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Few things upset our stomach or throw wrenches

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into our relationship like money issues. Did

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you know that 40 % of all divorces occur around

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disagreements and pressure that grow out of financial

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problems, overspending, debt, and misplaced priorities?

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So how do we choose peace when you're experiencing

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financial turmoil? Stay with me. That's today.

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Thanks for listening to this edition of Living

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on the Edge with Chip Ingram. We are an international

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teaching and discipleship ministry that encourages

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and equips Christians to live like Christians.

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Well, in just a minute, Chip will pick up where

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he left off in our series, I Choose Peace, by

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highlighting how an unhealthy obsession with

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money and possessions can actually rob us of

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our peace. But before he gets going, let me encourage

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you to use his message notes while you listen.

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It's a really engaging tool that'll help you

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Download them under the broadcasts tab at livingontheedge

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.org. App listeners tap fill in notes. Well,

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if you have a Bible, turn now to Philippians

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chapter 4, verse 14, where the second half of

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Chip's message in financial uncertainty. What

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would it look like for you to develop a heart

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of compassion? Where could you take some of your

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wants and turn them into genuine needs? See,

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giving is the proof of our love. You can give

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without loving someone. You know, you can pretend.

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But you can never love without giving, can you?

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So the first step of breaking greed is you develop

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personal compassion. The second step is to develop

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a generous spirit. See, what money does, it not

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only hardens my heart, but it starts making me

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protective. And so as I amass and as I get, the

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only way I can get more is I get to protect what

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I have. So when people or thoughts or even sermons

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start to mess around with my money, then all

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of a sudden we put the walls up. I'll be back

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next week, but I'm not listening to too much

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more of this. And so the only way, you know,

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it's like a muscle. What we need to do is we

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need to get that muscle of our heart not only

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tender toward God, but we need to get it flowing.

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We need to develop a generous spirit. And the

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Philippians will teach us here, you develop a

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generous spirit by releasing the very thing that

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has power to consume you. The very thing that

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has power to consume or choke out God's life

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in you, you need to release. You need to become

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generous in your attitude. And so notice what

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he says, verse 16. For even when I was in Thessalonica,

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you sent me aid again and again when I was in

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need. There was a systematic time. And Paul says,

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you know, the Thessalonican church, I mean, that's

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a pretty ritzy area compared to you Philippians.

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And he said, even though they could have supported

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me, but they didn't have the spiritual maturity.

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They just didn't get it. You, out of your need,

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you gave. And the phrase is again and again.

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In other words, they systematically, regularly

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gave to help Paul fulfill what God called him

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to do. And it's going to be interesting what

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he tells them happened, not for him, but in them

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because of that. But you develop a generous spirit

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by giving or releasing the very thing. Now turn

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to 1 Corinthians 16, 1 and 2, and I could ask

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everyone, are you setting aside the first portion

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to the Lord because you need to give and to release?

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I'm not going to do that. I was thinking, how

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could we get this? I don't know about you. I

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don't need one more ought, one more should, one

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more artificial guilt reflex. And by the way,

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I've got to tell you, if you're waiting for,

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I bet they're going to talk about a building

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campaign later, or the second offering will be

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coming around, right? Just, you know, kind of

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relax. You can take your hand off that wallet

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or purse. There's nothing coming. This is God

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supplying. This is about you and your heart.

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This is not about any needs we have. And so I

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thought and I said, you know, I got home from

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a speaking engagement and for me it was a little

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bit late and so I reviewed on the plane but I

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got to this part and I thought, Lord, I need

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a picture to really help people see the reality

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but see your heart and your grace in a way that

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it would really connect. And I don't have it.

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And so I drove in this morning in the parking

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lot and had about 45 minutes or an hour and,

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you know, I went over my notes one more time

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and I just prayed and I said, God, would you

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give me a picture? Would you show me? how can

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I help people see this? Because I don't know.

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And he's, you know, I sit there quietly and this

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is how God speaks to me and he brings ideas.

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And I said, ask him this question. I said, okay,

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okay. So I'm gonna ask you this question. You

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ready? And by the way, you know, relax. I mean,

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some of you are thinking, you're kind of new

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going, I don't know if I'm gonna raise my hand.

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So you don't have to. But here's just a question.

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How many people, when you go to a restaurant,

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leave a tip? You leave a tip, okay. I mean, you

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just don't say, I'm not leaving, forget it, you

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know. Now, if it was really, really bad, I mean,

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If the service was good or, you know, general,

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you leave a tip. Okay, how many people leave

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5 %? Okay, not too many. How many people used

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to be 10 %? How many people leave 10 %? Not too

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many. Okay, how many people, you go to a restaurant,

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the service is good, leave 15 % as a general

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rule or maybe a little more? Go ahead, raise

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your hands if you do. If you don't, it's okay.

