You've made it through some of the hardest times
in your life. You didn't think you could. And
what kind of a person do you want to start being
in the future? What motivates you? What inspires
you? Do a little bit of shadow work. Shadow work
is really important to kind of dig deep and see
things you could change about yourself, things
that you love about yourself, all of the above.
Welcome back to Keep It Good. I'm your host Carly.
And I'm your host Emily. Today we are going to
be playing 21 Questions. Not the 50 cent version.
We looked into that. It was a little vulgar.
Yeah, a little inappropriate and I don't want
to answer those questions in front of my mother
-in -law or my own mother. So we're gonna play
our own version. You'll get to know us a little
bit and then maybe even learn a little bit more
about yourself in the end. I think it's gonna
be fun. I think so too. Yeah, and I don't know
what Emily wrote or vice versa or these are kind
of off the cuff. So off the cuff for sure. Let's
see. Okay. All right. So starting off, what did
you want to be when you grew up? So when I was
little, little, little, I wanted to be a nurse.
And then I realized like how much bodily fluid
things I would have to do. And I said, no, thank
you. And then I wanted to be a detective. Oh,
I wanted to like, yeah, solve crimes, all that
fun stuff. But, you know, how the beauty industry
kind of took me in in middle school and here
I am. So left field, way left fields. Very, very
good. What about you? What did you want to be?
I wanted to be in like musical theater or acting
or anything like that. I used to do these educational
movies when I was little growing up. My mom would
drop me off the studio and I'd do these videos
about like Miss Manners or how I learned not
to be bullied. And I grew up at the Warner doing
musical theater. I did, I don't even know, countless
plays and I was determined like that was, that
was what I wanted to do. You know, I didn't end
up that way, but yeah, life had a different plan.
That's the thing. It does though, right? Yeah.
Okay. What's, what's your guilty pleasure TV
show? or movie, like what's the guilty pleasure
that you like to watch? I love all things Bravo.
I love The Housewives, Vanderpump Rules, Summer
House. I mean, I know so many people are like,
oh, I love The Pit. I love Grey's Anatomy. And
I'm like, yeah, no, I just lived The Pit. And
I don't want to be in The Pit anymore. I want
to be in Beverly Hills. I want out of the pit,
please. Yeah, I want to be out of the pit and
into these like, you know, just crazy lives of
these women. But yeah, what about you? What is
your guilty pleasure? TV? I like crime. I like
crime series. I like Dateline and Law and Order.
And maybe that goes back to that whole childhood
dream, which is kind of weird. Yeah, I'm one
of those crime junkies. So you're living out
your childhood dream vicariously through TV?
Yeah, I guess. I feel like, I don't know, I know
that it's big and a lot of people like it, but
it is kind of weird to like share that, like
murders and you know, it's, I don't know. I think
it's the whodunit part that I like, you know,
in some of these things. It's like, you don't
know. I don't know, the suspense maybe, or that
I'm nosy. I used to watch a lot of Snapped. Do
you remember that show? Yeah. Oh, yeah. That
one. Do I remember it? Come on. I've seen every
single episode. I've seen a lot. Sometimes I'm
like, oh, my God. I already saw this one. All
right. I guess that's fine. Nancy did it with
the club. Come on, Nancy. Get it together. No,
I know. I could definitely get down in the crime
scene, too. Those are my favorite movies. What
is that? Knives Out. and the onion, something
about an onion. Yeah, I didn't like that one.
I just love when it's like everyone could be
a suspect. Yeah, that's like Clue. Like that
was one of my favorite games. That was one of
my favorite games. Yeah. So it's a lot like White
Lotus. I love White Lotus too. Yeah. I'm a mix
between like drama and mystery. I love it. Yeah,
I hear you. It's my favorite. Let's see. What
was a failure that you're now grateful for? Oh
gosh. This is hard. This is a hard one. I think
I had a relationship before my husband that definitely
went south and failed, unfortunately. For us
at the time, it was a really hard thing to go
through, but it happened for a reason. And, you
know, there was a house involved and all these
things, and it was like a lot to go through with
the Trying to figure out all the other stuff
that we had like assets and things We weren't
married. But if that didn't happen Then I wouldn't
have been with my husband who is my person, you
know That would probably be something that I'm
very very grateful for to happen even though
it seemed hard at the time, you know, yeah Well,
that would be mine, I guess. That's a hard one.
