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Ever feel like your life is going nowhere? Fast?

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Have you ever asked the question, I mean recently,

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why am I here? What's my purpose? If you'd like

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to learn to move from success to significance,

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stick around. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself,

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why am I here? Not just existing, but truly living

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with purpose? Today on Living on the Edge, Chip

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Ingram helps us answer life's most fundamental

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question. He reveals that your mission in life

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isn't about owning a home, being comfortable,

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or making sure your kids turn out right. God

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placed you on earth for one specific reason,

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to know Christ and make Him known. But here's

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the question, where does that happen? The answer

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might surprise you. It's not somewhere far away.

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It's right where you are. Here's Chip Ingram

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continuing our series called Experience Breakthrough.

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Never forget the... illustration a guy shared

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with me. I was a young Christian, just a couple

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years. I can't remember where I was, but I still

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have the picture in my mind of the napkin. And

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he pulled out a napkin and he drew about six

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different buckets with the picture from a source,

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my life, rainbows. Rainbows going into these

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six different buckets. He said, you know, Chip,

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everyone has a dream in their life, whether they

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verbalize it or not. And they're following the

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rainbow into the pot or the bucket of gold. You

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know, some people follow the dream. And then

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he drew the little bucket and he wrote the word

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fame. He said, other people, it's not fame, it's

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popularity or looks. And then he made another

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rainbow and he drew a little bucket and he put

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a dollar sign on it. And he said, you know, some

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people think if they just get enough money and

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can own enough things and impress enough people,

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then life will come through for them. And then

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he drew another rainbow and he put a bucket and

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it said success. And then he drew one that surprised

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me. He said family. He said, Chip, we could draw

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buckets where people follow rainbows and every

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bucket in life is empty except two. There's only

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two buckets that if you give your life to these,

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they'll always come through for you. Number one

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is God's word because it's eternal. Every time

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you invest in God's word, anytime you take it

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in, read it, apply it, pass it on, share it with

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anyone else, you're investing in something that

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will never, never fail. The second bucket that

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will always be full are the souls of men and

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the souls of women. Every human being on the

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face of this planet eternally matters to God.

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Anytime you invest in a relationship, anytime

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you love a person, pray for a person, care for

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a person, provide the needs of a person, encourage

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a person, you're marking into something that's

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eternal. And by the way, remember, there is a

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resurrection coming and everyone gets resurrected.

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You're aware of that. Scripture says some to

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be with the Lord forever, some to be separated

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for all eternity. You need to know your mission.

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Jesus made it very clear in Matthew 28. As you

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go or go, therefore, make disciples of all ethnos,

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all people, all people groups, all nations. Make

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disciples. Make followers of me. Baptize them.

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Identification in the name of the Father and

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the Son and the Holy Spirit and all the things

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that I've taught you, pass on to them in order

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that they could not just learn them, but obey

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them. Put them into practice. And by the way,

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I'll be with you. I know you can't do it on your

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own. I'll be with you always. See, in a nutshell,

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here's your mission in life. If you're a housewife,

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this is your mission. If you're a carpenter,

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this is your mission. If you're a businessman,

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this is your mission. If you're a musician, this

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is your mission. If you're a student, it's your

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mission. If you're a woman, it's your mission.

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If you're a man, it's your mission. Your mission

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is to know Christ and to make him known. That's

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why you were placed on this planet. Period. That

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will come through your personality, your desires,

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your backgrounds. And you can do it in San Jose

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or you can do it in San Juan. And you can do

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it by working with your hands and you can do

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it by working with your head. Your mission, your

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reason for existence is to know him. And then

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out of the overflow of your relationship to make

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him known. Your mission is not to own a home.

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Your mission is not to be comfortable. Your mission

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is not as important as all your kids turn out

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right. Your mission is not you being happy. Your

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mission is not to save up enough money as though

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you know the future so that your retirement years

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will be secure. That's not your mission. That's

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a dead end. Your mission is to know Christ and

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to make him known. Every person you walk by,

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believers to be encouraged, unbelievers, the

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average unbeliever grew up like me. I never met

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a real Christian until I was 18, 17. I mean,

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I met church people and I saw a bunch of junk

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that happened in churches. I never met a real

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one. I mean, one that lives out. One whose life

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and words matched up and told the same story.

