WEBVTT 00:00:00.332 --> 00:00:01.492 how's everybody doing as 00:00:01.512 --> 00:00:02.833 some of you may know by now 00:00:03.513 --> 00:00:05.454 my name is dell robinson 00:00:06.074 --> 00:00:08.035 and this is dell for dads 00:00:08.143 --> 00:00:10.545 um this podcast is for 00:00:11.386 --> 00:00:13.327 predominantly dads that are 00:00:13.387 --> 00:00:15.396 going through alienation 00:00:15.560 --> 00:00:18.716 going through custody disputes uh dads 00:00:20.163 --> 00:00:22.125 that don't know that their 00:00:22.185 --> 00:00:23.506 rights are being violated 00:00:23.646 --> 00:00:25.167 if they are being violated. 00:00:25.457 --> 00:00:28.439 It's for the equal rights 00:00:29.340 --> 00:00:32.723 for dads to be parents in 00:00:32.763 --> 00:00:33.784 their children's lives. 00:00:34.253 --> 00:00:35.774 This is episode three, 00:00:36.434 --> 00:00:40.184 and I do want to kind of go 00:00:40.224 --> 00:00:41.265 a little bit backwards, 00:00:41.285 --> 00:00:42.386 a little bit forward, 00:00:42.426 --> 00:00:45.428 stay in the present with this episode. 00:00:46.028 --> 00:00:48.230 I do know that last time 00:00:48.299 --> 00:00:48.925 we 00:00:48.965 --> 00:00:50.929 got to talk about a little 00:00:50.949 --> 00:00:52.610 bit what's happening with 00:00:52.710 --> 00:00:54.480 my life in particular as 00:00:54.560 --> 00:00:59.062 far as the superior court 00:00:59.623 --> 00:01:02.769 and my opinion on how the 00:01:02.829 --> 00:01:04.749 courts maneuver 00:01:05.059 --> 00:01:08.841 my particular situation and 00:01:08.881 --> 00:01:11.542 my constitutional rights, 00:01:11.602 --> 00:01:12.683 along with my children's 00:01:12.743 --> 00:01:14.928 constitutional rights, were violated. 00:01:14.928 --> 00:01:17.209 this one I do, on this episode, 00:01:17.289 --> 00:01:18.309 I do want to dive a little 00:01:18.329 --> 00:01:20.511 bit more into that, 00:01:20.711 --> 00:01:24.513 along with possibly fixing 00:01:25.213 --> 00:01:27.274 some of the wording and how 00:01:27.314 --> 00:01:29.317 it may be portrayed for a future 00:01:30.930 --> 00:01:32.351 future, I don't know, 00:01:32.911 --> 00:01:35.293 future allegations against me, 00:01:35.662 --> 00:01:36.863 anything that just might 00:01:37.884 --> 00:01:39.585 not benefit my kids in the 00:01:39.626 --> 00:01:41.247 situation that we're currently in. 00:01:41.343 --> 00:01:42.421 I am going to talk about 00:01:42.641 --> 00:01:43.542 things that have happened 00:01:43.562 --> 00:01:45.102 since the last episode. 00:01:45.763 --> 00:01:46.843 I do want to talk about 00:01:47.183 --> 00:01:49.184 things going on moving 00:01:49.224 --> 00:01:51.826 forward and what this 00:01:51.926 --> 00:01:53.146 podcast is going to look 00:01:53.186 --> 00:01:54.427 like for the time being 00:01:54.665 --> 00:01:56.346 until we get more into a 00:01:56.466 --> 00:01:59.970 space where we can kind of go deeper, 00:02:00.131 --> 00:02:00.468 I suppose. 00:02:00.663 --> 00:02:01.803 So yeah, so last episode, 00:02:02.124 --> 00:02:04.665 I spoke on my current order 00:02:05.779 --> 00:02:08.600 between myself for my 00:02:08.660 --> 00:02:10.781 children and their mother. 00:02:10.834 --> 00:02:11.729 in the beginning, 00:02:11.769 --> 00:02:13.089 I wanna say probably even 00:02:13.129 --> 00:02:15.450 the first two and a half minutes, 00:02:15.810 --> 00:02:19.271 I spoke on the courts not 00:02:19.431 --> 00:02:22.653 really being in for the 00:02:22.733 --> 00:02:24.914 best interests of the children, 00:02:25.114 --> 00:02:26.775 although it does state in 00:02:26.795 --> 00:02:28.035 their statutes that they 00:02:28.075 --> 00:02:29.096 should or they do. 00:02:29.298 --> 00:02:30.519 It's not the courts. 00:02:31.387 --> 00:02:34.074 they're just like in police departments, 00:02:34.294 --> 00:02:36.815 just like in schools, 00:02:36.895 --> 00:02:39.153 just like in life in general. 00:02:39.294 --> 00:02:43.348 There are both good and bad, right? 00:02:43.463 --> 00:02:44.583 So let me go ahead and go 00:02:44.743 --> 00:02:47.577 back a little bit on what's happening now, 00:02:47.597 --> 00:02:48.338 okay? 00:02:48.398 --> 00:02:48.918 So the current 00:02:49.323 --> 00:02:51.163 standing of my situation. 00:02:51.310 --> 00:02:52.890 Still currently trying to be 00:02:53.030 --> 00:02:54.070 alienated out of my 00:02:54.130 --> 00:02:55.951 children's lives from their mother. 00:02:56.287 --> 00:02:56.607 And again, 00:02:56.647 --> 00:03:00.068 I wanted to utilize videos with 00:03:00.809 --> 00:03:02.569 evidence backing what I'm 00:03:02.629 --> 00:03:04.169 saying in these podcasts. 00:03:05.130 --> 00:03:05.730 Right now, 00:03:05.910 --> 00:03:08.991 I'm kind of navigating through 00:03:09.271 --> 00:03:10.311 some things. 00:03:10.502 --> 00:03:11.383 So let me back that up a 00:03:11.403 --> 00:03:12.836 little bit even more and 00:03:12.896 --> 00:03:15.558 kind of present wise as well. 00:03:17.940 --> 00:03:20.983 And when I say we, my team, 00:03:21.503 --> 00:03:25.626 my family's collective team of support, 00:03:26.324 --> 00:03:28.265 we've decided to go ahead 00:03:28.305 --> 00:03:29.208 and start a GoFundMe. 00:03:29.454 --> 00:03:31.515 As sure as many of you may 00:03:31.575 --> 00:03:34.743 have known or are figuring out, 00:03:35.082 --> 00:03:36.083 could just assume, 00:03:37.263 --> 00:03:39.285 may know that the court 00:03:39.325 --> 00:03:43.371 process is not a cheap, inexpensive, 00:03:43.752 --> 00:03:45.453 whatever adjective we want 00:03:45.473 --> 00:03:47.715 to kind of describe the 00:03:47.775 --> 00:03:50.316 financial burden going 00:03:50.396 --> 00:03:54.999 through the court system can be. 00:03:55.059 --> 00:03:58.041 So I called upon my community. 00:03:58.642 --> 00:04:00.243 We decided that doing a 00:04:00.283 --> 00:04:01.784 GoFundMe explaining 00:04:02.250 --> 00:04:03.871 without going into too much 00:04:03.971 --> 00:04:12.418 detail or even really putting ourselves, 00:04:13.038 --> 00:04:13.439 putting 00:04:14.522 --> 00:04:16.843 What we've worked so hard 00:04:16.903 --> 00:04:18.964 for just to get where we are right now, 00:04:19.024 --> 00:04:22.086 being able to be seen for an appeal, 00:04:22.311 --> 00:04:23.411 we have to tiptoe. 00:04:23.565 --> 00:04:25.326 There's a lot of video 00:04:25.386 --> 00:04:26.347 evidence that's out there 00:04:26.387 --> 00:04:27.647 already from other parents, 00:04:27.687 --> 00:04:30.629 fathers that have tried to, 00:04:31.669 --> 00:04:32.730 and maybe they just didn't 00:04:32.750 --> 00:04:33.550 go the right route, 00:04:33.590 --> 00:04:35.751 but they try to speak their mind. 00:04:37.212 --> 00:04:38.593 And because of this, 00:04:39.093 --> 00:04:40.394 it was used against them. 00:04:41.356 --> 00:04:42.397 and that's exactly what 00:04:42.417 --> 00:04:44.178 we're not trying to do 00:04:44.438 --> 00:04:46.408 right my opinion is 00:04:46.548 --> 00:04:47.909 strictly my own opinion 00:04:47.962 --> 00:04:48.078 i 00:04:48.118 --> 00:04:50.160 cannot speak on behalf of 00:04:50.200 --> 00:04:52.646 anybody else right so with 00:04:52.906 --> 00:04:55.800 that being said there is a 00:04:55.860 --> 00:04:58.041 gofundme you can find it on 00:04:58.082 --> 00:04:59.983 my own personal facebook page 00:05:00.633 --> 00:05:02.094 I can put a link in here. 00:05:02.194 --> 00:05:04.014 I will try to do that as far 00:05:04.054 --> 00:05:05.335 as the video portion of 00:05:05.355 --> 00:05:06.951 this podcast goes. 00:05:07.071 --> 00:05:08.652 I will also put a link to 00:05:08.772 --> 00:05:11.913 this podcast's description 00:05:12.633 --> 00:05:14.894 for a link to find that GoFundMe. 00:05:15.834 --> 00:05:18.555 And just sharing it would be 00:05:19.008 --> 00:05:21.248 more help than you could ever imagine. 00:05:21.248 --> 00:05:22.325 even though, yes, 00:05:22.365 --> 00:05:24.086 the funds definitely help. 00:05:25.208 --> 00:05:26.255 That's the whole point of it, right? 