Whatever Is Meant for You Will Never Pass You By
 
Hey guys, it's me. It's September 4th at 11 33 a.m. You know, the reason I do these podcasts, there's actually two reasons to be honest with you. One, it helps me get things off my chest, speaking aloud about things and helps me realize and categorize things.

So, it actually is a healing process for me. That's one win. The other win is I have transformed so much in my life.

I have grown tremendously. I am not the same woman I once have been. Not at all.

Okay. Everything has changed about me. My taste, my views, my mindset, my looks completely have changed 100%.

And I'm grateful for that. I'm 100% here for this transformation. I want new in my life.

I'm ready for new in my life. I want change. I'm tired of the same old thing, repetitive things to do every day, places to go every day.

I am bored of that stuff. So, I'm going to create new. And what I wanted to talk about today is everything happens for a reason in our lives, whether we want to admit it or not, whether we want to see it or not.

Okay. Everything that happens, happens for a reason. We can't see this stuff.

We can't see why things are happening the way they're happening. If you end up in a breakup and you're all sad and down and you miss the person because you cared for them deeply, you love them, et cetera, just know that it's happening for a reason. I was talking to a girlfriend the other day who has been separated from her twin flame for six years, six long, agonizing years for her.

She's gone into extreme details as to what she endured. Honestly, she went through a lot, a lot. As a lot of twin flamers do, they're twin flames for a reason.

They both hold the same soul. Unfortunately, in twin flame situations, if one isn't available or ready for change, they get set back, they'll end up getting their karma because it's going to be a wake-up call, right? There's always one person in a twin flame situation that evolves. I've evolved in my twin flame situation very quickly.

I've jumped timelines so fast in such a short period of time. I was lost. I had no idea who I was anymore.

I'm starting to understand myself now because I have changed so dramatically. I am a new person. I don't think like I once did.

I don't act like I once did. I've given up a lot of things. I've separated everyone that was in my life from me very quickly.

When I closed out a chapter, I closed out everybody that was in that chapter, if that makes sense. If you're going through a breakup and you're really down and you're really sad and you're hurt, don't chase. That's the worst thing you can possibly do.

Do not chase. Whatever is meant for you will never pass you by. Always remember that.

I don't care if it's a job, a vehicle you want, a relationship, certain friends, whatever is meant for you will never pass you by. You don't have to do anything other than live your life. That's all we are meant to do.

We are visitors here. That's all we're meant to do. Live our lives.

The universe and God will take care of the rest. Let them handle everything. Take the load off your shoulders.

Don't be sad about any breakups. Don't ever chase anyone. You just move forward, look forward, keep going and live your life.

Do what makes you happy. Constantly elevate and you will remain positive and you will get blessing after blessing after blessing. I promise you this.

Once you've healed from your pain, whatever pain it's been, could be childhood issues, could be... I mean, we all have issues. Nobody has no issues. That's for sure.

And if they claim they don't, there's just straight out lying to you. Life is simple. Okay? Everybody's got shit to deal with.

We're human, but it's how you deal with it. Okay? I know it's going to hurt. I've had my share of heartbreak.

I mean, oh my God, the stories I can tell you, but I've had enough of that. So I've transformed. I've grown.

I've elevated. For most part, I am positive. We're human again.

Sometimes we're going to fall off the horse or the wagon, get back up again. Right? I thank God every day for my strength, my wisdom, my courage, first and foremost, my health. I'm always grateful for my intuition.

That's a gift. I'm grateful for my third eye opening and seeing people for who they are. That is a true hardcore gift.

So because I've healed and I've poured love into myself now, because I've always put people first in relationships, all relationships, the man came first. Old school thinking, right? They come first. Do everything to make the man happy.

Oh my God, I was exhausted. I was extremely exhausted. I have learned now to make myself happy.

Pour my cup of love into myself. Because why? Because if I'm not happy, I'm never going to be happy, thoroughly happy with anybody else. And that's true.

Trust and believe. You must be happy with you. You must respect yourself, love yourself, know yourself, have boundaries, know what you will and will not accept in your life.

And once you get to that point, the rest is going to fall into place miraculously. It really will. All of a sudden, you're going to meet the right people to hang with.

No judgments, no drama, no negativity, no bullshit. I'm in my late fifties. I'm just tired of that.

I'm done with that stuff. I'm not in grade nine anymore. And I haven't been for many, many, many years.

Do you first, focus on you first. When you do that, the friends will come, the opportunities will come, whatever you're wishing for manifesting, it will come. But don't expect anything to come instantaneously.

Things take time. There are things we don't see. The universe sees everything.

God sees everything. So, they have to maneuver things around in the background that we don't see to make things happen. And things will happen as they call it in divine timing.

We want things now. I'm guilty for that. I want to win the lottery now.

I want a new car now. I want a big house now. I want, I want, I want.

Well, it doesn't matter. Manifest it. But the universe is going to make it happen when the timing is right.

It's all about timing. First, you have to grow, transform, love yourself, have your boundaries, know what you will and will not tolerate in your life from anybody. So, you're only going to welcome the right people in your life because you are in that position.

