When Someone Thinks You Will Never Recover
If you felt betrayed by someone you loved dearly and gave your full trust this is for you.
My past person thought that I would never recover from the heartbreak, would never recover from the betrayal and get back on my feet without him. I refused to let the pain define me and refused to let it determine when my life stops having meaning. Instead, I turned the heartbreak into power.
He was the opposite of me. He has a dark presence. I always have a glowing presence because of my high vibration. I am a hopeful and kind person. He was constantly wrestling with his own challenges and shadows from his past. I was drained around him constantly, feeling a lack of energy. He was draining me, absorbing my light and energy. When I was with him, my looks had taken a hit, began gaining weight, and fell into depression. I found it hard to maintain my beauty, physical attractiveness and energy. I was constantly unusually drained and tired all the time and noticed him becoming more energized and his looks improved. When something like this happens that’s, the Universe showing you that you are in a one-way connection. And that’s because I gave and gave until I couldn’t give anymore. Which showed I gave more of myself to him than he gave to me. My willingness to carry the emotional weight of the relationship wore me down peg by peg. I was the giver and the nurturer and was taken for granted. That’s when I realized he took my kindness for weakness. He wasn’t consistent with his words and actions. One minute he would pull his energy away and become cold and other times he was present. I was confused. 
As time passed, the difference in his energy and behavior created a loneliness in my heart. I felt alone in the connection. I constantly questioned and doubted things. This was my intuition telling me to step back as he was not meant for me. 
He betrayed me and I pulled away and moved out. Because he took so much of my light – my energy and left me depleted. He will return (per my dreams) because he is missing my energy and light and when that happens, he will not get my energy as he doesn’t deserve it. He will try to find me in others that have the same energy as me but will NEVER find it. He was hoping for me to fall without him and return begging to get back together. That didn’t and will never happen. I have now built a new life for myself from scratch. 
After the breakup, I pulled my energy back and not just from him…from EVERYONE! I started healing my wounds, focused on healing, taking my time for myself to focus on me and to get my vital energies back. 
It was a powerful move when I chose to walk away. My dreams are showing me he will be back. I plan to remain grounded and stick to my boundaries. I know for a fact he will not return with accountability, growth, or closure. He will only return because he misses my light and energy. That’s what energy vampires do and need. 
I had accepted crumbs/the bare minimum in the past but not anymore as I have changed completely. Be careful of those who return who act like they have changed or learned their lessons. Follow your intuition/feeling/gut. 
The Universe is giving a blessed chance without him. A blessed new story for me to live life with no guilt, shame, or regrets. It’s so refreshing to start fresh in life. I have began noticing blessing after blessing…miracles. I’ve noticed how quickly I’m healing (all of a sudden) and things are finally working out in my favor. Vivid dreams, premonitions and warnings are starting to happen. That’s a miracle I’ll take all day long. Thank you Universe!
Being divinely guided and protected from my angels, I am now getting closer to lighter, honest, and real people. These are people who like to talk about normal day to day things not about other people (gossip and toxic behaviors). I began to feel disconnected as gossip as toxic behaviors are not my interest. It felt shallow and stressful to me. Clearly, they are not walking the same path as me both emotionally and spiritually. A distance had taken place and made me feel excluded but know there’s a reason for this.
I am now enjoying the stillness in my life and the time to take care of my own needs. I realize I’m not being left behind, rejected, or forgotten by the Universe. I’m being led somewhere deeper and new. Somewhere where I can’t take old connections with me to my new destination because I am making new connections that are more aligned with who I am now. This version of myself with the growth that I have undergone. The old me is long gone.
My new connections relate to me, and I relate to them. They are nicer, compassionate, and REAL. The Universe is sending me new connections that are more aligned with me. Never chase energy that pulls away from you whether it’s people paths or choices but always make space for new blessed energies to enter your life be it new connections or opportunities. If you hold on to what’s pulling you, you will be the reason why your blessings are being delayed. Learn to let go!
I have changed my look completely releasing the old version and burdens I have been carrying. Transformations can start with something simple. Any small change is a powerful change. I am telling the Universe I am ready to see myself differently and to show up as the new version of me after healing. After the change, I feel lighter, more confident, and more open to new opportunities.
Not only has he broken my heart, but he had also betrayed my trust that left a deep wound. In my life, I have been betrayed by many people who were close to me. People who I never expected to disappoint and betray me the way they did. Because of my kindness I expected them to mirror the same energy back to me. It was a pattern I needed to learn (a lesson). Closeness doesn’t guarantee loyalty if they were not brought up on values such as love, kindness, and loyalty so the upbringing of the person and who they are does play a major role in helping me predict if they are going to be loyal or not. 

I was at my lowest point when I was with the past person. He caught me at a vulnerable time in my life. I was dealing with personal loss, emotional exhaustion, and trying to keep myself together and instead of lifting me up he pulled me further down in a slow and subtle way. At first, he seemed like comfort and safety. Said the right things, made me feel seen, and gave me a glimpse of stability when everything else felt unstable. But over time his presence became heavy, confusing. I started shrinking trying to keep the “peace”, his attention, and keep the relationship alive. He didn’t only meet me at my lowest time in my life, he kept me there.

In my past connection, there was a 3rd party (secrets). His loyalty to me didn’t mean much to him and it’s not because I’m not good enough; it’s because that’s just who he is. He didn’t understand the value of devotion, emotional maturity, or the sacredness of someone else’s trust. 

He made me see love and relationships differently. I am much more careful not to trust easily and to test the person many times before committing to them. What he did showed me he didn’t have respect for me and gave me the proof of that. I’ve come to understand love is a choice not just a feeling and from now on I’m choosing differently. Before I chose out of loneliness and habit. Now, I choose myself. My healing, peace, and my power. 

I’ve stepped into a time of alignment where my heart, mind, and soul are learning to move as one. I’ve realized that being deeply in love with someone who isn’t ready to meet me emotionally is a form of abandonment that I’m no longer willing to repeat. I no longer crave the old kind of love, the inconsistent, confusing, and toxic kind of love. I’m calling in something deeper, soul honoring, and emotionally mature. Real love will come, but first I needed to fall in love with myself.

I have learned from my past and am applying these lessons into my present and my future. No longer finding my worth in people; instead, I’m finding it within myself.

People turn to me for relationship advice constantly because I have walked through the pain and emerged with wisdom. The growth that I have undergone will remain grounded, so I don’t leave a door open to going back to old patterns and people.

I have stepped into a new era of freedom for myself (freedom of expression, movement, and of just being). I have risen above the blockages, challenges, and the drama. Because I’m high vibrational, I need to protect my peace like it’s sacred because it is. I have worked too hard to let any chaos back into my life. No longer carry the weight wondering if I was enough because I was. I stay away from anything that makes me feel heavy like holding on to resentment and anger because I AM NOW FREE! I’ve stepped into a new beginning where my freedom is the main point.

Walked away while still healing took great strength. I chose my peace over chaos even when it was hard. I choose dignity over begging and stopped waiting for him to become someone he promised to be and finally started becoming someone I could be proud of. Now, I no longer live in survival mode. 

I can guarantee I taught him a lesson in humility simply by walking away and choosing my peace and dignity. Who says I can’t be self-sufficient, independent, but most importantly happy without him. He understands that I don’t need him. Expecting me to fall apart, wait, go back, to break, but instead I reclaimed my power and taught him that he is not invincible, and his actions do have consequences.

The Universe showed me he was the wrong person, and I was on the wrong path.

Lead by faith, not by sight.

I love you all.

God Bless.