That's a lot of self -reflection I would maybe
need a minute on that one Yeah, mine is pretty
similar. I mean I had a I had a goal to get out
to California, New York and Every time I would
go to New York something would happen. It would
make me come home. I tried moving to Boston for
a week Literally, I lasted a week and it was
just like what could go wrong went wrong You
know, it was probably the worst the worst weekend
of my life and I mean, down to a rat running
across my foot. And I was like, Steve, come pick
me up. You know, I got in tears in Boston. And
then, you know, California never worked out.
And I was so devastated at the moment. But if
I had moved out there, same, I would not be,
I mean, who knows, maybe we could have made it
work long distance, but I don't think so, in
reality. And I wouldn't be with my husband and
I wouldn't have my two boys, you know, so. Life
has different plans and you just have to know
that like whatever is meant for you is gonna
happen for your higher - You're young, that's
hard to see, right? You're like, oh, this is
so hard right now, what are we gonna do? And
it's all for the greater good. It just might
take a little bit to see it. Yeah, when I was
like 17, 18, I was like, no, I'm gonna be a star.
I have my Oscar speech. I already know what I'm
gonna say. Okay, are you a cat or a dog person?
Oh, I love my cat, Bella, but I also loved Abby,
my little cocker spaniel who we had to put down.
That's a hard one. Yeah, it's a hard one. If
I had to choose, I would choose a cat only because
they're so independent and I love that like you
have to Really work for their affection. They're
not just like, you know easily Cuddly or it really
makes you kind of like appreciate their cuddles
because you're like I am the chosen one You know,
they they love me. They trust me and they can
use the litter box. They can feed themselves
like Unless you're doing like wet food then it's
kind of whatever but yeah dogs. It's a lot. It's
a lot of work. It is Hmm. How about you? I think
I honestly, I would say both too. I'm not really
team cat or team dog, which probably makes me
a bad person. You know how they say like, if
you don't like dogs, like you're not like nice
at all. But I think I would have to pick a cat
too. And same thing just because our schedules
are crazy. Like I would need someone to take
care of the dog. Yeah, it's a lot. I don't know
if that's necessarily fair. But yeah, I'm going
to say I'm going to say cat also. Yeah, cat.
Cats are pretty cool. Yeah. Let's see. What's
your favorite way? Okay, so if you had the ideal
Sunday, right, what would it look like for you?
Honestly, because I work Saturdays a lot. Sunday
is like my first day of the weekend, and I just
want to like cook and clean and be chill. I would
exercise in the morning. We go to church, you
know, some Sundays too, but I just want to cook
and clean. Did I hear that right? I know. What
is wrong with you? I know. We're talking about
your typical Sunday, like your ideal. No, I know.
Ideal fantasy Sunday. I mean, that would be on
a beach. Like if we're, but I don't know. Yeah.
I like to feel set up for the week. So if I can
slowly do all those things on a Sunday and just
feel like I'm organized and prepared for the
next week ahead. That feels so good to me. I
love my Sundays or we don't have anything to
do. Ugh, all right. I know, that sounds weird,
I guess. I'm not hanging out with you on Sunday.
I know. I know, it sounds bad now. Okay, what's
yours? What's yours? I mean, I would go nuts
with a huge egg sandwich and then take like a
three -hour nap, but hear me out. It's raining.
Okay. I'm going to set the mood, okay? So my
ideal Sunday is it's raining. I have a little
golf playing on the background. To put your right
to sleep. Yeah, it's the best to take a nap.
