Welcome to the 1920s dating experience. It's
my house and I am the lovely Dr. Bar. Hi Dr.
Bar. This is the dating season girls and this
is the time of year when we have a special edition.
We have five girls. We have Darlene,
Mary-Ann, Isabella, Isabel and Melissa. The attribution
today is Isabella. This global political party
special that we're doing dating in the 1920s
and it is springtime and we are preparing one
and all to find that special someone for marriage,
right girls? And Isabella wanted to know How
do you... After meeting, This is a question and
I think it's a good one. I must say that
Dr. Bar does not approach questions on feelings.
I have no feelings in the matter and I have no
opinion. I am going to do it based on facts and
practicality. So that's why Melissa, Mary-Anne,
Darlene, Isabel and Isabella can always ask
Dr. Barr anything and the girls collect the questions
from the emails and ask Dr. Barr to deal with
it. So Dr. Barr has no connection with the harvesting
of the question. I am given the question and
I will handle the question as how they were given
to me. Okay, so let's go girls. The question
is. It is very important for us to define the
protocols of dating and procedure. So okay, it's
the protocol and the procedure. All right. Isabella,
you said that, for instance, you would meet someone
in the right time. It's the dating season, and
you meet someone. The dating 1920s protocol that we
govern by here, we do not use modern technology.
It has to be an old organizer. It has to be an
old calendar. It's just pen and paper and no
telephone, no computers, none whatsoever. Okay?
Got that. Clear. The situation is that the girls
are saying that the questions are coming in asking,
so how do you communicate? That's a totally excellent
question. Okay, you meet someone, let's just
say in the mall. Okay, you agree to go on a date
in seven days. You will pull out a little organizer
and write the date there. This person should
not know if you have a telephone or not. Okay,
if it's for dating. If it's for other reasons sure you
can Give or whatever, but when it comes on
to dating. Let us be clear. This is the 1920s
dating style and That the situation is older time, but You
see where we're going with this. So okay.
okay is about the question is What is the protocol
and procedure for timeline inspired by the 1920s?
Meaning, step one, you meet, follow up procedures,
guidelines and protocol. up to the wedding
day and beyond? That's the question, right? That's
the answers you need, okay? So, in this video
we will be addressing this and James will join
us because James needs to know step one... we
will not be overwhelming. We will do it slowly
so it's easier to adopt, adaptation is very important
if it must be a success because as we move into
our current situation where it's so easy for
us to give a number, do this, and invade your
personal space. If a gentleman would like to
have that time with you, he should ask you to
marry him. When you say goodbye at the restaurant,
that's it. If there wasn't an initiation, okay,
Can we see again? Because again means marriage.
There's no need for you to entertain the same
person twice. For what? This is what happened.
It gets disrespectful. It gets pregnancy without
marriage. It gets kids that no one wants. abuse
and disrespect so timeline is very important
so let us focus on Isabella and girls we will be
addressing the appointment the first appointment
the scenario as you know girls James will be
joining us today so the scenario is: Boy goes to
the mall girl goes to the mall, boy meet girl,
boy ask girl for a date, girl says, yes okay! the
timeline is okay. They agreed to meet for breakfast
And breakfast is a very sure sign that he's employed
because you will both be in a hurry. You have
maybe one hour for breakfast. Lunch, he could
be unemployed and pretending that he is, but
usually breakfast is the sure sign. The presentation
is going to be... elegant, sophistication, and
clean. He's on his way to work, you're on your
way to work, or maybe not, maybe you got dolled
up just for the occasion, but you're a girl,
it's okay! Breakfast, I would recommend,
because it tells you he's employed, or he's a
great pretender. You'll see how he would... be
dressed on his way to work. Okay? And you should
make your way there independently. He should
not know your address. You should not know his
address. You should not know where he works.
He should not know where you work. The mystery
of the situation is the diamond in the rough.
You want to maintain that mystery, it's the lady,
and you command that mystery. Every man wants
one. You make sure you are so shiny, he cannot
do without you, when you present yourself. The
fine print is... Ladies and gentlemen, you should
make your way there 15 minutes early. You should
arrive independently. This is the first date.
And I must tell you, ladies, if you're unable
to prepare three meals, breakfast, lunch, and
dinner, you're unable to do basic needlework,
and you're a bummer at... basic conversation
you're not ready to go on a date you're not ready
to be married and you should have That experience okay! Isabelle
, Isabella second question is after the
first date is done. We will address this in part
two. You would have already agreed
on the next date. Before you leave the restaurant
That's why you never give your telephone number
Because if he wants your telephone number he
should ask you to marry him. In the second date
This means that you both had this spiritual connection
that you can feel it because a man usually knows
his wife already, from the first date, the first
seconds of meeting. So in the second date
we will address the protocol of a second date
moving forward. this is the first date. If after
the first date, there is no initiation of another meet-up
for a second date. then you say your goodbyes
and you go on your merry ways. Please do not take
any continuation, like telephone number, no it's
unnecessary, then clearly! it's not your guy and it's not your
girl. You must let it be and move on, to another date.
My Girls already knows this! ladies you should have an inside look that he
will only discover this look after marriage because
that's a look that you will need for the pool
breakfast, pool parties. The weekend pool parties.
Your inside look is that breakfast sophistication
you must acquire an inside look that is your
signature look in the house You have to be shiny
at home. Sparkling, actually. And that is non
-negotiable. What I'm doing, girls? James, do
you like it? Yeah! I am Dr. Bar. we will be again!