WEBVTT 00:00:00.270 --> 00:00:03.930 This podcast contains explicit adult content 00:00:03.930 --> 00:00:07.750 mature themes and candid conversations about 00:00:07.750 --> 00:00:12.109 sex dominance power exchange and ethical non 00:00:12.109 --> 00:00:16.010 -monogamy It is intended for audiences 18 and 00:00:16.010 --> 00:00:20.649 over only listener discretion is advised The 00:00:20.649 --> 00:00:23.250 views expressed by our guests are theirs alone 00:00:23.250 --> 00:00:26.989 and do not necessarily reflect the views or values 00:00:26.989 --> 00:00:30.320 of the hosts producers, or affiliated brands. 00:00:30.960 --> 00:00:34.179 The Bull Brotherhood podcast is for educational, 00:00:34.439 --> 00:00:37.119 entertainment, and empowerment purposes only. 00:00:37.500 --> 00:00:39.960 Nothing in this podcast should be interpreted 00:00:39.960 --> 00:00:44.659 as legal advice, medical guidance, or psychological 00:00:44.659 --> 00:00:48.359 counseling. 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If you're 00:01:31.359 --> 00:01:34.400 here, you're not just curious. You're ready to 00:01:34.400 --> 00:01:38.239 elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, 00:01:38.359 --> 00:01:42.079 and open -minded explorers, we see you. Let's 00:01:42.079 --> 00:01:46.219 go. Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, and welcome 00:01:46.219 --> 00:01:48.859 to another informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood 00:01:48.859 --> 00:01:52.959 Podcast. I'm your host, one -third of your host 00:01:52.959 --> 00:01:55.379 team. I'm Brian Morgan, a .k .a. The Sigma Male. 00:01:56.109 --> 00:01:59.329 And I'm here alongside my wonderful co -hosts, 00:01:59.329 --> 00:02:03.969 the husband and wife team of The Seductive Siren, 00:02:04.129 --> 00:02:07.189 as well as my nephew, the philosopher himself, 00:02:07.530 --> 00:02:11.129 Socrates. How's everyone this evening? Doing 00:02:11.129 --> 00:02:15.009 great, Brian. What's good? Wonderful, wonderful, 00:02:15.009 --> 00:02:18.349 wonderful, wonderful. Tonight we have a topic 00:02:18.349 --> 00:02:21.090 that's like near and dear to my heart, ladies 00:02:21.090 --> 00:02:24.430 and gentlemen, because I exemplify one of these. 00:02:25.370 --> 00:02:29.129 male hierarchies it's the alpha male versus the 00:02:29.129 --> 00:02:33.310 sigma male and how both of these guys navigate 00:02:33.310 --> 00:02:36.530 in the hot wife lifestyle at least what we've 00:02:36.530 --> 00:02:39.810 seen in the lot in the hot wife lifestyle and 00:02:39.810 --> 00:02:43.009 i'm talking about like seeing at parties such 00:02:43.009 --> 00:02:47.069 as splash mocha other events etc etc um let me 00:02:47.069 --> 00:02:49.810 say this to all the alpha males out there i am 00:02:49.810 --> 00:02:52.550 not trying to talk about talk bad about you in 00:02:52.550 --> 00:02:54.900 any type of way I'm just letting you know exactly 00:02:54.900 --> 00:02:59.080 what I've seen as a Sigma male compared to what 00:02:59.080 --> 00:03:02.659 you guys bring to the table. So let's get started. 00:03:04.139 --> 00:03:09.219 Yeah, so as we always do, I'm going to be the 00:03:09.219 --> 00:03:11.659 one answering the questions. And I'm going to 00:03:11.659 --> 00:03:14.360 get both of you guys' perspectives. And then 00:03:14.360 --> 00:03:16.400 I'm going to share some of my nerdy definitions 00:03:16.400 --> 00:03:25.699 of it. One of the things that, you know, before 00:03:25.699 --> 00:03:29.219 we get into some of the more, you know, nitty 00:03:29.219 --> 00:03:33.840 gritty things is I wanted to say that you really 00:03:33.840 --> 00:03:37.219 changed everything for me when you introduced 00:03:37.219 --> 00:03:42.139 the Sigma male concept. Because I identified 00:03:42.139 --> 00:03:47.139 with it when you first talked about it. But then 00:03:47.139 --> 00:03:50.120 when you broke down the certain types of Sigma 00:03:50.120 --> 00:03:53.699 males. which we can talk about what mine is later 00:03:53.699 --> 00:03:56.340 because I think we should, you know, talk about 00:03:56.340 --> 00:03:59.599 my type and your type later on in this podcast. 00:03:59.719 --> 00:04:05.379 But when that broke that down, it allowed me 00:04:05.379 --> 00:04:07.639 to say, okay, I identify with this. This is who 00:04:07.639 --> 00:04:12.139 I am. But things like sitting back in the cut 00:04:12.139 --> 00:04:13.919 and watching everybody else and letting them 00:04:13.919 --> 00:04:17.579 come to me is not natural, but it is where I 00:04:17.579 --> 00:04:21.689 want to be. So it made sense. It made even the 00:04:21.689 --> 00:04:26.149 things that I'm not doing that I wanted to do 00:04:26.149 --> 00:04:29.129 make sense, the things that came naturally to 00:04:29.129 --> 00:04:34.269 me. So I'm really excited about these getting 00:04:34.269 --> 00:04:38.550 the distinctions because this is what made me 00:04:38.550 --> 00:04:41.149 say, I want to fuck with this dude. I really 00:04:41.149 --> 00:04:44.949 want to, yeah, like I really want to be around 00:04:44.949 --> 00:04:46.730 him. I want to understand his perspective on 00:04:46.730 --> 00:04:50.160 this. you know, I want to follow where he's leading. 00:04:50.339 --> 00:04:55.000 So, so yeah. So talk to me about, I'm going to 00:04:55.000 --> 00:04:57.259 take it even further back into the entire framework. 00:04:58.000 --> 00:05:01.220 Can you tell me what all of the types of males 00:05:01.220 --> 00:05:03.480 are? Cause I don't, I know there are more than 00:05:03.480 --> 00:05:08.000 three, right? I mean, if you don't know it, that's 00:05:08.000 --> 00:05:11.379 fine, but just the ones that you do know. I'm 00:05:11.379 --> 00:05:14.279 not like looking at them at any notes of any 00:05:14.279 --> 00:05:17.689 kind right now. So it was like. Do you have it 00:05:17.689 --> 00:05:19.430 written down? Because I can't remember exactly 00:05:19.430 --> 00:05:22.889 all of the types. There are several. There are 00:05:22.889 --> 00:05:27.629 several. Here again, let me explain who I am, 00:05:27.670 --> 00:05:35.470 how I am. I am the introverted alpha, okay? If 00:05:35.470 --> 00:05:38.089 you watched me at Splash Mocha, that was a perfect 00:05:38.089 --> 00:05:43.389 example. That's exactly how I am 24 -7, okay? 00:05:43.870 --> 00:05:47.490 You saw me navigate the room a couple of times. 00:05:47.629 --> 00:05:51.730 Then I came back. You knew already when you came 00:05:51.730 --> 00:05:54.170 out of that doggone elevator, I was going to 00:05:54.170 --> 00:05:56.490 be sitting in one of the two spots there in the 00:05:56.490 --> 00:05:59.730 driveway, correct? Right, right. And here again, 00:05:59.910 --> 00:06:05.350 I see everything. I see everything. I saw several 00:06:05.350 --> 00:06:07.930 different types of couples, several different 00:06:07.930 --> 00:06:10.410 types of women walking around. But here again, 00:06:10.750 --> 00:06:15.170 I'm never... thirsty. I'm never like going up 00:06:15.170 --> 00:06:18.689 to anybody really talking to them. Um, as I said, 00:06:18.709 --> 00:06:22.089 I let you see the goods and then I sit down and 00:06:22.089 --> 00:06:25.689 it's the, it's the, it's the aura. It's the aura 00:06:25.689 --> 00:06:28.670 that I have. It's, it's that mystery about me. 00:06:28.750 --> 00:06:31.189 That's what people used to say. And you know, 00:06:31.189 --> 00:06:34.110 they usually come up to me and a lot of times 00:06:34.110 --> 00:06:35.290 they said, well, I didn't know that you were 00:06:35.290 --> 00:06:38.850 going to be this approachable, you know, but 00:06:38.850 --> 00:06:41.629 I am once I start talking to you, you know, and, 00:06:41.709 --> 00:06:44.120 and I feel comfortable. then, you know, it's 00:06:44.120 --> 00:06:47.439 on after that. But I am very much the introverted 00:06:47.439 --> 00:06:51.899 alpha. I told you, if an alpha male is considered 00:06:51.899 --> 00:06:55.360 like a general, you know, who leads his army 00:06:55.360 --> 00:06:58.240 in the battle, then I'm that Sigma. I'm just 00:06:58.240 --> 00:07:00.639 that one man army by myself. I fight my battles 00:07:00.639 --> 00:07:03.079 all along. So, you know, I'm never around a bunch 00:07:03.079 --> 00:07:06.259 of guys other than you guys, you know, by three 00:07:06.259 --> 00:07:08.459 or four that I call brotherhood. Other than that, 00:07:08.480 --> 00:07:12.120 I'm a one man show. So, I mean, that's me. That's 00:07:12.120 --> 00:07:14.459 me in a nutshell explaining myself without giving 00:07:14.459 --> 00:07:18.040 you an old definition of Sigma male. And I like, 00:07:18.060 --> 00:07:21.379 I like to really stretch analogies out. And what 00:07:21.379 --> 00:07:24.860 I like is if you use that analogy as, as an alpha 00:07:24.860 --> 00:07:28.079 male, as a general, I would say a Sigma male 00:07:28.079 --> 00:07:33.220 is a head of a special forces team because you're 00:07:33.220 --> 00:07:37.779 more laser focused. You're more, you know, you're 00:07:37.779 --> 00:07:40.120 a specialist is going to come in under the radar. 