The second one is physical. Uncovered a lot of
it, you know. Get your breath right. Do your
hair. Have a style of dress. Iron your clothes,
right? Wash your ass. All that kind of stuff,
right? But what I want to talk about... Wash
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to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
and gentlemen, good evening and welcome to another
informative episode of the Girl Brotherhood Podcast.
I'm the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, along
with the family, the lovely Siren. Say hello.
Hello, everyone. And of course, my nephew himself
and my brother from another mother, the informative
Socrates, the perpetual student. What's up, brother?
What's good? What's good? We ready to learn today.
We're going to learn you today. Absolutely. Audience,
ladies and gentlemen, we have a real doozy tonight
because you often hear me use the word quality
in a lot of my references when I'm talking about
a particular bull. I think everyone who's in
this lifestyle, whether new or mid -card or you're
a seasoned veteran, as far as couples are concerned,
you know about. the BBC bull. You know, you meet
those guys when you go to different events. They
are your one and done. They're strictly there
to just provide the sexual pleasure, you know,
i .e. the dick, and maybe that's it. You know
about the dominant bull. The bull that comes
in there, he takes the lead in the relationship,
you know, and the hot wife really, she becomes
submissive to his needs. You heard me talk about
the alpha bull, okay? That bull is a little bit
different. He provides more of, say, the boyfriend
experience. But when I say what is a quality
bull, that word quality means this individual,
this bull brings everything to the table. He
brings everything. He brings the physical. He
brings the emotional. He brings... He just brings
that it, that aura to the table. And he makes
a couple just go home and be like, well, I just
can't do without this guy. So we're going to
discuss that tonight. This podcast is aimed more
for my new bulls out there who are just coming
into this life, as well as what I call my mid
-carters. You're not a newbie, but you're not
necessarily, you haven't been around the block
a lot also. So here again. I'm going to start
it off with asking my perpetual student, Socrates,
to give me his definition of what that word quality
means before we bring him into the bull lifestyle.
Yes, sir. Yes, sir. So I think of several things.
I'm just going to use a pattern that I always
use, which is I always start from the spiritual
or the ethereal down to the mental, then the
emotional, then the physical. I don't want to
get too religious with the spiritual. It's more
about a state of being, who you are as an individual,
and who you should be as a leader. A bull is
there to lead the hot wife and husband or cuckold
and cuckoldress through a journey, right? It
could be a scene. It could be, you know, a date,
a scene in the bedroom. on a scene out, you know,
walking, it's about leadership. And that requires
a vision. And it doesn't have to be like, you
know, it doesn't have to be this grandiose vision.
You know, it could be like, how do you want the
night to go? Like, how do you want this relationship
to go? You know? So it's like, what can you do
to lead them through this journey? So that's
who I think you should be. Outstanding. Sounds
great to me. Here again, the qualities of a bull,
of an ideal bull. One of the qualities that I
think about is, and here again, I'm talking about
myself first and foremost, because I've been
in this for a very, very long time. I think about
the word discretion. I'm very, very discreet,
very, very discreet. I am very, very mindful
of what a couple wants, what their desires are.
but I'm also very, very mindful of their personal
life. And also when I think about the word quality,
I refer to myself as like always, I'm always
on time when I meet a couple, whether it's a
first meet or if it's a, you know, veteran meet.
Always on time. I'm always there to do, first
and foremost, my job. And that's in quotes, J
-O -B meaning. i'm there to provide an experience
whether it's a boyfriend experience or whether
it is just a sexual experience or it's both i'm
there to do my job also i have i will always
remember to never interfere or like get involved
in your personal life i always remember hey these
guys have jobs they have families so you you
know discretion is is a must. So that's one of
the first things that I think about when I think
of a quality bull. Socrates, what is a, what
is a trait that you think about? So, yeah, getting
back to the mental part of it, I think of one
word framework. Now, if you're familiar in the
red pill community, talk about frame a lot. And
what frame simply means is like, What do you
bring as your entire life that that couple is
stepping into? In other words, you have values.
You have a standard. You have things you do and
you don't do. You have a way you do it and a
way you don't do it. If that's down, now you
might be a nerd like me and have it written down
and down to a science and steps and what you
need to do. Or you might just come naturally
like, You know, where it's like you've developed
it over time. Right. But I think when you're
thinking right, who you're being or spirit should
be one of leadership. But the thought process
should always be a framework of what they are
coming into. Does that make sense? Absolutely.
I think I've said it before that, you know, you
you're coming into an already existing loving
relationship. So, yeah, you are bringing something
to the table because they're looking for you
to eventually take charge. Maybe not at first
when you first meet somebody, but they are looking
to see, okay, what does he bring to the table
that is going to make us just go gaga, in other
words. So I definitely understand what you're
talking about. One of the things that I do that
I think a lot of bulls – don't do at first. I
think bulls do a lot of listening to what the
couple wants and what the couple desires and
needs, but I don't think they ask a lot of questions.
I don't think they ask a lot of questions. I'm
getting like you now, student, when I say asking
questions, and I ask questions to determine the
couple's expectations. And not only the couple's
expectations, but to determine my expectations
also. Because here again, I am bringing something
to the table. And really what a bull is bringing
to the table is something that is, I'm going
to say the word superior to what they're already
used to, but not in a bad way. You understand
what I'm saying? I'm bringing something that
is above what they already know. And that is
why, you know, I have to ask a lot of questions.
