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my name is Carlos. I am the host of Speaker Chaos.
This week we will have Santos, whom we've had
last week, joining us. for this recording. Alright
guys, so our first submission of the day is going
to be my boyfriend, 25 male, and I, 23 female,
have been together for about a year. We've always
had pretty good communication, or so I thought.
Recently, I found out that he's been regularly
getting drinks after work with a female coworker,
just the two of them, and never mentioned it
to me. When I asked why he never told me, he
said it never came up, and that he didn't think
it was a big deal since they're just friends.
What bothers me, is that he tells me about every
other after work hangout with his guy friends
he swears there's nothing going on between them
but now i've noticed he leaves out details when
she's involved last week he told me he was grabbing
a quick drink with some co -workers but conveniently
didn't mention that she was the only one who
showed up when i confronted him about this pattern
he got defensive said i was being controlling
and that i was being paranoid he claims he only
omits details because he knows i'll overreact
But I feel like if it was truly innocent, he
wouldn't feel the need to hide it. Am I overreacting
for being upset about this? Part of me thinks
I might be overreacting, since he technically
hasn't done anything wrong. But another part
feels like the secrecy is a red flag. What do
you think, Santos? I mean, it definitely is a
little sus. Like, bro's taking this chick out
after work, and now all of a sudden, like, yeah,
now he's talking about it, but not really. given
details about it but also too like he never mentioned
it before so like why are you trying to you know
hide hide this other you know chick that you're
seeing after work you know whether it's you know
just friends or not like that just like you're
making it weird for no reason kind of thing if
it if nothing's going on you know what i mean
yeah my thing is that why the lie why say oh
yeah you know me and Some co -workers are going
out, and then she's the only one that shows up.
I get that he said because she's overreacting,
but I feel like this is the reason that he's
overreacting, because she's, or he's obviously
hiding things, so she kind of has that right
to overreact if it's a lie. And it's, I do find
it weird that it's just him and a female. They
go out for drinks, and it's pretty often, it
sounds like they're low -key going on a date.
Yeah, and then it's like, I want to know, like,
are you taking your girl out for drinks? Like,
what's going on? Like, are you, like, looking
for something in this other girl that you're
not getting with your girl kind of thing? You
know what I mean? Right. Is it, like, a physical
attraction? Is it, you know, you work with her,
so is it a personality thing? Or is she filling
some type of void that your girl isn't? Either
way, though, you need to talk to your girl and...
Honestly, if I were her, I don't know. If you
were her, would you leave him? I mean, if we
talked about this multiple times and I'm not
comfortable with it kind of thing and he's not
willing to set boundaries, then I don't know.
I mean, it all really depends on what you're
able to deal with. I just feel like for me, I
wouldn't want my significant other. spending
time with someone else and not, not even mentioning
it to me or letting me know like what's going
on, like behind, behind my back kind of thing.
Yeah, no, I agree. And I will say like, you're
only 23. You're very young. There's, you don't
have to deal with a lot of shit yet. Um, so I,
depending on how the conversation goes, I would
just cut your losses if it continues. And, you
know, because right now it could just be drinks,
but, He's already hiding things. I don't see
it going uphill. I see it going downhill. So
you're 23. You still have a lot of time left.