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One who would listen instead of talk at me. One

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who cared. One who lived it out. One who had

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a radical lifestyle. One who said, I'll give

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up two weeks of vacation and go to El Salvador.

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Or to Mexico. Or would stop in the middle of

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their busy day and say, I've got time to talk

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to you. And I know it's not politically correct,

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but let me tell you what Jesus has done in my

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life without judging where you're at in your

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life. See, you want to be significant instead

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of successful? One, first and foremost, clarify

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your mission. Secondly, embrace your mission

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field. You need to know where you're going, but

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you need to know where God wants you to know

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Christ and to make him known. We get this idea

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that your mission field has got to be in Africa.

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I'm telling you, I hope some of you go, but I'm

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going to tell you, 99 % of you probably will

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never go to Africa. But we think, well, that's

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the mission field. And since you're not going

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there, if you're like me, you unconsciously slide

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into fulfilling the agenda and buying the commercials

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and looking to be happy, comfortable, prosperous,

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well -off, with a dash of Jesus on the side.

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embrace your mission field. Where are your greatest

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spheres of influence? Jesus said not become salt,

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become light. What did he say? You are salt.

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You are light. You're going to reveal. You're

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going to flavor. You're going to challenge. You're

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going to change. You're going to have an impact

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unless you're under a bushel, unless you've lost

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your saltiness. Let me give you the three areas

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where it is clear that you need to sprinkle the

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salt of Christ. The love of Christ and the holiness

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of God. First, your home. That's your first mission

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field. Deuteronomy 6, 4 -9 says, Hear, O Israel,

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the Lord our God. The Lord is one. Love the Lord

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your God with all your heart, with all your soul,

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with all your strength. These commandments I

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give you today are to be upon your hearts. Now

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get this. Impress them on your children. Talk

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about them when you sit at home and when you

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walk along the road, when you lie down and when

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you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands.

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Buy them on your foreheads. Write them on the

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door frames of your houses and on your gates.

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Do your kids, your family network, see that your

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number one concern and mission field is them?

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Spend time in the scriptures in your home? Do

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they catch you praying sometimes? Oops, sorry

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mom, sorry dad. Do they see the integrity that

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you talk about and this stuff about God lived

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out? in your life, that's your mission field.

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If it doesn't work there, don't export it. Some

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of us are thinking, God, what do you want me

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to do with my life? Start right where you are.

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Love your wife. Love your husband. Care about

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your kids. Turn the stupid TV off and spend some

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time together. Find out who their friends are.

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Ask them questions. Go on walks. Put your arms

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around them. Don't assume everything's really

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okay. Face the hard issues. Be God's man. Be

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God's woman. Second field that God wants you

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to make an impact in, your sphere of influence,

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second mission field is your work. Do you ever

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realize that the great majority of your time

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is spent not at home, not at church, not praying

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and not reading the Bible? Do you realize that

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what most of us do is we get up every day and

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we put in, I don't know anybody who works a 40

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-hour week, but God bless you if you figured

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out how to do that. Right? Most of us, it's about

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55 or 60, then you're getting kind of revved

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up. And if you're under some pressure, some of

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us do the 70 or 80 hours. Don't do much of that

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for this life. Now think about, multiply that

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out over all the years that you live. Where do

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you spend the great bulk of your entire world?

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It's working, whether that's at home. or whether

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that's at an office or a job site, that's where

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you spend the great bulk of your life. Do you

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think that God has a plan for your life, for

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your family, for church, for the spiritual little

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wedge or window? And over here, your work life

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is like, well, you're on your own. You know,

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like God in the morning says, well, hey, have

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a good day. I'll catch you later. We live that

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way. Notice what the scripture says, Colossians

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chapter 3, verses 22 to 25. The application there

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is to slaves in this culture. I think we can

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make it to ours. Slaves, obey your earthly masters

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and everything. Now, basically, they had some

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terrible earthly masters. This is a tough command.