00:05:26.510 --> 00:05:28.032 Spreading the message is 00:05:28.533 --> 00:05:30.957 more important to me right 00:05:31.017 --> 00:05:33.100 now because one way or the other, 00:05:33.300 --> 00:05:36.024 I will figure out financials 00:05:36.149 --> 00:05:37.191 um thankfully i have an 00:05:37.231 --> 00:05:38.617 amazing lawyer 00:05:38.617 --> 00:05:39.356 and i'm here 00:05:39.396 --> 00:05:40.918 to say that not just like 00:05:40.938 --> 00:05:41.659 we were talking about 00:05:41.699 --> 00:05:43.540 before that not all lawyers 00:05:43.781 --> 00:05:46.355 are ingrained in the system 00:05:46.875 --> 00:05:48.197 so deeply that 00:05:48.751 --> 00:05:51.193 becomes this play where 00:05:51.334 --> 00:05:52.655 everybody has their part 00:05:52.995 --> 00:05:53.876 because it's already like 00:05:53.916 --> 00:05:54.997 that everybody does have 00:05:55.037 --> 00:05:55.758 their part and they're 00:05:55.798 --> 00:05:58.781 supposed to be playing that 00:05:58.841 --> 00:06:01.034 part as far as what is 00:06:01.934 --> 00:06:06.539 written out sometimes that 00:06:06.559 --> 00:06:08.000 doesn't always happen right 00:06:08.063 --> 00:06:09.437 so there is gofundme 00:06:09.699 --> 00:06:11.500 And this is kind of where 00:06:11.600 --> 00:06:14.081 this episode plays a very 00:06:14.181 --> 00:06:16.782 strange part in all of this. 00:06:17.202 --> 00:06:19.202 Because this episode will be 00:06:19.242 --> 00:06:21.943 the first episode of not 00:06:22.083 --> 00:06:26.564 strictly just about this particular, 00:06:26.784 --> 00:06:27.765 my particular case. 00:06:28.841 --> 00:06:30.702 and um starts kind of 00:06:30.762 --> 00:06:32.942 trailing onto other 00:06:32.982 --> 00:06:34.688 people's stories right 00:06:35.128 --> 00:06:37.169 and from there we kind of 00:06:37.209 --> 00:06:39.509 go backwards back into my 00:06:40.549 --> 00:06:42.230 my particular case and the 00:06:42.310 --> 00:06:43.830 reason for that again is 00:06:43.930 --> 00:06:48.832 strictly just to i i guess 00:06:48.892 --> 00:06:50.912 play by the rules that are 00:06:50.952 --> 00:06:51.496 there right 00:06:51.811 --> 00:06:54.072 I don't need a muzzle order 00:06:54.152 --> 00:06:55.032 put against me. 00:06:55.252 --> 00:06:59.013 I don't need any type of 00:06:59.994 --> 00:07:02.995 questioning of is this 00:07:03.075 --> 00:07:05.546 slander because he's talking about it. 00:07:05.749 --> 00:07:07.249 Nothing that I'm talking or 00:07:07.369 --> 00:07:09.753 speaking about is false, right? 00:07:10.334 --> 00:07:12.694 I showed you in our last episode, 00:07:12.871 --> 00:07:16.072 if you watched the video, you saw 00:07:16.341 --> 00:07:17.461 You saw the order. 00:07:18.001 --> 00:07:19.262 Nothing that I was talking 00:07:19.302 --> 00:07:21.482 about about that order was false. 00:07:21.562 --> 00:07:23.182 There's evidence to back that up. 00:07:23.602 --> 00:07:26.312 As far as releasing audio transcript, 00:07:26.732 --> 00:07:28.433 as far as releasing written 00:07:28.493 --> 00:07:31.433 transcript on that particular case, 00:07:31.513 --> 00:07:32.854 on my particular case that 00:07:33.374 --> 00:07:34.954 has just passed that we are appealing, 00:07:36.274 --> 00:07:37.955 I cannot release that yet. 00:07:38.269 --> 00:07:39.850 is there a chance that i 00:07:39.946 --> 00:07:40.422 will not 00:07:40.462 --> 00:07:41.659 release it ever there is 00:07:41.679 --> 00:07:43.300 that small chance um 00:07:43.580 --> 00:07:44.840 because i don't know how 00:07:44.901 --> 00:07:47.301 long this part this case 00:07:47.821 --> 00:07:49.602 will go because we are an 00:07:49.642 --> 00:07:50.942 appeal we are just waiting 00:07:50.982 --> 00:07:53.183 for a date right and i 00:07:53.243 --> 00:07:55.993 don't need any extra false 00:07:56.153 --> 00:07:58.634 fuel that they'll take and twist 00:07:58.981 --> 00:08:00.302 of any of these videos 00:08:00.482 --> 00:08:02.940 around just to kind of 00:08:03.120 --> 00:08:05.001 defeat all that we've been 00:08:05.061 --> 00:08:08.564 fighting for to right the injustice. 00:08:09.258 --> 00:08:10.379 And it's not a small 00:08:10.439 --> 00:08:12.400 injustice by any means, right? 00:08:12.820 --> 00:08:14.381 But there's a particular way 00:08:15.062 --> 00:08:16.836 that the game must be played. 00:08:17.136 --> 00:08:19.358 And we're just rolling with 00:08:19.378 --> 00:08:20.479 the punches as they say. 00:08:20.687 --> 00:08:23.088 so going back again now 00:08:23.108 --> 00:08:23.869 we're going to go back to 00:08:23.929 --> 00:08:26.009 present how things have 00:08:26.129 --> 00:08:28.790 been since the last episode 00:08:28.810 --> 00:08:28.834 um 00:08:29.127 --> 00:08:31.148 and things have been worse 00:08:31.408 --> 00:08:31.672 right 00:08:31.672 --> 00:08:32.241 again just 00:08:32.281 --> 00:08:33.662 like i guess i said in the 00:08:33.682 --> 00:08:34.803 first video i honestly 00:08:34.843 --> 00:08:35.803 thought we were going into 00:08:35.843 --> 00:08:37.024 court with fifty fifty 00:08:37.396 --> 00:08:38.877 Found out the morning of 00:08:38.917 --> 00:08:40.058 that was not the case. 00:08:40.519 --> 00:08:42.690 And then find out that my 00:08:42.750 --> 00:08:44.411 children are potentially 00:08:44.451 --> 00:08:45.432 being moved to a different 00:08:45.552 --> 00:08:47.874 state with someone they barely know. 00:08:48.401 --> 00:08:49.602 We just finished April 00:08:49.642 --> 00:08:51.424 vacation and Easter. 00:08:51.516 --> 00:08:53.083 I'm pretty sure you saw in that order. 00:08:53.103 --> 00:08:54.404 I'm not going to pull all 00:08:54.424 --> 00:08:56.766 that stuff up and let you 00:08:56.786 --> 00:08:58.387 guys read it all over again. 00:08:58.647 --> 00:09:00.008 That is in the last video. 00:09:00.048 --> 00:09:01.389 If you would like to go back 00:09:01.429 --> 00:09:02.270 and look at all that, 00:09:02.790 --> 00:09:03.911 more than welcome to. 00:09:04.036 --> 00:09:06.511 in the order, 00:09:06.631 --> 00:09:08.312 it does tell you who goes 00:09:08.332 --> 00:09:11.415 with holidays and all this stuff. 00:09:13.419 --> 00:09:15.301 other stuff essentially you 00:09:15.341 --> 00:09:17.142 are being told how the rest 00:09:17.403 --> 00:09:19.304 of their lives until they 00:09:19.344 --> 00:09:21.867 turn should pan out um 00:09:22.007 --> 00:09:24.229 unless the families decide 00:09:24.249 --> 00:09:26.972 to go back to court to 00:09:27.012 --> 00:09:29.469 adjust modify uh that order 00:09:29.469 --> 00:09:32.795 so worse is how it's been 00:09:33.046 --> 00:09:34.227 Knowing that I was getting 00:09:34.247 --> 00:09:35.828 ready to not see my 00:09:35.888 --> 00:09:37.089 children for three weeks, 00:09:37.709 --> 00:09:40.255 I decided that it was time, right? 00:09:40.443 --> 00:09:42.182 It was time for me to go 00:09:42.202 --> 00:09:43.990 ahead and face the crowd. 00:09:44.130 --> 00:09:46.861 From the order until a couple of weeks ago, 00:09:46.881 --> 00:09:50.904 I had not showed up for 00:09:51.064 --> 00:09:53.205 pickups and drop-offs, 00:09:54.006 --> 00:09:55.540 mostly because I didn't 00:09:55.560 --> 00:09:57.175 want to see my children's moms. 00:09:57.609 --> 00:09:59.730 Once I figured that the 00:09:59.790 --> 00:10:01.410 routine that they were 00:10:02.030 --> 00:10:05.131 always in with her continued, 00:10:06.031 --> 00:10:07.552 I decided that, okay, 00:10:07.712 --> 00:10:09.112 I can time this out where I 00:10:09.132 --> 00:10:10.413 can still see my kids in 00:10:10.433 --> 00:10:13.229 the morning and kind of just avoid her. 00:10:13.269 --> 00:10:14.489 Since that plan, 00:10:14.509 --> 00:10:16.309 we've had to adjust that plan. 00:10:16.529 --> 00:10:17.950 I guess we'll go into that in a second. 00:10:18.137 --> 00:10:19.618 with that plan, 00:10:21.116 --> 00:10:24.659 in place my my thought was 00:10:24.879 --> 00:10:27.162 okay i can see them avoid 00:10:27.242 --> 00:10:30.485 her they know that you know 00:10:30.625 --> 00:10:31.345 even though they're gonna 00:10:31.425 --> 00:10:34.088 not see me for a longer 00:10:34.168 --> 00:10:35.289 period than they're used to 00:10:35.629 --> 00:10:36.330 mind you this is the 00:10:36.370 --> 00:10:38.051 longest i had ever gone 00:10:38.352 --> 00:10:39.753 without seeing any of my 00:10:39.833 --> 00:10:41.585 kids minus my daughter uh 00:10:41.665 --> 00:10:45.449 again because for her first full year i 00:10:45.960 --> 00:10:47.521 maybe and maybe not got to 00:10:47.541 --> 00:10:48.901 see her on a day-to-day 00:10:48.941 --> 00:10:51.022 basis um well i got to see 00:10:51.062 --> 00:10:52.383 the boys day one of me 00:10:52.783 --> 00:10:54.064 going okay we're gonna go 00:10:54.224 --> 00:10:55.624 see the kids and i'm gonna 00:10:55.644 --> 00:10:56.698 see the kids in the morning 00:10:56.982 --> 00:10:59.483 And I bring my wife with me mostly, one, 00:10:59.544 --> 00:11:00.644 to have an eyewitness, 00:11:01.245 --> 00:11:02.645 although we know that it 00:11:02.685 --> 00:11:05.647 doesn't stand a whole lot of weight. 