, it doesn't have to be this grandiose vision. 00:05:50.449 --> 00:05:52.709 You know, it could be like, how do you want the 00:05:52.709 --> 00:05:56.009 night to go? Like, how do you want this relationship 00:05:56.009 --> 00:06:00.529 to go? You know? So it's like, what can you do 00:06:00.529 --> 00:06:02.769 to lead them through this journey? So that's 00:06:02.769 --> 00:06:05.550 who I think you should be. Outstanding. Sounds 00:06:05.550 --> 00:06:10.699 great to me. Here again, the qualities of a bull, 00:06:10.920 --> 00:06:14.399 of an ideal bull. One of the qualities that I 00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:17.279 think about is, and here again, I'm talking about 00:06:17.279 --> 00:06:19.279 myself first and foremost, because I've been 00:06:19.279 --> 00:06:22.019 in this for a very, very long time. I think about 00:06:22.019 --> 00:06:25.620 the word discretion. I'm very, very discreet, 00:06:25.680 --> 00:06:28.819 very, very discreet. I am very, very mindful 00:06:28.819 --> 00:06:33.699 of what a couple wants, what their desires are. 00:06:34.089 --> 00:06:36.610 but I'm also very, very mindful of their personal 00:06:36.610 --> 00:06:41.290 life. And also when I think about the word quality, 00:06:41.529 --> 00:06:45.370 I refer to myself as like always, I'm always 00:06:45.370 --> 00:06:48.370 on time when I meet a couple, whether it's a 00:06:48.370 --> 00:06:52.610 first meet or if it's a, you know, veteran meet. 00:06:53.069 --> 00:06:57.250 Always on time. I'm always there to do, first 00:06:57.250 --> 00:07:01.069 and foremost, my job. And that's in quotes, J 00:07:01.069 --> 00:07:05.319 -O -B meaning. i'm there to provide an experience 00:07:05.319 --> 00:07:08.220 whether it's a boyfriend experience or whether 00:07:08.220 --> 00:07:12.639 it is just a sexual experience or it's both i'm 00:07:12.639 --> 00:07:17.639 there to do my job also i have i will always 00:07:17.639 --> 00:07:21.899 remember to never interfere or like get involved 00:07:21.899 --> 00:07:25.980 in your personal life i always remember hey these 00:07:25.980 --> 00:07:30.360 guys have jobs they have families so you you 00:07:30.360 --> 00:07:33.329 know discretion is is a must. So that's one of 00:07:33.329 --> 00:07:35.490 the first things that I think about when I think 00:07:35.490 --> 00:07:40.089 of a quality bull. Socrates, what is a, what 00:07:40.089 --> 00:07:43.810 is a trait that you think about? So, yeah, getting 00:07:43.810 --> 00:07:49.269 back to the mental part of it, I think of one 00:07:49.269 --> 00:07:53.810 word framework. Now, if you're familiar in the 00:07:53.810 --> 00:07:56.170 red pill community, talk about frame a lot. And 00:07:56.170 --> 00:08:01.339 what frame simply means is like, What do you 00:08:01.339 --> 00:08:05.800 bring as your entire life that that couple is 00:08:05.800 --> 00:08:09.819 stepping into? In other words, you have values. 00:08:10.040 --> 00:08:13.680 You have a standard. You have things you do and 00:08:13.680 --> 00:08:16.680 you don't do. You have a way you do it and a 00:08:16.680 --> 00:08:20.220 way you don't do it. If that's down, now you 00:08:20.220 --> 00:08:22.339 might be a nerd like me and have it written down 00:08:22.339 --> 00:08:25.160 and down to a science and steps and what you 00:08:25.160 --> 00:08:27.620 need to do. Or you might just come naturally 00:08:27.620 --> 00:08:30.680 like, You know, where it's like you've developed 00:08:30.680 --> 00:08:34.379 it over time. Right. But I think when you're 00:08:34.379 --> 00:08:38.120 thinking right, who you're being or spirit should 00:08:38.120 --> 00:08:41.200 be one of leadership. But the thought process 00:08:41.200 --> 00:08:43.899 should always be a framework of what they are 00:08:43.899 --> 00:08:47.899 coming into. Does that make sense? Absolutely. 00:08:49.080 --> 00:08:52.039 I think I've said it before that, you know, you 00:08:52.039 --> 00:08:56.940 you're coming into an already existing loving 00:08:56.940 --> 00:09:01.820 relationship. So, yeah, you are bringing something 00:09:01.820 --> 00:09:04.279 to the table because they're looking for you 00:09:04.279 --> 00:09:07.840 to eventually take charge. Maybe not at first 00:09:07.840 --> 00:09:10.639 when you first meet somebody, but they are looking 00:09:10.639 --> 00:09:12.840 to see, okay, what does he bring to the table 00:09:12.840 --> 00:09:16.639 that is going to make us just go gaga, in other 00:09:16.639 --> 00:09:20.059 words. So I definitely understand what you're 00:09:20.059 --> 00:09:24.700 talking about. One of the things that I do that 00:09:24.700 --> 00:09:29.399 I think a lot of bulls – don't do at first. I 00:09:29.399 --> 00:09:33.539 think bulls do a lot of listening to what the 00:09:33.539 --> 00:09:38.240 couple wants and what the couple desires and 00:09:38.240 --> 00:09:41.259 needs, but I don't think they ask a lot of questions. 00:09:42.080 --> 00:09:43.840 I don't think they ask a lot of questions. I'm 00:09:43.840 --> 00:09:48.740 getting like you now, student, when I say asking 00:09:48.740 --> 00:09:53.399 questions, and I ask questions to determine the 00:09:53.399 --> 00:09:56.700 couple's expectations. And not only the couple's 00:09:56.700 --> 00:09:59.700 expectations, but to determine my expectations 00:09:59.700 --> 00:10:02.539 also. Because here again, I am bringing something 00:10:02.539 --> 00:10:06.299 to the table. And really what a bull is bringing 00:10:06.299 --> 00:10:10.080 to the table is something that is, I'm going 00:10:10.080 --> 00:10:12.980 to say the word superior to what they're already 00:10:12.980 --> 00:10:15.679 used to, but not in a bad way. You understand 00:10:15.679 --> 00:10:18.320 what I'm saying? I'm bringing something that 00:10:18.320 --> 00:10:23.850 is above what they already know. And that is 00:10:23.850 --> 00:10:25.470 why, you know, I have to ask a lot of questions. 00:10:25.570 --> 00:10:28.970 I have to find out what the do's, the don'ts 00:10:28.970 --> 00:10:33.009 are from them. And they need to know what I am 00:10:33.009 --> 00:10:36.169 comfortable with, what I am not comfortable with. 00:10:36.389 --> 00:10:38.629 But at the same time, they need to know that 00:10:38.629 --> 00:10:41.269 I'm also open -minded. I'm open to all of the 00:10:41.269 --> 00:10:45.850 possibilities. So, yeah, I mean, what do you 00:10:45.850 --> 00:10:47.330 think about that as far as like the questions? 00:10:48.450 --> 00:10:51.710 Oh, I love it. And you know me, I mean. I'm always 00:10:51.710 --> 00:10:53.730 asking questions. I used to get in trouble for 00:10:53.730 --> 00:11:00.990 asking. Yeah. And that's, that's part of that 00:11:00.990 --> 00:11:03.529 framework I was talking about. Like that's me 00:11:03.529 --> 00:11:06.870 and me and your framework when we, and you know, 00:11:06.870 --> 00:11:09.330 the people that we know that we admire, you know, 00:11:09.350 --> 00:11:12.450 Michael C, uh, pagan, those cats, people that 00:11:12.450 --> 00:11:15.350 we know that are quality bull. I haven't met 00:11:15.350 --> 00:11:17.450 one that doesn't start off with a million questions. 00:11:18.850 --> 00:11:22.899 Right. Exactly. Yeah. So it's like when you start 00:11:22.899 --> 00:11:27.039 off and you add asking a lot of questions to 00:11:27.039 --> 00:11:30.419 your framework, what that does is it tells them 00:11:30.419 --> 00:11:33.679 this person is genuinely interested in me and 00:11:33.679 --> 00:11:37.299 he's genuinely going to try to tailor an experience 00:11:37.299 --> 00:11:40.639 based on our needs. And that allows the woman 00:11:40.639 --> 00:11:44.460 to shut her mind off, you know, because what 00:11:44.460 --> 00:11:49.179 you want is the woman, the hot wife or the cuckoldress. 00:11:49.789 --> 00:11:52.210 the unicorn, whatever you're, whatever you're 00:11:52.210 --> 00:11:55.029 interacting with to shut her mind off and reboot. 00:11:56.750 --> 00:12:00.590 And, um, and, and when you have that as your 00:12:00.590 --> 00:12:03.750 framework, then that really, and then what happens 00:12:03.750 --> 00:12:06.289 is, is they're way more open to your leadership, 00:12:06.409 --> 00:12:10.909 right? There you go. And what, and, and you, 00:12:11.110 --> 00:12:14.870 you saying that that brings me up to, to another 00:12:14.870 --> 00:12:20.519 quality. Um, I don't go into anything like seeking 00:12:20.519 --> 00:12:23.960 romance, you know, from the couple, you know, 00:12:24.000 --> 00:12:27.980 from the hot wife. But, but, and this is a big 00:12:27.980 --> 00:12:32.220 but in capital letters, if emotions do get involved, 00:12:32.600 --> 00:12:37.940 I never ever try to compete or replace the husband. 00:12:38.600 --> 00:12:41.480 I think that is something that has made me very, 00:12:41.539 --> 00:12:43.639 very successful over the years. It definitely 00:12:43.639 --> 00:12:45.750 made me successful with... you know my couple 00:12:45.750 --> 00:12:49.830 now um philip and lindsey he knows that although 00:12:49.830 --> 00:12:52.990 i am you know crazy about lindsey and we are 00:12:52.990 --> 00:12:55.909 very very close he knows that i'm never ever 00:12:55.909 --> 00:12:58.529 trying to replace him in any way shape or form 00:12:58.529 --> 00:13:01.690 uh he is always hubby i will always you know 00:13:01.690 --> 00:13:06.070 go through him for certain things and that works 00:13:06.070 --> 00:13:08.970 that works every time so what you were saying 00:13:08.970 --> 00:13:11.789 that just kind of blending in with that you know 00:13:12.610 --> 00:13:17.850 seeking the romance and how the meat can evolve 00:13:17.850 --> 00:13:21.389 over time and it can turn into something that 00:13:21.389 --> 00:13:24.909 might be a little bit heavier than what you thought 00:13:24.909 --> 00:13:27.509 you were getting into. Right, right. Another 00:13:27.509 --> 00:13:30.409 thing, I think that quality bull has to learn 00:13:30.409 --> 00:13:33.590 or know everything there is to know about the 00:13:33.590 --> 00:13:36.950 lifestyle. I'm not saying you got to be a perfectionist, 00:13:37.029 --> 00:13:41.649 but you have to know a lot about this world that 00:13:41.649 --> 00:13:45.190 we live in. And you got to know a lot about yourself. 