00:07:40.620 --> 00:07:46.259 get the mission done, get out. And you won't 00:07:46.259 --> 00:07:49.000 know years down the line that it was a SEAL team 00:07:49.000 --> 00:07:52.100 or that it was a, you know, Ranger team or, you 00:07:52.100 --> 00:07:54.899 know, whatever special forces it is. You know, 00:07:54.920 --> 00:07:58.079 it's best that you don't know, right? That's 00:07:58.079 --> 00:08:01.000 a damn good analogy right there. I like that. 00:08:02.060 --> 00:08:05.879 I refer to it as you being a part of the unit. 00:08:06.120 --> 00:08:08.060 And that's what that is, you know, when you are 00:08:08.060 --> 00:08:11.560 SF in the military. um like i said you you you 00:08:11.560 --> 00:08:14.959 in and out uh nobody knows nobody really knows 00:08:14.959 --> 00:08:17.180 notices that you're there but you get the mission 00:08:17.180 --> 00:08:19.459 done in a timely manner the mission is always 00:08:19.459 --> 00:08:22.379 great and then boom you're out of there so yeah 00:08:22.379 --> 00:08:25.180 that's what a single male is okay equally as 00:08:25.180 --> 00:08:28.959 powerful as an alpha equally as powerful i like 00:08:28.959 --> 00:08:31.000 i said if alpha's a lion and sigma's a tiger 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:34.320 okay equally as powerful but we just do things 00:08:34.320 --> 00:08:37.159 a little bit different that's all yeah well let's 00:08:37.159 --> 00:08:42.610 talk about that difference um How would you define 00:08:42.610 --> 00:08:47.669 an alpha male and then sigma? And then we can 00:08:47.669 --> 00:08:50.509 go over. There's actually six types. We can go 00:08:50.509 --> 00:08:51.970 over those if you want or whenever you're ready. 00:08:52.450 --> 00:08:54.889 But how would you describe an alpha male? And 00:08:54.889 --> 00:08:59.570 then how would you describe a sigma male comparatively? 00:08:59.909 --> 00:09:01.850 And then we definitely want to get Siren's opinion 00:09:01.850 --> 00:09:04.710 on how she feels in the presence of either one, 00:09:04.789 --> 00:09:08.490 right? Let me let me say this. I'm going to I'm 00:09:08.490 --> 00:09:11.210 going to describe an alpha male as I have seen 00:09:11.210 --> 00:09:14.610 them at, say, like events like Splash or other 00:09:14.610 --> 00:09:17.570 events. You know, I mean, the alphas that I see 00:09:17.570 --> 00:09:23.450 at Splash, they are they're dominant, assertive, 00:09:23.450 --> 00:09:28.570 you know, usually usually. Sexually, they're 00:09:28.570 --> 00:09:31.370 like they're like they're the attention seekers. 00:09:32.110 --> 00:09:35.350 You know what I mean? They're there to conquer. 00:09:36.049 --> 00:09:41.870 They are sexual seekers. Whereas myself, I'm 00:09:41.870 --> 00:09:44.830 a pleasure provider. The Sigma is, here again, 00:09:45.029 --> 00:09:49.350 that lone wolf, you know, self -assured, always 00:09:49.350 --> 00:09:53.769 confident, always in the cut, gets what he wants, 00:09:53.850 --> 00:09:56.289 but goes about it a little bit differently. Okay? 00:09:56.370 --> 00:09:58.590 I don't want just your body. I want your mind. 00:10:00.089 --> 00:10:02.029 I want to get inside your head. I want to get 00:10:02.029 --> 00:10:03.549 inside the lady's head. I want to get inside 00:10:03.549 --> 00:10:05.809 the couple's head because I want both of them 00:10:05.809 --> 00:10:08.149 to have a great experience when they're with 00:10:08.149 --> 00:10:10.529 me. You know, if the husband is there watching, 00:10:10.629 --> 00:10:12.450 then I want him to be like, okay, we're going 00:10:12.450 --> 00:10:14.929 to definitely put Brian Morgan's name in our 00:10:14.929 --> 00:10:18.690 telephone because we want to see him again. So 00:10:18.690 --> 00:10:22.090 that's how I see an alpha versus a sigma at something 00:10:22.090 --> 00:10:27.049 like Splash. Got you. So you're talking about 00:10:27.049 --> 00:10:29.629 their approach to it, right? yes how they're 00:10:29.629 --> 00:10:33.309 going to do themselves gotcha yes exactly exactly 00:10:33.309 --> 00:10:44.929 and um so siren wifey hello without naming names 00:10:44.929 --> 00:10:48.370 i want you to picture like i want you to picture 00:10:48.370 --> 00:10:53.789 uh an alpha that you may have played with or 00:10:53.789 --> 00:10:56.909 want to play with and then i want you to picture 00:10:56.909 --> 00:10:59.600 a sigma that you may have played with or wanted 00:10:59.600 --> 00:11:01.860 to play with. And I want you kind of to describe 00:11:01.860 --> 00:11:05.000 how you feel with either one and comparatively. 00:11:06.600 --> 00:11:10.059 So first of all, I want to say same. I did not 00:11:10.059 --> 00:11:14.200 even know about Sigma male. I always heard Alpha 00:11:14.200 --> 00:11:17.720 and Beta, which I just equated before lifestyle 00:11:17.720 --> 00:11:23.259 with strong and weak, you know, and I do. There 00:11:23.259 --> 00:11:25.980 had to be like a good mixture, you know, something 00:11:25.980 --> 00:11:29.059 in the middle. That was closer to an alpha, but 00:11:29.059 --> 00:11:33.620 had that softness. You know, a man of steel and 00:11:33.620 --> 00:11:37.299 also velvet. And I think that that's what in 00:11:37.299 --> 00:11:40.120 my feminine mind, I think of. Oh, sorry. Yes, 00:11:40.179 --> 00:11:43.919 sir. That's a nicely put. He built. Thank you. 00:11:43.960 --> 00:11:46.419 It's actually the name of a book. That's where 00:11:46.419 --> 00:11:49.500 I got it from. But it just when I got to know 00:11:49.500 --> 00:11:52.799 Socrates, I was just like, that's just what I 00:11:52.799 --> 00:11:55.879 thought of a man of steel and velvet. And then 00:11:55.879 --> 00:12:00.570 when. he told me about the Sigma male, then I 00:12:00.570 --> 00:12:05.230 just was like, that's him completely. And, you 00:12:05.230 --> 00:12:08.409 know, the way, you know, that he might move about 00:12:08.409 --> 00:12:10.490 being a Sigma male and the way you might move 00:12:10.490 --> 00:12:12.889 about being a Sigma male could be a little bit 00:12:12.889 --> 00:12:16.230 different, but still the same characteristics, 00:12:16.429 --> 00:12:20.330 principles, and, you know, and a lot of the same 00:12:20.330 --> 00:12:24.690 goals. So back to what Socrates was asking me. 00:12:27.240 --> 00:12:29.700 I think of like when I play with someone that 00:12:29.700 --> 00:12:34.299 I think of as more alpha, I think of it being 00:12:34.299 --> 00:12:42.559 more of a faster, more aggressive play experience. 00:12:43.879 --> 00:12:48.580 Sexual style? Yes. And even in their approach 00:12:48.580 --> 00:12:53.980 to me too is a little bit more like, hey. let's 00:12:53.980 --> 00:12:56.019 go up to the broom you know it's just like telling 00:12:56.019 --> 00:13:01.460 me what to do um yeah which i don't i don't mind 00:13:01.460 --> 00:13:03.759 i like both of the experiences for different 00:13:03.759 --> 00:13:07.139 reasons um but i'll tell you what i gravitate 00:13:07.139 --> 00:13:10.059 towards a little bit more at the end of my answer 00:13:10.059 --> 00:13:13.940 so You know, that more alpha guy is just like, 00:13:14.000 --> 00:13:15.899 come on, baby, let's go. We're going to go play. 00:13:16.059 --> 00:13:18.779 And so we go do. And then usually he doesn't 00:13:18.779 --> 00:13:21.220 come close to me. He stays up kind of, you know, 00:13:21.240 --> 00:13:23.539 maybe some ladies would refer to him as the pounded 00:13:23.539 --> 00:13:29.600 out guys. But some people don't prefer that. 00:13:29.679 --> 00:13:31.700 Some people do. I like a little bit of everything. 00:13:32.460 --> 00:13:34.899 So that's what I think of when I think of more 00:13:34.899 --> 00:13:37.679 of the alpha male play experience, you know. 00:13:39.370 --> 00:13:42.730 And when I feel that I'm in the presence of more 00:13:42.730 --> 00:13:46.509 Sigma males, I feel that the approach is more 00:13:46.509 --> 00:13:50.570 conversational. Like they've all got this little 00:13:50.570 --> 00:13:52.750 thing that they do. I've pointed them out to 00:13:52.750 --> 00:13:54.889 Socrates. I said, ah, this guy, he does this. 00:13:55.090 --> 00:13:58.549 He will talk this certain way. Or this guy is 00:13:58.549 --> 00:14:01.269 in the chats flirting, but he's really good at 00:14:01.269 --> 00:14:03.570 making each lady feel special. They've all just 00:14:03.570 --> 00:14:05.190 got their little thing that they're trying to 00:14:05.190 --> 00:14:07.929 hone, you know, a little uniqueness about them. 00:14:08.809 --> 00:14:13.190 i .e. a pleasure provider yes i .e. a pleasure 00:14:13.190 --> 00:14:15.769 provider that's what he is and they all just 00:14:15.769 --> 00:14:19.289 have a different way of bringing that about you 00:14:19.289 --> 00:14:22.149 know one guy it's the way that he looks up at 00:14:22.149 --> 00:14:25.409 you between when he's between your legs you know 00:14:25.409 --> 00:14:27.190 there's just the way what he how he looks at 00:14:27.190 --> 00:14:29.970 you with his eyes or another guy the way he words 00:14:29.970 --> 00:14:32.029 things you know he doesn't say i want to eat 00:14:32.029 --> 00:14:34.129 your pussy he has like a whole poem about it 00:14:37.049 --> 00:14:42.210 I eat myself. I'm a talker. I'm a storyteller. 00:14:42.710 --> 00:14:45.870 I'm a storyteller. And then with the actual play 00:14:45.870 --> 00:14:49.129 experience, they always come close to you at 00:14:49.129 --> 00:14:52.269 some point. They are always like chest to chest, 00:14:52.590 --> 00:14:56.929 kissing you, talking to you, providing that experience. 