I have to find out what the do's, the don'ts
are from them. And they need to know what I am
comfortable with, what I am not comfortable with.
But at the same time, they need to know that
I'm also open -minded. I'm open to all of the
possibilities. So, yeah, I mean, what do you
think about that as far as like the questions?
Oh, I love it. And you know me, I mean. I'm always
asking questions. I used to get in trouble for
asking. Yeah. And that's, that's part of that
framework I was talking about. Like that's me
and me and your framework when we, and you know,
the people that we know that we admire, you know,
Michael C, uh, pagan, those cats, people that
we know that are quality bull. I haven't met
one that doesn't start off with a million questions.
Right. Exactly. Yeah. So it's like when you start
off and you add asking a lot of questions to
your framework, what that does is it tells them
this person is genuinely interested in me and
he's genuinely going to try to tailor an experience
based on our needs. And that allows the woman
to shut her mind off, you know, because what
you want is the woman, the hot wife or the cuckoldress.
the unicorn, whatever you're, whatever you're
interacting with to shut her mind off and reboot.
And, um, and, and when you have that as your
framework, then that really, and then what happens
is, is they're way more open to your leadership,
right? There you go. And what, and, and you,
you saying that that brings me up to, to another
quality. Um, I don't go into anything like seeking
romance, you know, from the couple, you know,
from the hot wife. But, but, and this is a big
but in capital letters, if emotions do get involved,
I never ever try to compete or replace the husband.
I think that is something that has made me very,
very successful over the years. It definitely
made me successful with... you know my couple
now um philip and lindsey he knows that although
i am you know crazy about lindsey and we are
very very close he knows that i'm never ever
trying to replace him in any way shape or form
uh he is always hubby i will always you know
go through him for certain things and that works
that works every time so what you were saying
that just kind of blending in with that you know
seeking the romance and how the meat can evolve
over time and it can turn into something that
might be a little bit heavier than what you thought
you were getting into. Right, right. Another
thing, I think that quality bull has to learn
or know everything there is to know about the
lifestyle. I'm not saying you got to be a perfectionist,
but you have to know a lot about this world that
we live in. And you got to know a lot about yourself.
You need to know exactly what you bring to the
table that is good. You need to know exactly
what you're not good at, but can possibly get
better at. And then you need to know what, you
know, hey, I'm not really good at this. And be
able to say, you know, look, people, I've never
experienced something like this before. But here
again, I'm willing to branch out and try, you
know, and be open -minded. Your thoughts? You
know what? I love it because that happened to
me at Utopia. Shout out to my boy Michael C and
his Utopia team when we went there and we were
kind of part of the staff. And when I did have
a little bit of time to play, which is something
I won't be doing in the future, thanks to my
uncle. But I did say that. I said, hey, this
is... a new experience for me, and, you know,
whatever the situation was. And they were very
open. And what I'm surprised at, Unc, is that
you would think as a new bull that saying that
would diminish your position as a leader. And
surprisingly, it didn't. It actually gave me
a lot more authority. And I want you to speak
on that before I kind of keep going on what I
think a quality bull is. Why doesn't it diminish
your position as a leader when you're telling
them, hey, this is a new experience, but I'm
willing to learn and let's rock and keep going?
Because you're letting them, you're letting,
in my opinion, you're letting that couple know
that, hey, although I've been in this game for
quite some time, you know, I don't, I'm not afraid
to say that I don't know everything. And that
lets a couple know that, hey, this guy's real.
He's very, very real. He's not trying to be somebody
that he's not. He's letting me know that, hey,
I don't know everything, but here again, I am
willing to learn and try and be open -minded
and become the absolute best bull, confidant,
whatever you want to be to that couple. Because
like I said, the majority of the couples in this
lifestyle now, They're not looking just for that
BBC bull. They might be looking for that when
they go to different events, i .e. Splash. But
the majority of couples now, they're looking
for, here again, the boyfriend experience. They
want somebody they can call their guy, their
bull. So, you know, if I came into a situation
just saying that, okay, yeah, I've done this,
I've done that, I know everything, absolutely
everything. Guess what? I am to that. couple
probably i'm i'm i'm boring i'm boring because
they're like okay well maybe we don't measure
up to this guy you know he's done every damn
thing um that's kind of a turnoff but if you
come in there though like i said you are a seasoned
vet but at the same time there might be a few
things that you have not done but you do want
to experience it with the right couple so that's
how i feel about that i love it love it I tell
you what, we've gone over a few things so far.
I would love to hear from the lovely Siren, your
better half. Are you there, baby girl? I am.
Give us your thoughts on what we've talked about
so far, please. Give the audience some feedback.
