Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's
my house and I am the lovely Dr. Bar. Hi Dr.
Bar. This is the dating season girls! This
is the time of year when we have a special edition.
We have five girls. We have Darlene,
Mary-Ann, Isabella, Isabel and Melissa.
James is our special attribution today,
James is searching for his wife and we are on
the bus. Yes! indeed. We will be helping James
in his quest. Welcome, James. This is a global
concern when it comes to Health, Wellness, Diet, Dating and just
life. Just little things that comfort life.
Okay! Melissa's
question is what if! The beginning of spring
Melissa is our what if girl! The question is , this particular
person he is ill. he is just constantly
ill. He has allergies. He has all of these little
things that makes life uncomfortable sorts of
illness. He is not diagnosed with anything. He is
just suffering from the great irritants of spring.
We have consulted with my grandmother. She is a doctor.
She told us that... It is very important
what you do in the beginning of spring. We should
not be quick to take medication. We should study
the allergies that we have a little bit.
It means that if we have extreme
allergies. She said that we are dehydrated.
We need to take extra liquid, extra liquid in
the form of what we like to drink. We should
have more of what, we like to drink during the beginning of spring.
She said, there is no need to get a special
diet from around the corner. then try to incorporate
this system in our life. Which will not work
really. One must understand that during winter,
our system moves a little bit slowly. Now during
springtime, our system, it is a rebirth. It is
regeneration. Sneezing a lot,
is good for our electrical impulse,
sneezing is very good for the nerves.
We should have more liquid and a lot
of sleep, she said' We should just try to eat what
we normally eat. We were like! grandmother,
is it that easy? She said, yes! the body is just
very primitive. The body is a beautiful machine.
It can repair itself, she said, it is very
primitive. If left alone, it will repair
itself. Now! The question is... Is it okay for
this person to even consider going on dates?
Our grandmother said, in her opinion, the answer
is no! They should never place,
a sick, thoroughbred in the race, until it is healthy
and doing well. He will have to get well. When he is
feel a hundred percent shiny and sparkly
then he is ready to go on a date. The priority
is, we must take care of our health. Step one,
the beginning of spring, Please do not panic! oh no... spring
has a short window. "I am sick and I need to
date" No.! You need to get well. You do not need
to date 12 -20 people to find your special someone.
You could just be walking down the road and you
find that special person, only one date, some times is enough for it to work
it is okay. Just get
well...! Get some sleep. Get lots of liquid.
Grandmother said... allergies is a sign that
we are dehydrated and need more liquid
be sure to take this in our body in the form
water our favorite drinks that is
it, good to go and lots of sleep.
These are important points, the beginning
of spring, the little things that has to be done a
manicure and a pedicure must be done.
This is an very important exfoliation for the
body. The feet is getting rid of
all these old energy. When we do our pedicure.
We release these old expired energies from our body.
See where we are going Girls!
There should be a routine like a spa day
, for instance, we have our spa day every Saturday
and sometimes on Thursdays, it depends. We
get all these things done. We have our sauna
nights and things like that. We get all
these things done. For the beginning of spring
this is non -negotiable. We want to get that
manicure and pedicure done. We want to get that
facial done. We want to make sure our hair is. done.
We get this head massage. When we do
our hair, above all, there must be a moment
where we sit in peace and welcome spring.
This will keep us very healthy for the rest
of the seasons. Yes! it is the welcoming of spring.
Spring is like a ritual. It is not just
a season, it is a ritual for good health.
for reproduction. It is a spiritual season.
It must be welcome in a very natural setting.
There is no need for it to cost a million dollars
to take care of basic things. Grandmother
said' the body is very primitive. The body needs just
simple things to keep it in good health. I hope
that makes sense girls, Does it? I think so....!
Well in conclusion girls, James I think based
on what grandmother says even so. I do not believe
the universe will line anyone up with a sick
person. We have to be healthy to go on a date.
Is it fair for a guy to go on a date and deliberately
collect a sick woman and marry her?
That is a different condition
''you deliberately, went there and took a sick person
home, marry this person it won't work.'' The
universe will not give us any signal for marriage
or dating or any of the sort grandmother is
right again, get well ..! Just simply get well! There is
no harm. I've often seen the cars that drives
the fastest they have to stop at the stoplight
and the car that drives the slowest still stop
at the stoplight. There is no hurry. We should
always work with the card that we you are given. When, we
follow that rule our life will be in the now, in the present.
Our life will become beautiful. We are not entitled
to nothing here. Oh! When we are sick and cannot date.
We are not entitled to a date anyways. It is just
down to the mercy of the universe, if and when we are
assigned a date.
Health, Wellness, dating and marriage.
we always should prioritized our health. Yes!
That is number one. That is number one even in
our marriage Our health is number one.
Did you know that in the? 1500s, that if a man
is ill in his marriage, it is the duty of his wife
to take care of him. On the other hand, if
his wife wind up ill. She must give her husband
permission to go find another woman, even if she is
not gravely. He can return when she is doing
better, Healthy again. The Husband would have to employ
staff to take care of his wife. A man is not
really a nurturing caregiver. Everyone said
oh! that is so unfair. The man has the best
deal on the bus. No! He does not
actually, he has to go to work and do
some tough rough stuff, As the lady relax at home
and manage the house. The men, they go to war and
all these rough things, they do! They build
the houses for us to live in. We do not think they
have it easy. To be...! honestly ladies...! Think,
about it. if we are sick. Do we want our men,
our husbands to be hovering over us? When we can not
really, sparkle ourself. We can not get dressed independently
and nice-up ourselves. He is constantly there looking.
I would ask him to go as well. I think it is a
good system. I think, I would recommend it in
a marriage. Yeah..! we give him permission to
go, go away. When we are better. We can resume
the marriage. What do you think about that, James?
Sounds like a good plan, right? The 1500s. Yeah..!
Darlene, Mary-Ann, Isabel, Isabella, Melissa.
We like to be shiny, Girls! Think about it..! If
we are sick and incapacitated, we are down
to the mercy of a caregiver. Would we really
want our husband to be hovering over us? um..!
for him to be washing our feet? Doing those things. No!
Not everything love can accommodate. We do
want him going off somewhere...! Yeap! just go. It is the
same like having a baby, we think that
the husband should not be in the delivery room.
When his wife is having a baby. Allowing that would creep
the hell out of us. We think that the
marriage can be destroyed as a result of that.
We do not think our husbands should be in there.
He is not the doctor. He is not the one having
a baby. He should never be in delivery room. That's a
woman's prerogative, yes It is! Will be again, will
be again.