00:13:46.009 --> 00:13:49.809 You need to know exactly what you bring to the 00:13:49.809 --> 00:13:52.710 table that is good. You need to know exactly 00:13:52.710 --> 00:13:56.330 what you're not good at, but can possibly get 00:13:56.330 --> 00:13:58.970 better at. And then you need to know what, you 00:13:58.970 --> 00:14:03.009 know, hey, I'm not really good at this. And be 00:14:03.009 --> 00:14:04.789 able to say, you know, look, people, I've never 00:14:04.789 --> 00:14:06.990 experienced something like this before. But here 00:14:06.990 --> 00:14:10.210 again, I'm willing to branch out and try, you 00:14:10.210 --> 00:14:14.009 know, and be open -minded. Your thoughts? You 00:14:14.009 --> 00:14:17.830 know what? I love it because that happened to 00:14:17.830 --> 00:14:22.389 me at Utopia. Shout out to my boy Michael C and 00:14:22.389 --> 00:14:27.909 his Utopia team when we went there and we were 00:14:27.909 --> 00:14:31.029 kind of part of the staff. And when I did have 00:14:31.029 --> 00:14:34.690 a little bit of time to play, which is something 00:14:34.690 --> 00:14:36.429 I won't be doing in the future, thanks to my 00:14:36.429 --> 00:14:40.230 uncle. But I did say that. I said, hey, this 00:14:40.230 --> 00:14:44.389 is... a new experience for me, and, you know, 00:14:44.389 --> 00:14:46.429 whatever the situation was. And they were very 00:14:46.429 --> 00:14:50.970 open. And what I'm surprised at, Unc, is that 00:14:50.970 --> 00:14:55.710 you would think as a new bull that saying that 00:14:55.710 --> 00:15:00.950 would diminish your position as a leader. And 00:15:00.950 --> 00:15:04.129 surprisingly, it didn't. It actually gave me 00:15:04.129 --> 00:15:07.090 a lot more authority. And I want you to speak 00:15:07.090 --> 00:15:09.169 on that before I kind of keep going on what I 00:15:09.169 --> 00:15:12.740 think a quality bull is. Why doesn't it diminish 00:15:12.740 --> 00:15:15.179 your position as a leader when you're telling 00:15:15.179 --> 00:15:17.500 them, hey, this is a new experience, but I'm 00:15:17.500 --> 00:15:20.220 willing to learn and let's rock and keep going? 00:15:22.840 --> 00:15:24.620 Because you're letting them, you're letting, 00:15:24.740 --> 00:15:26.659 in my opinion, you're letting that couple know 00:15:26.659 --> 00:15:29.179 that, hey, although I've been in this game for 00:15:29.179 --> 00:15:33.039 quite some time, you know, I don't, I'm not afraid 00:15:33.039 --> 00:15:36.299 to say that I don't know everything. And that 00:15:36.299 --> 00:15:38.639 lets a couple know that, hey, this guy's real. 00:15:39.370 --> 00:15:42.169 He's very, very real. He's not trying to be somebody 00:15:42.169 --> 00:15:45.309 that he's not. He's letting me know that, hey, 00:15:45.389 --> 00:15:48.629 I don't know everything, but here again, I am 00:15:48.629 --> 00:15:54.169 willing to learn and try and be open -minded 00:15:54.169 --> 00:15:59.789 and become the absolute best bull, confidant, 00:15:59.889 --> 00:16:03.470 whatever you want to be to that couple. Because 00:16:03.470 --> 00:16:07.389 like I said, the majority of the couples in this 00:16:07.389 --> 00:16:09.740 lifestyle now, They're not looking just for that 00:16:09.740 --> 00:16:12.120 BBC bull. They might be looking for that when 00:16:12.120 --> 00:16:16.860 they go to different events, i .e. Splash. But 00:16:16.860 --> 00:16:19.980 the majority of couples now, they're looking 00:16:19.980 --> 00:16:23.340 for, here again, the boyfriend experience. They 00:16:23.340 --> 00:16:26.539 want somebody they can call their guy, their 00:16:26.539 --> 00:16:29.840 bull. So, you know, if I came into a situation 00:16:29.840 --> 00:16:32.159 just saying that, okay, yeah, I've done this, 00:16:32.200 --> 00:16:34.559 I've done that, I know everything, absolutely 00:16:34.559 --> 00:16:37.879 everything. Guess what? I am to that. couple 00:16:37.879 --> 00:16:42.620 probably i'm i'm i'm boring i'm boring because 00:16:42.620 --> 00:16:45.059 they're like okay well maybe we don't measure 00:16:45.059 --> 00:16:47.500 up to this guy you know he's done every damn 00:16:47.500 --> 00:16:50.799 thing um that's kind of a turnoff but if you 00:16:50.799 --> 00:16:53.039 come in there though like i said you are a seasoned 00:16:53.039 --> 00:16:55.100 vet but at the same time there might be a few 00:16:55.100 --> 00:16:57.980 things that you have not done but you do want 00:16:57.980 --> 00:17:02.019 to experience it with the right couple so that's 00:17:02.019 --> 00:17:05.680 how i feel about that i love it love it I tell 00:17:05.680 --> 00:17:08.839 you what, we've gone over a few things so far. 00:17:08.940 --> 00:17:11.299 I would love to hear from the lovely Siren, your 00:17:11.299 --> 00:17:14.339 better half. Are you there, baby girl? I am. 00:17:14.519 --> 00:17:16.480 Give us your thoughts on what we've talked about 00:17:16.480 --> 00:17:19.160 so far, please. Give the audience some feedback. 00:17:19.420 --> 00:17:24.000 First, I want the audience to get out a pen and 00:17:24.000 --> 00:17:28.799 a piece of paper. And I want you to write out 00:17:28.799 --> 00:17:31.940 the letters of the word quality. And I'm going 00:17:31.940 --> 00:17:34.750 to go over each letter. and give you something 00:17:34.750 --> 00:17:40.390 for each letter. And so what I have for Q is 00:17:40.390 --> 00:17:44.250 quiet confidence. A quality bull lets the results 00:17:44.250 --> 00:17:47.589 speak louder than his mouth. There's so many 00:17:47.589 --> 00:17:49.809 guys out there that run their mouth about what 00:17:49.809 --> 00:17:52.609 they're going to do to you and how great it's 00:17:52.609 --> 00:17:56.650 going to be. But a quality bull will bring in 00:17:56.650 --> 00:17:59.349 that quiet confidence and just show you what 00:17:59.349 --> 00:18:03.849 it's all about. For the letter U, we have unshakable 00:18:03.849 --> 00:18:09.069 standards. No shortcuts, no sloppiness. And that's 00:18:09.069 --> 00:18:12.130 what being part of the Bull Brotherhood is all 00:18:12.130 --> 00:18:17.450 about, is the standards, the ethics for, you 00:18:17.450 --> 00:18:19.910 know, from everything from you guys, from the 00:18:19.910 --> 00:18:24.109 communication to the quality of play that you 00:18:24.109 --> 00:18:31.580 bring, you know, to the ethical standards. A, 00:18:31.580 --> 00:18:37.839 assertive presence. You own every room, every 00:18:37.839 --> 00:18:45.279 play situation, every moment. You, even like 00:18:45.279 --> 00:18:47.920 Socrates was talking about, like even if you 00:18:47.920 --> 00:18:49.640 have something where you have to communicate 00:18:49.640 --> 00:18:52.839 that an experience is new for you, you're still 00:18:52.839 --> 00:18:57.380 assertive with that. You're unapologetic and 00:18:57.380 --> 00:19:00.930 you just bring that presence. to the room that 00:19:00.930 --> 00:19:09.089 you're in um oh you lead like a lion calm powerful 00:19:09.089 --> 00:19:14.650 protective especially you mr morgan with your 00:19:14.650 --> 00:19:18.730 couple um i see that you're calm you're powerful 00:19:18.730 --> 00:19:23.250 you're protective of lindsay um but you also 00:19:23.250 --> 00:19:26.869 are calming to philip as the husband and i think 00:19:26.869 --> 00:19:29.819 that is amazing and just such a great example 00:19:29.819 --> 00:19:36.099 of that leading. Um, I, you invest in mastery, 00:19:36.220 --> 00:19:40.640 like skill isn't optional is expected in this 00:19:40.640 --> 00:19:43.920 lifestyle and you know, everybody got to start 00:19:43.920 --> 00:19:47.160 somewhere. Right. But that quality bowl will 00:19:47.160 --> 00:19:49.859 invest in that mastery. And that's what you guys 00:19:49.859 --> 00:19:52.380 have done. And that's why we have this podcast 00:19:52.380 --> 00:19:55.839 is because you two have invested in that mastery 00:19:55.839 --> 00:19:59.160 and now you're trying to help. other bulls to 00:19:59.160 --> 00:20:06.039 do that um and then t you take let's take the 00:20:06.039 --> 00:20:09.759 damn responsibility no blaming no whining you 00:20:09.759 --> 00:20:13.599 know if the situation goes a different direction 00:20:13.599 --> 00:20:15.779 just take the responsibility of that there's 00:20:15.779 --> 00:20:18.799 nothing hot than a hotter than a man that can 00:20:18.799 --> 00:20:24.220 say sorry apologize or you know just be like 00:20:24.220 --> 00:20:27.619 hey You know, I didn't prepare quite right for 00:20:27.619 --> 00:20:31.619 this play date today. Or, you know, I'm sorry 00:20:31.619 --> 00:20:35.079 that I was late. Or, you know, whatever. Whatever 00:20:35.079 --> 00:20:37.339 the circumstance may be, just take responsibility 00:20:37.339 --> 00:20:40.920 for your actions. Don't blame others. Well, if 00:20:40.920 --> 00:20:42.720 you would have wore that lingerie, then my dick 00:20:42.720 --> 00:20:46.839 would have got harder. You know, whatever. Just 00:20:46.839 --> 00:20:49.480 take the responsibility. Be the man in the room. 00:20:49.779 --> 00:20:54.900 And then lastly, the why. You set the bar. And 00:20:54.900 --> 00:20:56.799 others will follow where you lead. And that's 00:20:56.799 --> 00:21:00.420 what you do for your couples, for your, you know, 00:21:00.440 --> 00:21:03.920 one -on -one. It's like, set the standard, you 00:21:03.920 --> 00:21:07.640 know? Like, there was a bull that got a hotel 00:21:07.640 --> 00:21:09.799 room for me the other day. Like, I walked in. 00:21:09.900 --> 00:21:13.299 It's a fucking suite. Like, this is our first 00:21:13.299 --> 00:21:16.690 hotel play date, you know? It was amazing. You 00:21:16.690 --> 00:21:20.230 know, he had the drinks out and this and that 00:21:20.230 --> 00:21:22.769 and everything prepared. He set the standard. 