WEBVTT 00:00:00.520 --> 00:00:08.580 Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's 00:00:08.580 --> 00:00:17.620 my house and I am the lovely Dr. Bar. Hi Dr. 00:00:17.780 --> 00:00:23.739 Bar. This is the dating season girls and this 00:00:23.739 --> 00:00:27.899 is the time of year when we have a special edition. 00:00:28.039 --> 00:00:32.840 We have five girls. We have Darlene, 00:00:33.240 --> 00:00:46.219 Mary Ann, Isabella, Isabel and Melissa. The attribution 00:00:46.219 --> 00:00:53.820 today is Isabella. This global political party 00:00:53.820 --> 00:00:59.240 special that we're doing dating in the 1920s 00:00:59.240 --> 00:01:08.980 and it is springtime and we are preparing one 00:01:08.980 --> 00:01:13.760 and all to find that special someone for marriage, 00:01:14.019 --> 00:01:29.109 right girls! Isabella wanted to know, her question 00:01:29.109 --> 00:01:37.390 is, when is the beginning of the husband hunting 00:01:37.390 --> 00:01:41.810 season? Isabella, the beginning of the husband 00:01:41.810 --> 00:01:47.290 hunting season starts the beginning of spring 00:01:47.290 --> 00:01:56.769 and ends the end of summer. Autumn and winter. 00:01:57.069 --> 00:02:05.010 are usually used for the parties involved, engagement 00:02:05.010 --> 00:02:11.030 dates, wedding arrangements for the following 00:02:11.030 --> 00:02:16.069 spring and summer. My recommendation for you 00:02:16.069 --> 00:02:22.689 is that you will arrange a spring wedding. The 00:02:22.689 --> 00:02:28.460 reason for this, spring is usually Very cool 00:02:28.460 --> 00:02:31.340 and the trees are refreshed the birds are singing 00:02:31.340 --> 00:02:36.599 life is good. Come summer, summer is very exhausting 00:02:36.599 --> 00:02:42.020 It's almost impossible for the bride to enjoy 00:02:42.020 --> 00:02:49.680 her wedding dress because of the humidity. Ladies 00:02:49.680 --> 00:02:57.599 you should only date for marriage. Casual dating is 00:02:57.599 --> 00:03:04.419 very time -consuming, exhausting, and spiritually 00:03:04.419 --> 00:03:19.340 annoying. Melissa... Okay, uh... Mary Ann, darling, 00:03:19.659 --> 00:03:28.960 Isabel... Isabella... James is here with us. 00:03:30.599 --> 00:03:34.080 They all wanted me to elaborate. They want more! 00:03:34.319 --> 00:03:39.979 They want me to dance with them through the seasons' topic 00:03:39.979 --> 00:03:52.020 of why should they date for marriage? They know 00:03:52.020 --> 00:03:57.210 the protocol, but for the viewers, they want 00:03:57.210 --> 00:04:02.430 me to have some fun with the topic. So we will 00:04:02.430 --> 00:04:08.550 continue questions and answers, Okay! Isabelle, 00:04:08.830 --> 00:04:17.870 your question is, Dr. Bar, your recommendation 00:04:17.870 --> 00:04:34.269 is that a dating season should only be used because 00:04:34.269 --> 00:04:41.290 one is in search of a husband, so in other words, 00:04:41.290 --> 00:04:50.110 you should only date for marriage, okay! yes 00:04:50.110 --> 00:04:55.470 I said, that and the reason for it is spring 00:04:55.470 --> 00:05:02.250 has a very short tail and why 00:05:02.250 --> 00:05:06.250 it's so short it is so short because it has to 00:05:06.250 --> 00:05:12.370 be effective it's not a longer month it's 00:05:12.370 --> 00:05:17.089 production months, these are months where the 00:05:17.089 --> 00:05:23.050 animals, human, everyone produces. It's one 00:05:23.050 --> 00:05:28.230 of those brutal seasons because you're coming 00:05:28.230 --> 00:05:34.029 out of winter and production must be in high 00:05:34.029 --> 00:05:40.490 gear. Because of the preservation of humanity. 00:05:43.110 --> 00:05:47.500 Come summer, you can... lead back and lounge 00:05:47.500 --> 00:05:54.939 and relax. What spring is it's 00:05:54.939 --> 00:06:05.120 um it's! Such a special time here, 00:06:05.120 --> 00:06:10.259 where everything the trees are in their element, 00:06:10.259 --> 00:06:15.250 the smell the freshness, it's rebirth, renewal, 00:06:16.129 --> 00:06:23.029 and you want to get in on the action. You 00:06:23.029 --> 00:06:29.470 should not waste your time on finding a friend 00:06:29.470 --> 00:06:33.430 during spring time. You should only date for 00:06:33.430 --> 00:06:38.410 marriage. Other seasons you can go about your 00:06:38.410 --> 00:06:43.029 business and find friends. But spring is the 00:06:43.029 --> 00:06:47.089 time of year when you have to manage this situation 00:06:47.089 --> 00:06:52.350 very well. Everything is special in springtime. 