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Our first scripture reading today comes from

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Paul's letter to the Galatians, chapter 5, verses

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22 to 23. Let us listen to and for the word of

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the Lord. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,

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peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness,

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gentleness, and self -control. There is no law

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against such things. And our second scripture

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comes from the Gospel of John, chapter 15. Jesus

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says, As the Father has loved me, so I have loved

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you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments,

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you will abide in my love, just as I have kept

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my Father's commandments and abide in his love.

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I've said these things to you so that my joy

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may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

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This is my commandment, that you love one another

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as I have loved you. No one has greater love

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than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends.

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You are my friends. You do what I command you.

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I do not call you servants any longer, because

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the servant does not know what the master is

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doing. But I have called you friends, because

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I have made known to you everything that I have

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heard from my Father. You did not choose me,

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but I chose you, and I appointed you to go and

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bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the

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Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.

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I am giving you these commands so that you may

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love one another. Friends, this is the word of

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God for the people of God. Thanks be to God.

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Let us pray. O come, Holy Spirit, come. Breathe

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upon us this day so that your word may bear fruit

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in our hearts and in our lives. In Christ's name

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we pray. Amen. So as John Daniel mentioned to

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the children, this week we begin our summer series

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on the fruit of the Spirit. Spoiler alert, that

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first reading you just heard in Galatians 5,

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you'll get to hear that every Sunday for about

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the next eight weeks. We figured if the children's

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choir who did their spring programming on Fruit

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of the Spirit, if they could memorize all of

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them, then I am very confident the rest of us

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can too by the end of the summer. So Paul writes

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those Fruits of the Spirit to the church in Galatia

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in the context of them being swayed by false

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teaching and disagreeing with one another about

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how they should live. Paul expresses his frustration

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because many of them are disconnecting from God's

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way of life. And as a result, they're accepting

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or rejecting one another based on human traditions

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and social status instead of sharing and experiencing

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God's gracious love for each other. So I think

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about the fruit of the Spirit as their roadmap,

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almost, to get themselves back on track. That

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they will know that they are following the path

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of Christ when they see this fruit in their lives

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and in their community. And just like them, we

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know that as the Spirit changes our hearts, that

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our behavior also changes, leading us to bear

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fruit. So that is what we'll be exploring all

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summer. And this morning, the first fruit that

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we will look at is love. Now it makes sense that

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love is first, because it has to be present for

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all of the other fruits to grow. And any sign

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of those fruits without love, or what that famous

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passage in 1 Corinthians that we've probably

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all heard, would call a clanging gong or a crashing

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cymbal. That no true fruit of the Spirit can

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flourish without love at the core. However, I

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must admit that preaching on love feels a little

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intimidating because, I mean, if we had to sum

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up, you know, the entire Bible, all of Christianity

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in one word, I would probably say love. So how

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in the world do you fit it into one sermon? And

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I realize that I can't, and so for all of our

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sakes, I'm focusing on just one of the many scripture

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passages about love. And of all of the ones that

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I could have chosen for today, I kept coming

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back to Jesus' words in the Gospel of John. If

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you were here a few weeks ago, this text may

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have sounded familiar. Alan preached not very

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long ago on John 13, which is where Jesus first

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introduces the command to his disciples to love

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one another as I have loved you, that he repeats

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again here in chapter 15. This time, Jesus brings

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up this command to love following a metaphor

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about the vine and the branches. which seemed

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appropriate as we begin our Fruit of the Spirit

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series. Earlier it says, I am the vine and you

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are the branches. Those who abide in me and I

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in them will bear much fruit. That word abide

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has always stood out to me. In fact, on my bulletin

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board in my office, right above my computer,

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the Greek word for abide is written there, along

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with several of its meanings. Abide with me.

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Stay with me. Dwell with me. Remain with me.

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Endure with me. This word implies an intimate

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relationship of time and energy invested. The

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reality is that when you're around people for

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significant periods of time, especially when

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you abide or dwell with them, for better or for

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worse, you start to rub off on each other. I

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remember at some point, I was home from college,

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and I was at a coffee shop with a close friend

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who had known me for a long time. And as we were

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sipping our coffees and catching up, she turned

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to me and she said, you always shake your drink

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around before you drink it. She's like, do you

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know why you do that? And I was like, I have

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no idea. I didn't even realize that I was doing

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it. And then within a week of that conversation,

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I was sitting with my family around the table

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for dinner. And right as we were about to eat,

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I noticed that my mom, my dad, and my brother

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all picked up their drink glasses and shook them

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around before drinking them. And I couldn't help

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but laugh, apparently being around my family.

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had managed to deeply affect my everyday behaviors

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without me even noticing that it was happening.

