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to another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood
Podcast. I'm your host, one -third of your host
team. I'm Brian Morgan, a .k .a. The Sigma Male.
And I'm here alongside my wonderful co -hosts,
the husband and wife team of The Seductive Siren,
as well as my nephew, the philosopher himself,
Socrates. How's everyone this evening? Doing
great, Brian. What's good? Wonderful, wonderful,
wonderful, wonderful. Tonight we have a topic
that's like near and dear to my heart, ladies
and gentlemen, because I exemplify one of these.
male hierarchies it's the alpha male versus the
sigma male and how both of these guys navigate
in the hot wife lifestyle at least what we've
seen in the lot in the hot wife lifestyle and
i'm talking about like seeing at parties such
as splash mocha other events etc etc um let me
say this to all the alpha males out there i am
not trying to talk about talk bad about you in
any type of way I'm just letting you know exactly
what I've seen as a Sigma male compared to what
you guys bring to the table. So let's get started.
Yeah, so as we always do, I'm going to be the
one answering the questions. And I'm going to
get both of you guys' perspectives. And then
I'm going to share some of my nerdy definitions
of it. One of the things that, you know, before
we get into some of the more, you know, nitty
gritty things is I wanted to say that you really
changed everything for me when you introduced
the Sigma male concept. Because I identified
with it when you first talked about it. But then
when you broke down the certain types of Sigma
males. which we can talk about what mine is later
because I think we should, you know, talk about
my type and your type later on in this podcast.
But when that broke that down, it allowed me
to say, okay, I identify with this. This is who
I am. But things like sitting back in the cut
and watching everybody else and letting them
come to me is not natural, but it is where I
want to be. So it made sense. It made even the
things that I'm not doing that I wanted to do
make sense, the things that came naturally to
me. So I'm really excited about these getting
the distinctions because this is what made me
say, I want to fuck with this dude. I really
want to, yeah, like I really want to be around
him. I want to understand his perspective on
this. you know, I want to follow where he's leading.
So, so yeah. So talk to me about, I'm going to
take it even further back into the entire framework.
Can you tell me what all of the types of males
are? Cause I don't, I know there are more than
three, right? I mean, if you don't know it, that's
fine, but just the ones that you do know. I'm
not like looking at them at any notes of any
kind right now. So it was like. Do you have it
written down? Because I can't remember exactly
all of the types. There are several. There are
several. Here again, let me explain who I am,
how I am. I am the introverted alpha, okay? If
you watched me at Splash Mocha, that was a perfect
example. That's exactly how I am 24 -7, okay?
You saw me navigate the room a couple of times.
Then I came back. You knew already when you came
out of that doggone elevator, I was going to
be sitting in one of the two spots there in the
driveway, correct? Right, right. And here again,
I see everything. I see everything. I saw several
different types of couples, several different
types of women walking around. But here again,
I'm never... thirsty. I'm never like going up
to anybody really talking to them. Um, as I said,
I let you see the goods and then I sit down and
it's the, it's the, it's the aura. It's the aura
that I have. It's, it's that mystery about me.
That's what people used to say. And you know,
they usually come up to me and a lot of times
they said, well, I didn't know that you were
going to be this approachable, you know, but
I am once I start talking to you, you know, and,
and I feel comfortable. then, you know, it's
on after that. But I am very much the introverted
alpha. I told you, if an alpha male is considered
like a general, you know, who leads his army
in the battle, then I'm that Sigma. I'm just
that one man army by myself. I fight my battles
all along. So, you know, I'm never around a bunch
of guys other than you guys, you know, by three
or four that I call brotherhood. Other than that,
I'm a one man show. So, I mean, that's me. That's
me in a nutshell explaining myself without giving
you an old definition of Sigma male. And I like,
I like to really stretch analogies out. And what
I like is if you use that analogy as, as an alpha
male, as a general, I would say a Sigma male
is a head of a special forces team because you're
more laser focused. You're more, you know, you're
a specialist is going to come in under the radar.
get the mission done, get out. And you won't
know years down the line that it was a SEAL team
or that it was a, you know, Ranger team or, you
know, whatever special forces it is. You know,
it's best that you don't know, right? That's
a damn good analogy right there. I like that.
I refer to it as you being a part of the unit.
And that's what that is, you know, when you are
SF in the military. um like i said you you you
in and out uh nobody knows nobody really knows
notices that you're there but you get the mission
done in a timely manner the mission is always
great and then boom you're out of there so yeah
that's what a single male is okay equally as
powerful as an alpha equally as powerful i like
i said if alpha's a lion and sigma's a tiger
okay equally as powerful but we just do things
a little bit different that's all yeah well let's
talk about that difference um How would you define
an alpha male and then sigma? And then we can
go over. There's actually six types. We can go
over those if you want or whenever you're ready.
