Refrain From Negative Energies

Hey, it's Thursday, July 31st at 721 p.m. I saw a friend last night and she's just absolutely wonderful. She has the most beautiful big blue eyes that you've ever seen. Just gorgeous, right? And she went through a breakup and as we all do and have and still are, that's evolution. It's going to always happen unless we know our worth.

And her ex now is dating her best friend. How many times have you heard a story like that? Doesn't it piss you off at times? Like, why do people have to hurt people? You guys, we should be on the same page, right? Let's beat this thing called hate and replace that four-letter word, hate, with love.

Why is it so difficult for people to fucking love each other? Yes, I understand a breakup is going to hurt, right? It's going to cause heartache, heartbreak. Okay, I get it. But if we can just kind of remove the emotions for a brief moment and go, you know what? Yeah, I'm not really happy either. Or, okay, if you're not happy, then we should separate. Like, why would you want to be in anything that makes you unhappy? Right?

Life is so simple, everyone. Do what makes you feel good. Do what raises your vibration. Do what keeps you feeling positive. And then you're going to get blessing after blessing after blessing. I guarantee it. I guarantee it 100%. Instead, if someone was to come up to me and say, okay, well, I don't think that we're on the same page anymore. Of course, delivery is everything. You don't have to be rude about it. You don't have to slap the person across the face with your words.

You just say, babe, I got to sit down. We got to sit down. We got to talk to each other. Okay, listen, I have to tell you, I've been unhappy for quite some time. For an example, okay? I've been happy for quite some time. And he or she may go, why? Well, one would think they would ask why. Calmly, why? Because they genuinely care about the person. And then if that person says, I'm not happy in this relationship.

I need something different. I don't know. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to hurt you, you know, but I don't think this is going to work out for me. The other person should go, okay, you know what? Wow, that hurts me. That's communication. That hurts me. I wasn't expecting this. Okay, if you feel like this, then I don't want to be in something where you're unhappy or I'm unhappy in. Right? Do what makes you happy.

Be with the person that makes you happy. It should feel flawless. It should be very easy. They understand you. You understand them. Done. Make sure you've got the 80-20 rule in there. Old is good. So I said to her, first thing I said to my girlfriend, when she said, oh yeah, she's now dating my best friend. I said, let it go.

Ignore it. Move forward. You're ready. Do this. Move forward. Don't look back. Don't get caught up in the drama. It's drama. They want a reaction from you. So guess what? You don't have your ex-girl or your ex anymore. And now you've lost a best friend. But your best friend should have known something, you know, known better. Obviously, she wasn't your best friend. Or he wasn't your best friend. Right? Like, fuck, why do we hurt each other?

I don't understand. I need somebody to put something in the comments as to why they think people hurt each other. Why? It's uncalled for. We don't need that. What we need is love in the world. Okay? We need love. We have enough hate. We need to turn that around. We've got the power to do it. It's our lives. We're here on earth as visitors. Did you know that? We're just visiting. Because it's not going to last forever. Nothing ever does. Okay?

When the fuck are people going to get it just to love one another? Just be kind. La familia. And if you're hanging around people that you don't like or you're not jiving with or you find your life is going down because you're taking on their toxic abilities, well, guess what? Pay attention to everything and just silently walk away and remove yourself from it. I don't care if it's a situation, whatever. Just remove yourself from toxic individuals. It doesn't get you anywhere.

Been there, done it, have the t-shirt, lived it many, many times. So I said to her, don't look back. Don't contact the ex. Don't contact your best friend. They want a reaction. That's exactly why people do what they do. They want a reaction from you. And if you don't give a reaction to them and you just silently walk away like big boss energy...

right? That's big CEO fucking energy. You say nothing. You just move away quietly, keep your mouth shut, keep your life to yourself. Then guess what? All is good. All is good. The moment you let people in your life is the moment you're signing up for fucking disaster. Okay? Absolute fucking disaster. Do you know that the three things to keep private are your love life, your income, and your next move?

Keep these three things private in your life and you will lead a very blessed, peaceful, happy life. You keep your love life, your income, and your next move private. Trust me on this. Okay, I learned that a little bit late in life, but better late than never.

I mean, I could sit here and be hard on myself and go, God, why didn't I learn this? What was I thinking? Why didn't I see this, that, and the other thing? Who cares? It's the past. The past is the past. It's made me grow, transform, excel, and I'm happy. I'm genuinely happy. Man, I could sit at home by myself on days and days and days on end and live in peace.

I'll only go out when I feel like I want to be around people, not need. When I feel like I want to be around people, I'll do it. When on my terms, not because I've got, you know, Tom, Dick and Harry or whatever calling me saying, oh, you're going to miss the greatest party. I'm done with that. Parties aren't going anywhere. I'm not missing out on a damn thing. So I'm okay with missing the party. Do you get my drift?

I said to her, don't look back. That's toxic. That's toxic behavior. Recognize it, accept it, close it and let go. Move on. Focus on your life. Focus on you. Let them do whatever the fuck they want. It's not going to work out. I can guarantee that too.

So let them just do whatever they want. Give no reaction. Give no attention to it and do not feed into it. Because the moment you do, you're going to get sucked in and you're going to take on their karma. You're going to take on that toxic behavior without even recognizing that. You won't even realize it. Trust me. Stay the fuck away from shit like that.

Do what makes you happy. That's all you need to do. Do things that make you happy, that make you feel good, because your vibration is going to elevate. Okay? It's going to stay high. You're going to remain positive. And things are just going to magically work out for you. And that's when you say, thank you, universe. I am truly grateful. 

On that note, I love you all so very much. 
God Bless.