First, I want the audience to get out a pen and
a piece of paper. And I want you to write out
the letters of the word quality. And I'm going
to go over each letter. and give you something
for each letter. And so what I have for Q is
quiet confidence. A quality bull lets the results
speak louder than his mouth. There's so many
guys out there that run their mouth about what
they're going to do to you and how great it's
going to be. But a quality bull will bring in
that quiet confidence and just show you what
it's all about. For the letter U, we have unshakable
standards. No shortcuts, no sloppiness. And that's
what being part of the Bull Brotherhood is all
about, is the standards, the ethics for, you
know, from everything from you guys, from the
communication to the quality of play that you
bring, you know, to the ethical standards. A,
assertive presence. You own every room, every
play situation, every moment. You, even like
Socrates was talking about, like even if you
have something where you have to communicate
that an experience is new for you, you're still
assertive with that. You're unapologetic and
you just bring that presence. to the room that
you're in um oh you lead like a lion calm powerful
protective especially you mr morgan with your
couple um i see that you're calm you're powerful
you're protective of lindsay um but you also
are calming to philip as the husband and i think
that is amazing and just such a great example
of that leading. Um, I, you invest in mastery,
like skill isn't optional is expected in this
lifestyle and you know, everybody got to start
somewhere. Right. But that quality bowl will
invest in that mastery. And that's what you guys
have done. And that's why we have this podcast
is because you two have invested in that mastery
and now you're trying to help. other bulls to
do that um and then t you take let's take the
damn responsibility no blaming no whining you
know if the situation goes a different direction
just take the responsibility of that there's
nothing hot than a hotter than a man that can
say sorry apologize or you know just be like
hey You know, I didn't prepare quite right for
this play date today. Or, you know, I'm sorry
that I was late. Or, you know, whatever. Whatever
the circumstance may be, just take responsibility
for your actions. Don't blame others. Well, if
you would have wore that lingerie, then my dick
would have got harder. You know, whatever. Just
take the responsibility. Be the man in the room.
And then lastly, the why. You set the bar. And
others will follow where you lead. And that's
what you do for your couples, for your, you know,
one -on -one. It's like, set the standard, you
know? Like, there was a bull that got a hotel
room for me the other day. Like, I walked in.
It's a fucking suite. Like, this is our first
hotel play date, you know? It was amazing. You
know, he had the drinks out and this and that
and everything prepared. He set the standard.
And now I'm like, wow. All right. Well, I need
to I need to bump my bar a little higher because
that was a great experience, you know. And when
you show that it's the standard in different
areas that. You know, some guys will complain.
A bull that's not quality will complain and be,
oh, you're making it hard for the rest of us,
man. No. Step your fucking game up. It's not
that you have to spend a lot of money like that
with the suite. I understand everybody has different
budgets, but you can set an amazing standard
with whatever income level you're at. There's
lots of ways to set a great standard. It's not
just with what you do with the woman or the couple.
As far as taking someone to dinner or doing the
different things to give that boyfriend experience.
you know that's the the communication that you
bring um how you speak to the woman um how you're
respectful but all of that you know really just
sums up the whole package of just setting the
bar and um others following you and that's what
you and socrates have both done so that's what
i have so far on the matter ladies and gentlemen
one word damn How do we, how do we go on after
that? I don't know. I'm ready to be done. Let's
just close it down. That was fire. Oh my goodness.
Did she not just put the stamp on everything
that we were saying and, and to have, to have,
you know, and what an acronym for, for the, you
know, for quality. That's. that needs to be written
down and like post it we'll put it in the show
notes exactly that needs to be written down to
you guys beautiful because i mean that's it right
there in a nutshell that is it that is what quality
truly means in this in this lifestyle for a book
you know what you are I used my friend ChatGBT
to make that. That's okay. That's okay. I could
kill this. I could kill this. What's super cool
is that we have programmed our ChatGBT for both
of our podcasts, The Siren of Freedom and The
Bull Brotherhood. Socrates has done that. So
when I knew what I wanted to create with it,
and then it asked me some questions, you know,
do you want something sassier? I can even remix
it for, you know, the Siren of Freedom or Bull
Brotherhood tone. And I said, a little sassier,
but male -dominated. And it says, here's a sassier,
male -dominated version of quality. Something
a strong, competent, and emotionally intelligent
man, like the Bulls on the Bull Brotherhood,
would stand behind. Confident, no fluff, and
no apologies. You heard it here first, ladies
and gentlemen. We are here teaching you chat
GBT prompts and stuff. Yeah. But I was just like,
if that didn't nail it on the head, because you
know, everything that we've been talking about,
it really just, you know, brought it into the
acronym. I love acronyms. That's my kind of nerdiness
right there. Well, I do too. So that's why, that's
why I was like, damn, I couldn't say no, but
damn after that, that really does break down
what quality. is, you know, for this lifestyle.
And like I said, whether you are a newbie, you
know, just starting out, or if you are a seasoned
vet, that is what needs to be brought to the
table every time you meet a couple or you meet
a single. But here again, we're talking about
couples now. When you meet a couple, you need
to exemplify all of that. All of that. And it's
not hard, gentlemen. It is not hard. Like I said,
look at yourself first. Look at yourself in the
mirror, okay? And say to yourself, you know,
what kind of man am I? That's first and foremost.
What kind of man am I? You know, do I get up
in the morning? Do I have that discipline to
get up in the morning? Do I, and here again I'm
talking about myself, do I practice the body
game? Okay, do I go to the gym? Do I work out?