You still have plenty of dating to do. I wouldn't
settle for just that one person. Yeah, it might
be time to reconsider other options if they can't
get past this. Our next submission is a 28 year
old female who has severe eczema and has finally
found a dermatologist recommended skin care that
works after years of trial and error. The products
are medical grade and they cost her about $300
per month. Her boyfriend who lives with her has
normal skin but keeps using her special cream
despite having his own drugstore products. When
I asked him to stop, he laughed and said it's
just lotion and that I'm being ridiculous. But
he's going through my small expensive tubes twice
as fast, leaving me with constant flare -ups
when I run out between shipments. Last night,
I put a lock on my cabinet after finding him
using my $80 facial serum as hand cream. he's
now calling me selfish and petty saying couples
should share everything am i overreacting for
drawing this boundary i wouldn't care if they
were normal products but this is medically necessary
for me and financially unsuitable if we're both
using them he can easily grab his five dollar
moisturizer from the shower caddy instead my
opinion i think he's he's he's being a bit of
a dick for i mean she's paying 300 a month for
things that she needs for her eczema and you're
using it as fucking lotion for your hands i think
that's kind of fucked up i don't actually think
that he cares about her eczema or cares about
how much money she's having to spend and you
know based off of this it doesn't seem like he's
dishing out any of the money for it she's paying
for it and he's using it and just wasting it
which is causing her skin to have issues Because
he's just... I don't know. I don't like it. I
don't like that he's using her shit when he has
his own. And that he's not even using it for
the right thing. He's using her face cream for
his hands. Yeah, that's kind of crazy, bro. Like,
he's spending $300 a month, and I'm like, he's
gotta know, like, he's spending that kind of
money on it. Like, how does he not understand
that, like, yeah, you can't just use this anytime
you want to. It's not just for... you know hydrating
and and and uh making your hand smooth like you're
over here like making her have to go out and
have eczema breakdown and she's probably not
feeling comfortable about herself out there but
you're like you know we should share this because
we're in a relationship like it doesn't make
sense no not only that but it my thing too if
it is like you know if she has to get to the
point where she has to lock her shit away from
you and then you're getting mad about it that's
a that's a red flag and he's he's 30 she's 28
i feel like the maturity the maturity level should
be there to where he's not getting upset about
it um but even then like she shouldn't have to
go to that level that she has to put a a lock
on it for you to not be spending her you know
wasting her lotions i feel like she's trying
to set a boundary and trying to tell him how
important it is for her and he's just not giving
a shit and you know in this she's saying that
he's calling me selfish and petty saying couples
should share everything i do agree couples should
share things but not everything this is a prime
fucking example you should absolutely not be
sharing and he's the one that's being selfish
using your things that you're paying that money
for but I would also say if you have insurance
use your insurance because spending $300 a month
on over -the -counter products That's a lot.
That's a lot of fucking money. Yeah, and I mean,
like you were saying, like, if she has to go
to that extent, do you have to literally physically
lock up the lotion so that he doesn't use it?
Like, he's obviously just, like, not being sensitive
to the situation and not understanding, like,
how she feels about it. But it's not only that,
but it's, like, it's also super expensive. So,
like, not just lotion that you use daily just
to use it. Like, she needs it. you know, to take
care of it all. Right. All right. Next one is,
I'll keep this short and to the point. A few
years ago in my early 20s, I was still living
with my mom and stepdad. I found a hidden camera
in the bathroom. It turned out it was his. I
gave it to my mom thinking she'd confront him
or at least do something about it, but she didn't.
Nothing ever came of it. Years later, after I
moved out, I brought it up again. I told her
I didn't feel comfortable with them staying over
at my house anymore. I was already dealing with
anxiety and their visits made it worse. I was
calm and respectful about it and even felt like
the conversation went well. Three days later,
she asked if they could stay the night. It felt
like she completely dismissed what I said. After
that, I started pulling away. She's the kind
of mom who texts every morning to check in, but
I couldn't bring myself to talk to her like nothing
happened. She told me I needed to let it go.
and stop uh ruminating and even said her life
had been worse and she got over it that stung
i told her i love her but i need space since
then i stopped entering her cause we haven't
talked much or had much contact she's the only
person i have left so this hasn't been easy but
i keep asking myself am i overreacting or is
it valid that i need to step back i also wanted
to mention that this isn't the only time when
i thought her relationship was more important
than us Never expected her to leave him. I even
told her that I would give him the benefit of
the doubt. It might have been an accident for
how a camera ended up in my bathroom. But for
me, the way things were handled hurt even more
than the camera itself. I have a few opinions
about this. My first one is that's fucking weird
that your stepdad's camera ended up in your bathroom.
That's fucking dude. I've seen this movie before.
That's weird. I don't like that. The second thing
is I feel like her mom is dismissing it and not
the whole like, oh, I've been through tougher
shit in life than you have thing, but I feel
like her mom probably thinks that she found the
one and she's not going to let anything ruin
it. So regardless of what this guy does, her
mom's going to stick with him. But I don't know.