I used to do tennis, but then you would hear
like, ugh. And you're like, what? I had a lot
of weird dreams, but golf, you have that subtle
clapping in the background. Birds chirping. Birds
chirping. Yeah. The commentators are so like,
oh. Look at him coming up onto the fourth green.
They do kind of whisper. Yeah, it's a really
good backdrop. If you've never done it, I suggest
it. Plus the eggs are going to knock you out.
Exactly. My egg sandwich. I would probably do
a three egg sandwich so I can get a solid three
hours of sleep in. And then what would I do after
that? I don't know. I'd just kind of do what
feels whatever I wanted to do. That would be
ideal, right? Like set schedule, just like I
wake up. Oh, I want to like. you know, paint
my toenails. Okay, let's do that, you know. Yeah,
that would be ideal. Perfect. So funny. We're
so different. Okay, number six. Are you like,
do you want, do you feel best dressed up or comfy?
What's like, what's your go -to? Are you dressing
up, getting dolled up for the day, or are you
in comfy clothes? Well, my go -to is comfy. I
mean, if I'm not in yoga pants. Whose is it,
I guess? Yeah, I'm in neither yoga pants or scrubs,
but I... feel the best when I put in a little
effort and I have that time to really like do
my hair and look you know a little less shabby
but I mean my go -to is definitely comfy over
dressy. Yeah. How about you? I'm totally the
same as you. I definitely feel better when I'm
done up and put some effort that's a perfect
way of saying it but I would say I'd rather choose
comfy. Yeah. With a nice cozy blanket. Yeah,
that's the vibe after 2020 I mean, I think we
can all agree on that. I think that's the vibe
after like 30, you know I'm all set with you
know, all of it Yeah All right. Number seven.
What's the scariest thing you've ever done? Well
Not cooked and cleaned on a Sunday Well, I don't
like to fly so I would say that's a fear and
I've done that many a time No, but the scariest
thing I've ever done would probably be opening
up my salon Yeah, taking that leap of faith.
I was very young and So far so good, but it was
very scary at the time. I was I was young and
naive so It was scary like anything right? Yeah
now looking back. I'm like, well, I was really
scary. I should have been way more scared but
at the right time when you didn't really think
twice. Yes, that's true. Yeah, that would probably
be my scariest thing. How about you? Mine would
be, well, you were there when you shaved my head.
Oh, yes. That was a little bit outside my comfort
zone. I did it for St. Baldrick's fundraiser.
And looking back, I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
I used to be a school nurse. and we lost a little
student to a brain tumor and we raised money
in honor of him. So, I mean, it wasn't just like
I went, you know, Emily shaved my head, you know.
No, I did it for a good cause, but let me tell
you, I was a little scared. More so just like
what would my husband think, you know? Poor guy,
like he's got to look at me and pretend like
he's attracted to me, but. You looked amazing.
You looked so good with short hair. All right.
You did though. It is scary. I mean, how many
people would do that, you know? So, yeah, that
was scary. It was awesome. It was really an incredible
experience because I learned a lot about myself
and about others and just perceptions of people
took me, you know, just it was an eye -opening
experience and I wouldn't I don't regret it in
any means, but yeah, that was probably the scariest
thing. What do you got? Karaoke song. What's
your go -to? Oh, God. You're singing for the
masses. What are you going to sing? Well, you
know, I always thought that, like, I usually
was just like, yeah, Sheryl Crow, anything Sheryl
Crow, I'm going to fucking do. Listening back
and looking back at like videos. No, I'm never
choosing Sheryl Crow again She is incredible,
but I do not do the songs justice Do not of us
do the songs justice. I mean, yeah, it's just
like cringe -worthy like No, I I'm not a Sheryl
Crow. That's not my like range I suppose I have
to find it but Don't know I feel like my next
song that I do would probably be What is it like
something Brooks or? Something like I'm a bitch.
I'm a lover I'm a child. I'm a mother. Oh, yeah,
that's a good one. I might try that one next.