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Almost everybody. And here's the question God

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brought to my mind. What has occurred? in American

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culture? What is the deception that has occurred

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where the peer pressure and the sociological

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aspects of why you would never think of leaving

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less than 15 % that you don't have to on a table

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for a waitress or a waiter and yet about 2 .7

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% of American Christians give even 10 % of their

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income to God systematically. Now think this

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through. Think of how powerful our foe is. I'm

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not quite sure, but I don't think my life, my

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breath, I wasn't created by the waiter. They

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didn't create the food, they just served it.

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And yet over here, the creator of the world,

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who sent his son, who died for me, who raised

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from the dead, who covered my sin, who implanted

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his spirit within me, who has sealed me forever

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and ever, deposited spiritual gifts, and has

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commanded me to remember it all belongs to him

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who says a beginning point. I mean, this isn't

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it. A beginning point would be a tithe and then

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learn proportionally as he blesses. And the average

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American believer about 97 % of them, are disobedient

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to this and yet obedient to that cultural norm.

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If in the illustration where I talked about our

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foe in the scouting report, if you had any sense

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in which this really doesn't apply to you, if

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there was any sense in your heart where you said,

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I'm not really greedy, but I bet there's some

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people that really need to hear this in this

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room, then the only thing I would ask you is,

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today, at this moment, Are you more faithful

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to give 15 % to a waiter or a waitress who serves

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food that they didn't create than you are to

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give a minimum amount of the first portion of,

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say, 10 % or more to the God who created the

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food and you and purchased your salvation? And

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if you look at your own life and say, I'm very

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consistent here, and it's a real hit and miss

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here, can I tell you something? That fellow Goria

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has you by the neck. And the problem is not that

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this church or some church or ministry needs

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your money. The problem is when I turn to the

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front page, it says that it is a lure. It says

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that it will plunge. It'll say there's destruction.

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It'll say that you're in the process of wandering

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from the truth because according to Jesus, wherever

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your treasure is, that's where your heart really

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is. And the only way to address this is first

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to get your heart soft through becoming compassionate,

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and the second is by becoming generous. And of

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course it's generosity in this way, but I think

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it's down to little things. I think it's a lifestyle.

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I just tend to think about me. Sorry, I'm working

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through it, I'm growing, but I think about me.

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I was in the airport. You know, I had two hours,

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and I thought, well, I'll study a little bit.

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And I was kind of tired. I spoke about three

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or four times. And I was at this coffee shop,

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and this guy, it can't take this long to make

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a mocha, whoever this lady was in front of me.

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I mean, it's just like on and on. You know, I

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just want a regular coffee. You know, I'm just

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standing there. And, you know, another guy came,

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and he waited and waited, and he got fed up,

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and he just left. And, you know, I'm just thinking.

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You know, and I'm tired, and so my impatience

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and my focus on me is rising, and my lack of

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generosity, patience, and understanding is diminishing.

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And I'm thinking, buddy, buddy, buddy. And, you

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know, I'm thinking it's not like where I'd normally

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order coffee, so it's not going to be quite as

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good. So I finally get a cup, and then I go over,

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and you know sometimes how they have the cream

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real loose? So I just want to put a little in.

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It goes, you know, ah, brother. Now it's not

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very strong, and it looks like white milk, and

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I take a sip, and I go, ah. You know, so I'm

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thinking to myself, you know, I pour a little

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out, but I'm thinking I can't pour too much out.

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He may not fill it back up because I don't know

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him like I know the guy at the corner. So I go

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over and I say, hey, this is the phrase. I said,

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you think I could get a little grace? He said,

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what do you mean? I said, buddy, I put too much

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cream in. If I like just dump some out, could

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you pour some more coffee in so it would turn

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the right color? And he said. Yeah, I'll do that

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for you. And so he goes over and he pours in

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and gets the right color. And as I got it, I

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just thought to myself, you know something? Attitude

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change. So I reached in my pocket and I said,

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hey, here's a buck. I just want to tell you,

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it's so great to be people with people that have

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such a good attitude. And he went from this stoic

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pressure, everyone doing that, and from beam

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to beam, he grinned. He goes, thanks, man. I

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said, no, thanks. I really appreciate that. Two

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things. For a dollar's worth of generosity, for

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a dollar's worth of generosity, this guy's attitude

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changed, and I got a cup of coffee, and instead

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of my critical spirit, it was transformed to,

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well, you know, I feel pretty good about getting

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to bless that guy. Do you understand when we're

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speaking of greed and generosity, it's not just

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about money, and it's not this little compartment

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called the church and what you give or not giving.