00:14:57.009 --> 00:15:02.129 And that is exactly the main thing that I first 00:15:02.129 --> 00:15:06.259 noticed about my husband when I first... started 00:15:06.259 --> 00:15:09.279 having sex with him is that you know he would 00:15:09.279 --> 00:15:12.000 bring me close and it was like a very different 00:15:12.000 --> 00:15:16.919 feeling and connection so yeah he got i .e i 00:15:16.919 --> 00:15:19.799 .e he got inside of your head yeah all right 00:15:19.799 --> 00:15:24.799 as well as well as well your your mind your soul 00:15:24.799 --> 00:15:28.700 everything all in one okay yes um that is what 00:15:28.700 --> 00:15:31.559 that is what my baby girl tells me okay she says 00:15:31.559 --> 00:15:34.720 the same thing she said she said daddy you you 00:15:35.360 --> 00:15:39.279 You just click all the buttons. You click all 00:15:39.279 --> 00:15:42.240 the buttons. And that is what I like to bring, 00:15:42.419 --> 00:15:45.299 you know, to a couple, to a woman. I want her 00:15:45.299 --> 00:15:50.580 to have the ultimate, and here again, it's more 00:15:50.580 --> 00:15:53.519 than just like the boyfriend experience. It is 00:15:53.519 --> 00:15:56.440 just the ultimate, what I just call man, what 00:15:56.440 --> 00:15:59.120 a man is supposed to do, you know, to a woman, 00:15:59.179 --> 00:16:02.750 both sexually. Well, I mean, excuse me, both 00:16:02.750 --> 00:16:05.429 physically, both mentally, as well as emotionally, 00:16:05.629 --> 00:16:08.490 even intellectually, you know, when I'm talking 00:16:08.490 --> 00:16:10.990 to her. I want to talk about a variety of things, 00:16:11.110 --> 00:16:13.169 not just, hey, because we're at Splash and, you 00:16:13.169 --> 00:16:15.769 know, you got a sexy outfit on showing everything 00:16:15.769 --> 00:16:18.169 and, you know, we're about to go upstairs or 00:16:18.169 --> 00:16:19.490 something like that. No, I want to get to know 00:16:19.490 --> 00:16:23.690 you. I want to know the lady, okay? I want to 00:16:23.690 --> 00:16:25.570 know the husband. I want to know the couple. 00:16:26.049 --> 00:16:27.830 And what does that establish? That establish 00:16:27.830 --> 00:16:32.399 trust, respect, rapport. companionship, et cetera. 00:16:32.639 --> 00:16:36.899 And that makes what the most ultimate experience 00:16:36.899 --> 00:16:39.039 possible. You know what I mean? When you come 00:16:39.039 --> 00:16:43.840 back downstairs and, you know, I give you back 00:16:43.840 --> 00:16:46.259 to the husband, you know, for reclamation, you 00:16:46.259 --> 00:16:48.639 want to be like, oh, shoot, I definitely want 00:16:48.639 --> 00:16:50.799 to see him again. Definitely want to see him 00:16:50.799 --> 00:16:53.000 again. That sounds so official. That sounds so 00:16:53.000 --> 00:16:56.779 official. Reclamation. Well, that's dope. Well, 00:16:56.799 --> 00:16:59.049 because that's what you're doing. You know what 00:16:59.049 --> 00:17:02.230 I mean? When I give you back, when I give her 00:17:02.230 --> 00:17:05.549 back to you, you are reclaiming. You're reclaiming 00:17:05.549 --> 00:17:09.750 your wife. I love to be reclamated. Yeah, you 00:17:09.750 --> 00:17:12.069 are reclaiming your wife. You are reclaiming 00:17:12.069 --> 00:17:15.150 for the reconnection. You're reclaiming her so, 00:17:15.250 --> 00:17:17.390 you know, so you guys can... You're reclaiming 00:17:17.390 --> 00:17:21.990 in me. But that's the way it is, though. You 00:17:21.990 --> 00:17:24.450 are reclaiming. You are reclaiming so you can 00:17:24.450 --> 00:17:26.829 reconnect. You know? And that's the beautiful 00:17:26.829 --> 00:17:30.089 thing. I love it. That's a beautiful thing. That's 00:17:30.089 --> 00:17:34.630 a beautiful thing. You know? And Socrates. Yes, 00:17:34.630 --> 00:17:37.529 sir. You were talking about the types of Sigma 00:17:37.529 --> 00:17:39.430 males. I had to go back and dig and find them, 00:17:39.470 --> 00:17:49.029 my brother. We're talking about like the stoic, 00:17:49.029 --> 00:17:51.430 the stoic Sigma. You remember when I told you 00:17:51.430 --> 00:17:55.009 that? Yep. You know what I'm saying? Very, very 00:17:55.009 --> 00:18:00.400 unshaken. Numb to emotions. You know what I mean? 00:18:00.559 --> 00:18:05.259 He's a great listener. Accessible. And he, again, 00:18:05.299 --> 00:18:08.559 often says less. He knows that silence is his 00:18:08.559 --> 00:18:12.640 power. And what do I always tell you? My power 00:18:12.640 --> 00:18:14.380 is what? My voice of silence when I'm out there, 00:18:14.400 --> 00:18:17.319 right? When I'm at events. That's my power. That's 00:18:17.319 --> 00:18:22.099 the one I need to recall. I was just pointing 00:18:22.099 --> 00:18:24.700 at him and saying, oh, that one's not really 00:18:24.700 --> 00:18:29.119 you. We all know Socrates' last two asked questions. 00:18:29.440 --> 00:18:34.220 I think this is nephew right here, the paradoxical 00:18:34.220 --> 00:18:38.259 thinker. The paradoxical thinker. He can move. 00:18:38.460 --> 00:18:41.240 He can move, holding multiple ideas in his head 00:18:41.240 --> 00:18:43.839 without breaking a stride. That's you, Socrates. 00:18:44.420 --> 00:18:48.660 That is you. Deeply comfortable with complexity. 00:18:49.079 --> 00:18:51.720 You know, looks at problems from multiple angles. 00:18:51.960 --> 00:18:55.930 That's you. That's your nephew. That is you. 00:18:56.009 --> 00:18:58.170 The paradoxical thinker. When you said that, 00:18:58.170 --> 00:19:02.269 when you said that, I was sold. Because the Sigma 00:19:02.269 --> 00:19:04.509 stuff, there's some things I'm like, yeah, I'm 00:19:04.509 --> 00:19:06.529 not there, but I'd like to be. There's some things 00:19:06.529 --> 00:19:09.609 like, that's just me. Okay, it was cool. But 00:19:09.609 --> 00:19:13.369 when you said that type of, I was like, oh, yes. 00:19:14.349 --> 00:19:17.890 Because I do. I look at even, we're talking about 00:19:17.890 --> 00:19:19.910 ethical non -monogamy, but you can apply these 00:19:19.910 --> 00:19:23.730 principles anywhere. But I look at approaching. 00:19:24.430 --> 00:19:27.789 women and the lifestyle from several angles i 00:19:27.789 --> 00:19:32.490 have i'm thinking of okay i just read a book 00:19:32.490 --> 00:19:35.130 on reading you know body language because it's 00:19:35.130 --> 00:19:38.410 very important in things like splash or or yes 00:19:38.410 --> 00:19:41.410 absolutely because nobody's going to tell you 00:19:41.410 --> 00:19:45.190 no they're not going to tell you no i'm not interested 00:19:45.190 --> 00:19:47.970 well maybe one percent they're going to say maybe 00:19:47.970 --> 00:19:50.829 later they're going to say you know see how i 00:19:50.829 --> 00:19:53.750 feel You know, they're going to say, well, I'm 00:19:53.750 --> 00:19:56.730 recovering. And some of this is probably true, 00:19:56.809 --> 00:19:59.269 some of it's not. But I'm sitting there holding 00:19:59.269 --> 00:20:02.549 the idea of body language, the idea of active 00:20:02.549 --> 00:20:06.509 listening, the idea of me trying to focus and 00:20:06.509 --> 00:20:08.329 make sure I have good eye contact. I'm trying 00:20:08.329 --> 00:20:11.430 to hold all these in once, and I do it all. And 00:20:11.430 --> 00:20:13.569 if I'm not holding several different concepts 00:20:13.569 --> 00:20:15.910 in my hand, I actually start losing interest. 00:20:17.390 --> 00:20:21.920 There you go. There you go. Compared to, here 00:20:21.920 --> 00:20:23.880 again, I'm not talking about the alpha males 00:20:23.880 --> 00:20:26.240 in a bad way, but the majority of the time, the 00:20:26.240 --> 00:20:30.920 alpha, he's looking for that conquest. I'm the 00:20:30.920 --> 00:20:34.519 king, and let's go. I don't care if there's a 00:20:34.519 --> 00:20:37.799 lot of eye contact. I know that there's the physical 00:20:37.799 --> 00:20:40.279 right now. I'm seeing TNA, tits and ass, and 00:20:40.279 --> 00:20:43.900 that's what I want. Compared to, like I said, 00:20:43.980 --> 00:20:48.750 myself, that doesn't faze me. that doesn't events 00:20:48.750 --> 00:20:51.410 like splash don't faze me you know what i mean 00:20:51.410 --> 00:20:54.650 i go to have a great time yes but i've had so 00:20:54.650 --> 00:20:57.470 much of a great time in the past that i can sit 00:20:57.470 --> 00:21:00.390 there and actually not do anything for about 00:21:00.390 --> 00:21:03.990 two maybe three days and and i'm fine you know 00:21:03.990 --> 00:21:05.650 maybe i have some fun on a saturday i may have 00:21:05.650 --> 00:21:08.849 some fun on friday but i don't have to be out 00:21:08.849 --> 00:21:12.450 there 24 7 like the majority of the guys do you 00:21:12.450 --> 00:21:14.109 know and i'm not going to settle for anything 00:21:14.109 --> 00:21:17.529 that's not going to happen okay that's why we 00:21:17.529 --> 00:21:20.150 look at ourselves in the mirror and and you know 00:21:20.150 --> 00:21:22.789 we're like okay if if this is the standard i'm 00:21:22.789 --> 00:21:24.769 looking at in the mirror then the standard that's 00:21:24.769 --> 00:21:27.029 going to be with me is going to be equal or higher 00:21:27.029 --> 00:21:38.450 period facts yeah i love that um yeah let me 00:21:38.450 --> 00:21:43.480 ask you a different question so let's say somebody's 00:21:43.480 --> 00:21:45.200 listening to this podcast and they're like, you 00:21:45.200 --> 00:21:48.339 know what? Yeah, I kind of resonate with what 00:21:48.339 --> 00:21:52.839 he's saying, but they're not sure. What are some 00:21:52.839 --> 00:21:55.519 other things or what are some characteristics 00:21:55.519 --> 00:21:58.799 that they can look for in themselves to say, 00:21:58.859 --> 00:22:00.960 yeah, man, that's me. I'm, I'm really a Sigma 00:22:00.960 --> 00:22:04.720 male. If you, okay. If, if this person say like 00:22:04.720 --> 00:22:08.400 a 10 splash, if you're 10 splash and I'm, I'm, 00:22:08.400 --> 00:22:10.859 I'm, you know, I asked yourself, how do you, 00:22:11.259 --> 00:22:14.240 How do you attract splash women? How are you 00:22:14.240 --> 00:22:16.140 when you're at splash? You know what I mean? 00:22:16.880 --> 00:22:19.740 Are you kind of a mystery man? You know, do you 00:22:19.740 --> 00:22:24.259 like you kind of not say be standoffish, but 00:22:24.259 --> 00:22:26.240 like I said, you walk the room a couple of times 00:22:26.240 --> 00:22:28.579 and you get back, you sit, you have a drink and 00:22:28.579 --> 00:22:33.460 you observe. You observe. Do the women come to 00:22:33.460 --> 00:22:36.799 you or do you have to pursue them? If the women 00:22:36.799 --> 00:22:38.539 come to you while you're sitting down and stuff. 