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It's one thing for someone to say, hey, don't

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worry. But the reality is disease, finances,

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the future, uncertainty, we're all living in

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a worrisome world. Today, I want to show you

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from Scripture how God can give you a tool that

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when worry knocks on the door of your heart,

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prayer can answer. Stay with me. Thanks for listening

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to this edition of Living on the Edge with Chip

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Ingram. we are an international teaching and

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discipleship ministry that encourages and equips

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christians to live like christians well in just

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a minute chip will pick up where he left off

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in our series i choose peace now last time he

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unpacked how worry can consume our hope and joy

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so today he unpacks why it is vital that we put

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our entire trust in god especially when life

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throws us curveballs but before he gets going

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let me encourage you to use our message notes

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while you listen They contain Chip's outline,

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scripture references, and a few fill -ins to

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help you remember what you hear. Download them

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under the broadcasts tab at livingontheedge .org.

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App listeners tap fill -in notes. Well, with

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that, let's join Chip for part two of his message

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in anxious moments from Philippians chapter four.

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When Jesus taught his disciples to pray, what

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did he say? When you pray, say, our Father, oh.

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So in the midst of all the craziness of the world,

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the one who created all that there is, the one

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who sent his son to die for you and rise from

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the dead, the one who's the sovereign king, who's

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all wise, all powerful, and all knowing of every

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circumstance, real, possible, and potential,

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he's your papa. And say to him, who art in heaven?

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You're not pulled into this or that. You're the

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creator. You're in control. Holy is your name.

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I can know 100 % of the time that God will never

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lie to me. God's always going to be pure. His

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intentions. So it's this moment where you pause

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and you get a high, clear view of God. When anxiety

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knocks at the door of your heart, let prayer

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answer it. And the first prayer is worship and

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adoration. So I have a habit. As I'm laying in

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bed, I either pray slowly through Psalm 23 or

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the Lord's Prayer or parts of it. And then I

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don't look at my phone. I don't check my email.

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I have coffee already made because that's a very

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important part of my early morning. And the dog

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and I are friends, so I let the dog out. And

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every morning I take my cup of coffee and my

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dog's out running around. And I stand in my patio

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like I did this morning. And I look up and I

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see these stars. And I force myself out loud,

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almighty ever -living creator, little people

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like me have stared at the sky for thousands

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and thousands of years and you created them.

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And this is just the Milky Way. There's a hundred,

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maybe 200 billion stars in this little galaxy.

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And they didn't know there's another couple hundred

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billion galaxies. And the one that placed these

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in the sky at this moment on this day, I am the

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object of your affection. I don't know how to

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pull off or what's going to happen, but I'm going

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to go in and I'm going to talk to you and read

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what you want to say to me. But I'm going with

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you, the creator of the world, at my back. Here's

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what I can tell you. As you get a really big

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God, you will get really small problems. If you

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have really big problems, you have a very small

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God. See, what happens, take thought of, it means

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to focus on, get obsessed with. Okay, here's

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a problem. Okay, maybe 85 % or 90 % of your marriage

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is pretty good, or at work you really do have

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a good job, but there's a supervisor, or maybe

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you're single, but you have some really good

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friends, but whatever the part that really makes

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you anxious or there's uncertainty, here's what

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you do. You focus on it, you focus on it, you

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focus on it, you focus on it, you focus on it,

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and pretty soon you look at all of life through

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this thing, this anxiety. And then as you look

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at all in life, the way we're made is then your

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emotions and your physiology begin to respond.

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And then your body and your world gets messed

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up because you think this is the world. He says

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when anxiety knocks at the door of your heart,

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let prayer answer it. And the first thing you

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do, this is the God that can deal with that.

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You think God can heal someone of cancer? We've

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seen it. You think God can give people grace

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to go through cancer? You think God can actually

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take someone that you love to heaven and you

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recover from it and be okay knowing you're going

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to see them later? You bet. You think God can

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give you a new job if you don't have it? You

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think God can get into the heart of one of your

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kids that's not walking with God? Do you think

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God can? Of course he can. Intellectually, you

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believe that. But it doesn't experience it until

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you worship him. Put a little A. The left of

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where it says prayer and circle it, and I'll

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tell you why later. The second is petition. This

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is the second most common word in the New Testament.

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It's focusing on your need. It's a prayer that

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expresses my need or my want before I ask. It's

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a sense that I, it's the awareness that I am

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unable, that I have limitations in this situation,

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that I need you, God. I can't handle this. Much

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of anxiety is about here's a problem or here's

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an issue and the resource you unconsciously look

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to is what am I going to do? What am I going

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to do? How do I fix it? How do I fix it? And

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the more it's overwhelming or the more it's out

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of your control and the more you realize you

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can't fix it, guess what happens? It just grows

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and grows and grows. And so the kind of prayer

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that answers the door when anxiety knocks and

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causes you to run to your father is first adoration.