00:21:22.869 --> 00:21:26.029 And now I'm like, wow. All right. Well, I need 00:21:26.029 --> 00:21:28.230 to I need to bump my bar a little higher because 00:21:28.230 --> 00:21:32.849 that was a great experience, you know. And when 00:21:32.849 --> 00:21:36.089 you show that it's the standard in different 00:21:36.089 --> 00:21:39.589 areas that. You know, some guys will complain. 00:21:39.710 --> 00:21:42.130 A bull that's not quality will complain and be, 00:21:42.150 --> 00:21:44.210 oh, you're making it hard for the rest of us, 00:21:44.230 --> 00:21:49.119 man. No. Step your fucking game up. It's not 00:21:49.119 --> 00:21:51.140 that you have to spend a lot of money like that 00:21:51.140 --> 00:21:54.220 with the suite. I understand everybody has different 00:21:54.220 --> 00:21:57.220 budgets, but you can set an amazing standard 00:21:57.220 --> 00:22:01.299 with whatever income level you're at. There's 00:22:01.299 --> 00:22:03.980 lots of ways to set a great standard. It's not 00:22:03.980 --> 00:22:07.259 just with what you do with the woman or the couple. 00:22:08.859 --> 00:22:14.180 As far as taking someone to dinner or doing the 00:22:14.180 --> 00:22:16.019 different things to give that boyfriend experience. 00:22:16.839 --> 00:22:20.059 you know that's the the communication that you 00:22:20.059 --> 00:22:24.299 bring um how you speak to the woman um how you're 00:22:24.299 --> 00:22:27.539 respectful but all of that you know really just 00:22:27.539 --> 00:22:30.099 sums up the whole package of just setting the 00:22:30.099 --> 00:22:34.079 bar and um others following you and that's what 00:22:34.079 --> 00:22:37.779 you and socrates have both done so that's what 00:22:37.779 --> 00:22:43.279 i have so far on the matter ladies and gentlemen 00:22:43.279 --> 00:22:48.720 one word damn How do we, how do we go on after 00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:51.819 that? I don't know. I'm ready to be done. Let's 00:22:51.819 --> 00:22:55.299 just close it down. That was fire. Oh my goodness. 00:22:56.099 --> 00:23:00.519 Did she not just put the stamp on everything 00:23:00.519 --> 00:23:08.640 that we were saying and, and to have, to have, 00:23:08.759 --> 00:23:12.160 you know, and what an acronym for, for the, you 00:23:12.160 --> 00:23:15.339 know, for quality. That's. that needs to be written 00:23:15.339 --> 00:23:18.079 down and like post it we'll put it in the show 00:23:18.079 --> 00:23:21.140 notes exactly that needs to be written down to 00:23:21.140 --> 00:23:25.640 you guys beautiful because i mean that's it right 00:23:25.640 --> 00:23:28.619 there in a nutshell that is it that is what quality 00:23:28.619 --> 00:23:32.220 truly means in this in this lifestyle for a book 00:23:32.220 --> 00:23:40.009 you know what you are I used my friend ChatGBT 00:23:40.009 --> 00:23:43.750 to make that. That's okay. That's okay. I could 00:23:43.750 --> 00:23:47.509 kill this. I could kill this. What's super cool 00:23:47.509 --> 00:23:51.690 is that we have programmed our ChatGBT for both 00:23:51.690 --> 00:23:54.230 of our podcasts, The Siren of Freedom and The 00:23:54.230 --> 00:23:56.849 Bull Brotherhood. Socrates has done that. So 00:23:56.849 --> 00:24:00.369 when I knew what I wanted to create with it, 00:24:00.410 --> 00:24:03.569 and then it asked me some questions, you know, 00:24:03.609 --> 00:24:07.269 do you want something sassier? I can even remix 00:24:07.269 --> 00:24:10.730 it for, you know, the Siren of Freedom or Bull 00:24:10.730 --> 00:24:13.650 Brotherhood tone. And I said, a little sassier, 00:24:13.650 --> 00:24:16.349 but male -dominated. And it says, here's a sassier, 00:24:16.390 --> 00:24:22.269 male -dominated version of quality. Something 00:24:22.269 --> 00:24:25.130 a strong, competent, and emotionally intelligent 00:24:25.130 --> 00:24:28.049 man, like the Bulls on the Bull Brotherhood, 00:24:28.069 --> 00:24:30.809 would stand behind. Confident, no fluff, and 00:24:30.809 --> 00:24:33.630 no apologies. You heard it here first, ladies 00:24:33.630 --> 00:24:36.410 and gentlemen. We are here teaching you chat 00:24:36.410 --> 00:24:43.069 GBT prompts and stuff. Yeah. But I was just like, 00:24:43.069 --> 00:24:45.730 if that didn't nail it on the head, because you 00:24:45.730 --> 00:24:47.829 know, everything that we've been talking about, 00:24:47.950 --> 00:24:51.150 it really just, you know, brought it into the 00:24:51.150 --> 00:24:54.349 acronym. I love acronyms. That's my kind of nerdiness 00:24:54.349 --> 00:24:57.309 right there. Well, I do too. So that's why, that's 00:24:57.309 --> 00:24:59.630 why I was like, damn, I couldn't say no, but 00:24:59.630 --> 00:25:02.190 damn after that, that really does break down 00:25:02.190 --> 00:25:06.339 what quality. is, you know, for this lifestyle. 00:25:06.900 --> 00:25:10.299 And like I said, whether you are a newbie, you 00:25:10.299 --> 00:25:12.359 know, just starting out, or if you are a seasoned 00:25:12.359 --> 00:25:16.440 vet, that is what needs to be brought to the 00:25:16.440 --> 00:25:20.259 table every time you meet a couple or you meet 00:25:20.259 --> 00:25:22.019 a single. But here again, we're talking about 00:25:22.019 --> 00:25:24.500 couples now. When you meet a couple, you need 00:25:24.500 --> 00:25:28.680 to exemplify all of that. All of that. And it's 00:25:28.680 --> 00:25:32.700 not hard, gentlemen. It is not hard. Like I said, 00:25:32.759 --> 00:25:36.119 look at yourself first. Look at yourself in the 00:25:36.119 --> 00:25:40.119 mirror, okay? And say to yourself, you know, 00:25:40.220 --> 00:25:44.619 what kind of man am I? That's first and foremost. 00:25:44.740 --> 00:25:47.819 What kind of man am I? You know, do I get up 00:25:47.819 --> 00:25:49.759 in the morning? Do I have that discipline to 00:25:49.759 --> 00:25:53.059 get up in the morning? Do I, and here again I'm 00:25:53.059 --> 00:25:55.079 talking about myself, do I practice the body 00:25:55.079 --> 00:25:57.779 game? Okay, do I go to the gym? Do I work out? 00:25:57.839 --> 00:26:02.960 Do I make myself look as... as my genetic makeup 00:26:02.960 --> 00:26:07.180 will allow me to look, okay? Here again, I'm 00:26:07.180 --> 00:26:09.819 going on 60 years old, but there aren't too many 00:26:09.819 --> 00:26:13.720 people my age that look the way I look right 00:26:13.720 --> 00:26:16.240 now. There aren't. And I'm not trying to toot 00:26:16.240 --> 00:26:19.319 my own horn, but hell, nephew, you're what, 53, 00:26:19.500 --> 00:26:22.059 54? Yes, sir. I'll toot it for you guys. Toot, 00:26:22.200 --> 00:26:26.700 toot. You know what I mean? So this game, this 00:26:26.700 --> 00:26:30.900 life that we're talking about, You have more 00:26:30.900 --> 00:26:35.559 guys in it and ladies. You have more ladies and 00:26:35.559 --> 00:26:39.519 gentlemen in it that are what I call the mature, 00:26:39.720 --> 00:26:42.839 the real mature people of, you know, over 40, 00:26:42.859 --> 00:26:46.180 really over 45. And, hell, that's another damn 00:26:46.180 --> 00:26:48.819 podcast. Also, nephew, we're going to talk about 00:26:48.819 --> 00:26:52.180 the evolution of a bull soon, real soon. But 00:26:52.180 --> 00:26:55.680 back to what I was saying, though, you have people 00:26:55.680 --> 00:27:01.230 that are 40, 45, 50. and above, we're representing 00:27:01.230 --> 00:27:04.349 in this life. We're the ones that are representing. 00:27:04.690 --> 00:27:09.470 Your 20 -somethings, what percentage do you think 00:27:09.470 --> 00:27:13.269 are in their 20s that come to splash? Ooh, maybe 00:27:13.269 --> 00:27:18.789 about 5%, 10%. Yeah, I don't think it's a big 00:27:18.789 --> 00:27:22.690 number. But when you get to your 30s, it gets 00:27:22.690 --> 00:27:24.750 a little higher. But when you get to your mature 00:27:24.750 --> 00:27:27.289 level, 40 and over, that's what's representing. 00:27:27.789 --> 00:27:30.450 at these you know at these events and like i 00:27:30.450 --> 00:27:34.809 said a lot of the bulls they are 40 some 50 and 00:27:34.809 --> 00:27:37.450 over so you know are you staying are you getting 00:27:37.450 --> 00:27:40.869 are you you doing what you have to do to keep 00:27:40.869 --> 00:27:47.289 yourself a looking 120 feeling 120 being able 00:27:47.289 --> 00:27:51.390 to perform 120 you know because here again when 00:27:51.390 --> 00:27:54.650 you get 50 and over we start thinking about men 00:27:54.650 --> 00:27:57.910 our testosterone levels they do drop Certain 00:27:57.910 --> 00:28:01.029 things do happen, you know, but you can correct 00:28:01.029 --> 00:28:04.329 that with certain, you know, medicines and stuff. 00:28:04.690 --> 00:28:07.089 And I'm talking about testosterone replacement 00:28:07.089 --> 00:28:10.529 therapy. I am glad to say that I'm on it. I have 00:28:10.529 --> 00:28:12.750 been on it now for a little over a year. It does 00:28:12.750 --> 00:28:15.529 amazing things for you. But, you know, are you 00:28:15.529 --> 00:28:18.990 practicing everything, like Siren said, that 00:28:18.990 --> 00:28:21.109 acronym quality? Are you doing what it takes 00:28:21.109 --> 00:28:23.990 to get in front of a couple and they look at 00:28:23.990 --> 00:28:26.529 you and be like, okay. That's a grown -ass man 00:28:26.529 --> 00:28:28.210 standing in front of me right now talking to 00:28:28.210 --> 00:28:35.750 us. I mean, simple, to a T. Am I right or wrong? 