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It is about a complete mindset about how you

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live. And if you want contentment, you're going

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to have to beat greed. And the only way you beat

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greed is you've got to develop personal compassion.

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You've got to care about people. And then you

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have to develop a generous spirit. And then third,

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you've got to develop an eternal perspective.

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You've got to begin to live in such a way as

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though you actually believe there's a heaven

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and there's a hell and there's certain good things

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that happen in heaven to people who live in a

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certain way and that it's really wise to live

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life God's way. That's exactly what Paul's going

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to say. Follow along now in step three. He says,

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develop an eternal perspective. How? By understanding

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the inseparable relationship between our money

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and authentic worship. Now, this is all throughout

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the scripture, but here's what you got to get.

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Your money is here. Worship is here. We tend

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to have money in this category and worship in

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this category. And God says that you can never

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separate them. Every financial decision you make

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ends up being a worship decision of some kind.

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And I've got to tell you, as pastors, I need

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to apologize to you on behalf of all my other

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pastors, and I probably spent the first 10 or

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12 years failing churches as well. Pastors don't

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talk about money. Jesus talked more about money

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than heaven and hell combined. Pastors don't

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talk about money, and so the average believer

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doesn't know the relationship between money and

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worship. All they've heard is now and then, we

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need some, and we'd like to visit your house

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and find out how much you can give us. And so

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money has been a bad word in the church. Money

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is about worship. There's a link between the

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two. And once you see that, I mean, those are

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from the words of Jesus. And we've done a terrible,

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terrible job. The only time you hear money in

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church is about what you ought to give and some

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big need instead of this is what it means. Here's

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how to be grateful. Here's how to use it. Here's

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how to align your family. Here's how to protect

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your marriage. Here's how to use money as a tool

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to develop your kids. But how does this happen?

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Watch in this passage. This is an amazing thing.

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The Apostle Paul is going to talk through and

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he's going to use financial and business terms

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to describe the gift that he gave them. And then

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watch how he'll put a twist on it at the end.

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And he'll say business, business, business, business,

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money, money, money. And then it's like worship,

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God, spiritual terms. Notice what he says. He

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says, okay, I can do all things through Christ.

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It was good of you. I appreciate it. I mean,

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even when I was in Thessalonica in that kind

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of wealthy place, you gave systematically. But

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I want you to know my motives. Not that I'm looking

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for the gift. This thank you note is not like,

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you know, the thing that you tear off on the

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bottom and so you can give your next gift. Not

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that I'm looking for the gift. I'm looking for

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what may be credited to your account. The phrase

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credited to your account is an accounting term

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of debit and credits. He's saying I'm looking

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for what. of the spiritual P &L statement in

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heaven so that debits, credits, I want you to

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know that this gift isn't about the gift that

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I got. I'm happy because in heaven, it's getting

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accredited to your account. Notice what he says.

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I have received full payment. The phrase means

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literally, it's like I've got the receipt in

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my hand. I've received in full payment, and even

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more, I'm amply supplied. In other words, you

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know, Epaphroditus, when he gave, I got plenty

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of money. That's not the issue. Now that I received

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it from Epaphroditus, the gifts you send me,

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they are, now notice the shift. What happened

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to the financial gift? How does he describe the

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financial gift? They are, underline, fragrant

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offering. Underline, an acceptable sacrifice.

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Underline, pleasing to God. You gave, the gift

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is accredited spiritually to your account. And

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the literal phrase, when you did that, it was

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like a burnt offering, a fragrant, a sweet smell

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that went up into the nostrils of God. He looked

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at it not as money, but as a sacrifice unto him,

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and it brought joy or pleasure to his heart.

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You're listening to Living on the Edge with Chip

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Ingram. And before we return you to today's message,

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are you tired of feeling anxious about what's

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happening in our world or your personal circumstances?

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Stick around after the teaching to learn about

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a powerful resource we have that will encourage

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your soul and help you experience real lasting

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peace. You won't want to miss it. But for now,

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here's Chip to continue his talk. You see, the

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Apostle Paul is teaching them and teaching us.

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That an eternal perspective requires that you

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got to see this relationship between your finances

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and your money. And that when we give, it's an

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act of worship. And what we do with our money

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is an act of worship. And God wants you to know

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that every financial decision you make becomes

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a spiritual decision. That sacrifices the heart.