But how would you describe an alpha male? And
then how would you describe a sigma male comparatively?
And then we definitely want to get Siren's opinion
on how she feels in the presence of either one,
right? Let me let me say this. I'm going to I'm
going to describe an alpha male as I have seen
them at, say, like events like Splash or other
events. You know, I mean, the alphas that I see
at Splash, they are they're dominant, assertive,
you know, usually usually. Sexually, they're
like they're like they're the attention seekers.
You know what I mean? They're there to conquer.
They are sexual seekers. Whereas myself, I'm
a pleasure provider. The Sigma is, here again,
that lone wolf, you know, self -assured, always
confident, always in the cut, gets what he wants,
but goes about it a little bit differently. Okay?
I don't want just your body. I want your mind.
I want to get inside your head. I want to get
inside the lady's head. I want to get inside
the couple's head because I want both of them
to have a great experience when they're with
me. You know, if the husband is there watching,
then I want him to be like, okay, we're going
to definitely put Brian Morgan's name in our
telephone because we want to see him again. So
that's how I see an alpha versus a sigma at something
like Splash. Got you. So you're talking about
their approach to it, right? yes how they're
going to do themselves gotcha yes exactly exactly
and um so siren wifey hello without naming names
i want you to picture like i want you to picture
uh an alpha that you may have played with or
want to play with and then i want you to picture
a sigma that you may have played with or wanted
to play with. And I want you kind of to describe
how you feel with either one and comparatively.
So first of all, I want to say same. I did not
even know about Sigma male. I always heard Alpha
and Beta, which I just equated before lifestyle
with strong and weak, you know, and I do. There
had to be like a good mixture, you know, something
in the middle. That was closer to an alpha, but
had that softness. You know, a man of steel and
also velvet. And I think that that's what in
my feminine mind, I think of. Oh, sorry. Yes,
sir. That's a nicely put. He built. Thank you.
It's actually the name of a book. That's where
I got it from. But it just when I got to know
Socrates, I was just like, that's just what I
thought of a man of steel and velvet. And then
when. he told me about the Sigma male, then I
just was like, that's him completely. And, you
know, the way, you know, that he might move about
being a Sigma male and the way you might move
about being a Sigma male could be a little bit
different, but still the same characteristics,
principles, and, you know, and a lot of the same
goals. So back to what Socrates was asking me.
I think of like when I play with someone that
I think of as more alpha, I think of it being
more of a faster, more aggressive play experience.
Sexual style? Yes. And even in their approach
to me too is a little bit more like, hey. let's
go up to the broom you know it's just like telling
me what to do um yeah which i don't i don't mind
i like both of the experiences for different
reasons um but i'll tell you what i gravitate
towards a little bit more at the end of my answer
so You know, that more alpha guy is just like,
come on, baby, let's go. We're going to go play.
And so we go do. And then usually he doesn't
come close to me. He stays up kind of, you know,
maybe some ladies would refer to him as the pounded
out guys. But some people don't prefer that.
Some people do. I like a little bit of everything.
So that's what I think of when I think of more
of the alpha male play experience, you know.
And when I feel that I'm in the presence of more
Sigma males, I feel that the approach is more
conversational. Like they've all got this little
thing that they do. I've pointed them out to
Socrates. I said, ah, this guy, he does this.
He will talk this certain way. Or this guy is
in the chats flirting, but he's really good at
making each lady feel special. They've all just
got their little thing that they're trying to
hone, you know, a little uniqueness about them.
i .e. a pleasure provider yes i .e. a pleasure
provider that's what he is and they all just
have a different way of bringing that about you
know one guy it's the way that he looks up at
you between when he's between your legs you know
there's just the way what he how he looks at
you with his eyes or another guy the way he words
things you know he doesn't say i want to eat
your pussy he has like a whole poem about it
I eat myself. I'm a talker. I'm a storyteller.
I'm a storyteller. And then with the actual play
experience, they always come close to you at
some point. They are always like chest to chest,
kissing you, talking to you, providing that experience.
And that is exactly the main thing that I first
noticed about my husband when I first... started
having sex with him is that you know he would
bring me close and it was like a very different
feeling and connection so yeah he got i .e i
.e he got inside of your head yeah all right
as well as well as well your your mind your soul
everything all in one okay yes um that is what
that is what my baby girl tells me okay she says
the same thing she said she said daddy you you
You just click all the buttons. You click all
the buttons. And that is what I like to bring,
you know, to a couple, to a woman. I want her
to have the ultimate, and here again, it's more
than just like the boyfriend experience. It is
just the ultimate, what I just call man, what
a man is supposed to do, you know, to a woman,
both sexually. Well, I mean, excuse me, both
physically, both mentally, as well as emotionally,
even intellectually, you know, when I'm talking
to her. I want to talk about a variety of things,
not just, hey, because we're at Splash and, you
know, you got a sexy outfit on showing everything
and, you know, we're about to go upstairs or
something like that. No, I want to get to know
you. I want to know the lady, okay? I want to
know the husband. I want to know the couple.
