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Today on Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram.

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God loves all people equally, but he does not

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bless all people equally. Some people he prospers

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for a very specific reason. If you want to find

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out what that is, stay with me. That's today

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on Living on the Edge. The anticipation, the

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joy of Christmas is a glimpse of how we're wired.

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We were designed to give lavishly to those we

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love. Yet when it comes to supporting our church

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or the ministries that feed us spiritually, sometimes

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we hesitate, we calculate, we wait for a better

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time. But according to the Bible, generosity

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is the smartest financial decision we'll ever

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make. Today on Living on the Edge, Chip Ingram

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explains why God blesses generous people and

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how giving to kingdom work unleashes something

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far more valuable than a bigger bank account.

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Before we begin his message, I'll remind you

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that Living on the Edge is making headway on

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the December match that concludes midnight on

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Wednesday. But in order to reach our goal, we

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invite you to join us. We'll share more details

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about the match later. Right now, let's begin

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Chip's message titled, Why God Prosperous Generous

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People. I want to begin with a little parable

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that I ran across. It was very interesting. Imagine,

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if you will, the scene. Once there was a man

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lost in desert near death from thirst. He wandered

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aimlessly throughout the burning sand for many

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days, growing weaker by the moment. At long last,

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he saw an oasis in the distance, palm trees indicating

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there'd be water. He stumbled forward feverishly,

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fell beneath the shade of the trees. Finally,

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he might quench his thirst. But he noticed something

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strange about this particular oasis. Instead

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of a pool of water or a bubbling brook, it was

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odd. There was a pump, and next to the pump was

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a jar of water. And next to the jar of water

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was a small parchment with handwritten note.

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The note explained that the leather gasket within

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the pump must be saturated with the water for

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the pump to work. Within the jar was just enough

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water for this purpose. The note also warned

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the reader, do not drink from the jar. Every

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drop must be poured down into the pump in the

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opening so the base of the pump can be soaked,

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the hard leather becomes softened, and as the

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leather is softened and expanded, an unlimited

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supply of sweet water would be available. The

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parchment's final instructions were simply to

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refill the jar for the next traveler. The man

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faced a dilemma. He was dying of thirst. And

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there wasn't much water, but he found some. Probably

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not enough water to save his life, but it seemed

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like the height of folly to take the little bit

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of water that he had and pour it down the base

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of a pump. And so, what do you do? On the one

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hand, if the note is true and he pours it down,

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he has all the water that he needs. On the other,

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if he drinks what he has, temporarily quenches

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thirst, but find himself in an oasis and die.

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As I thought of this, I have a little jar here.

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And it has a little note. And it's a note a lot

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like what he had. And I'd like you to think about

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this jar as your life. And all the water inside

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this jar is all the time, all the energy, all

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the talent, all the money, all the opportunity,

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your 401k, your savings account. your car, your

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house. It's all that you have. And we have this

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ridiculous command of God that says, give. Pour

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it out. Trust me. Don't be afraid. Don't be so

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tight with your time. Don't be so tight with

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your talent. Don't be tight and guarded with

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your money. Trust me. with your life, and as

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you give it away, you will never reflect my son

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more than as you're generous. And then all the

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promises of Scripture are how smart that is.

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It's not noble or holy or wonderful to say, wow,

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I'm going to pour this down so I can have an

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unlimited supply. It's smart. But it requires

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one thing, doesn't it? That note better be true.

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And that pump better have water. I want to give

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you four airtight facts about generosity that

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are absolutely true that will help you and help

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me begin to take the kind of steps that will

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allow us by faith to say, it's smart, it's wise

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to pour out our lives. In fact, Jesus is called,

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he poured out his life as a drink offering. Paul

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would use the same phrase when he talked about

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his life and his love for the Philippian church.

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So are you ready? Four facts that I think will

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give us faith. Fact number one, God blesses generous

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people. Some of you have been around. Do not

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get nervous as I share these verses because some

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of you are going to come to some conclusions

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like, what's he saying? Is he taking us in this?

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Just listen. And what I want you to do is I read

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these verses. I just want you to ask and answer

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the question, does the Bible teach that God blesses

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generous people or not? I've got Old Testament,

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New Testament, the wisest man in the world, and

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Jesus himself. Follow along. First Acts 20, 35.