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And this is confession. God, I can't handle this.

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I don't know what to do in this marriage. I've

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tried everything under the sun. I can't get one

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of my kids' attention for the life of me. You

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know what? Unless you like transfer my supervisor

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to Siberia, I don't, you know, he doesn't like

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me. She doesn't like me. I feel like I can't

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handle this. Lord, I need you. You know what

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that is called in scripture? Humility. Dependency.

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And you know what? You can't cast your cares

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on Jesus as long as you're holding on to him

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and assuming that some way, somehow, my ability,

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my moxie, my personality, my brains, I'm going

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to solve this. And so the kind of prayer is first

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worship and then confession. And you say, You

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care for me. I can't handle this. And then it

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positions you to begin to ask him, to really

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ask him for help. The third word is thanksgiving.

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It's a very interesting compound word. It means

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to be good or well and combined with grace. I

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love one commentator. He says the way this is

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phrased, it's like sprinkling like salt and pepper

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into the rest of your prayers where you're constantly

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giving thanks. I mean, I find myself when I look

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at the stars, when I'm worshiping God, all of

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a sudden he'll just bring to my mind, you know,

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you've got almost 40 years with your wife after

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all that you guys have been through. And, you

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know, think about what that day when your one

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son was in ICU or, you know, you thought this

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was impossible problem. God, thanks. So I'm worshiping,

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but I just sort of fall into thanksgiving. Or

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how about when you're confessing, I can't do

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this, I can't do this, I can't do this. You know

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what God reminds me? Hey, remember like two years

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ago or three months ago when it was an impossible

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situation and you couldn't do it? Do you remember

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what I did? Oh, yeah. You were faithful. Thank

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you. In fact, let me show you a little tool.

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And I know some of you are not writers. You're

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not verbal processors. I don't think people need

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to keep a journal to be godly, okay? But if you're

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a little ADD, You know, like in services like

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this, sometimes we say, I want to ask you a question,

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but don't raise your hand. Can I try the opposite?

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I'm going to ask you a question, and I'm going

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to ask you to raise your hand. Does anybody else

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except me, does your mind wander when you pray?

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Oh, my gosh. It's just. And then I feel so guilty.

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I mean, I've been out in the stars. I've worshiped

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him. I'm reading the Bible. God, I can't do this.

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And then my mind's all the way over to here.

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And then it's over to here. And then it's over

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to here. Oh, my God, no. And what I realize is

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I can't concentrate very well. So when it comes

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to, I'm just, and then I get paralyzed. And then

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I feel bad that I can't concentrate. And then

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I tell God I'm sorry. And then it's like confession.

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Sometimes I just give up. And the anxiety doesn't

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leave. And here's what I've learned to do. I've

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learned when I'm going through that, I realize

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that anxiety and biblical prayer cannot coexist.

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And anxiety can't live with thankfulness. So

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for example, I just couldn't concentrate. Lord,

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I'm overly aware of what I am not in varying

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degrees of what awaits me. I was away for a few

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days and what I returned, you know, I had like,

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Right, anxiety, like 200 emails, three meetings.

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Holy Father, please forgive me for my self -focus

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and please renew my heart and my mind. I'm viewing

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things through a negative lens and it's producing

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negative emotions. And so this is what I did.

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Thank you for the rest, the walks, the time to

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read, relax, and laugh with Teresa. Thank you

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for Teresa that she said she's feeling better

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physically than she has in a long time. Thank

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you for the long and beautiful pool to swim and

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rehab my back. Thank you that I rarely had to

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take Advil for the last few days. I mean, can

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you imagine thanking God for no Advil? Here's

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what I'm trying to get. This is how life really

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works. It's in the details of life where you

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say, well, no, that's big. Thank you for the

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insight and encouragement to listen to the book

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by John Ortberg, The Life You've Always Wanted.

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and the resilience and encouragement it's brought

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to my heart. Thank you for the God impulse to

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help people that we've met on the streets that

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are poor. Thank you that despite all the unpleasantness

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I see in my life, my mistakes in leadership,

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personal struggles and failures, as a Christian,

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as a husband, as a father, and as a leader, that

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you love me, delight in me, and have exceeding

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mercy upon me, my family, my life, my ministry,

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and that you're not surprised or shocked that

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I don't measure up. You remember even when I

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forget that I'm but dust. I cannot in this life

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measure up. I am in need of your mercy and your

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grace every moment of every day. The truth is,

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many of the things that bother me about me, they

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bother me because they're true. Anybody else

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have that? And so, but you know what? When I

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got done, I was at peace. See, part of all your

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psyche stuff is, I don't measure up. I got to

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do this. Sometimes just being honest. And you

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know what? This is who God is. I have great need.