00:28:36.569 --> 00:28:39.950 Amen. Well, I spelled it out for you. If you 00:28:39.950 --> 00:28:42.390 can spell the word quality, that's why I said 00:28:42.390 --> 00:28:44.329 let's just spell it out. Let's just spell it 00:28:44.329 --> 00:28:47.329 out. I love things like that. I love a checklist. 00:28:47.509 --> 00:28:53.819 I love a roadmap that I can follow, steps. And 00:28:53.819 --> 00:28:57.740 there's seven steps for you. There you go. There 00:28:57.740 --> 00:29:00.200 you go. Beautiful. Beautiful. Nephew, I know 00:29:00.200 --> 00:29:02.539 you got a million questions, as you always do. 00:29:03.059 --> 00:29:06.640 I want to hear them. I want to hear them. Siren, 00:29:06.740 --> 00:29:09.960 you're in here now. We both want to hear. Audience, 00:29:10.099 --> 00:29:13.740 I know you want to hear also. Take it away. Well, 00:29:14.480 --> 00:29:16.539 I wanted to finish the other two, and then I 00:29:16.539 --> 00:29:18.900 do have a lot of questions. Go ahead. So the 00:29:18.900 --> 00:29:21.500 other two is emotions and physical. And you covered 00:29:21.500 --> 00:29:22.960 a lot of the physical, but I do have something 00:29:22.960 --> 00:29:26.539 to say about that. Emotion is really easy. Emotional 00:29:26.539 --> 00:29:34.240 intelligence. There's a book with that same title. 00:29:34.700 --> 00:29:36.839 I highly recommend. There's two books, actually, 00:29:36.859 --> 00:29:39.579 I think, with that title. I recommend both. And 00:29:39.579 --> 00:29:42.599 emotional intelligence is just about being able 00:29:42.599 --> 00:29:46.839 to manage and control your emotions. And as a 00:29:46.839 --> 00:29:51.480 leader, With frame, right, with who's looking 00:29:51.480 --> 00:29:54.880 to be quality, you have to be able to manage 00:29:54.880 --> 00:29:58.819 your emotions. The cuck or cuckoldress or somebody 00:29:58.819 --> 00:30:01.579 might feel a little uncomfortable. They might 00:30:01.579 --> 00:30:04.619 lose their temper. They might feel scared or 00:30:04.619 --> 00:30:08.819 fear or insecurity. And you have to keep composure 00:30:08.819 --> 00:30:13.240 about yourself. I think we'd love to, I'd love 00:30:13.240 --> 00:30:15.839 to do another podcast on this as far as what 00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:17.960 are the basic characteristics of emotional intelligence 00:30:17.960 --> 00:30:20.519 and how bulls can execute that. We won't talk 00:30:20.519 --> 00:30:24.000 about that now, but I do highly recommend that 00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:26.700 you read those books. I'll put those book titles 00:30:26.700 --> 00:30:30.500 in the show notes and links to those books. The 00:30:30.500 --> 00:30:33.279 second one is physical. Uncovered a lot of it, 00:30:33.339 --> 00:30:36.579 you know. Get your breath right. Do your hair. 00:30:37.000 --> 00:30:39.960 Learn, have a style of dress. Iron your clothes, 00:30:40.140 --> 00:30:42.740 right? Wash your ass. All that kind of stuff, 00:30:42.819 --> 00:30:48.480 right? But what I want to talk about. Wash your 00:30:48.480 --> 00:30:50.720 ass. And your balls. And your balls. And your 00:30:50.720 --> 00:30:56.400 balls, for the love of God. Please. I .E. Impeccable 00:30:56.400 --> 00:31:01.420 hygiene. Impeccable hygiene. You want to be very, 00:31:01.539 --> 00:31:04.380 very clean. And let me elaborate on that word 00:31:04.380 --> 00:31:09.079 clean. Not just the cleanliness of the. exterior 00:31:09.079 --> 00:31:12.079 of the body, but also the cleanliness of the 00:31:12.079 --> 00:31:15.380 interior of the body. I mean, you know what I'm 00:31:15.380 --> 00:31:19.559 talking about? Free of all STDs. Okay. It is 00:31:19.559 --> 00:31:25.400 not hard to go and get an HIV test and a STD 00:31:25.400 --> 00:31:29.299 test. I do it every 30 days. Okay. Because here 00:31:29.299 --> 00:31:33.619 again, I can, I cannot wear condoms. I can't 00:31:33.619 --> 00:31:36.880 wear condoms due to a severe allergy, but that 00:31:36.880 --> 00:31:42.450 is me. OK, I think you should, you know, use 00:31:42.450 --> 00:31:46.609 condoms if you can. Always, always, always have 00:31:46.609 --> 00:31:50.890 the safety of your couple in mind. OK, as well 00:31:50.890 --> 00:31:53.910 as yourself. But first and foremost, the safety 00:31:53.910 --> 00:31:58.809 of that couple. So be clean outside as well as 00:31:58.809 --> 00:32:02.930 inside. Again, outside as well as inside. That's 00:32:02.930 --> 00:32:05.009 what that cleaning is all about. Anything else 00:32:05.009 --> 00:32:09.190 on that? Oh, yeah. I can't say any more out of 00:32:09.190 --> 00:32:12.809 pain. What you just said, wash your ass. You 00:32:12.809 --> 00:32:16.230 know what I mean? Brush your teeth. Okay? Brush 00:32:16.230 --> 00:32:19.430 your teeth. If you're a bald man, hey, have the 00:32:19.430 --> 00:32:22.910 most immaculate bald head like I do in the world. 00:32:23.069 --> 00:32:26.109 Okay? I shave every day. I like people to see 00:32:26.109 --> 00:32:29.569 my face, so I'm always clean shaved. Your appearance 00:32:29.569 --> 00:32:32.710 is everything. It goes along with what I said, 00:32:32.730 --> 00:32:34.849 the body game. You know, you don't have to laugh. 00:32:35.200 --> 00:32:36.859 look like a bodybuilder or anything like that, 00:32:36.920 --> 00:32:39.880 but have some, have some pride in your appearance, 00:32:40.039 --> 00:32:43.099 have some pride in your appearance. Um, she might 00:32:43.099 --> 00:32:45.220 not come out and say, well, you know, that doesn't 00:32:45.220 --> 00:32:47.460 appeal to me as far as, you know, you have a 00:32:47.460 --> 00:32:51.759 beautiful body and all that. She's lying. They're 00:32:51.759 --> 00:32:55.980 lying. Okay. They like to see something that 00:32:55.980 --> 00:32:58.339 looks good when you take your clothes off. Period. 00:32:58.599 --> 00:33:02.880 Facts. I want to jump in. I think that's a joke. 00:33:02.920 --> 00:33:06.119 Please. Please jump in. I knew you were going 00:33:06.119 --> 00:33:07.619 to say something. That's why I said what I said. 00:33:08.059 --> 00:33:12.200 Oh man, because this is my jam, okay? Because 00:33:12.200 --> 00:33:15.299 I think so, I think I agree with you. I agree 00:33:15.299 --> 00:33:17.759 with you saying that they should take the best 00:33:17.759 --> 00:33:20.640 care of themselves that is genetically possible, 00:33:20.980 --> 00:33:24.700 right? Exactly. And obviously, you know, it's 00:33:24.700 --> 00:33:29.299 appealing to have someone who makes the effort 00:33:29.299 --> 00:33:32.140 to take care of themselves. But I want to say 00:33:32.140 --> 00:33:37.380 that I enjoy a wide variety of body types on 00:33:37.380 --> 00:33:40.240 men. And even some of the men, I call them full 00:33:40.240 --> 00:33:43.000 -bodied. On women, we'd call them thick, right? 00:33:43.200 --> 00:33:46.299 But on men, I call it full -bodied. And I enjoy 00:33:46.299 --> 00:33:52.180 that because it's like... just comfy and there's 00:33:52.180 --> 00:33:54.700 something comforting about that, that cushion, 00:33:54.920 --> 00:33:59.460 you know? And so I don't want any of the, the, 00:33:59.460 --> 00:34:02.319 the more full -bodied men to feel discouraged 00:34:02.319 --> 00:34:05.720 if they are, you know, doing the best or, you 00:34:05.720 --> 00:34:09.039 know, need to make life changes because I enjoy 00:34:09.039 --> 00:34:14.420 a wide variety of body types on men. And, and 00:34:14.420 --> 00:34:17.219 there will be more full -bodied men that won't 00:34:17.219 --> 00:34:20.260 take their shirt off. during play they'll just 00:34:20.260 --> 00:34:21.920 you know they'll be naked from the waist down 00:34:21.920 --> 00:34:24.420 and I always make them take their shirt off you 00:34:24.420 --> 00:34:26.480 know I'm like take your shirt off you know like 00:34:26.480 --> 00:34:29.360 I want to see it all like I'm here for it all 00:34:29.360 --> 00:34:33.400 and I think in the same way that you know women 00:34:33.400 --> 00:34:36.239 like we're thicker we've we've got some stretch 00:34:36.239 --> 00:34:39.360 marks we've got a fat roller too here and there 00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:43.219 um you know but it's about our health and our 00:34:43.219 --> 00:34:47.750 and our efforts right and you men you know just 00:34:47.750 --> 00:34:53.829 lifting us up and and attracted and um worshiping 00:34:53.829 --> 00:34:55.849 the body that we have you know the skin that 00:34:55.849 --> 00:34:58.329 we're in i think that confidence no matter what 00:34:58.329 --> 00:35:02.409 your meat suit looks like is the most important 00:35:02.409 --> 00:35:04.949 thing and then taking care of your health and 00:35:04.949 --> 00:35:08.590 then you know obviously there's going to be many 00:35:08.590 --> 00:35:11.570 women who i mean we all we all love some muscles 00:35:12.250 --> 00:35:15.409 Right. But I just want to say that I enjoy personally 00:35:15.409 --> 00:35:18.929 a wide variety of body types on that. Can I jump 00:35:18.929 --> 00:35:23.510 in there? Of course. Of course. But I knew she 00:35:23.510 --> 00:35:25.369 was going to chime in, though. I knew when I 00:35:25.369 --> 00:35:27.469 said that I knew your wife was going to come 00:35:27.469 --> 00:35:29.510 back with that because I've heard her say before 00:35:29.510 --> 00:35:32.429 she loves a wide variety, you know, and she's 00:35:32.429 --> 00:35:36.489 one of the she's one of the few. I know there 00:35:36.489 --> 00:35:39.920 are more ladies out there who do. uh, level wide 00:35:39.920 --> 00:35:42.599 variety, but siren, you are one of the ones who 00:35:42.599 --> 00:35:45.639 actually comes out. You really do say, you know, 00:35:45.639 --> 00:35:49.619 I, I, I admire, um, quote unquote, the thick 00:35:49.619 --> 00:35:53.199 body or the dad bod, you know, compared to just 00:35:53.199 --> 00:35:56.199 being, you know, muscular and, and, and athletic 00:35:56.199 --> 00:35:59.559 and stuff like that. So that's a, that's a shout 00:35:59.559 --> 00:36:03.619 out to you. It is really a shout out to you ladies 00:36:03.619 --> 00:36:07.019 again, uh, listen to the sound of freedom podcast. 