I mean, yeah, like that last part, I'm just like,
how can you? How can you somehow give someone
the benefit of the doubt of a camera accidentally
ending up in your bathroom in a spot that was
supposed to be hidden, of course. But, like,
that makes absolutely no sense. Like, that's
unjustifiable. Like, Bro's definitely, he's definitely
reporting her and, you know, who knows what he's
doing with the footage after that. Like, disrespecting
not only her. but, like, the relationship he's
supposedly having with her mother, which he seems
to value more than her own daughter. I don't
understand that right there. No, not only that,
but also, like, you know, it makes me feel like
she isn't the first person that he's probably
done this to. But the fact that he's just getting
away with it like absolutely nothing. And then
if I were her, I would be confronting him as
well, not just the mother. But I'd be like, yo,
I found your shit in my bathroom. I want to see
what the fuck you recorded. I want to see the
footage because who knows? It could be a lot
of things. It could be her getting naked, take
a shower. It could be her in the shower. It could
be just, you know, doing her morning or her nightly
routine and whatever the case. But either way,
there is. There's zero reason why you should
have a camera in the bathroom. There's absolutely
no reason why there should be a camera. And if
she said that she found the camera, that means
that she was, she wasn't looking for it. You
know, she was doing something and bam, there's
the fucking camera. Um, what I'm wondering is
how she knows it's his specifically, but I'm
assuming it's, it's either her mom's or it's
his. So the obvious was to plan. It seemed that
no one else is staying in the house. And I think
so. It'd have to be his. I also like the mom.
She's saying that worse things happen to her
and things like that. It's kind of brushing her
under the rug. That shows you the kind of mother
she grew up with and where she stands. I mean,
obviously, it can't be her first run -in. No,
it's absolutely not her first run -in. And yeah,
the whole I've been through worse things in life.
her mom is absolutely traumatized but she she
doesn't care she doesn't care she cares more
about the man and about the dick than she cares
her own daughter um that to me is pretty pretty
fucked but moving on i 29 female have been married
to my husband 31 male since january he literally
never opens his phone around me which i find
very suspicious i think i'm just overreacting
Because I've been cheated on in the past. I open
mind around him all the time, and I have no issues
with him seeing who I'm messaging. Am I just
insecure? Am I being paranoid? I just think it's
weird that he's never opened his phone around
me before. I mean, she could be overreacting
to it, especially if they never had a conversation
about it. There's definitely some context we're
missing there. She obviously... you know, has
the past with the, with someone, you know, cheating
on her. So she most likely would assume, you
know, have her, have her defenses up or walls
up, but they also, they're married. So it's like,
if you really feel uncomfortable about it, like
I've got to talk about it. Cause communication
is going to be the only way you're going to,
you're going to get through this one. Right.
And it could just be something that, that he's
not used to. He might, he might not be the type
of guy that. you know he uses it and maybe he
always pockets it afterwards or he just doesn't
use it around you just because of the fact that
he wants to enjoy his time with you and he's
a quality time type of guy or he just finds that
there's nothing important he also might not be
the type of guy that's into social media so we're
not you know we weren't given a lot of context
to really give that much of a of an opinion but
You know, both of our opinions essentially is
talk with him, have a conversation with him and
let him know how you feel about it and see how
he reacts. See if he's like, yeah, here's my
phone. I don't care. Or if he just tells you,
like, I just don't care to be on my phone. So
you're on your phone more than I am. And that's
why yours is always around me. It could just
be something as simple as that. But I wouldn't
overthink it. I would have a conversation. He's
just trying to check his crypto portfolio, man.
alright next one is I know this probably sounds
really stupid I was washing my face in the sink
some water went up my nose and now I'm worried
I live in Texas and I saw the news about an elderly
lady getting a brain eating emoba from using
tap water and an RV to clear out her sinuses
like a neti pot I'm sorry if I'm being really
dramatic. I deal with really horrible anxiety
and would like my mind to be put at ease. Any
help is much appreciated. You want to take this
one? No, I mean, with the amoebas, I know they're
usually in fresh water. So I don't think if it's
like city water, you're probably not having a
high risk or high chance of getting something
like that happening to you. I don't know. I guess
it really depends on your location. I mean, people
have different fears about getting sick, and
I can understand that, but, I mean, I think you
might be okay. Nah, I disagree, bro. I think
you're fucked. Start writing your will. You feel
me? I think you're doomed. The Amiibo's gonna
get you, and, you know, next time you should
just be more careful when you're washing your
face, you know? Too late now. Right, that will
put us in it. Alright, the next one. My girlfriend,
27, female, and I, 23, male, have been dating
for four months. We went out for some drinks
after work. For context, she's been borderline
amazing in helping me emotionally and mentally
recover after my six -year relationship with
my ex. It's been a 180 in how I've been treated,
which has been great in our relationship, but
in my mind, it feels almost too good to be true.
