00:00:06:03 - 00:00:10:07 Unknown What happens if I turn it up? What happens if I turn it up? What happens if I go? 00:00:10:07 - 00:00:11:19 Unknown What happens if I turn it? 00:00:11:27 - 00:00:13:15 Unknown Okay, well, we're going to find. 00:00:13:22 - 00:00:13:51 Unknown Oh Hey, 00:00:13:51 - 00:00:14:49 Unknown I didn't see there. 00:00:14:49 - 00:00:15:31 Unknown I love you. 00:00:15:31 - 00:00:18:48 Unknown Your body resembles a wild hyena. 00:00:18:53 - 00:00:19:47 Unknown You guys remember that 00:00:19:47 - 00:00:23:38 Unknown Justin Bieber posted that in, like, what, 2009? You guys don't remember that? 00:00:23:38 - 00:00:30:27 Unknown I'm the only one that remembers that. That's fine. no somebody else remembers that. That was so funny. Are you kidding me? The 00:00:30:27 - 00:00:33:19 Unknown on the keyboard. Hilarious. 00:00:33:19 - 00:00:36:43 Unknown Well, hey, welcome back to toke It Out. 00:00:36:46 - 00:00:43:43 Unknown Let's get right into it. Happy black history month. The government might not recognize you, but this corner of the internet does. And always. Well, 00:00:43:43 - 00:00:46:09 Unknown black history is world history. And, 00:00:46:09 - 00:00:53:38 Unknown to be honest, I am a little unprepared. But I would this month like to highlight some small black businesses online that you guys can support. 00:00:54:24 - 00:01:00:03 Unknown Cannabis businesses, I hope so. I'm going to do some research into that and let you guys know. 00:01:00:03 - 00:01:13:37 Unknown Figured I'd tell you what I'm token out on today. Probably since I've token out on it right now, but it's the light sky farms, bubble hash infused joints. This one is what? Yeah. The fourth kind. Yeah. 00:01:13:42 - 00:01:15:31 Unknown Got me feeling the fourth, right? 00:01:15:31 - 00:01:17:07 Unknown I don't know what that's supposed to mean, but, 00:01:17:07 - 00:01:23:33 Unknown it it's it was good. It was good. So if you are around Michigan, definitely check out Light Skin Farms products. 00:01:23:33 - 00:01:25:05 Unknown Getting right into it. Really? 00:01:25:05 - 00:01:32:45 Unknown Do you guys have you noticed that? Do you guys, like, have male friends that will send you reels on Instagram and obviously like TikToks? 00:01:32:45 - 00:01:35:07 Unknown I'm just like, so TikTok ignorant. 00:01:35:07 - 00:01:56:44 Unknown I feel like men will send you things that they like, but women will send you things that they think you will like. You know what I mean? Like, men will be like, wow, this is so funny. I'm going to share it with everybody. And like, it might not be my brand of humor, but I feel like women send you things that they're like, okay, yeah, I think this person is going to particularly like this. 00:01:56:44 - 00:02:10:34 Unknown Is it just me? Does that just happen to me? I don't know, I feel like I've definitely noticed that in my male friends, except a couple. I think a couple are kind of in tune with that. But past that, it's not kind of a weird what do you guys think about that? It's kind of weird. Like. 00:02:10:34 - 00:02:11:22 Unknown Thing to notice. 00:02:11:22 - 00:02:11:50 Unknown I don't know. 00:02:12:14 - 00:02:20:00 Unknown I, like, don't have too much on the agenda today. I've got a story I want to tell you guys, some hot tea and, 00:02:20:00 - 00:02:21:43 Unknown but before we get to that, I 00:02:21:43 - 00:02:22:43 Unknown do. You guys okay? 00:02:22:43 - 00:02:32:28 Unknown I'm like, I'm not going to talk about this long, but I know some of you remember. Do you remember when Venmo would show you everybody's purchases? 00:02:32:32 - 00:02:35:30 Unknown Like, it'd be like a fee, like a for you page of just 00:02:35:30 - 00:02:37:19 Unknown random people's purchases? 00:02:37:19 - 00:02:52:41 Unknown I used to love it. People made fun of me constantly because I would get on that and like things and comment because people would write the most ridiculous things. Like, I wish I could find out. I'm going to see if there's something. 00:02:52:46 - 00:02:54:48 Unknown Dude, we used to love that shit. 00:02:54:53 - 00:02:57:36 Unknown Okay, there's like, not as funny ones that are like. 00:02:57:36 - 00:02:58:48 Unknown Dumplings all day. 00:02:58:48 - 00:03:02:01 Unknown That's a good one. But, I mean, it used to be like 00:03:02:01 - 00:03:11:43 Unknown your mom's pineapple dildo and shit, like, I mean, crazy people would come up with the most ridiculous things for, like, you know, we're going out to lunch together and shit. 00:03:11:43 - 00:03:12:34 Unknown Anything. 00:03:12:34 - 00:03:13:43 Unknown Or was it just me? 00:03:13:45 - 00:03:19:16 Unknown Because I'm looking at these purchases, like these screenshots and whatever, and they're all super normal. Like what? 00:03:19:16 - 00:03:23:20 Unknown Why the wet? Why the wet emoji? And then the cash emoji. Wet money. 00:03:23:20 - 00:03:31:19 Unknown Weird Bible study hand wipes. We exchanged money, a Bible study, and maybe like, food and stuff. Okay, that makes sense. Yeah, okay. 00:03:31:19 - 00:03:36:42 Unknown Oh, and P.S. sorry last week about me sounding like a robot 00:03:36:42 - 00:03:49:35 Unknown I'm a one woman show over here, so if you guys are like, wow, that sounds horrible. Be like, yeah, because I am not a producer of a podcast. I'm one bitch talking about bullshit. So, 00:03:49:35 - 00:03:50:11 Unknown Okay. 00:03:50:11 - 00:03:53:29 Unknown Come warm up with some jazz tonight, Johnny. Speakeasy. 