Do I make myself look as... as my genetic makeup
will allow me to look, okay? Here again, I'm
going on 60 years old, but there aren't too many
people my age that look the way I look right
now. There aren't. And I'm not trying to toot
my own horn, but hell, nephew, you're what, 53,
54? Yes, sir. I'll toot it for you guys. Toot,
toot. You know what I mean? So this game, this
life that we're talking about, You have more
guys in it and ladies. You have more ladies and
gentlemen in it that are what I call the mature,
the real mature people of, you know, over 40,
really over 45. And, hell, that's another damn
podcast. Also, nephew, we're going to talk about
the evolution of a bull soon, real soon. But
back to what I was saying, though, you have people
that are 40, 45, 50. and above, we're representing
in this life. We're the ones that are representing.
Your 20 -somethings, what percentage do you think
are in their 20s that come to splash? Ooh, maybe
about 5%, 10%. Yeah, I don't think it's a big
number. But when you get to your 30s, it gets
a little higher. But when you get to your mature
level, 40 and over, that's what's representing.
at these you know at these events and like i
said a lot of the bulls they are 40 some 50 and
over so you know are you staying are you getting
are you you doing what you have to do to keep
yourself a looking 120 feeling 120 being able
to perform 120 you know because here again when
you get 50 and over we start thinking about men
our testosterone levels they do drop Certain
things do happen, you know, but you can correct
that with certain, you know, medicines and stuff.
And I'm talking about testosterone replacement
therapy. I am glad to say that I'm on it. I have
been on it now for a little over a year. It does
amazing things for you. But, you know, are you
practicing everything, like Siren said, that
acronym quality? Are you doing what it takes
to get in front of a couple and they look at
you and be like, okay. That's a grown -ass man
standing in front of me right now talking to
us. I mean, simple, to a T. Am I right or wrong?
Amen. Well, I spelled it out for you. If you
can spell the word quality, that's why I said
let's just spell it out. Let's just spell it
out. I love things like that. I love a checklist.
I love a roadmap that I can follow, steps. And
there's seven steps for you. There you go. There
you go. Beautiful. Beautiful. Nephew, I know
you got a million questions, as you always do.
I want to hear them. I want to hear them. Siren,
you're in here now. We both want to hear. Audience,
I know you want to hear also. Take it away. Well,
I wanted to finish the other two, and then I
do have a lot of questions. Go ahead. So the
other two is emotions and physical. And you covered
a lot of the physical, but I do have something
to say about that. Emotion is really easy. Emotional
intelligence. There's a book with that same title.
I highly recommend. There's two books, actually,
I think, with that title. I recommend both. And
emotional intelligence is just about being able
to manage and control your emotions. And as a
leader, With frame, right, with who's looking
to be quality, you have to be able to manage
your emotions. The cuck or cuckoldress or somebody
might feel a little uncomfortable. They might
lose their temper. They might feel scared or
fear or insecurity. And you have to keep composure
about yourself. I think we'd love to, I'd love
to do another podcast on this as far as what
are the basic characteristics of emotional intelligence
and how bulls can execute that. We won't talk
about that now, but I do highly recommend that
you read those books. I'll put those book titles
in the show notes and links to those books. The
second one is physical. Uncovered a lot of it,
you know. Get your breath right. Do your hair.
Learn, have a style of dress. Iron your clothes,
right? Wash your ass. All that kind of stuff,
right? But what I want to talk about. Wash your
ass. And your balls. And your balls. And your
balls, for the love of God. Please. I .E. Impeccable
hygiene. Impeccable hygiene. You want to be very,
very clean. And let me elaborate on that word
clean. Not just the cleanliness of the. exterior
of the body, but also the cleanliness of the
interior of the body. I mean, you know what I'm
talking about? Free of all STDs. Okay. It is
not hard to go and get an HIV test and a STD
test. I do it every 30 days. Okay. Because here
again, I can, I cannot wear condoms. I can't
wear condoms due to a severe allergy, but that
is me. OK, I think you should, you know, use
condoms if you can. Always, always, always have
the safety of your couple in mind. OK, as well
as yourself. But first and foremost, the safety
of that couple. So be clean outside as well as
inside. Again, outside as well as inside. That's
what that cleaning is all about. Anything else
on that? Oh, yeah. I can't say any more out of
pain. What you just said, wash your ass. You
know what I mean? Brush your teeth. Okay? Brush
your teeth. If you're a bald man, hey, have the
most immaculate bald head like I do in the world.
Okay? I shave every day. I like people to see
my face, so I'm always clean shaved. Your appearance
is everything. It goes along with what I said,
the body game. You know, you don't have to laugh.
look like a bodybuilder or anything like that,
but have some, have some pride in your appearance,
have some pride in your appearance. Um, she might
not come out and say, well, you know, that doesn't
appeal to me as far as, you know, you have a
beautiful body and all that. She's lying. They're
lying. Okay. They like to see something that
looks good when you take your clothes off. Period.
Facts. I want to jump in. I think that's a joke.
Please. Please jump in. I knew you were going
to say something. That's why I said what I said.
Oh man, because this is my jam, okay? Because
I think so, I think I agree with you. I agree
with you saying that they should take the best
care of themselves that is genetically possible,
right? Exactly. And obviously, you know, it's
appealing to have someone who makes the effort
to take care of themselves. But I want to say
that I enjoy a wide variety of body types on
men. And even some of the men, I call them full
-bodied. On women, we'd call them thick, right?
