Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's
my house and I am the lovely Dr. Barr. Hi Dr.
Barr. This is the dating season girls and this
is the time of year when we have our special
edition. We have five girls. We have
Darlene, Mary-Anne, Isabella, Isabel and Melissa.
Melissa is our special attribution today
because Melissa is our what -if GIRL and she
has some what -if questions. Since we are all
love doctors, right Girl? This question is going
to Dr. Bar, the host of this Love Magnet
show. This is the time of year when, whosoever
you meet and greet, it's okay to say yes to marriage,
it's okay to say yes to forever. It's okay to
be a romantic. It's okay to be in the clouds. It's
okay to be in fantasy land If you're a romantic,
and even if you're not. You can still join the party
and say yes! it's okay as well because feeling
good, has no label, with marriage you feel so
good. It's When you really get the hang of it
It just has a hundred percent feel -good factor
right girls and this season we want Everyone
to experience it. We want them to become a part
of our Marriage club forever Okay, Melissa Hit
us hard with the question. This special edition
is attributed to spring and summer and the pleasure
of the dating season. It's such an institution,
isn't it girls? Yeah!, I think the dating season
is an institution that must be respected. Hi
girls, Melissa, Darlene, Mary-Anne, Isabel and
Isabella. Welcome girls. Today's topic as we
celebrate and welcome springtime and of course
you know it's the dating season for marriage
and we're excited about it because we love marriages.
Melissa is our what -if Girl! She's always been.
Oh, what if girls? So, at least this question
is. Girls? Hey, uh, Dr. Barr. What if someone
goes around/about his or her business, they're already married, they
would meet someone during the dating season, outside of their marriage!
And it feels so good. It feels like how it felt
with their husband, that kind of feeling. How
should they address this situation? And so before
I answer the question, Melissa, I would like
to ask you. So that is scenario one. Do you have
another scenario? before I answer because I'm
sure many married people meet and have had this
kind of interaction with opposite sexes during
the time for date for marriage and they go home
to their husbands or their wives and nothing
become of it. So the person that would entertain
this to the point where they would try to even
kind of invade their marriage with the situation.
You see what I mean? This is a situation of greed
and it will get ugly because I think in a technical
way, for this to get drawn out because you meet
people every day and for you to take it into
your home. Oh! then it becomes like a parasite
in the marriage. I'm not happy anymore. I'm not
fulfilled anymore just because you went and you
found this new feeling and You're thinking but
that's how I felt when I met my husband. It
must be the correct thing to go and ask my husband
for a divorce to go forth with this person. Right,
Melissa? You said that it's a case where... It's
just, it's just one of those like a springtime
moment where it feels so good. Yeah! but to disrupt
your marriage to go after a bird in the bush.
Hey give a dog a bone! All right It's craziness
and it should not be entertained this guy, that lady
met! this guy she cannot stop thinking about him
he never asked her to marry him. He asked nothing,
he just wanted to enter her marriage to destroy
it. This guy is either two things, 1. he's married,
2. he's living with his mother, And
he's destined to destroy everything he touches
because he is not getting his way at home. His
wife is ignoring him and/or his mother... and maybe he is between
35, 40, with his mother telling him what to do like he's a little
five year old kid. I would suggest that this
person go home to her husband and make a nice
meal with candle light and ask her body, mind
and soul to forgive that moment and let it go.
Let it go, let it be, let it be gone. This is
not something you want to go and tell
your husband you need a divorce. Really? This
has got to be insanity, Melissa. Could you please
tell that person? to make her husband, a nice meal? and
take care of her husband and her home and her
family and forget this garbage. She's a married
woman and she's not supposed to meet anyone.
It doesn't matter the feeling that she's having.
she's a human, of course she's going to have
feelings. And as long as she's alive and healthy,
it's the healthy thing to have feelings. But
it's the healthy thing to go home to her husband.
she is married, and it is non -negotiable. This
guy is a demon and he should leave his mother's
basement and go get his own apartment and get
his own wife. On the other hand if he's married
he should go home and have respect for his home
and his wife, maybe his wife will sleep with
him if he start having respect for her because
if he did he would not be out and about trying
to find a girl to take to bed, because that's
what he wants. He just wants one moment with
this lady. And she's going to destroy her marriage
for this. The answer is no. Right girls? We all
voted. Melissa? You agree? No? Okay. Mary-Anne?
No. Darlene? No. Isabella, no! Isabel, no!
We all, our loyalty belongs to marriage. I am
Dr. Barr. We'll be again.