WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.839 Alright, let us try it. This is the Global Political 00:00:04.839 --> 00:00:12.119 Party. The team members are Darlene, Mary-Ann, 00:00:12.300 --> 00:00:23.300 Melissa, Isabella and Isabel. We will be representing 00:00:23.300 --> 00:00:28.920 global political issues. We believe, we will be 00:00:28.920 --> 00:00:34.219 better served, we wanted to have a 00:00:34.219 --> 00:00:40.320 political seat at the table. No topic is of limits. 00:00:41.640 --> 00:00:51.000 Absolutely no topics. Hi Girls! welcome. Today's 00:00:51.000 --> 00:00:57.310 topic will be... the Prenatal care and Pregnancy Mortality 00:00:57.310 --> 00:01:06.010 and the psychological genesis behind this situation. 00:01:07.489 --> 00:01:13.769 Mary-Ann, Darlene, Isabel, Isabella, 00:01:14.629 --> 00:01:20.760 and Melissa. You asked, 00:01:20.760 --> 00:01:27.799 us to discuss grooming spring time. We 00:01:27.799 --> 00:01:33.079 spent the Holy Thursday in the sauna. We had 00:01:33.079 --> 00:01:37.819 sauna night and it was pizza and Coca -Cola, 00:01:38.219 --> 00:01:45.739 wasn't it? And lots of pineapples and... But 00:01:45.739 --> 00:01:49.439 what was beautiful about the party, when we spent these 00:01:49.439 --> 00:01:54.079 moments together. The fact that we make everything 00:01:54.079 --> 00:01:58.739 in our kitchen. 00:01:58.739 --> 00:02:01.739 A pizza night everyone gets a chance to build 00:02:01.739 --> 00:02:05.620 their own pizza, Then we share the pizza so 00:02:05.620 --> 00:02:11.979 it is kind of like..., very spiritual. We had all 00:02:11.979 --> 00:02:17.090 the massages. That foot massage, man...! 00:02:17.090 --> 00:02:20.430 that 00:02:20.430 --> 00:02:25.949 machine, that massages the feet. Oh my goodness..! 00:02:25.949 --> 00:02:31.770 it is so great taking care of yourself it is priceless 00:02:31.770 --> 00:02:36.310 isn't it ? The hair, just do 00:02:36.310 --> 00:02:40.629 all that. People think oh...! WE don't have time. 00:02:40.629 --> 00:02:44.810 We have to make time. We have 00:02:44.810 --> 00:02:49.090 to learn how to make at least, one meal for yourself. 00:02:49.849 --> 00:02:53.990 We cannot be reliant on calling in for food. 00:02:54.169 --> 00:02:58.550 The body does not understand that. It feels betrayed 00:02:58.550 --> 00:03:03.150 when we cannot make ourself a meal. See 00:03:03.150 --> 00:03:09.569 what I mean? Then on Saturdays we do, whether 00:03:09.569 --> 00:03:13.710 it is blueberry muffin tea party or some... 00:03:13.530 --> 00:03:19.090' we just enjoy the joys of joy. It is 00:03:19.090 --> 00:03:25.550 so therapeutic, like time has no movement. It is 00:03:25.550 --> 00:03:32.150 like infinity. It is 00:03:32.150 --> 00:03:37.810 just priceless, never mind peace, 00:03:37.810 --> 00:03:45.289 That becomes of the situation solidly peaceful. 00:03:48.569 --> 00:03:58.210 Who can begrudge that? With a grand roast chicken 00:03:58.210 --> 00:04:09.750 and Melissa's homemade apple wine. That is darling 00:04:09.750 --> 00:04:14.219 Melissa you are such 00:04:14.219 --> 00:04:24.360 a sweetheart. 00:04:24.360 --> 00:04:31.560 We wanted to celebrate taking the time. A individual 00:04:31.560 --> 00:04:40.540 pathways in the mix we discussed, this uh yeah..., 00:04:40.540 --> 00:04:46.139 There are no sauna night or 00:04:46.139 --> 00:04:50.860 Saturated dining without these discussion at 00:04:50.860 --> 00:04:55.899 the table. These topics are embedded in us. 00:04:55.899 --> 00:05:02.980 For us to discuss at least one sensitive 00:05:02.980 --> 00:05:11.040 subject or something.., American 00:05:12.490 --> 00:05:16.949 Mortality rate for pregnant women are the highest. 00:05:16.949 --> 00:05:21.029 Remember we are focusing on the family. 