00:03:53:29 - 00:04:00:57 Unknown Why am I getting texts like this? Like you make one OpenTable reservation. Now all of a sudden you're signed up for public text. 00:04:00:57 - 00:04:03:11 Unknown I don't know that. Is that what I'm agreeing to? 00:04:03:11 - 00:04:03:51 Unknown Was trying to 00:04:03:51 - 00:04:05:27 Unknown eat a creme brulee. Fuck. 00:04:05:27 - 00:04:06:22 Unknown But anyways, 00:04:06:22 - 00:04:10:13 Unknown Okay. I can't find, like, super funny ones, but, I mean, it used to be like, 00:04:10:13 - 00:04:14:42 Unknown you know, your dad's warm nuts. Grandmas, you know? 00:04:14:42 - 00:04:18:05 Unknown I don't know, I don't I'm not trying to offend grandmas out there. You're great. 00:04:18:18 - 00:04:18:41 Unknown But 00:04:18:41 - 00:04:25:54 Unknown I miss that. And I would tell people like, oh, my God, is just so funny. Do you guys not do this? And they'd be like, what are you doing? 00:04:25:54 - 00:04:28:04 Unknown Like, what are you doing? 00:04:28:04 - 00:04:33:18 Unknown Looking at random people's purchases and commenting on them. Like, what business do you have doing that? And I'm like, 00:04:33:18 - 00:04:35:04 Unknown why else would they put it up there? 00:04:35:09 - 00:04:43:42 Unknown Why? Unless they wanted people to look and comment and react, you know? And then I'd have random people react to mine that were like stupid. And I remember being like, 00:04:43:42 - 00:04:48:14 Unknown that's a banger. That that's a banger for sure. Big bangers over here. 00:04:48:21 - 00:04:49:40 Unknown You know what needs more hype? 00:04:49:40 - 00:05:03:56 Unknown Groundhog day I don't know why people aren't as interested in Groundhog Day as I am. Are you kidding? A whole town gets together, they sell tickets, they get together and celebrate. 00:05:03:56 - 00:05:12:19 Unknown Frickin a rodent. A big old mouse. Come on out of it. How did the grounds where it is Groundhog day today? 00:05:12:49 - 00:05:22:13 Unknown I already you better believe I already know the results. That little fucker, that coward, hid from his shadow. And we have six more weeks of winter. So 00:05:22:13 - 00:05:29:35 Unknown whatever. Punxsutawney. Here, let's. I want to let's see how much our tickets to Punxsutawney Phil's unveiling. 00:05:29:39 - 00:05:31:36 Unknown Punxsutawney Phil makes his prediction. 00:05:31:36 - 00:05:34:51 Unknown To check to see if he saw a shadow, the blah blah blah. 00:05:34:51 - 00:05:44:27 Unknown Oh, the year 1886 marked the first time Groundhog Day appeared in the local paper in Punxsutawney, Philadelphia. Oh my God, looks. 00:05:44:27 - 00:05:49:44 Unknown Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania. Who the fuck? God. 00:05:49:44 - 00:06:01:36 Unknown Why do you guys listen to this? fucking geez Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania. The tradition continued to grow and is now celebrated all over the world. 00:06:01:41 - 00:06:08:51 Unknown didn’t know This was a world event, bitch. And that this was a fuckin. That's crazy. Oh. 00:06:08:56 - 00:06:16:17 Unknown Pennsylvania Governor Josh Shapiro has a message for Peta. Punxsutawney Phil isn't going anywhere. 00:06:16:17 - 00:06:21:03 Unknown I'd like. Is Punxsutawney Phil in danger? Peta? He's just. He's chillin. 00:06:21:03 - 00:06:35:28 Unknown Wants to replace Phil with a vegan cake. Okay, well, that's stupid. Replace him with a stuffed animal and, like, a spinning wheel, a, vegan cake we talking about? That's weird. Eat the vegan cake. 00:06:35:28 - 00:06:38:55 Unknown Include that in Groundhog Day. What are you talking about? Peta? 00:06:38:57 - 00:06:42:30 Unknown Why am I even getting this information? It's the news website. I promise I'll look at it. 00:06:42:35 - 00:06:43:07 Unknown Oh my God. 00:06:43:12 - 00:06:44:38 Unknown Oh, no way. 00:06:44:38 - 00:06:58:07 Unknown That's crazy. Don't have a groundhog in Nevada. Is Mojave Max a tortoise whose weather predictions accurately sit at only 25%? Where's Phil's? What's 00:06:58:07 - 00:07:00:43 Unknown how accurate is is Punxsutawney Phil? 00:07:00:43 - 00:07:05:37 Unknown But where does it's literally like someone but where's Phil saying unfortunately 00:07:05:37 - 00:07:09:16 Unknown only a little bit above Max at a 35% accuracy. 00:07:09:16 - 00:07:16:03 Unknown That is according to the NOAA. However, State Island Chuck allegedly has the best. 00:07:16:03 - 00:07:20:30 Unknown However state Island Chuck, who the fuck is state Island? Chuck Staten Island. 00:07:20:35 - 00:07:42:32 Unknown Take me out back and have me shocked. What the fuck am I doing reading? You guys get out of here. I should just be telling stories. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing reading this. This bubble hashtag. Jay got me so messed up right now. Don't people who can smoke and then read a book? You're crazy. I have to smoke. 00:07:42:32 - 00:07:47:49 Unknown And then I'm, like, trying to. I'm like rereading the first paragraph over and over again like crazy. 00:07:47:49 - 00:07:53:16 Unknown Phil isn't the only groundhog making predictions on Groundhog Day in New York, there are multiple. 00:07:53:16 - 00:08:02:31 Unknown Multiple groundhog predictors like Staten Island, Chuck and Dunkirk Dave. Unlike the very much alive Phil, the taxidermied. 00:08:02:36 - 00:08:08:18 Unknown Octoraro Orphie makes a prediction in Quarryville, Pennsylvania. 00:08:08:18 - 00:08:10:03 Unknown That is so crazy. 00:08:10:03 - 00:08:10:45 Unknown Oh my God. 00:08:10:45 - 00:08:11:15 Unknown Okay, 00:08:11:15 - 00:08:20:42 Unknown so Staten Island Chuck allegedly has the best track record at 85%. However, we'll stick with that. 00:08:20:42 - 00:08:25:56 Unknown What is Staten Island? What is Staten Island? Chuck say okay, so 00:08:25:56 - 00:08:32:01 Unknown I am a Punxsutawney Phil diehard. Don't get it twisted. Don't get it twisted. 