But on men, I call it full -bodied. And I enjoy
that because it's like... just comfy and there's
something comforting about that, that cushion,
you know? And so I don't want any of the, the,
the more full -bodied men to feel discouraged
if they are, you know, doing the best or, you
know, need to make life changes because I enjoy
a wide variety of body types on men. And, and
there will be more full -bodied men that won't
take their shirt off. during play they'll just
you know they'll be naked from the waist down
and I always make them take their shirt off you
know I'm like take your shirt off you know like
I want to see it all like I'm here for it all
and I think in the same way that you know women
like we're thicker we've we've got some stretch
marks we've got a fat roller too here and there
um you know but it's about our health and our
and our efforts right and you men you know just
lifting us up and and attracted and um worshiping
the body that we have you know the skin that
we're in i think that confidence no matter what
your meat suit looks like is the most important
thing and then taking care of your health and
then you know obviously there's going to be many
women who i mean we all we all love some muscles
Right. But I just want to say that I enjoy personally
a wide variety of body types on that. Can I jump
in there? Of course. Of course. But I knew she
was going to chime in, though. I knew when I
said that I knew your wife was going to come
back with that because I've heard her say before
she loves a wide variety, you know, and she's
one of the she's one of the few. I know there
are more ladies out there who do. uh, level wide
variety, but siren, you are one of the ones who
actually comes out. You really do say, you know,
I, I, I admire, um, quote unquote, the thick
body or the dad bod, you know, compared to just
being, you know, muscular and, and, and athletic
and stuff like that. So that's a, that's a shout
out to you. It is really a shout out to you ladies
again, uh, listen to the sound of freedom podcast.
Okay. Become a member of her sisterhood because
you will learn a lot. But nephew, go ahead. Yeah,
so I want to actually bring both of you guys'
statements together. So, you know, me being the
nerd, I'm going to bring some science in here.
So, one, I'm just like Siren on the other end.
I prefer thicker women, but I love them all shapes
and sizes. And I like them white, black, brown,
Puerto Rican, a Haitian with good conversation.
You know what I mean? So let me just put that
out there. I love them all. I love them all.
And here's the science behind it. And this is
all based on evolutionary psychology. So if you
don't believe in that, it's fine. But this is
also, there's also other research that proves
these through. you know, self testing or people
giving their own testimony or opinions about
what they believe in. A man only has to focus
on one thing. Now that doesn't mean there isn't
other things to worry about, but if you're concerned
about your looks, it's your shoulder to waist
ratio. So you could be a bigger guy, but like
me, ever since I turned like 35, I've struggled
with gaining weight in my midsection. A lot of
it is because I be snacking too much. But that
is the truth. Let me say this, nephew. Every
man, every man, regardless of his genetic makeup,
whether he's muscular, i .e. a mesomorph, if
he's an endomorph, kind of a little body fat,
or if he's skinny, we all generally hold our...
Fat once we get 40 and over or 50 and over in
the same Part of the body the midsection. Okay.
I am fighting. I am fighting. I am fighting right
now You know me I am fighting so hard. I don't
care how many damn At workouts I do. I don't
care how clean I eat or whatever It is just that's
just the genetic makeup of a man, you know, so
it is what it is But here again, I didn't mean
to interrupt. Keep going. No, no. We need to
say that. So work on that, and there's things
you could do to work on that. The testosterone
will help you, right? A lot of it's based on
cortisol that you're putting out there. Check
your diet. You don't have to be some crazy. meathead
gym guy who's in the diet all the time, which
me and the Sigma male here, we try to go to the
gym at least four or five times a day. But if
you can focus on your shoulders and build your
shoulders up a lot while you're trying to work
on your midsection, that will really help you.
And the same for women. You know, we're talking
about bulls, but really quick, it's waist to
hip ratio. And here's a scientific fact you can
look up. Most men. Don't care about the size
as long as it's an hourglass figure. So it could
be a three -hour glass figure, a two -hour glass
figure, a one -hour glass figure. Scientifically
proven that men go to the hip to, I mean, the
waist to hip ratio. So going back to bulls, physically,
we talked about the emotional challenges. Physically,
focus on that. And then I want to add something
else. Another thing, a subject we're going to
be talking about in the future, especially with
my man, Pagan. because he's the best at this,
is peacocking. And what peacocking is, it comes
from the pickup artist community. If you guys
haven't already figured out, I am a student of
the Manosphere or the Red Pill, the pickup artist
community. Not that I believe in them. You know,
these are the Andrew Tates of the world, the
Sterling, I think his last name is, what's Sterling's
last name that me and you like to follow, Unc?
He's a bull. You're talking about Cooper. Sterling
Cooper, yeah. Sterling Cooper. So these guys
also teach whether you walk in in a suit, suited
and booted, or you walk in there in a jumpsuit,
or you walk in there with a top hat, you want
to have a signature look. Now, my signature look
a lot of times is I'm just plain. I'm just black
from the top down. My signature look a lot of
times is not to have a signature look. But when
you have some form of a look, that distinguishes
you from everybody else, right? What I like,
there's this really cool guy, I think he's even
Green Beret, that shows up, and I won't mention
any other details, but he shows up and he dresses
like he is in the military. Every time I see
him, he's got something on that has some kind
of fatigue or something that lets you know he's
military. And that is kind of his way of... Peacocking,
you know? So, you know, me and the Sigma male,
we kind of like simple looks. You know, whenever
I go to an event, if they have a theme, I try
to dress up. A lot of guys don't, but I do. I
like doing that. You know, but I would definitely.