So after we came back to my place, she fell asleep,
which led me to snoop through her phone. I know
it's a big no -no, which I took 100 % accountability
for, but I couldn't resist due to a nagging feeling
in my gut. After a few minutes of snooping, I
found a conversation about a year and a half
prior to us dating about her best friend reminiscing
about the time that they hooked up. It was a
bit vulgar, all things considered, and after
reading enough, I couldn't find any more messages.
I confronted her, and I can't lie, she's done
all the right things since. She's blocked him,
she said it was a one -time thing, and admitted
that it was during a rough time in her life when
she thought maybe a hookup could fix things in
her life, but I'm not sure. It was annoying to
think about before when I met him, and I wasn't
even aware that it took place, and the part of
me feels like I can't trust her. Any advice?
My advice is this. You've been together four
months. This happened about a year, year and
a half, possibly even longer than that before
you. I don't feel like you have the right to
say that you can't trust her unless she did something
right now during these four months to break your
trust. I don't feel like you have any right to
cast any doubt on her. She blocked him. The first
thing she did is block him. So right then and
there, that should give you more than enough
trust. I understand feeling awkward being around
him or if she even still speaks to him or spoke
to him at that time. I understand why you would
feel uncomfortable with it and it would feel
like an awkward thing. I get that. But I don't
think that you have the right to not trust her
over something that happened well over a year
prior to you when you're the one that went through
her phone. So if anything, she shouldn't trust
you, in my opinion. Just because of the fact
that you invaded her privacy while she was sleeping.
But that's my opinion. What do you think? I think
my boy has some imposter syndrome, bro. Like,
you go and you take a good thing and you just
want to throw it away because you have all these
doubts that, like, things aren't supposed to
be the way they are. Like, he even said it himself.
He felt like it's too good to be true. It's like,
sometimes you get lucky in life and you just
gotta let it be. Let the, you know, relationship
take its course. I mean, yeah, he found some,
like, I guess some vulgar things in there and,
like, things that he's done in the past, but,
like, that it was way before him. And plus, like,
from what it sounds like in the context there,
like, he handled it really well in comparison
to, like, how most people would react or most
girls would react, I would say. So he's, like,
kind of lucky to still even, like, kind of have
relationships. yeah no i agree and like he said
he he she's helped him emotionally mentally recover
from his previous six -year relationship but
that shouldn't be on her that should be on you
and if you weren't healed enough before you're
you know if you weren't healed before you got
into that relationship then if this doesn't end
up working my advice is to take the time to heal
take the time to know who you are, know what
you want before you jump into the next relationship
and commit the same mistake. But like Santo said,
there are times that you just find someone that's
fucking, you know, that's it, that they're just
incredible and that it seems too good to be true,
but that's what it is. That's what they are.
That's who they are. And she did take all the
right steps right off the rip as soon as you
confronted her. She took the right step, so there
shouldn't be any doubt. There shouldn't be any
trust broken on your end. She's fine, in my opinion.
If she has doubts on you, I hope that you're
not getting defensive about it and that you're
allowing her to have her doubts because she does
have the right to have them since you did go
snooping through. Yeah, it's even crazier than
at the NES. Like, I can't trust her anymore.