00:08:32:06 - 00:08:32:51 Unknown What? 00:08:32:51 - 00:08:35:23 Unknown Staten island Chuck? What does he have to say 00:08:35:23 - 00:08:36:27 Unknown about today? 00:08:36:27 - 00:08:48:46 Unknown Oh, he's so cute. He's so motherfucking cute. Oh, Staten Island Chuck. Oh, he's so cute. He's so cute. 00:08:48:46 - 00:08:50:01 Unknown Oh, God damn. 00:08:50:01 - 00:08:50:38 Unknown Okay. 00:08:50:38 - 00:08:55:47 Unknown Staten Island Chuck does not see shadow predicts early spring in 2025. 00:08:55:47 - 00:08:59:22 Unknown Hell, yeah. That's according to ABC seven New York. 00:08:59:31 - 00:09:00:32 Unknown What was the other one? I was on? 00:09:00:32 - 00:09:05:48 Unknown Oh, Puxatauney I was on some some Pittsburgh's news website, channel four. 00:09:05:48 - 00:09:21:30 Unknown That's crazy. Okay, so, Phil, Chuck, you know, the ultimate battle. Who is really going to be accurate? Honestly, I am a Phil diehard, but I don't I don't want to be right now. I don't want to be a Phil diehard. 00:09:21:30 - 00:09:34:33 Unknown I want to believe Staten Island, Chuck. But don't tell Phil because we have a really good rapport, okay? I have a I have a stuffed animal, a Punxsutawney Phil. It's okay. I'm 31 years old. It's fine. I'm okay. Don't worry about me. 00:09:34:33 - 00:09:35:48 Unknown What? That. 00:09:35:48 - 00:09:38:56 Unknown Okay, so this is why it needs more hype. 00:09:39:01 - 00:09:51:24 Unknown This is why it needs more hype. The ultimate battle between the two groundhogs. Please. That's better than the Super Bowl. Better than the Super Bowl. I don't care whatever. Who do you think's going to win the Super Bowl? 00:09:51:24 - 00:10:00:27 Unknown Taylor Swift's husband or, the Rowdiest city in America. Like, for real? I think the Rowdiest city in America is going to take it. 00:10:00:32 - 00:10:08:21 Unknown I think Taylor Swift's husband had his time. I know they're not, you know, whatever. People think that they're going to break up, which I think is nuts. 00:10:08:21 - 00:10:17:26 Unknown Will they maybe. Who knows, I don't know. I don't follow that too much. But if you know, if you have predictions on that, I do want to know Super Bowl or Taylor Swift's breakup. 00:10:17:31 - 00:10:18:14 Unknown I'm interested. 00:10:18:14 - 00:10:19:17 Unknown I'm interested. 00:10:19:17 - 00:10:38:38 Unknown You know what? So going back to where I, like, brought up the news articles and stuff, I think a question we all need to be asking when somebody gives us a recommendation or tells us a piece of news or fact or whatever, that's just all. Get in the habit of asking, hey, where'd you hear that from? 00:10:38:43 - 00:10:58:14 Unknown Straight up. Like, where'd you hear that from? What's your source? Because if you're going to tell me a screenshot on Instagram one more fucking time or some fake ass like, news article, I'm done. I'm so done. I'm done with it, dude. Like, 00:10:58:14 - 00:11:02:01 Unknown this is what they want. This is what they want. You guys, 00:11:02:01 - 00:11:09:17 Unknown This is what they want to confuse us. To fucking feed us too much information on that. We can't, like, sort through it and shit. 00:11:09:17 - 00:11:12:24 Unknown Oh, yeah. I'm having a hard time about it, let me tell you. 00:11:12:24 - 00:11:14:39 Unknown It's a motherfucker. Sucks. 00:11:14:39 - 00:11:23:13 Unknown So let's just all get in the habit of that. And also, like when we see a piece of information, be like, okay, let's go ahead and double check that and make sure it's for real, 00:11:23:13 - 00:11:30:13 Unknown okay? Right. We're all agreeing to that. Is that is that too much to ask of anyone for anything? I don't think so. 00:11:30:17 - 00:11:42:38 Unknown Google search it literally. I got the answer to almost every question under the sun. Why don't we use it? Why don't we just check what's what's 30 more seconds of your life? Is it really that much? I don't think so. 00:11:42:38 - 00:11:44:20 Unknown I don't think so. 00:11:44:27 - 00:11:49:36 Unknown One of the notes I have. I don't know why I wrote this. This is not something we're going to talk about right now, but 00:11:49:36 - 00:12:04:24 Unknown the willpower I'm exhibiting by not ordering burlesque fans and saving up for a boob job should be awarded with burlesque fans and a boob job. I don't know why I wrote that, but some inner thoughts, some insight thoughts being put into the T I O episode 4 notes. 00:12:05:53 - 00:12:09:52 Unknown Okay, so I was going to talk about the Nutty Putty incident. 00:12:09:52 - 00:12:11:05 Unknown You guys, I want to hear about this. 00:12:11:05 - 00:12:13:57 Unknown But I think that's such a long story. 00:12:13:57 - 00:12:15:46 Unknown And like, a lot of, like, fact checking 00:12:15:46 - 00:12:18:40 Unknown that I'm going to tell you guys this personal story 00:12:18:40 - 00:12:19:20 Unknown instead. 00:12:19:20 - 00:12:20:04 Unknown Fuel Up 00:12:20:04 - 00:12:22:43 Unknown And I'm, like, a little nervous to tell this story. Honestly, 00:12:22:48 - 00:12:30:28 Unknown because it's not something I ever want to like. I don't want to focus on this person. I rather focus on, like, the story around it. So 00:12:30:28 - 00:12:32:42 Unknown I'm going to tell you some of my personal feelings, but 00:12:32:42 - 00:12:36:20 Unknown at the end of the day, this is not a like diss but. 00:12:36:20 - 00:12:37:40 Unknown It's still nerve wracking. 