00:22:38.970 --> 00:22:41.529 and they, you know, hey, how you doing, et cetera, 00:22:41.609 --> 00:22:43.569 et cetera, and you start a conversation and it 00:22:43.569 --> 00:22:46.190 goes from there, then you're probably a sigma, 00:22:46.349 --> 00:22:50.970 not necessarily alpha. Okay? Like you said, body 00:22:50.970 --> 00:22:55.130 language. What is your body language? All right? 00:22:55.150 --> 00:22:56.990 When you're standing out there in the hallway 00:22:56.990 --> 00:22:59.710 or something, are you standing confident? Chest 00:22:59.710 --> 00:23:03.490 out, tall, you know, exuding dominance, but not 00:23:03.490 --> 00:23:06.089 in a menacing way. You understand what I'm saying? 00:23:09.000 --> 00:23:10.940 When you're talking to a lady, are you always 00:23:10.940 --> 00:23:13.460 like standing close to her? When you're standing 00:23:13.460 --> 00:23:16.480 close, you're doing what? You're giving them 00:23:16.480 --> 00:23:19.160 their complete attention, and they're doing what 00:23:19.160 --> 00:23:21.480 also? They're beginning to feel what? Comfortable, 00:23:21.680 --> 00:23:26.279 safe, relaxed with you, correct? Calm, safe, 00:23:26.380 --> 00:23:31.819 and excited. Okay. All right. I like that. I 00:23:31.819 --> 00:23:33.960 like that. That's a little thing we came up with. 00:23:35.039 --> 00:23:39.769 Okay. Previously. When I talk to a lady, one 00:23:39.769 --> 00:23:41.789 of the things I do when I'm talking to a woman, 00:23:41.890 --> 00:23:46.509 I usually mirror what she does. Okay? I might 00:23:46.509 --> 00:23:51.589 imitate a gesture. If she smiles, I smile. You 00:23:51.589 --> 00:23:53.170 know what I mean? See, if we're walking down 00:23:53.170 --> 00:23:57.710 the hall, I might hold that hand, and we walk 00:23:57.710 --> 00:24:01.390 at the same pace. Here again, that exudes what 00:24:01.390 --> 00:24:02.950 when we're walking at the same pace? That lets 00:24:02.950 --> 00:24:05.660 us know that, hey, there's nothing else. around 00:24:05.660 --> 00:24:07.839 right now that means anything other than me and 00:24:07.839 --> 00:24:11.220 you. You know? Here again, that leads to a feeling 00:24:11.220 --> 00:24:14.339 of what? Connection, trust, increases your rapport, 00:24:14.599 --> 00:24:18.039 you know, and then you have a great time. Um, 00:24:18.119 --> 00:24:22.819 what's your sense of style? Oh, sorry to say, 00:24:22.819 --> 00:24:25.539 you got a chance to see me in what? Shirt, slacks, 00:24:25.599 --> 00:24:27.839 some shoes. Yeah. Saturday night, right? Mm -hmm. 00:24:28.079 --> 00:24:31.440 Okay. What do I always say? Sharp, but never 00:24:31.440 --> 00:24:37.339 flashy. Most alphas will be, they might be trying 00:24:37.339 --> 00:24:41.680 to have the chest showing, arm showing, something 00:24:41.680 --> 00:24:45.819 that accentuates the body. Well, hell, if you 00:24:45.819 --> 00:24:48.000 got a body, it's going to show anyway, correct? 00:24:48.779 --> 00:24:52.539 So, I mean, just put on a nice shirt, nice form 00:24:52.539 --> 00:24:55.099 -fitting shirt, put on some slacks that fit you 00:24:55.099 --> 00:24:57.720 the right way, curl some shoes. Hey, you heard 00:24:57.720 --> 00:24:59.900 Michael say, hey, he's got his church shoes on. 00:25:00.059 --> 00:25:04.440 Hell no, dude, those damn Giorgio Patini's. I 00:25:04.440 --> 00:25:07.359 deal with some very nice Italian slippers. Nothing 00:25:07.359 --> 00:25:12.559 more. Sharp, never flashy. And let me ask this 00:25:12.559 --> 00:25:15.099 question. When have you guys ever seen me without 00:25:15.099 --> 00:25:18.299 a clean shave, bald head, and face? Yeah, never. 00:25:19.440 --> 00:25:23.319 That's my signature. That's my signature. So 00:25:23.319 --> 00:25:25.640 here again, look at yourself. What is your style? 00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:29.640 I mean, what do you bring to the table? If you 00:25:29.640 --> 00:25:31.759 that. kind of loud guy who, you know, thinks 00:25:31.759 --> 00:25:33.359 they're the king and everything and wants to 00:25:33.359 --> 00:25:36.079 be seen, then you're probably an alpha. But if 00:25:36.079 --> 00:25:38.059 they're a dude that, if you got that six back, 00:25:38.259 --> 00:25:41.859 you know, in the cut, observes, let things come 00:25:41.859 --> 00:25:45.319 to you, then you're more than likely going to 00:25:45.319 --> 00:25:48.359 sleep with a male. Did I answer your question? 00:25:48.660 --> 00:25:52.839 Yes, sir. Yeah. I love it. You know what I mean? 00:25:52.900 --> 00:26:00.720 I soak this stuff up. You know. So. On the flip 00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:03.700 side, we talked about, you know, this isn't not 00:26:03.700 --> 00:26:06.460 this isn't something against alphas either. Right. 00:26:06.900 --> 00:26:10.660 So we are. Let me say this. Let me say this. 00:26:10.740 --> 00:26:13.619 We are very, very similar. We are very similar. 00:26:13.759 --> 00:26:17.759 I, if not the same, but we just do things a little 00:26:17.759 --> 00:26:20.619 bit differently. That's all. That's why the Sigma, 00:26:20.700 --> 00:26:24.059 when you look at the at the male hierarchy chart, 00:26:24.400 --> 00:26:29.019 you will have alpha, beta, gamma. I forgot what 00:26:29.019 --> 00:26:32.069 else it is. I brought five. But then outside 00:26:32.069 --> 00:26:35.009 of the chart, because we don't do things, we 00:26:35.009 --> 00:26:37.430 do things out of the norm. We do things our own 00:26:37.430 --> 00:26:40.369 way. As I said before, we don't answer the five 00:26:40.369 --> 00:26:43.470 W's. Where, what, when, why, and all that stuff. 00:26:43.589 --> 00:26:47.630 We don't, okay? So they put us outside of the 00:26:47.630 --> 00:26:50.970 hierarchy, but we're right beside alpha. So that's 00:26:50.970 --> 00:26:53.009 what I mean. We are the same. We are very much 00:26:53.009 --> 00:26:55.430 the same. We just do things differently. That's 00:26:55.430 --> 00:26:59.420 all. But go ahead. Yeah, no, I just wanted you 00:26:59.420 --> 00:27:04.299 to tell me the things that you like about Alphas 00:27:04.299 --> 00:27:08.519 that are different from you. That are different 00:27:08.519 --> 00:27:15.619 from me? Being that I am a military man at heart 00:27:15.619 --> 00:27:20.059 all the time, their sense of purpose, integrity, 00:27:20.500 --> 00:27:28.150 honesty, you know, responsibility. They always 00:27:28.150 --> 00:27:31.289 have a confidence about them. They have a confidence. 00:27:31.369 --> 00:27:34.390 Some people say it's cocky. I don't think it's 00:27:34.390 --> 00:27:36.410 cockiness. I really don't. I don't think it's 00:27:36.410 --> 00:27:39.329 cockiness. I just think it's just that ultimate 00:27:39.329 --> 00:27:42.250 confidence. You know, there's nothing wrong with 00:27:42.250 --> 00:27:46.170 you walking around knowing that you are a king, 00:27:46.390 --> 00:27:48.829 okay? But you don't have to come out and let 00:27:48.829 --> 00:27:53.170 the world know that you're a king. But definitely, 00:27:53.289 --> 00:27:55.690 I mean, hey, if you got it, you got it. It's 00:27:55.690 --> 00:27:58.079 fine. You know what I mean? When I look at guys 00:27:58.079 --> 00:28:02.119 on television, you know The Rock. That's my guy. 00:28:02.380 --> 00:28:05.000 Dwayne The Rock Johnson, he is an alpha male. 00:28:05.660 --> 00:28:08.599 Like, through thick and thin. But at the same 00:28:08.599 --> 00:28:11.900 time, though, he's a very, very personal boy 00:28:11.900 --> 00:28:15.140 and giving dude. Very, very personal and giving. 00:28:15.339 --> 00:28:19.240 So, you know, I love that. Their determination. 00:28:20.420 --> 00:28:22.880 They are very, very determined and they're very, 00:28:22.940 --> 00:28:25.329 very ruthless. When they want something, they 00:28:25.329 --> 00:28:27.329 go get it, and nothing is going to damn stop 00:28:27.329 --> 00:28:29.849 them. Nothing's going to stop them. They're driven 00:28:29.849 --> 00:28:34.369 at everything that they do. Most alphas are successful 00:28:34.369 --> 00:28:37.809 in life. They're successful in whatever they 00:28:37.809 --> 00:28:42.509 do, whether it be business, family. They are 00:28:42.509 --> 00:28:47.089 the epitome of what women want in a marriage, 00:28:47.269 --> 00:28:52.529 I think, and a husband. I mean, they just take 00:28:52.529 --> 00:28:54.390 care of business. They really take care of business. 