Hey. So something funny just happened just mere moments ago. I'm gonna title this relationships. Okay? And this is why.

I'm in a relationship. I'm common law. You know? I found the man of my dreams like I'm telling you. He gets it.

He gets it. Never yells, never demeans, no name callings, No bullshit. Right? We're past that shit. Thank you, God.

Makes life easy. Anyway, he just told me about an hour ago that he's heading out with some friends now now before he jumped to conclusions. A long life friend of his, his father just passed away. And, I've mentioned this, and I don't know what episode. I I I just talk whenever.

Anyway, I said, okay. That's it. I need to talk to you. I want you to sit down. And he goes, okay.

And I said, okay. So if you're going out to dinner with these guys, because there's other people that we know, I said, so when are you meeting them? And he gave me a time. And I looked at the time, and I went, okay. Sit down.

We've got time to talk. Life happens every single day, every second of every single day, and people are gonna forget things. Right? Especially when you're well into your fifties. Come on, man.

Sometimes our memory our memories kinda lack at times. Right? And it's age. Keep your mind sharp. Read all that shit.

You know what I mean? Another good thing is, talk talk. Just keep talking. Always have conversations because your mind is working all the time. It sounds ridiculous, but it's so true.

If you just talk to people instead of text, email you know what I mean? Holy fuck. If people just talk to one another, your vocabulary is gonna increase. You're gonna and you never know where that shit takes you. Like, oh my god.

I'm not saying you have to have the best vocabulary. If you've heard my other podcast, I swear like a motherfucker. Okay? I don't care what people think. I am woman and I am beast.

I am a woman when I'm out there because I am myself. Behind closed doors, well, I'm telling you, man, this sex is off the fucking charts. Thank you, god. I am truly grateful. Seriously.

Anyway, you guys talk to one another. Don't text unless you do they don't answer the call and it's an emergency, text them then. Right? But call first. Text then email, then call, you know, their husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, friends.

We should know all that shit, man. I'm telling you. If we ever need somebody, like, now, you start to think about your health when you're well over your fifties because all you hear now is people dying. It's truly sad. Like, it just it oh god.

It makes my heart feel very heavy just to even think about that. Everybody, get off the fucking phones, get off the computers, and I've always said get off the TV. Go ahead. Watch your movies and shit like that. Right?

But have a life though too. Balance that. Right? Go ahead and have all that. Man, I'm I'm telling you, when you talk to people, you build relationships.

When you build relationships, you build trust. And when you build trust, well, you know come hell or high fucking water no matter where your quote, unquote friends are, family members are, they're gonna have your back. The ones that are right for you, that you know, you know they're gonna have my back. It all starts with fucking communication, relationships. Right?

I'm to I don't know. Anyway, I sat his ass down. Sorry about that. I always divert, but I think I'm talking about important stuff. So, you know, you never know.

Right? Maybe other people are going through it. So I sat and got it, and I said, okay. Listen. You just told me an hour ago that you're gonna be heading out with your friends.

Now, hey. Give my deepest condolences seriously. What a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful family. Wow. Amazing.

I'm telling you. It's a shame, but he's got an angel now, a good one too because it's. Right? Just talk to people. It all starts with a relationship.

Talk to people the way you wanna be talked to. You want people to yell at you? Then yell at people because that's what you're gonna get in return. But if you talk to people, they can talk back. And here's a prime example.

I know there's a lot of shit going on in the world. I could feel it. I see it in my dreams. I can fucking feel it. Who can't?

More people going, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck. People like me are going, okay. Okay. Now you just put faith and trust in the universe and god. Live your life.

Just live it. Live it. And I've been living my life finally for the last four years, and it's got me somewhere really beautiful, you guys. And I am truly I'm I'm I swear I am truly grateful, to the universe. I am truly grateful.

I really am. I am truly grateful. Gotta be grateful, man. But talk to people. Talk to people the way you wanna be talked to.

Right? It's easy.