00:11:05.687 --> 00:11:06.488 It doesn't hold a whole lot 00:11:06.508 --> 00:11:09.169 of weight as far as biasness. 00:11:09.829 --> 00:11:12.471 But we also utilize video recording. 00:11:12.571 --> 00:11:15.593 And that is kind of why she's also there, 00:11:15.653 --> 00:11:16.934 not just as an eyewitness, 00:11:17.314 --> 00:11:18.955 but to be able to have that 00:11:19.535 --> 00:11:21.937 capability of being able to 00:11:21.977 --> 00:11:22.677 show the truth. 00:11:22.929 --> 00:11:25.530 without anybody kind of saying, nope, 00:11:25.550 --> 00:11:26.930 this is what happened on my side. 00:11:26.970 --> 00:11:29.330 This is what happened on my side. 00:11:29.383 --> 00:11:34.163 Um, so when I show up on day one, 00:11:34.557 --> 00:11:36.617 it was for pickup because 00:11:36.677 --> 00:11:37.675 school was over. 00:11:37.675 --> 00:11:39.615 because I knew that my youngest 00:11:39.635 --> 00:11:40.836 was picked up last, 00:11:40.973 --> 00:11:44.054 that I would just show up there. 00:11:45.375 --> 00:11:49.176 And as she went to go pick up my daughter, 00:11:50.757 --> 00:11:52.557 I would say hi to the boys real quick. 00:11:53.217 --> 00:11:55.378 And then figured she would 00:11:55.418 --> 00:11:56.959 just let my daughter run over real quick, 00:11:56.999 --> 00:11:58.566 say hi, and then go about her day. 00:11:58.566 --> 00:11:59.809 day I get there. 00:12:00.149 --> 00:12:00.769 She goes in, 00:12:01.049 --> 00:12:04.250 leaves the boys in the car unattended. 00:12:05.930 --> 00:12:06.851 I get out of my car. 00:12:07.371 --> 00:12:11.652 I walk over and my middle 00:12:11.672 --> 00:12:14.312 child gets out of his car seat. 00:12:14.796 --> 00:12:15.196 He then 00:12:16.299 --> 00:12:17.240 opens the door because he's 00:12:17.280 --> 00:12:19.101 excited to see me he opens 00:12:19.141 --> 00:12:20.902 the door gets out of the 00:12:20.922 --> 00:12:22.003 vehicle and starts hugging 00:12:22.083 --> 00:12:23.804 me and he's again excited 00:12:24.184 --> 00:12:27.947 to see me my oldest at that 00:12:27.987 --> 00:12:30.928 point doesn't see his mom 00:12:30.969 --> 00:12:33.290 is like okay my dad's here 00:12:33.410 --> 00:12:35.591 probably can get out he 00:12:35.611 --> 00:12:37.205 gets out i believe that day 00:12:37.245 --> 00:12:38.426 i either brought them like 00:12:38.646 --> 00:12:40.928 like mozz gummies or a ring 00:12:40.968 --> 00:12:41.754 pop or something 00:12:41.754 --> 00:12:45.564 they run to the front of 00:12:45.604 --> 00:12:47.305 the car and go to the gate 00:12:47.985 --> 00:12:48.726 where their mom, 00:12:48.826 --> 00:12:49.827 because they at that point 00:12:49.887 --> 00:12:51.508 could hear their mom, I think, talking. 00:12:52.248 --> 00:12:54.566 And she does this loud audible gasp. 00:12:54.566 --> 00:12:56.051 I can imagine it was 00:12:56.091 --> 00:12:56.912 because she thought they 00:12:56.932 --> 00:12:58.153 had just gotten out of the car. 00:12:58.541 --> 00:13:01.603 And she was like, you know, 00:13:01.643 --> 00:13:02.704 how did you guys get out of the car? 00:13:02.744 --> 00:13:03.805 How long have you been out of the car? 00:13:03.985 --> 00:13:05.064 What are you doing out of the car? 00:13:05.064 --> 00:13:06.335 um when she realizes that 00:13:06.375 --> 00:13:09.176 i'm standing there she then 00:13:09.236 --> 00:13:12.697 plays like oh okay like 00:13:12.757 --> 00:13:15.158 you're here right um i do 00:13:15.178 --> 00:13:17.399 get to see my daughter that 00:13:17.439 --> 00:13:19.832 day and i again believe 00:13:19.994 --> 00:13:22.120 this was theatrics okay 00:13:22.464 --> 00:13:23.824 And I apologize because day 00:13:23.904 --> 00:13:26.205 one was actually semi-okay 00:13:26.265 --> 00:13:27.246 because it was the next, 00:13:27.906 --> 00:13:29.067 I believe it was the next day. 00:13:29.607 --> 00:13:30.247 And I couldn't even be 00:13:30.267 --> 00:13:31.048 getting that one wrong, 00:13:31.088 --> 00:13:32.068 to be quite honest with you, 00:13:32.128 --> 00:13:36.010 just because these next two 00:13:36.070 --> 00:13:38.491 really trumped how any of 00:13:38.631 --> 00:13:39.451 this could have gone. 00:13:40.081 --> 00:13:42.142 I do know that in one of the days, 00:13:42.162 --> 00:13:42.922 and I do believe it was the 00:13:42.962 --> 00:13:44.922 very first day, everything was fine. 00:13:44.942 --> 00:13:47.323 It was a quick encounter, me saying hi, 00:13:47.383 --> 00:13:49.703 saying bye, asking how their days went, 00:13:50.364 --> 00:13:51.364 tell them I love them, 00:13:51.504 --> 00:13:52.996 and then that was it. 00:13:53.076 --> 00:13:53.959 I was gone. 00:13:54.039 --> 00:13:55.040 It was the morning. 00:13:55.280 --> 00:13:56.380 It was one of the mornings. 00:13:56.468 --> 00:13:57.366 I think this was the first 00:13:58.647 --> 00:13:59.647 morning where it really 00:13:59.687 --> 00:14:02.598 kind of bubbled up, where I show up. 00:14:03.028 --> 00:14:04.808 morning of and my daughter's 00:14:04.828 --> 00:14:06.369 already dropped off at daycare, 00:14:06.669 --> 00:14:07.849 which is across the street 00:14:07.889 --> 00:14:09.689 from where my boys go to school. 00:14:09.972 --> 00:14:11.612 So I get out of the car 00:14:11.652 --> 00:14:14.532 because I figured I again 00:14:14.612 --> 00:14:16.760 could just say hi to them on their very, 00:14:16.800 --> 00:14:19.200 very short walk or on the 00:14:19.300 --> 00:14:21.641 sidewalk into the school grounds, 00:14:22.441 --> 00:14:23.161 could say hi, 00:14:23.721 --> 00:14:26.642 and wish them wish them a good day and 00:14:27.427 --> 00:14:28.248 Let them just know that 00:14:28.268 --> 00:14:29.769 they're loved and this, you know, 00:14:29.789 --> 00:14:30.869 their dad is here. 00:14:30.950 --> 00:14:32.936 I'm going to always be here. 00:14:33.151 --> 00:14:37.240 Instead turns into their mother pretending, 00:14:37.493 --> 00:14:39.856 again, there's this huge emergency, 00:14:39.896 --> 00:14:40.857 like they were about to be 00:14:40.917 --> 00:14:42.118 taken or something. 00:14:42.416 --> 00:14:43.097 She picks up 00:14:43.862 --> 00:14:45.003 my four-year-old and is 00:14:45.043 --> 00:14:48.247 holding him and kind of 00:14:48.667 --> 00:14:52.031 tries to just barrage them right past me. 00:14:52.371 --> 00:14:55.254 So that way they can't say hi, can't just, 00:14:55.475 --> 00:14:56.516 again, can't give me a hug. 00:14:58.161 --> 00:15:00.823 I want no type of 00:15:00.843 --> 00:15:02.684 communication with their mom. 00:15:03.025 --> 00:15:04.626 I'm purposefully not making 00:15:04.786 --> 00:15:07.728 eye contact with her, looking at them, 00:15:08.148 --> 00:15:09.990 letting them know that I am 00:15:10.090 --> 00:15:12.010 literally here for them. 00:15:12.010 --> 00:15:13.071 before that, 00:15:13.352 --> 00:15:15.633 she purposely waited in the 00:15:15.673 --> 00:15:18.102 vehicle just so there was 00:15:18.423 --> 00:15:19.763 maybe this much time where 00:15:19.783 --> 00:15:20.504 I'd be able to say hi. 00:15:21.184 --> 00:15:22.545 Nonetheless, she gets out of the car. 00:15:22.978 --> 00:15:24.638 and starts walking around 00:15:24.698 --> 00:15:27.119 like there's a dog chasing her, 00:15:27.139 --> 00:15:29.420 like a Pitbull, Rottweiler, 00:15:29.820 --> 00:15:31.600 German Shepherd type dog 00:15:31.640 --> 00:15:35.321 kind of off leash coming after her. 00:15:35.921 --> 00:15:38.422 And it was crazy to watch 00:15:38.482 --> 00:15:41.494 because knowing that the 00:15:41.574 --> 00:15:45.154 people she was playing this 00:15:45.334 --> 00:15:48.935 out to know me, they've seen me, 00:15:48.975 --> 00:15:50.156 they've seen me interact 00:15:50.176 --> 00:15:51.696 with not just my own children, 00:15:52.246 --> 00:15:53.787 with other people's children. 00:15:54.367 --> 00:15:55.588 And then some of those 00:15:55.708 --> 00:15:57.228 parents that were also 00:15:57.288 --> 00:15:59.089 there have also brought 00:15:59.129 --> 00:16:02.251 their own children to me to, you know, 00:16:02.529 --> 00:16:04.270 because of the services that I provide. 00:16:04.470 --> 00:16:04.650 Again, 00:16:04.670 --> 00:16:06.331 I'm a body piercers and we don't 00:16:06.391 --> 00:16:09.380 live in a very large place. 00:16:09.760 --> 00:16:11.981 So we live in a place where 00:16:12.041 --> 00:16:14.022 kind of everyone knows everyone, right? 