00:28:54.750 --> 00:28:57.069 But here again, though, the majority of them 00:28:57.069 --> 00:29:00.650 like to be out in front. They, you know, they 00:29:00.650 --> 00:29:03.470 want to lead from the front. And as a Sigma, 00:29:03.569 --> 00:29:06.970 am I a leader? Yes. I just choose to lead by 00:29:06.970 --> 00:29:10.190 example and not out of the front. So that's what 00:29:10.190 --> 00:29:12.190 I like about outfits. That's, that's where I 00:29:12.190 --> 00:29:15.009 identify. Like the way I run my businesses, I'm 00:29:15.009 --> 00:29:18.910 like, Zach, I like they, the ladies run it. You 00:29:18.910 --> 00:29:22.079 know, I like to lead from. From, you know, from 00:29:22.079 --> 00:29:26.500 behind and from the darkness and, you know. I 00:29:26.500 --> 00:29:29.700 like it when you lead from behind. Siren. Just 00:29:29.700 --> 00:29:34.200 saying. Speaking as you do, Siren. Let me ask 00:29:34.200 --> 00:29:42.839 you. Siren, what turns you on about Alphys? There's 00:29:42.839 --> 00:29:47.000 very little decision making for me. And as somebody 00:29:47.000 --> 00:29:51.240 who, like you said, runs businesses. It's just 00:29:51.240 --> 00:29:53.420 very nice that they just come up and they're 00:29:53.420 --> 00:29:57.079 like, hey, you, let's go, you know, pretty quickly, 00:29:57.220 --> 00:30:01.539 you know. And I just like that it just it just 00:30:01.539 --> 00:30:05.819 kind of sweeps you away. Like you don't it frees 00:30:05.819 --> 00:30:08.019 your mind like instantly. You're just like, oh, 00:30:08.180 --> 00:30:12.119 this guy wants me. And then all you have to decide 00:30:12.119 --> 00:30:14.880 is yes or no. for yourself right and then away 00:30:14.880 --> 00:30:17.980 you go and then from there on out like he is 00:30:17.980 --> 00:30:21.480 leading the entire play experience from start 00:30:21.480 --> 00:30:25.579 to finish and it's usually like I said quicker 00:30:25.579 --> 00:30:27.799 than a Sigma male like the whole experience might 00:30:27.799 --> 00:30:30.880 be shorter but it's very whirlwind -y and it's 00:30:30.880 --> 00:30:36.279 like it's energizing okay so those fast and merriest 00:30:36.279 --> 00:30:38.579 experiences that might last 30 to 45 minutes 00:30:38.579 --> 00:30:42.460 those to me are like more energizing than like 00:30:42.460 --> 00:30:46.250 a The other play experience. Marathon session. 00:30:49.450 --> 00:30:57.849 Yeah, I love it. Yeah, it made sense. Yeah. Siren, 00:30:57.890 --> 00:31:01.970 so rinse your mental mouth out. Get the alpha 00:31:01.970 --> 00:31:07.190 taste out of it. Or your sexual mouth out, whatever. 00:31:07.650 --> 00:31:10.569 And then, so tell me what really turns you on 00:31:10.569 --> 00:31:15.480 about Sigma males. that well they free my mind 00:31:15.480 --> 00:31:19.660 too but in a very different way like they cause 00:31:19.660 --> 00:31:23.539 me to like be curious about them and what might 00:31:23.539 --> 00:31:29.140 happen and then I find myself like I have certain 00:31:29.140 --> 00:31:31.460 things that I have tried to add into my play 00:31:31.460 --> 00:31:33.400 recently that I've been talking about a lot lately 00:31:33.400 --> 00:31:36.299 and I find I don't really do them with alphas 00:31:36.299 --> 00:31:39.640 because of the experience being more fast and 00:31:39.640 --> 00:31:43.160 furious but the sigmas get to draw out of me 00:31:43.160 --> 00:31:46.740 a completely different experience type of experience 00:31:46.740 --> 00:31:49.279 a more sensual and more touching experience from 00:31:49.279 --> 00:31:53.740 me to them too and so the whole thing is just 00:31:53.740 --> 00:31:57.799 a lot more passionate and then those are probably 00:31:57.799 --> 00:32:01.420 the ones that I have become actual friends with 00:32:01.420 --> 00:32:04.700 later and been able like one guy we were literally 00:32:04.700 --> 00:32:07.079 playing we're talking about like five other women 00:32:07.079 --> 00:32:09.200 and a couple other things in the beginning of 00:32:09.200 --> 00:32:12.220 the play and we're just laughing you know about 00:32:12.220 --> 00:32:14.380 it and we're just like having that mental connection 00:32:14.380 --> 00:32:17.220 and like talking about other people and then 00:32:17.220 --> 00:32:19.140 we and then at one point he's like what are we 00:32:19.140 --> 00:32:21.299 worrying about these people for let's get to 00:32:21.299 --> 00:32:25.180 us and then you know we start the play experience 00:32:25.180 --> 00:32:29.220 and then it's just very connecting and you know, 00:32:29.220 --> 00:32:32.660 just a lot more memorable, actually, I think 00:32:32.660 --> 00:32:37.519 overall. Yeah. I tend to lean that direction 00:32:37.519 --> 00:32:40.619 as far as preference. But although I do enjoy 00:32:40.619 --> 00:32:45.259 the Alpha experiences, I definitely have a preference 00:32:45.259 --> 00:32:50.779 for the Sigmas. The Alpha here, again, it's about 00:32:50.779 --> 00:32:54.799 his dominance. It's about him during the sexual 00:32:54.799 --> 00:32:58.880 act or about me during the sexual act. You have 00:32:58.880 --> 00:33:01.880 pleased me when you choose me to go upstairs. 00:33:02.519 --> 00:33:06.200 So now the pleasure is all mine to please you 00:33:06.200 --> 00:33:09.140 to the utmost. And not only am I trying to please 00:33:09.140 --> 00:33:13.160 you, you know, with what I have, but I want to, 00:33:13.160 --> 00:33:15.779 here again, I want to get inside your head. I 00:33:15.779 --> 00:33:19.500 am a storyteller. I can be a storyteller when 00:33:19.500 --> 00:33:23.160 I'm having sex. But you can get several versions 00:33:23.160 --> 00:33:26.440 of me. Okay, you just have to ask my baby girl. 00:33:26.519 --> 00:33:28.740 She can tell you all about that. You can get 00:33:28.740 --> 00:33:33.759 the talkative version. You can get the version 00:33:33.759 --> 00:33:37.940 like she got yesterday, the very, very dominant 00:33:37.940 --> 00:33:40.619 version. And to be honest, she had never seen 00:33:40.619 --> 00:33:43.859 that before. It blew her mind. And then you can 00:33:43.859 --> 00:33:46.339 get the porn star version, which is like the 00:33:46.339 --> 00:33:52.240 alpha. So, again, that's what I bring to the 00:33:52.240 --> 00:33:54.400 table. I can't speak for all signals, but that 00:33:54.400 --> 00:33:56.400 is what I bring to the table. And that's why... 00:33:57.839 --> 00:34:00.119 I can always say I might not be on your bones, 00:34:00.180 --> 00:34:02.900 but I'm always on your mind because I keep you 00:34:02.900 --> 00:34:05.859 thinking. I keep you thinking 24 -7. And that's 00:34:05.859 --> 00:34:09.159 the mystery of Brian Morgan. So that's what has 00:34:09.159 --> 00:34:13.260 made me successful for 32 freaking years. So 00:34:13.260 --> 00:34:16.380 let's hear from Socrates of what he believes 00:34:16.380 --> 00:34:20.059 that he brings to the table as a Sigma male. 00:34:20.179 --> 00:34:23.000 I like the fact that, you know, Brian Morgan 00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:27.719 brought out that ability to hold complex. you 00:34:27.719 --> 00:34:31.860 know thoughts at one time so because i'm able 00:34:31.860 --> 00:34:34.940 to do that i'm able to simultaneously when i 00:34:34.940 --> 00:34:37.699 play with women i love like he says i'm i'm a 00:34:37.699 --> 00:34:40.960 giver of pleasure so i'm just exploring your 00:34:40.960 --> 00:34:44.900 body to see um physically what's going to do 00:34:44.900 --> 00:34:46.699 it but i'm also exploring your thoughts and your 00:34:46.699 --> 00:34:50.880 emotions i'm doing all that while focused on 00:34:50.880 --> 00:34:54.480 you as if the only thing i'm doing is interacting 00:34:54.480 --> 00:34:58.050 with you And I can do that because I'm, I am 00:34:58.050 --> 00:35:01.170 simultaneously enjoying the fuck out of you and 00:35:01.170 --> 00:35:03.809 your body and you know, action. But I'm also 00:35:03.809 --> 00:35:06.289 like literally in the back of my head saying, 00:35:06.510 --> 00:35:09.449 okay, how should I respond to this in a way that's 00:35:09.449 --> 00:35:12.349 authentic, but at the same time gets her to a 00:35:12.349 --> 00:35:15.050 place that she's going to enjoy herself. So I 00:35:15.050 --> 00:35:18.130 think they, I think the ladies that have, you 00:35:18.130 --> 00:35:21.150 know, said that they enjoy playing with me, you 00:35:21.150 --> 00:35:24.969 know, have shared how I make them feel. And I 00:35:24.969 --> 00:35:27.110 love the fact that they don't know behind that 00:35:27.110 --> 00:35:32.829 is a whole lot of brain processing. That is good 00:35:32.829 --> 00:35:39.429 tip here. Well, I mean, you, because they don't, 00:35:39.429 --> 00:35:42.550 you know, they don't have that wifey connection, 00:35:42.929 --> 00:35:46.650 right? So they don't have to even think about 00:35:46.650 --> 00:35:48.769 what you might be thinking behind all that. They 00:35:48.769 --> 00:35:50.989 just get to enjoy the experience. I know there 00:35:50.989 --> 00:35:53.750 was one lady that was like, she came to me and 00:35:53.750 --> 00:35:56.190 she's like you get that all the time and i said 00:35:56.190 --> 00:35:59.670 oh i never get what you get sweetie and she was 00:35:59.670 --> 00:36:01.889 like oh what do you mean what do you mean and 00:36:01.889 --> 00:36:04.349 i was just like don't you i said what you have 00:36:04.349 --> 00:36:07.489 to understand about my husband is that each experience 00:36:07.489 --> 00:36:11.659 is completely unique to whoever i i'm i'm never 00:36:11.659 --> 00:36:13.159 going to get what other women get other women 00:36:13.159 --> 00:36:15.300 are never going to get what i get because each 00:36:15.300 --> 00:36:17.480 time i'm not even getting the same