00:12:37:40 - 00:12:38:11 Unknown Like 00:12:38:11 - 00:12:40:33 Unknown telling this because it's 00:12:40:33 - 00:12:44:39 Unknown this person is like still around. So I. 00:12:44:39 - 00:12:48:52 Unknown Just wonder what she might do if she knows I'm telling this story. So, 00:12:48:52 - 00:12:49:51 Unknown but let's get into it. 00:12:49:56 - 00:12:50:31 Unknown So 00:12:50:31 - 00:13:13:47 Unknown what even brought up? The reason I'm going to tell the story is that I went to an event recently, and the event was fine it was a fine event. One critique I have is that I wish that these colored lights that were on this stage were matching the, like poster. They were green, and I get why they were green, but the colors of the poster were like blue and red, and I wish they were blue and red. 00:13:13:52 - 00:13:14:50 Unknown Whatever. 00:13:14:52 - 00:13:18:00 Unknown But I went and I immediately felt 00:13:18:00 - 00:13:19:04 Unknown so 00:13:19:04 - 00:13:19:45 Unknown like. 00:13:19:47 - 00:13:30:34 Unknown out of place. I felt so socially awkward. Which is not usually me. Especially like being in a good place and whatever. Like, mentally, I feel like I'm in a really good place altogether, 00:13:30:34 - 00:13:31:07 Unknown but 00:13:31:07 - 00:13:33:50 Unknown I felt super out of place. I felt super 00:13:33:50 - 00:13:36:08 Unknown like just awkward. 00:13:36:08 - 00:13:47:12 Unknown I felt like, what am I doing here? Who am I talking to? What is the point? I kind of like didn't know what I was stepping into, so maybe that's what that's like on me for not knowing more, 00:13:47:12 - 00:13:48:21 Unknown but I like 00:13:48:21 - 00:13:53:15 Unknown I ended up like going ups. They had like two levels and going upstairs and basically just like 00:13:53:15 - 00:13:59:12 Unknown chillin in the corner and like looking down, just like watching the party and whatever and like trying to smile. 00:13:59:12 - 00:14:03:56 Unknown But then I felt like looking down and smiling. I was like, looked like I was super judgmental and shit. 00:14:03:56 - 00:14:10:39 Unknown I didn't not want to feel like that. So I just like, stood there and I, like, waited for my friends to show up. And then my friend show up and. 00:14:10:42 - 00:14:22:54 Unknown Starting to feel better, starting to smoke a little bit. A couple people come up to me and they like, they basically say hi and then walk away. And I was like, okay, cool, because I'm like, I don't really have anything to present to people right now. 00:14:22:54 - 00:14:26:01 Unknown Like, this is such a new podcast. Like, what am I really? 00:14:26:01 - 00:14:29:38 Unknown What am I really like telling people, you know, I don't have a million subscribers. 00:14:29:38 - 00:14:29:46 Unknown so 00:14:29:46 - 00:14:30:21 Unknown I'm 00:14:30:21 - 00:14:41:48 Unknown trying to feel okay. I like, talk to a couple people man do I awkwardly laugh, awkwardly laugh in this guy's face. So loud. You guys. So loud 00:14:41:48 - 00:14:45:21 Unknown It was the worst. It was so horrible. 00:14:45:26 - 00:14:50:46 Unknown And then that's the moment I knew I gotta get out of here. I got to leave. I was meeting up with somebody. 00:14:50:46 - 00:14:53:03 Unknown So I was waiting for them and whatever, but, 00:14:53:03 - 00:14:58:08 Unknown once I met up with them, I was like, I ain't gotta get out of here. I got to leave. And nothing to do with the event. 00:14:58:08 - 00:14:59:45 Unknown The event was fine It was me. 00:14:59:45 - 00:15:03:04 Unknown And I feel like sometimes I go to these events and, like, 00:15:03:04 - 00:15:19:58 Unknown I'm either to focus on networking or I feel too awkward. And that prevents me a lot from, like, making a lot of female friends. And I want to be able to do that more. But I am such like a weird person, and then I feel like I have the worst resting bitch face. 00:15:19:58 - 00:15:22:39 Unknown And I always come to these events like beat the shit and whatever. 00:15:22:40 - 00:15:23:01 Unknown But I 00:15:23:01 - 00:15:25:09 Unknown like, want to be friends with people. And then I'm like, 00:15:25:09 - 00:15:26:52 Unknown who's got out there around me? 00:15:26:52 - 00:15:31:00 Unknown Who's got ulterior motives and who's like, just trying to sell me their shit 00:15:31:00 - 00:15:34:35 Unknown their page or their, you know, brand or whatever. 00:15:34:35 - 00:15:45:00 Unknown They're and I like it's sucks sometimes. And so that keeps me guarded. And it's me who's guarded like, if I'm not and I'm not approaching people. 00:15:45:02 - 00:15:46:17 Unknown So whatever. 00:15:46:17 - 00:15:46:51 Unknown But 00:15:46:52 - 00:15:49:38 Unknown sadly, I think it's due to this one incident 00:15:49:38 - 00:15:52:07 Unknown with this friend I had in the industry. 00:15:52:07 - 00:15:57:45 Unknown Are we going to call her? I don't want to call her something that like, obviously I'm not going using her real name. 00:15:57:45 - 00:15:58:36 Unknown And I'm trying to think of 00:15:58:36 - 00:16:00:24 Unknown some random name 00:16:00:24 - 00:16:01:32 Unknown to use. 00:16:01:37 - 00:16:17:38 Unknown Okay, let's use the name Bianca because I feel like I don't know Bianca in the industry, so I don't want to use like an Amanda, Katie or a gent because I like, know people in the industry like that. And I don't want anybody to think, oh, she's not using the real name. Wink wink. No. Okay, so let's call her Bianca. 