00:16:14.302 --> 00:16:18.011 a lot of this, I think, was just so 00:16:19.829 --> 00:16:23.434 amazing to me because a lot 00:16:23.474 --> 00:16:24.835 of these parents didn't 00:16:24.895 --> 00:16:25.616 even know this was 00:16:25.656 --> 00:16:26.898 happening until these 00:16:26.938 --> 00:16:27.979 things started happening 00:16:28.326 --> 00:16:30.487 was not needed right for any 00:16:30.527 --> 00:16:31.767 other reason other than 00:16:31.847 --> 00:16:34.828 trying to portray someone 00:16:34.888 --> 00:16:36.168 for what they aren't so she 00:16:36.208 --> 00:16:38.189 didn't get the rise that i 00:16:38.229 --> 00:16:39.549 think she was hoping out of 00:16:39.589 --> 00:16:42.730 me by doing this i said hi 00:16:42.870 --> 00:16:44.150 to my old discs i got the 00:16:44.190 --> 00:16:47.651 chance to and i had to walk 00:16:47.691 --> 00:16:50.042 away you know then the pickup 00:16:50.187 --> 00:16:52.749 is where it really got wild 00:16:52.789 --> 00:16:53.970 because I wasn't able to 00:16:54.010 --> 00:16:56.352 say hi to my middle child, really. 00:16:56.832 --> 00:16:58.313 I decided to show up for pickup. 00:16:58.674 --> 00:16:59.054 And again, 00:16:59.714 --> 00:17:01.676 went to pick up at my daughter's 00:17:01.696 --> 00:17:03.677 daycare because I knew that 00:17:03.818 --> 00:17:05.058 all three of them were there. 00:17:05.479 --> 00:17:08.001 And in my mind, I figured, okay, 00:17:08.041 --> 00:17:08.721 if you're just going to 00:17:08.841 --> 00:17:09.982 leave them in the vehicle, 00:17:10.823 --> 00:17:13.345 no harm in me being there to say hi. 00:17:13.365 --> 00:17:14.266 Did not happen this way. 00:17:15.400 --> 00:17:16.441 This time she decided to 00:17:16.481 --> 00:17:17.861 take the boys out of the vehicle. 00:17:18.081 --> 00:17:19.522 And instead of just, again, 00:17:19.562 --> 00:17:20.823 letting them come say hi to me, 00:17:21.199 --> 00:17:22.240 turns my oldest and starts 00:17:22.300 --> 00:17:24.141 pushing him to walk away. 00:17:24.501 --> 00:17:26.262 And I'm not going to act 00:17:26.282 --> 00:17:27.783 like it was an aggressive push, 00:17:28.303 --> 00:17:29.324 just kind of like shuffle 00:17:29.344 --> 00:17:30.424 him along kind of deal. 00:17:30.784 --> 00:17:32.225 I don't want this to be 00:17:32.245 --> 00:17:34.006 portrayed for anything that it's not. 00:17:34.532 --> 00:17:35.613 So she shuffles the oldest 00:17:35.633 --> 00:17:37.476 along while now my middle 00:17:37.496 --> 00:17:40.320 child is visibly distraught 00:17:40.400 --> 00:17:41.621 knowing that I'm there and 00:17:41.681 --> 00:17:42.943 just wanting to come say hi 00:17:42.963 --> 00:17:45.193 and give me a video proof of that. 00:17:45.353 --> 00:17:47.891 And I will release that. 00:17:48.243 --> 00:17:49.605 And there... 00:17:50.059 --> 00:17:51.861 was crying and once they got 00:17:51.901 --> 00:17:52.681 around the corner where he 00:17:52.701 --> 00:17:54.403 couldn't see me, he got louder, right? 00:17:54.501 --> 00:17:55.312 at this point, 00:17:55.732 --> 00:17:57.153 my kid's mother didn't realize, 00:17:57.233 --> 00:17:58.134 I don't think she didn't 00:17:58.174 --> 00:17:59.616 realize that my daughter 00:17:59.656 --> 00:18:00.616 was actually out on the 00:18:00.677 --> 00:18:03.199 play area outside with the 00:18:03.219 --> 00:18:04.177 rest of her class 00:18:04.372 --> 00:18:05.473 she went inside ended up 00:18:05.513 --> 00:18:06.769 grabbing the bags um coming 00:18:06.969 --> 00:18:09.530 outside of the school she 00:18:09.590 --> 00:18:10.911 goes on to the play area 00:18:11.011 --> 00:18:12.271 and really turns on the 00:18:12.311 --> 00:18:13.952 waterworks here at this 00:18:13.992 --> 00:18:15.932 point the daycare 00:18:15.932 --> 00:18:16.676 a supervisor 00:18:16.716 --> 00:18:18.076 of some sort i'm not really 00:18:18.116 --> 00:18:19.857 entirely sure of her 00:18:19.917 --> 00:18:21.818 position off the top of my 00:18:21.838 --> 00:18:22.687 head um does 00:18:23.230 --> 00:18:25.633 interfere now right at first 00:18:25.813 --> 00:18:26.854 it was kind of like a 00:18:26.894 --> 00:18:28.075 concern which is great 00:18:28.324 --> 00:18:29.846 having a concern great 00:18:30.086 --> 00:18:31.267 because now i know that my 00:18:31.307 --> 00:18:32.388 child should be protected 00:18:32.408 --> 00:18:33.990 in that situations if 00:18:34.070 --> 00:18:35.391 anybody comes and tries to 00:18:35.432 --> 00:18:37.854 like do anything erratic 00:18:37.934 --> 00:18:39.531 right i then start seeing 00:18:40.031 --> 00:18:42.231 this lady hugging my kid's mom and i 00:18:43.469 --> 00:18:44.770 Kind of figured at this point. 00:18:45.191 --> 00:18:46.452 Maybe consoling her because 00:18:46.472 --> 00:18:48.113 there's children around and 00:18:48.133 --> 00:18:49.975 you don't really need the 00:18:50.035 --> 00:18:51.456 hysterics of an adult 00:18:51.796 --> 00:18:52.657 that's holding a 00:18:52.737 --> 00:18:53.718 four-year-old while her 00:18:53.858 --> 00:18:55.139 two-year-old's walking and 00:18:55.159 --> 00:18:56.660 the seven-year-old's kind 00:18:56.680 --> 00:18:57.681 of standing there looking 00:18:58.222 --> 00:19:01.653 confused while their dad... And again, 00:19:02.033 --> 00:19:03.975 I really don't like to play this card, 00:19:04.219 --> 00:19:07.958 but when it looks, smells, feels... 00:19:08.277 --> 00:19:10.225 like something it usually is 00:19:10.305 --> 00:19:12.170 right but you have this 00:19:12.230 --> 00:19:14.771 crying mother what seems to 00:19:14.811 --> 00:19:15.732 be this crying mother 00:19:15.832 --> 00:19:19.666 afraid of something right 00:19:19.686 --> 00:19:21.487 um and a man bearded 00:19:22.007 --> 00:19:24.800 tattooed pierced black in a 00:19:24.860 --> 00:19:26.200 predominantly white place 00:19:26.691 --> 00:19:28.391 it might bring some concern 00:19:28.411 --> 00:19:29.692 it might bring fear 00:19:30.588 --> 00:19:33.021 why i don't know should it 00:19:33.081 --> 00:19:34.822 not in this particular 00:19:34.882 --> 00:19:36.222 circumstance because when 00:19:36.262 --> 00:19:38.323 you know the person there's 00:19:38.363 --> 00:19:40.004 no way that this situation 00:19:40.044 --> 00:19:41.224 should have went the way it 00:19:41.264 --> 00:19:44.047 did shortly after this 00:19:44.087 --> 00:19:46.088 little crying consoling 00:19:46.128 --> 00:19:48.289 situation happened my kid's 00:19:48.329 --> 00:19:49.169 mother and my three 00:19:49.189 --> 00:19:51.250 children start walking out 00:19:51.610 --> 00:19:52.991 back into like the 00:19:54.227 --> 00:19:55.628 a gated area that's right 00:19:55.648 --> 00:19:58.417 before the play outside area. 00:19:59.191 --> 00:20:01.072 My four-year-old is reaching 00:20:01.132 --> 00:20:03.393 out for me and then goes, 00:20:03.874 --> 00:20:05.075 can I go see dad? 00:20:05.695 --> 00:20:08.297 In which his mother tells him, no, 00:20:08.577 --> 00:20:09.578 I just want to get in the 00:20:09.598 --> 00:20:10.559 car and go away. 00:20:10.579 --> 00:20:11.899 This is so inappropriate. 00:20:12.114 --> 00:20:13.215 she wasn't wrong. 00:20:13.664 --> 00:20:14.245 She wasn't wrong. 00:20:15.205 --> 00:20:16.226 It was very inappropriate. 00:20:16.380 --> 00:20:18.032 oh after saying that i 00:20:18.452 --> 00:20:19.353 quickly realized that 00:20:19.413 --> 00:20:20.654 there's scratches all over 00:20:20.694 --> 00:20:23.516 my my daughter's face and i 00:20:23.656 --> 00:20:25.017 asked what happened to you 00:20:25.318 --> 00:20:26.398 what happened to your face 00:20:27.239 --> 00:20:29.201 and her mother turns around 00:20:29.749 --> 00:20:30.850 whether she's realizing 00:20:30.870 --> 00:20:32.711 this is like wow this is 00:20:32.731 --> 00:20:33.272 the first time he's 00:20:33.312 --> 00:20:34.973 actually seeing this didn't 00:20:34.993 --> 00:20:36.835 get to tell him or whatever 00:20:37.836 --> 00:20:38.956 it was this it was the 00:20:38.976 --> 00:20:40.358 simple fact that she turns around 00:20:40.785 --> 00:20:42.266 pretty much grabs my 00:20:42.346 --> 00:20:43.266 daughter by the hand and 00:20:43.526 --> 00:20:46.107 kind of just gets out of that area, 00:20:46.127 --> 00:20:46.381 right? 