Like, I don't understand that. Like, she seems
to be taking all the right steps, so I don't
know what else she could really show you to actually
earn your trust. Right, besides fucking sending
you a screenshot of every message she sends and
receives. Like, no, and that's just crazy. Speaking
of, I got told to put clothes on in the library
because I was in gym clothes. the sports bra
i was wearing went just above my belly button
and covered more than some crop tops and my shorts
were pretty loose not revealing not tight just
right they were above the knee but they didn't
look like underwear not to mention it's hot out
and we live in a desert i don't know i feel like
the lady acted like i was being immodest but
jesus people walk around on campus in bikinis
like am i crazy for thinking she was being weird
for telling me i need you to go put some clothes
on Only for me to then be kicked out anyway because
the library was closing. I don't know. I get
very cagey when people comment on the modesty
of my clothes because it's been like this since
I was a kid. People complain when I wear anything
and I often was the only one getting dress coded
at school despite other girls wearing similar
or more revealing things than I do. Maybe I'm
overreacting. Maybe I'm not. I don't know. I
mean, the lady could just honestly be one of
those old school people. that's like if you're
a woman and you're showing any skin then you
need to go you need a balance and whatever the
case and i get the part where you're saying that
other people on campus dress way worse than what
you were you know wearing but you are specifically
mentioning the library so it sounds like if this
person the librarian whoever You know, it sounds
like if there was anyone else dressed like you
were or worse, you would have just kicked them
out too. I don't feel like you're overreacting
because, I mean, I wouldn't like it if I got
kicked out just because of my dress choices,
especially if it doesn't seem that bad. But I
wouldn't take it as you being targeted specifically.
I feel like she would just do this to anyone.
Yeah, I mean, it's hard to say without saying
the whole outfit ourselves. You are kind of in
a public place in the library. So, I mean, I
guess there could be higher standards in there.
And it sounds like you said that you were on
a campus. So you might be on a university and
not sure what the rules might be for that university.
Maybe she was just trying to adhere to the guidelines
there for maybe being a little bit more professional
in the library. But other than that, I mean.
Yeah, I get it. Especially since it seems like
you have been dealing with this since you were
pretty young. It seems like you feel like you're
getting targeted, but it might just be her upholding
the policy. Yeah, that's true. She could just
simply be doing her job and it'd be absolutely
nothing against you and she's just doing what
she needs to do because otherwise somebody else
walks in there and sees you and then it becomes
a bigger problem. So I don't think it's specifically
towards you. I think that she's just doing her
job or she just says that to everyone and you
just happen to be that person at that time. So
next one, we have a 22 -year -old male and his
girlfriend, 21, have been dating for a year and
a half. She's amazing. She's caring. She tells
me she loves me. Our sex life is great, but also
respectful of each other's time, class, work,
time with friends. However, she has an ex -boyfriend
who is on her best friend's list on Snapchat.
I've watched her send him Instagram reels and
sometimes Snapchat him back. Am I being paranoid
for asking her to cut communication with him?
Not entirely, but break the Snap streak and stop
sending reels. For clarification, I don't think
she sends him real TikToks constantly, but they're
definitely in communication. Definitely Snapchat,
at least occasionally. Um, well, it's an ex,
so I can feel... i i can understand why he's
insecure about it but i feel like there's a there's
a bigger reason there's a deeper reason as to
why he's really upset about it i feel like it
has to do something with something that went
on with him at some point you know with an ex
possibly he has he has some type of trust issue
um i will say if you know not everyone is meant
to be together and there is a chance that they
just formed a friendship after their relationship,
which can happen. I also understand if he maybe
feel like, what if it circles back? So, I don't
know. I think he might be overreacting a little
bit. I don't think it's that big of a deal if
they're not having actual conversations. They're
just sending each other TikToks and shit. But
I don't feel like we have enough information.
Yeah, I agree. It's hard to say because it's
really not like... a lot of information on this
but I mean from what it seems like it seems like
he has a you know a pretty a pretty great girl
um it seems like they're both working towards
other things on their own time I mean I definitely
get like you know with it being the ex involved
like having like the doubts of like you know
why is she still like keeping him and her life
if like they were done like if there was an end
to that kind of thing you know I mean, like you
said, I mean, they could have decided to be friends
afterwards, but I don't know, guys and girls
being friends, then previously having relationships,
it just could get messy and it just doesn't always
work out that way that we think it will work
out, like them just being friends, you know what
I mean? Yeah, I think you need to, Donifer, have
a talk and not just start off with, hey, I need
you to... Cut the conversation from or cut this
or cut that. You know, find out what they're
talking about. Maybe they're, dude, maybe they're
talking about you. You never know. But I would
sit down with her, have a conversation with her,
see if they're just sending each other dumb shit
that is really irrelevant and doesn't matter.