thing that 00:36:17.480 --> 00:36:20.280 i got from him before because the energy is different 00:36:20.280 --> 00:36:23.300 the mood's different the day's different the 00:36:23.300 --> 00:36:25.579 combination of how he's feeling and i'm feeling 00:36:25.579 --> 00:36:29.480 is different and he's just very in like in touch 00:36:29.480 --> 00:36:33.659 with that um on every level when you know he's 00:36:33.659 --> 00:36:35.960 with me and i know that other women have said 00:36:36.280 --> 00:36:38.760 similar things that that make me understand that 00:36:38.760 --> 00:36:40.900 they're experiencing that uniqueness as well 00:36:40.900 --> 00:36:44.139 but it was just fun to kind of shock that lady 00:36:44.139 --> 00:36:46.940 a little bit you know i'm sure she was thinking 00:36:46.940 --> 00:36:49.280 something negative but you know just to explain 00:36:49.280 --> 00:36:51.639 to her that to get it really just got her attention 00:36:51.639 --> 00:36:55.139 so and i will i have to i have to shout out mr 00:36:55.139 --> 00:36:59.960 mocha from um um oh faces from oh faces faces 00:36:59.960 --> 00:37:05.079 yeah because he's the one that literally helped 00:37:05.079 --> 00:37:10.940 me accept, be celebrating, and take pride in 00:37:10.940 --> 00:37:16.179 how diverse of a person I am. And I looked at 00:37:16.179 --> 00:37:18.960 it as a sad story, and he looked at it as like 00:37:18.960 --> 00:37:22.639 every diverse situation you grew up in added 00:37:22.639 --> 00:37:27.500 a diverse skill, which added up to these, you 00:37:27.500 --> 00:37:30.500 know, a collection or profile of skills that 00:37:30.500 --> 00:37:33.579 are kind of unique to me. So I say all that to 00:37:33.579 --> 00:37:37.880 say, That allowed me to be like, oh, if she needs 00:37:37.880 --> 00:37:42.519 dominance, if she needs BDSM level dominance, 00:37:42.739 --> 00:37:46.159 and me and my wife have an understanding that 00:37:46.159 --> 00:37:48.480 I can do that, I can give it to her authentically. 00:37:48.780 --> 00:37:51.460 If she needs kind of like a laid back cowboy, 00:37:51.699 --> 00:37:55.179 because I grew up in a lot of farm and cowboy 00:37:55.179 --> 00:37:57.940 scenarios, yeah. If she needs kind of a thug, 00:37:58.539 --> 00:38:01.380 Since I genuinely was raised around gangster 00:38:01.380 --> 00:38:04.000 niggas all the time. There you go. Drug dealers. 00:38:04.659 --> 00:38:07.380 She can get that. If she needs an intellectual. 00:38:08.719 --> 00:38:12.820 Right. And if I, if she needs an intellectual, 00:38:12.960 --> 00:38:15.800 I'm that too. Cause I read like four or five 00:38:15.800 --> 00:38:17.619 books a month. You know what I'm saying? So, 00:38:17.760 --> 00:38:21.400 you know, it was Mr. Mocha that said, man, celebrate 00:38:21.400 --> 00:38:24.940 it. You know, just be you. Don't make any excuses. 00:38:25.199 --> 00:38:28.159 Exactly. You know? Exactly. I think that's what 00:38:28.159 --> 00:38:30.619 makes me a Sigmund. Well, and it's just, you 00:38:30.619 --> 00:38:36.320 authentically acclimate to the emotions and needs 00:38:36.320 --> 00:38:41.380 of each play partner. And then, you know, and 00:38:41.380 --> 00:38:43.980 then even me with your wife, it's like, you know, 00:38:43.980 --> 00:38:45.659 we're always just honing our skills. Sometimes 00:38:45.659 --> 00:38:48.000 we learn something new from our plate partner. 00:38:48.199 --> 00:38:50.239 A lot of times we learn something new from each 00:38:50.239 --> 00:38:52.800 other that we can take into the play world. Some 00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:55.300 things, you know, a few section of things we 00:38:55.300 --> 00:38:58.480 keep just for each other right now. But, you 00:38:58.480 --> 00:39:01.099 know, he just authentically acclimates. And that's 00:39:01.099 --> 00:39:04.340 what I can say that I've seen, heard and experienced 00:39:04.340 --> 00:39:07.960 from being his wife and playing in the same room. 00:39:08.940 --> 00:39:13.119 And that is why you have the wonderful and unique 00:39:13.119 --> 00:39:18.119 marriage, friendship, partnership, ride or die 00:39:18.119 --> 00:39:22.579 that you have. And that's what everybody wishes 00:39:22.579 --> 00:39:27.809 they had, in my opinion. I know this. I've talked 00:39:27.809 --> 00:39:31.989 to too many vanilla couples. I have too many 00:39:31.989 --> 00:39:35.989 guy friends that I grew up out with, and they 00:39:35.989 --> 00:39:39.510 all wish that they had the same thing and a partner. 00:39:39.610 --> 00:39:43.369 You guys, it's beautiful to see. It really is. 00:39:43.389 --> 00:39:46.809 It's beautiful to hear both of you saying that, 00:39:46.909 --> 00:39:51.250 and it's beautiful to witness at an event how 00:39:51.250 --> 00:39:54.710 you guys can, A, be together and be so happy, 00:39:54.750 --> 00:39:58.349 or you can be separate. and know that the other 00:39:58.349 --> 00:40:01.929 one is coming back to the other. And that's what, 00:40:02.030 --> 00:40:05.590 to me, that's what this lifestyle brings. And, 00:40:05.610 --> 00:40:08.489 you know, I wish, here again, I have my baby 00:40:08.489 --> 00:40:11.769 girl, so I no longer say that I wish I had it 00:40:11.769 --> 00:40:14.869 because now I do have it. I do have it. I really 00:40:14.869 --> 00:40:20.670 do. And it was a test for me at Splash to see 00:40:20.670 --> 00:40:23.869 if I could be the boyfriend and, you know, make 00:40:23.869 --> 00:40:26.420 sure that she was taken care of. And we had a 00:40:26.420 --> 00:40:28.980 great time. So, like I said, this is what it's 00:40:28.980 --> 00:40:31.480 all about. Alpha males, they're nothing against 00:40:31.480 --> 00:40:33.980 my brothers. They are my brothers, you know, 00:40:33.980 --> 00:40:36.539 but I wouldn't change being a Sigma from nothing 00:40:36.539 --> 00:40:39.579 in the world. Yeah, I love it too. Thank you 00:40:39.579 --> 00:40:43.039 for all the hair, sweet things that you, you 00:40:43.039 --> 00:40:44.960 know, I know you're speaking authentically. The 00:40:44.960 --> 00:40:51.420 truth, you just appreciate it. It's very encouraging. 00:40:54.119 --> 00:40:56.920 When I see it, I'm going to say it. When I see 00:40:56.920 --> 00:40:59.760 it, I'm going to let you know. And you guys exemplify 00:40:59.760 --> 00:41:03.920 that. You really do. When other people see the 00:41:03.920 --> 00:41:06.699 good that you're putting out into the world through 00:41:06.699 --> 00:41:10.820 your relationship, it makes it really, I hear 00:41:10.820 --> 00:41:13.440 those voices on the hard days, you know, because 00:41:13.440 --> 00:41:16.179 every couple of us has them. And so, you know, 00:41:16.179 --> 00:41:18.500 that sometimes what keeps me going too is like 00:41:18.500 --> 00:41:22.079 a little extra boost of like. OK, there's other 00:41:22.079 --> 00:41:25.039 people out there looking up to us, you know, 00:41:25.039 --> 00:41:26.719 and I want to be able to tell them how we got 00:41:26.719 --> 00:41:30.159 through something tough, you know. Yeah. And 00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:31.960 that's what, you know, that's what this podcast 00:41:31.960 --> 00:41:37.679 is about. So, you know, this is focused on bulls 00:41:37.679 --> 00:41:40.460 from a bull's perspective. And then we have a 00:41:40.460 --> 00:41:46.940 hot wife and a vixen who, you know, her perspective. 00:41:46.940 --> 00:41:50.789 But it's all about helping. You guys live the 00:41:50.789 --> 00:41:52.650 kind of life that all three of us are living. 00:41:52.989 --> 00:41:56.690 So we know that Mr. Morgan wants his queen and 00:41:56.690 --> 00:41:59.489 he's going to find her. But he's actually living 00:41:59.489 --> 00:42:02.909 a hell of a fucking life right now. As I say, 00:42:02.949 --> 00:42:07.489 I actually have the queen now. But here again, 00:42:07.510 --> 00:42:09.969 though, we are a throuple. We are a throuple. 00:42:10.130 --> 00:42:13.590 She said today in a text, she was like, I couldn't 00:42:13.590 --> 00:42:16.170 have asked for more. She's like, I feel like 00:42:16.170 --> 00:42:20.039 I hit the lottery. You know, I have the two men 00:42:20.039 --> 00:42:23.880 in my life. You know, one on my right side, the 00:42:23.880 --> 00:42:26.280 other on my left side. And I'm loving it. So, 00:42:26.300 --> 00:42:29.119 you know. Yeah, she's a very blessed and lucky 00:42:29.119 --> 00:42:33.519 woman. Awesome. Yeah. And we did it as a couple. 