Right? You're the Empress. The man is the emperor. So, when you reach that status, you know, you will know.

You'll meet someone and go, yeah, I don't like that energy and wish them well, kindly. Don't be rude. There's no reason to be disrespectful or rude or demeaning or anything like that to anybody.

It doesn't get us anywhere. There's just no point. So, if you've gone through the breakup and you're in pain and what have you, think to yourself, change your mindset and say, okay, thank you, God.

Thank you, universe. Thank you, whoever you believe in. Thank you for showing me that this person's not for me.

You don't have to hate them. Don't trash talk them behind their back. Don't get caught up in all that crap because that's all it is.

It's going to only set you back. I always said to people, you know, you have to forgive or forget one or the other. Man, that is one difficult task.

Okay? Very difficult to action that. You have to be ready. So, I have finally forgotten about my past.

It took me years upon years. Good God, the shit that I've been through is insane. But I allowed it.

I allowed it. It takes two to tango. So how can I only point the finger at one person? Yeah, I did all the work.

I shoveled, cut the grass, paid the bills, did the grocery shopping, did the cooking, did the cleaning, everything. You name it, I did it. But I allowed that to happen.

So now I had to go through forgiving myself and now understanding who I am. And I'm not going to allow that again. Simple.

Life is simple. When you know yourself and you know what you don't want to be around and what you do want to be around and you know what you want. Oh my God, it's so easy.

Don't get caught up and sucked into people and their shit. I mean, you want to take on their drama? You want to take on their bad karma? That's up to you. It's your life.

We're here once. We are on earth once. Just once.

So, think about the life you want. If you're not getting the job that you think you want, thank the universe and say, okay, I understand. I know something better is coming along.

You've got to change your mindset. After breakups in the past, I sat back so many times and went, what the heck, God? What the heck? This one I thought was my first end all be all. He was it.

We're meant to create and be a power couple. And I felt it. It's the only male, one of the relationships I've had in the past.

It's the only male I ever said that to so prematurely in the relationship. I said, we're meant to be with each other. We're meant to be a power couple.

We're meant to create something huge. And then all these toxic people started coming in and sucked him in. And the universe gave me six hours to move out of his house.

We were living together at the time. Six hours. Well, I just said calmly to him, okay, I got six hours.

Can you please get out of my way? Stop yelling at me. It's not going to do anything, but slow me down. Can you get out of my way and let me focus on what I need to do? First thing I did was went outside after I said that to him.

I looked up to the sky and I said, okay, God. All right, here we go. I kind of believed you in you in the past.

I did. But now I'm going to put my thorough faith in you. Complete trust and faith that there's a reason I'm getting kicked out six hours of notice.

Thank you, Lord. You must be protecting me from something that I can't see. Only to find out there was a lot of bad stuff that was going on.

A tremendous amount of low vibrational entities that were doing some really nasty things. I wanted no part of that. I love my God.

I love my universe. I trust and have faith in them. And if I had six hours to remove myself from a relationship and my place of living, so be it.

Thank God that they brought somebody into my life that I had met a year prior to who had ample room in their home to take me in for a few months until I found my own place. I couldn't find a place in six hours. No chance in hell.

And I just keep saying, thank you, God. Thank you, God. And trust me, I was hurting inside.

My heart was broken. It was shattered. Shattered.

But I always know there's a reason for everything. Whatever is meant for you will never pass you by. If something has let you go and they come back, it is meant to be.

If something has let you go and doesn't come back, there's better for you. Please, everyone, trust and believe whatever is meant for you will never pass you by. Okay? I can't say that enough.

So any relationships that have come to an end, friendships, what have you, you walk away silently, turn your back and go in the opposite direction. Do not trash talk that individual or anybody for that matter after the fact. Say nothing to no one.

Keep your personal life personal. Nobody has to know anything about your life. And the more you do this and the more you master this, the more peace you will find in your life.

You will have immense peace in your life. Trust and believe. The moment you start sharing your life and your personal relationships and how much money you have and what your future plans are, as soon as you start sharing all of those things with other people, you're going to meet people that become jealous of you, envious of you, just don't want you to do better.

And they will do things behind the scenes that will make sure you will be stuck. I've been there. I've done that.

Got the t-shirt. It doesn't get them anywhere. It doesn't get you anywhere, but it makes it for a long painful road.

Just trust and believe. Any breakups, just say, okay, thank you, God, whoever you believe in. Thank you, universe.

I guess it wasn't meant to be. And just walk away silently. No trash talking, no going to their level, no saying anything to absolutely anyone.

You keep everything to yourself and you heal. And you find yourself and love yourself and forgive yourself for certain things in life that you've allowed. And once you do this, I guarantee 100% your life is going to expand for the better.

It's going to feel so good. It will be peaceful. It will be peaceful.

Who doesn't want a peaceful life?

Thank the Universe when things don’t work out because we are not aware of what happens in the back ground.

I love you all. 
God bless.