And what does that establish? That establish
trust, respect, rapport. companionship, et cetera.
And that makes what the most ultimate experience
possible. You know what I mean? When you come
back downstairs and, you know, I give you back
to the husband, you know, for reclamation, you
want to be like, oh, shoot, I definitely want
to see him again. Definitely want to see him
again. That sounds so official. That sounds so
official. Reclamation. Well, that's dope. Well,
because that's what you're doing. You know what
I mean? When I give you back, when I give her
back to you, you are reclaiming. You're reclaiming
your wife. I love to be reclamated. Yeah, you
are reclaiming your wife. You are reclaiming
for the reconnection. You're reclaiming her so,
you know, so you guys can... You're reclaiming
in me. But that's the way it is, though. You
are reclaiming. You are reclaiming so you can
reconnect. You know? And that's the beautiful
thing. I love it. That's a beautiful thing. That's
a beautiful thing. You know? And Socrates. Yes,
sir. You were talking about the types of Sigma
males. I had to go back and dig and find them,
my brother. We're talking about like the stoic,
the stoic Sigma. You remember when I told you
that? Yep. You know what I'm saying? Very, very
unshaken. Numb to emotions. You know what I mean?
He's a great listener. Accessible. And he, again,
often says less. He knows that silence is his
power. And what do I always tell you? My power
is what? My voice of silence when I'm out there,
right? When I'm at events. That's my power. That's
the one I need to recall. I was just pointing
at him and saying, oh, that one's not really
you. We all know Socrates' last two asked questions.
I think this is nephew right here, the paradoxical
thinker. The paradoxical thinker. He can move.
He can move, holding multiple ideas in his head
without breaking a stride. That's you, Socrates.
That is you. Deeply comfortable with complexity.
You know, looks at problems from multiple angles.
That's you. That's your nephew. That is you.
The paradoxical thinker. When you said that,
when you said that, I was sold. Because the Sigma
stuff, there's some things I'm like, yeah, I'm
not there, but I'd like to be. There's some things
like, that's just me. Okay, it was cool. But
when you said that type of, I was like, oh, yes.
Because I do. I look at even, we're talking about
ethical non -monogamy, but you can apply these
principles anywhere. But I look at approaching.
women and the lifestyle from several angles i
have i'm thinking of okay i just read a book
on reading you know body language because it's
very important in things like splash or or yes
absolutely because nobody's going to tell you
no they're not going to tell you no i'm not interested
well maybe one percent they're going to say maybe
later they're going to say you know see how i
feel You know, they're going to say, well, I'm
recovering. And some of this is probably true,
some of it's not. But I'm sitting there holding
the idea of body language, the idea of active
listening, the idea of me trying to focus and
make sure I have good eye contact. I'm trying
to hold all these in once, and I do it all. And
if I'm not holding several different concepts
in my hand, I actually start losing interest.
There you go. There you go. Compared to, here
again, I'm not talking about the alpha males
in a bad way, but the majority of the time, the
alpha, he's looking for that conquest. I'm the
king, and let's go. I don't care if there's a
lot of eye contact. I know that there's the physical
right now. I'm seeing TNA, tits and ass, and
that's what I want. Compared to, like I said,
myself, that doesn't faze me. that doesn't events
like splash don't faze me you know what i mean
i go to have a great time yes but i've had so
much of a great time in the past that i can sit
there and actually not do anything for about
two maybe three days and and i'm fine you know
maybe i have some fun on a saturday i may have
some fun on friday but i don't have to be out
there 24 7 like the majority of the guys do you
know and i'm not going to settle for anything
that's not going to happen okay that's why we
look at ourselves in the mirror and and you know
we're like okay if if this is the standard i'm
looking at in the mirror then the standard that's
going to be with me is going to be equal or higher
period facts yeah i love that um yeah let me
ask you a different question so let's say somebody's
listening to this podcast and they're like, you
know what? Yeah, I kind of resonate with what
he's saying, but they're not sure. What are some
other things or what are some characteristics
that they can look for in themselves to say,
yeah, man, that's me. I'm, I'm really a Sigma
male. If you, okay. If, if this person say like
a 10 splash, if you're 10 splash and I'm, I'm,
I'm, you know, I asked yourself, how do you,
How do you attract splash women? How are you
when you're at splash? You know what I mean?
Are you kind of a mystery man? You know, do you
like you kind of not say be standoffish, but
like I said, you walk the room a couple of times
and you get back, you sit, you have a drink and
you observe. You observe. Do the women come to
you or do you have to pursue them? If the women
come to you while you're sitting down and stuff.
and they, you know, hey, how you doing, et cetera,
et cetera, and you start a conversation and it
goes from there, then you're probably a sigma,
not necessarily alpha. Okay? Like you said, body
language. What is your body language? All right?