I don't know Oh my god, we're gonna have to look
that up because that's gonna bother me now who
sings it such a great song It's like it's like
my anthem. How do I not know? Who sings that?
Well, we're gonna have to hit up a karaoke. Meredith
Brooks? Is that it? Oh, maybe. That sounds right.
Did we go to high school with her? Why Meredith
Brooks? I'm dying. Oh my god, we will look it
up. Get back to everybody about that one. My
karaoke song would probably be the Dixie Jix.
I love the chicks, whatever they're called now.
But goodbye Earl. You know that one? Oh yeah,
that's a good one. I've heard you do that a few
times actually. One of our other friends and
I, we usually are a duo and that's our jam. Oh
I did look it up and it is Meredith Brooks. We
didn't go to high school with her. No. No. Alright,
so the next time we're out you're you're doing
the chicks and I'm doing the bitch I love it.
That's that's that's a plan All right. What about
you? Would you rather have the ability to fly
or be invisible? I'm gonna say I just told you
I don't like to fly. I do not want to be in the
sky. Oh Yeah, I'm not interested in that like
at all. Like I'll never be jumping out of a plane.
That's my fear. So I'm gonna have to stay invisible.
Visible, yeah? And you know what? I don't think
that would be that bad. I want to be creepy.
I'm not gonna be invisible and like, creeping
on people in the bathroom or something. You know?
But I'm a little nosy, so maybe that'd be good.
I'd be like, I'm nosy. You know, to like, see
what people are saying. Know if I want to know
what people are saying about me. Yeah. Well again,
I don't want to fly so I have to pick the other
Alright, so you then you're kind of stuck. Yeah,
what about you? I mean, I would fly like a bird.
I I would just be like soaring gotta go to stop
and shop. Bye boom flying I would love it. I
I don't know if you think about it like this,
like when you're flying in an airplane You can't
fly right? So you're like, yeah you are Really
putting your trust in this huge machine in the
sky, but if you can fly you have more control
I think you'd like it. Maybe yeah, I want to
be like maybe if I were to fly just like 15 feet
high I want to be close to the ground. I'm gonna
be a low sore You know if that's yeah, you'd
be like a butterfly. Maybe maybe yeah, just like
a little up a little down Yeah, that's good.
So I don't know. Maybe I would have to change
my answer Okay, number 10, how do you stay motivated
when things get tough? Oh, yeah, that's a hard
one. Motivated when things get tough. Well, I
mean, life is very rarely easy, you know, like,
there's always something to be kind of working
through, but I just kind of have. Like I said
in that manifestation episode I have that trust
that like even if it's shitty times it's for
a reason and it's leading me or you know on a
better path or You know, I just feel like things
happen for a reason like this had to happen so
that this happens and then I meet this person
and then this door opens or You know, I don't
know. That's just kind of what motivates me is
like, okay, I trust that this is for my highest
good, one way or another, and I can get through
it, and I will, you know? What about you? I mean,
similar, I guess. I try to stay as grounded as
I can, you know? But yeah, I look for, I love
podcasts, so I listen to a lot of inspirational.
You know self -help podcasts too, and I love
that because it just kind of brings you back
down It's just you know what you're saying, but
you're good about doing it for yourself. I'm
still in that learning phase You know so by having
someone kind of tell me what to do by listening
to the podcast. That's really helpful You know
to be grateful and try not to see the the bad
in it all you know maybe this is for Something
better always it's always something better around
the corner. Yeah I have some books too that are
great, you know, with stuff like that and yeah,
I would say that it's helpful for me. So number
11. What are some non -negotiables when it comes
to self -care? My workouts at this point are
a non -negotiable. Like mom's cup needs to be
filled for sure. I always say my cup's overflowing.
I'm so, you know, everything's great and butterflies
and sparkles and that's just kind of who I am
for the most part. I try not to be negative at
all. But I would say to fill my cup and to stay,
you know, non -negotiable for me would be my
workouts, sleep, my skincare. Yeah, I'm a little
crazy about those three things I would say. Yeah,
I mean that makes sense. Mine, definitely sleep.