00:20:46.862 --> 00:20:47.922 Once she hits the gate, 00:20:48.143 --> 00:20:49.363 then proceeds to tell me 00:20:49.423 --> 00:20:51.159 that she will call the police on me. 00:20:51.659 --> 00:20:52.879 and that I'm not allowed to 00:20:52.899 --> 00:20:54.040 be around her or that I'm 00:20:54.060 --> 00:20:54.560 allowed to be on the 00:20:54.600 --> 00:20:55.700 property of these places. 00:20:56.220 --> 00:20:57.241 I'm not allowed to be around 00:20:57.281 --> 00:20:57.794 her or my children. 00:20:58.028 --> 00:20:59.509 in which I then ask where 00:20:59.569 --> 00:21:02.172 she read this or was given 00:21:02.752 --> 00:21:07.562 this information, which was just met by a, 00:21:07.562 --> 00:21:09.517 that she is afraid 00:21:09.557 --> 00:21:11.795 of me and doesn't like me. 00:21:11.795 --> 00:21:14.673 that statement alone, I mean, 00:21:14.713 --> 00:21:15.294 I guess if you... 00:21:16.592 --> 00:21:18.293 said either or one one could 00:21:18.353 --> 00:21:21.794 definitely be true when you 00:21:21.854 --> 00:21:23.835 have the other but it's 00:21:23.935 --> 00:21:25.556 just in what she's saying 00:21:26.176 --> 00:21:27.677 how she's saying it and 00:21:27.757 --> 00:21:29.457 where she's saying it that 00:21:29.517 --> 00:21:31.618 make it a problem because 00:21:31.638 --> 00:21:33.119 she's a she's definitely 00:21:33.279 --> 00:21:34.499 you know entitled to feel 00:21:34.539 --> 00:21:35.800 the way she wants to feel 00:21:35.840 --> 00:21:36.960 she doesn't have to like me 00:21:37.521 --> 00:21:38.341 that's why we're not 00:21:38.381 --> 00:21:38.668 together 00:21:38.739 --> 00:21:40.539 But it's not okay to voice 00:21:40.639 --> 00:21:42.039 those two things, 00:21:42.679 --> 00:21:43.719 whether you feel they're 00:21:43.739 --> 00:21:45.720 true or not in front of the 00:21:45.780 --> 00:21:48.400 children where legally 00:21:49.861 --> 00:21:52.541 you're bound to portray a 00:21:52.741 --> 00:21:55.445 positive picture for these children. 00:21:56.453 --> 00:21:57.333 because these children 00:21:57.373 --> 00:21:59.114 aren't afraid of me. 00:21:59.134 --> 00:22:02.095 These children don't not like me. 00:22:02.175 --> 00:22:03.295 Well, it's true, they don't like me, 00:22:03.535 --> 00:22:05.716 as Atlas, my middle child will say, 00:22:05.756 --> 00:22:06.425 he loves 00:22:06.425 --> 00:22:10.466 it's wild that these things can happen. 00:22:11.307 --> 00:22:12.487 And then in front of other 00:22:12.547 --> 00:22:17.589 people that pretend, in my opinion, 00:22:17.809 --> 00:22:18.609 and here we go with this, 00:22:19.229 --> 00:22:20.510 that they're for the best 00:22:20.610 --> 00:22:21.470 interest of the children. 00:22:21.628 --> 00:22:23.945 I was about to leave, 00:22:24.706 --> 00:22:26.347 but then I really started, I guess, 00:22:26.427 --> 00:22:28.649 thinking about how that just played out, 00:22:29.250 --> 00:22:30.680 how that situation just played out 00:22:31.146 --> 00:22:32.627 When I started walking away, 00:22:32.687 --> 00:22:34.289 immediately my mind said, 00:22:34.549 --> 00:22:38.327 how was that okay? 00:22:38.507 --> 00:22:40.169 So my next thought was maybe 00:22:40.209 --> 00:22:41.069 they don't have an order. 00:22:42.471 --> 00:22:44.052 So I asked my wife for one 00:22:44.092 --> 00:22:45.233 of the many orders that we 00:22:45.273 --> 00:22:47.115 ended up printing out for 00:22:47.415 --> 00:22:49.937 instances like this that may arise. 00:22:50.838 --> 00:22:51.999 And I start bringing the 00:22:52.059 --> 00:22:55.682 order to the supervisor in 00:22:55.722 --> 00:22:56.803 charge is what we'll call her. 00:22:57.563 --> 00:22:58.243 As I approach her, 00:22:58.383 --> 00:22:59.764 I let her know that I'm 00:22:59.804 --> 00:23:01.285 bringing her one and she 00:23:01.345 --> 00:23:02.846 informs me that she has one 00:23:02.906 --> 00:23:03.821 already in her desk. 00:23:03.984 --> 00:23:07.123 So now I'm way more confused at this point, 00:23:07.353 --> 00:23:09.034 Because then if you have the 00:23:09.254 --> 00:23:11.175 order that says that I can 00:23:11.255 --> 00:23:13.556 literally come and say hi to my children, 00:23:14.397 --> 00:23:16.798 I'm not really sure why, 00:23:18.165 --> 00:23:20.446 this issue is becoming a thing, 00:23:20.715 --> 00:23:23.337 then state that there is 00:23:23.597 --> 00:23:25.858 nothing in this order that 00:23:25.938 --> 00:23:28.460 says we cannot be on the, if in fact, 00:23:28.820 --> 00:23:30.021 it says that we are 00:23:30.101 --> 00:23:31.682 encouraged to participate 00:23:31.942 --> 00:23:33.383 in both schooling events, 00:23:33.603 --> 00:23:34.564 after school events, 00:23:34.584 --> 00:23:35.725 we can be on the same 00:23:35.805 --> 00:23:38.046 premises and all these other things. 00:23:38.086 --> 00:23:40.948 And in fact, there is no history of abuse 00:23:41.432 --> 00:23:42.752 right when I finished that sentence, 00:23:43.113 --> 00:23:45.373 she literally asks me if 00:23:45.413 --> 00:23:47.534 we're able to be on the same premises, 00:23:47.954 --> 00:23:48.995 on the same campus is 00:23:49.075 --> 00:23:49.932 actually what she asked. 00:23:50.164 --> 00:23:52.684 I knew that there was zero 00:23:52.914 --> 00:23:54.915 information on my end that 00:23:54.975 --> 00:23:56.755 I was giving to this woman 00:23:57.187 --> 00:23:58.004 that was registering, 00:23:58.245 --> 00:23:59.385 that was gonna benefit my 00:23:59.425 --> 00:24:00.685 kids in any way. 00:24:01.426 --> 00:24:04.787 She already bought in 00:24:05.210 --> 00:24:06.600 to a different story. 00:24:06.640 --> 00:24:08.241 So I turn around. 00:24:08.321 --> 00:24:10.781 As I turn around, I then see an officer. 00:24:11.261 --> 00:24:13.042 And I go, oh, all right, 00:24:13.062 --> 00:24:13.922 guess she wasn't kidding. 00:24:14.242 --> 00:24:15.022 Guess she really was going 00:24:15.042 --> 00:24:15.712 to call the police. 00:24:15.905 --> 00:24:17.826 So I approach the fence 00:24:18.146 --> 00:24:19.506 because I'm getting ready to leave. 00:24:20.086 --> 00:24:22.507 The officer's introducing himself. 00:24:22.927 --> 00:24:24.187 We then realize that we have 00:24:24.547 --> 00:24:25.567 met each other before. 00:24:26.547 --> 00:24:29.168 And this was because I had 00:24:29.900 --> 00:24:32.480 processed no trespass 00:24:32.620 --> 00:24:34.140 order on my kid's mother. 00:24:34.700 --> 00:24:36.421 And this was because of others. 00:24:37.001 --> 00:24:37.681 It was because she was 00:24:37.721 --> 00:24:38.881 coming into the parlor that 00:24:38.961 --> 00:24:42.182 I work at and recording, not just me, 00:24:42.222 --> 00:24:44.262 but recording clients. 00:24:44.719 --> 00:24:47.340 And although in a public space, 00:24:47.400 --> 00:24:49.300 it is okay to record, 00:24:49.661 --> 00:24:51.221 legal to record people with 00:24:51.541 --> 00:24:52.601 or without their consent, 00:24:52.913 --> 00:24:53.974 it's the fact that she went 00:24:54.074 --> 00:24:55.074 into a business 00:24:55.580 --> 00:24:57.241 while there's business hours 00:24:57.281 --> 00:25:00.028 being had because of what 00:25:00.169 --> 00:25:02.811 she felt was not right. 00:25:03.191 --> 00:25:04.732 And what was happening is that I, 00:25:05.161 --> 00:25:07.703 I had to do a very quick service, 00:25:07.723 --> 00:25:09.020 a fifteen minute service. 00:25:09.145 --> 00:25:10.386 I picked up my children and 00:25:10.446 --> 00:25:11.407 instead of getting them out 00:25:11.447 --> 00:25:14.249 of the vehicle, upstairs, 00:25:14.910 --> 00:25:15.910 make them wait fifteen 00:25:15.930 --> 00:25:18.352 minutes just to go back downstairs, 00:25:18.653 --> 00:25:20.534 to get back in the car, to go home, 00:25:21.335 --> 00:25:23.108 my wife took my vehicle and 00:25:23.128 --> 00:25:26.251 brought them home. 00:25:26.271 --> 00:25:27.752 When she kept her vehicle here, 00:25:28.286 --> 00:25:30.348 And then I was to take that 00:25:30.388 --> 00:25:32.470 home after I finished up. 00:25:32.950 --> 00:25:34.752 So, twenty minutes. 00:25:34.772 --> 00:25:36.293 Then it took, maybe, 00:25:36.733 --> 00:25:38.094 we were living someplace 00:25:38.194 --> 00:25:38.935 different at that point. 00:25:40.036 --> 00:25:42.378 Maybe eight, 00:25:43.019 --> 00:25:44.600 we'll go on a busy traffic day, 00:25:44.660 --> 00:25:46.081 twelve minutes for me to get home. 00:25:46.101 --> 00:25:47.763 So, thirty minutes, we'll say, 00:25:47.803 --> 00:25:49.664 is all I'd be away from 00:25:49.684 --> 00:25:50.365 when they were picked up 00:25:50.385 --> 00:25:52.827 from me until I got home. 00:25:53.421 --> 00:25:54.502 Police were threatened on that one. 00:25:55.523 --> 00:25:56.003 Thankfully, 00:25:56.063 --> 00:25:57.725 that did not happen on that occasion. 