00:36:07.139 --> 00:36:12.050 Okay. Become a member of her sisterhood because 00:36:12.050 --> 00:36:15.929 you will learn a lot. But nephew, go ahead. Yeah, 00:36:15.969 --> 00:36:17.690 so I want to actually bring both of you guys' 00:36:17.750 --> 00:36:19.809 statements together. So, you know, me being the 00:36:19.809 --> 00:36:21.670 nerd, I'm going to bring some science in here. 00:36:21.750 --> 00:36:26.230 So, one, I'm just like Siren on the other end. 00:36:26.610 --> 00:36:30.929 I prefer thicker women, but I love them all shapes 00:36:30.929 --> 00:36:34.489 and sizes. And I like them white, black, brown, 00:36:34.570 --> 00:36:36.590 Puerto Rican, a Haitian with good conversation. 00:36:37.010 --> 00:36:40.230 You know what I mean? So let me just put that 00:36:40.230 --> 00:36:43.050 out there. I love them all. I love them all. 00:36:43.170 --> 00:36:47.449 And here's the science behind it. And this is 00:36:47.449 --> 00:36:49.769 all based on evolutionary psychology. So if you 00:36:49.769 --> 00:36:52.750 don't believe in that, it's fine. But this is 00:36:52.750 --> 00:36:56.570 also, there's also other research that proves 00:36:56.570 --> 00:36:59.960 these through. you know, self testing or people 00:36:59.960 --> 00:37:02.699 giving their own testimony or opinions about 00:37:02.699 --> 00:37:06.219 what they believe in. A man only has to focus 00:37:06.219 --> 00:37:09.280 on one thing. Now that doesn't mean there isn't 00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:11.860 other things to worry about, but if you're concerned 00:37:11.860 --> 00:37:15.940 about your looks, it's your shoulder to waist 00:37:15.940 --> 00:37:19.860 ratio. So you could be a bigger guy, but like 00:37:19.860 --> 00:37:22.639 me, ever since I turned like 35, I've struggled 00:37:22.639 --> 00:37:26.869 with gaining weight in my midsection. A lot of 00:37:26.869 --> 00:37:30.289 it is because I be snacking too much. But that 00:37:30.289 --> 00:37:38.510 is the truth. Let me say this, nephew. Every 00:37:38.510 --> 00:37:42.090 man, every man, regardless of his genetic makeup, 00:37:42.230 --> 00:37:45.190 whether he's muscular, i .e. a mesomorph, if 00:37:45.190 --> 00:37:47.949 he's an endomorph, kind of a little body fat, 00:37:48.110 --> 00:37:54.010 or if he's skinny, we all generally hold our... 00:37:54.409 --> 00:37:58.429 Fat once we get 40 and over or 50 and over in 00:37:58.429 --> 00:38:03.289 the same Part of the body the midsection. Okay. 00:38:03.349 --> 00:38:07.090 I am fighting. I am fighting. I am fighting right 00:38:07.090 --> 00:38:10.510 now You know me I am fighting so hard. I don't 00:38:10.510 --> 00:38:14.110 care how many damn At workouts I do. I don't 00:38:14.110 --> 00:38:17.489 care how clean I eat or whatever It is just that's 00:38:17.489 --> 00:38:20.289 just the genetic makeup of a man, you know, so 00:38:20.289 --> 00:38:24.639 it is what it is But here again, I didn't mean 00:38:24.639 --> 00:38:28.440 to interrupt. Keep going. No, no. We need to 00:38:28.440 --> 00:38:33.179 say that. So work on that, and there's things 00:38:33.179 --> 00:38:34.820 you could do to work on that. The testosterone 00:38:34.820 --> 00:38:38.800 will help you, right? A lot of it's based on 00:38:38.800 --> 00:38:42.920 cortisol that you're putting out there. Check 00:38:42.920 --> 00:38:49.030 your diet. You don't have to be some crazy. meathead 00:38:49.030 --> 00:38:52.050 gym guy who's in the diet all the time, which 00:38:52.050 --> 00:38:55.849 me and the Sigma male here, we try to go to the 00:38:55.849 --> 00:38:59.409 gym at least four or five times a day. But if 00:38:59.409 --> 00:39:01.570 you can focus on your shoulders and build your 00:39:01.570 --> 00:39:04.929 shoulders up a lot while you're trying to work 00:39:04.929 --> 00:39:07.230 on your midsection, that will really help you. 00:39:07.289 --> 00:39:09.110 And the same for women. You know, we're talking 00:39:09.110 --> 00:39:11.869 about bulls, but really quick, it's waist to 00:39:11.869 --> 00:39:14.869 hip ratio. And here's a scientific fact you can 00:39:14.869 --> 00:39:18.429 look up. Most men. Don't care about the size 00:39:18.429 --> 00:39:20.670 as long as it's an hourglass figure. So it could 00:39:20.670 --> 00:39:22.869 be a three -hour glass figure, a two -hour glass 00:39:22.869 --> 00:39:25.949 figure, a one -hour glass figure. Scientifically 00:39:25.949 --> 00:39:29.789 proven that men go to the hip to, I mean, the 00:39:29.789 --> 00:39:35.809 waist to hip ratio. So going back to bulls, physically, 00:39:35.909 --> 00:39:37.849 we talked about the emotional challenges. Physically, 00:39:38.010 --> 00:39:41.210 focus on that. And then I want to add something 00:39:41.210 --> 00:39:43.070 else. Another thing, a subject we're going to 00:39:43.070 --> 00:39:45.309 be talking about in the future, especially with 00:39:45.309 --> 00:39:47.860 my man, Pagan. because he's the best at this, 00:39:47.940 --> 00:39:52.000 is peacocking. And what peacocking is, it comes 00:39:52.000 --> 00:39:56.500 from the pickup artist community. If you guys 00:39:56.500 --> 00:39:59.260 haven't already figured out, I am a student of 00:39:59.260 --> 00:40:02.440 the Manosphere or the Red Pill, the pickup artist 00:40:02.440 --> 00:40:04.960 community. Not that I believe in them. You know, 00:40:04.980 --> 00:40:07.039 these are the Andrew Tates of the world, the 00:40:07.039 --> 00:40:11.099 Sterling, I think his last name is, what's Sterling's 00:40:11.099 --> 00:40:15.739 last name that me and you like to follow, Unc? 00:40:16.980 --> 00:40:19.179 He's a bull. You're talking about Cooper. Sterling 00:40:19.179 --> 00:40:23.420 Cooper, yeah. Sterling Cooper. So these guys 00:40:23.420 --> 00:40:26.539 also teach whether you walk in in a suit, suited 00:40:26.539 --> 00:40:29.340 and booted, or you walk in there in a jumpsuit, 00:40:29.380 --> 00:40:32.340 or you walk in there with a top hat, you want 00:40:32.340 --> 00:40:37.400 to have a signature look. Now, my signature look 00:40:37.400 --> 00:40:40.500 a lot of times is I'm just plain. I'm just black 00:40:40.500 --> 00:40:43.780 from the top down. My signature look a lot of 00:40:43.780 --> 00:40:47.730 times is not to have a signature look. But when 00:40:47.730 --> 00:40:53.610 you have some form of a look, that distinguishes 00:40:53.610 --> 00:40:57.070 you from everybody else, right? What I like, 00:40:57.070 --> 00:40:58.989 there's this really cool guy, I think he's even 00:40:58.989 --> 00:41:02.489 Green Beret, that shows up, and I won't mention 00:41:02.489 --> 00:41:05.349 any other details, but he shows up and he dresses 00:41:05.349 --> 00:41:08.409 like he is in the military. Every time I see 00:41:08.409 --> 00:41:10.550 him, he's got something on that has some kind 00:41:10.550 --> 00:41:12.530 of fatigue or something that lets you know he's 00:41:12.530 --> 00:41:15.579 military. And that is kind of his way of... Peacocking, 00:41:15.699 --> 00:41:21.139 you know? So, you know, me and the Sigma male, 00:41:21.239 --> 00:41:23.980 we kind of like simple looks. You know, whenever 00:41:23.980 --> 00:41:27.579 I go to an event, if they have a theme, I try 00:41:27.579 --> 00:41:30.219 to dress up. A lot of guys don't, but I do. I 00:41:30.219 --> 00:41:32.780 like doing that. You know, but I would definitely. 00:41:32.800 --> 00:41:35.460 I like it. I like doing it with you. Yeah, we 00:41:35.460 --> 00:41:37.719 love doing it. We always go to our room. And 00:41:37.719 --> 00:41:39.659 if it's a theme night, we always just together, 00:41:39.739 --> 00:41:42.119 we try to do it together as a team. And that's 00:41:42.119 --> 00:41:44.500 my way of peacocking. I'm playing when I'm not, 00:41:44.579 --> 00:41:47.579 and then I'll go all out when it comes to a theme. 00:41:48.199 --> 00:41:51.480 So that's, that's, that's what I got on all four 00:41:51.480 --> 00:41:54.900 of those. So if you want, I'd love to move into 00:41:54.900 --> 00:41:58.579 some of the questions, you know, I got. Go right 00:41:58.579 --> 00:42:04.380 ahead, bro. What are your. Excuse me, Siren, 00:42:04.460 --> 00:42:07.239 you got anything else to add? Well, I was just 00:42:07.239 --> 00:42:10.019 going to say that the guy that comes to mind 00:42:10.019 --> 00:42:13.179 as having a very signature look for himself is 00:42:13.179 --> 00:42:17.119 Dimitri at Splash Mocha. And that's why I call 00:42:17.119 --> 00:42:20.460 him Dapper Dan. He talked about that on his episode. 