If I don't sleep, Oh my God, I'm not, I'm no
good for anyone. Let's see, non -negotiables
for self care. I gotta be outside. I gotta be
outside, sleep. And really, I mean, like I said,
in previous episodes, I really started taking
the time to pause and like slow down a bit. And
I'm sorry, but I'm not ever gonna go back to
that crazy. Overworked overstressed mom that
I was just a few years ago. Like I like I like
where I'm at now Yeah, I have prioritized balance
and boundaries and I'm sticking with it. So yeah,
my boundaries are I Definitely self -care. Yeah,
I've learned to say no and be okay with it, you
know, yeah, yeah definitely This is a fun one.
What's your get ready soundtrack? What are you
listening to if you're going out? Oh gosh. I
mean, I'm going to Woodstock. I love, I don't
know, Creedence Clearwater, but then I also like
Meredith Brooks and I'm a bitch and all these
things. So I'm kind of all over the place when
I think about it. I could get ready to anything,
I guess. But yeah, my go -to is usually 70s.
I'm a little hippy -dippy girl. It just makes
me feel so good. I don't know. That's the whole
point, right? Yeah. Well, mine's a little different.
Are you listening to a crime podcast? No. I mean,
I have, don't judge. No, I'm just kidding. Mine
would be like 2000s hip hop rap, 90s rap, Nelly
speaking at 50 set. Like, you know, things that
I guess... when like coming of age for me like
that time frame it's like that sort of music
that's I want to listen to to get myself hyped
up I could get in on that yeah yeah yeah I mean
I could go to Woodstock too that sounds great
but yeah if I'm gonna put something on while
I'm getting ready it is 100 % early 2000s hip
-hop I love that. It's like we're getting ready
for high school, you know? Yeah, I mean, maybe
that's what it is. It's nostalgic. I don't I
don't even know. But it really is what I go to.
I remember getting ready for like school dances
and we're listening to like a shanty and yeah.
Oh, yeah. All the things. No, that's cool. I
could get in with that. Yeah, right. Oh, I got
a good one. Who is your hall pass? Oh, OK. I'm
going to say my hall pass is Theo James. Do you
know who that is? No, who is that? You do though.
Yeah, he was, I think he's been in a bunch of
movies, but just things I haven't really seen.
But he was in season two of White Lotus. He was
the husband who was like, Oh, I do know him.
Yes. Yes. He's in The Gentleman, right? Yes.
Oh, God. The other thing I would say that you
would know him from. Yeah. He's just, he's just
cute. I like him. I forgot all about him. I guess
I'm in my hall pass. Who's your hall pass? Well,
shit, now I kind of want him. Yeah. Shit, I can't
even remember his name right now. I know one
of them. Do you want me to tell? Wait, how can
I? Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed. I forgot my
hall pass? No. Shit, he was Sexiest Man Alive.
He's so funny. He's in, like... Paul Rudd. Yes,
very. Thank you. All right. Oh, my God. I love
him. Yes. So I just anyone who can make me laugh
immediately. You're like, you're you're in that.
It's not what I meant. Hey, you said it on me.
Yeah. Oh, my gosh. Too good. All right. Number
14. What mission drives you every day? Like,
what do you have a personal purpose? What drives
you every day? Probably, I mean, I try and teach
my kids, like, you get what you put out, right?
And I just try and help as many people as I can
on a daily basis, whether it's at work or, I
don't know, it's just I want to leave people
happier than when I saw them, you know? Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah, mine's, I mean, very similar, just
trying to be, I think, authentic for my kids.
