WEBVTT 00:00:00.520 --> 00:00:08.560 Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's 00:00:08.560 --> 00:00:17.620 my house and I am the lovely Dr. Bar. Hi Dr. 00:00:17.760 --> 00:00:25.059 Bar. This is the dating season GIRLS!. This is 00:00:25.059 --> 00:00:29.980 the time of year when we have our special edition. 00:00:31.440 --> 00:00:38.320 We are five girls Darlene, Mary-Ann, Melissa, 00:00:39.460 --> 00:00:47.119 Isabel and Isabella. Today's attribution is 00:00:47.119 --> 00:00:57.600 Mary-Ann. Mary-Ann what is your question for the 00:00:57.600 --> 00:01:07.290 lovely Dr. Bar? Should we exchange numbers? 00:01:09.870 --> 00:01:15.329 There is never a number. We are promoting 1920s 00:01:15.329 --> 00:01:21.909 Renaissance dating experience. There is no number. 00:01:22.709 --> 00:01:28.269 There is an old -style traditional dating protocol 00:01:28.269 --> 00:01:33.189 that should be managed properly. 00:01:40.209 --> 00:01:45.909 This letter states Dear Dr. Bar. What should 00:01:45.909 --> 00:01:51.909 I do at the end of the date? My understanding 00:01:51.909 --> 00:01:57.909 is you will do nothing as the lady. At the end of the date, 00:01:57.909 --> 00:02:05.230 the gentleman will offer his hands for another 00:02:05.230 --> 00:02:11.509 date. If this exchange does not happen, please 00:02:11.509 --> 00:02:16.590 say your goodbyes. Goodbyes are very honorable. 00:02:17.849 --> 00:02:20.810 Do not bother with this calling you tomorrow or 00:02:20.810 --> 00:02:24.509 I will wait five days. Then call him and see 00:02:24.509 --> 00:02:28.990 what he is doing. NO! it doesn't work like that. 00:02:28.990 --> 00:02:34.990 As a matter of fact, You do not need the phone. 00:02:35.530 --> 00:02:39.090 You should not speak to this person on the phone 00:02:39.090 --> 00:02:45.389 The second date should be confirmed already on that current date. 00:02:45.389 --> 00:02:49.090 Both parties should 00:02:49.090 --> 00:02:52.409 agreed on a time, a place. Maybe the same place 00:02:52.409 --> 00:02:56.830 to keep things simply assimilated for 00:02:56.830 --> 00:03:02.039 the brain. We meet here in two 00:03:02.039 --> 00:03:07.099 days, Well! what ever is agreed. You write the date on a paper and exchange 00:03:07.099 --> 00:03:11.479 sign it, then exchange this paper appointment. 00:03:11.479 --> 00:03:16.000 You should never call..! You should 00:03:16.000 --> 00:03:22.500 arrive at the date location 15 minutes early. You, then leave the date location 00:03:22.500 --> 00:03:27.939 15 minutes, grace period. If this person is late or a no show. 00:03:27.939 --> 00:03:32.330 The protucal is arrival time at date location is 15 minutes early. Departure time is 15 minutes after the appointment time. 00:03:32.330 --> 00:03:37.870 When there is a no show, you will not call this 00:03:37.870 --> 00:03:40.550 person. You did not take his number, 00:03:40.550 --> 00:03:46.449 this is the reason why you should never take 00:03:46.449 --> 00:03:54.090 the telephone number of anyone. Once this date 00:03:54.090 --> 00:04:02.159 is broken, this date is a contract between 00:04:02.159 --> 00:04:10.520 yourself, your date The universe approve 00:04:10.520 --> 00:04:16.899 this date. for example, the date was given/agreed, 00:04:16.899 --> 00:04:23.759 we will meet at 9 for breakfast. For breakfast 00:04:23.759 --> 00:04:33.740 date then arrival time at the location 8 .45 or 8 .50. 00:04:33.740 --> 00:04:38.620 he should or she should 00:04:38.620 --> 00:04:43.160 be there the same 15 minutes, that's 00:04:43.160 --> 00:04:48.180 your prerogative. 9 o 'clock is the crunching 00:04:48.180 --> 00:04:54.620 time and if this person has not showed up at 00:04:54.620 --> 00:05:01.459 9 the grace period is 15 minutes just like at 00:05:01.459 --> 00:05:05.779 your job 15 minutes. Then you will take your 00:05:05.779 --> 00:05:09.160 things off to your work or wherever you 00:05:09.160 --> 00:05:13.620 wish to go. Then, that is the end you will never call 00:05:13.620 --> 00:05:16.220 this person. You will never see this person 00:05:16.220 --> 00:05:21.360 again. The Universe did not approve technically 00:05:21.360 --> 00:05:29.300 9. 