00:25:58.326 --> 00:25:59.407 But nonetheless, 00:25:59.747 --> 00:26:01.769 always being threatened by police. 00:26:01.909 --> 00:26:03.510 So even though I already 00:26:03.590 --> 00:26:04.711 knew this police officer, 00:26:04.872 --> 00:26:06.738 I kind of didn't know. 00:26:07.018 --> 00:26:07.579 You don't know. 00:26:07.779 --> 00:26:08.680 You don't know what's going 00:26:08.720 --> 00:26:09.801 to happen in the situation. 00:26:09.941 --> 00:26:11.623 You don't know what's going 00:26:11.643 --> 00:26:12.744 to happen in the situation 00:26:13.164 --> 00:26:15.446 when you're a person that looks like me, 00:26:15.987 --> 00:26:16.287 right? 00:26:16.948 --> 00:26:18.329 And that... 00:26:19.311 --> 00:26:20.632 is the reality of it. 00:26:20.752 --> 00:26:21.733 And I'm not gonna sit here 00:26:21.753 --> 00:26:25.175 and ever pretend like this 00:26:25.395 --> 00:26:26.996 is not going to happen to me. 00:26:27.096 --> 00:26:29.618 And even though I am known 00:26:29.658 --> 00:26:30.679 within my community, 00:26:31.179 --> 00:26:32.360 it does not mean that that 00:26:32.400 --> 00:26:34.561 cannot happen to me. 00:26:34.721 --> 00:26:36.763 Very shortly after kind of 00:26:36.783 --> 00:26:37.683 speaking to this first 00:26:37.764 --> 00:26:39.545 officer and explaining to 00:26:39.585 --> 00:26:40.425 him what was happening, 00:26:40.766 --> 00:26:42.106 we walk over to my vehicle 00:26:42.587 --> 00:26:43.579 so I can get him in order. 00:26:43.974 --> 00:26:45.375 As we approach that vehicle, 00:26:45.735 --> 00:26:46.776 the second officer is 00:26:46.816 --> 00:26:47.677 already walking over. 00:26:48.734 --> 00:26:50.475 So I go, okay, 00:26:50.495 --> 00:26:51.815 can you get two orders for us? 00:26:52.336 --> 00:26:54.136 So my wife reaches up in the back, 00:26:54.536 --> 00:26:55.517 grabs two orders. 00:26:56.297 --> 00:26:57.998 As I turn to give two orders, 00:26:58.998 --> 00:27:00.519 third officer is approaching. 00:27:00.787 --> 00:27:02.827 I spoke to the first officer, 00:27:02.887 --> 00:27:04.087 he did explain that when 00:27:04.147 --> 00:27:06.608 dispatch reports certain calls, 00:27:07.157 --> 00:27:09.398 the officers kind of just show up. 00:27:10.009 --> 00:27:12.050 Again, hindsight being what it is, 00:27:12.711 --> 00:27:14.171 I'm thankful that that many 00:27:14.251 --> 00:27:15.852 officers showed up that 00:27:15.892 --> 00:27:18.234 quickly in the event that 00:27:18.454 --> 00:27:19.995 my child had been in danger 00:27:20.015 --> 00:27:21.135 at that school, right? 00:27:22.017 --> 00:27:22.957 I will say that the three 00:27:24.178 --> 00:27:25.119 officers that showed up 00:27:25.139 --> 00:27:28.601 that day were definitely level-headed, 00:27:30.021 --> 00:27:34.484 understanding, empathetic, compassionate, 00:27:35.292 --> 00:27:37.213 individuals i i think that 00:27:37.333 --> 00:27:40.021 they were the best humans 00:27:40.061 --> 00:27:41.522 for the job that was given 00:27:41.642 --> 00:27:43.763 at that point in time and i 00:27:43.803 --> 00:27:44.724 hope that that is how they 00:27:44.764 --> 00:27:47.025 carry themselves for any 00:27:47.565 --> 00:27:49.446 call that they have to and 00:27:49.486 --> 00:27:50.887 this is coming from a 00:27:50.927 --> 00:27:51.908 military police officer 00:27:51.948 --> 00:27:53.789 myself i was in the army i 00:27:53.829 --> 00:27:55.450 was a police officer and 00:27:56.310 --> 00:27:58.712 when you're called to any 00:27:59.286 --> 00:28:00.467 Anything, any type of call. 00:28:00.487 --> 00:28:01.307 It doesn't matter if it's a 00:28:01.347 --> 00:28:02.387 domestic dispute. 00:28:02.427 --> 00:28:04.989 It doesn't matter if it's any call. 00:28:05.009 --> 00:28:07.990 You do not know what you're going into. 00:28:08.150 --> 00:28:09.030 It doesn't matter if there's 00:28:09.050 --> 00:28:10.471 a cat stuck in the tree, right, 00:28:10.991 --> 00:28:12.272 to go save that cat coming 00:28:12.312 --> 00:28:12.672 out of the tree. 00:28:12.952 --> 00:28:15.173 Anything in that situation can happen, 00:28:15.639 --> 00:28:16.079 truly, 00:28:16.139 --> 00:28:20.043 depending on the surroundings of the area, 00:28:20.383 --> 00:28:21.384 the people involved. 00:28:21.444 --> 00:28:22.804 There's a lot of unknowns 00:28:22.884 --> 00:28:24.385 going into a call. 00:28:24.953 --> 00:28:26.034 They handled it well and I 00:28:26.074 --> 00:28:27.575 cannot be thankful enough. 00:28:27.835 --> 00:28:29.556 And I'm proud to be in a 00:28:29.616 --> 00:28:33.246 place where I went into a 00:28:33.306 --> 00:28:35.395 situation and nothing that 00:28:35.775 --> 00:28:37.657 I personally worry about 00:28:37.797 --> 00:28:39.258 and know that other people 00:28:40.498 --> 00:28:43.100 of likeness would worry about. 00:28:43.901 --> 00:28:46.949 And it went completely not that way, 00:28:47.009 --> 00:28:47.530 thankfully. 00:28:48.311 --> 00:28:49.892 So we talked to the three officers, 00:28:49.952 --> 00:28:52.714 they give us their input as 00:28:52.774 --> 00:28:54.475 far as what I should do. 00:28:54.495 --> 00:28:57.977 You know, 00:28:57.997 --> 00:28:59.618 told me to go back to modify the 00:28:59.738 --> 00:29:00.479 order in court. 00:29:00.899 --> 00:29:02.160 I then explained to them 00:29:02.680 --> 00:29:05.201 that we had already done that, 00:29:05.842 --> 00:29:06.943 explained to them that we 00:29:07.183 --> 00:29:09.604 have an appeal that was granted 00:29:09.930 --> 00:29:13.871 also kind of just waiting, 00:29:14.071 --> 00:29:14.832 playing the waiting game. 00:29:14.852 --> 00:29:15.772 But in the meantime, 00:29:16.092 --> 00:29:16.952 just wanting to see my 00:29:17.012 --> 00:29:18.113 children because I'm not 00:29:18.133 --> 00:29:18.813 going to see them for the 00:29:18.833 --> 00:29:19.473 next three weeks. 00:29:19.625 --> 00:29:20.699 that goes away. 00:29:21.640 --> 00:29:25.001 Next morning, I show up for pickups again. 00:29:25.346 --> 00:29:26.466 This time I text her to let 00:29:26.486 --> 00:29:27.907 her know that I just want 00:29:27.927 --> 00:29:28.667 to say hi to the kids. 00:29:29.447 --> 00:29:30.907 Hi, bye, and I'm out of there. 00:29:31.425 --> 00:29:32.845 I get a response of, 00:29:33.670 --> 00:29:34.591 I'm in the process of 00:29:34.631 --> 00:29:36.252 getting a restraining order on you. 00:29:37.092 --> 00:29:38.473 Please leave me alone during 00:29:38.554 --> 00:29:39.688 my time kids." 00:29:39.748 --> 00:29:42.410 Her time that she's referring to, again, 00:29:42.470 --> 00:29:43.171 I want to point out, 00:29:43.491 --> 00:29:44.332 is my daughter being 00:29:44.372 --> 00:29:46.353 dropped off way earlier 00:29:46.393 --> 00:29:48.355 than what I would imagine she needs to. 00:29:49.615 --> 00:29:49.836 Again, 00:29:49.876 --> 00:29:51.677 being because my daughter's daycare 00:29:51.697 --> 00:29:54.959 is across the street from my boy's school, 00:29:54.999 --> 00:29:55.320 okay? 00:29:56.193 --> 00:29:58.014 While the adult in the vehicle, 00:29:58.174 --> 00:30:00.235 their mother is just 00:30:00.275 --> 00:30:01.156 sitting there on her phone. 00:30:01.749 --> 00:30:03.590 So when I get on the second day, 00:30:03.630 --> 00:30:04.810 I stand away from her 00:30:04.850 --> 00:30:08.612 vehicle and I just stand and I stand 00:30:09.326 --> 00:30:10.147 And I'm standing pointing 00:30:10.447 --> 00:30:11.467 facing towards the car. 00:30:11.547 --> 00:30:12.528 And the reason for this is 00:30:12.568 --> 00:30:14.189 because I'm recording at this point. 00:30:15.290 --> 00:30:17.751 I need evidence to show that 00:30:17.792 --> 00:30:19.313 the alienation is true and 00:30:19.373 --> 00:30:20.033 it's happening. 00:30:20.954 --> 00:30:22.935 So I have my oldest waving 00:30:22.975 --> 00:30:25.577 to me in the backseat, kind of looking, 00:30:25.617 --> 00:30:26.157 making sure. 00:30:27.443 --> 00:30:29.544 You know, he's not being seen, I guess. 00:30:29.604 --> 00:30:30.945 I don't really, it was weird. 00:30:31.345 --> 00:30:33.366 But we're kind of like high signaling, 00:30:33.426 --> 00:30:34.326 kind of low key. 00:30:34.907 --> 00:30:36.548 And my middle child is at 00:30:36.628 --> 00:30:37.748 first against the window 00:30:37.788 --> 00:30:39.469 trying to roll it down, say hi, 00:30:39.749 --> 00:30:40.409 trying to get out. 00:30:41.030 --> 00:30:42.871 And his mother says something to him. 00:30:44.311 --> 00:30:47.333 And he's just now facing this way, right? 