I like it. I like doing it with you. Yeah, we
love doing it. We always go to our room. And
if it's a theme night, we always just together,
we try to do it together as a team. And that's
my way of peacocking. I'm playing when I'm not,
and then I'll go all out when it comes to a theme.
So that's, that's, that's what I got on all four
of those. So if you want, I'd love to move into
some of the questions, you know, I got. Go right
ahead, bro. What are your. Excuse me, Siren,
you got anything else to add? Well, I was just
going to say that the guy that comes to mind
as having a very signature look for himself is
Dimitri at Splash Mocha. And that's why I call
him Dapper Dan. He talked about that on his episode.
But he just has this certain style about him.
It's not flashy or anything crazy, but it's very
unique. And it's put together. every single time,
whether he's just being more casual or he's being
a little more dressed up. So that's all I was
thinking about. That's the first person that
popped to mind. Dimitri is the signature for,
like I said, the Dapper Dan look. Myself along
with Mr. Mocha, both of us being fitness trainers
and fitness guys. We like to wear, you know,
our fitness stuff that, like, is usually dark
and everything contours, you know, shows off
the body. But at the same time, though, when
it comes to the evening events, no, I don't do
the theme. I don't do the theme. But I do like
to bring out my, as Socrates saw me, you know,
with the slacks and, you know, the shirt and,
you know, the nice shoes and stuff. Not like
I'm necessarily going to a club, but just let
everybody know that, hey, he can dress. He can
come out looking, you know, signature also. Yeah,
I love it. So my first question to you, Unc,
is what are some of the don'ts that you would
tell every bull, no matter what, you know, if
it's BBC or a white bull or any other race or
any kind of gentleman in this lifestyle, what
are some of the things that you would say, don't
do that? Do not go in there and everything that
comes out of your mouth when you first meet a
couple is referencing you guys having sex. Never,
ever do that. Never. I don't care if you're at
a splash smoking event. Don't do that. It's one
thing to go to an event and you're a newbie.
And it's another thing to hit an event and you
are just as thirsty as the wives who are there.
This is a wife event. We expect the wives to
come there and they are thirsty. But don't you
come in there like you've never had a piece of
pussy before in your damn life. So that's one
of the key things right there that just turns
me the hell off. A, you're bouncing around like
a pinball and everything that comes out of your
mouth when you... talk to a wife or to a couple
is you know a how big my dick is uh what i'll
do to the wife um that just total turn off that
is like the number one pet peeve of mine number
one well i like it i like it um do you think
a newbie so let's say If people don't, you know,
if you've heard the episode, if people have heard
the episode, you know, I started off as a newbie
bull after my divorce. And I listened to the
Keys and Anklets. And I listened to Stag Stable,
I think. I don't think he's doing anything. Really
cool bull out of Arizona. Doctor. Super cool
guy. And I went online and I called myself a
bull. I was in the lifestyle before, but I had
never been a bull. Do you think a newbie, first
time, he wants to get online or wants to present
himself at a club, whatever, do you think a man
should call himself a bull if he's never had
a bull experience when he's out there online
or getting himself out there? Or should he just
be like a manicorn or an individual or a single
guy until he gets some... you know, bull chops
under his belt. Nephew, he is a civilian. He
is a civilian until he earns his bull title.
We always got to bring it back to the military
around here, folks. He is a civilian, okay? He's
got to go through, just like in the military,
you got to earn your stripes through basic training,
first and foremost. Then you got to learn the
skills, i .e. the job. Then you got to get a
duty station and perform those skills. Okay.
And then you got to go to events like a splash
mocha and other things that would be a deployment.
So he is a civilian until he earns his stripes.
When he earns those stripes, then we can anoint
him or promote him to the rank of bull. Oh, I
like that. I can't wait to start getting some
feedback on emails because we're going to get
some pushback on that one for sure. But we standing
on business around here, y 'all. Ten toes down.
Exactly. Exactly. Again, this podcast is not
to put down any of my brothers out there, okay,
of the brotherhood. It's not to put you down,
but it is to make you realize that. This, you
know, this term, this moniker, whatever you want
to call it, when you call yourself a bull, you
have earned it. You have earned it. And it is
not for everybody. This isn't for everybody.
This is not, I say again, this is not for every
male out there. Okay? Can you learn this? Yes,
you can. But it takes time. It takes patience.
It takes time. It takes fuck ups. Okay, when
you mess up, hey, like the beautiful siren said,
own up to it. You effed up, you know, but learn
from your mistakes. Come back. Try it again.
Because guess what? You will fail a few times
in this before you get your equation, what works
for you, correct. Believe me, I know. I do know.