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Don't you remember David and the threshing floor?

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Do you remember that? Remember that time where

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he had sinned and he realized, hey, I've really

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blown it. And he learned this is what I need

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to do. And he was at the place, the guy's name

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was Arunah. And God says, offer an offering.

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And so Arunah goes, hey, man, you're the king.

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You can take my oxen and I've got some wood and

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I'll pay for the whole deal. And remember what

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David said? Far be it from me that I would offer

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a sacrifice unto the Lord that cost me nothing.

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See, the Bible says that when I give, my time,

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my energy, my talent, that there's a spiritual

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transaction occurs that accredits to me in heaven.

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And I gotta believe, I've gotta come to believe

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that accumulating and getting and impressing

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and having now is not the end of the line. As

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long as I believe that lie, I will never, ever

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become a generous person. And therefore, I will

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never, ever beat. and therefore I'll never be

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content. The horizon will just keep moving. Well,

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a scouting report has two things, right? Scouting

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report tells you about the other team or the

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foe, their strengths, their weaknesses, but what

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does a good scouting report do? It gives you

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recommendations. Hey, they run this kind of defense,

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you need to run this kind of offense. Or, hey,

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I tell you what, that girl, she dropped the last

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seven guys and this is the way you did it. You

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say, hey, I'm not gonna ask her out. And so Paul

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is now gonna give some scouting recommendations.

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He's going to give four specific commands about

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how you can now, okay, you know how formidable

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the foe is. Out of the same chapter, he's gonna

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give four specific commands to start you on a

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journey so that you could beat the greed monster.

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And I think this is gonna be a lifelong process

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for you and for me. And by the way, if you're

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sitting here thinking, if giving is the antidote

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to greed, And if this is gonna release my heart,

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I gotta have eternal perspective. And if your

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heart's kinda sinking and you're going, man,

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if this guy even had any idea how much debt I've

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got in credit cards alone, plus I got a car on

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time, ah! You could show pictures of kids with

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their bellies out to here till Jesus comes. I

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can't give. Am I destined forever and ever to

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be out of God's will? I mean, I think the hook

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is not in my mouth. I think it's somewhere down

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into my internal intestines, you know, and it's

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got me. So how do I get out of this? You get

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out of it through a process that begins today.

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And by the way, you know what? I didn't grow

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up in the church. I'm a skeptic, and I ran into

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all kind of like what I call religious jerks,

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and you may have had that, and you're sitting

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here thinking, yeah, right, I think this guy's

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conning me. Give it to World Vision. But, I mean,

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start being generous. But if you think our motives

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are wrong, it's okay. Just give it somewhere.

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Here's the four commands. They're very clean,

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very clear, very quick. Command number one. command

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those who are rich in this present world, that's

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us, not to be arrogant or put their hope in wealth,

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which is so in certainty is to protect you, but

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to put their hope in God who richly provides

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us with everything to enjoy. Yes, we're to be

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sacrificial, but we're to enjoy what he's given

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us. You can't enjoy it if you're always worried

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about the payments and error. So he says, first

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of all, it's a focus. Put your hope on God for

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contentment and fulfillment, not on stuff. Second,

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Verse 18, command them to do good is the second

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command, to be rich in good deeds, third command,

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and to be generous and willing to share. So he

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says, look, you need to get your focus on God.

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Then you need to have a lifestyle of doing good

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instead of getting. And then you need good deeds,

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give away your time. And then he says, be willing

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to share, give away your money and your possessions.

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So it's very general command, not hope on stuff.

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Hope on God. Do good. Be a giver instead of a

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getter. Then begin to share your time, good deeds,

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and then begin to share your stuff. Be willing

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to share. And then what I love is that he says,

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if you do this, you're going to win the game.

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You'll beat the competitor. Look at the very

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last line. In this way, they will lay up treasure.

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Will you circle the phrase for themselves? We

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get this idea that, oh, you know, we're just

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doing this for some day, some way, somehow. God

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wants us to learn to be generous because in eternity,

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he says, there's a forever and ever and ever

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and ever and ever and you can increase the quality

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of that experience. He says, in this way, they'll

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lay up for themselves treasure as a firm foundation

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for the coming age so that in this present life,

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here it is, they may take hold of the life that

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is truly life. What does life that's truly life

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kind of sound like? Does that sound like a life

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where relationships work? A life where you have

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it and God can tap you on the shoulder and you

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can give it or keep it? You have it and instead

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of telling everyone how you got it on sale and

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feeling guilty about it, you can say, thank you,

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thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. I

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can't believe I get to live in a house like this.