00:06:52.569 --> 00:06:57.149 The smells, the sunshine, if you look at the 00:06:57.149 --> 00:07:01.870 angle of the sun at the daytime, the moon in the nigh time, the stars, 00:07:02.029 --> 00:07:07.040 how bright they are, how low they are. Then with 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:10.060 the other seasons, when you compare those things, 00:07:10.180 --> 00:07:15.199 you find that the sun has a different position, 00:07:15.459 --> 00:07:19.300 the moon and the stars are way away, not so close 00:07:19.300 --> 00:07:24.959 and... Yeah! It's beautiful. It's a beautiful 00:07:24.959 --> 00:07:35.500 time. Such a beautiful time. And... Dating someone, 00:07:35.779 --> 00:07:42.660 why would you want to incorporate some stranger 00:07:42.660 --> 00:07:45.939 in your life, your social circle? You have your 00:07:45.939 --> 00:07:48.920 friends already, your friend group. Whenever 00:07:48.920 --> 00:07:53.779 you invite someone new in that group, you have to 00:07:53.779 --> 00:07:57.660 reshuffle, you have to re -manage, you have to 00:07:57.660 --> 00:08:02.279 re -associate. You have to learn all these moods 00:08:02.279 --> 00:08:05.740 and attitudes. Why would you want to upset 00:08:05.740 --> 00:08:08.839 your balance? Your social balance is set. When 00:08:08.839 --> 00:08:13.939 you go on a date, you present yourself as a balanced 00:08:13.939 --> 00:08:19.259 person at the table. You're not looking for your 00:08:19.259 --> 00:08:21.959 date to make you happy. You're sitting there 00:08:21.959 --> 00:08:28.709 with a happy disposition. If you do not have 00:08:28.709 --> 00:08:35.769 that feeling, you say your goodbyes. You go 00:08:35.769 --> 00:08:39.230 on the next date. It's an interview for marriage. 00:08:39.789 --> 00:08:44.090 When one is looking for a job, one could do 12 00:08:44.090 --> 00:08:47.049 interviews before one gets your job. It's the 00:08:47.049 --> 00:08:50.509 same with marriage, when one goings on these 00:08:50.509 --> 00:08:57.960 dates. A date is a... interview for marriage 00:08:57.960 --> 00:09:04.440 please do not misunderstand the meaning of a 00:09:04.440 --> 00:09:09.600 date. You have no need to sit at the table thinking 00:09:09.600 --> 00:09:14.299 oh! that poor thing I could really help fix him 00:09:14.299 --> 00:09:18.259 and make him happy. NO! It's not your job to make 00:09:18.259 --> 00:09:22.019 anyone happy when they come to the interview 00:09:22.509 --> 00:09:28.889 they should have all their ducks in a row and 00:09:28.889 --> 00:09:32.509 know where they are sleeping at night. If they don't, 00:09:33.009 --> 00:09:37.909 it's not your problem. You will leave the table 00:09:37.909 --> 00:09:44.269 as how you arrived. You play all or nothing, then 00:09:44.269 --> 00:09:46.769 move on to the next table for another interview. 00:09:52.530 --> 00:10:00.389 Dating is hardcore and brutal. And the fox that 00:10:00.389 --> 00:10:05.870 has the shiniest teeth will get the best bite. 00:10:07.370 --> 00:10:14.350 It's brutal, it's a jungle. And the reward? When 00:10:14.350 --> 00:10:19.409 you move in for the kill, the reward is just 00:10:19.409 --> 00:10:30.919 amazing. you're not there to be! I don't know 00:10:30.919 --> 00:10:34.960 how to explain, this part! it's so intense and 00:10:34.960 --> 00:10:45.000 so intriguing...uuuh! that's why the reward is so 00:10:45.000 --> 00:10:54.980 deserving. Please date for marriage, It's just 00:10:54.980 --> 00:10:58.039 spiritually annoying when you waste your precious 00:10:58.039 --> 00:11:03.080 time on garbage production. It's unnecessary. 00:11:04.559 --> 00:11:10.100 Hey James, we know the rules!. Mary-Ann, Melissa, 00:11:10.700 --> 00:11:18.159 Darlene, Isabel and Isabella. Ladies are always 00:11:18.159 --> 00:11:28.070 supposed to be shiny..! Sparkling shiny...! Right 00:11:28.070 --> 00:11:31.970 James? I am Dr. Barr. We will be again!