15, you squeezed in 15 minutes, 00:05:29.300 --> 00:05:34.980 that is enough. At 9.20 this date is none of your business. 00:05:34.980 --> 00:05:39.180 This situation never happened, it is all over. 00:05:39.180 --> 00:05:43.980 This is the height of a gross disrespect. When 00:05:43.980 --> 00:05:51.860 someone breaks, the time of a date. They 00:05:51.860 --> 00:05:57.540 have no respect for your life. This person 00:05:57.540 --> 00:06:04.420 is a very entitled person. You really do not 00:06:04.420 --> 00:06:07.360 wish to see this person again. 00:06:07.360 --> 00:06:13.199 He or she, they have nothing to offer that is 00:06:13.199 --> 00:06:17.920 why, they did and no show. You can forget marriage with that type! 00:06:17.920 --> 00:06:23.329 You can even forget bedroom action! 00:06:23.329 --> 00:06:26.470 They have nothing to offer in the bedroom. 00:06:26.470 --> 00:06:32.829 You have missed a bullet. 00:06:32.829 --> 00:06:37.790 Goodbyes is great! that is it! Breaking 00:06:37.790 --> 00:06:43.449 a date is non -negotiable in some cases 00:06:43.449 --> 00:06:50.240 during the time of the Kings this would be rewarded 00:06:50.240 --> 00:06:53.800 with the removal of a head. This is called beheaded. 00:06:53.800 --> 00:07:02.579 This should not be tolerated. I am 00:07:02.579 --> 00:07:07.339 serious. A date is a practice on how to 00:07:07.339 --> 00:07:12.259 be man and wife in a marriage. A date is an interview 00:07:12.259 --> 00:07:20.790 for a marriage. Every little nuances in the beginning 00:07:20.790 --> 00:07:25.310 will get bigger in the middle and it will get 00:07:25.310 --> 00:07:29.990 worse at the end. Dating for marriage is a long term investment. In the beginning extra attention should be given to the little things, especially time. 00:07:29.990 --> 00:07:51.050 Please be clear! The follow-up date should be 00:07:51.050 --> 00:07:58.050 agreed and confirmed on the current date. There is 00:07:58.050 --> 00:08:06.029 no need for any telephone exchange. We 00:08:06.029 --> 00:08:14.670 do not entertain modern technology. This is the 1920s dating 00:08:14.670 --> 00:08:30.970 experience. 1920s is always cool, it works..! 00:08:30.970 --> 00:08:37.990 Mary-Ann, girls the question of time and punctuality 00:08:37.990 --> 00:08:43.529 is very important on a date. This will 00:08:43.529 --> 00:08:53.070 determine, who is an organized person. A nine 00:08:53.070 --> 00:08:58.990 o 'clock insurance does not work for a 9.01 situation 00:08:58.990 --> 00:09:09.990 A date is an interview for a marriage. 00:09:09.990 --> 00:09:18.169 Lateness should not be tolerated. It is a gross 00:09:18.169 --> 00:09:25.190 disrespectful behavior. This person is super entitled. These are the 00:09:25.190 --> 00:09:30.029 little things, They later grow bigger. 00:09:30.029 --> 00:09:37.190 They, then becomes an issue in the marriage. We always say 00:09:37.190 --> 00:09:45.110 the things you laugh at the beginning. You will 00:09:45.110 --> 00:09:49.269 cry about it in the middle and then it destroys 00:09:49.269 --> 00:09:57.950 you in the end. A marriage is a long -term investment 00:09:57.950 --> 00:10:04.070 and the little things must be acceptable before 00:10:04.070 --> 00:10:09.129 you go down the aisle. Saying I would like this 00:10:09.129 --> 00:10:15.370 person to be my wife or my husband. The 00:10:15.370 --> 00:10:21.070 reality is, after the lights are switched off at the church 00:10:21.070 --> 00:10:24.649 The wedding cakes are eaten. This creature goes 00:10:24.649 --> 00:10:28.809 home with you. Do you want a creature that you 00:10:28.809 --> 00:10:32.950 like? or one that you want to escape from? I mean, 00:10:33.750 --> 00:10:42.509 think about it...! This is a serious reasoning; 00:10:43.600 --> 00:10:55.179 TIME. The arrival time is very important. It 00:10:55.179 --> 00:10:57.940 will affect the arrival time of the wedding. 00:10:59.039 --> 00:11:07.399 The arrival time for everything....! So please, 00:11:09.379 --> 00:11:15.070 do not compromise on TIME. punctuality is very 00:11:15.070 --> 00:11:16.250 crucial. I am DR Bar, we will be again.....