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In everything I did, Luke writes, I showed you

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that by this kind of hard work, we must help

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the weak, remembering the words of the Lord Jesus

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himself. It is more blessed to give than to receive.

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Luke 6, 38, from the lips of Jesus. Give. Why?

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And it'll be given unto you. Well, how? Good

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measure, pressed down, shaken together, running

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over, will be poured into your cup. For with

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the measure or the size that you use, it will

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be measured or given back to you. Solomon, the

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wisest man in the world, Proverbs 22, 9. A generous

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man will himself be blessed, for he shares his

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food with the poor. Are you getting the drift?

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Pretty strong argument. Solomon, Proverbs 19,

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17. He who is kind to the poor lends to the Lord.

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And what does God do? When people are kind to

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the poor, he will reward him for what he has

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done. Deuteronomy, Moses writes, when you're

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out harvesting your field and you overlook a

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sheaf, you know, you're harvesting your field

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and oh boy, we forgot that one back there. Notice

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what he says. Do not go back and get it. Leave

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it for the alien, for the fatherless and the

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widow. Why? so that the Lord your God may bless

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you in all the work of your hands. Turn the page,

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if you will, Proverbs 3, 9, and 10. He says,

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honor the Lord with what? Honor God. What's it

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look like? Honor God with all your wealth. How?

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With the very first fruits of your crops. You

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give the first and the best. What's the result?

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Then your barns will be filled with overflowing.

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and your vats are burst out with new wine. And

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then finally, Solomon in Proverbs 11, 24, and

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5. I love this one. One man gives freely, yet

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gains all the more. Another withholds what is

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justly due, but comes only to poverty. A generous

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man will prosper, and he who refreshes others

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will himself be refreshed. Now listen very carefully.

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This is not a give to get, and this is not the

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prosperity gospel. This is not a formula where

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you can figure out, oh, this is how God has set

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up life. I'm going to figure out how to use God

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and somehow give so I can get more. That's just

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being selfish. But what the Bible teaches from

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Jesus to Moses to Solomon to all through Scripture

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is very, very simple. You have limited capacity.

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Limited time. You have limited money. You have

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limited opportunity. You have limited energy.

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You have limited talent. And God says to you,

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if you will take those limitations and you will

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give the first and the best, and trust me, I

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have unlimited supply to help you fulfill my

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purpose in you and my purpose through you. The

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bright idea that comes out of this is this. Generous

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living produces emotional happiness, spiritual

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holiness, and as a general rule, material prosperity.

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No give to get. No playing games with God. But

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you know, people that are generous are happy.

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They're like anti -Scrooge. You know, when you

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just can't wait for your husband or your wife

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or a close friend or one of your kids or a grandkid

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to open something, right? You know they want

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it. You know they want it. You've been thinking

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about it. You checked it out on the internet.

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You bought it. You can't wait. You know what

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that is? You're made to give and to bless others.

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And when you do, what happens? It's more blessed

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to give than to receive. But God says this is

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a way of life. There's an enemy to this, though.

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Left to ourself and in our flesh, I'm a selfish,

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greedy person. I mean, I want to appear generous,

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but protect me, right? Now, none of you are like

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that, but that's just left to myself. The only

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antidote to greed and selfishness and the power

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of money, the antidote is to give. It's when

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I give God the first, when I give him the best,

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it breaks the power of greed and that false belief

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that just a little bit more, just a little bit

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more, that it can produce security and it'll

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take care of me. And someday when I have then,

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that false belief. And then finally, what you

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find is people that are generous with material

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things and generous with their time, generous

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with the talent, just the hand of God's blessing

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is upon them. We'll hear more from Chip Ingram's

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message in just a moment. First, we invite you

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of your gift at livingontheedge .org. From his

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series called The Genius of Generosity, again,

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our Bible teacher, Chip Ingram. Now, you may

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be hearing what I'm saying and thinking, okay,

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now wait a second. Fact number one is God blesses

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generous people. And you might be saying, well,

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I think I'm pretty generous, but I'm not experiencing

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that kind of blessing. In fact, I got a lot of

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debt right now. I got a lot of pressure right

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now. I don't have enough time right now. I mean,

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how does this really work? Well, I did a little

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experiment. I thought to myself, I wonder if

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there's a difference between being truly generous

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and just assuming or thinking that you're generous.