00:16:17:49 - 00:16:21:05 Unknown It's clear Bianca and Jeremy, these two friends that I had, 00:16:21:05 - 00:16:26:42 Unknown Jeremy didn't work in the industry, but Jeremy was Bianca's friend from, like, high school, so they were really close. 00:16:26:42 - 00:16:27:26 Unknown I 00:16:27:26 - 00:16:28:24 Unknown was close with them. 00:16:28:24 - 00:16:37:11 Unknown They ended up having a falling out with my group of friends that I still have. And then those group of friends kind of told me the situation and was like, 00:16:37:11 - 00:16:38:32 Unknown you know, be careful. 00:16:38:37 - 00:17:02:56 Unknown And me not trying, like trying to navigate friendship. I was like, okay, well, I don't want to be a toxic person, and I don't want to have this preconceived notion of somebody that that I don't personally have. So I need to, like, maybe separate that person's incident with this person from this person and my’s relationship. Right. Me and Bianca's so 00:17:02:56 - 00:17:03:49 Unknown Bianca. 00:17:03:49 - 00:17:06:53 Unknown She starts kind of going off the rails, 00:17:06:53 - 00:17:10:19 Unknown and not like she wasn't, like, doing drugs or drinking or anything, but she just was. 00:17:10:19 - 00:17:21:53 Unknown Becoming, like, a really angry person. Like, she obviously was going through a lot of personal stuff, and she just was becoming this angry person. And I noticed it, but I was like, well, I want to be there for my friend. 00:17:21:53 - 00:17:24:22 Unknown Why wouldn't I want to be there for my friend? Like, 00:17:24:22 - 00:17:37:18 Unknown I'm not not horrible, you know, I want to like, you know, I'm not a I'm not a fairweather friend. I want to be there for you if it's good or it's bad. You know what I mean? Like, and I'm not the person to dip out whatever. 00:17:37:18 - 00:17:43:39 Unknown So Bianca and I, Bianca, Jeremy and I've been hanging out a lot, and it seems fine. 00:17:43:44 - 00:17:44:23 Unknown And 00:17:44:23 - 00:17:48:30 Unknown so Bianca invites me to Vegas. 00:17:48:30 - 00:17:51:37 Unknown She's going for her birthday. Cool. I love that, 00:17:51:37 - 00:17:55:34 Unknown I've never this point. I'd never been. And I was like, very cool. I want to go. 00:17:55:34 - 00:18:02:28 Unknown It was 2020, 2021 ish. So it was empty. Super empty. 00:18:02:33 - 00:18:03:47 Unknown Awesome. No problem. 00:18:03:52 - 00:18:08:38 Unknown So before we go, Bianca, Jeremy and I meet up at this club. 00:18:08:38 - 00:18:19:54 Unknown And not. Not like a club. Not like a nightclub, but this state club, this, like, little spa place. And we talk and we hang out, and she tells me that she's been talking to somebody online. 00:18:19:54 - 00:18:20:54 Unknown Bianca's married. 00:18:20:54 - 00:18:21:23 Unknown Okay? 00:18:21:23 - 00:18:24:01 Unknown I'm not the person to define your relationship. 00:18:24:01 - 00:18:26:12 Unknown I'm not the person to tell you that. You know, 00:18:26:12 - 00:18:35:09 Unknown this is a good or a bad thing to do. And I have no idea. She's got an open marriage or whatever. Like, that's that's the inner workings of your life, girl, not mine. 00:18:35:09 - 00:18:35:47 Unknown So 00:18:35:47 - 00:18:40:14 Unknown she said that she's been talking to somebody and that they want to meet up and, like, hang out on the strip, 00:18:40:14 - 00:18:40:56 Unknown and I'm like, 00:18:40:56 - 00:18:46:21 Unknown okay, well, it's good we meet you in Jeremy, so that should be fine. 00:18:46:30 - 00:18:53:16 Unknown Should be fine, right? Because if anything, I got Jeremy to hang out with. If you guys are hanging out and whatever. Not a big deal. 00:18:53:16 - 00:18:56:15 Unknown And then I start thinking about it, and I'm like, no, 00:18:56:15 - 00:19:03:03 Unknown I don't think I could go. I, I don't think I can be a part of this. Like, I feel kind of icky about it. I don't really want to do it 00:19:03:03 - 00:19:06:47 Unknown So I tell her, like, I think you should go without me. Like, not a big deal. 00:19:06:47 - 00:19:08:35 Unknown She's like, okay, sure, I get it. 00:19:09:00 - 00:19:12:23 Unknown I blame it on not being able to afford it because I don't want to hurt her feelings. 00:19:12:23 - 00:19:13:48 Unknown A week later, she's like, okay, 00:19:13:48 - 00:19:14:36 Unknown so 00:19:14:36 - 00:19:19:37 Unknown what if, like, we pay mostly for the Airbnb? And 00:19:19:37 - 00:19:23:15 Unknown because we really, really, really want you to come and I'm thinking, 00:19:23:15 - 00:19:23:50 Unknown oh, 00:19:23:50 - 00:19:32:43 Unknown thank you. I like she she values me as a friend so much that she is like begging for me to go. 00:19:32:56 - 00:19:35:18 Unknown She's got to cover some of the costs, like she loves me. 00:19:35:18 - 00:19:44:26 Unknown Sure. I'll come with you. Do? Absolutely. That's. You really want me there? I'm that much. I'm a value to you. I'll show up for you as a friend. Absolutely 00:19:44:26 - 00:19:45:26 Unknown wrong. 00:19:45:26 - 00:19:46:26 Unknown Wrong. 00:19:46:26 - 00:19:50:16 Unknown Big. No, she didn't want. Okay. Spoiler alert. 00:19:50:16 - 00:19:53:44 Unknown She didn't want me to come as a friend. 00:19:53:49 - 00:19:59:56 Unknown She wanted to. She wanted me to come as a cover up for her husband as a girls trip. 00:19:59:56 - 00:20:06:04 Unknown Because going her and Jeremy would have been too suspicious because they're too close of best friends kind of thing. 