When you're standing out there in the hallway
or something, are you standing confident? Chest
out, tall, you know, exuding dominance, but not
in a menacing way. You understand what I'm saying?
When you're talking to a lady, are you always
like standing close to her? When you're standing
close, you're doing what? You're giving them
their complete attention, and they're doing what
also? They're beginning to feel what? Comfortable,
safe, relaxed with you, correct? Calm, safe,
and excited. Okay. All right. I like that. I
like that. That's a little thing we came up with.
Okay. Previously. When I talk to a lady, one
of the things I do when I'm talking to a woman,
I usually mirror what she does. Okay? I might
imitate a gesture. If she smiles, I smile. You
know what I mean? See, if we're walking down
the hall, I might hold that hand, and we walk
at the same pace. Here again, that exudes what
when we're walking at the same pace? That lets
us know that, hey, there's nothing else. around
right now that means anything other than me and
you. You know? Here again, that leads to a feeling
of what? Connection, trust, increases your rapport,
you know, and then you have a great time. Um,
what's your sense of style? Oh, sorry to say,
you got a chance to see me in what? Shirt, slacks,
some shoes. Yeah. Saturday night, right? Mm -hmm.
Okay. What do I always say? Sharp, but never
flashy. Most alphas will be, they might be trying
to have the chest showing, arm showing, something
that accentuates the body. Well, hell, if you
got a body, it's going to show anyway, correct?
So, I mean, just put on a nice shirt, nice form
-fitting shirt, put on some slacks that fit you
the right way, curl some shoes. Hey, you heard
Michael say, hey, he's got his church shoes on.
Hell no, dude, those damn Giorgio Patini's. I
deal with some very nice Italian slippers. Nothing
more. Sharp, never flashy. And let me ask this
question. When have you guys ever seen me without
a clean shave, bald head, and face? Yeah, never.
That's my signature. That's my signature. So
here again, look at yourself. What is your style?
I mean, what do you bring to the table? If you
that. kind of loud guy who, you know, thinks
they're the king and everything and wants to
be seen, then you're probably an alpha. But if
they're a dude that, if you got that six back,
you know, in the cut, observes, let things come
to you, then you're more than likely going to
sleep with a male. Did I answer your question?
Yes, sir. Yeah. I love it. You know what I mean?
I soak this stuff up. You know. So. On the flip
side, we talked about, you know, this isn't not
this isn't something against alphas either. Right.
So we are. Let me say this. Let me say this.
We are very, very similar. We are very similar.
I, if not the same, but we just do things a little
bit differently. That's all. That's why the Sigma,
when you look at the at the male hierarchy chart,
you will have alpha, beta, gamma. I forgot what
else it is. I brought five. But then outside
of the chart, because we don't do things, we
do things out of the norm. We do things our own
way. As I said before, we don't answer the five
W's. Where, what, when, why, and all that stuff.
We don't, okay? So they put us outside of the
hierarchy, but we're right beside alpha. So that's
what I mean. We are the same. We are very much
the same. We just do things differently. That's
all. But go ahead. Yeah, no, I just wanted you
to tell me the things that you like about Alphas
that are different from you. That are different
from me? Being that I am a military man at heart
all the time, their sense of purpose, integrity,
honesty, you know, responsibility. They always
have a confidence about them. They have a confidence.
Some people say it's cocky. I don't think it's
cockiness. I really don't. I don't think it's
cockiness. I just think it's just that ultimate
confidence. You know, there's nothing wrong with
you walking around knowing that you are a king,
okay? But you don't have to come out and let
the world know that you're a king. But definitely,
I mean, hey, if you got it, you got it. It's
fine. You know what I mean? When I look at guys
on television, you know The Rock. That's my guy.
Dwayne The Rock Johnson, he is an alpha male.
Like, through thick and thin. But at the same
time, though, he's a very, very personal boy
and giving dude. Very, very personal and giving.
So, you know, I love that. Their determination.
They are very, very determined and they're very,
very ruthless. When they want something, they
go get it, and nothing is going to damn stop
them. Nothing's going to stop them. They're driven
at everything that they do. Most alphas are successful
in life. They're successful in whatever they
do, whether it be business, family. They are
the epitome of what women want in a marriage,
I think, and a husband. I mean, they just take
care of business. They really take care of business.
