Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's
my house and I am the lovely Dr. Bar. Hi Dr.
Bar! This is the dating season girls. This
is the time of year when we have our special edition.
We have five girls. We have Darlene,
Mary-Ann, Melissa, Isabel and Isabella. We
are your dating experts. What we don't know
we will research it for you. Girls! This letter
is concerning to all involved. You gave
me this email, it says Dear girls, Dear Dr.
Bar; I have been dating a man for seven years.
We meet sometimes three times a week or once
a week, depending. He would call me three
times a day. The reason it continued for seven
years is because he asked me to marry him, after
the fifth date. She said' every time she tried to arrange
the wedding, he would tell her, it is very old -fashioned
then change the topic. He has this presence from
what the email said! There is his presence. It is
almost impossible for her to get away from him.
He calls three times a day. They meet three
times a week, sometimes two. She has no idea where
he lives. She has no idea where he works. He knows
everything about her. What do you think? About this guy?
What should I do? Okay girls! This is an open
situation for me to listen to all the opinions.
I am going to give my answer. Well, I am
going to give the Dr. Barr answer! What
I think is happening here is,
the blueprint. This is the master of Blueprints.
When people are dating. I think they should
hear this...! This is a guy that lives in his mother's
basement or live with his mother. Maybe not the
basement, but he is in the house living with his mother.
Okay? He replaced his mother. This lady is now
his surrogate mother, just in case his mother
died or dies. Yeah...! I Think he went in search
of, to replace his mother. He was concerned
that in the event one day he would wake up and
the mother would die. He is going to be stuck on
his own. Here she comes! The consolation
is however if the mother should die he will never
marry her. He will probably go out and find another
person. Just in case this one, something would
happen to this one. He would never move her into
that house where he lived with his mother.
He has not developed that part of his spiritual
being. His sexuality was never developed. I am
sure his testicles, they're underdeveloped. I
do not think he has any kind of sexual erosion,
sexual eroticism, any sexual...! I think
something happened to him when he was five.
He got trapped into this mother -spirit thing.
Even, if he went to university. He returned
home to his mommy. He did not get a wife. He
did not get anybody. That part of him
was never developed. I think it is
over caring from the mother. Mothers have to be careful.
There is this thing, a mother's love
is a great thing. When we are raising somebody's.
When we are given the task. When we have
children we are raising somebody's wife or somebody's
husband. we have to be careful how we execute
our responsibility. This is a guy that
the only outcome of this situation. He will either
kill his mother or the mother will kill him eventually.
They are both trapped in this bubble of
'I just can't get rid of my mother kind of thing' He is
probably over 35. Ladies ! When we meet a guy. This
listen very carefully Please listen to this Melissa
Darlene, Mary-Anne Isabel and Isabella. do you
see where we're going with this! If we meet a
man, he said, 'I am 35 and I have never been
married but I am open to the idea. That is why
I am here on this date. We are getting excited
NO! please.. do not we should get the hell out of
Dodge....! He is 35. He has never been married.
He has no kids. He has nothing. He is living with
his mother. His sexual sensibility has not
been developed. He Is there to replace his
mommy. That is why he is with her for seven years.
If she try's to escape... It could become deadly
for her. This lady that wrote, this letter. I
think she wrote the letter because she's getting
suspicious about her situation. Her safety!
She cannot get out of his bubble that he dropped
her in. He is not interested in marrying her.
She is now his surrogate mother. He has no sexual
erosion for women. It was never developed.
I am sure his penis probably has never gotten a
hard erection. He has never had
an erection. If a man was healthy in that
department! He would have brought women into his mother's
house. That would offend the mother. The mother
probably would throw them out. He would be
forced to go get his own place. Since he is
living so peacefully with his mommy. His nuts
is the size of a five -year -old kid. I am sure...!
This is just something...! I know okay...! We could
discuss this with my grandmother for a professional medical assessment but it is unnecessary.
It is very evident that his nuts was never developed.
He would have test and bend the bar in
his mother's house by sneaking women in. When
he was a teenager or just somethings healthy teenager's
would do. This would have really upset the mommy.
She would have kicked them out so, Which would have been
good for him. the moral of the story is Girls!
based on what the lady said, we brought James in.
As a emergency case....!James was briefed on the
situation. James agreed that he understood this situation.
When I explained to James! I said James
if he's manhood was developed beyond five. He
would have bend the bar at his mother's house.
With her house rules, it is human nature. He would
have sneaked girls in, get caught, offend the mother.