So here again, you know, if you didn't like what
I just said, hey. It is what it is. But yes,
you are a civilian until you earn that term of
bull. Keep it going, nephew. One of the things
that I pride myself on as the, you know, as the,
you know, editor and project manager and everything
is that I really do think this is going to be
valuable to every man out there, vanilla or lifestyle.
you know single or married and one of the reasons
why is because of what you said it's like we
want to get you there but lying and telling you
you're already there is not the best way to get
there and you know what i'm saying we're not
here to cause controversy we're here to help
everybody and we believe in principles that these
things can help any man in any situation lead
and better be the one who's in control and the
one who is leading them to a wonderful experience.
So I just want to put that out before I put my
next question, which is, do you think that a
bull, when he's interacting with the husband,
do you think that he should lead with what turns
the wife on? Or should he lead with what they
love together whenever they're interacting with
the husband? Or should it be a completely different
relationship in your mind? How do you look at
it when you're interacting with the husband?
First of all, anything that comes up in a sexual
tone, that comes. after he and I just have the
basic conversation of, you know, hello, how you
doing? You know, my name is such and such. Just
getting to know each other. Then we will go,
once we're comfortable there, we will get into
what they like. You know, it's never about what
she likes at first. I've been in this long enough,
hell, I can kind of look at her and tell, you
know, if she has a rapport. with me already um
so it's you know it's all about like what they
like what they like i want him to feel as comfortable
around me as possible in that first meet because
that first meet is is it's gonna make you or
it's gonna break you you know like i said they
already know what they're looking for they know
they know exactly what they're looking for um
when they read your bio or whatever you know
everybody met you You fit the criteria of what
they were looking for. So now you got to come
in there now. And when you talk to him, he's
going to be checking out the boxes. Okay, yeah,
I read this. That goes with that. That goes with
this. That goes with that. Now, if you come in
there talking bullshit and it doesn't, you know,
line up with what he's read, then he's going
to know, okay, this guy is full of shit. So you...
Forget about the sexual things at first. Just
get to know him and then, you know, get in there
and find out what they want as a couple first.
And then when you find out what they want, then
you can move over to what she likes. And that's
a three -way conversation. When you get to what
she likes, have him there. Always have him there.
Don't like, you know, be like, okay, I don't
need to talk to you now. I can talk to her. Have
her come to you guys and you guys sit down and
make that a three -way conversation. And that
may not be on the first meet. That might be on
the second or third meet, depending on how, you
know, fast they want to get to know you, how
much chemistry you have. It could be a very,
very quick conversation. Or it could be, like
I said, you know, two or three -time meet. But
here again, that's how I do it. Bulls, brothers,
that's how I do it. It might, you know, you might
have a different, you might have a different
equation, but that's always worked for me. Got
it. Yeah, I love it. I love it. So those are
all the questions I got on. We're going to cover
anything else on this subject? I don't know.
I'm going to turn it over, well, we're going
to turn it over to the lovely Siren and see what
she has to throw. out to us all right now i know
i just put you on the spot right there oh you
know me i can figure out something to say um
so i'm trying to think uh how to either wrap
it up and put a bow on it or else start a whole
new thing right you were kind of talking about
the don't the things not to do so i wanted to
see what chat gbt had to say about that according
to um you know the prompts that we give it and
it had some good things too you pretty much you
know covered most of it but well i really just
you know i really just get on one with the sexual
aspect i mean there are more don'ts you know
i mean there are more don'ts but here again go
ahead There's a whole list here, like 10 things.
But again, we can always post these in the show
notes as well, just for, you know, more resources.
So I won't go into them too deeply because, you
know, I know we like to keep at an hour, but
I can just read them off really quick. Like,
do not chase validation. You know, like you were
saying, don't walk into the room acting like
you never had a piece of pussy. You know, do
not cross people's boundaries. You know, honor
what people say and let them grow with you in
their comfortability to expand their boundaries
with you. Don't bad mouth the husbands or partners.
You know, that's just not a good looking vanilla
world or in the lifestyle. You know, don't skip
aftercare. You know, like emotional leadership
includes. some some of that you know like afterwards
it's like don't just jump up throw your clothes
on and leave you know talk a little while you
know make sure that everybody is leaving in a
good in a good spot um don't post or share private
content without full consent of the people that
you have taken pictures of or recorded um You
know, I so far have not seen any of my personal
or heard of my personal stuff like getting out
there. But that's a big one in the lifestyle.
We take it very seriously in our relationship.
Socrates has photos and videos from before he
met me that he doesn't have their permission
to share. So guess what? I've never seen them.
And I don't want to because I respect people's
privacy that much. And they're a lot more boring
than the shit we do now. Let's just be real.
Cause I was new, you know, I was new in the lifestyle.
I'll just take, I'll take your word for it on
that. But it's like, I don't, I don't have any,
you know, some women would be like, well, that's
my husband. I want to see. But I just am like,
well, you know, it's more titties, ass, and pussy,
okay, and different combinations. But it's like
if those people don't want that shared, like
don't share it, you know. Don't let your ego
run the show, you know. Confidence is silent.
Insecurity is loud. Stay grounded, you know.
Don't lie about your status, your health, or
your intentions. Honesty is huge, right? It's
like. Don't be hiding the fact that you got a
girlfriend or a wife or whatever your status
is. Just be honest with people and let them make
the decisions from there. And then obviously
about your health. It's like we're a small community.