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I went to a little strip mall where there was

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multiple little restaurants and a Starbucks.

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And I went from person to person to person. I

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said, I'm trying to find 100 people. I have one

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question. It's a survey. I just want a yes or

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no answer. No explanation. Yes or no. And I mean,

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I had young people, old people, all kind of ethnic

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backgrounds. And I walked around and I was scared

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at first, but it got to be fun. I said, excuse

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me. Two ladies are stopping. You know, hey, I

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don't want any money. I'm not going to do anything.

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It's a survey. Can I ask you this question? And

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I said, here it is. Do you consider yourself

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to be a generous person? Yes or no? Do you consider

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yourself to be a generous person? Yes or no?

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If I ask you that, just right now, don't raise

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your hand, don't do anything, but just your self

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-talk. Do you consider yourself to be a generous

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person? Yes or no? Well, my very unscientific

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survey revealed that 80 % of the people at that

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strip mall consider themselves very quickly to

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be generous people. Only two people said no.

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And so I couldn't resist. I had a follow -up

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question. So you don't think you're generous?

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No. Kind of like, I don't think I'm generous.

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I'm not trying to be generous, buddy. Just, you

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know, move on, you know. Get your own coffee

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or something. Now, here's... What if all the

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verses I talked about aren't for people who think

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they're generous? What if all the verses, I mean,

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these are the words of Jesus, the words of Solomon.

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What if God really has a standard or a criteria

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that if you fulfill that, you're generous and

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these promises apply to you, and if you just

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think you're generous, which I'm now learning

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80 % at least of the people think they are, then

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they really don't apply to you. And so let me

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give you fact number two. Fact number two is

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that God provides clear criteria for becoming

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or knowing that you're a generous person. I mean,

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right out of the Bible, you know, you may have

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said yes, you may have said no, but I will tell

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you in about 10 minutes, you can know with absolute

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certainty from God's perspective whether he looks

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at you as a generous person. The first two are

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review and the last three are new. Characteristic

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number one. Genuine generosity gives the first

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and the best to God. When God looks at people,

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when they get the first crops, the first of their

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paycheck, the first blessing, the first opportunity,

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they come to God and say, I recognize all I have

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belongs to you. I want to give you the first

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and the best. People who do that, from God's

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perspective, are generous. Second, genuine generosity

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is systematic and regular. So it's not just a

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ooey -gooey feeling or near Christmas or this

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person has a need and I gave them a couple hundred

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bucks or I helped this person over here. Genuinely

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generous people on a regular, systematic basis

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give. That 1 Corinthians 16, verse 2, where Paul

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is writing to them and says, now on the first

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day of the week, I want you to prepare yourself

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and I want you to decide. In proportion to how

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God has blessed you on a regular, systematic

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way. In the New Testament times, most people

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were paid daily. They were paid at the end of

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the day. Most of us get paid, you know, every

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two weeks or once a month or by commission. And

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so the issue is, when I get paid, do I regularly

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and systematically give the first and the best

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to God? So that would make us generous. If I

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don't do that, I can feel generous, but from

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God's perspective, I'm not. Third criteria. Genuine

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generosity is proportional to our income. Notice

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that same passage, 1 Corinthians 16, 2. He says,

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let everyone decide on the first day of the week

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according to what? According to his income. Let

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me put it this way. Let's pretend that right

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now I could invite one of you up here and you

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were just very bold and we learned that you earn

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$30 ,000 a year and live in the Silicon Valley.

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And someone else was very bold and very open

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and vulnerable. And I had them come up and they

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own 300, or they make $300 ,000 here in the Silicon

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Valley, okay? A, B. Both of them have maybe grown

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up in the church. Both of them love God. And

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both of them have learned that tithing is important,

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giving the first 10%. But they've been taught

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that that's God's part and somehow unconsciously

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believe the biggest lie in the church that the

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other 90 % is theirs. So you just give 10 % to

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God and it's like, boy, I'm glad that bill is

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taken care of. But they miss generosity completely.

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So let's do a little bit of math. $30 ,000, give

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the first 10%, is $3 ,000. This person's going

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to live on $27 ,000 in the Silicon Valley. How

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sacrificial is $3 ,000? That's a lot, isn't it?

