WEBVTT 00:00:00.520 --> 00:00:08.580 Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's 00:00:08.580 --> 00:00:17.620 my house and I am the lovely Dr. Bar. Hi Dr. 00:00:17.780 --> 00:00:23.739 Bar. This is the dating season girls! This 00:00:23.739 --> 00:00:27.899 is the time of year when we have a special edition. 00:00:28.039 --> 00:00:32.840 We have five girls. We have Darlene, 00:00:33.219 --> 00:00:44.079 Mary-Ann, Isabella, Isabel and Melissa. 00:00:44.079 --> 00:00:50.179 James is our special attribution today, 00:00:50.179 --> 00:00:57.659 James is searching for his wife and we are on 00:00:57.659 --> 00:01:03.530 the bus. Yes! indeed. We will be helping James 00:01:03.530 --> 00:01:13.670 in his quest. Welcome, James. This is a global 00:01:13.670 --> 00:01:19.909 concern when it comes to Health, Wellness, Diet, Dating and just 00:01:19.909 --> 00:01:23.989 life. Just little things that comfort life. 00:01:24.730 --> 00:01:31.319 Okay! Melissa's 00:01:31.319 --> 00:01:36.840 question is what if! The beginning of spring 00:01:36.840 --> 00:01:46.319 Melissa is our what if girl! The question is , this particular 00:01:46.319 --> 00:01:51.879 person he is ill. he is just constantly 00:01:51.879 --> 00:02:01.980 ill. He has allergies. He has all of these little 00:02:01.980 --> 00:02:04.599 things that makes life uncomfortable sorts of 00:02:04.599 --> 00:02:11.300 illness. He is not diagnosed with anything. He is 00:02:11.300 --> 00:02:14.539 just suffering from the great irritants of spring. 00:02:15.780 --> 00:02:22.060 We have consulted with my grandmother. She is a doctor. 00:02:23.099 --> 00:02:30.300 She told us that... It is very important 00:02:30.300 --> 00:02:35.599 what you do in the beginning of spring. We should 00:02:35.599 --> 00:02:40.939 not be quick to take medication. We should study 00:02:40.939 --> 00:02:46.439 the allergies that we have a little bit. 00:02:46.439 --> 00:02:52.860 It means that if we have extreme 00:02:52.860 --> 00:02:57.419 allergies. She said that we are dehydrated. 00:02:57.419 --> 00:03:02.099 We need to take extra liquid, extra liquid in 00:03:02.099 --> 00:03:05.439 the form of what we like to drink. We should 00:03:05.439 --> 00:03:07.939 have more of what, we like to drink during the beginning of spring. 00:03:07.939 --> 00:03:13.680 She said, there is no need to get a special 00:03:13.680 --> 00:03:20.219 diet from around the corner. then try to incorporate 00:03:20.219 --> 00:03:23.379 this system in our life. Which will not work 00:03:23.379 --> 00:03:28.389 really. One must understand that during winter, 00:03:29.250 --> 00:03:32.849 our system moves a little bit slowly. Now during 00:03:32.849 --> 00:03:37.810 springtime, our system, it is a rebirth. It is 00:03:37.810 --> 00:03:42.169 regeneration. Sneezing a lot, 00:03:42.250 --> 00:03:45.409 is good for our electrical impulse, 00:03:45.409 --> 00:03:48.389 sneezing is very good for the nerves. 00:03:49.050 --> 00:03:52.370 We should have more liquid and a lot 00:03:52.370 --> 00:03:56.719 of sleep, she said' We should just try to eat what 00:03:56.719 --> 00:04:00.139 we normally eat. We were like! grandmother, 00:04:00.300 --> 00:04:04.020 is it that easy? She said, yes! the body is just 00:04:04.020 --> 00:04:09.900 very primitive. The body is a beautiful machine. 00:04:10.000 --> 00:04:13.000 It can repair itself, she said, it is very 00:04:13.000 --> 00:04:17.100 primitive. If left alone, it will repair 00:04:17.100 --> 00:04:27.209 itself. Now! The question is... Is it okay for 00:04:27.209 --> 00:04:31.350 this person to even consider going on dates? 00:04:32.589 --> 00:04:37.529 Our grandmother said, in her opinion, the answer 00:04:37.529 --> 00:04:44.750 is no! They should never place, 00:04:44.750 --> 00:04:51.389 a sick, thoroughbred in the race, until it is healthy 00:04:51.389 --> 00:04:56.529 and doing well. He will have to get well. When he is 00:04:56.529 --> 00:05:00.649 feel a hundred percent shiny and sparkly 00:05:00.649 --> 00:05:06.730 then he is ready to go on a date. The priority 00:05:06.730 --> 00:05:13.290 is, we must take care of our health. Step one, 00:05:13.629 --> 00:05:16.250 the beginning of spring, Please do not panic! oh no... spring 00:05:16.250 --> 00:05:20.069 has a short window. "I am sick and I need to 00:05:20.069 --> 00:05:26.740 date" No.! You need to get well. You do not need 00:05:26.740 --> 00:05:30.519 to date 12 -20 people to find your special someone. 