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And do it, not only when their eye is upon you

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to win their favor, but with sincerity of heart

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and reverence for the Lord. Now, is the Bible

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actually saying that I go to work and I do my

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job as though I'm doing it for God? As an act

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of worship? With a good attitude? On time? With

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excellence? You know, everyone's wearing these

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little bands, WWJD. What would Jesus do? I got

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one for you. Put that band on your wrist and

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get up on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday,

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Friday, and if you work on Saturday, Saturday

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morning, and say, if Jesus was inside your body

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going to your job, how would he do your job?

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When would he leave? And what kind of work would

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he do? And you know what? Some of us feel like

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God could never use me. You start working like

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that, with that kind of attitude, you will have

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people lined up at your desk saying, one, could

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you come work for me? Or two, what is with you?

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You're listening to Living on the Edge with Chip

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Ingram. We'll return to our message in just a

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.org. Let's get back to Chip's message. And by

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the way, you will take flack. Because the work

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culture is what? The work culture is... How can

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you do as little as possible and get as much

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as possible? The Christian culture is, how much

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do you get to do and do it unto God? Notice Colossians

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3, 23. Whatever you do, work at it with all your

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heart as working for the Lord, not for men. Can

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you imagine walking in and someone saying, hey,

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knock it off here. No, I'm doing this for God.

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I don't work for IBM. I don't work for Hewlett

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-Packard. I don't work for Plantronics. You know,

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I'm doing these dishes. I'm changing these diapers.

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I'm landscaping this lawn. I'm going to do it

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in such a way that it honors God. Can you fathom

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the impact the body of Christ would have if we

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work that way? See, too many of us have bought

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a car from someone out of the paper and it has

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a little fish on it. And what do we immediately

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think? Uh -oh. Are they really telling the truth

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about this? See, a lot of people put a Bible

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on their desk or they want to tell everyone to

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come to a Bible study. They don't show up on

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time. They don't do their homework. They're not

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prepared. You know what they're doing? They're

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disgracing the name of Christ. Martin Luther

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put it well. He said, when a milkmaid goes out

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and milks a cow and does it as an act of worship

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unto the Lord, she is in a more holy state and

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holy ground than when a priest or a pastor does

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not take care of the Word of God and doing that

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job in a way that honors Him. I've got news for

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you. There aren't two sets of scales. See, people

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sometimes, especially if I travel some, they

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always get around to, what do you do? And I'm

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always a little uncomfortable. In my mind's eye,

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I still don't think of myself as a minister,

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you know, or like clergy or even pastor. See,

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I didn't grow up around people like that. The

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bricklayer helped me. You know what I knew? He

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was a bricklayer that was going to make disciples.

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I think of myself as a coach. It's just a different

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team. I am. I'm just a coach. And when I stand

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before God, he doesn't say, oh, this is what

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I expect of Chip. And then all these lay people.

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Baloney. I'll tell you what he says. Now, the

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ruler is going to be a little different because

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I teach the word, James tells me. But he's going

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to evaluate. What I do is no more spiritual than

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what you do. And most of you don't believe that.

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But you need to believe it because what you do

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at work. That's your sphere of influence. Can

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you imagine the impact? And some of you are making

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it. Some of you are my heroes. As I put this

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point down, you know, a number of people just

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came to my mind. I thought, wow. Third, sphere

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of influence is your network. Colossians 4, verses

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5 and 6, notice what it says. Be wise in the

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way you act toward nonbelievers. Making good

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use of how many opportunities? Every opportunity

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you have. Your speech should always be pleasant

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and interesting, and you should know how to give

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the right answer to everyone. See, you have a

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network, and probably in our day, it's not your

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neighborhood. It's probably the other moms or

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dads on the little league team or the soccer

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team. It's probably the person that, you know,

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every week some of you go to the dry cleaners.