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This person, by God's blessing and grace, makes

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$300 ,000. And by the way, don't read into good

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person, bad person. These people both love God

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with all their heart. This just person makes

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less. This person makes more. They tithe and

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they give $30 ,000, the very first portion. But

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who's the most generous? I'm just going to go

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out on a limb. We have people from all kinds

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of incomes. I'm going to go on a limb, and a

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number of you would say, I could squeeze by on

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$270 ,000 a year here in the Silicon Valley.

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I mean, it'll be tough. We'll have to really

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get a budget, but I'm going to figure out how

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to make it. Do you understand? What I want you

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to get is this jar represents yours, but some

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jars are bigger than other jars. For people that

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have small jars, what they give and how they

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give it, God never measures the amount that you

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give. God measures the amount of the sacrifice.

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That's generosity. That's why when the widow

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would drop in the two small copper coins and

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the other people gave large gifts, he wasn't

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saying the large gifts were bad. In fact, the

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temple couldn't run without the large gifts.

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He just was saying, comparatively, this woman

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has given more than them. Well, you've got to

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say, Jesus, your math is all wrong. No, they

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gave this much and she gave this much. Why would

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Jesus say she gave more? Because it was a greater

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sacrifice. Generosity is the first and the best.

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It's regular, it's systematic, and it's proportional.

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So it's not like you pay a bill. You're on a

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journey. As God blesses you more, you get to

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give more. You get to be involved more. You get

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to stretch. You get to love. You get to expand.

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I've had times where I was given more, and then

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I had times where everything went down to here,

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and one of the most humbling times of my life

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was to say, I used to be able to give this. Now

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I can only give this. It's proportional. Fourth

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characteristic of generous people is genuine

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generosity is sacrificial. The same setting,

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Paul writes a lot about generosity in 2 Corinthians

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chapter eight and nine. He says, now brothers,

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we want you to know about the grace that our

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God has given the Macedonian church. He's writing

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to the Corinthians and he's talking about the

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Macedonian church. He says, out of their most

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severe trial, their overflowing joy and their

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extreme poverty, it welled up in rich generosity.

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I underline those four things because I don't

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think we think about generosity coming out of

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that, do you? I'm going to be generous when there's

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an extreme trial. I'm going to be generous when

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I'm under it. I'm going to be generous when I

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don't have much at all. In fact, poverty. He

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said, what welled out of them was rich generosity.

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Now notice what he says. He says, for I testify

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that they gave as much as they were able and

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even beyond their ability. And then notice the

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motivation. Entirely on their own, they urgently

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pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing

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in this service to the saints. And the service

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he's talking about is over here, these Jewish

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Christians, there was a famine and they didn't

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have any food. And these Christians over here

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said, Gentile Christians, they were new Christians

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and there used to be all this hostility, but

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Christ broke that wall and they said, we have

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and they don't have, so we're going to share.

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See, it's sacrificial. It's like that widow.

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I came across a email that I want to share with

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you. This is maybe one of the greatest pictures

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of generosity I've ever seen in my life. Let

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me read it to you. In fact, it's close to home

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because it's a dear friend. He says, 10 years

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ago, I stopped to have my car washed at this

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brand new car wash at 87 and Capitol. A couple

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of friends, Chuck and Patty and his wife, had

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spent the last couple of years developing the

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property. It was a huge investment for them.

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As my car was being washed, I went up to the

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office just to say hello. After a brief chat,

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and I was about to leave, I asked Chuck, hey,

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what's your blood type? He said, that's an odd

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question. Why? He said, well, I need a kidney

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transplant. He said, that's interesting. And

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he said, well, I have the right blood type. He

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said, I think maybe God wants me to give you

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my kidney. I said, don't make any quick decisions.

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Think about it. Pray about it. By the way, I've

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got five or six brothers and sisters. They're

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all being tested right now. Let's just see how

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it works out. The very next day, I got a phone

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call. Chuck said, Mike, I'm your man. God told

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me to do this. I want to do this. His only request

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was, could we make sure we get this done before

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hunting season? I couldn't believe it. As it

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turned out, all my siblings were eliminated for

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one reason or another. Chuck went through the

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testing. The results showed that it was a better

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match than anyone else. We had an operation.