00:42:20.639 --> 00:42:24.380 But he just has this certain style about him. 00:42:24.400 --> 00:42:29.460 It's not flashy or anything crazy, but it's very 00:42:29.460 --> 00:42:34.420 unique. And it's put together. every single time, 00:42:34.500 --> 00:42:36.800 whether he's just being more casual or he's being 00:42:36.800 --> 00:42:40.579 a little more dressed up. So that's all I was 00:42:40.579 --> 00:42:43.320 thinking about. That's the first person that 00:42:43.320 --> 00:42:50.860 popped to mind. Dimitri is the signature for, 00:42:51.000 --> 00:42:54.920 like I said, the Dapper Dan look. Myself along 00:42:54.920 --> 00:43:00.539 with Mr. Mocha, both of us being fitness trainers 00:43:00.539 --> 00:43:03.590 and fitness guys. We like to wear, you know, 00:43:03.630 --> 00:43:07.090 our fitness stuff that, like, is usually dark 00:43:07.090 --> 00:43:09.590 and everything contours, you know, shows off 00:43:09.590 --> 00:43:13.210 the body. But at the same time, though, when 00:43:13.210 --> 00:43:15.829 it comes to the evening events, no, I don't do 00:43:15.829 --> 00:43:18.849 the theme. I don't do the theme. But I do like 00:43:18.849 --> 00:43:22.570 to bring out my, as Socrates saw me, you know, 00:43:22.630 --> 00:43:24.630 with the slacks and, you know, the shirt and, 00:43:24.710 --> 00:43:27.190 you know, the nice shoes and stuff. Not like 00:43:27.190 --> 00:43:29.329 I'm necessarily going to a club, but just let 00:43:29.329 --> 00:43:32.440 everybody know that, hey, he can dress. He can 00:43:32.440 --> 00:43:38.780 come out looking, you know, signature also. Yeah, 00:43:38.880 --> 00:43:41.340 I love it. So my first question to you, Unc, 00:43:41.360 --> 00:43:44.880 is what are some of the don'ts that you would 00:43:44.880 --> 00:43:49.920 tell every bull, no matter what, you know, if 00:43:49.920 --> 00:43:53.260 it's BBC or a white bull or any other race or 00:43:53.260 --> 00:43:57.139 any kind of gentleman in this lifestyle, what 00:43:57.139 --> 00:44:00.400 are some of the things that you would say, don't 00:44:00.400 --> 00:44:10.630 do that? Do not go in there and everything that 00:44:10.630 --> 00:44:12.769 comes out of your mouth when you first meet a 00:44:12.769 --> 00:44:18.849 couple is referencing you guys having sex. Never, 00:44:18.909 --> 00:44:22.150 ever do that. Never. I don't care if you're at 00:44:22.150 --> 00:44:27.929 a splash smoking event. Don't do that. It's one 00:44:27.929 --> 00:44:32.070 thing to go to an event and you're a newbie. 00:44:33.039 --> 00:44:36.119 And it's another thing to hit an event and you 00:44:36.119 --> 00:44:39.940 are just as thirsty as the wives who are there. 00:44:40.460 --> 00:44:43.239 This is a wife event. We expect the wives to 00:44:43.239 --> 00:44:46.679 come there and they are thirsty. But don't you 00:44:46.679 --> 00:44:49.880 come in there like you've never had a piece of 00:44:49.880 --> 00:44:52.820 pussy before in your damn life. So that's one 00:44:52.820 --> 00:44:56.619 of the key things right there that just turns 00:44:56.619 --> 00:44:58.840 me the hell off. A, you're bouncing around like 00:44:58.840 --> 00:45:01.320 a pinball and everything that comes out of your 00:45:01.320 --> 00:45:03.880 mouth when you... talk to a wife or to a couple 00:45:03.880 --> 00:45:09.219 is you know a how big my dick is uh what i'll 00:45:09.219 --> 00:45:14.199 do to the wife um that just total turn off that 00:45:14.199 --> 00:45:19.019 is like the number one pet peeve of mine number 00:45:19.019 --> 00:45:28.380 one well i like it i like it um do you think 00:45:28.380 --> 00:45:32.980 a newbie so let's say If people don't, you know, 00:45:32.980 --> 00:45:35.659 if you've heard the episode, if people have heard 00:45:35.659 --> 00:45:39.760 the episode, you know, I started off as a newbie 00:45:39.760 --> 00:45:44.519 bull after my divorce. And I listened to the 00:45:44.519 --> 00:45:48.940 Keys and Anklets. And I listened to Stag Stable, 00:45:49.000 --> 00:45:50.960 I think. I don't think he's doing anything. Really 00:45:50.960 --> 00:45:54.000 cool bull out of Arizona. Doctor. Super cool 00:45:54.000 --> 00:45:59.380 guy. And I went online and I called myself a 00:45:59.380 --> 00:46:03.849 bull. I was in the lifestyle before, but I had 00:46:03.849 --> 00:46:08.710 never been a bull. Do you think a newbie, first 00:46:08.710 --> 00:46:12.170 time, he wants to get online or wants to present 00:46:12.170 --> 00:46:14.829 himself at a club, whatever, do you think a man 00:46:14.829 --> 00:46:18.329 should call himself a bull if he's never had 00:46:18.329 --> 00:46:20.610 a bull experience when he's out there online 00:46:20.610 --> 00:46:23.429 or getting himself out there? Or should he just 00:46:23.429 --> 00:46:26.510 be like a manicorn or an individual or a single 00:46:26.510 --> 00:46:29.800 guy until he gets some... you know, bull chops 00:46:29.800 --> 00:46:35.300 under his belt. Nephew, he is a civilian. He 00:46:35.300 --> 00:46:38.679 is a civilian until he earns his bull title. 00:46:39.820 --> 00:46:41.800 We always got to bring it back to the military 00:46:41.800 --> 00:46:46.460 around here, folks. He is a civilian, okay? He's 00:46:46.460 --> 00:46:49.760 got to go through, just like in the military, 00:46:49.760 --> 00:46:52.440 you got to earn your stripes through basic training, 00:46:52.539 --> 00:46:55.960 first and foremost. Then you got to learn the 00:46:55.960 --> 00:46:58.960 skills, i .e. the job. Then you got to get a 00:46:58.960 --> 00:47:02.420 duty station and perform those skills. Okay. 00:47:02.500 --> 00:47:05.079 And then you got to go to events like a splash 00:47:05.079 --> 00:47:08.420 mocha and other things that would be a deployment. 00:47:08.800 --> 00:47:15.019 So he is a civilian until he earns his stripes. 00:47:15.460 --> 00:47:18.880 When he earns those stripes, then we can anoint 00:47:18.880 --> 00:47:24.030 him or promote him to the rank of bull. Oh, I 00:47:24.030 --> 00:47:25.710 like that. I can't wait to start getting some 00:47:25.710 --> 00:47:28.550 feedback on emails because we're going to get 00:47:28.550 --> 00:47:32.550 some pushback on that one for sure. But we standing 00:47:32.550 --> 00:47:34.829 on business around here, y 'all. Ten toes down. 00:47:35.190 --> 00:47:40.670 Exactly. Exactly. Again, this podcast is not 00:47:40.670 --> 00:47:43.889 to put down any of my brothers out there, okay, 00:47:44.070 --> 00:47:46.789 of the brotherhood. It's not to put you down, 00:47:46.909 --> 00:47:50.760 but it is to make you realize that. This, you 00:47:50.760 --> 00:47:53.599 know, this term, this moniker, whatever you want 00:47:53.599 --> 00:47:56.380 to call it, when you call yourself a bull, you 00:47:56.380 --> 00:48:00.360 have earned it. You have earned it. And it is 00:48:00.360 --> 00:48:03.380 not for everybody. This isn't for everybody. 00:48:04.199 --> 00:48:07.099 This is not, I say again, this is not for every 00:48:07.099 --> 00:48:11.659 male out there. Okay? Can you learn this? Yes, 00:48:11.659 --> 00:48:14.860 you can. But it takes time. It takes patience. 00:48:15.019 --> 00:48:18.739 It takes time. It takes fuck ups. Okay, when 00:48:18.739 --> 00:48:22.840 you mess up, hey, like the beautiful siren said, 00:48:23.079 --> 00:48:27.139 own up to it. You effed up, you know, but learn 00:48:27.139 --> 00:48:30.260 from your mistakes. Come back. Try it again. 00:48:30.340 --> 00:48:33.320 Because guess what? You will fail a few times 00:48:33.320 --> 00:48:36.800 in this before you get your equation, what works 00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:42.320 for you, correct. Believe me, I know. I do know. 00:48:42.739 --> 00:48:45.380 So here again, you know, if you didn't like what 00:48:45.380 --> 00:48:49.260 I just said, hey. It is what it is. But yes, 00:48:49.320 --> 00:48:52.659 you are a civilian until you earn that term of 00:48:52.659 --> 00:48:55.840 bull. Keep it going, nephew. One of the things 00:48:55.840 --> 00:48:59.800 that I pride myself on as the, you know, as the, 00:48:59.800 --> 00:49:03.179 you know, editor and project manager and everything 00:49:03.179 --> 00:49:06.659 is that I really do think this is going to be 00:49:06.659 --> 00:49:13.599 valuable to every man out there, vanilla or lifestyle. 00:49:15.469 --> 00:49:18.250 you know single or married and one of the reasons 00:49:18.250 --> 00:49:22.110 why is because of what you said it's like we 00:49:22.110 --> 00:49:25.610 want to get you there but lying and telling you 00:49:25.610 --> 00:49:29.809 you're already there is not the best way to get 00:49:29.809 --> 00:49:32.269 there and you know what i'm saying we're not 00:49:32.269 --> 00:49:35.030 here to cause controversy we're here to help 00:49:35.030 --> 00:49:38.570 everybody and we believe in principles that these 00:49:38.570 --> 00:49:43.369 things can help any man in any situation lead 00:49:43.369 --> 00:49:47.269 and better be the one who's in control and the 00:49:47.269 --> 00:49:50.670 one who is leading them to a wonderful experience. 00:49:51.090 --> 00:49:53.409 So I just want to put that out before I put my 00:49:53.409 --> 00:50:00.329 next question, which is, do you think that a 00:50:00.329 --> 00:50:03.489 bull, when he's interacting with the husband, 00:50:03.590 --> 00:50:10.289 do you think that he should lead with what turns 00:50:10.289 --> 00:50:15.250 the wife on? Or should he lead with what they 00:50:15.250 --> 00:50:19.050 love together whenever they're interacting with 00:50:19.050 --> 00:50:23.070 the husband? Or should it be a completely different 00:50:23.070 --> 00:50:27.090 relationship in your mind? How do you look at 00:50:27.090 --> 00:50:29.809 it when you're interacting with the husband? 