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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank

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you. Thank you. I'm going to thank my way into

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the presence of God. And then the last word is

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a powerful word. And the last word he talks about

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is, so what do you do? It's requests. You outline

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your specific needs. You're listening to Living

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on the Edge. And we'll return you to Chip's message

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in just a minute. But let me quickly share with

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you, God has called us to do incredible ministry

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your generous support. Well, with that, here's

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Chip. I mean, this is like... You know why some

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of you don't experience much of God? You pray

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prayers like this. Lord, bless my family. Help

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me have a good day. Help my children. Help me

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someday, someway, somehow to meet someone. Lord,

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cause me to grow spiritually somehow, someway.

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I mean, that's like my wife sending me to the

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grocery store and say, could you buy some food

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that we will all like and that I will cook well?

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I mean, she would go, oh my gosh. Whenever she

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sends me, and if she was here, she'd say, she

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doesn't send me very often. Then I got a list,

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and then it's like, here's the label. It's got

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to be organic. It's got to be this. She wants

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very specific things. Once you have, this is

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who God is. This is your need. I'm thanking him.

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What do you want? God, I ask you specifically

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to move in my supervisor's heart to give me favor

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with him and that I would have great affirmation

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in this meeting. God, I'm asking you for X amount

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of dollars because this is what's happening in

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our family situation and I need that. God, I'm

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asking you for the best doctor in all the Bay

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Area. Help me bring someone in contact. How do

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we deal with this cancer? Write specific things

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and expect specific things and then like a grocery

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list, give them to the God who's all wise, all

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knowing and you're his son, his daughter and

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he'll help you. My little, the next thing I do

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in my journal is this is my, I pray once I've

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gotten there, these are all little boxes. I turn

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all my concerns, all my anxiety into prayers.

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Here's a box, there it is. Here's a box, here

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it is. And I'm turning them into requests. And

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this is a month old. All but about two have.

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Check marks next to the box. You know what I'm

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experiencing? God's alive in my life. God is

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showing up. I'll guarantee he's showing up in

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your life. You just don't know it. You don't

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track it. You don't pray specifically. Here's

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what he's saying. When anxiety knocks at the

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door of your heart, let prayer, this kind of

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prayer, adoration, confession, thanksgiving,

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supplication. Let prayer answer it and then run

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into your father's arms. Run into your father's

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arms. It's like, remember for some of us when

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you had small kids or some of you have small

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kids, when they have a bad dream, what do they

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always do? Like they're four, they're three.

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They have a bad dream. They get up. They run

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and what do they do? They're at your bedside.

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What do they want to do? They want to get in

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bed with you. So what do you do? Open the covers

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and go, brother. You know, because they take

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up the whole bed. And then they lay next to you,

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and 30 seconds later, what do you hear? You think

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that's an accident? See, they think that their

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parent loves them, is in control, and it's a

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safe place, and they're at peace. And the God

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of the universe says, come. Come. Stop fretting.

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Stop worrying. Stop trying to figure out how

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you can solve it all. In fact, the promise here,

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peace and anxiety cannot, write the word coexist.

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Peace and anxiety can't coexist. Second, anxiety

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and biblical prayer cannot coexist. Now, I'm

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going to give you a little warning because, you

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know, I hope some of you are going, wow, okay,

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I get it. I ask you to put an A. A. Okay, anxiety's

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coming into my life. A, adoration. The next,

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put the letter C next to that one under the petition,

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confession. T for thanksgiving. And then S, supplication,

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what I'm actually gonna ask. So A, C, T, S. So

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it's just a little ax. This is my, when anxiety

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knocks at the door of my heart, I'm going to

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let an ax kind of prayer, adoration, confession,

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thanksgiving. and supplication, I'm going to

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let it answer, and I'm going to run into my father's

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arms. Now, here's the deal. If you never played

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golf, or if you never went bowling, if you never

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played an instrument, or if you did it like 35

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years ago, would you expect to go and roll a

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300 or shoot par? Or would you expect it is a

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skill to learn about, a skill to practice, a

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skill to develop, and that over time you would

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get better and better and better and better?

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You don't have to live an anxious life, but you

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have built, and I have built, lifelong habit

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patterns to respond to anxiety in ways that are

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very dysfunctional and very painful, and they're

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bad for you, your soul, your relationship with

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God, your family, and with other people. So what

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I just described, you're gonna have to go into

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training and begin to practice. So when you feel

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peace leaving, because by the way, you can do

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all four of those kind of prayers in about three

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or four or five minutes, right? You can take

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a break. I've had situations where I've been

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in a situation, I'm anxious like this and I don't

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know what to do. Excuse me, I gotta go to the

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bathroom. I've gone to the bathroom while I'm

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washing my hands. God, help me to remember. And

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I'll just walk through that and ask the peace

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of Christ. I need your power. I need to abide

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in you. I need your peace and your power. And

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Jesus said he's given it to us freely. To summarize

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on the very back, biblical prayer is God's antidote

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to anxiety. It's simple and yet profound. Biblical

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prayer is the antidote to anxiety. Every time

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you feel anxious this week, here's the word picture.