00:42:34.260 --> 00:42:38.460 So I wanted to nerd out. This is going to be 00:42:38.460 --> 00:42:42.059 the nerd out section, y 'all. And I GBT'd this 00:42:42.059 --> 00:42:46.039 bad baby, and I pretty much. For my nerds, my 00:42:46.039 --> 00:42:49.880 prompting was pretty simple. And the only reason 00:42:49.880 --> 00:42:52.780 why is because I have what's called a project 00:42:52.780 --> 00:42:56.420 inside of ChatGBT. It helps us think about these 00:42:56.420 --> 00:43:00.400 things in a certain way. And all of my AI nerds 00:43:00.400 --> 00:43:02.000 know what I'm talking about. So my prompt was 00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:04.420 really simple. And I just asked it what types 00:43:04.420 --> 00:43:08.039 of examples of males. And I used the examples 00:43:08.039 --> 00:43:12.340 of the alpha male, sigma male, beta male. And 00:43:12.340 --> 00:43:14.880 I just wanted to, it gave me, there's actually 00:43:14.880 --> 00:43:19.699 six. And then it gave me, you know, traits, roles, 00:43:20.039 --> 00:43:22.880 and dating. I'm not going to go through each 00:43:22.880 --> 00:43:27.420 one. But I do want to read the first three. So 00:43:27.420 --> 00:43:29.239 I'll tell you all six of them. And then I'm going 00:43:29.239 --> 00:43:31.059 to kind of go over all three. And then I want 00:43:31.059 --> 00:43:35.119 to get you guys' opinion on them. So the six 00:43:35.119 --> 00:43:42.139 are alpha, beta, sigma, delta, gamma. and omega 00:43:42.139 --> 00:43:46.360 right so um you know we're gonna go through the 00:43:46.360 --> 00:43:48.380 first three and kind of break it down and then 00:43:48.380 --> 00:43:50.980 maybe in a next episode or something we can talk 00:43:50.980 --> 00:43:53.940 about the other three but it's like a bull fraternity 00:43:53.940 --> 00:43:58.059 exactly um so the first alpha is the traits is 00:43:58.059 --> 00:44:02.380 confident dominant assertive outgoing and a natural 00:44:02.380 --> 00:44:05.039 leader and i think that follows a lot of what 00:44:05.039 --> 00:44:09.619 mr morgan was saying their role is often seen 00:44:09.619 --> 00:44:12.550 as a leader of the pack takes charge in social 00:44:12.550 --> 00:44:16.469 and professional settings so again fits everything 00:44:16.469 --> 00:44:22.050 you're saying typically attractive to many women 00:44:22.050 --> 00:44:28.250 due to high status and charisma i like that so 00:44:28.250 --> 00:44:35.409 beta traits loyal passive supportive dependable 00:44:35.409 --> 00:44:40.090 agreeable and i like this because i think betas 00:44:40.090 --> 00:44:43.929 are always um you know express from especially 00:44:43.929 --> 00:44:46.690 from many alphas from their perspective a beta 00:44:46.690 --> 00:44:52.650 is not good and i i look at it as these are all 00:44:52.650 --> 00:44:57.630 natural characteristics with pros and cons and 00:44:57.630 --> 00:45:01.750 that's how i look at it so their role is the 00:45:01.750 --> 00:45:05.989 nice guy prefers harmony over confrontation and 00:45:05.989 --> 00:45:10.750 often a follower okay i see those as positive 00:45:10.750 --> 00:45:14.269 and negative and neutral aspects to them. To 00:45:14.269 --> 00:45:17.769 me, dating is often struggles in dating dynamics 00:45:17.769 --> 00:45:21.110 in perceived as lacking confidence or an edge, 00:45:21.309 --> 00:45:28.010 right? And then Sigma male. So independent, mysterious, 00:45:28.309 --> 00:45:32.869 introverted percentile, right? Self -sufficient 00:45:32.869 --> 00:45:37.190 and strategic. Their role doesn't follow traditional 00:45:37.190 --> 00:45:40.800 hierarchies. marches to the beat of his own drum. 00:45:40.920 --> 00:45:44.159 That is so much me. It ain't even funny. And 00:45:44.159 --> 00:45:49.820 I know it's you, Unc. Amen. Dating can be very 00:45:49.820 --> 00:45:54.360 attractive due to mystery, confidence without 00:45:54.360 --> 00:45:57.840 arrogance, and emotional control. There you go. 00:45:58.079 --> 00:46:00.539 I would just say you're an extroverted Sigma, 00:46:00.639 --> 00:46:03.780 though. Yeah, I am an extroverted Sigma, for 00:46:03.780 --> 00:46:06.440 sure. Yeah, we are the opposite in that. You 00:46:06.440 --> 00:46:09.800 are an extrovert, and I'm an introvert. I'm an 00:46:09.800 --> 00:46:14.199 extroverted introvert. Yeah, I'm definitely. 00:46:14.599 --> 00:46:17.480 And that's, you know, that's why I didn't think 00:46:17.480 --> 00:46:20.440 I was a Sigma. I thought I was faking an alpha 00:46:20.440 --> 00:46:23.079 because I am very extroverted. I don't have a 00:46:23.079 --> 00:46:26.179 problem with being in the leadership or in front. 00:46:26.280 --> 00:46:28.920 I don't want to be, though. You know, I don't. 00:46:28.920 --> 00:46:32.480 I've been on stage at times in my life. You know, 00:46:32.519 --> 00:46:37.159 I'm totally better off stage. I'm totally better 00:46:37.159 --> 00:46:42.739 behind. So, you know, I get that. So, yeah. So 00:46:42.739 --> 00:46:46.760 Siren, like, tell me, have you ever played with 00:46:46.760 --> 00:46:49.760 somebody you can identify as a beta and then 00:46:49.760 --> 00:46:52.639 you had a good time? And why? And if not, why? 00:46:52.920 --> 00:46:55.699 No, I didn't have a good time because I'm too 00:46:55.699 --> 00:47:00.059 much of an alpha female. So I can, I obviously 00:47:00.059 --> 00:47:03.940 surrender to an alpha male because he's going 00:47:03.940 --> 00:47:07.539 to be more dominant than me. I'm happy to not 00:47:07.539 --> 00:47:10.639 be an alpha in the situation. And a Sigma is 00:47:10.639 --> 00:47:13.980 kind of a shared power. And then he relaxes me 00:47:13.980 --> 00:47:18.880 out of my alpha, but a beta male has never, I 00:47:18.880 --> 00:47:21.280 don't think that I've ever tried to play with 00:47:21.280 --> 00:47:23.559 one since I've been in the lifestyle, but I've 00:47:23.559 --> 00:47:26.739 definitely had sex with them before the lifestyle. 00:47:26.780 --> 00:47:29.920 And yeah, we'll talk about that. Like, how was 00:47:29.920 --> 00:47:36.449 it? I don't want to just, I just didn't, I know 00:47:36.449 --> 00:47:42.469 a couple of them, I like left. Like I just got 00:47:42.469 --> 00:47:45.489 up and left. I was just like, this is not, this 00:47:45.489 --> 00:47:49.690 is not going well. Just like, they act like they're 00:47:49.690 --> 00:47:52.469 having an asthma attack. Like, I don't know. 00:47:52.510 --> 00:47:55.230 I think it wasn't even, I don't, there was a, 00:47:55.250 --> 00:47:59.110 it wasn't a black man. It was a white man. Well, 00:47:59.269 --> 00:48:03.110 if the confidence is not there, it doesn't matter 00:48:03.110 --> 00:48:05.449 if it's black, white, Hispanic, or whatever. 00:48:05.730 --> 00:48:08.369 It's not going to be good. I mean, you know what 00:48:08.369 --> 00:48:11.150 I mean? That's the key. That's the key. Are you 00:48:11.150 --> 00:48:15.130 confident in yourself? Are you confident in yourself? 00:48:15.329 --> 00:48:17.670 Are you confident in your skills? It doesn't 00:48:17.670 --> 00:48:21.610 matter what you have, package -wise or body -wise 00:48:21.610 --> 00:48:24.949 or whatever. Confidence is everything. If I get 00:48:24.949 --> 00:48:28.400 a woman in a run. and we've had great conversation 00:48:28.400 --> 00:48:31.800 already. When I get you in the room, hey, I know 00:48:31.800 --> 00:48:35.139 what's going to happen. Okay? I'm very, very 00:48:35.139 --> 00:48:39.079 confident. Here again, you don't know what you're 00:48:39.079 --> 00:48:41.900 going to get depending on the conversation that 00:48:41.900 --> 00:48:45.059 we have. Or let's say, for instance, we haven't 00:48:45.059 --> 00:48:47.760 had a conversation yet, but we have this plan 00:48:47.760 --> 00:48:50.739 to meet. You know what I mean? I may turn the 00:48:50.739 --> 00:48:56.679 encounter into... an encounter slash conversation 00:48:56.679 --> 00:49:00.719 okay that's something that most men can't do 00:49:00.719 --> 00:49:03.360 that's something that like will will will take 00:49:03.360 --> 00:49:06.400 a woman and and make her think like oh shit you 00:49:06.400 --> 00:49:08.679 know i mean we were doing something here in a 00:49:08.679 --> 00:49:10.800 minute but he still got his dick in me and we're 00:49:10.800 --> 00:49:13.659 having a conversation and i'm liking it so that's 00:49:13.659 --> 00:49:16.139 here again that's the mystery that's the mystery 00:49:16.139 --> 00:49:18.260 what you bring to the table how you keep her 00:49:18.260 --> 00:49:21.900 head and her juices flowing you know that's that's 00:49:21.900 --> 00:49:24.960 that's the beauty of a sigma male And that, what 00:49:24.960 --> 00:49:28.940 I just explained, that comes with age also. That 00:49:28.940 --> 00:49:31.739 comes with maturity. But we were adrenaline. 00:49:32.420 --> 00:49:36.179 Beta males. And you're trying to make it all 00:49:36.179 --> 00:49:39.159 positive and nice again, Brian. And we were trying 00:49:39.159 --> 00:49:46.119 to get true feelings. Okay, but listen. As far 00:49:46.119 --> 00:49:47.920 as the beta, though, here again, I was explaining 00:49:47.920 --> 00:49:50.760 the confidence thing. How that beta doesn't have 00:49:50.760 --> 00:49:53.400 that confidence. You know what I mean? That beta 00:49:53.400 --> 00:49:56.280 doesn't have that confidence and never will. 00:49:56.820 --> 00:50:02.199 Okay? My like lonely single mom days. Yeah, I 00:50:02.199 --> 00:50:04.239 think those are my lonely single mom days where 00:50:04.239 --> 00:50:07.500 I was just like, I don't know. You probably didn't 00:50:07.500 --> 00:50:09.940 even know they were a beta until they, yeah. 00:50:10.199 --> 00:50:12.219 I probably didn't know they were a beta male. 00:50:12.760 --> 00:50:14.699 I probably didn't know they were a beta male. 00:50:14.860 --> 00:50:18.000 I probably just swiped right, was like wanting 00:50:18.000 --> 00:50:20.650 to get some dick. And then I didn't know they 00:50:20.650 --> 00:50:25.449 were beta until we joined up. Exactly. But like 00:50:25.449 --> 00:50:27.630 I said, that was before you met Socrates and 00:50:27.630 --> 00:50:30.050 your life changed. Oh, yeah. Correct. Before 00:50:30.050 --> 00:50:32.809 I was even in the life. All right. Yeah. Exactly. 