Just teach them, you know, at the stage we're
at right now, it's, I think, going to be kind
of about our kiddos. Yeah. Oh, yeah. You know,
just to teach them and to show up to be the person
that you are, as authentic as you can be. Be
kind and, yeah, try and be a good person to be
a role model for them, I guess. To teach them
that like you are incredible just the way that
you are you don't have to change you don't have
to be Anything you're not be yourself be your
crazy wild imperfect self and Fully love it.
You know, that's a good one. Let's see any advice
you would give your younger self I would say
maybe just stay out of other people's drama.
That's not yours Like, stay in your lane. There's
no, like, talking shit or whatever. Like, you
can help and guide people and give them advice
if they're looking for it, but stay in your lane.
No one else's drama is yours and don't let it
be. Yeah, don't own it. Yeah. That's a good one.
What about you? Mine would be... Oh, sweet girl.
I would look at my younger self and just say
like brace yourself. You're gonna be going through
some shit, but You are stronger than you think
braver than you think and Yeah, I mean better
days are ahead just keep working hard keep doing
you and The right ones will find you, you know
Yeah, that's enough that's awesome. Do you have
an unusual talent? You got anything weird? I
have a few. I am a quite unusual person. If I
had to pick one that many probably wouldn't guess,
maybe people who know me, I'm a pretty bad ass
jump roper. That you are. I was on a jump rope
team and we were pretty fantastic. We were on
ESPN like six times. We won nationals, we won
worlds, but... Yeah, you give me a jump rope
and I'll show you some really cool tricks. It
really is incredible. It really is incredible.
Well, I really have nothing. I'm nowhere near
that. I don't have like, I can't, I can't touch
my nose and my tongue. Like I can't do anything
cool. I can't roll my Rs. Like I got nothing.
Um, I snort when I laugh, which I don't think
anyone thinks of the talent. That's like a flaw.
That's a flaw in the system. I'm sure Matt loves
it. No, well, he probably begged to differ, but
I'm sure you have some talents. I don't know.
I can't think of. That sounds so bad. Like, I
don't know. I don't think I have any. We're going
to have to investigate that because I don't like
the sound of that. I know, but unusual is like
kind of different, right? Like, I don't know.
I can't think. Maybe this possible deviated septum
I have that makes me snort. Can you tie a cherry
thing with your tongue? Yes, I can. Well, there
you go. We found your unusual tongue. I can.
I can do that. There you go. Oh, how did I know?
That's so weird. How did I know that, actually?
I'm like, you must have known that. That's so
funny. Yes, I can. That's unusual. I don't know.
Can other people do it? Maybe not. Let's see.
Are you a sweet or savory type of gal? Savory.
Oh, me too. Savory, savory. I like sweets, but
no. Yeah, if I had to pick one, it would definitely
be. Yeah, savory all day. Savory all day. Yeah.
This is a hard one. Number 18 what kind of legacy
do you wish to leave? Oh Well, you know it kind
of goes back to One of my previous answers like
I just hope when people think of me they just
think like You know she she was magic she was
kind and She always made me feel better when
I saw her, you know, like I just, I hate seeing
people sad. I just, I just want to make everybody
happy. I don't know. And I hope that they just
believe in like positivity and the power of the
mind and like anything you're going through,
you could fucking get through, you know, and
I hope that when I'm not here anymore, people
kind of look up at the sky and be like, you know,
she made me believe and you know. Yeah, just
magic. I hope that my legacy is magic, I guess.
I don't know. What about you? That's cool. That's
what I would think of you, like, for sure. That's
so good. I think mine's somewhat similar. You
just want to hope that you paved a path for people
to choose positivity and choose kindness and,
you know, show them the way, kind of. Yeah. I
don't know if I have your magic powers there,
babe, but... You're yeah, you know You just don't
know it yet. It's like a got to think about that
for a couple minutes. I know I know it's a hard
one That's what I mean. It's it's a good one
to think about and kind of live up to every day
I mean your little differences every day really
do add up. Maybe you realize that or not like
you know, I Never want to be the person that's
like, ah, she was such a bitch, you know, or
like You know so like your actions speak everything
about you even to the the stranger at Dunkin
Donuts just everything has an effect so Just
always choose kindness choose how you want to
be treated and you can't go wrong. You know,
that's true Lighter note. Yeah, what's your favorite
movie? I mean, I think my all -time favorite
that I've left since I was a little girl would
be Forrest Gump Yeah, I love that's me. I cry
every freaking time. I Just I just love it. It's
all the feels. I don't even know. It's my favorite.