00:30:47.764 --> 00:30:49.805 when it's time because she's 00:30:49.865 --> 00:30:50.845 waiting to the very last 00:30:50.885 --> 00:30:52.385 second when it's time for 00:30:52.865 --> 00:30:54.626 my oldest to have to kind 00:30:54.686 --> 00:30:57.007 of go into the school she 00:30:57.547 --> 00:30:59.327 gathers the kids exits out 00:30:59.347 --> 00:31:00.788 the driver's side vehicle 00:31:01.888 --> 00:31:03.268 comes around to get the 00:31:03.608 --> 00:31:06.069 kids bags and everything um 00:31:06.089 --> 00:31:07.149 my oldest he gets the bag 00:31:07.349 --> 00:31:09.690 on and he gets like huddled 00:31:09.830 --> 00:31:12.131 over by her right now she's 00:31:12.171 --> 00:31:13.551 getting my middle child 00:31:13.611 --> 00:31:16.292 ready she's backpacking him picks him up 00:31:16.874 --> 00:31:17.775 and starts walking. 00:31:19.396 --> 00:31:21.017 And now there's a sidewalk 00:31:21.057 --> 00:31:22.999 that goes along a fence 00:31:23.039 --> 00:31:26.061 line to the yard of the school. 00:31:27.062 --> 00:31:29.523 And there's this rotary kind 00:31:29.543 --> 00:31:32.165 of roundabout for when they do pick up, 00:31:32.326 --> 00:31:33.667 drop off some vehicles and 00:31:33.687 --> 00:31:35.948 the buses will pull up and 00:31:35.988 --> 00:31:37.269 drop the kids off, pick them up. 00:31:37.810 --> 00:31:41.412 And in the morning, it gets kind of busy, 00:31:41.913 --> 00:31:42.493 gets pretty busy. 00:31:43.028 --> 00:31:44.069 Again, instead of just 00:31:45.408 --> 00:31:46.869 of two things just get on 00:31:46.889 --> 00:31:47.850 the sidewalk let my kids 00:31:47.870 --> 00:31:48.891 run up to me and say hi 00:31:48.951 --> 00:31:50.252 real quick hope you guys 00:31:50.272 --> 00:31:51.913 have a good day i love you 00:31:53.695 --> 00:31:55.436 you know the kisses and 00:31:56.657 --> 00:31:59.159 send them off and that way 00:31:59.179 --> 00:32:00.320 they got to see both their 00:32:00.360 --> 00:32:02.722 parents my dad said hi 00:32:02.762 --> 00:32:03.863 we're great that's such a 00:32:03.883 --> 00:32:06.425 good day they're now stuck 00:32:06.445 --> 00:32:09.667 with this scenario and i 00:32:09.987 --> 00:32:11.088 and i do hope that it 00:32:11.128 --> 00:32:14.451 doesn't last forever but i i i hope it 00:32:15.635 --> 00:32:17.476 it's it sits right because 00:32:18.117 --> 00:32:19.577 it's true it happened and i 00:32:19.637 --> 00:32:20.958 want them to understand the 00:32:20.998 --> 00:32:22.079 reality of what really 00:32:22.139 --> 00:32:22.979 happened and why it 00:32:23.019 --> 00:32:24.160 shouldn't have happened and 00:32:24.681 --> 00:32:26.542 their mother going across a 00:32:26.662 --> 00:32:28.163 busy roundabout just to 00:32:28.243 --> 00:32:30.584 avoid their father being 00:32:30.604 --> 00:32:31.765 you know being able to say 00:32:31.885 --> 00:32:33.546 hi to them just touch them 00:32:33.766 --> 00:32:34.727 because for three weeks 00:32:34.847 --> 00:32:35.527 he's not gonna be able to 00:32:35.567 --> 00:32:37.248 do that he might be able to 00:32:37.268 --> 00:32:38.289 get to see say hi to them 00:32:38.583 --> 00:32:41.006 goes across this busy, you know, 00:32:41.567 --> 00:32:42.727 rotary intersection 00:32:42.767 --> 00:32:45.509 thingy-majiggy to dart into the school, 00:32:46.430 --> 00:32:47.451 plays the scenario of 00:32:47.511 --> 00:32:51.634 crying mom afraid and acting erratic. 00:32:52.595 --> 00:32:53.996 So I approach the principal and I, 00:32:55.167 --> 00:32:55.607 I don't know. 00:32:55.667 --> 00:32:56.908 I'm just here to say hi to my kids. 00:32:57.048 --> 00:32:58.669 I don't understand why this is happening. 00:32:59.350 --> 00:33:01.511 And he admits that it is 00:33:01.571 --> 00:33:02.852 getting a little awkward 00:33:03.392 --> 00:33:04.753 and all these other things. 00:33:04.773 --> 00:33:05.614 And I tell him, I know. 00:33:06.014 --> 00:33:06.674 I understand. 00:33:06.694 --> 00:33:07.635 And I hate that you're being 00:33:07.675 --> 00:33:08.484 put in this position. 00:33:08.611 --> 00:33:09.572 But you have to understand 00:33:09.612 --> 00:33:13.534 that I'm just trying to see my kids. 00:33:13.931 --> 00:33:15.712 And I get that this is becoming a thing. 00:33:16.304 --> 00:33:18.705 Where I really just wasn't 00:33:18.845 --> 00:33:21.487 understanding was why I was 00:33:21.507 --> 00:33:23.988 kind of being the one reprimanded, right? 00:33:24.068 --> 00:33:25.210 All I did is show up. 00:33:25.290 --> 00:33:27.711 I'm not crying, not putting on a scene, 00:33:27.971 --> 00:33:28.952 holding a child, 00:33:29.452 --> 00:33:31.053 acting like he's about to be kidnapped. 00:33:31.393 --> 00:33:34.534 I'm not doing anything other 00:33:34.574 --> 00:33:35.915 than what I've done for the past, 00:33:36.295 --> 00:33:36.575 you know, 00:33:36.916 --> 00:33:38.636 few years of my kids attending 00:33:38.656 --> 00:33:40.045 this school, showing up. 00:33:42.129 --> 00:33:44.011 So I informed the principal 00:33:44.451 --> 00:33:45.972 of two things I am recording, 00:33:46.052 --> 00:33:47.193 and this is because it's 00:33:47.233 --> 00:33:48.995 for my best interest in 00:33:49.015 --> 00:33:50.376 what's happening in this situation. 00:33:51.517 --> 00:33:53.335 And I am going to say hi to my kids. 00:33:53.375 --> 00:33:54.176 He gives me the, okay. 00:33:54.196 --> 00:33:57.439 I walk in, I go say hi to my oldest, 00:33:57.479 --> 00:33:58.440 because at this point he's 00:33:58.620 --> 00:33:59.300 out in the yard. 00:33:59.340 --> 00:33:59.961 He comes over. 00:34:00.021 --> 00:34:00.601 I hug him. 00:34:01.162 --> 00:34:01.963 We talk about what he's 00:34:02.003 --> 00:34:03.444 getting ready to do and stuff for the, 00:34:04.184 --> 00:34:07.167 the weight, uh, the April break and. 00:34:07.737 --> 00:34:08.398 I tell him I love him. 00:34:08.458 --> 00:34:08.879 I hug him. 00:34:09.019 --> 00:34:10.300 I ask him if he's good. 00:34:10.894 --> 00:34:12.195 And his mother comes at this 00:34:12.235 --> 00:34:14.058 point back into the picture, 00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:15.940 still holding my middle child. 00:34:16.084 --> 00:34:18.972 I'm starting to walk away to leave. 00:34:20.033 --> 00:34:22.036 And my oldest starts walking with me. 00:34:22.803 --> 00:34:24.443 And his mother, I believe, 00:34:24.504 --> 00:34:26.224 signals over to him to come over. 00:34:27.024 --> 00:34:29.945 And I stopped because I 00:34:30.085 --> 00:34:32.146 didn't want interaction, right? 00:34:32.226 --> 00:34:33.906 I don't want conversation. 00:34:33.926 --> 00:34:36.427 I'm just trying to say hi, say bye, 00:34:36.487 --> 00:34:36.847 and go. 00:34:37.453 --> 00:34:38.953 So I told my oldest, I'm like, oh, man, 00:34:38.973 --> 00:34:39.413 you're good. 00:34:39.553 --> 00:34:40.253 You can stay here. 00:34:40.354 --> 00:34:41.774 Just go back to play. 00:34:41.794 --> 00:34:43.594 You're about to get in line to go inside. 00:34:43.714 --> 00:34:44.575 He tells me OK. 00:34:44.895 --> 00:34:45.315 He hugs me. 00:34:46.478 --> 00:34:48.599 goes i start walking away 00:34:48.959 --> 00:34:50.659 and i have to pass their 00:34:50.699 --> 00:34:51.540 mom right because she's 00:34:51.580 --> 00:34:52.700 standing by a teacher 00:34:53.500 --> 00:34:55.441 playing this i'm afraid 00:34:55.461 --> 00:34:57.134 victim as i'm walking 00:34:57.194 --> 00:34:59.115 by my middle child's again 00:34:59.195 --> 00:35:01.856 reaching out and saying i 00:35:01.916 --> 00:35:03.696 want you to hug me dad so i 00:35:04.236 --> 00:35:06.177 i pause i turn 00:35:07.794 --> 00:35:10.135 And I take two steps and say, 00:35:10.755 --> 00:35:12.136 I'm fine with hugging you 00:35:12.756 --> 00:35:14.437 as long as your mom's okay with it. 00:35:14.869 --> 00:35:17.150 In which she then puts this 00:35:17.410 --> 00:35:21.112 whole victim card of I'm afraid of you. 00:35:21.652 --> 00:35:22.813 You're not supposed to even, 00:35:23.633 --> 00:35:24.854 whatever she ends up saying. 00:35:25.874 --> 00:35:28.289 I say, okay, I leave. 00:35:28.664 --> 00:35:31.065 I then get a phone call the next morning. 