Thoughts?
 
Okay guys, I want to tell you a little story of what just happened. This was last night and got together with some mutual friends. Now I want your opinion.

I know what I think I should do, but I'm interested to see what other people think of what they should do. Seriously, seriously, leave what you think you should do in this type of scenario. You're friends with a group of people.

One of them is much older and I'm in my late 50s. He's older and he's just newly dated someone for six months. And now there's communication between the two that they're thinking about moving in with one another.

So he has grandchildren. She has children. And what do you think I should do? I know what my spirit guides are telling me to do, and I'll tell you what I'm going to do, but I'm curious what other people think in a scenario like this.

Do you think I should call them up and say, Hey, so-and-so, I'd like to talk to you. Why don't you come over for some wine and let's talk, right? Because people should be able to talk. And especially when you consider someone a friend, you want to give them positive criticism and negative criticism, but it's all in the delivery, right? You don't yell at someone.

You could go, what the hell, babe? Like you're being an asshole, right? As opposed to you effing see that it's just all in the delivery. Do you think I should say something or do you not think I should say something and let him just make up his own mind? And you know, everybody's got to learn lessons, right? But it's hard when you care about someone and they're both good people. They're both lovely, but you know, he's gone from being, he'll be going from an empty nester to children in the house again.

That's a big leap. That's a big jump, right? I don't know. The older we get, we kind of, you know, get into situations a little quicker, I think, because, you know, you're older, you know what you're not going to tolerate.

So you only allow the right people around you always because you value your energy, right? Because you love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you'll find out by what the universe delivers to you. And it could be good stuff or bad stuff.

And how do you know you're on the right track? I know I'm on the right track because I've been getting blessing after blessing after blessing, and I am so grateful. I'm telling you, I thank God all the time throughout the entire day. I can't believe how calm my life is right now.

I'm so grateful for that. I lived such a chaotic life. It was constantly full of drama and gossip and toxicity.

And I mean, I surrounded myself with that for so many years of my entire life until the universe sat me down, which happened extremely abruptly. And I learned, and I've been getting blessing after blessing because I'm following the right track right now. You will know when you're on the right track, your life's going to be peaceful, happy, and safe.

Trust and believe. So what do you think? Should I say something? Should I reach out and just say, hey, you know, I know this isn't any of my business, you're a man, but are you ready for this? Your man cave is not going to be a man cave anymore, so to speak. You won't have your space anymore.

Or should I not say anything at all in my business? I'm curious. Leave your comments. I'm serious.

I'm so curious. And if someone, I think I should reach out. Personally, I think I should reach out because we're friends, we're older, we know how to communicate, we don't shoot people, right? We don't yell at people and demean people and swear at people.

We respect each other, right? But we all have our boundaries. So that's good. And we all understand and respect each other's boundaries.

Because if you don't, it's just going to be chaotic. You got to have boundaries if you love yourself. If you've gone through a road like me that I have, oh my God, I just felt really heavy.

I'm telling you, you guys, the type of life I have lived, I look back now and I go, oh my God, how did I make it through all that? Not just strength-wise and courage. Thank you, God, I am so grateful. Right? Grateful for my wisdom, my intuition, my third eye.

I'm grateful for my growth. I can see people within five seconds for who they are. Wow.

Wow. What a gift, right? Because I learned, finally, because I was told to sit down. And believe me, the universe sat me down.

That was at the lowest point of my life. The universe abruptly sat me down to the point where I had to find a place in six hours. Right? Find a fucking place in six hours.

Think about that. I had to get movers within six hours. Right? It was insane.

Because the universe said, guess what, girl? You kind of see the signs, but you're not paying attention. Right? So here, we're going to sit you down. You think about what kind of life you want to live, what kind of life you want to lead.

And why don't you learn to pour some love into yourself? Because in every single relationship of my entire life, I overgave and overgave to toxicity. Go figure. I look back now and go, oh my God, what an idiot.

But then I go, oh my God, thank you. Thank you for my transformation. Thank you for waking me up and letting me see who people are.

Because, and being an empath, somebody can walk by me and I'll go, or I'll go, oh, that's nice. My friends must think I'm crazy. But you just got to pay attention to intuition.

I've got an ex who've come back now and talked to me twice after four fucking years. What the fuck is that? Get out of my energy. Okay? Get out of my energy.

Just having him around me, my body tenses up. And I tell you, if he approaches me again, I'm going to let him know. No.

Back the fuck up. Get lost. I don't like your energy.

Stay away from me. Okay? It was with him where the universe sat me down. So I learned a very hard lesson.

Now that I've grown and I'm getting blessing after blessing, thank you, God. Oh my God. Oh my God.

Oh my God. Like it's just night and day, dark and light. Fucking insane.

Why would I go back to that? Why in God's name would I go back to that? That means I haven't learned and I don't love myself. I disrespect myself. Why wouldn't I love myself? It's me.

Hello, me. Oh, I love you. Right? Like wake up in the morning, you guys, when you look in the mirror, getting ready and stuff like that, smile.

Smile at yourself and say, I love you. And I love you because, and name off three things. Imagine starting your day like that.

I do that. Sometimes it works. Most times it works.

Sometimes it doesn't. If I feel like I've picked up on somebody's energy, so then I have to sage right away. That's all.

Goes away. But be careful who you hang around and love yourself. Cause when you love yourself, you'll never miss out.

Please leave a comment down below and let me know what your thoughts are, what I should do in this situation? I think I should reach out. And if anybody opposes, I would love to hear your side of the story and understand why. 

So anyway, I love you all so very much.

God bless.