00:05:31.199 --> 00:05:33.459 You could just be walking down the road and you 00:05:33.459 --> 00:05:38.779 find that special person, only one date, some times is enough for it to work 00:05:38.779 --> 00:05:43.879 it is okay. Just get 00:05:43.879 --> 00:05:50.300 well...! Get some sleep. Get lots of liquid. 00:05:50.300 --> 00:05:54.660 Grandmother said... allergies is a sign that 00:05:54.660 --> 00:06:00.639 we are dehydrated and need more liquid 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:05.279 be sure to take this in our body in the form 00:06:05.279 --> 00:06:08.680 water our favorite drinks that is 00:06:08.680 --> 00:06:12.959 it, good to go and lots of sleep. 00:06:12.959 --> 00:06:18.060 These are important points, the beginning 00:06:18.060 --> 00:06:25.120 of spring, the little things that has to be done a 00:06:25.120 --> 00:06:28.920 manicure and a pedicure must be done. 00:06:28.920 --> 00:06:33.639 This is an very important exfoliation for the 00:06:33.639 --> 00:06:36.819 body. The feet is getting rid of 00:06:36.819 --> 00:06:43.319 all these old energy. When we do our pedicure. 00:06:43.319 --> 00:06:47.720 We release these old expired energies from our body. 00:06:47.720 --> 00:06:53.189 See where we are going Girls! 00:06:53.189 --> 00:07:01.170 There should be a routine like a spa day 00:07:01.170 --> 00:07:06.430 , for instance, we have our spa day every Saturday 00:07:06.430 --> 00:07:12.589 and sometimes on Thursdays, it depends. We 00:07:12.589 --> 00:07:18.750 get all these things done. We have our sauna 00:07:18.750 --> 00:07:21.069 nights and things like that. We get all 00:07:21.069 --> 00:07:26.009 these things done. For the beginning of spring 00:07:26.009 --> 00:07:29.910 this is non -negotiable. We want to get that 00:07:29.910 --> 00:07:33.370 manicure and pedicure done. We want to get that 00:07:33.370 --> 00:07:37.610 facial done. We want to make sure our hair is. done. 00:07:37.610 --> 00:07:41.329 We get this head massage. When we do 00:07:41.329 --> 00:07:50.300 our hair, above all, there must be a moment 00:07:50.300 --> 00:07:55.639 where we sit in peace and welcome spring. 00:07:55.639 --> 00:07:59.100 This will keep us very healthy for the rest 00:07:59.100 --> 00:08:06.079 of the seasons. Yes! it is the welcoming of spring. 00:08:06.199 --> 00:08:11.040 Spring is like a ritual. It is not just 00:08:11.040 --> 00:08:14.459 a season, it is a ritual for good health. 00:08:15.050 --> 00:08:22.430 for reproduction. It is a spiritual season. 00:08:22.430 --> 00:08:31.930 It must be welcome in a very natural setting. 00:08:31.930 --> 00:08:36.250 There is no need for it to cost a million dollars 00:08:36.250 --> 00:08:40.950 to take care of basic things. Grandmother 00:08:40.950 --> 00:08:45.200 said' the body is very primitive. The body needs just 00:08:45.200 --> 00:08:49.580 simple things to keep it in good health. I hope 00:08:49.580 --> 00:08:56.860 that makes sense girls, Does it? I think so....! 00:08:58.639 --> 00:09:04.980 Well in conclusion girls, James I think based 00:09:04.980 --> 00:09:10.639 on what grandmother says even so. I do not believe 00:09:10.639 --> 00:09:14.700 the universe will line anyone up with a sick 00:09:14.700 --> 00:09:21.620 person. We have to be healthy to go on a date. 00:09:21.720 --> 00:09:27.919 Is it fair for a guy to go on a date and deliberately 00:09:27.919 --> 00:09:34.440 collect a sick woman and marry her? 00:09:34.440 --> 00:09:39.659 That is a different condition 00:09:39.659 --> 00:09:49.039 ''you deliberately, went there and took a sick person 00:09:49.039 --> 00:09:53.860 home, marry this person it won't work.'' The 00:09:53.860 --> 00:09:59.340 universe will not give us any signal for marriage 00:09:59.340 --> 00:10:03.440 or dating or any of the sort grandmother is 00:10:03.440 --> 00:10:11.539 right again, get well ..! Just simply get well! There is 00:10:11.539 --> 00:10:16.139 no harm. I've often seen the cars that drives 00:10:16.139 --> 00:10:18.980 the fastest they have to stop at the stoplight 00:10:18.980 --> 00:10:22.360 and the car that drives the slowest still stop 00:10:22.360 --> 00:10:29.159 at the stoplight. There is no hurry. We should 00:10:29.159 --> 00:10:33.659 always work with the card that we you are given. When, we 00:10:33.659 --> 00:10:37.840 follow that rule our life will be in the now, in the present. 