If anyone is in a relationship, okay, a relationship, and it's not working out for you, and it hasn't one relationship after another after another, then go for something completely different. If you find the opposite of you, now I'm not saying everybody pretend to be the fucking opposite. Don't try to be anybody but yourself. Don't try to be, you know, like your man or whatever. Just look for something completely opposite of you, and you will be surprised of how easy it is because they're the complete opposite of you.

Right? Like, I couldn't imagine dating somebody like me. I'm all over the I'm all over the place, man. I connect to my spirit guides, like, fucking left, right, and centre. Thank you, god.

I am so grateful. When you pay attention to your intuition okay. Now I'm going to go into something else now, and that's what I normally do. I just merge from one thing to another. But when you pay attention to your intuition, you're doing what spirit wants you to do.

Your spirit guides, the universe, God, whoever your higher power is, you are listening to them because they want what's good for you. They're gonna guide you in the right direction. But if you're not on the right path or going in the right direction, then things aren't gonna work out. And then you gotta sit back and ask yourself, why is this happening to me? Why am I allowing this to happen to myself?

Right? It all begins with you. And that's why I say in almost every fucking episode, love yourself, heal yourself. When you love yourself and you are in emperor status or emperor status, yeah. Life's gonna be fucking easy because you're following on your right path.

You're gonna get blessing after blessing after blessing. The universe is gonna show you, you are on the right path. Look how good your life is becoming. Instead of, why are like, my case, I'm speaking of myself. I've gone through this.

Every fucking man I've dated has been quite wealthy. Quite not quite. Stupidly wealthy, stupidly wealthy. And I paid for everything. Right?

Why did I let that happen to me? Man, do you know how much money I burned through? I know it's just money, comes and goes just like everything else, except when you lead through your heart. Trust and faith in the universe that the universe is gonna guide you in the right direction. I shut my heart for so fucking long.

It was ridiculous. I used to say all the time after a breakup, oh, yeah. I'm done. That's it. I'm done.

I'm done. Only two weeks later, some guy asked me out on a date, and I go out on a date. Okay? I guess I wasn't done. But my last one just finished me right off, and I am so fucking grateful.

I'm so grateful now for all the lessons that I've gone through. Yes. It was hard, long road, but you know what? I I am 100% here for the woman I have become. I am 100% here for the woman I have become.

My life is free, peaceful, happy, or healthy. Fuck, man. Because I went to the opposite. I've dated the complete opposite of who I was. Complete fucking opposite.

Day and night. Right? When you go for the opposite and you love yourself, you've got boundaries, you've got a healthy ego, you're gonna get everything you want. Open your heart, lead with love. Everybody lead.

Please lead with love. Please open your hearts, everybody. We've all been hurt. I've taken it over and over and over. Fuck me, man.

Am I being blessed? Like, come on. I'm so grateful for my life. I, like, sometimes I just cry of how happy I am. Why?

Because I listen to my spirit guides. I won't do anything that I don't wanna do. Nobody's gonna talk me into anything. No. Thank you.

I don't wanna do it. Accept me for who I am. Don't judge. Right? When you have people around you that don't judge and understand you because they're the same way, life is very easy too.

But that's after you've learned who you are. You love yourself. You got your boundaries up. I'm not gonna be mean. There's no point in being mean.

Right? Communication is key. Everybody just talk to each other respectfully. Respectfully. If you're in a relationship and you get mad at your spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend, I don't give a fuck what you got.

You know what I mean? Whatever relationship you're in, if you get mad, it's hard. But say, babe, you know what? I love you, but you just pissed me off, or you just hurt me. I don't wanna talk about it.

I want a break from you right now. I'll let you know when I'm ready to talk. And don't fucking go without talking for a day, two days. We're talking an hour or two. Figure your shit out.

Nobody deserves to sit back and wait while you're mute forever. Come on. Who wants that? You wouldn't like it if somebody did that to you. Why would you do it to somebody else?

Life is so simple. Fuck me, man. It's so simple. We make it so hard. We've got so many boundaries up right now.

We got so many, you know, I deserve this. I deserve that. You know, entitlement. It's like, no. Fuck that shit.

Open your heart. Talk to people the way you wanna be talked to. You wanna talk to people respectfully or have people speak to you respectfully? Gotta do that in return. You yell at somebody, well, guess what you're gonna get back in return?

Common sense. Common sense. Life is common sense, and everybody stop watching the motherfucking news. I still feel it. I see people still angry at each other.

It's like, what do you think's gonna happen if you don't watch news? Nothing. They're gonna have drama all on their own because they're not gonna have any followers. It's like a YouTube channel once you think about it. But if you say good things and you want to lead people down the right path and you want to, you know, educate people on shit because I've endured so much in my life.

Fuck. I can't tell you. I will. It'll come out in time and time again. I hope just to tell my story.

If it helps anybody, thank you, God. Because that person's going to then know themselves, love themselves, not be unhappy in life being with the wrong person, hanging out with the wrong friends that judge them behind their back. Fuck that. Life is too short, man. We've got one shot.

Think about this, everybody. You've got one life. Live it. Fuck the news. Let them have their little drama all on their own.

And when they don't have any followers, they're gonna go, oh, well, what do we do now? Right? Nobody's paying attention. Nobody gives a shit. What are we gonna do now?

Well, they're gonna change the world for a better because it starts with leaders and that's you and that's me. That's all of us. Lead with your heart. Open your heart. Know yourself.

Love yourself. And when you truly love yourself, by the way, you can really love someone else in a way that you've never experienced. Imagine being in a relationship where you're unhappy and your heart's kinda closed. Well, then you're not gonna lead a fulfilling life. You're not gonna be thoroughly, deeply happy.

It starts with you. It starts with us. Let's change the world. Let's open our heart hearts. Let's talk to people respectfully, nicely.

Let's bring respect and love back into the world. And then you have many people in your court, God forbid, if anything ever happens in emergency, you'll have many people to rely on. In case one's not available, one's whatever. Don't judge, they're busy, but somebody's gonna pick up. Your true friends will always be there for you.

Always. Please, you guys, open your hearts. Open your hearts. Spread love. Love again.

You can do this! You've got this!

I love you.