00:50:32.630 --> 00:50:37.489 First of all, anything that comes up in a sexual 00:50:37.489 --> 00:50:46.289 tone, that comes. after he and I just have the 00:50:46.289 --> 00:50:49.789 basic conversation of, you know, hello, how you 00:50:49.789 --> 00:50:52.210 doing? You know, my name is such and such. Just 00:50:52.210 --> 00:50:56.050 getting to know each other. Then we will go, 00:50:56.170 --> 00:50:58.489 once we're comfortable there, we will get into 00:50:58.489 --> 00:51:03.570 what they like. You know, it's never about what 00:51:03.570 --> 00:51:07.590 she likes at first. I've been in this long enough, 00:51:07.730 --> 00:51:09.929 hell, I can kind of look at her and tell, you 00:51:09.929 --> 00:51:14.539 know, if she has a rapport. with me already um 00:51:14.539 --> 00:51:18.519 so it's you know it's all about like what they 00:51:18.519 --> 00:51:21.920 like what they like i want him to feel as comfortable 00:51:21.920 --> 00:51:26.239 around me as possible in that first meet because 00:51:26.239 --> 00:51:29.780 that first meet is is it's gonna make you or 00:51:29.780 --> 00:51:32.380 it's gonna break you you know like i said they 00:51:32.380 --> 00:51:34.480 already know what they're looking for they know 00:51:34.480 --> 00:51:36.739 they know exactly what they're looking for um 00:51:36.739 --> 00:51:39.139 when they read your bio or whatever you know 00:51:39.139 --> 00:51:42.690 everybody met you You fit the criteria of what 00:51:42.690 --> 00:51:44.789 they were looking for. So now you got to come 00:51:44.789 --> 00:51:49.389 in there now. And when you talk to him, he's 00:51:49.389 --> 00:51:51.670 going to be checking out the boxes. Okay, yeah, 00:51:51.710 --> 00:51:54.150 I read this. That goes with that. That goes with 00:51:54.150 --> 00:51:56.369 this. That goes with that. Now, if you come in 00:51:56.369 --> 00:52:01.030 there talking bullshit and it doesn't, you know, 00:52:01.090 --> 00:52:04.210 line up with what he's read, then he's going 00:52:04.210 --> 00:52:07.570 to know, okay, this guy is full of shit. So you... 00:52:08.159 --> 00:52:11.679 Forget about the sexual things at first. Just 00:52:11.679 --> 00:52:15.539 get to know him and then, you know, get in there 00:52:15.539 --> 00:52:19.039 and find out what they want as a couple first. 00:52:19.380 --> 00:52:21.980 And then when you find out what they want, then 00:52:21.980 --> 00:52:26.440 you can move over to what she likes. And that's 00:52:26.440 --> 00:52:29.679 a three -way conversation. When you get to what 00:52:29.679 --> 00:52:32.219 she likes, have him there. Always have him there. 00:52:32.779 --> 00:52:34.860 Don't like, you know, be like, okay, I don't 00:52:34.860 --> 00:52:37.500 need to talk to you now. I can talk to her. Have 00:52:37.500 --> 00:52:41.840 her come to you guys and you guys sit down and 00:52:41.840 --> 00:52:43.900 make that a three -way conversation. And that 00:52:43.900 --> 00:52:46.719 may not be on the first meet. That might be on 00:52:46.719 --> 00:52:49.500 the second or third meet, depending on how, you 00:52:49.500 --> 00:52:51.460 know, fast they want to get to know you, how 00:52:51.460 --> 00:52:55.739 much chemistry you have. It could be a very, 00:52:55.780 --> 00:52:58.699 very quick conversation. Or it could be, like 00:52:58.699 --> 00:53:02.539 I said, you know, two or three -time meet. But 00:53:02.539 --> 00:53:05.380 here again, that's how I do it. Bulls, brothers, 00:53:05.539 --> 00:53:07.900 that's how I do it. It might, you know, you might 00:53:07.900 --> 00:53:09.239 have a different, you might have a different 00:53:09.239 --> 00:53:15.099 equation, but that's always worked for me. Got 00:53:15.099 --> 00:53:18.739 it. Yeah, I love it. I love it. So those are 00:53:18.739 --> 00:53:21.559 all the questions I got on. We're going to cover 00:53:21.559 --> 00:53:25.440 anything else on this subject? I don't know. 00:53:25.480 --> 00:53:27.639 I'm going to turn it over, well, we're going 00:53:27.639 --> 00:53:29.739 to turn it over to the lovely Siren and see what 00:53:29.739 --> 00:53:33.679 she has to throw. out to us all right now i know 00:53:33.679 --> 00:53:37.179 i just put you on the spot right there oh you 00:53:37.179 --> 00:53:41.000 know me i can figure out something to say um 00:53:41.000 --> 00:53:46.699 so i'm trying to think uh how to either wrap 00:53:46.699 --> 00:53:48.719 it up and put a bow on it or else start a whole 00:53:48.719 --> 00:53:51.099 new thing right you were kind of talking about 00:53:51.099 --> 00:53:56.019 the don't the things not to do so i wanted to 00:53:56.019 --> 00:53:58.980 see what chat gbt had to say about that according 00:53:58.980 --> 00:54:04.280 to um you know the prompts that we give it and 00:54:04.280 --> 00:54:06.980 it had some good things too you pretty much you 00:54:06.980 --> 00:54:12.079 know covered most of it but well i really just 00:54:12.079 --> 00:54:14.659 you know i really just get on one with the sexual 00:54:14.659 --> 00:54:17.139 aspect i mean there are more don'ts you know 00:54:17.139 --> 00:54:19.239 i mean there are more don'ts but here again go 00:54:19.239 --> 00:54:22.039 ahead There's a whole list here, like 10 things. 00:54:22.320 --> 00:54:24.760 But again, we can always post these in the show 00:54:24.760 --> 00:54:27.579 notes as well, just for, you know, more resources. 00:54:28.460 --> 00:54:31.840 So I won't go into them too deeply because, you 00:54:31.840 --> 00:54:34.320 know, I know we like to keep at an hour, but 00:54:34.320 --> 00:54:36.380 I can just read them off really quick. Like, 00:54:36.380 --> 00:54:40.960 do not chase validation. You know, like you were 00:54:40.960 --> 00:54:43.820 saying, don't walk into the room acting like 00:54:43.820 --> 00:54:47.659 you never had a piece of pussy. You know, do 00:54:47.659 --> 00:54:50.480 not cross people's boundaries. You know, honor 00:54:50.480 --> 00:54:54.719 what people say and let them grow with you in 00:54:54.719 --> 00:54:57.179 their comfortability to expand their boundaries 00:54:57.179 --> 00:55:01.739 with you. Don't bad mouth the husbands or partners. 00:55:01.940 --> 00:55:05.000 You know, that's just not a good looking vanilla 00:55:05.000 --> 00:55:09.179 world or in the lifestyle. You know, don't skip 00:55:09.179 --> 00:55:13.039 aftercare. You know, like emotional leadership 00:55:13.039 --> 00:55:16.940 includes. some some of that you know like afterwards 00:55:16.940 --> 00:55:19.159 it's like don't just jump up throw your clothes 00:55:19.159 --> 00:55:23.039 on and leave you know talk a little while you 00:55:23.039 --> 00:55:25.519 know make sure that everybody is leaving in a 00:55:25.519 --> 00:55:30.800 good in a good spot um don't post or share private 00:55:30.800 --> 00:55:34.400 content without full consent of the people that 00:55:34.400 --> 00:55:38.500 you have taken pictures of or recorded um You 00:55:38.500 --> 00:55:42.119 know, I so far have not seen any of my personal 00:55:42.119 --> 00:55:44.460 or heard of my personal stuff like getting out 00:55:44.460 --> 00:55:47.900 there. But that's a big one in the lifestyle. 00:55:47.940 --> 00:55:49.960 We take it very seriously in our relationship. 00:55:50.119 --> 00:55:53.920 Socrates has photos and videos from before he 00:55:53.920 --> 00:55:57.079 met me that he doesn't have their permission 00:55:57.079 --> 00:55:59.400 to share. So guess what? I've never seen them. 00:55:59.690 --> 00:56:02.869 And I don't want to because I respect people's 00:56:02.869 --> 00:56:05.730 privacy that much. And they're a lot more boring 00:56:05.730 --> 00:56:11.989 than the shit we do now. Let's just be real. 00:56:12.010 --> 00:56:14.329 Cause I was new, you know, I was new in the lifestyle. 00:56:14.409 --> 00:56:16.769 I'll just take, I'll take your word for it on 00:56:16.769 --> 00:56:19.010 that. But it's like, I don't, I don't have any, 00:56:19.030 --> 00:56:20.389 you know, some women would be like, well, that's 00:56:20.389 --> 00:56:23.260 my husband. I want to see. But I just am like, 00:56:23.360 --> 00:56:25.980 well, you know, it's more titties, ass, and pussy, 00:56:26.179 --> 00:56:28.900 okay, and different combinations. But it's like 00:56:28.900 --> 00:56:30.619 if those people don't want that shared, like 00:56:30.619 --> 00:56:34.840 don't share it, you know. Don't let your ego 00:56:34.840 --> 00:56:37.800 run the show, you know. Confidence is silent. 00:56:37.920 --> 00:56:40.739 Insecurity is loud. Stay grounded, you know. 00:56:41.980 --> 00:56:44.579 Don't lie about your status, your health, or 00:56:44.579 --> 00:56:48.199 your intentions. Honesty is huge, right? It's 00:56:48.199 --> 00:56:51.460 like. Don't be hiding the fact that you got a 00:56:51.460 --> 00:56:54.780 girlfriend or a wife or whatever your status 00:56:54.780 --> 00:56:57.920 is. Just be honest with people and let them make 00:56:57.920 --> 00:57:01.559 the decisions from there. And then obviously 00:57:01.559 --> 00:57:05.780 about your health. It's like we're a small community. 00:57:05.960 --> 00:57:09.820 And if we're not getting tested regularly, like 00:57:09.820 --> 00:57:12.320 you were talking about earlier, we're in protection. 