00:50:33.110 --> 00:50:36.050 Exactly. Okay. Brian didn't like talking about 00:50:36.050 --> 00:50:39.889 beta males. I can tell. No, no, no, no, no, no. 00:50:40.329 --> 00:50:46.019 I have nothing against. He's just trying to keep 00:50:46.019 --> 00:50:49.940 it so positive. Here again, I know a lot of guys 00:50:49.940 --> 00:50:55.440 who are beta. I can't hold a conversation with 00:50:55.440 --> 00:50:57.619 you or go work out with you or go have a meal 00:50:57.619 --> 00:51:02.239 with you. But they understand that I have something 00:51:02.239 --> 00:51:04.800 else. They definitely understand that. Well, 00:51:04.820 --> 00:51:07.019 there's plenty of women that would like that, 00:51:07.159 --> 00:51:12.260 but just me as a more dominant female. It's just, 00:51:12.320 --> 00:51:14.559 it's not what the energy that I'm looking for 00:51:14.559 --> 00:51:17.780 because I need something more powerful than me. 00:51:18.179 --> 00:51:22.860 And that actually calms me down in this situation. 00:51:23.920 --> 00:51:29.719 Yeah. So we all have our preferences. Oh yeah, 00:51:29.820 --> 00:51:35.920 definitely, definitely. Well, I actually think... 00:51:36.590 --> 00:51:38.750 So I got some... You're going to throw something 00:51:38.750 --> 00:51:44.250 into the... I sure am. You know me too well. 00:51:45.570 --> 00:51:47.989 I'm like, oh, he has that look on his face where 00:51:47.989 --> 00:51:51.849 I'm like, hmm. Well, one thing I wanted to say, 00:51:51.849 --> 00:51:55.750 too, I'm actually going to agree with both you 00:51:55.750 --> 00:51:57.650 guys on a subject you were talking about earlier 00:51:57.650 --> 00:52:01.769 as far as, like, you were... Siren was mentioning 00:52:01.769 --> 00:52:06.579 the black thing, and then... Brian rightfully 00:52:06.579 --> 00:52:09.199 so said well, you know, these are it's a principle 00:52:09.199 --> 00:52:12.179 and no matter what race is displaying it But 00:52:12.179 --> 00:52:14.480 I do want to say both of you guys are right at 00:52:14.480 --> 00:52:16.760 the same time and what I mean by that is in the 00:52:16.760 --> 00:52:25.340 black culture We are we have an exterior That 00:52:25.340 --> 00:52:29.599 presents as dominant no matter what, even the 00:52:29.599 --> 00:52:33.739 gay men No matter what body type you have, it 00:52:33.739 --> 00:52:35.960 doesn't matter. Whether you're muscular, whether 00:52:35.960 --> 00:52:38.380 you're a big guy, whether you're a skinny guy, 00:52:38.539 --> 00:52:40.239 it doesn't matter. And that's what attracted 00:52:40.239 --> 00:52:44.679 me to Black men over and over and over was nothing 00:52:44.679 --> 00:52:47.099 about what people joke about, the dick size, 00:52:47.360 --> 00:52:51.539 which is great. But it's not what attracted me. 00:52:51.619 --> 00:52:55.260 What attracted me was that dominance and the 00:52:55.260 --> 00:52:59.239 decision -making and the, you know. Hey, I'm 00:52:59.239 --> 00:53:01.880 going to pick you up at 7. We're going to go 00:53:01.880 --> 00:53:04.000 do this, this, and this. And I would say, sounds 00:53:04.000 --> 00:53:07.440 great. Meanwhile, someone else, not a black man, 00:53:07.579 --> 00:53:11.119 would be like, you know, very intimidated by 00:53:11.119 --> 00:53:13.480 me, could barely breathe just to try to ask me 00:53:13.480 --> 00:53:15.800 out for a cup of coffee. And by the time he got 00:53:15.800 --> 00:53:18.630 through asking me, I was exhausted. Because he 00:53:18.630 --> 00:53:21.230 was wanting me to make 15 decisions just for 00:53:21.230 --> 00:53:24.210 him to take for a cup of coffee. Oh, where are 00:53:24.210 --> 00:53:25.710 you going to go? Whose car do you want to drive? 00:53:26.550 --> 00:53:29.130 I'm like, oh, my goodness. Just you're the one 00:53:29.130 --> 00:53:31.650 asking me, you know, like, please just have the 00:53:31.650 --> 00:53:34.250 plan in place before you even come up. That's 00:53:34.250 --> 00:53:37.349 what black men would do consistently. And that's 00:53:37.349 --> 00:53:40.550 why I was like, I'm a single mother. I run a 00:53:40.550 --> 00:53:43.619 company. You know, by five o 'clock, I'm done 00:53:43.619 --> 00:53:45.699 making decisions. I even tell my husband that 00:53:45.699 --> 00:53:49.119 I said, I love that you men are. I said, you 00:53:49.119 --> 00:53:50.960 know, you guys are on the clock 24 hours a day 00:53:50.960 --> 00:53:53.659 for the decision making stuff. But I said for 00:53:53.659 --> 00:53:56.659 me as a woman, like by five o 'clock, like I 00:53:56.659 --> 00:53:59.260 want to be clocked off with that, you know, and 00:53:59.260 --> 00:54:01.840 then just come into your comfort. So I appreciate 00:54:01.840 --> 00:54:05.119 the men that are more dominant and make decisions, 00:54:05.340 --> 00:54:08.639 whether they are Alpha or Sigma. Yeah. So go 00:54:08.639 --> 00:54:13.039 ahead. No, I was going to say, I think that confidence 00:54:13.039 --> 00:54:16.679 thing about black men, I think that just goes 00:54:16.679 --> 00:54:21.619 back to, I mean, it goes way back. We had to 00:54:21.619 --> 00:54:26.860 be confident coming up. We had to be aggressive. 00:54:27.260 --> 00:54:32.920 We had to stand up for ourselves. It's just the 00:54:32.920 --> 00:54:36.820 way it's been for the black man. And even now, 00:54:37.059 --> 00:54:39.869 we still have to be. We have to be a certain 00:54:39.869 --> 00:54:44.349 way when we're out here in the world. We can't 00:54:44.349 --> 00:54:48.429 be, and I hate to say the word soft, but we can't 00:54:48.429 --> 00:54:50.989 be soft, though. We can't be soft. We have to 00:54:50.989 --> 00:54:54.929 be assertive. We have to be confident. We have 00:54:54.929 --> 00:54:56.829 to be dominant. We have to be sure of ourselves. 00:54:57.190 --> 00:55:00.030 We have to dot the I's and cross the T's all 00:55:00.030 --> 00:55:02.809 the time. You know what I mean? Because we are 00:55:02.809 --> 00:55:06.550 constantly being looked at in every situation 00:55:06.550 --> 00:55:09.550 and every walk of life. So that's that here again, 00:55:09.610 --> 00:55:13.230 that's where the, the, the attraction. And like 00:55:13.230 --> 00:55:17.690 you said, uh, it's not, well, what was the exterior 00:55:17.690 --> 00:55:20.909 was inside the pants. That's extra. You know 00:55:20.909 --> 00:55:24.630 what I mean? That's bonus, but exactly. That's 00:55:24.630 --> 00:55:28.949 a bonus. But what you're getting is the definition 00:55:28.949 --> 00:55:33.690 of what a real man is supposed to be. I, what 00:55:33.690 --> 00:55:36.889 a, what, what a, what a husband. should be to 00:55:36.889 --> 00:55:39.429 his wife and his family. You know, what a boyfriend 00:55:39.429 --> 00:55:42.530 should be to his girlfriend. What a dad should 00:55:42.530 --> 00:55:47.010 be to his kids. That's the essence of what, you 00:55:47.010 --> 00:55:50.409 know, a black man is out here in the world. And 00:55:50.409 --> 00:55:55.630 that is why we are so loved by all races of women. 00:55:55.969 --> 00:55:58.329 You know, that's why we're loved by all races 00:55:58.329 --> 00:56:03.789 of women and feared by a lot of men. So I think 00:56:03.789 --> 00:56:06.179 that pretty much kind of like Sums it up, doesn't 00:56:06.179 --> 00:56:09.380 it? Yes, sir. What puts a bow on it? So, yeah, 00:56:09.480 --> 00:56:12.460 we're going to end it there, guys. I think we 00:56:12.460 --> 00:56:15.380 learned a lot, and I learned a lot about myself. 00:56:16.480 --> 00:56:18.760 And, you know, this is not going to be the end 00:56:18.760 --> 00:56:21.260 of that conversation because, you know, that's 00:56:21.260 --> 00:56:23.880 one. Oh, no, that's just part one. This is part 00:56:23.880 --> 00:56:26.739 one. This is the foundation of what the Bull 00:56:26.739 --> 00:56:30.000 Brotherhood is about, is the perspective from 00:56:30.000 --> 00:56:34.500 the Sigma male perspective. And we believe. that 00:56:34.500 --> 00:56:37.500 is the best perspective to present the entire 00:56:37.500 --> 00:56:41.219 case because I feel like we have a little bit 00:56:41.219 --> 00:56:46.340 of all of them in us. And cause we, we see things 00:56:46.340 --> 00:56:49.300 as tools as opposed to identities. And I think 00:56:49.300 --> 00:56:50.980 that's why we're kind of outside the spectrum, 00:56:51.079 --> 00:56:53.639 but at the same time kind of sharing that leadership 00:56:53.639 --> 00:56:55.960 position. So we're going to be excited about 00:56:55.960 --> 00:56:58.940 talking about it guys. And I don't know, boss, 00:56:58.940 --> 00:57:01.480 we'll, we'll let you finish it out on whatever 00:57:01.480 --> 00:57:05.320 thoughts you got on. Hey, man, I think you just 00:57:05.320 --> 00:57:10.280 summed it all up right there. I really can't 00:57:10.280 --> 00:57:13.320 follow up with anything else other than what 00:57:13.320 --> 00:57:17.340 I always say to my Bull Brothers out there. Good 00:57:17.340 --> 00:57:22.579 night, and to all my lovely hot wives and unicorns 00:57:22.579 --> 00:57:25.440 and vixens out there, good morning. This has 00:57:25.440 --> 00:57:29.260 been another informative episode of the Bull 00:57:29.260 --> 00:57:33.210 Brotherhood podcast. our lovely and seductive 00:57:33.210 --> 00:57:37.250 siren. And we're going to call it a night until 00:57:37.250 --> 00:57:42.190 we meet again. Everybody, stay sexy, stay seductive. 00:57:42.849 --> 00:57:44.809 And to my brothers out there who think they're 00:57:44.809 --> 00:57:48.449 Sigma, definitely stay Sigma. Have a good night, 00:57:48.469 --> 00:58:21.800 y 'all. This is who we are. Old, confident, seductive. 00:58:22.079 --> 00:58:25.340 Dominant and classy. We're standing tall, never 00:58:25.340 --> 00:58:30.489 fall. Bull Brotherhood. Luxury untaught