WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.839 Alright, let's try it. This is the Global Political 00:00:04.839 --> 00:00:12.119 Party. The team members are Darlene, Mary-Ann, 00:00:12.300 --> 00:00:23.300 Melissa, Isabella and Isabel. We will be representing 00:00:23.300 --> 00:00:28.920 global political issues. We believe we will be 00:00:28.920 --> 00:00:34.219 better served. We wanted to have a 00:00:34.219 --> 00:00:40.320 political seat at the table. No topic is off 00:00:41.640 --> 00:00:51.000 Absolutely no topics. Hi girls, welcome! Today's 00:00:51.000 --> 00:00:57.310 topic will be... the prenatal care and pregnancy 00:00:57.310 --> 00:01:05.969 and the psychological genesis behind this situation 00:01:05.969 --> 00:01:15.769 now as we discuss this pregnancy with the gynecologist 00:01:15.769 --> 00:01:27.569 and the psychologist. They both told us that 00:01:27.569 --> 00:01:38.010 the ideology on all pregnancies. We first should 00:01:38.010 --> 00:01:43.609 investigate to see is this pregnancy coming from 00:01:43.609 --> 00:01:53.120 a marriage or is it coming from a mystery. A single 00:01:53.120 --> 00:02:00.340 woman that wind up pregnant she has no idea if 00:02:00.340 --> 00:02:05.000 she's going or coming. What kind of family 00:02:05.000 --> 00:02:08.419 support she has around in her situation 00:02:08.419 --> 00:02:15.939 ,versus the marriage pregnancy how and who 00:02:15.939 --> 00:02:19.099 is the governor, of course, standard the husband 00:02:19.099 --> 00:02:23.490 should be the governor. Maybe is it governed by 00:02:23.490 --> 00:02:29.610 the wife's mother or family or is it so that 00:02:29.610 --> 00:02:41.370 the husband is active in this pregnancy. These 00:02:41.370 --> 00:02:44.629 are the first step the psychologist told us. 00:02:44.629 --> 00:02:50.039 That's what we identified, then 00:02:50.039 --> 00:02:56.740 we move forward into diet and mentality for 00:02:56.740 --> 00:03:02.560 the pregnancy. In terms of the single woman, 00:03:03.139 --> 00:03:07.659 has she accepted the pregnancy? does she want 00:03:07.659 --> 00:03:12.099 to have this pregnancy? If the answers are yes, 00:03:12.340 --> 00:03:15.620 okay! We move forward. If the answers are no. We should 00:03:15.620 --> 00:03:20.120 try to find out what are the other possibilities. We should 00:03:20.120 --> 00:03:24.800 try to get her to... the normal thing is to try 00:03:24.800 --> 00:03:28.259 to get her to accept the pregnancy. Take it 00:03:28.259 --> 00:03:33.120 through to the nine months. Okay! but it's very 00:03:33.120 --> 00:03:36.669 important that in the ninth month... Of course 00:03:36.669 --> 00:03:39.110 we're talking about governance for the pregnancy. 00:03:39.449 --> 00:03:42.550 It goes through the stages from third month, 00:03:44.469 --> 00:03:50.990 to sixth month, to ninth months. 00:03:50.990 --> 00:03:58.370 Then after the birth, what kind of acceptance 00:03:58.370 --> 00:04:03.830 is it? What kind of mother both are? Are they mentally 00:04:03.830 --> 00:04:09.919 ill in terms of... any kind of unusual behavior. 00:04:10.620 --> 00:04:15.020 We're talking about caregivers around these Babies, husbands, 00:04:15.280 --> 00:04:19.279 mothers, fathers, in -laws, all the governance. 00:04:19.600 --> 00:04:22.980 All the governance around these two ladies from 00:04:22.980 --> 00:04:31.180 different situations. The procedure of acceptance 00:04:31.180 --> 00:04:36.529 more or less is the same. We could have 00:04:36.529 --> 00:04:40.470 one in a marriage, she pretend as if everything 00:04:40.470 --> 00:04:45.009 is okay, when her husband goes, she is a nightmare. 