Stop Being Unhappy

I don’t care how important you are to me. The moment you make it clear that I’m not important to you, you become a stranger to me. I’ve learned that loyalty is everything. I you can’t see my worth, then you have no place in my life. I don’t waste time on people who don’t value me. Respect is earned, not given and I give respect to those who deserve it, but the moment you show me that you don’t care, you lose my respect. You lose my trust. People come and go. I don’t have the time for games or for people who think they can treat me anyway they like. It’s simple. You respect me. I respect you. You stand by me. I’ll stand by you. BUT if you decide to walk away don’t expect me to follow. So, if you’re in my life remember this it’s a privilege not a right. I won’t beg for attention. I don’t chase after anyone. I focus on those who matter. Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain it or make sense of it.

My brother has a lot of healing to do. 

Everything happens for a reason. The highs, the lows, the wins, the losses. The people who come in and the ones who leave. None of it is random. Every moment carries a lesson. Every lesson is guiding you closer to your purpose. So, when life feels heavy, pause, breathe, and remember there’s meaning in this too.

The last thing I said to him was this. Stop being unhappy with yourself, you are perfect. Stop wishing you looked like someone else or wishing people likes you as much as they like someone else. Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. Stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks. Love them. Without those things you wouldn’t be you and why would you want to be anyone else? Be confident with who you are. Smile. It’ll draw people in. If anyone hates on you it’s because you are happy with yourself then you stick your middle finger in the air and say screw it. My happiness will not depend on others anymore. I’m happy because I love who I am and I matter. I love my flaws. I love my imperfections. They make me and me is pretty amazing.

Begin healing from all and any pain anyone has brought you. After you start healing past traumas and come out of fight or flight mode, your body will a lot of rest. You aren’t lazy. Your body is just trying to catch up on the calm it hasn’t received in years. This is your turning point. Bad times end today.

When you finally learn your place in people’s lives, your feelings won’t get hurt and I swear that’s the truth and one of the most important life lessons you will learn. Whether it’s family, friends, or whoever. Once you decide you want a good life, The Universe will start moving things for you to have it. The people you need will appear. The doors you need open will unblock. But not until you decide. Miracles can and will happen.

I never knew how strong I was until I had to forgive someone who wasn’t sorry, and accept an apology I never received. That’s strength. 

Release the weight of old stories, past wounds, and every energy that no longer serves you/your highest path. Let go with love. You must tell yourself, “No matter how hard it is, or how hard it gets, I’m going to make it. Some people are like clouds. When they go away, it’s a brighter day. 

The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I’m not convincing anyone that I’m a great person. I’m not fixing what I didn’t break. I’m not fighting for anyone to see my worth. Whatever you do, is on you. Just hope you don’t regret it. As for me, I’m moving forward, free and at peace.

Be kind to yourself today. Be proud of the days you got through that you didn’t think you could. Be grateful for the strength you found that you didn’t know you had. Be gentle with your heart that has been through so much and be grateful for everything you are that has got you to this very moment.

I love you all.

God Bless.