You know, it could be absolutely nothing. It
could just be something that's a habit for them
and they're used to it. But if it also makes
you feel that uncomfortable in your relationship.
Then talk to her and see what kind of boundaries
maybe you guys can set up. The next one we have
is a 20 -year -old male. He hosted a close friend
of his in his apartment for a few nights. He
says, while I was out doing the grocery shopping,
he decided to take my laptop, which I heavily
use for editing, university work, and other functions
without my consent. he claimed it was for a quick
check so it didn't warrant asking for clarification
my laptop has a ton of personal files and very
sensitive client footage i didn't yell at him
but i expressed that it was unacceptable and
they crossed the boundary his response to my
anger is that i was being overly dramatic do
you think i'm the one who's being dramatic you
want to go and start this yeah i mean that i
mean especially like just taking someone's property
without their consent is is wild to me especially
i mean no matter what you were doing like it's
not your laptop and you don't know what she does
with that laptop like what if you broke it what
if you messed up something on it and now she
can't access those files like from what she's
saying it sounds like that it was like pretty
like critical information and that she was in
pretty sensitive information she was handling
so like It could even be her running the risk
of him taking something from there that she didn't
want him to have or couldn't have or something
that could get her in trouble. Yeah, my biggest
part about it is the fact that he said, my laptop
has a ton of personal files and sensitive client
footage. So it's like... you know maybe that
shouldn't be on your laptop to begin with unless
that's maybe your work laptop but even then if
you have this sensitive stuff it could impact
your career depending on what it is it could
impact your life could impact your livelihood
he also said that he uses it for university work
so it could impact your school there's a lot
of things that could have gone wrong that it
could have impacted So I don't feel like you're
being overly dramatic. I think your anger is
justified because if whatever you had on there
is found out, is shared, is exposed, whatever
the case, maybe it's something to do with medical
records. Maybe you work for some type of clinic,
doctor, hospital. Maybe you do photography and
certain things that other people can't see. Maybe,
whatever, maybe. It's something that could have
impacted you in a negative way, so I don't feel
like your friend should have gone through your
shit, especially without asking. Just absolutely
not. They use a more secure password. Much more
secure password, or at least put a password on
if you don't have one. So, the next one is a
bit ridiculous. Myself and my soon -to -be husband
are expecting a little one at the end of July,
early August. That means getting baby supplies
as gifts. The biggest thing on the registry are
diapers. We've had all registry gifts go to his
mom's house as we just moved and need to do a
bit of work before getting stuff here. One of
those things we received was a box of size 1
pamper swaddlers. The box has a black baby on
it. She called us a bit ago and said we couldn't
use it because the box was for black babies,
claiming their butts are bigger than white babies.
And yes, we're both white, but like that doesn't
make any fucking sense. I'm just so baffled and
confused because who says something like that?
That's literally just a baby who happens to be
black on the box of Pampers. Am I overreacting
or is she trying to troll us? I'm so confused
and honestly kind of upset that she would say
something so stupid. And my husband is completely
on my side and agrees with me. Yo, yo, mama -in
-law is racist, bro. Straight up. There's no
ifs ands or buts about it. Your fucking mother
-in -law is fucking racist. And that makes no
fucking sense. It's a fucking baby. They don't
make fucking diapers for whites only, blacks
only, fucking Hispanics only that have fucking
peppers on them or bananas. No, bro. They're
diapers for babies. It's universal. It doesn't
matter what kind of baby you are, what color
baby you are. It's the same shit for every baby.
Yeah, see. He just stepped right off the plantation
with that one, bro. He straight up was like,
back in my day, I didn't have no babies on my
diaper boxes, you know? Like, I don't know. I
mean, it's just a baby model. Like, it's not
a... It's literally just to show that, hey, these
are diapers for babies. Like, it didn't have
to go to that level. I don't know why she was
thinking that way, other than just being, like,
straight up, like... Well, you're not having
a black baby, so these aren't the right diapers
for you. Yeah, bro. Like, what if the fucking
wipes, what if the box of wipes has a black baby
on it? Then what the fuck are you going to say?
What if the baby food that you buy in four, five,
six months has a black baby on it? Then what?