00:20:06:04 - 00:20:14:01 Unknown She wanted me to. And then I would be there with Jeremy, you know, I would have. While she was doing her thing, I could entertain Jeremy 00:20:14:04 - 00:20:15:41 Unknown Cool, cool, cool cool. 00:20:15:41 - 00:20:18:13 Unknown But I don't know this. yet I don't know this yet. 00:20:18:13 - 00:20:18:49 Unknown So. 00:20:18:49 - 00:20:19:44 Unknown We go to Vegas, 00:20:19:44 - 00:20:25:17 Unknown everything's great the first day. I'm happy to celebrate her. It's her birthday. I 00:20:25:17 - 00:20:27:49 Unknown love that she's there. Whatever. I'm like, 00:20:27:49 - 00:20:39:29 Unknown you know, I'm. I love that she's having a good time. I love that me and Jeremy are supporting Bianca like it is. It's a really good first day. And then we start talking and she goes, oh, 00:20:39:45 - 00:20:41:10 Unknown going to meet up with us 00:20:41:10 - 00:20:43:17 Unknown and he's going to, 00:20:43:17 - 00:20:46:02 Unknown you know, he's going to meet up with us at the Airbnb. 00:20:46:02 - 00:20:46:56 Unknown And I'm like, 00:20:46:56 - 00:21:00:25 Unknown okay, so this strange guy that you have been talking to for four months, I find out when we get there on the internet and sexting on the internet, that I then find out your husband has no idea about, 00:21:00:25 - 00:21:02:24 Unknown is going to come over to our Airbnb. 00:21:02:24 - 00:21:08:52 Unknown Oh, and he's in a motorcycle gang and he's crossing state lines to come see you. 00:21:08:57 - 00:21:12:40 Unknown Great. Amazing. That sounds awesome. 00:21:12:44 - 00:21:13:20 Unknown So. 00:21:13:20 - 00:21:16:36 Unknown So. So I start getting kind of nervous because I'm like, 00:21:16:36 - 00:21:23:23 Unknown what? I mean, how do you know this guy is not bringing friends? How do you know this guy isn't, 00:21:23:23 - 00:21:34:34 Unknown you know, going to just rob us and leave? Like, what do you mean? He's coming to the Airbnb? I thought we were meeting him on the strip. I thought we were meeting him in a public place, because then that's because that's fine. 00:21:34:39 - 00:21:38:53 Unknown A public place, the Las Vegas Strip. Fine. That's fine. 00:21:38:53 - 00:21:54:08 Unknown But the Airbnb that we're all staying at was our personal possessions when my, you know, whatever one piece a nice jewelry that I brought and like, my cash that I brought to gamble and stuff. He's come in here. 00:21:54:08 - 00:21:59:02 Unknown I'm like, okay, I guess I have no fucking choice. Great. 00:21:59:02 - 00:22:01:34 Unknown That was awful. So he shows up 00:22:01:34 - 00:22:03:40 Unknown and we're all hanging out, 00:22:03:40 - 00:22:06:36 Unknown and I notice he's got a huge tattoo on the side of his neck. 00:22:06:36 - 00:22:09:54 Unknown No problem. My, my husband's got a whole throat sleeve. 00:22:09:54 - 00:22:11:07 Unknown What? The problem 00:22:11:07 - 00:22:12:46 Unknown is that this tattoo 00:22:12:46 - 00:22:14:47 Unknown is a giant swastika. 00:22:14:47 - 00:22:15:37 Unknown Oh, hold on. 00:22:15:37 - 00:22:20:06 Unknown A giant swastika on the side of his neck. 00:22:20:06 - 00:22:21:11 Unknown And I'm like, 00:22:21:11 - 00:22:33:14 Unknown What? This? What? Hey, guess what? You don't have those kind of visible tattoos unless you're, like, a big shot in your fucking motorcycle gang. 00:22:33:19 - 00:22:44:59 Unknown You're fucking bike gang. Are you kidding? So I'm like, okay, we got to go. We all have to leave. Like, let's get this guy. out of this fucking house. 00:22:44:59 - 00:22:49:17 Unknown Dude, like, are you stupid? She looks me in the face. 00:22:49:17 - 00:22:50:04 Unknown This, like. 00:22:50:04 - 00:22:50:37 Unknown This. 00:22:50:37 - 00:23:13:55 Unknown I'm sorry. This dumb bitch looks me in the face and goes, that's not a swastika. I said, are you kidding? Are you kidding? I'm shaking. I'm shaking. It absolutely was a fucking swastika. It was a huge white supremacy symbol on the side of his neck And, I mean, we're all white, so I don't feel personally threatened, I guess. 00:23:13:59 - 00:23:14:26 Unknown But, 00:23:14:26 - 00:23:21:44 Unknown that doesn't mean anything good. That does not mean anything fucking good. So why would you do that? 00:23:21:44 - 00:23:31:22 Unknown She's fine with it. So I'm like, do do do do do do do like. What do you mean? You're just fine with this. Please, please. 00:23:31:27 - 00:23:38:22 Unknown Because I'm not fine with it. And the gay guy we brought probably isn't fine with that and is just going along with it because you're here. 00:23:38:26 - 00:23:41:59 Unknown Not okay, not okay, not okay. So. 00:23:41:59 - 00:23:48:52 Unknown Me and Jeremy are going to go out and go on the strip. I get all ready, I get dolled up, I get ready, I brought a nice dress. 00:23:48:52 - 00:23:59:23 Unknown The only thing that she can say over and over again to me, probably 10 or 12 times over the course of what took us two hours to leave because Jeremy didn't want to leave her alone with him 00:23:59:23 - 00:24:00:14 Unknown responsibly so 00:24:00:14 - 00:24:08:47 Unknown So but at this point, I'm like, pissed off. I'm like, get me the hell out of here. I do not want to be here. I want to be away from this guy. 00:24:08:47 - 00:24:18:06 Unknown But Jeremy. So we take like two hours to get ready to leave because. And then Jeremy won't leave. So we. But over the course of two hours, she looks at me and she goes, you're going to be cold. 00:24:18:11 - 00:24:19:08 Unknown You're going to be cold, 00:24:19:08 - 00:24:30:22 Unknown you're going to be cold. And I'm like, bitch, do you think I don't have the fucking weather app on my phone? I know what I'm wearing. Wearing a coat. I fucking like you don't know, bitch. 