Yeah, it's a good story. I love it Yeah, good
story. Good lesson. That's a classic. Yeah. Yeah,
what about you? Huh? Well, I think my all -time
favorite would be Beetlejuice. I mean even as
a little kid that is so you It was just so ahead
of its time, the imagination. I feel like anything
Tim Burton does is just so out of left field.
What is going on in his mind? Just to create
that whole story and outline costumes and everything,
it was just, I was obsessed with it at a very
young age. They probably perked your theatrical
side. Maybe. Got you going there. Yeah, it was
just I don't know. I was a weird child though.
I mean I mean, I'm still very weird. So I don't
know that I would have my brother read me like
scary stories to tell at night as my bedtime
story and I'm like off to bed You know, yeah,
I just loved what that was very creative. Yeah
Okay, next one. Oh, we're almost done here question
number 20 You want to go on a hike or a beach
walk? That is like, do I want my right hand or
my left hand? I know. I would probably say beach
because I go on a hike very, very often. So I
would, I would definitely go to the beach by
the chance. I mean, you have the water, the sand,
seagulls, you have the sunset. I mean, I know
you can't go wrong. Yeah, that's hard. I, I would
pick beach for sure. I am definitely a beach
person, but I wish I was more of a hike person.
Like, two, like, I just don't really hike. I
think I'd love it, but I'm gonna have to go with
beach on this one. Yeah, same. Thousand percent.
Alright, number 21. Are you ready? Yeah, last
question. If listeners take one thing away from
today's episode, what would you like it to be?
I think... Today, you know, we're doing some
self -reflection here and even if you think maybe
life has been hard on you and you answer some
of these questions, some are silly, some are
more deep, I think you realize that there's a
lot of positive things in your life and maybe
you've come out of things a little differently
than you thought you would. But I think the self
-reflective ones, to me, were harder. And if
I could sit with those a little longer, my answers
would maybe be different. So maybe take some
of those questions with you and get to know yourself.
I've never ever Given myself any of these questions
or have ever been asked them before You know,
yeah It's like reflection if you do journal or
anything like that. These would be some of these
would be great questions Like yeah, what kind
of legacy do you wish to leave? That's that's
crazy. That takes a little bit of digging deep
No, same. I hope that today's listeners just
kind of I mean, like you said, take these some
of the hard, I mean, you don't have to go until
your hall pass and like your favorite movie,
but the harder ones, you know, give yourself
a pat on the back. You've made it through some
of the hardest times in your life. You didn't
think you could. And what kind of a person do
you want to start being in the future? What motivates
you? What inspires you? Do a little bit of shadow
work. Shadow work is really important to kind
of dig deep and see where. You know things you
could change about yourself things that you love
about yourself all of the above so I Suggest
writing down a few of the tough ones and learning
a little bit more about yourself in the process
So today we're gonna do something a little bit
different instead of a quote I have my little
spirit junkie card deck from Gabrielle Bernstein
I love her back. I love yeah that I am a spirit
junkie, so I'm gonna just shuffle up really quick
and we're gonna see what the vibe is for the
rest of the weeks. All right Here we are. Let's
see. All right. I Send a prayer of love to all
beings in need of a miracle. I Love that one.
Oh If anyone is in need of a miracle, yeah, my
thoughts are with you miracles happen Miracles
happen and they're coming for you. I love her
That's all for today guys. I hope you do a little
bit of you know introspection self -reflection
and Just realize what a badass you are and fall
in love with yourself all over again Have a really
great week sending those miracles your way and
as always keep it good