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Are you building a relationship with that person?

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Some of us pick up coffee at the same place almost

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every morning, right? Have you ever thought that

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this relationship could begin from where you

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are and you could love them and build a relationship

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into the kingdom? Some of you have your cars

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repaired the same place. Did you realize God

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has brought that mechanic into your life for

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a reason? Some of you play bridge. Some of you

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have hobbies. Some of you crochet. Some of you

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play softball. What's your network? We always

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are thinking, who am I going to share with, you

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know, Christ and build this evangelistic relationship

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with? Here's the secret. Help out all the people

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you already know. I mean, I've been sharing the

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Lord with a guy at the coffee shop for close

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to seven years. I just made a major breakthrough

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after about a year with the lady at 7 -Eleven,

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and she saw my Bible, asked what I did, found

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out her son's a Christian, is sharing Christ

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with her, and now we have 30 to 2 -minute conversations

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about the Scripture. I have a neighbor that I've

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been praying for for 8 years, and one day I just

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had an impulse from God. He brought a verse to

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my mind. let your light so shine before men that

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they can see your good deeds and glorify your

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father in heaven. And just at an impulse, I went

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over and cut her grass. She's a single mom. And

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I'm thinking, no big deal. I mean, yards here,

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where I grew up, when you cut grass, it was an

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hour. You know, here it's 12 minutes, you're

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done. And I mean, you would think I was passing

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out bags of gold to this lady. She's a sweet

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lady. She's a great lady. And I don't know really

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where she's at spiritually, but, you know, I

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live close to her, but I've never really connected.

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I came home last night and there were two cartons

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of eggs and two things of jam on our front door

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from her saying thanks. What's your network?

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It's not some way, someday, somehow, when you,

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it's right now where you're at. Let me give you

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number three because you need to know how to

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do this. There's six steps. I call it everybody

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evangelism. You move from success to significance

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by one. clarifying your mission. Why am I here?

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Two, embrace your mission field. Where are my

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spheres of influence? The home, work, my network.

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Three, engage in the harvesting process. First

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Corinthians three says that we can't make anything

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grow. Only God can do it. But some water and

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some plant and we all work together. I know I

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have only a handful of relationships where I

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build a relationship, I water, I do this, I do

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this, I do this. And six months or two years

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later, I lead that person to Christ. There's

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people I meet that people have been working on

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for 20 years and I get to lead them to Christ.

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There's other people that I build a relationship

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with. You know what? Boy, I sure hope God does

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something because I haven't seen anything. But

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I'm not discouraged about that anymore. In fact,

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I took the gun away from my head. I don't have

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to do it. See, I am not and you are not a prosecuting

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attorney. You know what we are? Witnesses. You

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know what witnesses do? Witnesses step up on

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the plate and say, this is what's true of me.

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This is what Jesus did in my life. Now, let me

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give you a way to get involved in this. Notice

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the little chart. I took this out of a book called

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The High Impact Church. Linus Morris did this,

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and he ministers in Europe. Notice there's about

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six steps. First, look at your network. Make

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contact with the unchurched is your goal. Action

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step, establish visibility in the community.

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Identify and pray and contact people and social

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networks. It's like helping out with a little

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league team. Two, after the network, befriend

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people. The goal, build trusting relationships,

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like really care about them. The action, build

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bridges socially, show love and care, look for

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divine appointments, just start serving people.

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Step three, identify, look for a felt need. You

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know, it took me eight years. I mean, I must

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be like slow of speech, slow of tongue and way

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low on brains. Took me eight years to figure

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out a felt need in my neighbor's life was cutting

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the lawn, so simple. What are the felt needs

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of the people? Going through divorce? Have financial

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problems? Struggle with aging parents? Pressure

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in their marriage? Here's the action step. Listen

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attentively. Show concern. You don't have to

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jam Jesus down their throat and give them five

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Bible verses. Just listen. You will be a minority.