And if we're not getting tested regularly, like
you were talking about earlier, we're in protection.
for the majority of the population you know can
you expand your circumstance um you know taking
good care of our health like socrates and i we
always use protection and we still follow up
with regimens of antibiotics and regular testing
you know just to make sure that we're doing our
part to keep our community safe um don't blur
the line between seduction and manipulation seduction
invites manipulation deceives going back to the
op honesty and having integrity um and then don't
do not enter this lifestyle if you can't handle
rejection um and take responsibility for your
own emotions you know there's you're going to
get rejected um even me as a woman i wouldn't
say i'm the hottest woman at splash but i don't
think i'm i'll say i think i'm pretty Thanks,
baby. I think I'm pretty damn good looking, though,
you know, and I try to try to dress cute and
keep up with myself. And being a huge slut doesn't
hurt either. But you know what? Even I get rejected
and even some of the best looking men get rejected
for different reasons. So you've got to be able
to take that rejection is that you're just not
everyone's cup of tea. You know, and that's fine.
And I've even kind of given guys permission to
reject me. And I want to say something a little
bit about that is like, sometimes the guy will
be actually a little hesitant or it seems like
we don't, you know, we're kind of not meeting
up. And I'll tell him, I'll say, listen, it will
not hurt my feelings if I am not your flavor.
Please just say so, so I can move along to someone
else that we are compatible. And vice versa,
I'll do that to men. I'll say, listen, I don't
want to waste your time because there is going
to be a woman right around the corner here that
is 100 % and wants to play with you and is an
enthusiastic yes. I can't provide that enthusiastic
yes. So I just want to be, and I'll counsel women
to that effect too. I'll be like, don't say maybe
later. Don't say, you know. another time or whatever.
If you are not into them, just be straight and
just say, the vibe's not there for me. I'm not
interested in playing with you. Yeah, it's going
to sting a little, but whether they have that
little sting, let them grow and then be able
to, you know, move on to somebody that is more
excited about them. You know, that's all in.
And to the brothers out there listening, if I
meet someone, and I'm not their cup of tea, trust
and believe. If I know a brother that does meet
their criteria, I will reach out to you and ask.
I'll send you a picture if they are good with
that. Or if it's an event, I will bring you over
to them, and I will gladly introduce you to them,
and you take the lead from there, okay? Because
here again, it's all about everybody. everybody
being happy it's all about uh um when i say we
are brothers we are brothers you know and just
because somebody doesn't like me or maybe don't
like my look doesn't mean i'm just gonna like
you know get mad and oh this and you know the
event and all that no no no no i i will more
than you know uh more than be happy to go and
find somebody and you know for that couple so
here again that's part of being a brotherhood
also of being in the brotherhood can i just say
you know and i know i'm biased y 'all i am blown
away by my wife right now lord she just hit twice
like omg those two things you know the the don'ts
and that quality mommy oh my goodness and so
You just stepped my game up. I'm sitting there
like I can't wait to listen to this episode again
and take notes. I'm being serious. Like, you
know, I'm excited about that. And you know what,
audience? I really want to hear from you about
with this episode. You know, by the time this
comes out, we'll have our social media up. You
know, you have our email, thebullbrotherhoodatgmail
.com. I really want to hear from you guys on
this one because. I learned a lot myself and
my wife did not tell me she had these things
in mind. And I'm excited. I really am. I feel
the same way. I feel the same way, nephew. Like
I said, she took it. She took it and ran with
it when she broke down the word quality. She
really did. And I have nothing else to say. I
really didn't. I had nothing else to say. Well,
you gave me some direction in the text. You know,
we always text each other, the three of us, before.
And, you know, Brian is where he is. We live
where we live. And I happen to be out of town
right now visiting a quality bull. And so I was
looking at the text message, and you gave the
marching orders, and I just tried to. to come
up to that level. So that is it. That is it.
It helps. I had a little inspiration this afternoon
for myself. So that's good. That is good. That
is good. And again, going into this episode.
Right. You're right. And again, ladies and gentlemen,
it's, it's what Socrates said. We do want to
hear your feedback from this episode, as well
as all of the episodes. I feel like we are getting
better and better with each episode. And we're
just excited about what the future brings for
not only the Bull Brotherhood, but for the Siren
podcast also, for the Siren of Freedom podcast
also. In the future, we want to have couples
up here as guests. We want to have some more
bulls up here, you know, from here again, from
all walks of life. from the hot wife lifestyle,
from guys who just experienced swinging, et cetera,
et cetera. And we want to hear from everybody.
We want to bring everybody into this world that
we love so much because it's all about family
in the end. It's all about family. It's all about
having fun. It's all about making connection.
It is all about making those couples feel as
special as possible and enriching their marriage.
enriching and enhancing their marriage as a quality
boy. If my family doesn't have anything else
to comment about, do you guys? No, I'm good.
I think you put the bow on it. Both of you are
good? Well, I guess we're going to call this
one a night, ladies and gentlemen. And if my
nephew would, go ahead and hit that music so
I can do my exit here again. Thank you so much
for another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood
podcast. We look forward to talking to everyone
again very, very soon. And of course, to all
my brothers of the Brotherhood, I bid you guys
good night. And as always, to all my lovely hot
wives out there, I bid you good morning. Again,
have a great night. Have a great rest of the
week. All right, we love you, and we'll talk
to you again soon. Good night.