00:24:30:22 - 00:24:44:09 Unknown So I'm like, I'm stupid. That's stupid. I'm not trying to be angry at her about this. I mean, whatever, I just was like, are you angry that you're chillin in, like, chill clothes and I'm dolled up in front of your, 00:24:44:09 - 00:24:45:24 Unknown like, affair? 00:24:45:29 - 00:24:47:51 Unknown Please. I'm trying to leave and get out of here. 00:24:47:51 - 00:25:00:48 Unknown We never leave. We never leave. I'm like, why did I like, why did I come? Like, I don't want to sit around while these two go in the back room and fuck, I don't want to go. I don't want to be here for this. 00:25:00:48 - 00:25:01:28 Unknown So. 00:25:01:28 - 00:25:08:10 Unknown So I take off my makeup, I get in show clothes, and I, like, go to my room, 00:25:08:10 - 00:25:09:46 Unknown which is the futon room. 00:25:09:51 - 00:25:18:23 Unknown Wrong? I do, because that thing is impossible to sleep on. So I don't sleep a single minute all night. Also 00:25:18:23 - 00:25:36:20 Unknown because I'm laid up, wide eyed, fucking waiting for this guy to like, let in his buddies at 3 a.m. while we're all asleep or like rob us or come R word, me or him or whatever, dude. 00:25:36:25 - 00:25:39:08 Unknown So he leaves early the next morning. Thank God. 00:25:39:08 - 00:25:46:35 Unknown And I decide after he leaves that I'm telling the two. So we only have like one more day there and I'm going to leave early. I had already looked, 00:25:46:35 - 00:25:53:08 Unknown at four in the morning. I'm like, looking for flights to change. It's no money to change. I'm going home a day early because I'm out of here and I'm like, this. 00:25:53:08 - 00:26:06:51 Unknown So like a good friend, I sit down and I'm like, hey, I love you guys, but I didn't. I actually didn't sleep at all last night and I'm feeling so physically ill that I think that we that I'm going to go home early. 00:26:06:51 - 00:26:13:12 Unknown And she looks at me like a good friend and goes, so what are we going to do about a car? 00:26:13:17 - 00:26:22:27 Unknown And I thought, well, zero, why are you leaving? What? Are you okay? I'm so sorry you feel that way. 00:26:22:27 - 00:26:28:31 Unknown And then asking about the car immediately, just like, what is what am I going to do? And I think I. 00:26:28:31 - 00:26:29:38 Unknown Oh my God. 00:26:29:38 - 00:26:30:20 Unknown So 00:26:30:20 - 00:26:31:02 Unknown I'm like, 00:26:31:02 - 00:26:31:53 Unknown I don't know. 00:26:31:53 - 00:26:33:02 Unknown You'll have to figure it out. 00:26:33:02 - 00:26:36:16 Unknown And I pack up and I leave. 00:26:36:21 - 00:26:52:29 Unknown I fucking leave because I could not stand to be there for another second. I had already she might have spent the money at the Airbnb, but they asked me to pay for food and they'd get me back twice. I paid for the rental car 00:26:52:29 - 00:26:54:00 Unknown and they were going to get me back. 00:26:54:00 - 00:26:57:08 Unknown So ridiculous. So ridiculous. And like 00:26:57:08 - 00:26:59:13 Unknown rude, I leave. 00:26:59:13 - 00:27:10:46 Unknown I call Ben crying. I'm like, I'm going home. I can't deal with this. They're fucking Nazis. I can't get any. Like, I am so upset I had to leave. So, 00:27:10:46 - 00:27:20:33 Unknown ever since then, I've been like, okay. I'm like, don't know who to trust because I really thought this girl had invited me because she valued me and our friendship. 00:27:20:42 - 00:27:23:17 Unknown I really, really was like, she. 00:27:23:17 - 00:27:25:36 Unknown We're best. We're becoming best friends. 00:27:25:36 - 00:27:26:09 Unknown Wrong. 00:27:26:09 - 00:27:28:39 Unknown So fucking wrong. 00:27:28:39 - 00:27:31:21 Unknown Egg on my face again. 00:27:31:24 - 00:27:32:57 Unknown But like, I 00:27:32:57 - 00:27:38:25 Unknown it was just like such a wild incident of her, like, looking me in the face and being like, that's not a spice, chica. 00:27:38:29 - 00:27:42:47 Unknown And then for her to have zero concern that I was leaving and I was like, 00:27:42:47 - 00:27:44:01 Unknown no, no. 00:27:44:01 - 00:27:49:53 Unknown Oh, oh, I forgot about this part. Then 00:27:49:53 - 00:27:53:05 Unknown after. So this was years ago, you guys. Years ago. 00:27:53:05 - 00:27:56:14 Unknown Like 2020, 2021, like I said. But, 00:27:56:23 - 00:27:59:12 Unknown She then joins this, like, women's club 00:27:59:12 - 00:28:04:55 Unknown that, like this women's cannabis club and whatever. That's fine. Like, 00:28:04:55 - 00:28:14:23 Unknown and she drags my name through the mud every time my name comes up. She's horrible. She's a bitch. She's mean, blah blah blah. 00:28:14:23 - 00:28:16:22 Unknown I'm like, are you serious? 00:28:16:22 - 00:28:28:21 Unknown You can't you pawned me into being on a trip with you so you could cheat on your husband, and then you drag my name through the mud and which is, you know, I mean, just like somebody of that caliber. 00:28:28:23 - 00:28:41:23 Unknown And that like and deeply that hurts. Like, I mean, I'm not trying to get into a therapy session about it, but like, I'm deeply hurt by that. I was deeply hurt about the situation. I might I act angry, and I still might think that this person is not, 00:28:41:23 - 00:28:46:19 Unknown a good person to be associated with. It turns out she's not associated with that club anymore. 00:28:46:34 - 00:28:55:28 Unknown She's not associated with the health club that we went to. She has really, like, shown her colors to a lot of people. But 00:28:55:28 - 00:28:57:51 Unknown they say, and this is so true, 00:28:57:51 - 00:29:05:42 Unknown for every one bad thing said about you, you need ten good things said about you in order for somebody's opinion to change. 