00:35:31.895 --> 00:35:34.037 the police station asking 00:35:34.057 --> 00:35:35.398 what's going on the 00:35:35.458 --> 00:35:37.570 principal had called so in 00:35:37.610 --> 00:35:38.511 the end they give me this 00:35:38.671 --> 00:35:40.113 huge rundown i end up 00:35:40.153 --> 00:35:41.974 knowing this police officer 00:35:41.994 --> 00:35:43.235 as well he ends up having 00:35:44.456 --> 00:35:45.377 kids that end up going to 00:35:45.397 --> 00:35:47.338 school with my kids and so 00:35:47.458 --> 00:35:48.519 i explained to him exactly 00:35:48.539 --> 00:35:50.721 what's going on again very 00:35:50.761 --> 00:35:53.423 empathetic kind of tries to 00:35:53.463 --> 00:35:56.566 give me some you know what 00:35:57.359 --> 00:35:57.940 may help, 00:35:57.960 --> 00:35:59.881 what may not help kind of guidelines. 00:36:00.641 --> 00:36:01.502 And I explained to him, 00:36:02.042 --> 00:36:04.304 I have this kind of under control. 00:36:05.365 --> 00:36:06.505 Trying to make it happen so 00:36:06.525 --> 00:36:08.387 that way I don't have to see her. 00:36:08.447 --> 00:36:09.687 This is my whole point is I 00:36:09.747 --> 00:36:10.748 don't need to see her. 00:36:10.928 --> 00:36:12.169 I just want to see my children. 00:36:12.789 --> 00:36:13.310 That is it. 00:36:14.310 --> 00:36:15.051 We end up getting off the 00:36:15.071 --> 00:36:17.633 phone and then they go on 00:36:17.673 --> 00:36:19.798 to April vacation. 00:36:20.058 --> 00:36:22.259 I then get to talk to them 00:36:22.379 --> 00:36:24.701 during the April vacation and 00:36:25.074 --> 00:36:26.402 finding out a few 00:36:26.422 --> 00:36:27.624 different things and we're 00:36:27.644 --> 00:36:28.885 still trying to figure some 00:36:28.925 --> 00:36:29.765 of those things out. 00:36:29.806 --> 00:36:30.846 So I don't wanna really say 00:36:30.866 --> 00:36:32.128 it here because I don't know 00:36:32.923 --> 00:36:35.004 which ones are absolute fact just yet, 00:36:35.104 --> 00:36:36.325 but more things are coming 00:36:36.405 --> 00:36:37.906 on down the pipeline. 00:36:38.511 --> 00:36:40.012 So I want to go back and 00:36:40.393 --> 00:36:42.554 clarify some of my wording 00:36:43.434 --> 00:36:44.895 from my previous episode. 00:36:45.090 --> 00:36:47.344 When I say that I believe 00:36:47.384 --> 00:36:49.866 it's all court systems as 00:36:49.906 --> 00:36:52.307 far as the family division 00:36:52.387 --> 00:36:55.569 goes of not wanting what's best. 00:36:56.064 --> 00:36:57.825 for the children that are in this. 00:36:58.101 --> 00:37:00.983 I do heavily, and this one I will stand on, 00:37:01.903 --> 00:37:03.444 heavily believe that there 00:37:03.484 --> 00:37:05.225 are individuals that have 00:37:05.305 --> 00:37:08.166 zero interest in particular 00:37:08.206 --> 00:37:10.007 people's cases where it's 00:37:10.047 --> 00:37:11.528 in the best interest for the children. 00:37:12.048 --> 00:37:13.008 That I will stand on. 00:37:13.629 --> 00:37:15.530 But as the court as a whole, 00:37:15.790 --> 00:37:17.453 I can't stand here and say 00:37:17.493 --> 00:37:19.554 that wholeheartedly yet, 00:37:20.110 --> 00:37:21.093 mostly because 00:37:21.355 --> 00:37:22.476 I haven't given the chance 00:37:22.516 --> 00:37:24.398 for this wrong to be right. 00:37:24.690 --> 00:37:28.231 So maybe I will stand on that, 00:37:28.639 --> 00:37:33.161 seeing how this future hearing goes. 00:37:33.681 --> 00:37:35.742 But right now, I can't. 00:37:36.002 --> 00:37:37.503 I cannot sit in here and say 00:37:37.563 --> 00:37:40.691 that the court system in whole, 00:37:40.811 --> 00:37:42.212 as far as Vermont goes, 00:37:42.547 --> 00:37:43.527 is not for the best 00:37:43.588 --> 00:37:44.428 interest of the children. 00:37:44.895 --> 00:37:45.455 So yeah, 00:37:45.595 --> 00:37:47.397 I think that was something I 00:37:47.437 --> 00:37:49.499 needed to put up there because I don't, 00:37:50.019 --> 00:37:50.279 again, 00:37:50.319 --> 00:37:51.920 going back to the beginning of this video, 00:37:52.020 --> 00:37:52.393 want 00:37:52.393 --> 00:37:52.631 man. 00:37:53.052 --> 00:37:54.973 I don't want anybody to be 00:37:55.033 --> 00:37:57.085 able to say something that 00:37:57.265 --> 00:37:58.246 it really wasn't. 00:37:58.445 --> 00:37:59.216 police 00:37:59.471 --> 00:38:00.962 are not all bad. 00:38:00.982 --> 00:38:04.331 The family court system is not all bad. 00:38:04.889 --> 00:38:07.089 And even though I did hit 00:38:07.150 --> 00:38:08.630 certain points that stated 00:38:09.310 --> 00:38:11.631 that I am kind of for the 00:38:11.691 --> 00:38:13.571 system so long as it's needed, 00:38:14.045 --> 00:38:15.425 I do firmly believe that 00:38:15.945 --> 00:38:16.946 within the system 00:38:18.063 --> 00:38:20.345 things can be changed so 00:38:20.405 --> 00:38:22.266 that way families aren't 00:38:22.627 --> 00:38:24.328 being just ripped apart 00:38:24.482 --> 00:38:26.118 parents and children 00:38:26.559 --> 00:38:28.335 all have the fair 00:38:28.493 --> 00:38:30.975 trial of being a family 00:38:31.135 --> 00:38:32.216 even if they are separate 00:38:32.512 --> 00:38:35.187 so yeah with that said 00:38:35.352 --> 00:38:36.313 Things are getting wild. 00:38:37.413 --> 00:38:39.455 We're still holding on, holding strong. 00:38:40.065 --> 00:38:41.406 If you have the opportunity 00:38:41.426 --> 00:38:42.767 to check out that GoFundMe 00:38:42.807 --> 00:38:45.389 and you have the ability to donate that, 00:38:46.129 --> 00:38:47.450 I appreciate y'all so much. 00:38:47.490 --> 00:38:50.752 That really helps both me, my children, 00:38:51.092 --> 00:38:51.713 my family. 00:38:51.952 --> 00:38:53.293 We put a lot into this so far. 00:38:54.124 --> 00:38:57.025 A lot has gone into this, both monetarily, 00:38:57.281 --> 00:39:00.802 just time-wise, the team behind this all, 00:39:01.343 --> 00:39:03.643 they're amazing people and I cannot, 00:39:04.003 --> 00:39:04.744 I could not, 00:39:05.424 --> 00:39:06.924 I would not be able to do all 00:39:06.964 --> 00:39:09.045 of this without them and 00:39:09.085 --> 00:39:11.246 without my community backing, not just me, 00:39:11.286 --> 00:39:11.946 but my kids. 00:39:12.806 --> 00:39:14.447 Some of these people have 00:39:14.687 --> 00:39:15.847 their own kids that go to 00:39:15.887 --> 00:39:18.588 school with my kids and they would be, 00:39:18.608 --> 00:39:19.348 they already know some of 00:39:19.368 --> 00:39:20.769 their kids would be devastated 00:39:21.599 --> 00:39:22.760 If their friend gets taken 00:39:22.800 --> 00:39:25.318 away without a real reason, you know, 00:39:25.698 --> 00:39:27.698 other than someone making 00:39:27.758 --> 00:39:29.420 that choice for them and it 00:39:29.460 --> 00:39:31.024 didn't need to be that way. 00:39:31.084 --> 00:39:32.084 So my name is Dell. 00:39:33.085 --> 00:39:34.286 I am Dell for dads. 00:39:34.686 --> 00:39:36.388 And I appreciate you guys 00:39:36.408 --> 00:39:38.429 for taking the time to listen, watch, 00:39:38.769 --> 00:39:39.690 depending on however you 00:39:39.730 --> 00:39:42.132 want to do this and sharing 00:39:42.752 --> 00:39:43.393 and following. 00:39:44.093 --> 00:39:44.874 We're not done. 00:39:45.034 --> 00:39:46.175 We're not going to be done. 00:39:47.054 --> 00:39:48.555 This is just the tip of the iceberg. 00:39:48.671 --> 00:39:51.451 if you know anybody that is struggling, 00:39:51.780 --> 00:39:52.720 please reach out to me. 00:39:53.092 --> 00:39:55.192 My email should be in the description. 00:39:56.073 --> 00:39:58.114 If you need to get a hold of 00:39:58.134 --> 00:40:00.014 me on Facebook, send me a message. 00:40:00.855 --> 00:40:01.515 Send me a message. 00:40:02.135 --> 00:40:03.636 My name is Aaron Dell Robinson. 00:40:03.816 --> 00:40:04.696 People call me Dell, 00:40:05.437 --> 00:40:06.877 but you're more than welcome to reach out, 00:40:06.977 --> 00:40:07.338 please. 00:40:07.678 --> 00:40:08.958 I will try to help as much 00:40:08.998 --> 00:40:09.959 as I possibly can, 00:40:10.419 --> 00:40:11.159 or at least point you in 00:40:11.179 --> 00:40:11.999 the right direction of 00:40:12.020 --> 00:40:12.960 someone that can help you. 00:40:13.304 --> 00:40:14.285 You're not alone in this, 00:40:15.106 --> 00:40:17.129 and we are making our way 00:40:17.169 --> 00:40:18.010 to make this right. 00:40:19.151 --> 00:40:20.793 I cannot thank you enough. 00:40:21.734 --> 00:40:23.676 I hope you all have a greatest night, 00:40:24.317 --> 00:40:24.658 morning, 00:40:25.118 --> 00:40:26.260 whatever time you're watching this. 00:40:27.741 --> 00:40:28.042 Be well.