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When, can you fill it in even without me saying?

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When anxiety pounds at the door of your heart,

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let... Father, forgive them. They know not what

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they do. Okay, let's try that again. That's the

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most unaffirming response to someone speaking

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I've ever had in my whole life. And I know you

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were deep in thought. Are you ready? Let's try

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this again. When anxiety pounds at the door of

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your heart, let... Oh, they're beautiful, Lord.

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Answer it as you run into your father's arms.

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What I understand is there might be some people

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that grow up like me, is if God is not your father,

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if you've never received him as your savior,

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this doesn't work. Because these promises aren't

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for people outside of Christ. And so the prayer

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that relieves the biggest anxiety, it was my

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most amazing experience. Even though I'd been

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to church, even though I intellectually believed

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in God, I didn't realize I needed to turn from

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my sin, my self -will and running my life. And

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I need to turn and say, Lord Jesus, I believe

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that you came from heaven, that you are in fact

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God and you died upon the cross. And as you hung

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upon the cross, you paid for my sin. and you

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covered or atoned for my sin. And what you have

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said is that as many as believe and would invite

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you into their heart and life, you would literally

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take up residence and that's how your peace starts.

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If you've never done that, we would love to help

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you on your journey to make that decision because

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he brought you here today because you matter

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and he loves you. Before we go any further today,

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I want to ask you exactly what I asked the people

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that were in the room when I taught this. I'm

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not asking you if you're a nice person or whether

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you're trying to be moral and kind to others.

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What I want to ask you is, have you ever placed

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your faith in Christ, where you would say to

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God, Lord, I don't just believe in you in some

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generic sense or that you're a deity out there

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or there's some systems and forces at work or

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there's positive or negative energy, but I believe

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that you are the creator of all the world and

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the universe. and that you, God the Son, came

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and lived a perfect life on this planet, and

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you lived upon the earth, and you helped the

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poor, and you spoke words of life, and you healed

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people to reveal and declare what God the Father

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is really like, and that you and the Father are

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one, and Jesus, what you did was to come and

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show me what God is like, and then to give your

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life on the cross to pay for my sin. But then

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you told me that I need to receive that as a

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free gift. If you have never done that, could

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I urge you? The greatest anxiety in the world

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is what happens after you die. And Jesus says,

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I want to give you peace. My peace I give to

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you. And the peace he wants to give you first

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and foremost is to say, come to me just today,

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right now. Call upon me. Ask for my help. Just

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say, Lord Jesus, I need you. I have sinned. I

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know I've done things wrong. Will you forgive

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all my sins right now? And will you please come

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into my life? I believe you died in my place.

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I believe you rose from the dead. And I'm receiving

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your gift of eternal life right now. And then

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thank him. In your heart of hearts, Lord, thank

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you so much. And then what Jesus would say to

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you is, You don't have to worry. You don't have

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to worry about what happens after you die. You

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don't have to worry about the economy. You don't

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have to worry about your family. You don't have

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to worry about your health. You are mine. I'm

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going to take care of you. It doesn't mean that

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everything's going to be easy. It doesn't mean

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that everything's going to, quote, go your way.

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But I am now with you forever and ever and ever.

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And here's what he wants you to know. He wants

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to speak to you. He wants to give you power.

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He wants to help you. And the way he does that,

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he speaks to you through his word, the Bible.

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And so let me encourage you to open the Gospel

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of John. Just get a New Testament and begin to

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read it. He wants to love you and encourage you

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through his people. So he wants you to find a

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group of fellow believers, a good Bible -teaching

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church, and say, hey, you know, I just prayed

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to receive Christ. I don't know much about this.

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I know I need love and support. Will you help

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me? And find a group of people that say, yes,

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he has them near you. I guarantee it. And then

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finally, Go to livingontheedge .org, and I personally

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have some free resources just to help you understand

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this step you've taken. And so, Lord, I pray.

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I pray for the courage of my new brothers and

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sisters who've prayed and ask you for forgiveness,

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and I thank you that you've granted it. In Jesus'

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name, amen. Thanks, Chip. Well, if you prayed

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studio. And Chip, you had a quick word you wanted

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to share with our listeners. And we do have a

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few minutes left. So why don't you go ahead and

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do that? Dave, I appreciate that. I just want

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to stop and pause with a very select group of

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people. You're people that pray for Living on

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And you're people who give financially to Living

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And we know that when we share the gospel like

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Thanks, Chip. Well, if you'd like to join us

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