Are you telling me white babies can't eat fucking
apple fucking baby food? Like, how does that
make sense? Your fucking mother -in -law is just
fucking racist. She still has the mentality from
back in her old autumn days. Oh, man. I feel
so sorry for her. She literally sat down, looked
at this box, had a thought about it for a good
minute, and said, I need to tell my daughter
that they have to take these back. They cannot
use these diapers. She really had to process
this, and it made sense to her. It made absolute
fucking sense to her. Okay, so then my question
is, what if it was Huggies? Huggies used his
fucking Mickey Mouse on it. Damn. So what the
fuck were you going to say then? Mickey diapers
are fucking rats. Mouse is like, what are you
going to say then? All right, well, our last
one of the night. My wife. 34 female and i 36
male have been married for eight years we have
two kids together she recently started a new
job where she's gotten really close to one of
her co -workers she calls him her work husband
she says it's all jokes and off his banter nothing
serious at first i brushed it off but over time
she started texting him outside of work hours
she's constantly laughing at his jokes and she's
even facetiming him while we're away on a family
trip with our kids i finally told her it was
getting weird and she told me to stop being so
insecure last week she asked if he could come
with us on our summer vacation to the lake house
she said he has no family around and he could
use a break i said absolutely the not this is
our family Our family time, and I don't want
some random guy that I don't know tagging along,
especially someone that she flirts with every
single day. She got mad, said I was being controlling.
Her exact words were, I'm not even allowed to
have friends now. I told her it's not about friends,
it's about boundaries. She's still mad and says
I embarrassed her by making a big deal out of
nothing. Bro, straight up, your wife is a hoe.
I said what I said, and I don't regret it. Your
wife? Is fucking around. With another dude. She
don't give a fuck about your feelings. And I
guarantee you. If he came on that trip. Your
wife would have gotten piped down. By somebody
the fuck else. With your kids being there. So.
First of all the work husband shit. As soon as
she said that. You need to shut that shit down.
Fucking right away. But the fact that she's facetiming
him. While on a trip. With you and your kids.
That she's texting him all the time. That she
wants him to go on trips with you. Nah. No. Nope.
You're 34. Oh, no. You're 36. You're still fucking
young, bro. You can remarry. Fuck that. Yeah,
I mean, like... Like, that's crazy. I mean, like,
you know, people, you know, say that stuff playfully
at times. Like, not really being serious. Like,
you know, nothing too serious. So I could understand
where, like... that side of it's coming from
like oh it's just a joke kind of thing like you
know since we work together all the time kind
of thing blah blah blah but then it's like like
when you uh when you start going into these directions
where now you're escalating the situation like
now you're texting them uh now yeah and crazy
like the craziest thing is inviting him to the
to the family vacation like that's nuts bro And,
like, what other guy would be like, oh, yeah,
I'm definitely going to go on this vacation with
some other, like, her family and her husband.
Like, blah, blah, blah. Like, like, come on,
man. Like, that's crazy as fuck. But the thing
is, too, is, like, we also don't know if, like,
she even, like, offered that as an option to
the guy. So maybe he, you know, maybe I'm calling
him weird too soon. But still, like, the whole
thing's weird, bro. Like, she's definitely on
some stuff, bro. Bro, not only that, but I also
feel like not only are you disrespecting your
husband, but you are straight up disrespecting
your fucking kids by trying to have someone that
is not their fucking daddy that they don't know.
I'm assuming they don't know. Come on a trip
with you. You feel me? How do you also explain
that to your kids? Yeah, just trying to introduce
them to their future stepdaddy, bro. shit bro
could you bro that's some shit that you could
that you would see on the news that you would
literally be like oh husband kills you know wife
having affair husband kills the fucking guy during
a family vacation like you know that's some shit
that you would absolutely see on the fucking
news that's wild bro i don't i don't understand
how how she even is is justifying this in her
own head You know what I mean? How is she justifying
inviting him over and then not even considering
her husband's feelings and all that? That's insane.
No, I agree. As soon as she started FaceTiming
him while her husband and her kids were on vacation,
that right there, that's that line. She didn't
cross that line. She jumped over that shit. So
right there, dude, that right there, that's just
a big red flag. All right. And once again, thank
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