But here again, though, the majority of them
like to be out in front. They, you know, they
want to lead from the front. And as a Sigma,
am I a leader? Yes. I just choose to lead by
example and not out of the front. So that's what
I like about outfits. That's, that's where I
identify. Like the way I run my businesses, I'm
like, Zach, I like they, the ladies run it. You
know, I like to lead from. From, you know, from
behind and from the darkness and, you know. I
like it when you lead from behind. Siren. Just
saying. Speaking as you do, Siren. Let me ask
you. Siren, what turns you on about Alphys? There's
very little decision making for me. And as somebody
who, like you said, runs businesses. It's just
very nice that they just come up and they're
like, hey, you, let's go, you know, pretty quickly,
you know. And I just like that it just it just
kind of sweeps you away. Like you don't it frees
your mind like instantly. You're just like, oh,
this guy wants me. And then all you have to decide
is yes or no. for yourself right and then away
you go and then from there on out like he is
leading the entire play experience from start
to finish and it's usually like I said quicker
than a Sigma male like the whole experience might
be shorter but it's very whirlwind -y and it's
like it's energizing okay so those fast and merriest
experiences that might last 30 to 45 minutes
those to me are like more energizing than like
a The other play experience. Marathon session.
Yeah, I love it. Yeah, it made sense. Yeah. Siren,
so rinse your mental mouth out. Get the alpha
taste out of it. Or your sexual mouth out, whatever.
And then, so tell me what really turns you on
about Sigma males. that well they free my mind
too but in a very different way like they cause
me to like be curious about them and what might
happen and then I find myself like I have certain
things that I have tried to add into my play
recently that I've been talking about a lot lately
and I find I don't really do them with alphas
because of the experience being more fast and
furious but the sigmas get to draw out of me
a completely different experience type of experience
a more sensual and more touching experience from
me to them too and so the whole thing is just
a lot more passionate and then those are probably
the ones that I have become actual friends with
later and been able like one guy we were literally
playing we're talking about like five other women
and a couple other things in the beginning of
the play and we're just laughing you know about
it and we're just like having that mental connection
and like talking about other people and then
we and then at one point he's like what are we
worrying about these people for let's get to
us and then you know we start the play experience
and then it's just very connecting and you know,
just a lot more memorable, actually, I think
overall. Yeah. I tend to lean that direction
as far as preference. But although I do enjoy
the Alpha experiences, I definitely have a preference
for the Sigmas. The Alpha here, again, it's about
his dominance. It's about him during the sexual
act or about me during the sexual act. You have
pleased me when you choose me to go upstairs.
So now the pleasure is all mine to please you
to the utmost. And not only am I trying to please
you, you know, with what I have, but I want to,
here again, I want to get inside your head. I
am a storyteller. I can be a storyteller when
I'm having sex. But you can get several versions
of me. Okay, you just have to ask my baby girl.
She can tell you all about that. You can get
the talkative version. You can get the version
like she got yesterday, the very, very dominant
version. And to be honest, she had never seen
that before. It blew her mind. And then you can
get the porn star version, which is like the
alpha. So, again, that's what I bring to the
table. I can't speak for all signals, but that
is what I bring to the table. And that's why...
I can always say I might not be on your bones,
but I'm always on your mind because I keep you
thinking. I keep you thinking 24 -7. And that's
the mystery of Brian Morgan. So that's what has
made me successful for 32 freaking years. So
let's hear from Socrates of what he believes
that he brings to the table as a Sigma male.
I like the fact that, you know, Brian Morgan
brought out that ability to hold complex. you
know thoughts at one time so because i'm able
to do that i'm able to simultaneously when i
play with women i love like he says i'm i'm a
giver of pleasure so i'm just exploring your
body to see um physically what's going to do
it but i'm also exploring your thoughts and your
emotions i'm doing all that while focused on
you as if the only thing i'm doing is interacting
with you And I can do that because I'm, I am
simultaneously enjoying the fuck out of you and
your body and you know, action. But I'm also
like literally in the back of my head saying,
okay, how should I respond to this in a way that's
authentic, but at the same time gets her to a
place that she's going to enjoy herself. So I
think they, I think the ladies that have, you
know, said that they enjoy playing with me, you
know, have shared how I make them feel. And I
love the fact that they don't know behind that
is a whole lot of brain processing. That is good
tip here. Well, I mean, you, because they don't,
you know, they don't have that wifey connection,
right? So they don't have to even think about
what you might be thinking behind all that. They
just get to enjoy the experience. I know there
was one lady that was like, she came to me and
she's like you get that all the time and i said
oh i never get what you get sweetie and she was
like oh what do you mean what do you mean and
i was just like don't you i said what you have
to understand about my husband is that each experience
is completely unique to whoever i i'm i'm never
going to get what other women get other women
are never going to get what i get because each
time i'm not even getting the same thing that
i got from him before because the energy is different
the mood's different the day's different the
combination of how he's feeling and i'm feeling
is different and he's just very in like in touch
with that um on every level when you know he's
with me and i know that other women have said
similar things that that make me understand that
they're experiencing that uniqueness as well
but it was just fun to kind of shock that lady
a little bit you know i'm sure she was thinking
something negative but you know just to explain
to her that to get it really just got her attention
so and i will i have to i have to shout out mr
mocha from um um oh faces from oh faces faces
yeah because he's the one that literally helped
me accept, be celebrating, and take pride in
how diverse of a person I am. And I looked at
it as a sad story, and he looked at it as like
every diverse situation you grew up in added
a diverse skill, which added up to these, you
know, a collection or profile of skills that
are kind of unique to me. So I say all that to
say, That allowed me to be like, oh, if she needs
dominance, if she needs BDSM level dominance,
and me and my wife have an understanding that
I can do that, I can give it to her authentically.