00:05:21.029 --> 00:05:24.149 We are encouraging 00:05:24.149 --> 00:05:30.189 marriages and it is said based on Nancy Gracie's 00:05:30.189 --> 00:05:33.470 show that we were watching at one point. That 00:05:33.470 --> 00:05:37.870 most of the murders during pregnancies are done 00:05:37.870 --> 00:05:44.910 by the husbands. Women are saying, why would 00:05:44.910 --> 00:05:49.170 husbands do this? Is it out of what..? nervousness. 00:05:49.170 --> 00:05:57.449 We decided to track James and when we 00:05:57.449 --> 00:06:03.470 have our access to Jose and the ten border boys, 00:06:05.050 --> 00:06:13.959 we asked them, why? They believe men react this 00:06:13.959 --> 00:06:19.160 way during pregnancy, each one of them told 00:06:19.160 --> 00:06:24.779 us that It was nerve it has got to be nerves. 00:06:24.779 --> 00:06:29.800 Women, we do not understand men. Men are nurturing. 00:06:29.800 --> 00:06:35.220 Men are not caregivers. Men nurture their 00:06:35.220 --> 00:06:41.620 family but men are not caregivers. Women made 00:06:41.620 --> 00:06:45.300 this mistake Thinking my husband is the father. 00:06:45.300 --> 00:06:48.639 He did this so..! He will be in the delivery room 00:06:48.639 --> 00:06:51.660 thick and thin. It is not their prerogative ladies. 00:06:51.660 --> 00:06:56.480 Ladies need to find a support group, our mother 00:06:56.480 --> 00:06:59.180 this is where our mother is very important. 00:06:59.180 --> 00:07:03.800 Mothers needs to know when they are useful. 00:07:03.800 --> 00:07:07.399 This is the 00:07:07.399 --> 00:07:13.810 time when our mother, grandmother, aunts these 00:07:13.810 --> 00:07:17.829 are the caregivers ladies needs. Men are not 00:07:17.829 --> 00:07:22.069 nurturing caregivers and that is what we need 00:07:22.069 --> 00:07:30.990 during our pregnancy. Each one of these men that 00:07:30.990 --> 00:07:35.930 we have spoke to especially the ones that has had 00:07:35.930 --> 00:07:41.269 kids. They told us that It is nerve -racking for 00:07:41.269 --> 00:07:45.329 them because these ladies expect them to be in the delivery room. This is 00:07:45.329 --> 00:07:49.350 an American thing where these husband are expected to go 00:07:49.350 --> 00:07:53.670 into the delivery room and experience all that. 00:07:53.670 --> 00:07:57.810 Men are terrified. You see.., remember when we 00:07:57.810 --> 00:08:02.410 did a show with this situation. Love cannot 00:08:02.410 --> 00:08:05.370 handle this delivery room. A relationship 00:08:05.370 --> 00:08:11.009 is over once we... Allow our husbands to go 00:08:11.009 --> 00:08:14.009 in to the delivery room. He is not in the medical industry. 00:08:15.389 --> 00:08:18.750 Let him go and play golf, to the bar, wherever 00:08:18.750 --> 00:08:21.810 he wants to go, who cares? He should not 00:08:21.810 --> 00:08:27.110 be in the delivery room. They do not want to go in side the delivery room. They 00:08:29.470 --> 00:08:33.090 do not know how to tell their wives that, look! 00:08:34.009 --> 00:08:37.529 We do not want to be in there. She is going 00:08:37.529 --> 00:08:41.009 to get emotional, start crying. 00:08:41.009 --> 00:08:45.710 Delivery room is none of their business. Get 00:08:45.710 --> 00:08:50.049 your mother, your grandmother, your aunt if we 00:08:50.049 --> 00:08:53.830 need someone in there. I personally would not need 00:08:53.830 --> 00:08:56.570 anybody in side the delivery. Some things we have to face 00:08:56.570 --> 00:09:01.429 on our own. When the kid is born 00:09:01.429 --> 00:09:06.049 he can come and celebrate with his kid. That is 00:09:06.049 --> 00:09:10.169 all he needs to do. He is not a doctor. Ladies 00:09:10.169 --> 00:09:12.970 are destroying their relationship by doing this. 00:09:13.389 --> 00:09:16.769 If they manage to survive the pregnancy and not 00:09:16.769 --> 00:09:22.129 being killed. James you are saying that men 00:09:22.129 --> 00:09:25.250 just does not want to be in the delivery room. 00:09:25.889 --> 00:09:28.250 The ladies should understand this makes them 00:09:28.250 --> 00:09:32.970 nervous. They do crazy things. Okay..., Oh my 00:09:32.970 --> 00:09:36.450 goodness. Well, it is good we had this discussion 00:09:36.450 --> 00:09:42.289 in the sauna. We saw it on Nancy Grace, 00:09:43.190 --> 00:09:47.710 where they were talking about death, 00:09:47.950 --> 00:09:52.769 disappearance during pregnancy. In most cases, 00:09:52.950 --> 00:09:57.230 actually, these pregnant women disappear at six 00:09:57.230 --> 00:10:02.049 and a half months during the seventh month and 00:10:02.049 --> 00:10:08.629 eighth month. Ladies, we are begging you, if 00:10:08.629 --> 00:10:12.970 you are pregnant from day one, please assured 00:10:12.970 --> 00:10:16.149 your husbands, you do not need them in the delivery 00:10:16.149 --> 00:10:19.950 room. Just tell them it is okay, you will do it alone 00:10:19.950 --> 00:10:23.289 or you get your mommy. This is when you go and 00:10:23.289 --> 00:10:25.870 get your mommy, your aunt, you know, you must 00:10:25.870 --> 00:10:29.750 have a nosy aunt somewhere. She is not dangerous. 00:10:29.769 --> 00:10:35.179 she is just nosy. You see what I mean? and you 00:10:35.179 --> 00:10:39.000 get her and you have this baby. Ladies I am 00:10:39.000 --> 00:10:42.399 begging you if you are pregnant from day one 00:10:42.399 --> 00:10:45.580 please tell your husband they have no need to 00:10:45.580 --> 00:10:48.179 come in the delivery room. The nervousness, they built 00:10:48.179 --> 00:10:53.580 up over a period of nine months they do not need 00:10:53.580 --> 00:10:55.919 to have this because you do not wish to have 00:10:55.919 --> 00:10:58.279 them in side. They can wait outside the delivery 00:10:58.279 --> 00:11:02.399 room or they can go play tennis whatever they 00:11:02.399 --> 00:11:05.639 want to do who cares Just don't be at the hospital 00:11:05.639 --> 00:11:11.000 hanging around to make anybody nervous. So you 00:11:11.000 --> 00:11:16.679 see what I mean when I say, some things are just 00:11:16.679 --> 00:11:20.539 the order of things ladies. We cannot force 00:11:20.539 --> 00:11:27.080 men to do things that they are not DNA built to 00:11:27.080 --> 00:11:31.320 do. They're caregivers. They are not nurturing 00:11:31.320 --> 00:11:35.330 caregivers. They do not understand this nurturing 00:11:35.330 --> 00:11:40.230 aspect of caregiving, It is a woman thing. Men 00:11:40.230 --> 00:11:42.409 cannot give this because they do not have 00:11:42.409 --> 00:11:45.590 it. This does not mean that they are not in love 00:11:45.590 --> 00:11:50.029 with their wives they love her to bits but it is not their 00:11:50.029 --> 00:11:54.309 DNA. They are not caregivers. Men you are off 00:11:54.309 --> 00:11:56.629 the hook you just need to make your wives pregnant 00:11:56.629 --> 00:12:01.429 then make a run for it. Then when you return 00:12:01.429 --> 00:12:05.289 you can go play with your kids, okay? Please 00:12:05.289 --> 00:12:10.149 do not kill your wife. Just do not do it. It is 00:12:10.149 --> 00:12:12.750 This baby and 00:12:12.750 --> 00:12:16.370 you can play with each other, as it grows up. You can hear 00:12:16.370 --> 00:12:20.009 baby calls you daddy and papa. Men like that kind 00:12:20.009 --> 00:12:24.909 of thing. When the kids say papa or daddy. It is 00:12:24.909 --> 00:12:31.019 funny..,. It is funny. Oh my goodness, it is so funny! 