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Chuck later gave his testimony about this experience

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several times, and importantly, he's met with

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multiple kidney donors and recipients. to encourage

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them to consider doing what he did. To date,

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five different people have received a kidney,

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and who knows how many indirectly because of

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Chuck's testimony. Even though they were unknowns,

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even though he was just getting his business

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off the ground, he chose to be generous. Consistently,

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Chuck says this, it's the best thing I've ever

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done. I'm so thankful God allowed me to do it.

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Kind of raises the stakes on what it means to

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give, doesn't it? I mean, most of us are sitting

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here, depending on where you're at, going, you

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know, I think God really wants me to get my finances

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in order and I got a lot of debt. Or, you know,

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gosh, when he used that illustration about the

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10%, I've been giving 10 % for 22 years and I

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thought that was just God's and I would have

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to rethink my whole equation. And some guy was

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willing to lay on a table and let someone cut

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out half of what he owns. From all I can tell,

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kidneys are pretty important, and we do have

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two, but most of us want to have two. But he

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had a friend that didn't have any, and he gave

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one of his two. Are you starting to see? See,

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when God sees that, you know what the heart of

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God says? There's a generous man. There's a generous

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woman. There's a generous student. There's no

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give to get. There's no formula. It's the heart

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of a father saying, you know what? He's treating

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his friend the way I feel about him. He's loving

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him and he's giving and he's caring. And when

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God sees that in your heart as evidenced by your

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behavior, then God, guess what? He just, he's

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a father. He just wants to give whatever you

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need. You need more time? You need more resources.

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You need a greater opportunity. You need more

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money. God has unlimited supply. But only right

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now, about 2 .8 to 3 % of all the people who

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claim to be born again in America are willing

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to say, I believe you to the point that I would

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pour out the first portion of even my income,

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let alone my time, and trust that your supernatural

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supply will meet all my needs. And the theory

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goes, well, someday when I get enough or someday

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when things turn around or when I can get this

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or get that, that's not how it works. Out of

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their deep poverty and severe trial, when he

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was starting a business, when it was the last

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thing you wanted to do in the world was put your

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life at stake, that's sacrificial, that's generosity.

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We're midway through a message from Chip Ingram

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called Why God Prosperous Generous People. Stick

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around. Chip has an illustration he wants to

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share with you, and that's coming up in just

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a moment. But first, I'll remind you that Living

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on the Edge is in the final stretch of one of

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the largest match challenges in our 30 -year

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gift is on or before this Wednesday, December

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31st. So for just a few more days, every dollar

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that's given toward reaching our goal will be

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multiplied by two, yielding twice the impact

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on someone who's ready to deepen their walk with

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God. Chip? There is a massive difference between

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knowing about God and actually knowing God. You

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know, lots of Christians can tell you facts about

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God, but somehow there's a disconnect between

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their head knowledge and their heart experience.

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They believe intellectually the right things,

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but they're not experiencing the transforming

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power that Jesus promised. This has brought so

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home to me a few years ago as my back was hurting

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and I went to see this doctor and he was a friend.

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He went to our church. He says, I think I can

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help you. And in the conversation, I challenged

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him to read the Romans 12 book, True Spirituality.

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And we met the next time and he said, hey, I

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got to tell you something. I said, what? He goes,

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um. I surrendered to Christ. I said, great. And

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he was a former college athlete. And so he gets

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in the Bible every single day. And I go back

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for all the checkups. And three months later,

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he's saying, man, my life is completely changing.

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I mean, how I see my family, how I see everything

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I do at work. He goes, there's a big difference

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between a church -centered Christian and a word

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-centered Christian. And he was the... picture,

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the snapshot of what I see happening and how

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God uses living on the edge. You know, so many

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people, and with good intentions, it's basically

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in your head and you believe a set of things.

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But there's not transformation in how you live

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and how you spend your money and what comes out

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As you sense that God is stirring you to respond,

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Year's Eve. Call 888 -333 -6003 or visit livingontheedge

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.org. Why is it that some people seem to prosper

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and others don't? I'm Dave Drewy, inviting you

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to hear Chip Ingram's biblical answer tomorrow

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on Living on the Edge.