00:04:45.009 --> 00:04:49.689 Or we could on the other hand 00:04:49.689 --> 00:04:56.649 this single lady from the get -go, saying she does not want 00:04:56.649 --> 00:05:01.970 her pregnancy. You see what I mean, there has to become a shining 00:05:01.970 --> 00:05:07.899 star in the midst of both separate and different 00:05:07.899 --> 00:05:15.300 world. The gold is the same someone has to become the hero 00:05:15.300 --> 00:05:18.579 for these children. They must come forward and say we are 00:05:18.579 --> 00:05:22.920 removing these kids from that/their care, Base on what 00:05:22.920 --> 00:05:26.360 the psychologist said! In the wild when a 00:05:26.360 --> 00:05:30.139 mother has a baby, if the animal 00:05:30.139 --> 00:05:33.389 determined that one kid is not good enough. 00:05:33.610 --> 00:05:36.769 It needs to be processed for protein imbalance 00:05:36.769 --> 00:05:40.870 and it eats it or whatever. There is nothing 00:05:40.870 --> 00:05:45.709 the other babies can do. They just watch it happen. 00:05:46.470 --> 00:05:51.250 You know? Someone must be the hero in the situation 00:05:51.250 --> 00:05:54.629 and come forward and tell the truth about the 00:05:54.629 --> 00:05:57.319 situation. There are times when... Everybody 00:05:57.319 --> 00:06:00.060 knows what they're supposed to do except the 00:06:00.060 --> 00:06:02.540 person involve. They're afraid to approach because 00:06:02.540 --> 00:06:05.519 they don't want to upset this person. Oh! if 00:06:05.519 --> 00:06:08.339 we upset this person, it could last for seven 00:06:08.339 --> 00:06:12.000 years, ten years. She will never forget us. Who 00:06:12.000 --> 00:06:17.160 cares? Someone must take the kid away and get the kid 00:06:17.160 --> 00:06:20.779 to some safety. Remove this kid or else the kid going 00:06:20.779 --> 00:06:26.040 to end up in the graveyard. When a mother dismiss... 00:06:26.110 --> 00:06:29.370 love from this child for whatever reason. It 00:06:29.370 --> 00:06:33.870 cannot be rekindled. It has to be from the beginning 00:06:33.870 --> 00:06:38.050 of birth. She cannot make herself love child anymore. I 00:06:38.050 --> 00:06:40.490 don't know what is the psychology behind it. 00:06:40.689 --> 00:06:43.649 It's just, unknown reason why she has rejected the child. 00:06:44.069 --> 00:06:47.930 It's the same in the wild and it's the same in 00:06:47.930 --> 00:06:52.990 human. you can say oh but wild animals they don't 00:06:52.990 --> 00:06:57.129 understand, Birth is very primitive and it's identical, 00:06:57.129 --> 00:07:03.050 hey girls! Can we just give a secret 00:07:03.050 --> 00:07:07.310 based on our studies it is said that birth is 00:07:07.310 --> 00:07:12.550 very primitive and it is standard amongst mammal 00:07:12.550 --> 00:07:16.189 there's nothing anyone can do. We can build the 00:07:16.189 --> 00:07:20.300 best robot this AI. What the hell they're doing 00:07:20.300 --> 00:07:24.339 has nothing on life. It's primitive. The family 00:07:24.339 --> 00:07:30.319 is a very primitive thing. It's primitive. It's 00:07:30.319 --> 00:07:37.660 basic, Sophistication. You can include all the 00:07:37.660 --> 00:07:42.680 gadgets and it makes the family function maybe 00:07:42.680 --> 00:07:46.459 a little bit more effective. But at the end of 00:07:46.459 --> 00:07:52.579 the day... A glass of milk is enough. Without 00:07:52.579 --> 00:07:55.519 any other thing, just a glass of milk? 00:07:56.060 --> 00:08:02.819 How primitive is that? Very primitive. Nothing 00:08:02.819 --> 00:08:07.079 is wrong with it. I'm just saying that all these 00:08:07.079 --> 00:08:11.439 things that we can add, we can have app, we 00:08:11.439 --> 00:08:14.060 can have all these computer things to identify 00:08:14.060 --> 00:08:19.519 this! The hero in the situation, is grandparents, 00:08:20.459 --> 00:08:23.600 is grand aunt, is aunt, is sister, is brother, 00:08:23.680 --> 00:08:29.120 is... I won't say! the neighbor. That's kind 00:08:29.120 --> 00:08:32.799 of like... a little bit.... It's good if the neighbor 00:08:32.799 --> 00:08:35.519 gets involved, but it's not the protocol for 00:08:35.519 --> 00:08:39.519 this. The union of safety has got to be 00:08:39.519 --> 00:08:42.879 governed by the family. You see what I mean? 00:08:43.679 --> 00:08:47.500 The hero you must identify, this mother is 00:08:47.500 --> 00:08:50.600 very rough with this kid. It would leave the 00:08:50.600 --> 00:08:54.860 child all day in the crib. No bath, no feeding. 00:08:56.820 --> 00:08:59.299 People are like, oh! We don't want to upset 00:08:59.299 --> 00:09:03.580 her because you know she is very sensitive. If 00:09:03.580 --> 00:09:07.259 we say anything, she won't speak to us. she goes 00:09:07.259 --> 00:09:10.500 in there as grandmother. It's her right. It's 00:09:10.500 --> 00:09:13.080 her basically, it's her child as well and take 00:09:13.080 --> 00:09:17.320 the kid home. It will light up your house I'm 00:09:17.320 --> 00:09:20.659 telling everyone after the 18 months. We will see those 00:09:20.659 --> 00:09:23.820 big shiny eyes and it brings life, new life in 00:09:23.820 --> 00:09:30.740 your home. Do not let this child stay in a home 00:09:30.740 --> 00:09:34.299 where it is been abused and believe me if This 00:09:34.299 --> 00:09:37.460 person would come and leave the kid on the sofa 00:09:37.460 --> 00:09:42.570 and run away do not call her close rank and try 00:09:42.570 --> 00:09:46.970 to fix it because it's very temporary 00:09:46.970 --> 00:09:51.210 a child is just a child for a moment they grow 00:09:51.210 --> 00:09:55.970 so fast don't get the police involved just take 00:09:55.970 --> 00:10:01.090 care of it. I am sorry but all these things ,oh! 00:10:01.090 --> 00:10:12.190 We don't want to upset. In conclusion girls, the 00:10:12.190 --> 00:10:17.450 gynecologist and the psychologist told us that 00:10:17.450 --> 00:10:21.750 we should not get excited because five years 00:10:21.750 --> 00:10:24.909 later, ten years later, fifteen years later, 00:10:25.690 --> 00:10:29.549 it will become worse. It will be like she has 00:10:29.549 --> 00:10:32.830 never seen this kid before. It has never spent 00:10:32.830 --> 00:10:37.029 nine months in her body. She will have something 00:10:37.029 --> 00:10:43.659 called I forgot. So this child is going to have 00:10:43.659 --> 00:10:48.700 to understand that moving forward, moving into 00:10:48.700 --> 00:10:55.940 his or her own life, They will have to 00:10:55.940 --> 00:11:03.919 create their own life, their own direction. Extend gratitude 00:11:03.919 --> 00:11:08.100 to all the kindness. That it received as a child 00:11:08.100 --> 00:11:12.419 from caregivers, grandparents. Of course, grandparents 00:11:12.419 --> 00:11:19.120 are so short in your life too. The disadvantage 00:11:19.120 --> 00:11:24.639 is, perhaps they're, what, 65 years older than 00:11:24.639 --> 00:11:28.639 you are? So the window is very short and the 00:11:28.639 --> 00:11:31.559 memory is very sweet and what you get is called, 00:11:31.820 --> 00:11:35.990 I think they call it, trip -love. Yeah! which 00:11:35.990 --> 00:11:40.070 is the best love actually move forward. 00:11:40.070 --> 00:11:45.769 Creating his or her own life, give gratitude 00:11:45.769 --> 00:11:50.309 to her for giving their birth , that's enough 00:11:50.309 --> 00:11:54.610 That's enough moving forth and create their 00:11:54.610 --> 00:12:02.889 own family, their own dynasty. From Global Political 00:12:02.889 --> 00:12:08.320 Party, All the girls here,! Mary-Ann, Darlene, Melissa, 00:12:08.879 --> 00:12:15.600 Isabel and Isabella. Will be again. Will be 00:12:15.600 --> 00:12:15.779 again.