00:12:31.019 --> 00:12:33.940 Men just love when their kids say dada or papa. 00:12:35.279 --> 00:12:38.360 Men do actually. All the male we have known. They 00:12:38.360 --> 00:12:43.480 love it. We must say Girls, we have to give homage 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:51.000 to Mary- ann's Entrecote. That is just divine. 00:12:53.080 --> 00:12:59.370 Yes, we were taught how to make it but... Mary 00:12:59.370 --> 00:13:04.570 Ann is master in her class and Isabella's 00:13:04.570 --> 00:13:08.730 spare rib oh my goodness they are so beautiful 00:13:08.730 --> 00:13:16.830 and Darlene, your cheesecake oh my goodness it is 00:13:16.830 --> 00:13:22.330 like we all have a specialty. Dr. 00:13:22.570 --> 00:13:28.429 Bar's pizza, the um blueberry muffins 00:13:28.429 --> 00:13:34.870 Dr. Bohr is the baking expert 00:13:34.870 --> 00:13:46.610 I think amongst us girls, we are 00:13:46.610 --> 00:13:52.710 geniuses. This is just perfect girls thanks for being 00:13:52.710 --> 00:13:58.159 forever you know. In conclusion we are 00:13:58.159 --> 00:14:03.259 asking men not to get nervous during pregnancy 00:14:03.259 --> 00:14:07.840 and to love on their wives. Please do not kill, 00:14:07.840 --> 00:14:12.480 harm because it won't end well. You will not escape 00:14:12.480 --> 00:14:18.700 your punishment do not do it. Do not harm your 00:14:18.700 --> 00:14:23.610 wife during pregnancy. It does not matter how you 00:14:23.610 --> 00:14:26.049 think about it. I know you are nervous and you are 00:14:26.049 --> 00:14:28.789 not thinking straight from what James and Jose 00:14:28.789 --> 00:14:36.029 says But normally the first suspect is 00:14:36.029 --> 00:14:39.750 the husband so you will not escape. 00:14:39.750 --> 00:14:45.610 The joys of having this kid to play with 00:14:45.610 --> 00:14:53.419 is beyond, beyond so we are asking men see it through- 00:14:55.379 --> 00:14:59.639 love on your wife. Men you do not need to 00:14:59.639 --> 00:15:03.259 go to the hospital. That is the problem. From 00:15:03.259 --> 00:15:07.299 what Jose and the boys said that it... men get 00:15:07.299 --> 00:15:10.480 so nervous that they do not think straight. 00:15:10.480 --> 00:15:14.759 You cannot ply insanity. You will be canned, 00:15:15.500 --> 00:15:20.500 maybe for life, or killed. If you have committed 00:15:20.500 --> 00:15:26.220 a crime. in general or a crime on your wife so 00:15:26.220 --> 00:15:31.679 men please do not hurt your wife. 00:15:31.679 --> 00:15:34.919 GIRLS do you remember when 00:15:34.919 --> 00:15:39.960 we had the meeting with our parents and we asked 00:15:39.960 --> 00:15:47.460 our mothers uh it was Mary-Ann's mommy said, 00:15:47.460 --> 00:15:53.419 she accepted that maybe when she became 30 00:15:53.419 --> 00:15:59.659 her ugly button would become activated. 00:15:59.659 --> 00:16:04.759 She would live with that because whatever 00:16:04.759 --> 00:16:09.200 we look like in our 30s that stays until we are 00:16:09.200 --> 00:16:13.259 probably 60 that is why a lot of people can tell 00:16:13.259 --> 00:16:18.379 lies about age is 32 and it is believable. 00:16:18.379 --> 00:16:24.850 Nature stuck us in this zone 00:16:24.850 --> 00:16:29.970 because we live a longer time as an adult. 00:16:29.970 --> 00:16:34.690 As a kid life is so short, to be a teenager 00:16:34.690 --> 00:16:39.610 life is extremely short. The rest of our life is so long 00:16:39.610 --> 00:16:46.090 We can understand 00:16:46.090 --> 00:16:51.210 when they say at 30 and all the other mummies 00:16:51.210 --> 00:16:55.490 said that 30 was Acceptable for them. 00:16:55.490 --> 00:17:00.649 They could accept waking up, 00:17:00.649 --> 00:17:05.130 looking in the mirror and there is 00:17:05.130 --> 00:17:13.730 ugly looking back at them. It was acceptable they say after age 30. We will be again.