00:57:13.079 --> 00:57:15.960 for the majority of the population you know can 00:57:15.960 --> 00:57:19.360 you expand your circumstance um you know taking 00:57:19.360 --> 00:57:22.179 good care of our health like socrates and i we 00:57:22.179 --> 00:57:25.059 always use protection and we still follow up 00:57:25.059 --> 00:57:29.179 with regimens of antibiotics and regular testing 00:57:29.179 --> 00:57:31.900 you know just to make sure that we're doing our 00:57:31.900 --> 00:57:35.760 part to keep our community safe um don't blur 00:57:35.760 --> 00:57:39.059 the line between seduction and manipulation seduction 00:57:39.059 --> 00:57:42.099 invites manipulation deceives going back to the 00:57:42.099 --> 00:57:46.809 op honesty and having integrity um and then don't 00:57:46.809 --> 00:57:49.349 do not enter this lifestyle if you can't handle 00:57:49.349 --> 00:57:53.989 rejection um and take responsibility for your 00:57:53.989 --> 00:57:56.510 own emotions you know there's you're going to 00:57:56.510 --> 00:58:00.630 get rejected um even me as a woman i wouldn't 00:58:00.630 --> 00:58:04.170 say i'm the hottest woman at splash but i don't 00:58:04.170 --> 00:58:07.519 think i'm i'll say i think i'm pretty Thanks, 00:58:07.940 --> 00:58:12.019 baby. I think I'm pretty damn good looking, though, 00:58:12.079 --> 00:58:15.579 you know, and I try to try to dress cute and 00:58:15.579 --> 00:58:19.820 keep up with myself. And being a huge slut doesn't 00:58:19.820 --> 00:58:24.519 hurt either. But you know what? Even I get rejected 00:58:24.519 --> 00:58:29.659 and even some of the best looking men get rejected 00:58:29.659 --> 00:58:31.920 for different reasons. So you've got to be able 00:58:31.920 --> 00:58:34.179 to take that rejection is that you're just not 00:58:34.179 --> 00:58:37.000 everyone's cup of tea. You know, and that's fine. 00:58:37.079 --> 00:58:40.960 And I've even kind of given guys permission to 00:58:40.960 --> 00:58:43.980 reject me. And I want to say something a little 00:58:43.980 --> 00:58:46.500 bit about that is like, sometimes the guy will 00:58:46.500 --> 00:58:48.460 be actually a little hesitant or it seems like 00:58:48.460 --> 00:58:50.400 we don't, you know, we're kind of not meeting 00:58:50.400 --> 00:58:53.659 up. And I'll tell him, I'll say, listen, it will 00:58:53.659 --> 00:58:56.719 not hurt my feelings if I am not your flavor. 00:58:57.420 --> 00:59:00.340 Please just say so, so I can move along to someone 00:59:00.340 --> 00:59:04.119 else that we are compatible. And vice versa, 00:59:04.239 --> 00:59:06.579 I'll do that to men. I'll say, listen, I don't 00:59:06.579 --> 00:59:08.460 want to waste your time because there is going 00:59:08.460 --> 00:59:11.260 to be a woman right around the corner here that 00:59:11.260 --> 00:59:14.340 is 100 % and wants to play with you and is an 00:59:14.340 --> 00:59:17.400 enthusiastic yes. I can't provide that enthusiastic 00:59:17.400 --> 00:59:21.320 yes. So I just want to be, and I'll counsel women 00:59:21.320 --> 00:59:24.219 to that effect too. I'll be like, don't say maybe 00:59:24.219 --> 00:59:28.840 later. Don't say, you know. another time or whatever. 00:59:28.980 --> 00:59:31.539 If you are not into them, just be straight and 00:59:31.539 --> 00:59:34.900 just say, the vibe's not there for me. I'm not 00:59:34.900 --> 00:59:36.960 interested in playing with you. Yeah, it's going 00:59:36.960 --> 00:59:39.900 to sting a little, but whether they have that 00:59:39.900 --> 00:59:41.980 little sting, let them grow and then be able 00:59:41.980 --> 00:59:46.019 to, you know, move on to somebody that is more 00:59:46.019 --> 00:59:48.340 excited about them. You know, that's all in. 00:59:49.599 --> 00:59:55.440 And to the brothers out there listening, if I 00:59:55.440 --> 01:00:00.789 meet someone, and I'm not their cup of tea, trust 01:00:00.789 --> 01:00:05.090 and believe. If I know a brother that does meet 01:00:05.090 --> 01:00:08.610 their criteria, I will reach out to you and ask. 01:00:08.789 --> 01:00:11.849 I'll send you a picture if they are good with 01:00:11.849 --> 01:00:14.849 that. Or if it's an event, I will bring you over 01:00:14.849 --> 01:00:19.130 to them, and I will gladly introduce you to them, 01:00:19.289 --> 01:00:23.449 and you take the lead from there, okay? Because 01:00:23.449 --> 01:00:27.619 here again, it's all about everybody. everybody 01:00:27.619 --> 01:00:32.260 being happy it's all about uh um when i say we 01:00:32.260 --> 01:00:35.380 are brothers we are brothers you know and just 01:00:35.380 --> 01:00:37.179 because somebody doesn't like me or maybe don't 01:00:37.179 --> 01:00:39.480 like my look doesn't mean i'm just gonna like 01:00:39.480 --> 01:00:43.800 you know get mad and oh this and you know the 01:00:43.800 --> 01:00:47.199 event and all that no no no no i i will more 01:00:47.199 --> 01:00:51.139 than you know uh more than be happy to go and 01:00:51.139 --> 01:00:54.039 find somebody and you know for that couple so 01:00:55.309 --> 01:00:57.110 here again that's part of being a brotherhood 01:00:57.110 --> 01:01:00.849 also of being in the brotherhood can i just say 01:01:00.849 --> 01:01:03.289 you know and i know i'm biased y 'all i am blown 01:01:03.289 --> 01:01:07.250 away by my wife right now lord she just hit twice 01:01:07.250 --> 01:01:13.949 like omg those two things you know the the don'ts 01:01:13.949 --> 01:01:18.110 and that quality mommy oh my goodness and so 01:01:18.909 --> 01:01:21.409 You just stepped my game up. I'm sitting there 01:01:21.409 --> 01:01:23.670 like I can't wait to listen to this episode again 01:01:23.670 --> 01:01:27.309 and take notes. I'm being serious. Like, you 01:01:27.309 --> 01:01:29.789 know, I'm excited about that. And you know what, 01:01:29.829 --> 01:01:32.929 audience? I really want to hear from you about 01:01:32.929 --> 01:01:35.349 with this episode. You know, by the time this 01:01:35.349 --> 01:01:37.869 comes out, we'll have our social media up. You 01:01:37.869 --> 01:01:42.630 know, you have our email, thebullbrotherhoodatgmail 01:01:42.630 --> 01:01:44.969 .com. I really want to hear from you guys on 01:01:44.969 --> 01:01:47.440 this one because. I learned a lot myself and 01:01:47.440 --> 01:01:50.519 my wife did not tell me she had these things 01:01:50.519 --> 01:01:55.659 in mind. And I'm excited. I really am. I feel 01:01:55.659 --> 01:01:59.219 the same way. I feel the same way, nephew. Like 01:01:59.219 --> 01:02:01.820 I said, she took it. She took it and ran with 01:02:01.820 --> 01:02:05.039 it when she broke down the word quality. She 01:02:05.039 --> 01:02:08.940 really did. And I have nothing else to say. I 01:02:08.940 --> 01:02:10.980 really didn't. I had nothing else to say. Well, 01:02:11.019 --> 01:02:15.219 you gave me some direction in the text. You know, 01:02:15.260 --> 01:02:18.659 we always text each other, the three of us, before. 01:02:19.539 --> 01:02:23.719 And, you know, Brian is where he is. We live 01:02:23.719 --> 01:02:26.619 where we live. And I happen to be out of town 01:02:26.619 --> 01:02:31.980 right now visiting a quality bull. And so I was 01:02:31.980 --> 01:02:33.719 looking at the text message, and you gave the 01:02:33.719 --> 01:02:37.860 marching orders, and I just tried to. to come 01:02:37.860 --> 01:02:41.099 up to that level. So that is it. That is it. 01:02:41.139 --> 01:02:43.940 It helps. I had a little inspiration this afternoon 01:02:43.940 --> 01:02:50.460 for myself. So that's good. That is good. That 01:02:50.460 --> 01:02:53.300 is good. And again, going into this episode. 01:02:53.920 --> 01:02:56.940 Right. You're right. And again, ladies and gentlemen, 01:02:57.000 --> 01:03:00.159 it's, it's what Socrates said. We do want to 01:03:00.159 --> 01:03:04.739 hear your feedback from this episode, as well 01:03:04.739 --> 01:03:07.880 as all of the episodes. I feel like we are getting 01:03:07.880 --> 01:03:11.880 better and better with each episode. And we're 01:03:11.880 --> 01:03:14.800 just excited about what the future brings for 01:03:14.800 --> 01:03:17.139 not only the Bull Brotherhood, but for the Siren 01:03:17.139 --> 01:03:20.099 podcast also, for the Siren of Freedom podcast 01:03:20.099 --> 01:03:24.659 also. In the future, we want to have couples 01:03:24.659 --> 01:03:30.400 up here as guests. We want to have some more 01:03:30.400 --> 01:03:33.159 bulls up here, you know, from here again, from 01:03:33.159 --> 01:03:36.710 all walks of life. from the hot wife lifestyle, 01:03:36.849 --> 01:03:40.670 from guys who just experienced swinging, et cetera, 01:03:40.710 --> 01:03:43.150 et cetera. And we want to hear from everybody. 01:03:43.989 --> 01:03:46.510 We want to bring everybody into this world that 01:03:46.510 --> 01:03:50.190 we love so much because it's all about family 01:03:50.190 --> 01:03:52.849 in the end. It's all about family. It's all about 01:03:52.849 --> 01:03:54.530 having fun. It's all about making connection. 01:03:54.829 --> 01:03:59.510 It is all about making those couples feel as 01:03:59.510 --> 01:04:03.769 special as possible and enriching their marriage. 01:04:04.460 --> 01:04:07.500 enriching and enhancing their marriage as a quality 01:04:07.500 --> 01:04:10.860 boy. If my family doesn't have anything else 01:04:10.860 --> 01:04:15.739 to comment about, do you guys? No, I'm good. 01:04:15.960 --> 01:04:19.320 I think you put the bow on it. Both of you are 01:04:19.320 --> 01:04:23.059 good? Well, I guess we're going to call this 01:04:23.059 --> 01:04:26.179 one a night, ladies and gentlemen. And if my 01:04:26.179 --> 01:04:28.239 nephew would, go ahead and hit that music so 01:04:28.239 --> 01:04:34.269 I can do my exit here again. Thank you so much 01:04:34.269 --> 01:04:37.750 for another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood 01:04:37.750 --> 01:04:40.670 podcast. We look forward to talking to everyone 01:04:40.670 --> 01:04:44.349 again very, very soon. And of course, to all 01:04:44.349 --> 01:04:47.050 my brothers of the Brotherhood, I bid you guys 01:04:47.050 --> 01:04:51.510 good night. And as always, to all my lovely hot 01:04:51.510 --> 01:04:56.289 wives out there, I bid you good morning. Again, 01:04:56.449 --> 01:04:59.789 have a great night. Have a great rest of the 01:04:59.789 --> 01:05:02.510 week. All right, we love you, and we'll talk 01:05:02.510 --> 01:05:04.250 to you again soon. Good night.