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Jesus gives instructions to his disciples for

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how they come to understand the kind of self

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-giving love that he has for them, which is abide

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in my love. It's like he's saying, be present

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with me. Spend time with me. Allow my ways to

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influence you. And that doesn't happen without

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long -term relationship. Jesus challenges us

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to abide in his love, meaning that we have to

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sit with that love long enough to let that love

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wash over us, to let it sink in and to change

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our being. The company that we keep shapes who

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we are. Drawing closer to God changes us. The

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more time that we abide with God, the more hopefully

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we take on God's characteristics as our own,

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cultivating that spirit of love that God has

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for us, and then acting in the same way towards

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others. And that doesn't happen overnight. To

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love people is to spend time with them, to share

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life with them. And the more we invest in others,

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the more we allow ourselves to be affected by

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them. And what better example of this than friendship?

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I've probably quoted Frederick Buechner almost

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every time that I've preached, but I'm doing

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it again. I'm going to do it again. That in his

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book, Whistling in the Dark, Frederick Buechner

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says, friends are people you make part of your

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life just because you feel like it. But there

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are lots of other ways people get to be part

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of each other's lives, like being related to

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each other, living near each other, sharing some

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special passion with each other. But though all

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or any of those may be involved in a friendship,

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they are secondary to it. Basically, your friends

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are not your friends for any particular reason.

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The job you do, the family you have, the way

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you vote, the major achievements and blunders

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in your life, your religious convictions or lack

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of them, are all somehow set off to one side

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when you get together. You meet with a clean

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slate every time, and you meet on equal terms.

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Anything may come of it, or nothing may, but

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that doesn't matter either. Only the meeting

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matters. When we talk about love, I don't think

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we talk about the powerful love of friendship

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enough. Although Rod Ray did this morning in

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Sunday school, that was a nice... tie in. I think

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that is another reason why I like this passage

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in John so much. To hear Jesus change his relationship

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with his disciples, from servant and master,

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even from teacher and student, to friends, is

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an extraordinary thing. That this kind of love

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that Jesus exemplifies changes everything. A

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servant would be obligated to support a master

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through difficult times. But a friend would do

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it freely, out of mutual commitment and affection.

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A friend is someone we choose to let into our

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lives. Someone we choose to abide and spend time

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with. Someone who will potentially rub off on

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us. And then to think about how we treat our

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friends. That we look out for their best interests.

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We give them the benefit of the doubt. We can

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overlook their faults. And we wish what's best

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for them. Jesus does the same for his followers.

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Love one another as I have loved you, he says.

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I don't think it's a coincidence that Jesus calls

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them friends at the end of his life, after they

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have spent a lot of time with one another. This

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abiding love that lasts takes time and investment

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in repeated showing up and being present for

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one another. It's the kind of love that will

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put your own needs aside for the sake of someone

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else. The kind of love that feels the pain of

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another as if it's your own. And Christ loves

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us enough to do that for us. And then challenges

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us to do the same for others. Now that feels

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like a high bar. It's one thing to love the people

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that we have chosen to be our friends, to love

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them like that. But it's quite another to hear

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Jesus' challenge for us to love everyone in that

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way. And if it were only up to us to choose Jesus,

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to abide in him and obey his commandments, to

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always love as he loves. And we are setting ourselves

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up for failure. And so thanks be to God that

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Christ reminds us that he has chosen us first.

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That he has already made the first move. That

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love does not come from our own will. It comes

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because Jesus chooses us. and enables the Spirit

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to move us and to continue what he started. When

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Jesus commands us to be friends with one another,

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it doesn't necessarily mean that we have to always

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like each other all the time. But he says whether

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we feel like it or not, Jesus commands us And

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shows us how to look out for each other's good.

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To see each other as beloved children of God.

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With all of our imperfections and annoying habits.

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Just as Jesus did for us. And it starts here.

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It starts here with our church family. This is

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the perfect Sunday, actually, for a little bit

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of practice because we are worshiping together

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all as one for this one service. And soon each

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person will walk up front to receive communion.

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So I invite you, as you look around the church,

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you will probably see people that you know and

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that you like. Maybe you'll see people you know

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and maybe don't like all that much. And then

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you'll see people that you probably don't know

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at all. It is a big church. And we've said before

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that a church should be like a family, and I

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think that's true. But today I want you to shift

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your focus just a little and imagine that each

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person you see is your friend. Maybe commit to

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spending more time with somebody that you don't

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already know and like, because in order to be

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friends with someone, you have to be around them

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first. And imagine enacting Jesus' command to

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look out for their well -being, to wish what's

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best for them, and to share the ups and downs

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of life with them. It's those little, repeated,

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conscious actions over and over that make that

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abiding love bloom. The more we put this into

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practice, the more we strive to love one another

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as Jesus loved us, the more we bear that fruit

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of love that will last. May it be so. Amen.
