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So if anything becomes more of a reality for

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me as I age, it's that reality oftentimes sucks.

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And that's partly because you cannot impose your

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will onto the world in whatever way you'd like,

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right? That's just unfortunate reality. And then

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part of growing up is learning when and where

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you can exercise some control. So the reality

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is just simply this. You cannot control everything.

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You can only control what you control, which

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is a very limited sphere in the larger scale

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of things. You probably cannot control as much

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as you think, but you also can control more than

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you think. Both of these can be true at the same

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time. The hope is that you have an accurate understanding

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of what you can and can't control.