If she needs kind of like a laid back cowboy,
because I grew up in a lot of farm and cowboy
scenarios, yeah. If she needs kind of a thug,
Since I genuinely was raised around gangster
niggas all the time. There you go. Drug dealers.
She can get that. If she needs an intellectual.
Right. And if I, if she needs an intellectual,
I'm that too. Cause I read like four or five
books a month. You know what I'm saying? So,
you know, it was Mr. Mocha that said, man, celebrate
it. You know, just be you. Don't make any excuses.
Exactly. You know? Exactly. I think that's what
makes me a Sigmund. Well, and it's just, you
authentically acclimate to the emotions and needs
of each play partner. And then, you know, and
then even me with your wife, it's like, you know,
we're always just honing our skills. Sometimes
we learn something new from our plate partner.
A lot of times we learn something new from each
other that we can take into the play world. Some
things, you know, a few section of things we
keep just for each other right now. But, you
know, he just authentically acclimates. And that's
what I can say that I've seen, heard and experienced
from being his wife and playing in the same room.
And that is why you have the wonderful and unique
marriage, friendship, partnership, ride or die
that you have. And that's what everybody wishes
they had, in my opinion. I know this. I've talked
to too many vanilla couples. I have too many
guy friends that I grew up out with, and they
all wish that they had the same thing and a partner.
You guys, it's beautiful to see. It really is.
It's beautiful to hear both of you saying that,
and it's beautiful to witness at an event how
you guys can, A, be together and be so happy,
or you can be separate. and know that the other
one is coming back to the other. And that's what,
to me, that's what this lifestyle brings. And,
you know, I wish, here again, I have my baby
girl, so I no longer say that I wish I had it
because now I do have it. I do have it. I really
do. And it was a test for me at Splash to see
if I could be the boyfriend and, you know, make
sure that she was taken care of. And we had a
great time. So, like I said, this is what it's
all about. Alpha males, they're nothing against
my brothers. They are my brothers, you know,
but I wouldn't change being a Sigma from nothing
in the world. Yeah, I love it too. Thank you
for all the hair, sweet things that you, you
know, I know you're speaking authentically. The
truth, you just appreciate it. It's very encouraging.
When I see it, I'm going to say it. When I see
it, I'm going to let you know. And you guys exemplify
that. You really do. When other people see the
good that you're putting out into the world through
your relationship, it makes it really, I hear
those voices on the hard days, you know, because
every couple of us has them. And so, you know,
that sometimes what keeps me going too is like
a little extra boost of like. OK, there's other
people out there looking up to us, you know,
and I want to be able to tell them how we got
through something tough, you know. Yeah. And
that's what, you know, that's what this podcast
is about. So, you know, this is focused on bulls
from a bull's perspective. And then we have a
hot wife and a vixen who, you know, her perspective.
But it's all about helping. You guys live the
kind of life that all three of us are living.
So we know that Mr. Morgan wants his queen and
he's going to find her. But he's actually living
a hell of a fucking life right now. As I say,
I actually have the queen now. But here again,
though, we are a throuple. We are a throuple.
She said today in a text, she was like, I couldn't
have asked for more. She's like, I feel like
I hit the lottery. You know, I have the two men
in my life. You know, one on my right side, the
other on my left side. And I'm loving it. So,
you know. Yeah, she's a very blessed and lucky
woman. Awesome. Yeah. And we did it as a couple.