00:29:05:42 - 00:29:10:58 Unknown whatever. I'm not trying to get into a therapy session. It sucks like, you know, sucks to suck. But 00:29:10:58 - 00:29:25:36 Unknown you know, and obviously she's shown her true colors. But you know, that opinion still stands because it's so you know, it's been years. So why have people's opinions changed. And then let's go back to consider the source, like, hey, where'd you hear that? 00:29:25:41 - 00:29:29:13 Unknown Oh, from a person who has completely, 00:29:29:13 - 00:29:30:10 Unknown you know, has 00:29:30:10 - 00:29:32:26 Unknown burned bridges with multiple people. 00:29:32:26 - 00:29:36:51 Unknown That might not be a good source of information about somebody else. So 00:29:36:51 - 00:29:38:24 Unknown not a big deal. Whatever. 00:29:38:24 - 00:29:38:47 Unknown So 00:29:38:47 - 00:29:40:23 Unknown moral of the story is, you know, 00:29:40:23 - 00:29:50:09 Unknown be careful but also form your own opinion and consider the source when you hear a piece of information from somebody. So that's my hot tea on 00:29:50:09 - 00:29:57:37 Unknown you know why I am a little bit more guardian in the industry when making friends and stuff. But, do you know, I, I want to be your friend. 00:29:57:42 - 00:30:01:13 Unknown I want to be. I want to be your friend. So let's I go. You're cool. Okay, 00:30:01:48 - 00:30:10:17 Unknown Last thing I want to touch on, I literally. Okay. Cedar point has a new roller coaster. I'm going to put it up here. This roller coaster, it looks like the G-Force coaster. 00:30:10:29 - 00:30:12:08 Unknown You guys don't know what the G-Force coaster is. 00:30:12:08 - 00:30:15:58 Unknown You know, let's let me read to you what the G-Force coaster is. 00:30:16:03 - 00:30:20:59 Unknown Wasn't this the death coaster? Is that what it is? G-Force Death coaster? 00:30:20:59 - 00:30:43:28 Unknown Oh. Oh, okay, so it's not called the G-Force coaster. Sorry, it's the euthanasia coaster. It's a hypothetical roller coaster that would kill its riders by subjecting them to a prolonged G-Force exposure, which would deprive their brain of oxygen. The ride would cause G-Force related symptoms, including tunnel vision, gray out and black out, eventually leading to death. 00:30:43:33 - 00:30:45:35 Unknown I don't know, would it would it be peaceful? 00:30:45:35 - 00:30:47:14 Unknown I guess if you black out, it would. 00:30:47:14 - 00:30:58:48 Unknown I guess if you want that thrill. Right. You want that one last thrill. Baby, you put me on the G-Force coaster. Don't. I don't want I don't even go to Cedar Point to ride regular coaster. Do you think I'm riding the G-Force coaster? 00:30:58:50 - 00:30:59:15 Unknown No, 00:30:59:15 - 00:31:00:15 Unknown I don't think so. I'm not. 00:31:00:15 - 00:31:01:01 Unknown So. 00:31:01:01 - 00:31:05:21 Unknown Who was. Who made the G-Force coaster? Who's whose idea was this? 00:31:05:25 - 00:31:06:19 Unknown Does it not say. 00:31:06:19 - 00:31:10:26 Unknown Designer Julie Jonas is. That really isn't 00:31:10:26 - 00:31:13:30 Unknown Julie Jonas or bonus 00:31:13:30 - 00:31:14:58 Unknown Julie Jonas Sabonis 00:31:14:58 - 00:31:31:55 Unknown I guess he is a, Lithuanian artist who designed the euthanasia coaster. And the concept was conceived in 2010. It's that new. Yikes. Yikes. We're just we're coming up with the craziest stuff. You guys like. What are you talking about 2010. 00:31:31:55 - 00:31:37:50 Unknown You're talking to 15 years ago on the G-Force coaster. Yikes, yikes. Okay, 00:31:37:50 - 00:31:38:09 Unknown well, 00:31:38:12 - 00:31:51:21 Unknown Hope you enjoyed that story. If you guys like it, let me know. Let me know if you want to. Oh, my recommendation of the week. Oh, and our whole thing. Oh, you guys. Okay, so what are most anticipated of the month is. 00:31:51:21 - 00:32:03:34 Unknown BlackBerry. Doctor pepper I'm going to find it and try it for you guys. And we're going to see I want you guys to find it like Google it. I honestly haven't been able to find it anywhere yet, but it's only February 2nd, so I have time. 00:32:03:34 - 00:32:06:20 Unknown It is supposed to be really good 00:32:06:20 - 00:32:08:38 Unknown test kitchens everywhere, so it's really good. 00:32:08:43 - 00:32:27:17 Unknown Fingers crossed we are anticipating BlackBerry doctor Pepper. Oh my God, I still didn't get no Wolf Man. Oh, you guys, I was talking to Wolf Man. Okay? It's sucked. It sucked. Dick acting fabulous. The story. Nothing. It was it was hard because it was a classic, but it's like it was just 00:32:27:17 - 00:32:28:46 Unknown it's hard to kind of piece together. 00:32:28:46 - 00:32:33:29 Unknown And then it kind of fell flat and it was like a really long time in a short whatever. Anyways, 00:32:33:29 - 00:32:35:07 Unknown if you saw it, let me know what you think. 00:32:35:07 - 00:32:40:57 Unknown Well, if you saw it, let me know what you think below. Our most anticipated and my recommendation of the week 00:32:40:57 - 00:32:44:44 Unknown is going to a free yoga class. I went to free yoga yesterday. 00:32:45:33 - 00:32:53:50 Unknown Amazing. I feel refreshed, rejuvenated. Eventbrite. Just free yoga in your area, see if there's anything going on. You know, I went to one and, 00:32:53:50 - 00:32:58:13 Unknown the basement of a coffee shop for free, so check that stuff out. 00:32:58:13 - 00:33:01:59 Unknown Anyways, I love you guys. I hope you guys have a great week. I will see you next Tuesday. 00:33:01:59 - 00:33:04:20 Unknown And, tell your weird uncle about me bye! 00:33:04:20 - 00:33:11:51 Unknown Boom boom. Oh!