The mother would have probably by now throw
them out. Which would have been good for him. He would
have gone and gotten himself his own apartment or
something and become a man. These things
never happen. This lady said, she has been dating
him for seven years. They meet three times for
lunch or whatever per week, sometimes two, sometimes
one. He called her three times a day, every day
for seven years. They have never gone to nowhere.
He never moved to the sexual zone human urges. He said he wanted to get married.
He ask to her on the fifth date when they met to marry him. She
agreed that is why she is stuck in this hellhole
with him. The relationship has not moved beyond that moment. She asked
him if he would like them to be best friends.
He said no! I want you to be my wife. Every
time she tried to get a wedding planner. He would
change the topic, citing marriages are so old fashion.
She said he has never try to get her to go to a hotel
with him, for just a man maneuva. She started thinking he is married.
He is satisfied down there in his sex life. Her thoughts' maybe he was
trying to get a divorce to marry her. That is
why it was taking so long. We told her, he is
not married. His down there is not developed.
That is why he is so happy to see her. He will talk
about anything freely. She said
it's almost like her girl buddies.
They are like two girls talking. He is not gay.
We explained that her life should she try's to leave
this guy. He is going to become a stalker. He
could become deadly and kill her. We are not trying
to put the fear of anything in her. We are being
clear. Even his mother's life is not safe
anymore. I am sure he is over 35 and he
cannot stand his mother. He hates her.´..! He
is in a black hole.
he cannot go left, :12:58.460 stuck in time. How can we fix it? We do not think
it can be fixed. His nuts...!, they are not
developed. I mean it is over. His brain
has moved on. The brain has no more interest
to fix that department. To make it becomes mature. The brain
has accepted that this situation was not necessary.
Since he is going to be living with his mother.
See what I mean? The universe is very kind to
him. Because if he was live with his mother. he was getting
his manhood arose. He cannot find anybody.
He probably would rape his mother. The universe
is a very kind instrument. The universe says..! look...!this
is the guy. He is doing things by living with his mother. Let's
just cut that thing off. It is unnecessary.
No one can accuse him of being a rapist.
He is not interested there is nothing. There is
no arousal..! no sensibility..! no urges..! oh my goodness
wow..! Okay girls..! Who said, we have to come
up with a plan. A sophisticated plan to help
her exit, This situation. She waste
seven years of her life. She could have been
happily married with a family. She has been listening
to our program. She would like to get into that
frame of mind. She just cannot get rid of
him. I hear all the opinions about
how she should escape. She asked him if he would
like to be her best friend. He said NO! It was
very straightforward. The only thing I can see
her doing is to apply for a job in a different
state. She probably will have to move
leave her furniture and everything behind.
while creating a front like she is still living her house. To escape, I do not know
if she owns her house or not. Even so she cannot put
it up her house on the market. she will have to
paying her rent for
at least another six months.
For him to think that she is still living there.
Girl! see, this is why I said that a man should
never know a ladies address. He should never know where
a lady lives unless a lady is married to a gentleman. See
,I know my girls,
sometimes think that I am, AI malfunction,
see how this is coming into play. This
guy knows where she live. The only thing for her
to do is to move to a different state?
We are talking about her safety.
He is going to become a stalker.
James what...!
James is thinking. That is a good idea. That is
the only idea. She is going to become missing. she is
going to become missing. He is not going to just
let her escape just Like that. He has a routine that
is in his head. It is working. He has his mother
he has his surrogate, anybody that try's to break
that up will face hell. He will be the one to
do the killing or the removal of limbs or anything
or removal of a person in the group. He has a
nice little routine. He calls her three times
a day. They have lunch three times a week.
I would say Dear listener from
where we are sitting the only way out of this
and since you have been following our teaching then
you are on a good stand. You know exactly what
to look for in a relationship. We are advising you to apply for
a job in a different state leave your apartment
for at least six months rent paid it up. You will have to
keep it current. Maybe move your aunt in there for
six months. Do you have an aunt? do you have a
someone like ? When
he comes to the house. They can talk to him.
I would say, someone liken to a nosy aunt that can
make conversation and just talk to death,
don't care whether, you are listening or not. Someone like
that. When visits and he is trying to ask where you are?
she can tell him that you are given a special
assignment overseas because of your job and you'll
be back in a year. That is a good idea.
Yeah! So just call him and tell him that you
have on an assignment overseas. Then simply move to a different
state. That is a brilliant idea. Keep your
aunt at this house for at least six months or
somebody that can talk the hell out of him.
she will get on his nerves. He will not return.
They need to be able to get on his nerves. he will leave and forget you because you are overseas.
You will never call him after you have given him
the call with a burner phone. Yes..! use a burner
phone. We will be again!