So I wanted to nerd out. This is going to be
the nerd out section, y 'all. And I GBT'd this
bad baby, and I pretty much. For my nerds, my
prompting was pretty simple. And the only reason
why is because I have what's called a project
inside of ChatGBT. It helps us think about these
things in a certain way. And all of my AI nerds
know what I'm talking about. So my prompt was
really simple. And I just asked it what types
of examples of males. And I used the examples
of the alpha male, sigma male, beta male. And
I just wanted to, it gave me, there's actually
six. And then it gave me, you know, traits, roles,
and dating. I'm not going to go through each
one. But I do want to read the first three. So
I'll tell you all six of them. And then I'm going
to kind of go over all three. And then I want
to get you guys' opinion on them. So the six
are alpha, beta, sigma, delta, gamma. and omega
right so um you know we're gonna go through the
first three and kind of break it down and then
maybe in a next episode or something we can talk
about the other three but it's like a bull fraternity
exactly um so the first alpha is the traits is
confident dominant assertive outgoing and a natural
leader and i think that follows a lot of what
mr morgan was saying their role is often seen
as a leader of the pack takes charge in social
and professional settings so again fits everything
you're saying typically attractive to many women
due to high status and charisma i like that so
beta traits loyal passive supportive dependable
agreeable and i like this because i think betas
are always um you know express from especially
from many alphas from their perspective a beta
is not good and i i look at it as these are all
natural characteristics with pros and cons and
that's how i look at it so their role is the
nice guy prefers harmony over confrontation and
often a follower okay i see those as positive
and negative and neutral aspects to them. To
me, dating is often struggles in dating dynamics
in perceived as lacking confidence or an edge,
right? And then Sigma male. So independent, mysterious,
introverted percentile, right? Self -sufficient
and strategic. Their role doesn't follow traditional
hierarchies. marches to the beat of his own drum.
That is so much me. It ain't even funny. And
I know it's you, Unc. Amen. Dating can be very
attractive due to mystery, confidence without
arrogance, and emotional control. There you go.
I would just say you're an extroverted Sigma,
though. Yeah, I am an extroverted Sigma, for
sure. Yeah, we are the opposite in that. You
are an extrovert, and I'm an introvert. I'm an
extroverted introvert. Yeah, I'm definitely.
And that's, you know, that's why I didn't think
I was a Sigma. I thought I was faking an alpha
because I am very extroverted. I don't have a
problem with being in the leadership or in front.
I don't want to be, though. You know, I don't.
I've been on stage at times in my life. You know,
I'm totally better off stage. I'm totally better
behind. So, you know, I get that. So, yeah. So
Siren, like, tell me, have you ever played with
somebody you can identify as a beta and then
you had a good time? And why? And if not, why?
No, I didn't have a good time because I'm too
much of an alpha female. So I can, I obviously
surrender to an alpha male because he's going
to be more dominant than me. I'm happy to not
be an alpha in the situation. And a Sigma is
kind of a shared power. And then he relaxes me
out of my alpha, but a beta male has never, I
don't think that I've ever tried to play with
one since I've been in the lifestyle, but I've
definitely had sex with them before the lifestyle.
And yeah, we'll talk about that. Like, how was
it? I don't want to just, I just didn't, I know
a couple of them, I like left. Like I just got
up and left. I was just like, this is not, this
is not going well. Just like, they act like they're
having an asthma attack. Like, I don't know.
I think it wasn't even, I don't, there was a,
it wasn't a black man. It was a white man. Well,
if the confidence is not there, it doesn't matter
if it's black, white, Hispanic, or whatever.
It's not going to be good. I mean, you know what
I mean? That's the key. That's the key. Are you
confident in yourself? Are you confident in yourself?
Are you confident in your skills? It doesn't
matter what you have, package -wise or body -wise
or whatever. Confidence is everything. If I get
a woman in a run. and we've had great conversation
already. When I get you in the room, hey, I know
what's going to happen. Okay? I'm very, very
confident. Here again, you don't know what you're
going to get depending on the conversation that
we have. Or let's say, for instance, we haven't
had a conversation yet, but we have this plan
to meet. You know what I mean? I may turn the
encounter into... an encounter slash conversation
okay that's something that most men can't do
that's something that like will will will take
a woman and and make her think like oh shit you
know i mean we were doing something here in a
minute but he still got his dick in me and we're
having a conversation and i'm liking it so that's
here again that's the mystery that's the mystery
what you bring to the table how you keep her
head and her juices flowing you know that's that's
that's the beauty of a sigma male And that, what
I just explained, that comes with age also. That
comes with maturity. But we were adrenaline.
Beta males. And you're trying to make it all
positive and nice again, Brian. And we were trying
to get true feelings. Okay, but listen. As far
as the beta, though, here again, I was explaining
the confidence thing. How that beta doesn't have
that confidence. You know what I mean? That beta
doesn't have that confidence and never will.
Okay? My like lonely single mom days. Yeah, I
think those are my lonely single mom days where
I was just like, I don't know. You probably didn't
even know they were a beta until they, yeah.
I probably didn't know they were a beta male.
I probably just swiped right, was like wanting
to get some dick. And then I didn't know they
were beta until we joined up. Exactly. But like
I said, that was before you met Socrates and
your life changed. Oh, yeah. Correct. Before
I was even in the life. All right. Yeah. Exactly.
Exactly. Okay. Brian didn't like talking about
beta males. I can tell. No, no, no, no, no, no.
I have nothing against. He's just trying to keep
it so positive. Here again, I know a lot of guys
who are beta. I can't hold a conversation with
you or go work out with you or go have a meal
with you. But they understand that I have something
else. They definitely understand that. Well,
there's plenty of women that would like that,
but just me as a more dominant female. It's just,
it's not what the energy that I'm looking for
because I need something more powerful than me.