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You've let me be generous. I don't have debt.

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I've done this. Lord, who am I that you'd be

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so good to me? Life that is really life. A life

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without creditors calling. A life not believing

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the next thing or the biggest thing or the next

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style will fulfill. But a life that knows in

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plenty or in want, I can do all things through

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Christ. I'd like you to ask the Lord a question

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as we close. And the question I want you to ask

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him is this. Father, will you show me The extent

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to which greed has infiltrated my heart and my

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life. And just sit quietly. Ask him to help you

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be honest. The goal here is to help you. And

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then as you think about that, as you listen to

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his voice, and then ask him, Lord, will you show

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me just the first step? Don't try and solve all

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your problems and all your debt and all. Just

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say, Lord, will you show me the first step to

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move toward developing a heart of compassion,

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a generous spirit, an eternal perspective? He

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will speak. Just ask him. You're listening to

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Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram. And the

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message you just heard in financial uncertainty

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is from our series, I Choose Peace. Chip will

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join us in studio to share some insights from

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today's talk in just a minute. What's weighing

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on your mind right now? Financial uncertainty?

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A tense relationship? Or is it just the grind

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of everyday life? Whatever it is that's robbing

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you of your peace, let me tell you, there's an

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antidote. View this practical study in Philippians

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chapter 4. Chip will teach us how to access the

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peace of God, which can restore, calm, and encourage

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your soul, no matter what may be happening around

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you. You're not going to want to miss a single

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program of this series. Well, Chip's back in

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studio with me now, and Chip, in a world often

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defined by turmoil and anxiety, where can we

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go for genuine peace? Well, Dave, the world teaches

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that peace is your circumstances working out,

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being financially secure or having conflict -free

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relationships. But the fact of the matter is,

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is there's chaos everywhere. It's in relationships,

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it's in finances, it's in racial issues. Jesus,

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before he left, told his disciples that he was

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going to give them a gift. He said, my peace,

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my shalom, I give to you. And this is a peace

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that's more than an emotion or a feeling. This

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is a peace for purpose, for wholeness, for calmness.

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It's the peace of God in the midst of everything.

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And because this is an important issue, I wrote

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a book where I walk people through the journey

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of when they become a Christian and the Holy

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Spirit lives within them, how they can experience

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God's peace. How do you have peace in a financial

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crisis? How do you have peace when there is conflict

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in relationships? How do you have peace when

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crises and wars and economic issues that you

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can't control? It's possible. In fact, Jesus

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promised it. But my experience is a lot of people

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don't know how to access the shalom of God that

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Jesus promised. This book. is my very best effort

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to help regular, ordinary people in the midst

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of the chaos and the conflict of life to really

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experience peace. Well, to get your copy of Chip's

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tap special offers. With that, Chip, let's get

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to that application we promised. As we close

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today, I want to be gentle, but here's the deal.

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We all struggle with greed, okay? It's the human

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condition. So resist the temptation that I'm

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talking to someone else, all right? It's just

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you and me right now, and I'm talking to you.

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So let's take a deep breath and say, okay, God,

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would you please show me, show me personally

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where greed still has a hold in my life? Would

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you show me where my fingers need to let go and

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my heart needs to get soft? God, will you show

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me, would you give me, would you grant me the

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courage to trust you? You know, we learn two

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specific steps that God has given us in this

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passage that allow us to say no to greed and

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create a generous spirit and a compassionate

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heart. Step number one is compassion is cultivated

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when we put others' needs ahead of our wants.

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What would it look like for you to do that today?

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And second, we really hit today is a generous

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spirit grows when we give away the very thing

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that can absolutely strangle our soul. I don't

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know how to say this to you, but unless you start

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giving your money away, let me encourage you

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to do something regular and some percentage,

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but give first to your local church. You need

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to begin to be that person that releases your

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money because you recognize it's not yours, it's

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God's. And as you begin to release your money,

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I will tell you, your heart will get softer and

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softer, your joy will be greater, and it will

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force you. It will literally force you to get

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priorities in line that will bless you for the

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rest of your life. Can I encourage you just from

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my pastor's heart, there isn't a demand, there

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isn't a get with the program. This is for your

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good. Release your finances to the Lord. Be compassionate

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and you will find a God who will provide for

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every need. As we wrap up, I want to thank those

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of you who make this program possible through

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entire team here, this is Dave Drewy thanking

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you for listening to this edition of Living on

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the Edge, and I hope you'll join us again next

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time.