00:10:37.840 --> 00:10:41.779 Our life will become beautiful. We are not entitled 00:10:41.779 --> 00:10:45.679 to nothing here. Oh! When we are sick and cannot date. 00:10:45.879 --> 00:10:51.080 We are not entitled to a date anyways. It is just 00:10:51.080 --> 00:10:53.360 down to the mercy of the universe, if and when we are 00:10:53.360 --> 00:10:57.559 assigned a date. 00:10:57.559 --> 00:11:05.460 Health, Wellness, dating and marriage. 00:11:06.860 --> 00:11:15.419 we always should prioritized our health. Yes! 00:11:15.600 --> 00:11:20.200 That is number one. That is number one even in 00:11:20.200 --> 00:11:25.000 our marriage Our health is number one. 00:11:25.000 --> 00:11:31.799 Did you know that in the? 1500s, that if a man 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:37.879 is ill in his marriage, it is the duty of his wife 00:11:37.879 --> 00:11:43.899 to take care of him. On the other hand, if 00:11:43.899 --> 00:11:48.980 his wife wind up ill. She must give her husband 00:11:48.980 --> 00:11:55.700 permission to go find another woman, even if she is 00:11:55.700 --> 00:12:03.100 not gravely. He can return when she is doing 00:12:03.100 --> 00:12:10.159 better, Healthy again. The Husband would have to employ 00:12:10.159 --> 00:12:12.899 staff to take care of his wife. A man is not 00:12:12.899 --> 00:12:18.879 really a nurturing caregiver. Everyone said 00:12:18.879 --> 00:12:22.960 oh! that is so unfair. The man has the best 00:12:22.960 --> 00:12:28.580 deal on the bus. No! He does not 00:12:28.580 --> 00:12:31.940 actually, he has to go to work and do 00:12:31.940 --> 00:12:36.340 some tough rough stuff, As the lady relax at home 00:12:36.340 --> 00:12:41.899 and manage the house. The men, they go to war and 00:12:41.899 --> 00:12:44.799 all these rough things, they do! They build 00:12:44.799 --> 00:12:47.759 the houses for us to live in. We do not think they 00:12:47.759 --> 00:12:53.080 have it easy. To be...! honestly ladies...! Think, 00:12:53.080 --> 00:12:55.419 about it. if we are sick. Do we want our men, 00:12:55.419 --> 00:12:58.919 our husbands to be hovering over us? When we can not 00:12:58.919 --> 00:13:03.820 really, sparkle ourself. We can not get dressed independently 00:13:03.820 --> 00:13:07.059 and nice-up ourselves. He is constantly there looking. 00:13:07.940 --> 00:13:10.919 I would ask him to go as well. I think it is a 00:13:10.919 --> 00:13:16.659 good system. I think, I would recommend it in 00:13:16.659 --> 00:13:21.460 a marriage. Yeah..! we give him permission to 00:13:21.460 --> 00:13:26.179 go, go away. When we are better. We can resume 00:13:26.179 --> 00:13:30.289 the marriage. What do you think about that, James? 00:13:30.409 --> 00:13:36.289 Sounds like a good plan, right? The 1500s. Yeah..! 00:13:36.809 --> 00:13:42.549 Darlene, Mary-Ann, Isabel, Isabella, Melissa. 00:13:43.370 --> 00:13:46.990 We like to be shiny, Girls! Think about it..! If 00:13:46.990 --> 00:13:50.590 we are sick and incapacitated, we are down 00:13:50.590 --> 00:13:54.330 to the mercy of a caregiver. Would we really 00:13:54.330 --> 00:13:57.830 want our husband to be hovering over us? um..! 00:13:57.830 --> 00:14:04.409 for him to be washing our feet? Doing those things. No! 00:14:04.409 --> 00:14:07.429 Not everything love can accommodate. We do 00:14:07.429 --> 00:14:12.330 want him going off somewhere...! Yeap! just go. It is the 00:14:12.330 --> 00:14:18.210 same like having a baby, we think that 00:14:18.210 --> 00:14:22.809 the husband should not be in the delivery room. 00:14:22.809 --> 00:14:28.980 When his wife is having a baby. Allowing that would creep 00:14:28.980 --> 00:14:35.460 the hell out of us. We think that the 00:14:35.460 --> 00:14:39.539 marriage can be destroyed as a result of that. 00:14:41.500 --> 00:14:44.659 We do not think our husbands should be in there. 00:14:44.679 --> 00:14:47.379 He is not the doctor. He is not the one having 00:14:47.379 --> 00:14:50.740 a baby. He should never be in delivery room. That's a 00:14:50.740 --> 00:15:00.049 woman's prerogative, yes It is! Will be again, will 00:15:00.049 --> 00:15:00.450 be again.