And that actually calms me down in this situation.
Yeah. So we all have our preferences. Oh yeah,
definitely, definitely. Well, I actually think...
So I got some... You're going to throw something
into the... I sure am. You know me too well.
I'm like, oh, he has that look on his face where
I'm like, hmm. Well, one thing I wanted to say,
too, I'm actually going to agree with both you
guys on a subject you were talking about earlier
as far as, like, you were... Siren was mentioning
the black thing, and then... Brian rightfully
so said well, you know, these are it's a principle
and no matter what race is displaying it But
I do want to say both of you guys are right at
the same time and what I mean by that is in the
black culture We are we have an exterior That
presents as dominant no matter what, even the
gay men No matter what body type you have, it
doesn't matter. Whether you're muscular, whether
you're a big guy, whether you're a skinny guy,
it doesn't matter. And that's what attracted
me to Black men over and over and over was nothing
about what people joke about, the dick size,
which is great. But it's not what attracted me.
What attracted me was that dominance and the
decision -making and the, you know. Hey, I'm
going to pick you up at 7. We're going to go
do this, this, and this. And I would say, sounds
great. Meanwhile, someone else, not a black man,
would be like, you know, very intimidated by
me, could barely breathe just to try to ask me
out for a cup of coffee. And by the time he got
through asking me, I was exhausted. Because he
was wanting me to make 15 decisions just for
him to take for a cup of coffee. Oh, where are
you going to go? Whose car do you want to drive?
I'm like, oh, my goodness. Just you're the one
asking me, you know, like, please just have the
plan in place before you even come up. That's
what black men would do consistently. And that's
why I was like, I'm a single mother. I run a
company. You know, by five o 'clock, I'm done
making decisions. I even tell my husband that
I said, I love that you men are. I said, you
know, you guys are on the clock 24 hours a day
for the decision making stuff. But I said for
me as a woman, like by five o 'clock, like I
want to be clocked off with that, you know, and
then just come into your comfort. So I appreciate
the men that are more dominant and make decisions,
whether they are Alpha or Sigma. Yeah. So go
ahead. No, I was going to say, I think that confidence
thing about black men, I think that just goes
back to, I mean, it goes way back. We had to
be confident coming up. We had to be aggressive.
We had to stand up for ourselves. It's just the
way it's been for the black man. And even now,
we still have to be. We have to be a certain
way when we're out here in the world. We can't
be, and I hate to say the word soft, but we can't
be soft, though. We can't be soft. We have to
be assertive. We have to be confident. We have
to be dominant. We have to be sure of ourselves.
We have to dot the I's and cross the T's all
the time. You know what I mean? Because we are
constantly being looked at in every situation
and every walk of life. So that's that here again,
that's where the, the, the attraction. And like
you said, uh, it's not, well, what was the exterior
was inside the pants. That's extra. You know
what I mean? That's bonus, but exactly. That's
a bonus. But what you're getting is the definition
of what a real man is supposed to be. I, what
a, what, what a, what a husband. should be to
his wife and his family. You know, what a boyfriend
should be to his girlfriend. What a dad should
be to his kids. That's the essence of what, you
know, a black man is out here in the world. And
that is why we are so loved by all races of women.
You know, that's why we're loved by all races
of women and feared by a lot of men. So I think
that pretty much kind of like Sums it up, doesn't
it? Yes, sir. What puts a bow on it? So, yeah,
we're going to end it there, guys. I think we
learned a lot, and I learned a lot about myself.
And, you know, this is not going to be the end
of that conversation because, you know, that's
one. Oh, no, that's just part one. This is part
one. This is the foundation of what the Bull
Brotherhood is about, is the perspective from
the Sigma male perspective. And we believe. that
is the best perspective to present the entire
case because I feel like we have a little bit
of all of them in us. And cause we, we see things
as tools as opposed to identities. And I think
that's why we're kind of outside the spectrum,
but at the same time kind of sharing that leadership
position. So we're going to be excited about
talking about it guys. And I don't know, boss,
we'll, we'll let you finish it out on whatever
thoughts you got on. Hey, man, I think you just
summed it all up right there. I really can't
follow up with anything else other than what
I always say to my Bull Brothers out there. Good
night, and to all my lovely hot wives and unicorns
and vixens out there, good morning. This has
been another informative episode of the Bull
Brotherhood podcast. our lovely and seductive
siren. And we're going to call it a night until
we meet again. Everybody, stay sexy, stay seductive.
And to my brothers out there who think they're
Sigma, definitely stay Sigma. Have a good night,
y 'all. This is who we are. Old, confident, seductive.
Dominant and classy. We're standing tall, never
fall. Bull Brotherhood. Luxury untaught