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Just listen. Network, befriend, identify, then

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share. Share your story. Action step, look for

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receptivity and sensitively share your story.

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This takes most of you off the hook. You don't

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have to have all the answers. Just, this is what

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Jesus did in my life. This is what Jesus did

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in my marriage. This is what Jesus did in that

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relationship, but I'm still struggling with it.

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Just share your story. And then when they ask

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that real hard question that's so hard and the

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reason why we don't share, here's the answer.

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I'm going to tell you in advance. They ask this,

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what about da -da -da -da -da, right? The real

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hard question. Here's your answer. I don't know.

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I don't know. Here's what I know he did for me.

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But you know what? The way I've learned is through

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the New Testament. And I'd like to give you one

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if you want to start reading it. If you have

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questions, I'd be glad to talk with you. And

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that's a good question. I don't know that one,

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but I'll go do some study. Would you like to

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get a cup of coffee and talk about it later?

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You're not under pressure. You don't have to

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have all the answers. Just share your story.

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Fifth, invite. The goal is to expose them to

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the gospel. Action step, bring an unbelieving

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friend or a contact to a weekend service or to

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a small group. Invite them. Finally, harvest.

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Encourage commitment to Christ and assimilate

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them in the life of the church. There's a point

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in time where people get ready and you need to

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cross over the line and say, would you like to

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receive Jesus as your Savior? Would you like

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to have your sins forgiven? And I'm always amazed

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because I have this unbelieving mind. How many

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times people would look at me and say, Yes, I

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would. And you know what kept them from it? No

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one's ever asked. You're hearing Living on the

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Edge with Chip Ingram. And what a practical reminder

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that your mission field isn't someday somewhere

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else. It's today, right where God has placed

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you. Before Chip shares a closing thought, if

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you'd like to pass this message along to someone

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who needs clarity about their purpose, you'll

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find it at livingontheedge .org. As you think

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about embracing your mission field in your home,

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your workplace, and your network of relationships,

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let me recommend a tool that can strengthen your

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daily walk with God. It's a free resource Chip

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created called Psalms of Hope. Here's how it

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works. Each day for 10 days, Chip guides you

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through Psalm 1, Psalm 15, or Psalm 23, providing

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10 minutes in personal prayer and reflection.

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Just 20 minutes daily, Ten life -changing days.

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These psalms speak directly to the challenge

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investing your life in things that truly last.

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Chip with some final thoughts. I taught this

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very recently, and there was two young couples,

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both that are fairly brand new Christians, I

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mean, like within the last year. And they contacted

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Teresa and myself because we all live in the

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same neighborhood. And the one lady had been

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through, I mean, super, super serious cancer,

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you know, like stage four. I don't know if she's

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going to make it, but they grew up in this area.

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And so they had all kind of friends. And we prayed.

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We anointed her with oil as elders. We prayed.

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We fasted. God miraculously intervened. She went

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through all kind of difficult times and then

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was restored to health. And in that journey,

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she and her husband came to a personal relationship

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with Christ. And then all these friends and neighbors

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and college and fraternity and people that they

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knew for like 25 years, they'd rallied around

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them and they saw their life. And they came to

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Teresa and myself. And I said, you know, we want

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our neighbors to really hear about Jesus. But

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I mean, you know, we don't even hardly know what

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we're talking about, but we really want to see

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this happen. What could we do? And we literally

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did what I talked about in this message. And

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here, can I tell you something? God is preparing

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people. The people at work, the people in your

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neighborhood, you think they're not open. They

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just need someone to invite them, to love them,

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to care about them, take an interest in them.

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Find another person or two, pray for them. And

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here's how it starts. Absolutely small. It was

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six of us around a kitchen table six months before

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we started it. And then God began to work. What

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does he want you to do? It's absolutely small.

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It's just a mustard seed. Take the step and watch

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God work. Tired of the pursuit that leaves you

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empty? I'm Dave Drewy. Discover the pathway to

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true fulfillment tomorrow on Living on the Edge.

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